COMING OUT TO MY MOM AS BISEXUAL

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 มิ.ย. 2022
  • Back into November I came out to my friends, family & the internet - here’s me coming out to my mom 🏳️‍🌈🤍
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  • @Ari-dy1tr
    @Ari-dy1tr ปีที่แล้ว +156

    You were basically the reason I could come out to my mom
    Somehow she suspected I was bisexual for many years, even before I really realized and she was completely okay with it. I thought she would be upset because of our heritage but she even told my dad that if her kids came out like that, he would have to accept them. It's a relief and for anyone reading this rant, I promise you are not a disgrace or someone below everyone else just because you might like the same gender or you might want to switch genders or any of it, I and A LOT of people will accept you❤️

  • @findmysoulgarden914
    @findmysoulgarden914 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I'm glad you told her. My nephew came out to me first when he was 18. I felt honored and loved that he thought of me first. I love him deeply!!! He always wanted to know if he should tell his parents..I was like yeah! They will love you just the same. He is 31 now living his best life being true to himself! Now you can too!! ✌️

  • @toruoikawa1868
    @toruoikawa1868 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    Okay but I don’t think I would EVER have the confidence to come out to my mom. BUT YOU DID❤️

    • @ara.ootdyt
      @ara.ootdyt ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same bestie

    • @brinzley
      @brinzley ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same, But I hope your able to one day!

    • @oh_no2
      @oh_no2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I’m gonna come out when I move out💀

    • @shrutinair369
      @shrutinair369 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I just came out to my mom a month ago! One of the most freeing experiences in my life. Even though she has a bit of a hard time accepting it. She loves me and just needs a bit of time to get used to it. But i am so happy that i don't have lie about who i am. Never thought I would ever be able to do that in this life time 😭🙏🏽

    • @ariesvixen853
      @ariesvixen853 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Have confidence and faith that you'll be able to one day 🥰 Just like Louis said, it's better to be able to live the truth than try to live a double life or a lie. You have to think about yourself and your own happiness first, friends and family who truly love you will continue to love you, even if it might be different at first.

  • @prinnypoo
    @prinnypoo ปีที่แล้ว +10

    watching this is so incredible to see, as i just did the same with my parents over the past year. i’m trans ftm and bisexual, and i’ve come out to both of my parents about it. it feels like such a big thing to get off my chest, and i’m glad you were able to do the same. love ya louis!!

  • @yuhhbiscuit
    @yuhhbiscuit ปีที่แล้ว +152

    This is probably one of the sweetest things I’ve ever seen ✋ 😭

  • @moondustalt8100
    @moondustalt8100 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “I just want to say I love you very very much”
    His mom “oh no” 😂

  • @Spid4rsw3bz
    @Spid4rsw3bz ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Aww you have the best mom❤️ I'm so glad she didn't try to be rude or anything.

  • @Charlieee7
    @Charlieee7 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Omg your mom was so sweet I'm so proud of you! happy pride month everyone!

    • @brinzley
      @brinzley ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy pride month!!

    • @Charlieee7
      @Charlieee7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brinzley Thank you !!!

    • @brinzley
      @brinzley ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Charlieee7 Yw! :)

  • @katelyn888
    @katelyn888 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow, you are so blessed to have such a loving Mom. It's clear she just wants the best for you and for you to be happy and safe♡♡ Thanks for sharing such an intimimate and vulnerable moment, it is beautiful

  • @swiftiez.
    @swiftiez. ปีที่แล้ว +38

    That confidence is all you need 🔥✨
    SLAY

  • @Ale_Creates
    @Ale_Creates ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am currently 20 almost 21 years old and I came out to my parents in 2018 a few days after I turned 16 and I decided to tell my step-dad first because he is a very calm person and I knew if he said anything negative it wouldn't be so overwhelming, to my surprise he was cool with it and even gave me advice on how to come out to my mom and it worked because when I told my mom, while she did say she she always knew she did tell me she always hoped the day when i came out would never come and so she took it not as good as my dad but still she had an open mind about it and she is a lot more comfortable with it now.

  • @dameonlarouge4044
    @dameonlarouge4044 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Watching this with my mom and crying-we love you buddy! You can do anything 🙏🏻💖

  • @orangesporanges9949
    @orangesporanges9949 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Nothing is stronger than a Mother’s love 💖 We all just want one thing for our children. And that is for them to be happy in life. You made my day, Louis!
    💛💛💛💛💛💛💛

    • @dumbly-stupid
      @dumbly-stupid ปีที่แล้ว

      @NRG everyone knows the Glock is stronger

  • @dinateal
    @dinateal ปีที่แล้ว +175

    I’m really happy for you! I’m personally not sure if I’ll ever be able to do this or anything like it but I do hope that I can someday

    • @brinzley
      @brinzley ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly same, but I hope your able to one day!

    • @krose420
      @krose420 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your pace is the best pace!

    • @everything1d214
      @everything1d214 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You got this! You’ll make the best decision for yourself, wish you well💕

    • @xxabsolitexxx7747
      @xxabsolitexxx7747 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh same literally

  • @jewelcopeland8440
    @jewelcopeland8440 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your bravery is tremendous. You your parents are wonderful but I suspect that they knew in the back of their minds as she said she had a feeling but still her heart is open and caring .

  • @whotfislydiaa
    @whotfislydiaa ปีที่แล้ว +5

    me coming out to my mom :
    " it's just a phase not serious or anything you'll eventually think different when uu get older and no im not changing ur name , using ur pronouns , or anything . "
    coming out to my dad :
    " I support uu and stuff but yk _______ is still ur real name and I will continue to call uu it but i still love uu no matter what . "
    yea , that's my parents for ya

    • @Sproutythesilly
      @Sproutythesilly ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im sorry :( my parents are pretty much like your mom but the roles are switched

    • @whotfislydiaa
      @whotfislydiaa ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sproutythesilly it's alright and I'm sorry for uu too

  • @levi518
    @levi518 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ik I'm commenting late, but anyways; you're Mum is a legend!! Last year, I came out to my family and they just said like: "It's a phase, get over it" but now like, my Mum is the most supportive of me and I love her for it.
    Also, koodo's to u for coming out to your Mum and siblings, like... that takes guts and a whole lot of trust!! Keep being awesome 🖤

  • @korrasmith3448
    @korrasmith3448 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like how she was like "...okay?"

  • @sheathehippie4086
    @sheathehippie4086 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    So proud of you Louis!
    Bi pride 💖💜💙✨

  • @donzaleighanderson8139
    @donzaleighanderson8139 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your parents knew just didn't want to "make" you feel a way. Mom & your brothers are awesome 💗💗. My sister came out to me as bi (a few years ago), my guy cousin came out as gay(4yrs ago)& my other cousin came out as bi(within 3months) ago. I think my reaction scared them cause I was just like "oh! Okay, anywho blah blah blah about something" it wasn't that I didn't care it was like how your mom said always knew but it's still you love them. Be happy & careful cause certain people are beyond weird af. 💗💗💗

  • @tierneyhysell4006
    @tierneyhysell4006 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! Thank you! Your mom is giving so many of us hope and so are you. I want to be this mom. I want my kids to look up to humans like you!

  • @Rosewood_27
    @Rosewood_27 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    that is a confident person. I myself had so much trouble coming out as bi to my parents it was so nerve racking when i came out.

  • @earthhippie
    @earthhippie ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh my gosh I love your mom. She is so adorable from my perspective.

  • @samanthatarlow4667
    @samanthatarlow4667 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that your mom was so sweet. ❣ Thanks for sharing such a special moment with us Louis! Happy Pride!

  • @v1ncecuharmy308
    @v1ncecuharmy308 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m bisexual to and it’s not just you there is so much people like you

  • @liveyourbestlife143
    @liveyourbestlife143 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you had this conversation with your mom. And I absolutely love her reaction. 💕

  • @ariesvixen853
    @ariesvixen853 ปีที่แล้ว

    Louis- You are so brave! Not just to be able to tell your mom, but to share that experience with the world as well. Reading the comments, you've already inspired so many, and now given even more help to others who wish to do the same. Tysm🥰

  • @QueenOfShovels
    @QueenOfShovels ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My kids would never have to "come out" with me......I would already know, and love them just the same!🥰 I'm sorry that so many of you are afraid to share this with your family. Hopefully there will be a day where this will never have to be an awkward discussion. xoxo

  • @maddiepritchett9943
    @maddiepritchett9943 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥹this video makes me emotional 🥲 I’m happy that you have a mom who is your bestie and who you can open up to.

  • @toruoikawa1868
    @toruoikawa1868 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is one of the sweetest thing I have seen❤️

  • @jeeanna462
    @jeeanna462 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m actually super proud of you! This is such a heartwarming video especially the fact that you shared it with us.

  • @emilysworldofwonders7922
    @emilysworldofwonders7922 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    telling someone about being bi is hard. i understand because i was in the same thing when i had to tell my parents. much respect

  • @amandacarralero4166
    @amandacarralero4166 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow amazing mother and incredibly happy for you to build the courage to tell your mom/best friend... video made me cry

  • @rebeccarvarady
    @rebeccarvarady ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG you made me cry 😭❤️ thank you so much for sharing this. you are such a wonderful person. love your videos 😍

  • @nooby_nate189
    @nooby_nate189 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To the Christians in the comments, it isnt our job to judge, it is Gods, we have to love and accept them all.

  • @bwicket
    @bwicket ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww your parents, if they raised you to be who you are of course they are great amd accepting. Bless.

  • @Megan-el3kp
    @Megan-el3kp ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love when the parents or whoever you’re coming out to are like “i had a feeling” but in a good way ofc

  • @jalexanderbamilton
    @jalexanderbamilton ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BI PRIDE STAND UP!!! 💖💜💙
    Proud of you 😊 happy pride month

  • @Am3lia77
    @Am3lia77 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved the conversation you have with her and loved that you said “I’m not asking for permission” 💙💜💖

  • @yellowsubmarine1321
    @yellowsubmarine1321 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ok now stop about the pickles ok? ,🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @L0V3LYYXM00N
    @L0V3LYYXM00N ปีที่แล้ว +1

    CONGRATULATIONS OMG

  • @cloud1771
    @cloud1771 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I’ve come out to my sister but not my parents or anyone else yet, but this is a very cool video and I love your confidence!
    Edit: I told my friends! They were fine with it! Also thanks for the comments and I will eventually! I know they will be fine with it and won’t care but I’m still really nervous and anxious about it! 😊😊

  • @toruoikawa1868
    @toruoikawa1868 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We Stand a supportive mom

  • @alyssasalas8496
    @alyssasalas8496 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very proud very very proud!! Big step I am the happiest for you! ☺️❤️❤️

  • @toruoikawa1868
    @toruoikawa1868 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg I’m excited

  • @stephaniemartinez2653
    @stephaniemartinez2653 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you Louis❤. Good for you!

  • @sparklegirl689
    @sparklegirl689 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm proud of you ☺️ Louis embrace your colors

  • @Hagendaaz73
    @Hagendaaz73 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gl Louis! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @kekab.8161
    @kekab.8161 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ahhhh I love your mom but also love the way you worded everything❤️

  • @Gloria_GetUsedToMe
    @Gloria_GetUsedToMe ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m straight but this made my day. But I do feel like if I was bi or lesbian my parents wouldn’t except me.

  • @Rarl3y_humAn
    @Rarl3y_humAn ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have told my mom as well and she accepted me too! Good job with the confetion!!!!😊😊😊

  • @cheezman487
    @cheezman487 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I actually came out as bisexual to my mom and she was extremely accepting

  • @tatum_mackinnon5806
    @tatum_mackinnon5806 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    aww ☺️ im happy for u 💕

  • @lina.dekeyzer
    @lina.dekeyzer ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy for you ❤️

  • @zeldahyrule3127
    @zeldahyrule3127 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Personally I would like to come out to my parents as bi, but I don’t know how and I am more afraid of how they would react. They aren’t the most open people towards anything LGBTQ+.
    I am happy! This video is so sweet!

  • @justoneofthosedays
    @justoneofthosedays ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i know how hard it is to come out… im not really in the closet anymore… except to my dads side of the family. ive known i liked women for 4 years now and i still never told him… theres alot of complicated stuff right now and since i dont really talk to him i feel like he doesnt need to know…

  • @Pastelpink3
    @Pastelpink3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How brave of you and I support !!!

  • @toruoikawa1868
    @toruoikawa1868 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @barcelonaprincessnicholeb.4270
    @barcelonaprincessnicholeb.4270 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I haven't came out to my parents that I'm bisexual because I'm scared :(
    I'm just gonna wait until I'm in the right age to come out to them :3
    And you are so brave for coming out to your mom :)

    • @TheGoodVibez_Squad
      @TheGoodVibez_Squad ปีที่แล้ว

      U got this queen. I think ya should. I know its hard and scary but if they god forbid didn't approve its their loss. I hope whenever u do one day it goes well

    • @barcelonaprincessnicholeb.4270
      @barcelonaprincessnicholeb.4270 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheGoodVibez_Squad thanks :D
      I havent came out to my parents but i did came out to my friends that i am Pansexual and they support me :D

    • @TheGoodVibez_Squad
      @TheGoodVibez_Squad ปีที่แล้ว

      That's amazing! Thats actually what I did too. I hope u have an amazing day/night!

  • @gracewillis785
    @gracewillis785 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow this is so amazing I don’t think I could ever tell my parents that because I don’t know. But also like I did not know you weren’t out I thought everyone knew

  • @pitachip2864
    @pitachip2864 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I came out to my dad with before this video today 💕love this💕

  • @gaara8904
    @gaara8904 ปีที่แล้ว

    We need to make an app where tons of people can come out to there parents at the same time like a massive thing idk how though

  • @shellygriffith3506
    @shellygriffith3506 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a cool family. So happy for u

  • @D3xkp210
    @D3xkp210 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came out to my mom as gay a little while ago and I remember us both crying cause I was crying. It was a beautiful moment. She continues to be supportive of me even in my darkest times

  • @laylamcpherson8325
    @laylamcpherson8325 ปีที่แล้ว

    love this

  • @randomcartoonfan8993
    @randomcartoonfan8993 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awh congratulations! I came out to my mom as Bisexual about a week ago, and it went well. Thanks for this heartwarming video

  • @payphonequarters
    @payphonequarters ปีที่แล้ว +2

    congrats, bestie!

  • @vetosthename9387
    @vetosthename9387 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn bro was gone make me tear up, congrats g

  • @iquit5104
    @iquit5104 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congrats! We're happy for you

  • @m1ssmagix209
    @m1ssmagix209 ปีที่แล้ว

    AWHH LOUIS!! as a fellow bi im gonna come out soon just havent gotten the courage to..

  • @allo5356
    @allo5356 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm straight but I support LGBTQ+ and it's really nice to see your family is accepting you for who you are, have a great day! And happy pride month everyone 🌈

    • @wilbur5639
      @wilbur5639 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here! We should all support evreyone in who they wanna be with! (Unless it goes down stalker territory)

  • @NUMBER1_MADDY
    @NUMBER1_MADDY ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so happy for you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @hadargidron3411
    @hadargidron3411 ปีที่แล้ว

    dude i can relate so bad😢 im only 18 and bi af but i cant come out fully until i leave home... thank you for making me feel seen❤

  • @itzme_bale
    @itzme_bale ปีที่แล้ว

    Im so very proud of u

  • @roy_mezz-awake2470
    @roy_mezz-awake2470 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I heard your voice for 2 seconds and figured it out bruh

  • @colewitt415
    @colewitt415 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would tell my family what I am but I am to shy lol

    • @NickyCat
      @NickyCat ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't be you can do it 😊

  • @rjcarter2904
    @rjcarter2904 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice video. At some point, self-confidence wins out of fear of rejection!

  • @Frog592
    @Frog592 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am bi and I don’t have the courage to tell my dad;(

    • @mikewazoski5226
      @mikewazoski5226 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @Frog592
      @Frog592 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mikewazoski5226 have u told anybody yet? I have only told my bother lol

    • @LucioooQwQ
      @LucioooQwQ ปีที่แล้ว

      Cuz u don’t have one

    • @Frog592
      @Frog592 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LucioooQwQ 💀

  • @brittanybrown9975
    @brittanybrown9975 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey I know it is hard sometimes but never let that bring you down

  • @biggerthans4759
    @biggerthans4759 ปีที่แล้ว

    So proud of me ❤️

  • @tiffanytillison6219
    @tiffanytillison6219 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came out to my mom as trans without knowing what trans meant and it was 10 pm in a car and I was VERY tired. Luckily I have very supportive parents

  • @oliviarodrigoshusband
    @oliviarodrigoshusband ปีที่แล้ว

    Ayyy I’m bisexual too!
    We need more bisexual men!

  • @elicordero4019
    @elicordero4019 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im bisexual and proud 💓💜💙

  • @keri1981
    @keri1981 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good for you bud! 🌈

  • @thissmittenkitten
    @thissmittenkitten ปีที่แล้ว

    VERY cute 🥰 BUT who was snoring through your great confession 😂 Big love xxx

  • @Best_Pickle_Ever
    @Best_Pickle_Ever ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m a girl who is bi! 💖💜💙

  • @R9dio
    @R9dio ปีที่แล้ว

    The mom
    Oh No 😅😅

  • @LatinoAmigo.
    @LatinoAmigo. ปีที่แล้ว

    ey thats my birthday month thats pretty cool

  • @acxdblzz
    @acxdblzz ปีที่แล้ว

    Im so happy for you but what’s sad for me is I’ve never verbally came out mom but she went through my phone and saw how I came out to my friend as lesbian and she got mad and confronted me. I was looked at different by my parents since then I mean they still love me but they just look at me a little different. Like the light they had in their eyes has dimed a tiny bit since then.
    (they also have no clue that I’m demisexual and genderfluid but I guess that’s a surprise for later 😍)

  • @Gol_D_Tempest
    @Gol_D_Tempest ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great ❤️ I'm also a bisexual ❤️❤️

  • @alpaca_twice
    @alpaca_twice ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey whoever is reading this remember that God loves you now matter what or who you are!

  • @BrayThequietone13
    @BrayThequietone13 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came out as gay to my aunt and uncle and then I told my brother I got rejected by a boy and he said you didn’t tell me you were gay and I was like surprise

  • @Junimo_Jelly_
    @Junimo_Jelly_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    good for you buddy 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

  • @drowningincats3921
    @drowningincats3921 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a mother, we know. We’ve probably known much longer than you have. Now that doesn’t mean their aren’t mothers in denial, etc. But even those who cry and go super dramatic when their child comes out knew, it’s simply they never wanted it confirmed due to whatever biases they have. I think it’s pretty rare for a loving and involved mother to be completely blindsided when these convos occur, no matter how good of a job you did to try to mask it.

  • @beeheart6529
    @beeheart6529 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @doobyrhome682
    @doobyrhome682 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She Knew.............

  • @Haru-Reto
    @Haru-Reto ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG yes slay

  • @canadiangirl2839
    @canadiangirl2839 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We have to acknowledge the Elephant in the room...it is snoring real loud. What is it?

  • @ifoundthemeth7945
    @ifoundthemeth7945 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came out Texas

  • @person7932
    @person7932 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mom found out when I was 10 welp