You wanted your wife to be like your friends’ wives so stop complaining. She wasn’t like that before. She didn’t want to change but you wanted her to change. You picked your friends.
i agree with helping each other around the house but not girls night out ot boys night out all the time. i dont know her side of the story but if you do the samething like always going out with your guy friends and now she does it too. Loving couple should spend time with each other only or if outing with friends should be possible if both can go.
She doesn’t love and respect you as her equal partner. She doesn’t want to be treated as second class like her mom and grandma but that’s how she is treating you. She’s a hypocrite and you’re stupid to let her treat you like you’re a nobody. I am an educated woman with modern thinking but that’s not how I treat my husband. I treat him the way I want to be treated, with respect and dignity. When you allow her to treat you that way, she will treat you that way.
It's great she has freedom but she should treat your family the same as hers. Not one person should govern the money, have joint account and then have your own acct. Now that is freedom.
I think this guy is lying. He twisted his story. He’s a selfish controling guy. There is nothing wrong with woman going to strip bars or go see strippers.
Pub dev rog ces dev rov tom yus. Qhia Ib tug Neeg ruam ntse ces nws rov taw tuam ntuj rau yus xwb os. It's ok to have separate accounts if you don't trust her with the money. U Made a big mistake by telling ur wife to go hang out with your friends' wives. These house wives are desperate for anything. They will do anything for fun. However, your wife is an adult. She should have known her limits, what's right n wrong. I think she over stepped her boundaries. U gave her the freedom to do as she pleased; yet, she abused you n her freedom. That's wrong of her. She's too much!
I got a question: What makes you Hmong Men think you can be away from the home for 7 to 8 hous at a time and expect your wife to cater and wait for you? Use that time to do something more productive. Zoo li nej ua si xwb.
Qhov teeb meem yog koj xwb. Koj tsis paub tswj thiab tsis paub coj kom neb ob niam txiv sib yoog tau xwb. Koj yog tus coj ces koj xav kav hlo ua tus kom muaj xiv txhua yam. Tsis paub yoog rau qhov siab qhov qis qhov yog thiab tsis yog rau koj lub neej li. Thaum koj tso phluav rau koj tus pojniam coj lawm ces kawg nws thiaj li ua hla hlo koj vim koj ua tsis taus ne. Yog koj yog ib tug neeg paub tab mas koj twb yuav los hais kom neb ob leeg los coj neb lub neej muaj xiv ib yam. Ua ib khub niam txiv mas ob leeg sib pab nroos sib hwm. Niam saib taus txiv hos txiv los saib taus niam mas thiaj li zoo ov. Yog yus tsis muaj peev xwm txaus es cia yus tus pojniam tswj 100% ces kawg ua zoo li koj xwb los mas lub neej thiaj li tsis tawg os. Txawm pojniam los yog txiv neej, sawv daws yeej muaj siab muaj ntsws ib yam es yus yuav tsum tau paub yus tus kheej es rub yus tus kheej kom sawv sib txig zos nrog lwm tus hos.
Homeboy, get with the current times...there's nothing wrong with your wife going to the strip shows. It's pure entertainment. There is a saying, happy wife, happy life!😂😂😂
Umm I don’t think you should live like this. Even after divorce she won’t get away like this with any other man. I’m not 100% sure at how much of this is true.
If you want girls night out you can go. Just don't come back. Because you should have stayed single if you wanted to party. Not putting up with that crap.
Ua siab loj loj mas. Tos pojniam txawj txawj ua li no los twb yog peb pojniam kawm ntawm nej cov txiv neej. Thaum ub txiv neej tsim txom pojniam, pojniam tsis muaj cai. Tamsim no ces lub ntuj tig lawm. Uv tsis tuag os. Yav tag los cov laus ces yeej hais li no.
If she only has two choices, be under you or be over you, very few want to be under anyone. So, it sounds like this woman chose to be over vs under. However, if you and her really had each other's happiness at heart, then no one would be under or over another. You would both be equally respectful of one another. A healthy marriage is when both have respect for each other's values and views. In any case, there is an imbalance in your marriage. Koj tus pojniam yeej ua tshaj koj dhau lawm. She became a very selfish, self-absorbed person because she said she would rather divorce if she can't have her way. She's not thinking much about her kids when she doesn't care about the impact of the divorce on her kids and only wants things her way. I do feel sorry for you for how it turned out for you, but then you went out often with your friends in the beginning too, leaving your wife home alone. Should have focused on your wife and children in the beginning and worked on creating a healthy, balanced marriage.
Thaub aws koj ruam ualuaj os thaum koj tus pojniam coj zoo es koj hai tia nws ruam twb yog tim koj xwb koj cem nws npabnauj nws tsi kam mus los koj kom nws mus tsam no koj tsi txhob hai nws lawm os thaub ruam aws tsi cob yus tus pojniam ua zoo coj zoo es yus cob pojniam mus ua laib ce niam qhuav ntxim koj xwb os thaub ruam.
Koj tus poj niam yog cov neeg ruam, ces luag ua li cas thiaj ua raws, koj pheej kom nws mus nrog lawv ces tam sis no koj tau ib tug poj laib laus lawm, qhov tseeb ces koj yog tus ruam, nej cov phooj ywg ko ruam tshaj nej cov poj niam, nej tau ib pab poj laib lawm lau hahahaha👹👹👹👹👹👹 thaum laus no ces mam mus cab ib tug niam mos ab los puag rau nws ntshia xwb mas
Tshuav tsi ntev ces sawv daws yuav tau mus nyob qab choj lawm xwb lauj me tub aw...Kuv nyob tsi tau yog tsi muaj kuv tus txiv li nawb lawv...Vim kuv nco2 nws li os lawv...Yog lub neej leej twg cia poj niam tswj txhua yam nyob lub neej ces tus neeg ntawd zoo li lub lwg dej xwb tsi ruaj tsi khov kiag li.
Puas muaj ib co txiv neej coj li nej no mas los, tsis tasli koj xav xav kom poj niam ntse ces zaum no koj thiaj tau poj niam ntse los mas me tub aw lol, yus cob yus ces ua twj ywm xwb los mas.
Tsis yog cia poj niam hwm txiv neej nkaus xwb los yog cia txiv neej ho tig hwm poj niam dua li poj niam hwm txiv neej. Ob niam txiv yuav tsum tau sib hwm, tab sis tus txiv yog tus thawj hauv family ces niam cuag li tus niam yuav tau yoog tus txiv dua li tus txiv yoog tus niam. Case no mas tus txiv yog hom neeg nrog kwv tij sab laj tas mus txog tsev nrog poj niam tham tas ces rov tuaj thim lus rau kwv tij.
Yawg hluas tsis ua cas vim yus lub hlwb yog hluav ncaig xwb. Yog ua tsis taus txiv lawm ces kawg muab xav hais tias 16 xyoo tom ntej xwb yus twb rov los ua hluas nraug dua lawm mog.
Luag tias thaum poj niam ruam ces cia nws ruam nws. Koj muab cob cob ces zoo li no tiag. Nej cov niag poj niam no ces ib ntus mus ua poj laib tag lawm. Ua mus ua los ces neej liam tag li tiag.
Peb tej laus twb ib txwm piv tias thaum liab tsis txawj nce tsua Kom txhob muab liab xyaum nce tsua thaum liab nce.tsua lawm ces liab tsis kam nqis ces yog li no los mas brother aw txhob tu siab os yog yus rov ua rau yus xwb os.
Oh!! Dude! Just start listening to your story. Wanted to put my two cents in. #1. When a lady looks beautiful & straight, you’re curvy her by the way a her man shaped so stop complaining about your beautiful wife! Hahaha!!
Hoyo koj twb xav xav kom nws txhob Nyob nyob tsev es nrog lawv lom zem no ne. Yog nws tsis nrog koj cov friends cov wife ces maybe koj twb cheat on nws lawm thiab mas. Stop complaining. Y’all don’t know how to balance and limit yourselves.
Yog li cov niam tsev ua haib haib mus Tom night club pom hauv yt n fb ces tus txiv obey es cov niam tsev thiaj lom lom zem.xyov hauv lub neej kajsiab or uv siab
You train her so don't complain. You told her to go learn from them. That's 100% your fault.
You wanted her modernized. You got it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You wanted your wife to be like your friends’ wives so stop complaining. She wasn’t like that before. She didn’t want to change but you wanted her to change. You picked your friends.
The table has turned around and ua siab ntev!
I like this story. After so many yrs. It’s about time some things changed.
i agree with helping each other around the house but not girls night out ot boys night out all the time. i dont know her side of the story but if you do the samething like always going out with your guy friends and now she does it too. Loving couple should spend time with each other only or if outing with friends should be possible if both can go.
She doesn’t love and respect you as her equal partner. She doesn’t want to be treated as second class like her mom and grandma but that’s how she is treating you. She’s a hypocrite and you’re stupid to let her treat you like you’re a nobody. I am an educated woman with modern thinking but that’s not how I treat my husband. I treat him the way I want to be treated, with respect and dignity.
When you allow her to treat you that way, she will treat you that way.
Hmm, divorce her. She keeps secrets from you. She’s broken. She’ll never been the same. A marriage should be equal.
It's great she has freedom but she should treat your family the same as hers. Not one person should govern the money, have joint account and then have your own acct. Now that is freedom.
I think this guy is lying. He twisted his story. He’s a selfish controling guy. There is nothing wrong with woman going to strip bars or go see strippers.
Pub dev rog ces dev rov tom yus. Qhia Ib tug Neeg ruam ntse ces nws rov taw tuam ntuj rau yus xwb os.
It's ok to have separate accounts if you don't trust her with the money. U Made a big mistake by telling ur wife to go hang out with your friends' wives. These house wives are desperate for anything. They will do anything for fun.
However, your wife is an adult. She should have known her limits, what's right n wrong. I think she over stepped her boundaries. U gave her the freedom to do as she pleased; yet, she abused you n her freedom. That's wrong of her. She's too much!
This is the wife you wanted. You get what you set her up to become.
I got a question: What makes you Hmong Men think you can be away from the home for 7 to 8 hous at a time and expect your wife to cater and wait for you? Use that time to do something more productive. Zoo li nej ua si xwb.
Good job for the wife. If more husbands could be under his wife, there would be less divorcees out there
Thaub, thaum nws ruam koj tsis Cias ruam ne. Ces LaM tsij tom nplaig xwb os. !
Tus poj niam zoo li ko mas ceev faj nawb
Lwm tiam txhob yug los ua txiv neej lawm os. In the future women will be more powerful.
Haha funny story.
Lub ntuj no, poj niam yeej lawm. Seb yeej rau sab phem los yog yeej rau zoo maj? Yog tias yeej rau sab phem lawm ces nws swb lawm ov. Yeej rau sab zoo, yog coj ncaj ncees dawb huv, ua ib tug niam tsev zoo, txawj hlub txawj xav, nyiam kwv nyiam tij.
Women world!😊😊
Cov niam tsev es mus qhov twg mus ib pab ces yog tib co maum dev xwb nawb lawv aw...
Ho yo feem ntau ces cov pojniam yeej lwj2 siab li koj thiab os
Qhov teeb meem yog koj xwb. Koj tsis paub tswj thiab tsis paub coj kom neb ob niam txiv sib yoog tau xwb. Koj yog tus coj ces koj xav kav hlo ua tus kom muaj xiv txhua yam. Tsis paub yoog rau qhov siab qhov qis qhov yog thiab tsis yog rau koj lub neej li. Thaum koj tso phluav rau koj tus pojniam coj lawm ces kawg nws thiaj li ua hla hlo koj vim koj ua tsis taus ne. Yog koj yog ib tug neeg paub tab mas koj twb yuav los hais kom neb ob leeg los coj neb lub neej muaj xiv ib yam. Ua ib khub niam txiv mas ob leeg sib pab nroos sib hwm. Niam saib taus txiv hos txiv los saib taus niam mas thiaj li zoo ov. Yog yus tsis muaj peev xwm txaus es cia yus tus pojniam tswj 100% ces kawg ua zoo li koj xwb los mas lub neej thiaj li tsis tawg os. Txawm pojniam los yog txiv neej, sawv daws yeej muaj siab muaj ntsws ib yam es yus yuav tsum tau paub yus tus kheej es rub yus tus kheej kom sawv sib txig zos nrog lwm tus hos.
Homeboy, get with the current times...there's nothing wrong with your wife going to the strip shows. It's pure entertainment. There is a saying, happy wife, happy life!😂😂😂
Umm I don’t think you should live like this. Even after divorce she won’t get away like this with any other man.
I’m not 100% sure at how much of this is true.
Brother you got what you wanted it 😅😂
Yog kuv cais los txog cais nrauj kiag xwb tsis yuav niag poj laib ntawd lawd !
If you want girls night out you can go. Just don't come back. Because you should have stayed single if you wanted to party. Not putting up with that crap.
75 txiv neej ua nai lawm ces tiam 21 no poj niam thib ua nai lawm es cia poj niam ua nai los ma.
lol now men know how our moms and grandmas feel
Thats y we don’t need any friends lol just him n her
Never let her go hang out with those people in the first place. It’s your fault
Thaub no ruam li ruam. Pojniam zoo tseem muaj coob Zoo li poj niam tuag tag lawm rau thaum no😅😅
Ua siab loj loj mas. Tos pojniam txawj txawj ua li no los twb yog peb pojniam kawm ntawm nej cov txiv neej. Thaum ub txiv neej tsim txom pojniam, pojniam tsis muaj cai. Tamsim no ces lub ntuj tig lawm. Uv tsis tuag os. Yav tag los cov laus ces yeej hais li no.
U really did it to urself.... too bad for you now that the table has turned.
If she only has two choices, be under you or be over you, very few want to be under anyone. So, it sounds like this woman chose to be over vs under.
However, if you and her really had each other's happiness at heart, then no one would be under or over another. You would both be equally respectful of one another.
A healthy marriage is when both have respect for each other's values and views.
In any case, there is an imbalance in your marriage. Koj tus pojniam yeej ua tshaj koj dhau lawm. She became a very selfish, self-absorbed person because she said she would rather divorce if she can't have her way. She's not thinking much about her kids when she doesn't care about the impact of the divorce on her kids and only wants things her way.
I do feel sorry for you for how it turned out for you, but then you went out often with your friends in the beginning too, leaving your wife home alone. Should have focused on your wife and children in the beginning and worked on creating a healthy, balanced marriage.
You still have a mind of 1975!
Thaub aws koj ruam ualuaj os thaum koj tus pojniam coj zoo es koj hai tia nws ruam twb yog tim koj xwb koj cem nws npabnauj nws tsi kam mus los koj kom nws mus tsam no koj tsi txhob hai nws lawm os thaub ruam aws tsi cob yus tus pojniam ua zoo coj zoo es yus cob pojniam mus ua laib ce niam qhuav ntxim koj xwb os thaub ruam.
Don’t get mad, get glad that you let see someone else train your wife.
Time for a new wife
HOORAY FOR YOUR WIFE.
Tim yus es. Thaum luag ruam tsis cia luag ruam.
Wrong.. fab lwm tiam kom thov ntawv los ua poj niam hos
Koj tus poj niam yog cov neeg ruam, ces luag ua li cas thiaj ua raws, koj pheej kom nws mus nrog lawv ces tam sis no koj tau ib tug poj laib laus lawm, qhov tseeb ces koj yog tus ruam, nej cov phooj ywg ko ruam tshaj nej cov poj niam, nej tau ib pab poj laib lawm lau hahahaha👹👹👹👹👹👹 thaum laus no ces mam mus cab ib tug niam mos ab los puag rau nws ntshia xwb mas
Koj yog ib tug txiv neej ruam tshaj plaws
“Ua siab ntev.. uv tsis tuag” is what my mama always say lol 😂 horrible advice
Tshuav tsi ntev ces sawv daws yuav tau mus nyob qab choj lawm xwb lauj me tub aw...Kuv nyob tsi tau yog tsi muaj kuv tus txiv li nawb lawv...Vim kuv nco2 nws li os lawv...Yog lub neej leej twg cia poj niam tswj txhua yam nyob lub neej ces tus neeg ntawd zoo li lub lwg dej xwb tsi ruaj tsi khov kiag li.
Coj mus tua nas xwb.
It’s all your fault. Thaum koj tus poj niam ruam koj tsis cia nws ruam ne. Tsam no ces kav tsij uv xwb mas
Good for her!😊
Wow you have created a monster tus txivtsev….
No matter what you have no right to hear her.
Puas muaj ib co txiv neej coj li nej no mas los, tsis tasli koj xav xav kom poj niam ntse ces zaum no koj thiaj tau poj niam ntse los mas me tub aw lol, yus cob yus ces ua twj ywm xwb los mas.
Koj txws koj poj niam mus kawm ntiaj teb kev phom sij nes
Tsis yog cia poj niam hwm txiv neej nkaus xwb los yog cia txiv neej ho tig hwm poj niam dua li poj niam hwm txiv neej. Ob niam txiv yuav tsum tau sib hwm, tab sis tus txiv yog tus thawj hauv family ces niam cuag li tus niam yuav tau yoog tus txiv dua li tus txiv yoog tus niam. Case no mas tus txiv yog hom neeg nrog kwv tij sab laj tas mus txog tsev nrog poj niam tham tas ces rov tuaj thim lus rau kwv tij.
Yawg hluas tsis ua cas vim yus lub hlwb yog hluav ncaig xwb. Yog ua tsis taus txiv lawm ces kawg muab xav hais tias 16 xyoo tom ntej xwb yus twb rov los ua hluas nraug dua lawm mog.
Luag tias thaum poj niam ruam ces cia nws ruam nws. Koj muab cob cob ces zoo li no tiag. Nej cov niag poj niam no ces ib ntus mus ua poj laib tag lawm. Ua mus ua los ces neej liam tag li tiag.
She thinks she's a BOSS babe now. Hahahaaa... 😂😅 and you became a SIMP...
Peb tej laus twb ib txwm piv tias thaum liab tsis txawj nce tsua Kom txhob muab liab xyaum nce tsua thaum liab nce.tsua lawm ces liab tsis kam nqis ces yog li no los mas brother aw txhob tu siab os yog yus rov ua rau yus xwb os.
Oh!! Dude! Just start listening to your story. Wanted to put my two cents in. #1. When a lady looks beautiful & straight, you’re curvy her by the way a her man shaped so stop complaining about your beautiful wife! Hahaha!!
Yaim xwb lauj yawg
Hoyo koj twb xav xav kom nws txhob Nyob nyob tsev es nrog lawv lom zem no ne. Yog nws tsis nrog koj cov friends cov wife ces maybe koj twb cheat on nws lawm thiab mas. Stop complaining. Y’all don’t know how to balance and limit yourselves.
Yog li cov niam tsev ua haib haib mus Tom night club pom hauv yt n fb ces tus txiv obey es cov niam tsev thiaj lom lom zem.xyov hauv lub neej kajsiab or uv siab
Lam myaj qau los hnyav ob ceg xwb o
Koj ce yog ib niag aub rau koj pojniam cab lawm xwb tiag
Twg2 kom koj muab txws nes ? Yog pojniam tsawm lhub ces uas twjywm xb losmas!
Koj ruam dhau os thaub aw! Omg you created a monster. Only stupidity people do such things
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You wanted her to go hang around then so now she change hahah
I think it’s your fault.
Ob yeah ! 😅😅
Koj twb xam kom nws vam meej no ne 😂 what’s your definition of vam meej mas? Everyone has their own perspectives of vam meej.
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