How to Talk to Girls... & NEVER Run Out of Things to Say! (6 Conversation Flow Tricks)

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  • @alpham
    @alpham  2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

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  • @Iamsujant
    @Iamsujant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

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    1:00 FORD Technique
    1:27 Learning To Ask Open Ended Questions
    2:25 Art Of Cold Reading
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    5:46 Open Up Themselves
    7:11 Practice With Random People

  • @IanPreston.
    @IanPreston. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I’ve needed this one for a while

  • @mwanzafitalpha9827
    @mwanzafitalpha9827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    10 things to quit for all Strong Men:
    1. Caring about what others think
    2. Not believing in yourself
    3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business)
    4. Not prioritizing your health
    5. Wasting your precious time
    6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it)
    7. Chasing meaningless relationships
    8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩
    9. Wasting time by scrolling social media
    10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
    Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list...........................................

    • @vitaminb4869
      @vitaminb4869 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      11. Spreading baloney.

    • @PlutoniumSlum
      @PlutoniumSlum 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fax yo

    • @skooo7
      @skooo7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I nosepick is that ok?

    • @taiyeebmuhtadi07
      @taiyeebmuhtadi07 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@skooo7 definitely not

    • @skooo7
      @skooo7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@taiyeebmuhtadi07 Why?
      It's elegant

  • @artforthewicked4689
    @artforthewicked4689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I work in sales and these are actually real techniques that we use with our customers. Dead simple but super effective

  • @CDeeez94
    @CDeeez94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Good advice here. Especially about asking people about themselves and getting them to talk about themselves.
    The most frustrating part of conversations in my experience is having the ability to generate conversation over narrow-ended questions but everyone I talk to lacks the same ability. If someone asks me "How I'm doing?" "How was my day?" or "What's up?" I know how to give a response that keeps the convo going rather than cutting it off to just "Fine," "Ok," and "Not much," the problem is that the majority of the people I talk to don't know how to give the same responses. And yes, before anyone calls me out, I also use wide-ended questions like the ones referred to in this video, but I'm referring to the times when those narrow-ended questions come up and it's time for the person on the other end to either keep the conversation going or let it die.

  • @thecoatofmanycolors7622
    @thecoatofmanycolors7622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Models is the besting dating book written for men and honestly anyone/everyone! Mark is a great writer and his work is awesome.

  • @TSierra
    @TSierra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Let’s goo! Always nice when Aaron uploads. Thanks for the vids!

  • @themjshow875
    @themjshow875 หลายเดือนก่อน

    2 year old video and i still came back for more advice 💪🏾

  • @KkhyberEmir
    @KkhyberEmir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Everyone please approve that whenever alpha uploads a new video, our lives Immediately GETS BETTER. Nothing but respect 🫡 for this man!

  • @simply11believelane47
    @simply11believelane47 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Solid advice for guys all around. I just moved into town 3 weeks ago. Alrdy have a gym buddy. She approached me and asked me to get in a set while I was not using the bench. I thought this is confidence n bit unusual. So I checked on her later to c if she was looking my way. She was later on✅Soooo I had to say something/anything to her n I did. N I did again on her way out, n the next day I saw her again n said hi, n asked her the workout routine for the day which I already knew the answer 🤣🦾 Be yourself b confident n have something "interesting" to say or common ground.

  • @davidgibson2029
    @davidgibson2029 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just finished subtle art of not giving a fuck and what can I say eye opening can't wait to listen to model

  • @GearReviewDepot
    @GearReviewDepot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Questions, questions and more questions with follow up questions. Active listening and genuine interest. It’s not hard.

    • @ricomajestic
      @ricomajestic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You got to be careful with questions though. Too many and/or not of the right type will end up sounding like a job interview which is a turn off. The goal is to search for common interests. However you also got to master story telling and become a world class comedian.

  • @martinbeltran1296
    @martinbeltran1296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The acting in the begining is absolutely GOLDEN! 😂

  • @enthusiast9998
    @enthusiast9998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Alpha there's for sure some connection between u and me, whenever i need such type of videos, u upload it the day after, from the past 1 month i have been observing this💕 keep it up man!

  • @srinivaskandari5384
    @srinivaskandari5384 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I work for Audible. I learned more about our Product from him than from my work

  • @mandatorykings3439
    @mandatorykings3439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you! for these tips Alpha. I'll definitely look into some of those and try to put them into action. 👍😁

  • @m_4638
    @m_4638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Aron will always give us the advices our fathers never gave us

    • @VegardLa
      @VegardLa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Actually true

    • @PokerDummyface1024
      @PokerDummyface1024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He's prob old enough to be your Dad. Call him Alpha M. Show some respect

    • @YouSoundButtHurt
      @YouSoundButtHurt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "advice". No need to say "advices".

    • @m_4638
      @m_4638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@YouSoundButtHurt English is my 2nd language so thanks

    • @PlutoniumSlum
      @PlutoniumSlum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts 😅

  • @harshitverma1334
    @harshitverma1334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey alpha man thank you so much for being here for us. Your videos have really helped me. Thank you sir!!!

  • @tyroneperez-palmacavero9098
    @tyroneperez-palmacavero9098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brian is back!

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.”
    -Plato

    • @syfymakka6726
      @syfymakka6726 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ANAM-----------2548 💀

  • @umair111
    @umair111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real connection happens between the words, in the silence

  • @nathanaelhenry1021
    @nathanaelhenry1021 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Common alpha W on helping others

  • @richardwebb3013
    @richardwebb3013 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing but an ad for Audible.

  • @joshmccomb6896
    @joshmccomb6896 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you alpha melvin

  • @yashchaudhry7582
    @yashchaudhry7582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There you go..
    Now that was an alpha video 💯💯💯

  • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
    @carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Great tips! “Confidence” is probably the #1 thing you’ll need before you approach any woman…
    And have no agenda, just relax, and talk to her like a human being - because women are people, whether you choose to believe that, or not! Lol
    But seriously, behave around her like you would with your friends, that way - she’ll let her guard down, and perhaps, let you get to know her!
    Just remember, it’s your job to put her mind at ease, if you can do that - amazing things will start to happen!
    Anyway, that’s my two cents.
    -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

  • @hereitcomes3912
    @hereitcomes3912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Pro tip:
    Yes,
    Yes,
    Yes,
    Sure,
    Yes,
    Yes,
    Yeah,
    Uh.. yes,
    Exactly,
    Yes,
    Great,
    Yes.
    Never fails, and works 24/7. Just pay a bit more attention while using great, sure, and exactly, so that you won't use it when she is telling you that her dog died, or somethin.

    • @hereitcomes3912
      @hereitcomes3912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So bots are now dating under my comment. Great.

    • @hereitcomes3912
      @hereitcomes3912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rentraverne when's the wedding ?

    • @RageGamer15
      @RageGamer15 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hereitcomes3912 lol

    • @einsteinnsekele7998
      @einsteinnsekele7998 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hereitcomes3912 bruh😂😂😂😂😂

    • @einsteinnsekele7998
      @einsteinnsekele7998 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hereitcomes3912 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Ryan-Horgan
    @Ryan-Horgan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The average normal life:
    - Binge TV
    - Porn daily
    - Toxic food
    - Cable news
    - College debt
    - 9-5 email job
    - Sh*t head boss
    - Consumer debt
    - Rarely exercises
    - Never goes outside
    - Overweight or obese
    - Paycheck to paycheck
    No wonder the average normal man is miserable. Don't be average

    • @mrsarcasm5900
      @mrsarcasm5900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think "don't be average" will send the wrong message
      Instead I think it's better if you say " be yourself, and always try to be the best version of yourself and make smart/good decisions to reach your goals"
      Just some fair criticism

    • @HeritageCast
      @HeritageCast ปีที่แล้ว

      First you have to rid your society of banksters.... This is structural to prevent revolutions and monarchy...

  • @praneetk1991
    @praneetk1991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Exactly what I needed today.

  • @magnus8488
    @magnus8488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video.
    I could have used some of the tips yesterday when I late one night ended up on a bus next to a spicy seniorita.
    The conversation ran smoothly at first but after a while it went downhill.
    I better go over these tips once more and get my ass on that bus again. 🤘

  • @ketanchauhan5839
    @ketanchauhan5839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    NAILED IT ALPHA!

  • @teriyak1_sauc3
    @teriyak1_sauc3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just saw a commercial with Alpha M in it at the gym😎

  • @happyfeet7730
    @happyfeet7730 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The father I never had, killing it

  • @bulldog3722
    @bulldog3722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Intro is on point 😂🙌🏻

  • @tathagatmore
    @tathagatmore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I needed this .Thankyou.❤️

  • @ashp.e.297
    @ashp.e.297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn alpha you're a hero 🤜🤛

  • @mariagar5758
    @mariagar5758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You've got a great channel and I'm NO ALPHA M but psychology speaking you're always on point 🤣. thanks for sharing have a good day 💞✨

    • @mariagar5758
      @mariagar5758 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ANAM-----------2548 go work THEIVES living off me for YEARS I'm serious about getting alot of authorities INVOLVED 😎 UNLESS you give me WHAT THEY'VE STOLEN FROM ME NOW 🤑🤑🤑... I'M NOT GAY I'm not a HOWE NEITHER GOODLUCK 😎💩⚠️😠

  • @Kamvalethu_10
    @Kamvalethu_10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1. The FORD technique
    (Family, Occupation, Recreation, Drive)
    Example ask open ended questions.

  • @Psmgamer
    @Psmgamer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always had this problem thanks for the video Alpha M.

  • @trajan74
    @trajan74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My favorite video meme is
    Girl dating expert: "When a girl looks at you..."
    Awkward nerdy guy: "Haha false. Next question."

  • @amirazadiyan9680
    @amirazadiyan9680 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm from Iran and love you man 🚀❤️

  • @matthewwach7693
    @matthewwach7693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a good book. I haven't gave it a spin in a hot minute. Think I'll give it another go

  • @MrMuerto
    @MrMuerto 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alpha, I finally got my hands on some Tiege Hanley products!

  • @robertdanawardward8510
    @robertdanawardward8510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you embark on the paste road, don't forget to shave the area before you start. Don't know if this will help any one. Just a lil tidbit from another alpha m club member. We make it happen. Let's do this guy's !!!!!!!

  • @ismailelmassaoudi4317
    @ismailelmassaoudi4317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro that was one of the best videos I needed this not just for women but in general also one thing I started to do I just talk to people like asking them things just to see if we can connect and have a conversation from there

  • @mcmaschio
    @mcmaschio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damnn Alpha … This information Gold 🔥 Perfect for a first date … also im gonna get that book … seems interesting af 🔥💯

  • @JamalKhan-od7hx
    @JamalKhan-od7hx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way you say spicy ass señorita is amazing

  • @Angelo_Music6
    @Angelo_Music6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I never clicked a notification so fast

  • @haydencooper3218
    @haydencooper3218 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is just what i needed thank you

  • @rohindey
    @rohindey 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks alot alpha. I always run out of things to talk to a girl I like. And just as she was texting me, you uploaded this video.

    • @Angelo_Music6
      @Angelo_Music6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      W

    • @keithramaphele4278
      @keithramaphele4278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's great! Now if you run out of things to say, you can send her this video.

  • @itstrange
    @itstrange 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me: What was the best part of your day?/what was the worst thing that happened today?
    Her: 🙄

  • @oneaboveall000
    @oneaboveall000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Whats the point?
    After all his tricks and tips you are still single 😂

    • @tomipbob7665
      @tomipbob7665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣😂😭😞

    • @Sheed96
      @Sheed96 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank god I don't want a relationship

  • @Hrithik_Rai
    @Hrithik_Rai 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alpha 😍waiting for this video

  • @ricomajestic
    @ricomajestic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How do we get the energy this guy has that's what I want to know. This guy must be a tornado at a social event.

  • @gordon12121212
    @gordon12121212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Initiating the conversation is half the battle" -Big Daddy

  • @evil.y8
    @evil.y8 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I been needing this one😭

  • @jk_0w0
    @jk_0w0 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thx for the vid🙏 keep it up

  • @jackalsniper892
    @jackalsniper892 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am in a text conversation rn thx for this

  • @homedude2010
    @homedude2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tomorrow is my physics exams 🤣

  • @emmanuelalbright116
    @emmanuelalbright116 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The intro killed me 😂💀

  • @baburao103
    @baburao103 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    WHEN's THE NEXT EPISODE OF ALPHA M. PROJECT COMING ?
    Is it even gonna be coming ? cuz last upload was S6E4, 4 months ago, but that wasn't labelled "series finale" so, any word anybody ?

  • @KPrayfortheworld
    @KPrayfortheworld 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks buddy 👍

  • @sethwicked7063
    @sethwicked7063 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👀 no tiegé hanely plug? Haven't seen one in a while gotta say I miss it lol

  • @hiteshsuthar1097
    @hiteshsuthar1097 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Okay bye" LoL 😂

  • @naveenbindal1066
    @naveenbindal1066 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good content

  • @taurai6788
    @taurai6788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂 that intro killed me

  • @predhiviraj
    @predhiviraj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks alpha finally I'll be able to talk more 😂😂

  • @vishesh2411
    @vishesh2411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1:51 The Alpha ASMR.

  • @MitulJainmitj1202
    @MitulJainmitj1202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nice video but such a long promotional. I understand you have to monetize. One suggestion, put a visual bar to show progress of the sponsored part, so when we skip, we don't end up skipping your real content. That's something you've worked too hard and valuable for us too.

    • @williamsmoak
      @williamsmoak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sponsors are usually either 30 second or 2 minutes .most of the time closer to 2 mintues. The Sponsor part was only about two minutes it just tied in well with the over all topic which Sponsors love.

    • @UserName-ts3sp
      @UserName-ts3sp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what ill say about alpha is hes the best at tying in ads

  • @mr.greenthumblawnresponse6782
    @mr.greenthumblawnresponse6782 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you listen & use audible while using tiege hanley though?

  • @Trapper4265
    @Trapper4265 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Alpha, are your videos back on, or are these videos from you prerecorded archives? Just asking. You mentioned in a very emotionally charged video a coupe of weeks ago that you were exiting the TH-cam medium.

  • @bigbenbobchristensen5129
    @bigbenbobchristensen5129 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks you’re awesome

  • @dermuschelschluerfer
    @dermuschelschluerfer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got 2 chicks lately by opening up with: "Hey, do you like Spiders? Theres a beatifull one over there" xD

  • @Alchemist2580
    @Alchemist2580 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks

  • @CrispyChikenSammich
    @CrispyChikenSammich 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aaron, just letting you know, (this might be an error on my computer) there is no custom thumbnail to this video.

  • @bobdole514
    @bobdole514 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alpha I have terrible facial hair do you have any advice on how I can groom and style my facial hair so it looks nice and presentable

  • @blakemogus6145
    @blakemogus6145 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Two things
    Do you like stuff
    The winner
    I like TURTLES 🐢

  • @englishsounds6461
    @englishsounds6461 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks alpha it's really helpful

  • @neilhumphreys2477
    @neilhumphreys2477 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video

  • @copedown
    @copedown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I swear to god....i was thinking about this the whole day and BOOM! Alpha read my thoughts 😳

  • @keithkamau4771
    @keithkamau4771 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Second most important reason I subscribe to Aaron: improving social life
    Just after needing someone to tell Im self sufficient
    Thanks sir

  • @marcusherts9345
    @marcusherts9345 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I ordered the book with ok Google & got ‘Murders’ by Charles Manson😔

  • @petefish2472
    @petefish2472 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    love u Alpha M.

  • @parthibdas645
    @parthibdas645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    shall i consider it a promotion in a video or a video in a promotion...?

  • @alexfitzpatrick8341
    @alexfitzpatrick8341 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My conversations are always one sighted I’m the one asking questions like an interview and they never ask me anything about me they show low interest even tho I follow alpha m. Advice. #blackpill

  • @jarvisholland7837
    @jarvisholland7837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Great Great

  • @i.o_fit
    @i.o_fit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Day 18 of asking for Alpha to bring P&P into Ulta, so I don't have to dread going in with the Mrs.

  • @keithdonavon9679
    @keithdonavon9679 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alpha is it two tone sub you wearing?

  • @celarvaa5109
    @celarvaa5109 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i dont believe in phrenology but i could look at you and know youre a jersey italian

    • @celarvaa5109
      @celarvaa5109 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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      Today I'm presenting a conversation flow tutorial by going over ways for you to never run out of things to say when you're talking to that spicy senorita. Please note that these tips will work in ANY situation with ANYBODY, not just with women. A lot of times, as dudes, we freeze up, The light goes off in our brain, and we can't think of anything to talk about even though we're super interesting.
      The inspiration for today's video is from an audiobook, Models --Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson (the same author who wrote The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck). I recently finished listening to it, and one of the chapters talks about three components of keeping a good conversation with women interesting and engaging. This got me thinking more about how to keep the conversation flowing to create a connection. These tricks and techniques are not pick-up attraction nonsense, but rather about acting and saying things that are really you.
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      Tricks and Techniques
      The Ford Technique - FORD is an acronym for family, occupation, recreation, and dreams. You can build a deeper connection and rapport by asking questions in these categories. You can talk with anyone about these things, and it will allow you to be a social ninja.
      Open-ended questions - these types of questions allow the person to take the lead where they want it to go. Close-ended questions will not get any additional information going. Instead of asking somebody how their day was, ask them what the best part of their day was. This will force them to communicate more, so you can pull from these conversation threads. Connect with something they're excited about or passionate about.
      Cold reading - the skill is intuitively knowing something about somebody without actually knowing it. It's about being perceptive and picking up from things you already know. Check out the example I provide.
      Conversational starters - I recommend the conversational starter: "What's your story?" It lets the person talk about themselves, and they can tell you anything they want. It works with everyone you want to connect with, and I used this starter with my wife when I met her.
      Connect their information to you - after they've told you information about themselves, use this information and connect it to something personal about yourself to share a common bond. It's about being perceptive, listening to what they're telling you, and asking the right open-ended questions to get them to divulge something.
      Practice! - the more you practice, the better off you will get. Practice with people that you run into throughout your day. You don't necessarily need to find them fascinating or want to connect with them later. However, these interactions give you practice so that you will have an incredible conversation when you meet somebody you want to connect with. The more practice you get, the more perceptive you'll be. You'll be able to read people in a nonverbal communicating way.

  • @thomasweber8331
    @thomasweber8331 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    can u do a video about how to do the first step?

  • @Muditsaraswat
    @Muditsaraswat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is this a video or audible ad?

  • @xurnusx
    @xurnusx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Any Germans here that have a phrase in german for 'whats your story?'

  • @julianjuarez8138
    @julianjuarez8138 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love talking to

  • @tat2trker
    @tat2trker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “What’s your story” is usually a great tester because most ladies freeze when they feel like they’ve been put on the spot to talk about themselves. Aka red flag, broken damaged woman… move on.

  • @dylanalexander9313
    @dylanalexander9313 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You sound like Mort Goldman from Family
    Guy

  • @TupakulaSankeerth.
    @TupakulaSankeerth. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks 😊

  • @lefragrance777
    @lefragrance777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Why should you worry about being the only one interesting in the conversation? If she's interested in you she needs to put in the effort during the conversation as well.

    • @inspiretrue807
      @inspiretrue807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah i thought the same

    • @yourstruly2337
      @yourstruly2337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      100% the moment i feel it's a one-way street, bye bye. If i am the only one who needs to keep asking questions to keep the convo going, while she couldnt care less, it's just a waste of time.

    • @asersah
      @asersah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true. There have been times when a girl replies to me with "lol ok" those girls are clearly not interested so I just stop talking. Then there are other girls that send me full length essays.
      Conversation is a two-way street and if one isn't participating in the convo then there's no point.

    • @tat2trker
      @tat2trker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One’s interest should be visible by their effort.

    • @pewtercamaro
      @pewtercamaro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right but it’s on us to lead.

  • @gregm599
    @gregm599 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been looking for this I hate it when I ask what a girl does today and she says nothing really just work like I got Asperger’s how am I gonna respond to it I would have more to say if she gave me another response I’m not sure if it’s Asperger’s because a girl said the same thing happens to her when she talks to someone
    And they say nothing really but it’s annoying like how am I going to ADAPT to the conversation

  • @sotos2575
    @sotos2575 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The funny thing is, these would and will work to people. Only to people with more than quarter of a workout braincell