This is what you call a monster Inlaw. You should have never let the monster-in-law buy you a house! And for your husband, he should marry his mom and start a family. Your husband has no balls!
Listening to this story and reading all these comments, everyone has their own opinion. To me, i would rather not have someone who gave me $ but control my life. I will work from the ground up, thru sweat and tears with my husband, so i can call it my own. When i married my husband, he was really poor, he had no house, no car, and his bank account was negative. We have to borrow $ for our own wedding, but i glad we build everything on our own, live our lives to our standards without having to worry we owned anyone's gratitude. A life like ours is hard to begin with, but remember you build your own mansion to make your own happiness in the end.
What a depressing life. It’s sad when your husband doesn’t support you. He is a spoiled brat. It’s okay to support your children but to used it against them all the time it’s toxic. This is why I don’t wait around for anyone to do anything for me. If they just used it to rubber it to my face don’t help me. Cia koj tus txiv ua neej nrog niam pog mas.
You are also wrong to woman. You're such lucky to have supportive in law. I came from a poor family and married to a ok family but all my life all the people were greedy but they expect from me. People these days doesn't appreciate each other. People take advantage of me. So much different but I think your mother in law is great. I'm sure you would do the same if you end up be helping your son or daughter. Yog tau tus phem qia dub los ntshe ho yuav cem thiab tusiab. Ua neeg nyob ces ntshe lwmtus ua licas los yeej txhaum. Lawv ua cas yus tsis nyiam tabsis yus ua tau tsis zoo lawv thiaj pom.os. tus niam pog ntawm ko zoo lawm mas tseem pab neb os. Koj tsis tau ntsib cov niam pog drama greedy, taug xaiv nrhiav teebmeem tasli tasli thiab tseem cob koj tus txiv ua ub ua no. Yog hais li koj ces koj tsis pom qhov zoo lawv ua os. Peb li tsis muaj neeg pab yus, 2 tog laus txom nyem thiab tus txiv tsis paub khwv pab yus mas txomnyem kawg tsis muaj tus pab, yus thiaj pab tsis tau lwmtus. Nej tiam 21 no txawv dhau lawm thiab tsis tshua sawm zoo os. Yog lawv yuav tsev rau yus ces lawv yeej muaj cai nrog yus nyob hos.. koj muab xav ma lwm hnub koj yeej xav nrog koj tej menyuam nyob thiab os. Kuv mas xav kom muaj 1 tug nyiam2 huv lintawv qhia yus ua haujlwm hauv tsev yeej tsis txhaum nawb. Tsuas yog nws ua niam zog thiab annoying mother zog xwb tabsis nws yeej hlub neb os. Annoying is better than drama mother in law ok
Wow...I love your story telling. It's so real and true. Mother-in-La w is too much!! Let us live our own lives!! I can't live like this daughter-in-Law. Lesson learn. 😅😮😢🎉 yes, leave that family who pride too much on money. You deserve respect, mutual love, and appreciation 💓 😅😅 It doesn't matter who you are, we all are humans born with flesh, blood, emotions, and spirit.
Some people say this lady is lucky to have this kind of in-laws. Yes, they support her financially but too CONTROLLING and know NO BOUNDARIES, which is a NIGHTMARE for nyabs. What a depress life. 😢 when they help you, they will always say because of them, that's why you get where you are. Love should be unconditional ❤️ not like this mother in law.
Some of the comments on here are unbelievable. Those are the types who will fit in with your ex-MIL. They are happy as a cookie as long as the $$$ keeps pouring in. Living under other people's terms is never good for your soul
I really hate it when your their baby mama, gf or wife and they have so many problems to control his life and yours but you have no chance of doing nothing just because they got the Bling Bling & here I am sad bout not having a mom in law; I’m good where I’m at because if it’s for the wrong reasons; it’s aight, I’m good!! I really dislike it when people control my life regarding my husband, baby daddy or bf and I!! 😢❤😮🎉 A mom in law needs to be at her ground, a daughter in law needs to stay at her ground & if you are a sister from your husband; need to know where you stand! Some people so bossy and demanding! Don’t you feel tired, exhausted and drained for being with these people; so toxic!! 😢❤😮🎉
People who do not have these inlaw will never understand. these kind of inlaw is not because they love u and support you..they only love their son and do for their son . The wife is nonexistent in this kind of life. Until you have these kind of inlaw you would never know. Love and support inlaw will ask both the son and the wife for their opinion and they all talk upon what is good to do and do it..the mil always want to control everything in the son marriage is just a narcissist mil.
He should have marry his mom! You should have controlled him when you first married him or atleast voice your side/opinions to him and have him put himself in your shoes... No woman wants to be controlled by their in-laws. No matter how rich they are, the things they buy are not mine, and I can't spend it or buy the things I want, that is not consider rich. Rich means I can afford to live the life I want and freely spend money how I see fit.
Nothing wrong with your parents getting a spare key. You seem like you don't appreciate your mother in law . Her way of showing love is through materials. You didn't give her a chance to get to know you and you to know her.
This Hmong family may have the money, but still LACKing political power, economic influence in the mainstream society, true love, humbleness and respect for themselves and others.
Koj tusvtxiv hais yog lawm ...koj yog tus phem xeb vim koj biam pog twb them nyiaj xwb ne....koj case no koj yuavctau ua siab loj es coj zoo me ntsis os
Your mother in law is not that bad. She just wants to be involved in her son’s life because he’s the only son. You are blessed to have your mil help you guys buy a house and help/ teach you to clean your house. My mil has a key to my house and she comes whenever. I don’t mind and don’t make it a big deal.
I would be happy if my mother in law help 20k for down payment and buying expensive dishes and furnitures for me. Be grateful since your husband is the only son. She shows her love through material things.
NOTE TO SELF- dont become the monster in law u hated. No matter u want to spoil and groom ur kids everyone needs boundaries!!! Thank god my hubby is not a mama boy. But then its also sad for him because hes not the favored son. My kids are mama boys but they will have to fly on their own and establish their own way. All i can do is tell them all their options and let them choose their own ways and make their own mistakes.
Agree with your niam in-law pog...Because you still young don't know txoj cai es xav tias lawv yuam koj no tabsis tsi yog thiab os yuav tsum tau xyaum thiaj li paub nawb...Vim yus yeej txom nyem ces luag hais los yeej tsi mob yus li os.
Hais txog zaj neej neeg no mas neb 2 leeg puav leej ua yog hu tib si vim li Cas kuv thiaj hais li ntawd Nyab hmoob lo lus ntuas ntxhais tias Kom ua nyab tag mus tau tsev neeg toob nkeeg ces toob nkeeg tau tsev nquag ces nquag ces poob rau hmoob lo lus ntuas ntawd ntag Niam pog yog niam pog ua tsis taus niam es Cia koj los tswj lub cuab yim ces koj yuav coj niam pog tus tub tawm ntawm lawv tsev neeg mus thiab thaum kawg txhua yam uas lawv khwv tau koj yuav coj mus ua phuam lam tag xwb Yog li kuv thiaj hais tias neb ob leeg puav leej ua yog huv si qhov zoo tshaj ces tus muaj mus yuav tus muaj, tus pluag mus yuav tus pluag yuav zoo dua vim nyias nyob nyias level tsis sib xws.
I can’t stand these type of niam pog like yours. I’ll never take no one’s money if their intentions are to put me down. I rather live on my level then try to be rich but live a miserable life. Koj tus txiv g yog txiv neeg yawg. It doesn’t matter how many wives he married they will all go one by one cus no one can’t or will tolerate such behavior from the mil or the son
Tus niam pog no is so picky and she takes pride so much thiab tus nyab los tsis paub qab hau lis nws lub neej tes dej num kom phim nyog yog ib tug niam tsev. Ob yam no los sib nraus muaj ceem heev hauv lub neej. Ib tug niam pog twg hlub nws tus tub nyab heev, tab sis nws ho tswj tsav nkawv loj dhau lawm thiab no ces nkawv yuav nres tsis taus nyob ua neej.
I know how you feel my in laws are not rich and did not help my husband and I pay for my house but they have so much right to my house. They have their own key they come every weekend without notice too. Some in laws need to know and respect privacy. It gets annoying sometimes.
Wow idk if I can live that kind of life ..sounds more like a controlling inlaw ….and your husband has no boundaries with his mom being the way she is … time to leave!
So sorry for you sister. You tried your best and he only cared about his mother even when you just had your miscarriage. You deserve better. I hope you find healing and peace.
I am you out of that neeg nplua nuj lub tsev......I AM GLAD YOUR EX- MADE A CHOICE, THE FAST YOU'RE OUT OF THAT STRESSFUL BITTERNESS LIFE.....F... WITH THAT FAMILY
Vim koj twb tsis nyiam niam pog xwb yog muab mloog zoo mas tim koj tus ua nyab lawm thiab os koj twb tsis ua kom yog thiab muaj dab tsi tau qhia yus tus txiv tseev neeg ua ntej thiab ua phooj ywg nrog niam pog kiag xwb qhov niam pog tuaj pab koj li ko vim nws hlub neb dhau lawm xwb koj yuav tau xav kom zoo nawb yog koj ua phooj ywg nrog niam pog hais lus luag ntxhi rau niam pog mad niam pog tseem yuav hlub thiab pab neb txhaj ua koj lub txwv yim tsawg zog lawm xwb
Yuav tsum ua friend zoo nrog yus tus niam pog nawb lawv vim los nrog lawv nyob lawm yus ua tus nyab zoo thiaj yuav nyob tau nrog lawv...kuv los kuv yuav cawm kuv niam ua ntej nws tuag lawm tseem mus yuav tau ib tus ntxiv li tus tub no hais tabsis yog kuv niam tuag lawm mus nrhiav tsi tau niam lawm mog.
Koj niam pog mas muaj khav theeb , muaj plhus dhau , peb ua neeg nyob txawm yus muaj los yuav tau yoog lwm tus thiab !! Khoo tuag nthi xwb phem dhau !!! Yog yus ua li no rau nws los nws yeej tsis nyiam thiab !! Khav theeb li koj niam pog ces kuj them kiag kom tas rau neb !! Down payment thiab yuav sofa xwb es koj tus txiv neb tseem them qhov leftover ne !!! Tsev neeg zoo li no pub twb tsis yuav yog kuv na !!
Your should've put your foot down and show the in-laws who's in charge the minute they insult my family. You must live in a place where their son is the only guy available. Even if this is the last man alive, I rather be single and live happily by myself.
I like how the MIL was like, “oh in this family the men have the final say,” but through the story, the FIL involvement was bare minimum. He even said at the end he let the wife run the show. lol the hypocrisy of some people.
Tej neeg muaj nyiaj luag tsis coj tus cwj pwm zoo li no. Tus niam pog no yog niam pog khav theeb xwb. Me nyab aws... koj yuav tau xyaum ua heev zog ces niam pog nyoo los lua xwb lis mas. Tus niam pog no tsis tau txog tus neeg ntse2 li niam pog los nrog niam pog ua rog es niam pog thiaj li tseem khav2 xwb os. Yog ntsib kuv mas nws yeej pom xwb los mas 🤣🤣🤣
I seriously hate when you tell stories of younger couples you kept on saying they call each other "me koj txiv" "koj niam"...it's really annoying cus younger generations don't call each other that. They call each other honey, bae, darling, tus hlub...
Reality: the poor and the wealthy will never compatible due to their mindsets are at two different spectrums. Just like the doctor and the dig digger. One cannot have a poor mindset to get wealthy where the wealthy will not stay poor. They have so much invested into that one son, it’s right of them to want him to turn out on the right side; by that son chose to marry you is already a risk of itself, due to the power of association. The more he associates with you, the more he will turn out on your poor side, that was why they have to keep him close and associate with him as much as possible to keep him from turning out on your side. When you birth a kid of your own, you will for sure know how the wealthy inlaws think; not wanting any bad influence to influence your child astray.
Ua nyab ib zaug es luag muab txoj cai li no los quab yuam yus lub neej g tas yuav txawm yuav los uv g taus. Kuv mloog koj txoj no xwb mas mob2 hlwb tus txiv los tseem yoog kiag li niam pog thiab g kam nyob nrog ib tsev neeg zoo li no.😂😂😂
Cov Hmoob no niam qhuav muaj nyiaj me ntsis xwb us cas yuav khav theeb ua luaj. Yog tseem muaj npaum li Donald Trump, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, thiab Warren Buffett lawv thiab mas ntshe yuav muab tas nro cov Hmoob nyob hauv qab ntuj no tsuj kom tuag kom tas li os. Niag niam pog poj dab rhuav plhu, khav theeb, thiab khoo neeg. Tuag lauv, leej twg tau ib tug niam pog zoo li no ces 1. Nyoo nws, ua li nws hais. 2. Ua bye bye xwb, ntxov nroj nws tus tub ces ntxov zoo. Who wants an evil, controlling freak, n a bossy as hell monster n law.? Nor me! Glad u got out of the marriage sooner than later. Ur husband is a Mama's boy; he loves his mama more than he loves u; so let him marry his mama. About the house, didn't know u can buy a house with $20k. What kind of a house? Old or new? Cus i have $20k n its not enough to down pay a house. To buy a decent house, u would need to have at least $50k+.
Tus niam pog uas zoo li ntawd ces koj yim tawm sai npaum licas yim zoo npaum li ntawd. Koj tus txiv ua tsis tau txiv hlo li os. Lub qhov taub uas phem tshaj ces yog lub nyob rau hauv yus tsev neeg ntag, yog tias sawvdaws tsis txawj sib hwm thiab txawj sib hlub lihais.
Cov mama boy li ko tsis yuav os....ntxov nrauj nrov zoo xwb. Tsev hmoob nplua nuj ko ho muab khav theeb dhau lawm. Ua 1 lub neej nyob under niam pog qab tswj hwm ces yeej tsis vam meej kiag li nawb. Zoo qhov koj muab nrauj lawm.
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This is what you call a monster Inlaw. You should have never let the monster-in-law buy you a house! And for your husband, he should marry his mom and start a family. Your husband has no balls!
Listening to this story and reading all these comments, everyone has their own opinion. To me, i would rather not have someone who gave me $ but control my life. I will work from the ground up, thru sweat and tears with my husband, so i can call it my own.
When i married my husband, he was really poor, he had no house, no car, and his bank account was negative. We have to borrow $ for our own wedding, but i glad we build everything on our own, live our lives to our standards without having to worry we owned anyone's gratitude. A life like ours is hard to begin with, but remember you build your own mansion to make your own happiness in the end.
What a depressing life. It’s sad when your husband doesn’t support you. He is a spoiled brat. It’s okay to support your children but to used it against them all the time it’s toxic. This is why I don’t wait around for anyone to do anything for me. If they just used it to rubber it to my face don’t help me. Cia koj tus txiv ua neej nrog niam pog mas.
You are also wrong to woman. You're such lucky to have supportive in law. I came from a poor family and married to a ok family but all my life all the people were greedy but they expect from me. People these days doesn't appreciate each other. People take advantage of me. So much different but I think your mother in law is great. I'm sure you would do the same if you end up be helping your son or daughter. Yog tau tus phem qia dub los ntshe ho yuav cem thiab tusiab. Ua neeg nyob ces ntshe lwmtus ua licas los yeej txhaum. Lawv ua cas yus tsis nyiam tabsis yus ua tau tsis zoo lawv thiaj pom.os. tus niam pog ntawm ko zoo lawm mas tseem pab neb os. Koj tsis tau ntsib cov niam pog drama greedy, taug xaiv nrhiav teebmeem tasli tasli thiab tseem cob koj tus txiv ua ub ua no. Yog hais li koj ces koj tsis pom qhov zoo lawv ua os. Peb li tsis muaj neeg pab yus, 2 tog laus txom nyem thiab tus txiv tsis paub khwv pab yus mas txomnyem kawg tsis muaj tus pab, yus thiaj pab tsis tau lwmtus. Nej tiam 21 no txawv dhau lawm thiab tsis tshua sawm zoo os. Yog lawv yuav tsev rau yus ces lawv yeej muaj cai nrog yus nyob hos.. koj muab xav ma lwm hnub koj yeej xav nrog koj tej menyuam nyob thiab os. Kuv mas xav kom muaj 1 tug nyiam2 huv lintawv qhia yus ua haujlwm hauv tsev yeej tsis txhaum nawb. Tsuas yog nws ua niam zog thiab annoying mother zog xwb tabsis nws yeej hlub neb os. Annoying is better than drama mother in law ok
I think she’s a great mother in law!
Wow...I love your story telling. It's so real and true. Mother-in-La
w is too much!! Let us live our own lives!! I can't live like this daughter-in-Law. Lesson learn. 😅😮😢🎉 yes, leave that family who pride too much on money. You deserve respect, mutual love, and appreciation 💓 😅😅 It doesn't matter who you are, we all are humans born with flesh, blood, emotions, and spirit.
You made the best decision for yourself. Don’t mind what anyone says. You freed yourself from a life of control. She was neither supportive or wise.
Some people say this lady is lucky to have this kind of in-laws. Yes, they support her financially but too CONTROLLING and know NO BOUNDARIES, which is a NIGHTMARE for nyabs. What a depress life. 😢 when they help you, they will always say because of them, that's why you get where you are. Love should be unconditional ❤️ not like this mother in law.
Some of the comments on here are unbelievable. Those are the types who will fit in with your ex-MIL. They are happy as a cookie as long as the $$$ keeps pouring in. Living under other people's terms is never good for your soul
Ntxov ua poj nrauj ntxov kaj siab nawb cov mi niam tsev aw...
Yus lub neej cia yus npaj xwb thiaj li tseem ceeb rau yus, txhob ntshaw tus niam pog zoo li tus no.
I really hate it when your their baby mama, gf or wife and they have so many problems to control his life and yours but you have no chance of doing nothing just because they got the Bling Bling & here I am sad bout not having a mom in law; I’m good where I’m at because if it’s for the wrong reasons; it’s aight, I’m good!!
I really dislike it when people control my life regarding my husband, baby daddy or bf and I!! 😢❤😮🎉 A mom in law needs to be at her ground, a daughter in law needs to stay at her ground & if you are a sister from your husband; need to know where you stand! Some people so bossy and demanding!
Don’t you feel tired, exhausted and drained for being with these people; so toxic!! 😢❤😮🎉
People who do not have these inlaw will never understand. these kind of inlaw is not because they love u and support you..they only love their son and do for their son . The wife is nonexistent in this kind of life. Until you have these kind of inlaw you would never know. Love and support inlaw will ask both the son and the wife for their opinion and they all talk upon what is good to do and do it..the mil always want to control everything in the son marriage is just a narcissist mil.
He should have marry his mom! You should have controlled him when you first married him or atleast voice your side/opinions to him and have him put himself in your shoes...
No woman wants to be controlled by their in-laws. No matter how rich they are, the things they buy are not mine, and I can't spend it or buy the things I want, that is not consider rich. Rich means I can afford to live the life I want and freely spend money how I see fit.
Amen...hallelujah...oh no she did not go there 😂
Nothing wrong with your parents getting a spare key. You seem like you don't appreciate your mother in law . Her way of showing love is through materials. You didn't give her a chance to get to know you and you to know her.
Mama's boy. I'm glad you found a loving husband and family.
This Hmong family may have the money, but still LACKing political power, economic influence in the mainstream society, true love, humbleness and respect for themselves and others.
Monster in law... heck no
Tau niam pog zoo ưa luaj es tseem hais tiag niam pog tsi zoo thiab nạ kV xav tàu ib tus niam zoo2 lí koj tus ko xwb na
Maim ua yg lawm ma👍👍👍👍
Ham tsis khiav Kom dim txoj tuag xwb zoo dua tuag rau cov nyuag nyiaj ntawd tes muaj npaum Cas Los kawg tuag li xwb ,kevhlub tsis tuag yooj yim nawb koj txiav txim siab yog kawg lawd !
Glad I didn’t have that niam pog in my life ❤ so happy for you sister. You finally found your happiness .
Kuv nyiam koj tus niam pog thiab thiaj qhia yus ua noj thiaj zoo os
Nothing is ever free. Theres always a catch. Its call blood money. If ths boy is a mama boy, time to leave. Run.
Lwm hnub peb ua niam pog thov txob coj nkau nkau lawm
Koj tusvtxiv hais yog lawm ...koj yog tus phem xeb vim koj biam pog twb them nyiaj xwb ne....koj case no koj yuavctau ua siab loj es coj zoo me ntsis os
Tus nyab no muaj hmoov zoo tsaj uas niam pog ua everything rau. Tus niam pog no yog 1b tus zoo kawg..no money no powers..
Npaig kom lom zem pub peb cov pluag mloog thiab kuj zoo
Wow this is so sad. Hits close to home.
Niamtais zoo li no mas kawg mag si.. koj qhuas nws xwb ce koj live the lufe of luxury.
Txawj ua niam pog zoo Nyab thiaj txawj Ua Nyab!
Hmong culture: helping with expectations in return. Never helps freely out of love.
Your mother in law is not that bad. She just wants to be involved in her son’s life because he’s the only son. You are blessed to have your mil help you guys buy a house and help/ teach you to clean your house. My mil has a key to my house and she comes whenever. I don’t mind and don’t make it a big deal.
I would be happy if my mother in law help 20k for down payment and buying expensive dishes and furnitures for me. Be grateful since your husband is the only son. She shows her love through material things.
NOTE TO SELF- dont become the monster in law u hated.
No matter u want to spoil and groom ur kids everyone needs boundaries!!! Thank god my hubby is not a mama boy. But then its also sad for him because hes not the favored son. My kids are mama boys but they will have to fly on their own and establish their own way. All i can do is tell them all their options and let them choose their own ways and make their own mistakes.
Agree with your niam in-law pog...Because you still young don't know txoj cai es xav tias lawv yuam koj no tabsis tsi yog thiab os yuav tsum tau xyaum thiaj li paub nawb...Vim yus yeej txom nyem ces luag hais los yeej tsi mob yus li os.
Hais txog zaj neej neeg no mas neb 2 leeg puav leej ua yog hu tib si vim li Cas kuv thiaj hais li ntawd
Nyab hmoob lo lus ntuas ntxhais tias Kom ua nyab tag mus tau tsev neeg toob nkeeg ces toob nkeeg tau tsev nquag ces nquag ces poob rau hmoob lo lus ntuas ntawd ntag
Niam pog yog niam pog ua tsis taus niam es Cia koj los tswj lub cuab yim ces koj yuav coj niam pog tus tub tawm ntawm lawv tsev neeg mus thiab thaum kawg txhua yam uas lawv khwv tau koj yuav coj mus ua phuam lam tag xwb
Yog li kuv thiaj hais tias neb ob leeg puav leej ua yog huv si qhov zoo tshaj ces tus muaj mus yuav tus muaj, tus pluag mus yuav tus pluag yuav zoo dua vim nyias nyob nyias level tsis sib xws.
Zoo li kuv niam pog txiv yawg kiag li o😂😂😂.ua ua yu muaj mob tag .
Tus me niam tsev aw peb ces nim ntxhaw222 ib tug niam pog kom hlub peb li kj tus ko los twb tsis npau suav pom os kj muaj hmoo heev os mog
I can’t stand these type of niam pog like yours. I’ll never take no one’s money if their intentions are to put me down. I rather live on my level then try to be rich but live a miserable life. Koj tus txiv g yog txiv neeg yawg. It doesn’t matter how many wives he married they will all go one by one cus no one can’t or will tolerate such behavior from the mil or the son
Tus niam pog no is so picky and she takes pride so much thiab tus nyab los tsis paub qab hau lis nws lub neej tes dej num kom phim nyog yog ib tug niam tsev. Ob yam no los sib nraus muaj ceem heev hauv lub neej. Ib tug niam pog twg hlub nws tus tub nyab heev, tab sis nws ho tswj tsav nkawv loj dhau lawm thiab no ces nkawv yuav nres tsis taus nyob ua neej.
Koj niamtais hais yog kawg, in her lvl. You should learn from her.
Golden rule. You live under their roof, then you're under their rules. You take their money, then you're under their control.
Koj niam yug koj txawj hais lus dua. Ho koj kuj heev kawg thiab nawb. Hahaha Nyab los ncauj kuj heev phim niam pog kawg thiab. Kuv mus ua nyab mas kuv uv uv niam pog uv uv tej muam uas phem phem rau kuv uv zoo dua. Uv kom taus uv kom yeej koj thiaj li yog tus yeej ho. Tsis uv ces kawg piam. Koj uv tsis taus li thiab.
Cov nyab tsis nyiam niam pog ces zoo li no mas
Xav tias lawv hlub2 lawv thiaj kam qhia yus ua qhov zoo xwb
Your mil doesn’t know that the tables may turn her richness may not last forever
K9j yeej tsis yog niamtsev koj yog poj niam xwb. Yog lis koj niamtais hais lawm
Glad you got out while you can from this controlling rich family! Life is long and moved on and find someone that truly loves you that you deserved.
Wow this is a real true baby mam boy! Maybe he should not marry and just live with his MOM forever.
What a manipulative and controlling MIL. I would leave too.
I know how you feel my in laws are not rich and did not help my husband and I pay for my house but they have so much right to my house. They have their own key they come every weekend without notice too. Some in laws need to know and respect privacy. It gets annoying sometimes.
Wow idk if I can live that kind of life ..sounds more like a controlling inlaw ….and your husband has no boundaries with his mom being the way she is … time to leave!
Cas kuv tsis tau tus niam pog ko yog kuv tau ntshe kuv zoo siab heev li os
So sorry for you sister. You tried your best and he only cared about his mother even when you just had your miscarriage. You deserve better. I hope you find healing and peace.
Kuv ntseeg hais tias ib yim neeg nos nyias yeej muaj nyias ib txog cais kawv siv rau hauv lawv lub yim neej. My self, I'm not a fancy person
Thov kom peb hmoob txhob khav khav theeb yog neeg plua num es tsua pub tau $20k xwb. Tsis tsim nyog khav theeb
Nyias muaj muaj cai cia liab mam txiav liab txim xwb
I think koj yeej phem tsaj li os koj yog ib tug nyab tsis txawj yoog luag tsev neeg li.
I am you out of that neeg nplua nuj lub tsev......I AM GLAD YOUR EX- MADE A CHOICE, THE FAST YOU'RE OUT OF THAT STRESSFUL BITTERNESS LIFE.....F... WITH THAT FAMILY
Vim koj twb tsis nyiam niam pog xwb yog muab mloog zoo mas tim koj tus ua nyab lawm thiab os koj twb tsis ua kom yog thiab muaj dab tsi tau qhia yus tus txiv tseev neeg ua ntej thiab ua phooj ywg nrog niam pog kiag xwb qhov niam pog tuaj pab koj li ko vim nws hlub neb dhau lawm xwb koj yuav tau xav kom zoo nawb yog koj ua phooj ywg nrog niam pog hais lus luag ntxhi rau niam pog mad niam pog tseem yuav hlub thiab pab neb txhaj ua koj lub txwv yim tsawg zog lawm xwb
Yuav tsum ua friend zoo nrog yus tus niam pog nawb lawv vim los nrog lawv nyob lawm yus ua tus nyab zoo thiaj yuav nyob tau nrog lawv...kuv los kuv yuav cawm kuv niam ua ntej nws tuag lawm tseem mus yuav tau ib tus ntxiv li tus tub no hais tabsis yog kuv niam tuag lawm mus nrhiav tsi tau niam lawm mog.
Hmmm, help me with $20,000, but have contingencies, hell no!!! $20,000 is not a lot according to their claim of being rich.
Koj niam pog mas muaj khav theeb , muaj plhus dhau , peb ua neeg nyob txawm yus muaj los yuav tau yoog lwm tus thiab !! Khoo tuag nthi xwb phem dhau !!! Yog yus ua li no rau nws los nws yeej tsis nyiam thiab !! Khav theeb li koj niam pog ces kuj them kiag kom tas rau neb !! Down payment thiab yuav sofa xwb es koj tus txiv neb tseem them qhov leftover ne !!! Tsev neeg zoo li no pub twb tsis yuav yog kuv na !!
Your should've put your foot down and show the in-laws who's in charge the minute they insult my family. You must live in a place where their son is the only guy available. Even if this is the last man alive, I rather be single and live happily by myself.
So annoyed by the son and MIL. Goodness. It’s not about appreciation, it’s about respect for their DIL as a human-being.
Good girl stand for yourself cov neeg khav theeb cov neeg muab hlob li no tsis tas nyob li os nawb.
Ur mother in-law is good one shes knows more then U but wen U get older U will realise she just want the best for her son
Tus nyab no kuv hmoog ces yog Tus nyab tub nkeeg
Correll does not belong on a $10,000 dining table. So your ex MIL is not rich.
Nyiaj txiag yuav tsis tau nws niam thiab txiv los nyiaj txiag yeej yuav tsis tau yus niam thiab txiv ib yam thiab yog tias nws tsis txawj cais kev hlub kom zoo ua ntej nws yuav siv cov lus ntawv 6 nws tus wife..zoo koj muab nrauj lawm nyuaj qhuav ntxim 6 tus bad husband zoo li ntawv xwb os.
So glad you got out sister. Your ex will always put his parents first before you.
I like how the MIL was like, “oh in this family the men have the final say,” but through the story, the FIL involvement was bare minimum. He even said at the end he let the wife run the show. lol the hypocrisy of some people.
😂😂 my girls said that is going to be me as a mil cause I baby my boys 😂😂 but I know my place!, I’m sure I won’t be.
Ho niam pog zoo li no ma txim txub ntshaj li os
Omg that sound like my husband act to me
Run...run away and never come back
Tej neeg muaj nyiaj luag tsis coj tus cwj pwm zoo li no. Tus niam pog no yog niam pog khav theeb xwb. Me nyab aws... koj yuav tau xyaum ua heev zog ces niam pog nyoo los lua xwb lis mas. Tus niam pog no tsis tau txog tus neeg ntse2 li niam pog los nrog niam pog ua rog es niam pog thiaj li tseem khav2 xwb os. Yog ntsib kuv mas nws yeej pom xwb los mas 🤣🤣🤣
U r ungrateful. I don't care if she pick everything. Long as it's free.
Koj xaiv yog lawm sister ncaim tsev neeg phem li ko mus yim ntxov yin zoo xwb cov neeg nplua nuj muaj ib txhia yeej coj tus ywj pw ruam2 li koj tus ex niam pog phem ntawv.
MY HEAD HURTS LOL
I seriously hate when you tell stories of younger couples you kept on saying they call each other "me koj txiv" "koj niam"...it's really annoying cus younger generations don't call each other that. They call each other honey, bae, darling, tus hlub...
Kuv zoo siab tias koj tawm ntawm niag niam pog dab ntxwg nyoog lawm. Nws khav theeb thiab muaj xiv cuag lis ntawv los nws yeej yuav txawj laus txawj tuag ib yam lis luag tej thiab nws tej nyiaj yeej yuav tsis tau nws txoj sia.
Reality: the poor and the wealthy will never compatible due to their mindsets are at two different spectrums. Just like the doctor and the dig digger.
One cannot have a poor mindset to get wealthy where the wealthy will not stay poor.
They have so much invested into that one son, it’s right of them to want him to turn out on the right side; by that son chose to marry you is already a risk of itself, due to the power of association. The more he associates with you, the more he will turn out on your poor side, that was why they have to keep him close and associate with him as much as possible to keep him from turning out on your side.
When you birth a kid of your own, you will for sure know how the wealthy inlaws think; not wanting any bad influence to influence your child astray.
Ua nyab ib zaug es luag muab txoj cai li no los quab yuam yus lub neej g tas yuav txawm yuav los uv g taus. Kuv mloog koj txoj no xwb mas mob2 hlwb tus txiv los tseem yoog kiag li niam pog thiab g kam nyob nrog ib tsev neeg zoo li no.😂😂😂
niam pog controlled to much
Wow ur mother in law has no respect. I would even married him bc it’s not his money.
Leave him! This is not a life you want.
Cov Hmoob no niam qhuav muaj nyiaj me ntsis xwb us cas yuav khav theeb ua luaj. Yog tseem muaj npaum li Donald Trump, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, thiab Warren Buffett lawv thiab mas ntshe yuav muab tas nro cov Hmoob nyob hauv qab ntuj no tsuj kom tuag kom tas li os.
Niag niam pog poj dab rhuav plhu, khav theeb, thiab khoo neeg. Tuag lauv, leej twg tau ib tug niam pog zoo li no ces 1. Nyoo nws, ua li nws hais. 2. Ua bye bye xwb, ntxov nroj nws tus tub ces ntxov zoo.
Who wants an evil, controlling freak, n a bossy as hell monster n law.? Nor me! Glad u got out of the marriage sooner than later. Ur husband is a Mama's boy; he loves his mama more than he loves u; so let him marry his mama.
About the house, didn't know u can buy a house with $20k. What kind of a house? Old or new? Cus i have $20k n its not enough to down pay a house. To buy a decent house, u would need to have at least $50k+.
Ab qhia seb koj niam pog yog leej ywg ws kuv sim mus ua nws tus me nyab seb. 😊
MAMA'S BOY!!!!😂
Ohh man! I hate to be in your shoes.Been there before. It never works out.
Kuv xav tau ib tug niam pog zoo li ko xwb tiag
Poj niam tsis sawm zoo!
Tus niam pog uas zoo li ntawd ces koj yim tawm sai npaum licas yim zoo npaum li ntawd. Koj tus txiv ua tsis tau txiv hlo li os. Lub qhov taub uas phem tshaj ces yog lub nyob rau hauv yus tsev neeg ntag, yog tias sawvdaws tsis txawj sib hwm thiab txawj sib hlub lihais.
Yog koj lub neej.txhob cia niam pog kav.muab niam pog lawb dab kiag.tus tub tsis txaus siab los,muab nws dov cauj vab kiag xwb mas.cov ntsej muag ruam tsab ntse ntaw ces,yog koj tsis txiav ces lawv yuav muab koj nyuj laij teb ib sim neej os.cov niam pog li koj tus ntaw ces t hob quav ntsej nws xwb os
Cov mama boy li ko tsis yuav os....ntxov nrauj nrov zoo xwb. Tsev hmoob nplua nuj ko ho muab khav theeb dhau lawm. Ua 1 lub neej nyob under niam pog qab tswj hwm ces yeej tsis vam meej kiag li nawb. Zoo qhov koj muab nrauj lawm.
Kv ntsaw tu niam pog li ko ho
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