Here the problem with this guest I saw one of her videos and it was flawed, I highly encourage you to watch one of her videos because she isn't one to be talking about the dating market. Haven't seen the video but unless she's changed from her last video then this video is moot.
Im happy you did this video, I lost respect for you did the videos about bashing women just because they did only fans or dressed in a certain way. That type of energy makes people think your toxic, judgmental and dehumanizing people and no woman wants to be with a man like that. And same goes with men.
The best point y’all made is that about the happy women being the quiet women. That couldn’t be more true. I’m a happily married 30 year old, started dating my husband ten years ago and we have two kids and all the great women I know who are happy are not loud and active on social media or in the culture. The best advice is for everyone to escape this negative culture and society in every way not only relationships. Love what y’all said! Keep it up, spreading truth!
But what you just said speaks volumes! We need more of yall happy women to become louder than these miserable women until they finally become quiet but the reason why yall happy women have learned to remain quiet is because you know these miserable people will try to destroy what you have if they realize they can't have what you have. Sad, but true. Feminism has become too powerful where it is hurting women the most now.
@Vick Murray great speech but as I sat here reading it I couldn't help but be distracted and laugh at the irony of the word "Gentlemen" when women and the world don't want, reward or respect a "gentle" man. Man makes fire, digs the deepest, flies the highest, falls on his face repeatedly in pursuit of progress, disciplines when needed, bleeds, rips his body for more strength, sweats, stays Hard, and puts his life on the line to provide. Does any of that sound gentle, man?
@Vick Murray I also gotta disagree on finding a good woman all because you're a "good man" which I guess you mean living in your purpose. Yes, men should be the best they can but in doing so we have to be honest and acknowledge that when you shine bright you will also attract alot of bad people looking to take advantage or leech off of your greatness. There isn't some magic that suddenly only allows good women to fall into your lap, the best advice is to raise your standards and don't waste time on females that don't meet your requirements. Be the prize and don't take exceptions for the sake of lust or companionship. Keep it moving, the best strategy is to cover the most ground to make healthy comparisons that fit what you need in this life.
Guys that believe there are no good women, they manifest exactly that. Reality shapes itself to your belief. Us men literally blind ourselves to good women.
Rofl that’s until she's bored of you and chooses to cheat on you and make you raise another mans kid. There are no good women. There are only women and they are all the same at the end of the day
Exactly!! It’s also the same way around as well. But usually when most men say that I sense they are bitter and angry. Kind of like that Red pill movement thing or MGTOW. They say they are going their own way but yet they are talking negatively about women. Toxic toxic.
Happy women are quiet ones lol. That's true for me. I was definitely more active on social media when I wasn't happy. Now that I'm happy, I'm super quiet on social media now.
I hear that @Ally Cakes, And honestly it’s the same for me. In 2018 and 2019, when I decided against my plan to commit suicide off a bridge, I instead turned my depression and frustrations with life toward social media and posted controversial and frustrating communication almost every other day for over a year online, picking fights with everyone whom I ever knew, family and friends alike, who were on social media, because I felt like I had nothing to lose and didn’t care about my past history with them because I just wanted to fight in the present. But then CoVid happened, and I lost a job I hated, and lost a rental which I hated too, and ended up moving to another state. And amidst all of those changes, I met some good caring people who showed that they actually cared about me as a person, and that motivated me to spend less time on social media and more time around better things for me.
@@snicker12 super happy for you Nick! Things happen for a reason and I'm happy you didn't jump off that bridge. Life is precious and beautiful when you're surrounded by the right people and environment ❤️
@@danginn6118 Nope, they engaged fast, but after that, they spent a long time planing the wedding day and also the marriage, they had a long time to discover if they were compatible.
@@danginn6118 The difference from back then and today.. Those grandparents were loyal and stayed together. Today women are extremely shallow and picky, You gotta have money, be sexy, tall , big cock, and muscles.. Guys big tits and ass .. Nobody picks a person for their personality anymore... It's all about looks and money.. That explains so many single moms.. Especially the trashy ones, because there are guys that are lowering their standards for a quick one without wrapping up..
@@stayhumblea1115 depends. The issue most of these "anti women" podcasts or channels point out is that women have it easy from the start with their youth and fertility, and make terrible choices, because they don't realize it until it's gone. Fresh and fit tho has a bit of a double standard. I don't mind the double on casual sex, but it's the fact that they glamorize it. While telling the women their attitudes need to change. I feel like there's a certain level of arrogance or self indulgence about it.
@@igpxmaster this is true. And you should keep in mind who the friends are because that says a lot about that person. Rather than focusing on tearing down sub par women, up lift women who are exceptional. Females who engage in hot girl culture, are self destructive regardless if you give your attention towards putting them on blast.
As a Christian and married i see the hot girl summer trend a huge problem in our culture. I wish more young single women would have good girl summers 😅
“I wanted men and women to hear each other’s stories’!!! What a great goal! If we listened and just asked each other questions without the ego, biases and really trying to understand each other it would be so beneficial for both sexes!
Thats a goal alright, but unrealistic. Thats not how things work in the moment. This is an interview, and that means a paced conversation where both people agree to the rules of conversation. Real world ain't like that.... at all. Emotions run wild and people wont check their ego, why ? - because people run their life off incentives and checking ones self is to practice being humble which doesn't fit with most people & with all of Social Media saying be a Hype beast.
Agreed! That “advice from singles vs actual married people” meme popped into my head.. There’s too many single men/women giving dating and marriage advice when they haven’t actually had success.
I agree what he said about balance, and these redpill channels being too one sided. After watching so many redpill videos I realized I was starting to hate all women and avoided them at all costs. I think men and women need to come together and find common ground more often like this video.
Yep they use this kind of trick to make money...it help us to see the difference bad women and good women if you do not have any exemple in your family but that's it...
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor. Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim. The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged. Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
@@TheUnique69ableYou speak facts. And sadly, there is no solution to that issue that I can think of. Women have something men can’t offer, and they can and will leverage that until men stop chasing it. Which will never happen. It is possible to abstain from sex as a man though. Takes years of practice and experience 😆, but it is possible.
A boy wants a trophy to brag about like girls want that pretty accessory to show off while real men and women just want a healthy partner to confide and grow with. I just wanna grow food :D
@@chloebrooke6307 Word but I mean when a man is with a woman whose not attractive people generally say nothing but in their minds they are saying poor guy it's the best he can do.
It's kinda sad in a way though that Courtney has to explain that she's sometimes the exception. Some of these Dudes have never experienced a solid woman in their life... but you also probably weren't looking... fellas.... hang out with women based on how they treat you, others, and themselves not how they look.
So true. In college, I had many bad women experience and I started to get cynical about women not out of hurt but just logic. I was starting think this is how it is. Well I worked a job and my coworker was a woman and she was amazing in how she treated me. We became really close and I thought about the women in college and realized that alot of them are still single. They were also mean and constantly point out my flaws. That's when it dawn on me that I was around the wrong women. My coworker ended up getting married to her boyfriend. It really makes sense.
@@dallasbrat81 i'm hopin so! 🤞 i remain skeptical tho. humanity is getting worse every year. i thought i had a unicorn, but after 6 years she stabbed me in the back. makes u realize that u can never really know anyone. ur hopes and ability to trust is dependent on ur confidence to be a good judge of character.
This is why it can be extremely dangerous in this day in age where people only watch specific content and only get recommendations for said content. It forms a narrow minded mentality. Because if all the billions of blogs, posts and vids you have been consuming over years has told you one thing about something, you're likely stick with that mindframe.
I am fighting to do this, but I see the world for what it is, realistically. It wont change anytime soon and that doesnt make me feel optimistic. How do you feel with certain issues going on in the world?
I agree, I also think a lot of men have been hurt by "bad women" because they have have experinces with "good women" that allowed them to let them selves get hurt. Can't forget that. The sexual market is stacked against men, but the marriage market is stacked against women - We're jealous of women because we desire sex and women are jealous of men because they desire marriage. It makes for some nasty feelings on either side of the fence.
More like they bring themselves to the guests places! 😂 It is a big advantage over others who are not willing to put on the work to produce quality content like them. That is why they growing so fast.
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor. Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim. The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged. Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
It’s because of your channel that I became a Christian. I know your channel isn’t a Christian channel, but you constantly use verses from the Bible and because of that I said “Maybe the Bible is something that could help me be a better man?” Now I am a Christian and I’m fully dedicated to making myself better. Thank you so much brother
As someone from the Middle East (where the alleged character Jesus was from) and I tell it to your face, the whole of Christianity is just a sham. A roman conspiracy to control the masses, and subdue the majority of the population to be weak and feeble
@@TheUnique69able thats cap dude, the romans already had their own religion and they did their best to try to stop Christianity, so your history is not right at all. Plus you can look at the ancient Jewish texts for support for Jesus.
@@itstriplem2069 j walking is 100% correct. jesus ministry exactly followed the same path as julius ceasar war path through isreal. it was designed to make passivity a virtue. don't fight for justice...just wait on god and be happy with ur oppression. "do not resist evil. turn the other cheek, and if ur enemy strikes u, give them ur other cheek. if anyone wants to steal ur shirt, hand them ur coat also." it makes people easy to subjugate. there is a lot of ancient wisdom that had past down for thousands of years, doesn't mean it was inspired by god.
"Happy women are some of the most quiet women" I can confirm that... I am very quiet, I have a great body that I dont want to show online, I do not look for attention or approval of others, I just live my life, I have an amazing relationship with an awesome man that is exactly the same type of man that most unquiet women desire: rich, tall, successful, caring, handsome, etc. I dont need to be showing my partner, the restaurants I go to or the trips. I am just so happy with my life and I have fulfilling relationships :) "if no one knows, no one can destroy it"
@Jean juju So should I reject a nice man because he is rich, tall, sucessful, caring or handsome?! Just to prove a point?! Just for your information, I wasnt even trying to get him or even try to find a man like him, he was the one trying to get me and looking for someone like me. I always dated (or tried to date) all types of men: short, tall, skinny, fat, funny, serious, europeans, asians, middle easterners, etc. And all of them were poor anyway.
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor. Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim. The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged. Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
@@TheUnique69able only because men degrade women with sex so ofcourse women have to be more selective despite their own need of sexual fulfillment. There is a reason why vibrators and dildos are a multimillion dollar industry. That and that fact women are more successful achieving orgasms on their own more frequently and more often than with male partners.
The sphere sees Courtney as a chameleon because she’s attractive yet doesn’t present herself in the same way as “modern women” and the typical behaviors attached to them. Shes capable of holding her own accountable , can show empathy for mens struggles and displays more traditional values. She’s genuinely part of the middle ground. Her channel is one of the few that provides alternate viewpoints worth exploring.
It’s too late. You won’t be able to turn the ship around at this point. She sees a market for her content & she is correct. Still, don’t be fooled. Some sucker will wife that up and be in family court sooner or later. You can count on it!
@@sardonumspa8113 Truth = She reminds me of this "Double Edge Sword" she playing her cards right. Manipulation is a women best craft, I'm not saying she this, but she also reminds me of Black Widows the breeding process if the male is not care he's death.
Yes it s common sense but only can be done through healing and Real Self Love which we can all reach. It requires you to want it Strongly and be Focus on that. Anything you want requires Deep Focus, Strong Will and Consistency (Rince and Repeat over and over again until it becomes Natural)
@@billyjean75 I mean it's common sense isn't it. it's like friendship, why do you want to build friendship with the rude or that arrogant person in your class, school, work place and so on. you would probably just be civilized with them, and it does not mean you care about them.
This is the one thing that I really disagree with. Actually, I'm a psychotherapist and I can say it's 100% wrong. I understand where they are coming from but they lack so much empathy to say this. I highly recommend they both educate themselves in grief and loss. I've heard him say this in other vids too and I am just at cringing point. To anyone who does ❤️ someone else where it isn't reciprocated, it sure does suck!! Take your time. Journaling often helps. Stay occupied. Now is the time for self-care. Surround yourself with positive energy ❤️❤️❤️.
@@elijahreilly9247 Yes, to you and me, it is. However, I am always amazed at how many people are out there chasing someone who obviously does not want them.
“What sells on TH-cam is Negativity” that point right there! I hate it here. There are so many videos that start and I switch after the first 15 seconds.
@@YoungYahtz94 true and we have to be conscious enough to know that if it’s a relationship we want, we can’t listen to ppl who aren’t in relationships or don’t want them. Too many ppl wabt relationship but take advice from others who aren’t living the life they want.
@@PatrickMenesesYTOfficial4945 that is also very true. I listen to both sides with the ability to deduce what is useful and what is not. I wish more ppl can deduce the same.
You are both some of the only content out there that doesn't just reuse the red pill woman-hating tropes and the purple-haired man-hating tropes. I don't have it all figured out, but I believe the truth lies somewhere between self-awareness and responsibility.
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor. Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim. The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged. Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
This conversation is encouraging, I’m a business owner and very happily married and stopped creating content because it wasn’t getting views and/or likes. I regret giving in so quickly because more positivity is needed on so many levels.
Something I've noticed is that people of today are primed for contrarianism and negativity. When presented with anything new, the first inclination has become to start deconstructing it to find flaws, be it people or ideas. It's like if you find a host of problems before hand, you have a reason not to put forth an effort at all.
With all due respect, her point about “thats not the type of content to be watching if you want to be in a successful relationship” is extremely naive. To be in a happy relationship you need to filter out bad partners at some point. That type of content opens your eyes and allows you to filter a significant amount of women. Which is NECESSARY to get a happy relationship.
I think it's more of, watching too much of it is bad. It's okay to watch that kinda content because it keeps you aware of how some people are. Things to watch out for and red flags 'n all that. It's not bad to watch it but it's just terrible if that's all you watch instead of balancing things out.
nah, i believe she means continously watching/reading that type of content is subconsciously programing you to only view things one way and is causing you to subscribe only to those ideals/philosophies on dating and relationships despite the amount of toxicity and negativity and self propraganda is included in the content/material. Overtime you refuse to accept the opposite sex as anything else other than what you believe to be true about them , thats the point she is making i believe
To have a happy relationship you need to learn how to communicate in a healthy matter. If you learn how to communicate and what's healthy for you, you will naturally filter out the bad people from the good. Yes, sometime their are obvious signs to someone being unhealthy, but for the most part you still have to talk to them to find out and watching some stuff might help. But learning to how to get to know people in health a manner and they make you feel will do you tons better.
I love that you had her on! She did a great job summarizing what it's like being a woman online and seeing both sides of not liking the woke modern woman but also men online who are entitled as well and low value.
Humans have a negativity bias. You could get a hundred well thought of great comments on this video, and the one egregious troll will stick out to you simply because of the negativity.
There's a book called 'the stress test' that outlines WHY we remember the stressful/ bad things: it's a defense mechanism/ survival instinct to avoid the bad thing, this thing hurt me,so avoid it,so think a million times how to avoid it.
Being the Right man is not easy. We have to improve ourselves. I am a Virgo and I naturally judge people it's something that I have got a handle on as I got older. It's very HARD to be the right person that you want to attract. Getting frustrated happens because as humans we want to see automatic success and results.
@@ichoosemysanity6467 Never thought the horoscope thing would come from a man. But it's true that judging is a natural instinct, I think it is the first step to understanding. Stereotypes exist for a reason, but most people will never work hard to prove that they are reasonable individuals.
This is an excellent video. Too many men and women have become bitter because they have been hurt. It is impossible to find a successful loving relationship if you are bitter. Women are not a monolithic group. Men are not a monolithic group. There are good women and bad women and good men and bad men. I know a lot of really good people, both male and female who are single. These people would make the perfect spouse but they are ignored by the opposite sex. Many really good people live relatively quiet lives so they are often hard to fine.
I absolutely loved this interview! Shes right up there with Rebecca Lynn Pope in the fact that they both give honest, straightforward advise with their own personal experiences, as well as those around them. Great job Hafeez! 👏🏼
If you take advice from people who are bitter from bad experiences they can only teach you how now to fail. Only those who are doing well can teach you how to succeed. There's an important difference between not failing and success.
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor. Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim. The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged. Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
@@d4mterro320 idk what country you’re from but here in the US (I’m in one of the most liberal states btw) I have a whole group of women who believe in biblical wife roles, like submission. I think you’re not looking in the right places my man 👌🏼. We’re out there! We just aren’t on social media, at the clubs, etc.
You know I started to think that when a man becomes successful he’ll immediately leave or cheat because of his options. I also started to think that men were unable to be faithful because they needed sex all of the time. When I was consuming these types of negative media it really was shaping my thought process and I realized that something was wrong and decided to stop consuming those types of media and make a broad stroke of judgement on an entire community. 🙃 just know that there are good women out their just like I know that there are good men out there. It’s just now about fighting through the noise from our it past experiences, media and head because then we can be that person who actually chases a good person away. Thus perpetuating the cycle and adding fuel to those negative thoughts.
I like this channel more now that he ALSO points out the issue with some men. Perspectives are becoming more balanced and debates fairer and more constructive . Subscribing
I'll be honest, Redpill philosophy did open my eyes to the nature of things like me being the problem and I should get off my ass and get out there. BUT, there is such a big topic of dumping ALL woman in the category of 304's... and you know, I get it, but adopting that mentality is bad, cause it's really negative, almost gives you no hope for a lasting relationship.
People always point out the issues with men where have you been?.. That's why red pill and MGTOW was formed so that men wouldn't continue thinking that only they are the problem..
@@Jaydavid25. there is a realistic nature to men that the world is not supposed to feel sorry for us because if we were rewarded for negative behavior we would continue to produce the same mistakes possibly leading us into Extinction. Obviously in this modern society away from nature we are basically going through a d evolution period
At some point in time, we will have to reassess the utilization of media (television, internet, magazines, etc.) and its effects on human conditioning. It is a memory overload that honestly, isn't necessary and as a result, perceptions can become skewed and sculpted before any real world experience is formed.
People need to stop pointing at media. You control your eyes and ears. You choose what makes it into you mind. A grown, mature person runs their lives and makes choices. It's like blaming McDonald's for obesity when they just make the food and don't force you to eat it. You can't stop the production of negative ideas in a free society. You only can only control you.
Matthew Gaines ignorant man. Nations don’t spend billions of dollars a year on propaganda because it might work. They KNOW it’s going to work. Because the human brain is predictable as is behavior. You’re not in control of urself nearly as much as you think.
@@pathofpotential953 You're actually ignorant You hear things that were never said and then put them into someone's else's mouth. On top of that, you don't seem to think personal responsibility is a thing. You're just a powerless fool being manipulated by others. Good luck with life with that perspective. Accountability is krytonite to you too. No need to take any personal responsibility in life because you can always blame the media for your outcomes.
@@matthewgaines10 some people are born into wealth. some people are born with life altering disabilities. To remove luck from life is just repeating what you heard and is popular. Its very rare to think for urself today man i do not blame you brother
8:53 I came to this realization last week. After seeing a seemingly endless stream of delusional women on the Godfather's channel I noticed it made me feel some type of way towards women. (No disrespect to KS or his viewers). It made me take a break and reflect on the content that I was consuming and made me more aware of how it is/was shaping my views.
@@lrrussellrussell8227 the content is/was channels like Kevin Samuels and FreshandFit. (Again, no disrespect to those channels or their content). The realization is that despite the seemingly relentless barage of delusional women, the real world is actually far more nuanced than what certain TH-cam channels make it seem and as such every interaction I have with woman going forward needs to start from that understanding (of nuance) and not on the assumption that she's like the rest of them.
@@cl8wnm5n agreed 👍. I also started feeling bitterness towards these women creeping in. Introspection and reflection was definitely necessary to understand why...
The disconnect I see from my observation isn't the positive message, it the positive message going against what they seen and experience in their real lives. It is hard to accept a message that tells you there is good outside but every time you go outside you see the complete opposite. What needs to happens is creating the communities that connects these good people together and then promoting as loud as possible.
I've learned so much about myself with the RP books/podcasts. It's more about the person, it's more about me, and how I can become better. it's not meant to be about hating women. it's learning why I am the way I am (in general), and why women are the way they are. I kept being made to feel like there was something wrong with me for not thinking like society and women want me to think. There is nothing wrong, I am a man and they are women. We are different no matter how hard society tries to tell us that we are the same. I can pull my life out of the ditch.
This is great ddialog. I like the fact both of you acknowledged that both sides will end up alone if people stick to the extremes of not dealing with the opposite sex.
I suppose over the years of rejection I have figured this out by myself that if you can love one, you can love another one too. Also I learned it hard way that you have stick with someone who also loves you back, otherwise I am turned off no matter how beautiful she is. You can't force love onto others. Yes, you also need to be out there, expressing your feelings and interests. However if the person isn't interested, then it's over. Keep going.
I loved listening to this conversation. She is definitely not the typical 25-year-old she is an anomaly and she is not afraid to spit out logical facts.
Great convo! I love that you bring great women on here that actually contribute to the convo not just from the basic bimbo POV. I followed Mary Jo cuz you had her on here.
The best thing you can do is rid yourself of the lust you have for low vibrational women and give yourself a set of standards for the type of woman you want in your life. It's better to have standards and never come across that woman than to deal with just any woman and end up paying the price later.
I agree that watching content that bashes one sex or the other will make you jaded for sure. The issue I see are the facts against one sex over the other in marriage and relationships. Women leave relationships 80% of the time. Divorce laws favor women 85 - 90% of the time. Men's requirements for women about 4 - 5 items Women's requirements for men, the encyclopedia In 55 years I've seen a major transformation in one sex, not so much the other
Ask any single woman what happened to cause her last relationship to end and 9/10 they are gonna blame it all on the man. They never take any responsibility for a relationship ending.
@@Jaydavid25. I had to guess what I could do better - yes. But it certainly helps to tell the person when asked. I ended being overly critical of myself which isn't healthy either. I did all the things that most guys would want, there were no fights and he said the L word. He went away for a month and said he felt different. To me, this was just how he felt and I don't blame him either. I asked my current partner upfront what he needs to be happy and those are the things that I do plus more. You're saying that this is women but I don't see the guys on here blaming anyone but women. At some point you'll realise that people are just people.
People just want the beauty that is portrayed in media and have to find a partner that matches their personality. Beauty is only skin deep so focus on the people who LOVE you for you.
Just got to say thanks for the work you guys do, up until recently I’ve been the kind of guy to just stay in and watch tv and games. But I saw one of these vids, it’s helped open my eyes. Now I’m getting involved with other stuff and getting other real men to learn from. One step at a time, keep it up brother!
I always thought teachingmenfashion was the only channel to truly understand relations and the needs of both men and women, but this video definitely makes me feel so much more respect for this channel. Keep up the good work guys, love the content!!!
I love this conversation. A lot of low value men are getting batteries in their back from the channels calling women out so their think it is only the woman as the problem
Forrest Gump messed me up. Forrest chasing Jenny the whole movie. It seemed like she secured the bag at the end instead of her being in real love with him
She had trauma (her father's abuse) which is why she felt as though she was unloveable and couldn't accept Forrest's love for much of the movie even though she did love him.
I’m glad you recognize the carnage of shows like Fresh and Fit. It’s an audience of people looking to confirm their biases about shallow women. Real high value men don’t talk to women like that. Jordan Peterson wouldn’t talk to women like that or even Denzel Washington, Devon Franklin, etc. I have no doubt they will drop straight facts, but they would also encourage and empower without adding to delusion. You displayed real reflection about your live shows and seeing how it felt more damaging then helpful. Value over entertainment. Kudos to y’all.
To be fair fresh and fit is for men who are going thru red pill rage. This channel is for men post red pill. Most guys will need the red pill to rewire their Brains. Un-simping men overall is a hard task. Red pill does this easy.
The point is to see all the RP stuff play out in real time. It’s a good eye opener to make you realize you cant just idealistically love a random girl and give her your all when most girls think a certain way. Especially if you’re young. Frankly fresh n fit made me snap out of it and end a toxic relationship with my “highschool sweetheart”.
There are good men and women out there. Yet our culture is so warped by detrimental influences on us such as social media. Platforms can be used for positive reasons but so often it's all about promoting "self". When people constantly seek self inflated egos the result are people who just don't fit in to your narrative. People in general endeavor to find a man\woman who is everything they want rather than being the best version of themselves which would attract a similar and fit partner to them. I'm not referring to self improvement but authenticity and accountability. Being accountable to exemplify the characteristics you are seeking in another is essential to lasting success. Being authentic to who you are rather than putting on a show just to advance pays off far more in the end - even if it doesn't result in a relationship it preserves dignity which is something the recent generations have been desperately lacking. When there's no sense of shame or remorse for wrongs we've done or people we've hurt the result is a shallow and unsympathetic society which are two of the greatest repulsive attributes in partners, especially long-term prospects. Be authentic and accountable and you'll get much further in life and relationships.
Everything you said presumes the person has a moderate level of self esteem. People with low self esteem have cognitive disorders that prevent their logic from processing like you described. So they’re stuck in a cycle of self insufficiency and that lowers their self esteem continuously.
From a black woman’s perspective, the first thing I noticed when I started viewing red pill channels was...wow these men really sound like angry black women. They literally sound like us when we’re fussin with the girls. But I never spoke on it because I understand the necessity of the manosphere. This video expresses the exact way that I feel about everything. Whenever I would comment to guy friends about, well men do it too...or men need to do better as well...they’re only rebuttal is why can’t it just be about women...and I’m like 👀 You can’t just point fingers at each other and do the blame game. Own up to your mess and do better. Plain & simple.
I get you’re point there is hurt and bitterness on both sides. Problem is neither side wants to take accountability because the hurt and bitterness clouds them
@@igpxmaster indeed. Some of us are. And all black men are innocent angels being taken advantage of? there’s work that needs to be done on both sides. That’s what ultimately clear.
I'm from houston, I had to move out of Houston to find quality women in abundance. And approach them in public. If they don't like me, then I can move on to someone who does. Now I'm seeing a great woman with values.
I find this whole approach thing quite strange. Maybe it's an American thing, but in Sweden where I am from, we never go around approaching women or men in public. Everyone does their thing. If I had to live in a society where approaching in public was the only way to get a girlfriend, I would happily stay single and alone for the rest of my life.
@@Tommygunn258 Why? Men are go getters. You think women are going to fall from the heavens and land on your lap? Approaching in public is the most purest way to meet and date women. Men need to reclaim their masculinity again.
@@AJ-nd4nk It doesn't happen in every culture. In the Middle East and most parts of Asia, someone is arranged for you by your parents. In my case, where I'm from, people only meet through parties, bars and friends. I find approaching in public uncomfortable because you don't know the person, you are only looking at their face and body and assuming anything. Also, it's considered creepy. If I went around stopping women on the street, I would be labeled as a creep and be accused of harasssment. I am an introvert anyway, so I have no reason to even try. And how many times do you need to approach to be succesful? 50 times? 200 times? I think it's all very weird, it's awkward and a waste of time. You can still be masculine and avoid approaches in public.
@@Tommygunn258 Fair enough. I guess everyone is different. I like going for things I want in life. Whether I get it or not is irrelevant. It's the fact that I tried and left no stone unturned. I don't want any regrets in my final days.
Really appreciative of you guys content. It breaks my heart the amount of men and women who are jaded. Either jaded through hate of the other sex or jaded by the “idea” of what a woman or man should be. Please keep going!
We are all imperfect. It starts within.. Always be yourself. Honesty and communication is key. The only pers on you can change is yourself. Men think first and feel second. Women feel first and think second. Relationships are work if you think or feel other wise you are delusional. Love is not always about sunshine and rainbows. Just my experience. Humility.
For me my first love pretended to be something else for 6months before she dropped the facade; it devastated me so much I didn’t understand how to deal with it and made excuses for her for far longer than I should have and was emotionally beaten to a pulp. Nobody is perfect but a full 180 in personality on someone you are head over heals for can be the most confusing predicament to deal with. I have no doubt there is someone good for me where we can both compliment each other but it took me a full year to even be ready to try again. I’m not the same guy I was before her but I don’t hold it over all women. I just learned I need to be much more careful. This an extremely vague version of my ordeal and doesnt even cover a single % of all the crap we went through but I can’t really go down that road anymore trying to move on. GL all.
There was a point in my life where I thought I would just adopt and be the best father without a wife, becuase I didnt like women after all the redpill content that I consumed. I like to believe im in a better place now after listening to both men and womens frustrations.
Honestly it's encouraging to hear someone actually wants to be a good father. I hope you have all of the experiences and fulfillments you are hoping for from this life goal.
Hi! Thanks for sharing. I'm a F and sometimes feel the same. I believe in God and one of the things that Ive learned is marriage works within the community and within that community you find someone as your coequal and becomes your bestfriend before your partner. Then together you share the same goals. I just want to share cause it has helped me too.
I don't fault guys for not wanting to listen to woman for advice on women. It is a tired but true trope that women are emotional creatures and when invoking logic they say one thing but emotionally they do something else. So while this woman might be different it is generally good advice not to listen to a woman's advice on women. I do believe too that each side men and women has gotten too polarized and I also believe that it has to do with selfishness. Unfortunately in this day an age you cannot just work on yourself without also seeing what your girlfriend or boyfriend is doing. Now the approach and what you do can be significantly different depending on how reception your SO is. You want to be with a person who is willing to help work things out, you want a person is going to put effort into keeping a relationship. Someone who is going to drop you as soon as there is any issue is not someone obviously that is going to last. Likewise you cannot be with someone who is SO different from you that you are essentially changing the entire person. That is not going to work either because the other person is going to be resentful and bitter because they cannot be who they are. I think people need to get into the habit of having someone whom they can trust and ask that person whether their SO is marriage material. I think in the heat of the moment it is difficult to make a correct decision where a 3rd party observer would be better able to make that decision.
No they didnt lol.😂 but i can see how you see that. Fresh and fit is not woman bashing like how red pill channels are because woman come to that show and speak on their experiences. Yet more like channels like replicant fish and other channels like that is more accurate.😊
@@bmgtab208 Frank Castle is a response to entitled women with attitudes being put in their place. If you have a problem with the "negativity" you should be blaming the women that act like that in the first place.
Also girls want guys who aren’t giving them attention. ego is involved. It’s more about getting this person to like you and not actually wanting that person.
I'm 99% sure "all these channels popping up" that are "negative" refer specifically to Fresh & Fit, and Kevin Samuels, among others. I could be wrong, though.
While this was a good conversation...I’ll address the Elephant in The Room: There are many who absolutely do take accountability, do the work, and are trying to (as Jordan Peterson says) “clean their room”. But when you do that, and you see how “messy” the state of things are around us, how can you not in sound mind become jaded? I’ve had this very same conversation with others about “nobody likes positive content” many times; each time, the reasoning for this boiled down to the idea that “positivity is not (or doesn’t seem) as real as negativity” because we have become so used to feeling/experiencing negative more than positive...that is a sobering, yet valid thought. And so - if all the people that are blessed enough to be “happy” in these times are the “quiet ones”, how does this turn around? I don’t have the answer, but that is something that it’s fair to ask.
No one said they have to do that. I love me a good rom com. It’s good fiction. But my fiancé doesn’t do any of that! Why? Because he’s a real man. He’s not perfect, but he is good. I think the moment people realize we shouldn’t be aiming for perfection, we’ll all be happier. The moment I let go of the perfect man in my head, that’s when I met my fiancé.
I love the conversation you guys are having. Dating life is looked at through social media goggles and it’s sad. People see an image and create an illusion of what they think the person should be like and if you don’t meet that expectation even a little then you are generalize.
I wonder if anyone can recommend a channel like the roommates but geared towards women. I love this channel because I see content for men that isn't completely negative (not misogynistic or telling men just to be players). For women I see either very conservative stuff (not my style) or FDS and... FDS is pretty misandric itself.
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Here the problem with this guest I saw one of her videos and it was flawed, I highly encourage you to watch one of her videos because she isn't one to be talking about the dating market. Haven't seen the video but unless she's changed from her last video then this video is moot.
Im happy you did this video, I lost respect for you did the videos about bashing women just because they did only fans or dressed in a certain way. That type of energy makes people think your toxic, judgmental and dehumanizing people and no woman wants to be with a man like that. And same goes with men.
@@GuidetteExpert OnlyFans is trash.
@@GuidetteExpert are you responding to the me or roommates?
@@RedRoseSeptember22 I don't think he gets it....
The best point y’all made is that about the happy women being the quiet women. That couldn’t be more true. I’m a happily married 30 year old, started dating my husband ten years ago and we have two kids and all the great women I know who are happy are not loud and active on social media or in the culture. The best advice is for everyone to escape this negative culture and society in every way not only relationships. Love what y’all said! Keep it up, spreading truth!
Amazing happy for y’all
But what you just said speaks volumes! We need more of yall happy women to become louder than these miserable women until they finally become quiet but the reason why yall happy women have learned to remain quiet is because you know these miserable people will try to destroy what you have if they realize they can't have what you have. Sad, but true. Feminism has become too powerful where it is hurting women the most now.
Spot on
@Vick Murray great speech but as I sat here reading it I couldn't help but be distracted and laugh at the irony of the word "Gentlemen" when women and the world don't want, reward or respect a "gentle" man. Man makes fire, digs the deepest, flies the highest, falls on his face repeatedly in pursuit of progress, disciplines when needed, bleeds, rips his body for more strength, sweats, stays Hard, and puts his life on the line to provide. Does any of that sound gentle, man?
@Vick Murray I also gotta disagree on finding a good woman all because you're a "good man" which I guess you mean living in your purpose. Yes, men should be the best they can but in doing so we have to be honest and acknowledge that when you shine bright you will also attract alot of bad people looking to take advantage or leech off of your greatness. There isn't some magic that suddenly only allows good women to fall into your lap, the best advice is to raise your standards and don't waste time on females that don't meet your requirements. Be the prize and don't take exceptions for the sake of lust or companionship. Keep it moving, the best strategy is to cover the most ground to make healthy comparisons that fit what you need in this life.
Guys that believe there are no good women, they manifest exactly that. Reality shapes itself to your belief. Us men literally blind ourselves to good women.
AMMMMEEEEEENN to that .
Laws of attraction as entered the chat .
Rofl that’s until she's bored of you and chooses to cheat on you and make you raise another mans kid. There are no good women. There are only women and they are all the same at the end of the day
@@TheUnique69able I feel so sad for you. You are defeat from the beginning in the relationship arena😪
Men get caught up in the "excitement" of the women they choose. Most of the time thus "excitement" is drama, chaos and anger hiding
Exactly!! It’s also the same way around as well. But usually when most men say that I sense they are bitter and angry. Kind of like that Red pill movement thing or MGTOW. They say they are going their own way but yet they are talking negatively about women. Toxic toxic.
Happy women are quiet ones lol. That's true for me. I was definitely more active on social media when I wasn't happy. Now that I'm happy, I'm super quiet on social media now.
I hear that @Ally Cakes,
And honestly it’s the same for me.
In 2018 and 2019, when I decided against my plan to commit suicide off a bridge, I instead turned my depression and frustrations with life toward social media and posted controversial and frustrating communication almost every other day for over a year online, picking fights with everyone whom I ever knew, family and friends alike, who were on social media, because I felt like I had nothing to lose and didn’t care about my past history with them because I just wanted to fight in the present.
But then CoVid happened, and I lost a job I hated, and lost a rental which I hated too, and ended up moving to another state. And amidst all of those changes, I met some good caring people who showed that they actually cared about me as a person, and that motivated me to spend less time on social media and more time around better things for me.
@@snicker12 super happy for you Nick! Things happen for a reason and I'm happy you didn't jump off that bridge. Life is precious and beautiful when you're surrounded by the right people and environment ❤️
Indeed ^_^ been happily married for 3 years now, together for 6 :D
What made you happy ?
@@maljones1398 getting out of a toxic relationship
Men and women need to be patient and discerning when choosing a mate, a lost art in today’s world...🖖🏽
So much swiping and scrolling and it’s a surprise that wasn’t an adequate way to determine someone’s character.
To be fair, patients has never been a thing. Most of our grandparents met and were married one month later.
Women don't have time like men do. Women need to be Tactical not patient
@@danginn6118 Nope, they engaged fast, but after that, they spent a long time planing the wedding day and also the marriage, they had a long time to discover if they were compatible.
@@danginn6118
The difference from back then and today.. Those grandparents were loyal and stayed together. Today women are extremely shallow and picky,
You gotta have money, be sexy, tall , big cock, and muscles..
Guys big tits and ass ..
Nobody picks a person for their personality anymore... It's all about looks and money.. That explains so many single moms.. Especially the trashy ones, because there are guys that are lowering their standards for a quick one without wrapping up..
It’s refreshing to see both men and women take accountability. If there’s no accountability, there’s no trust it’s starts within healing ❤️
That's why I hate fresh and fit.....its 90% negativity towards women
@@stayhumblea1115 depends. The issue most of these "anti women" podcasts or channels point out is that women have it easy from the start with their youth and fertility, and make terrible choices, because they don't realize it until it's gone.
Fresh and fit tho has a bit of a double standard. I don't mind the double on casual sex, but it's the fact that they glamorize it. While telling the women their attitudes need to change. I feel like there's a certain level of arrogance or self indulgence about it.
@Vick Murray I'm sorry bro but nobody reading that.
@@stayhumblea1115 then again, every girl on F&F lives in cliche big market cities which are the last place someone should go to find wife material.
Very well written Lala, I hope more people can learn from your wise words😊
There's a saying that I always heard growing up in Barbados..."Always love the person who loves you!"
So simple and yet so difficult to do for a lot of people..
I thought I was the only bajan here
🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧🇧
That seems a bit offputting since you may not always be into the person who "loves" you, I think it sends a bad message.
@@RedRoseSeptember22 some people gotta settle , what's better than settling with someone who is all about you
Not every woman is out here trying to be a city girl and have a hot girl summer
Majority are and even if they are not they still get influenced by their friends
@@igpxmaster preach
@@igpxmaster this is true. And you should keep in mind who the friends are because that says a lot about that person.
Rather than focusing on tearing down sub par women, up lift women who are exceptional. Females who engage in hot girl culture, are self destructive regardless if you give your attention towards putting them on blast.
As a Christian and married i see the hot girl summer trend a huge problem in our culture. I wish more young single women would have good girl summers 😅
@@sofiabravo1994 u wish more young ladies had your mind set ma'am God bless u
“I wanted men and women to hear each other’s stories’!!! What a great goal! If we listened and just asked each other questions without the ego, biases and really trying to understand each other it would be so beneficial for both sexes!
Thats a goal alright, but unrealistic. Thats not how things work in the moment. This is an interview, and that means a paced conversation where both people agree to the rules of conversation. Real world ain't like that.... at all. Emotions run wild and people wont check their ego, why ? - because people run their life off incentives and checking ones self is to practice being humble which doesn't fit with most people & with all of Social Media saying be a Hype beast.
Exactly.
Yess!!
This is why men should include women in these conversations and vice versa.
The best growth for anyone is to expose yourself to the other side.
Agreed! That “advice from singles vs actual married people” meme popped into my head.. There’s too many single men/women giving dating and marriage advice when they haven’t actually had success.
Right and something out of your NORM
Real men don't care what woman think!!!!
Hopefully it goes well..everyone cannot calmly talk about this!
@@sterlinwalker4279 okay...sounds like you’ll be alone for a bit, sweetie.
I agree what he said about balance, and these redpill channels being too one sided. After watching so many redpill videos I realized I was starting to hate all women and avoided them at all costs. I think men and women need to come together and find common ground more often like this video.
Same
They dont though, they're comfortable in the tunnel vision
Yep they use this kind of trick to make money...it help us to see the difference bad women and good women if you do not have any exemple in your family but that's it...
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor.
Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim.
The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged.
Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
@@TheUnique69ableYou speak facts. And sadly, there is no solution to that issue that I can think of. Women have something men can’t offer, and they can and will leverage that until men stop chasing it. Which will never happen. It is possible to abstain from sex as a man though. Takes years of practice and experience 😆, but it is possible.
I still think that the main reason why many men chase after a woman that doesn't like him is because of her looks
well if this woman was fat, ugly, pimples all over her face and greasy hair do you think she would have as much subscribers as she has?
A boy wants a trophy to brag about like girls want that pretty accessory to show off while real men and women just want a healthy partner to confide and grow with. I just wanna grow food :D
Or attention. I avoid these types bc I know they just want attention from any cute girl that will be nice enough to
@@chloebrooke6307 Word but I mean when a man is with a woman whose not attractive people generally say nothing but in their minds they are saying poor guy it's the best he can do.
@@ichoosemysanity6467 but wouldn’t you say most women are average looking?
It's kinda sad in a way though that Courtney has to explain that she's sometimes the exception. Some of these Dudes have never experienced a solid woman in their life... but you also probably weren't looking... fellas.... hang out with women based on how they treat you, others, and themselves not how they look.
So true. In college, I had many bad women experience and I started to get cynical about women not out of hurt but just logic. I was starting think this is how it is. Well I worked a job and my coworker was a woman and she was amazing in how she treated me. We became really close and I thought about the women in college and realized that alot of them are still single. They were also mean and constantly point out my flaws. That's when it dawn on me that I was around the wrong women. My coworker ended up getting married to her boyfriend. It really makes sense.
So true .... regular/everyday woman
MOST men have never experienced a solid woman in their life. woman like her truly r the exception.
@@juanwononeyuan sad that you think so . She is more common then you think
@@dallasbrat81 i'm hopin so! 🤞 i remain skeptical tho. humanity is getting worse every year.
i thought i had a unicorn, but after 6 years she stabbed me in the back. makes u realize that u can never really know anyone. ur hopes and ability to trust is dependent on ur confidence to be a good judge of character.
This is why it can be extremely dangerous in this day in age where people only watch specific content and only get recommendations for said content. It forms a narrow minded mentality. Because if all the billions of blogs, posts and vids you have been consuming over years has told you one thing about something, you're likely stick with that mindframe.
Content recommendation is very dangerous.
It's why I have that turned off.
The annoying part though is that I then keep getting ads to join FB despite them having unrighteously banned me. 🤣
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I was just pondering on this today and it scared me! I feel disabled in a way because of it.
Yup I'm going through it now
There are a lot of great women out there. You gotta get off this social bs and find someone actually living their life
Well said!
Don’t let negativity into your mind. See the world for what it is. Don’t be naive but look through an optimistic lense.
I am fighting to do this, but I see the world for what it is, realistically. It wont change anytime soon and that doesnt make me feel optimistic. How do you feel with certain issues going on in the world?
True ... look at everyday, the real type not IG Models or social media platforms
Amen
I agree, I also think a lot of men have been hurt by "bad women" because they have have experinces with "good women" that allowed them to let them selves get hurt. Can't forget that. The sexual market is stacked against men, but the marriage market is stacked against women - We're jealous of women because we desire sex and women are jealous of men because they desire marriage. It makes for some nasty feelings on either side of the fence.
@@unwelcomemotivation I like how you recognise that our struggles are different but they still exist.
This why I like roommates soo much they always bring on guest you wouldn't expect to see
More like they bring themselves to the guests places! 😂 It is a big advantage over others who are not willing to put on the work to produce quality content like them. That is why they growing so fast.
@@mackblack5153 true😂
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor.
Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim.
The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged.
Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
@@TheUnique69able I am not going read but PREACH
@Vick Murray ...
It’s because of your channel that I became a Christian. I know your channel isn’t a Christian channel, but you constantly use verses from the Bible and because of that I said “Maybe the Bible is something that could help me be a better man?” Now I am a Christian and I’m fully dedicated to making myself better. Thank you so much brother
As someone from the Middle East (where the alleged character Jesus was from) and I tell it to your face, the whole of Christianity is just a sham. A roman conspiracy to control the masses, and subdue the majority of the population to be weak and feeble
@@TheUnique69able thats cap dude, the romans already had their own religion and they did their best to try to stop Christianity, so your history is not right at all. Plus you can look at the ancient Jewish texts for support for Jesus.
Yeah i do like the implementation of Bible verses as well
@@itstriplem2069 j walking is 100% correct. jesus ministry exactly followed the same path as julius ceasar war path through isreal. it was designed to make passivity a virtue. don't fight for justice...just wait on god and be happy with ur oppression. "do not resist evil. turn the other cheek, and if ur enemy strikes u, give them ur other cheek. if anyone wants to steal ur shirt, hand them ur coat also." it makes people easy to subjugate.
there is a lot of ancient wisdom that had past down for thousands of years, doesn't mean it was inspired by god.
@@juanwononeyuan have you read the Bible?
I like her. She’s doesn’t sound like a woman who is just saying what people want to hear and she’s logical.
She’s saying what a very lucrative demographic want to hear. make no mistake lol
@@hi-je7km and what do you wanna hear?
"Happy women are some of the most quiet women" I can confirm that... I am very quiet, I have a great body that I dont want to show online, I do not look for attention or approval of others, I just live my life, I have an amazing relationship with an awesome man that is exactly the same type of man that most unquiet women desire: rich, tall, successful, caring, handsome, etc. I dont need to be showing my partner, the restaurants I go to or the trips. I am just so happy with my life and I have fulfilling relationships :) "if no one knows, no one can destroy it"
congrats some of us want to 🤣
@Jean juju So should I reject a nice man because he is rich, tall, sucessful, caring or handsome?! Just to prove a point?!
Just for your information, I wasnt even trying to get him or even try to find a man like him, he was the one trying to get me and looking for someone like me. I always dated (or tried to date) all types of men: short, tall, skinny, fat, funny, serious, europeans, asians, middle easterners, etc. And all of them were poor anyway.
She is a very well put together woman who can compassionately articulate her thoughts in a level headed manner. Absolute gem/catch of a lady!
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor.
Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim.
The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged.
Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
@@TheUnique69able only because men degrade women with sex so ofcourse women have to be more selective despite their own need of sexual fulfillment. There is a reason why vibrators and dildos are a multimillion dollar industry. That and that fact women are more successful achieving orgasms on their own more frequently and more often than with male partners.
should've been that at 23
@@satoshinakamoto7253 she's 25 that's a perfect age.
@@smoowear You literally made not one ounce of sense.
She has such an attractive, feminine voice
Yeah I love her voice
Yes It’s so soothing and classy
I feel like it doesn’t match for some reason
@@chabweezy9905 how? Her voice is a perfect fit?
@@Ronin-kk4bt I feel like if it was deeper and more smooth it would fit better
The sphere sees Courtney as a chameleon because she’s attractive yet doesn’t present herself in the same way as “modern women” and the typical behaviors attached to them. Shes capable of holding her own accountable , can show empathy for mens struggles and displays more traditional values. She’s genuinely part of the middle ground. Her channel is one of the few that provides alternate viewpoints worth exploring.
Well the funny thing about a chameleon is that bo matter if its red blue or green. It's still a fuckinmonet hungry asset coveting chameleon
@@jackwhite8238 Someone got hurt and hasn't recovered.
It’s too late. You won’t be able to turn the ship around at this point. She sees a market for her content & she is correct. Still, don’t be fooled. Some sucker will wife that up and be in family court sooner or later. You can count on it!
@@sardonumspa8113 Truth = She reminds me of this "Double Edge Sword" she playing her cards right. Manipulation is a women best craft, I'm not saying she this, but she also reminds me of Black Widows the breeding process if the male is not care he's death.
@Violeta Happy women are quiet. That’s the best way to put it!
NEVER focus on someone who does not want you.
Common sense dummy
Yes it s common sense but only can be done through healing and Real Self Love which we can all reach. It requires you to want it Strongly and be Focus on that.
Anything you want requires Deep Focus, Strong Will and Consistency (Rince and Repeat over and over again until it becomes Natural)
@@billyjean75 I mean it's common sense isn't it. it's like friendship, why do you want to build friendship with the rude or that arrogant person in your class, school, work place and so on. you would probably just be civilized with them, and it does not mean you care about them.
This is the one thing that I really disagree with. Actually, I'm a psychotherapist and I can say it's 100% wrong. I understand where they are coming from but they lack so much empathy to say this. I highly recommend they both educate themselves in grief and loss. I've heard him say this in other vids too and I am just at cringing point. To anyone who does ❤️ someone else where it isn't reciprocated, it sure does suck!! Take your time. Journaling often helps. Stay occupied. Now is the time for self-care. Surround yourself with positive energy ❤️❤️❤️.
@@elijahreilly9247 Yes, to you and me, it is. However, I am always amazed at how many people are out there chasing someone who obviously does not want them.
“What sells on TH-cam is Negativity” that point right there! I hate it here. There are so many videos that start and I switch after the first 15 seconds.
That’s life in general....the media, the internet, music, movies, etc. people gravitate towards negativity
@@YoungYahtz94 true and we have to be conscious enough to know that if it’s a relationship we want, we can’t listen to ppl who aren’t in relationships or don’t want them. Too many ppl wabt relationship but take advice from others who aren’t living the life they want.
On the bright side at least it exposes you to other points of view rather than toxic positivity
It applies to society in general, not TH-cam. Take a look at the mainstream news.
@@PatrickMenesesYTOfficial4945 that is also very true. I listen to both sides with the ability to deduce what is useful and what is not. I wish more ppl can deduce the same.
Somebody tell me what’s the current generation of men’s obsession with IG models?
They show their bodies, especially their booty for free
and its not even real
@@rainbowcity911 true. They know how to arch that back lol. And most get implants and workout so that you can't tell they are implants
Because at least 90% are addicted to porn.
@@gmoney537 imagine ehhhh
You are both some of the only content out there that doesn't just reuse the red pill woman-hating tropes and the purple-haired man-hating tropes. I don't have it all figured out, but I believe the truth lies somewhere between self-awareness and responsibility.
It always has been this way! Being absolute in anything in life, is most of the time wrong!
Facts. The truth doesn't lie in the extremes, but in the middle.
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor.
Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim.
The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged.
Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
@@TheUnique69able so?
@Vick Murray bro wut
This conversation is encouraging, I’m a business owner and very happily married and stopped creating content because it wasn’t getting views and/or likes. I regret giving in so quickly because more positivity is needed on so many levels.
She’s right, if you want a healthy long lasting relationship, those channels and contents are not what you should be watching.
Something I've noticed is that people of today are primed for contrarianism and negativity. When presented with anything new, the first inclination has become to start deconstructing it to find flaws, be it people or ideas. It's like if you find a host of problems before hand, you have a reason not to put forth an effort at all.
Yikes. True
Omg so true. This is a great observation. I’ve noticed the same thing. You can’t say anything without people immediately questioning it.
With all due respect, her point about “thats not the type of content to be watching if you want to be in a successful relationship” is extremely naive. To be in a happy relationship you need to filter out bad partners at some point. That type of content opens your eyes and allows you to filter a significant amount of women. Which is NECESSARY to get a happy relationship.
It's sad you didn't get very many thumbs up!!!
What part of the video I'm at 3:52?
I think it's more of, watching too much of it is bad. It's okay to watch that kinda content because it keeps you aware of how some people are. Things to watch out for and red flags 'n all that. It's not bad to watch it but it's just terrible if that's all you watch instead of balancing things out.
nah, i believe she means continously watching/reading that type of content is subconsciously programing you to only view things one way and is causing you to subscribe only to those ideals/philosophies on dating and relationships despite the amount of toxicity and negativity and self propraganda is included in the content/material. Overtime you refuse to accept the opposite sex as anything else other than what you believe to be true about them , thats the point she is making i believe
To have a happy relationship you need to learn how to communicate in a healthy matter. If you learn how to communicate and what's healthy for you, you will naturally filter out the bad people from the good. Yes, sometime their are obvious signs to someone being unhealthy, but for the most part you still have to talk to them to find out and watching some stuff might help. But learning to how to get to know people in health a manner and they make you feel will do you tons better.
I love that you had her on! She did a great job summarizing what it's like being a woman online and seeing both sides of not liking the woke modern woman but also men online who are entitled as well and low value.
Humans have a negativity bias. You could get a hundred well thought of great comments on this video, and the one egregious troll will stick out to you simply because of the negativity.
There's a book called 'the stress test' that outlines WHY we remember the stressful/ bad things: it's a defense mechanism/ survival instinct to avoid the bad thing, this thing hurt me,so avoid it,so think a million times how to avoid it.
@Vick Murray Long read, but worth it
Being the Right man is not easy. We have to improve ourselves. I am a Virgo and I naturally judge people it's something that I have got a handle on as I got older. It's very HARD to be the right person that you want to attract. Getting frustrated happens because as humans we want to see automatic success and results.
@@ichoosemysanity6467 Never thought the horoscope thing would come from a man. But it's true that judging is a natural instinct, I think it is the first step to understanding. Stereotypes exist for a reason, but most people will never work hard to prove that they are reasonable individuals.
This is an excellent video. Too many men and women have become bitter because they have been hurt. It is impossible to find a successful loving relationship if you are bitter.
Women are not a monolithic group. Men are not a monolithic group. There are good women and bad women and good men and bad men.
I know a lot of really good people, both male and female who are single. These people would make the perfect spouse but they are ignored by the opposite sex. Many really good people live relatively quiet lives so they are often hard to fine.
Love each other, and delight in honoring each other. Romans 12:10.
Amen🙏🏾
This should have a lot more views, so sad that the society we live in today do not value true wisdom and the truth.
I absolutely loved this interview! Shes right up there with Rebecca Lynn Pope in the fact that they both give honest, straightforward advise with their own personal experiences, as well as those around them. Great job Hafeez! 👏🏼
Channels like these give me hope in my dating life lol
If her actions aren’t superior to her words fall back, you’ll be saving yourself from dealing with someone who can’t match up to what you put out
If you take advice from people who are bitter from bad experiences they can only teach you how now to fail. Only those who are doing well can teach you how to succeed. There's an important difference between not failing and success.
Lol sounds like your throwing shade towards a certain youtuber.
Attractive women are a dime a dozen, a smart, kind, loving woman is a needle in a haystack.
The conclusion of this video is correct only if both sexes were equal when it comes to dating. The issue is they are not, dating and sexuality are completely stacked in women's favor.
Men are much more biologically driven by their sex drive to pursue women at their own detriment. It makes guys do the dumbest of decisions just to have sex. They are clouded most of their time with this carnal desire that impedes them from doing what they want. Women don't face that problem and it doesn't even register for them. They can go very long periods of time if not remain completely abstinent. It's an option for them that they can exercise on a whim.
The other how society treats dating and how the 2 sexes interact. It's an unwritten rule that guys have to approach. This relinquishs the guys power and concentrates all the power in the females hand. Thus, letting women play the role of God when it comes to male sex life and dictating who gets some (10%) and those who don't. Men are also constantly vilified when expressing their sexuality, while women are praised for theirs and even encouraged.
Whichever way you look at it, in dating and intersex relationships, men and women aren't and will never be equal.
Move to Romania bro. Not ONE SINGLE UNSUBMISSIVE WOMAN here. xD
@@d4mterro320 idk what country you’re from but here in the US (I’m in one of the most liberal states btw) I have a whole group of women who believe in biblical wife roles, like submission. I think you’re not looking in the right places my man 👌🏼. We’re out there! We just aren’t on social media, at the clubs, etc.
Awesome comment but the same goes for men.
Fax
just found this woman last week and now she’s on this channel, you guys are on it finding these new voices in the community
She is great. Her videos restored my lost faith in women and relationships.
You know I started to think that when a man becomes successful he’ll immediately leave or cheat because of his options. I also started to think that men were unable to be faithful because they needed sex all of the time. When I was consuming these types of negative media it really was shaping my thought process and I realized that something was wrong and decided to stop consuming those types of media and make a broad stroke of judgement on an entire community. 🙃 just know that there are good women out their just like I know that there are good men out there. It’s just now about fighting through the noise from our it past experiences, media and head because then we can be that person who actually chases a good person away. Thus perpetuating the cycle and adding fuel to those negative thoughts.
This was a breath of fresh air because as a mom it kills me to see what my sons will be facing future wise.
This women’s energy has my heart burning on fire in such a good way calm intellectual, balanced and beautiful I appreciated this videos perspective
healed Divine feminine energy can do that. Embodied masculine and feminine people can do great things.
agreed
This conversation is so essential. Thank you for this.
Ask a woman only twice and if she declines, move on. Chasing women is a waste of time for men.
I like this channel more now that he ALSO points out the issue with some men. Perspectives are becoming more balanced and debates fairer and more constructive . Subscribing
Welcome to the red pill 😂
I'll be honest, Redpill philosophy did open my eyes to the nature of things like me being the problem and I should get off my ass and get out there.
BUT, there is such a big topic of dumping ALL woman in the category of 304's... and you know, I get it, but adopting that mentality is bad, cause it's really negative, almost gives you no hope for a lasting relationship.
People always point out the issues with men where have you been?.. That's why red pill and MGTOW was formed so that men wouldn't continue thinking that only they are the problem..
@@Jaydavid25. True... God dammit.
@@Jaydavid25. there is a realistic nature to men that the world is not supposed to feel sorry for us because if we were rewarded for negative behavior we would continue to produce the same mistakes possibly leading us into Extinction. Obviously in this modern society away from nature we are basically going through a d evolution period
This interview or rather, conversation, is a breath of fresh air. Thank you.
At some point in time, we will have to reassess the utilization of media (television, internet, magazines, etc.) and its effects on human conditioning. It is a memory overload that honestly, isn't necessary and as a result, perceptions can become skewed and sculpted before any real world experience is formed.
People need to stop pointing at media. You control your eyes and ears. You choose what makes it into you mind. A grown, mature person runs their lives and makes choices. It's like blaming McDonald's for obesity when they just make the food and don't force you to eat it. You can't stop the production of negative ideas in a free society. You only can only control you.
Matthew Gaines ignorant man. Nations don’t spend billions of dollars a year on propaganda because it might work. They KNOW it’s going to work. Because the human brain is predictable as is behavior. You’re not in control of urself nearly as much as you think.
@@pathofpotential953
You're actually ignorant You hear things that were never said and then put them into someone's else's mouth. On top of that, you don't seem to think personal responsibility is a thing. You're just a powerless fool being manipulated by others. Good luck with life with that perspective. Accountability is krytonite to you too. No need to take any personal responsibility in life because you can always blame the media for your outcomes.
@@matthewgaines10 some people are born into wealth. some people are born with life altering disabilities. To remove luck from life is just repeating what you heard and is popular. Its very rare to think for urself today man i do not blame you brother
Most billionaires don't let their children digest any of these things, Steve Jobs kids never had a cellphone when he was alive.. i wonder why
"The happiest women are the silent women".
8:53 I came to this realization last week. After seeing a seemingly endless stream of delusional women on the Godfather's channel I noticed it made me feel some type of way towards women. (No disrespect to KS or his viewers). It made me take a break and reflect on the content that I was consuming and made me more aware of how it is/was shaping my views.
What’s the content and what are you aware of now
@@lrrussellrussell8227 Kevin Samuels and I felt the same way/\. I had to take a step back before I became bitter.
@@lrrussellrussell8227 the content is/was channels like Kevin Samuels and FreshandFit. (Again, no disrespect to those channels or their content). The realization is that despite the seemingly relentless barage of delusional women, the real world is actually far more nuanced than what certain TH-cam channels make it seem and as such every interaction I have with woman going forward needs to start from that understanding (of nuance) and not on the assumption that she's like the rest of them.
@@cl8wnm5n agreed 👍. I also started feeling bitterness towards these women creeping in. Introspection and reflection was definitely necessary to understand why...
Good for you for coming to that realization. I wish you much success!
The disconnect I see from my observation isn't the positive message, it the positive message going against what they seen and experience in their real lives. It is hard to accept a message that tells you there is good outside but every time you go outside you see the complete opposite. What needs to happens is creating the communities that connects these good people together and then promoting as loud as possible.
I've learned so much about myself with the RP books/podcasts. It's more about the person, it's more about me, and how I can become better. it's not meant to be about hating women. it's learning why I am the way I am (in general), and why women are the way they are. I kept being made to feel like there was something wrong with me for not thinking like society and women want me to think. There is nothing wrong, I am a man and they are women. We are different no matter how hard society tries to tell us that we are the same. I can pull my life out of the ditch.
The RP community it beneficial in many ways but it can become unhealthy if you over saturate yourself in it.
That’s what I’ve realized.
100%
This is great ddialog. I like the fact both of you acknowledged that both sides will end up alone if people stick to the extremes of not dealing with the opposite sex.
I suppose over the years of rejection I have figured this out by myself that if you can love one, you can love another one too. Also I learned it hard way that you have stick with someone who also loves you back, otherwise I am turned off no matter how beautiful she is. You can't force love onto others. Yes, you also need to be out there, expressing your feelings and interests. However if the person isn't interested, then it's over. Keep going.
I loved listening to this conversation. She is definitely not the typical 25-year-old she is an anomaly and she is not afraid to spit out logical facts.
Brenda thats the problem if she was the norm.... relationships would be a lot better.....
@@triplelexxx9407 That's right.
Matthew 7:3, KJV: "And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?"
Great convo! I love that you bring great women on here that actually contribute to the convo not just from the basic bimbo POV. I followed Mary Jo cuz you had her on here.
I believe most guys go after women in thier proximity which is average women
The best thing you can do is rid yourself of the lust you have for low vibrational women and give yourself a set of standards for the type of woman you want in your life. It's better to have standards and never come across that woman than to deal with just any woman and end up paying the price later.
This exactly. This is where so many men tend to mess up. And definitely end up paying in the long run. 🥴
This is the answer for all romantic relationships problems, yall.
I agree that watching content that bashes one sex or the other will make you jaded for sure.
The issue I see are the facts against one sex over the other in marriage and relationships.
Women leave relationships 80% of the time.
Divorce laws favor women 85 - 90% of the time.
Men's requirements for women about 4 - 5 items
Women's requirements for men, the encyclopedia
In 55 years I've seen a major transformation in one sex, not so much the other
Ask any single woman what happened to cause her last relationship to end and 9/10 they are gonna blame it all on the man. They never take any responsibility for a relationship ending.
Hard to take responsibility if the ex himself says you did nothing wrong or the classic 'its not you, its me'.
@@maries2140 No it's not... Just think about the things you did that might have contributed.. You don't need your actions spoon fed to you.
@@Jaydavid25. I had to guess what I could do better - yes. But it certainly helps to tell the person when asked. I ended being overly critical of myself which isn't healthy either. I did all the things that most guys would want, there were no fights and he said the L word. He went away for a month and said he felt different. To me, this was just how he felt and I don't blame him either.
I asked my current partner upfront what he needs to be happy and those are the things that I do plus more.
You're saying that this is women but I don't see the guys on here blaming anyone but women. At some point you'll realise that people are just people.
It’s the same for men tho. Kind of like what you’re doing right now. :)
@@maries2140 being too kind is also bad it is boring for guys you just need to have balance
FINALLY, a masculinist channel with sensible, useful messages for men!
- I just want to let anyone who’s reading this, and going through a tough time know that it’s going to be okay. You’ll get through it! ✨
I needed to hear that ❣️
Thank you
Stay blessed 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Alone is so underrated. Spending time and money.
Notice how beautiful and great women are, they are very quiet and about their businesses and still earn respect from the men they Have in their lives
People just want the beauty that is portrayed in media and have to find a partner that matches their personality. Beauty is only skin deep so focus on the people who LOVE you for you.
Just got to say thanks for the work you guys do, up until recently I’ve been the kind of guy to just stay in and watch tv and games. But I saw one of these vids, it’s helped open my eyes. Now I’m getting involved with other stuff and getting other real men to learn from. One step at a time, keep it up brother!
I always thought teachingmenfashion was the only channel to truly understand relations and the needs of both men and women, but this video definitely makes me feel so much more respect for this channel. Keep up the good work guys, love the content!!!
I love this conversation. A lot of low value men are getting batteries in their back from the channels calling women out so their think it is only the woman as the problem
This is why I just love him !!! Always willing to have open conversations, direct but not rude. Just an amazing channel all together
Forrest Gump messed me up. Forrest chasing Jenny the whole movie. It seemed like she secured the bag at the end instead of her being in real love with him
Thank god I’ve never seen that movie
She had trauma (her father's abuse) which is why she felt as though she was unloveable and couldn't accept Forrest's love for much of the movie even though she did love him.
Yeah but Forrest wasn’t a “regular” guy...
I’m glad you recognize the carnage of shows like Fresh and Fit. It’s an audience of people looking to confirm their biases about shallow women.
Real high value men don’t talk to women like that. Jordan Peterson wouldn’t talk to women like that or even Denzel Washington, Devon Franklin, etc. I have no doubt they will drop straight facts, but they would also encourage and empower without adding to delusion. You displayed real reflection about your live shows and seeing how it felt more damaging then helpful. Value over entertainment. Kudos to y’all.
TH-cam should come up with an algorithm to provide not only similar but opposite opinions so you can make up your own opinion.
F&F is for pure entertainment and seeing how ridiculous the city of Miami is. Nobody should take that as a proper representation.
Myron is so cringe, his only flex is playing the greatest RP hits
To be fair fresh and fit is for men who are going thru red pill rage. This channel is for men post red pill. Most guys will need the red pill to rewire their Brains. Un-simping men overall is a hard task. Red pill does this easy.
The point is to see all the RP stuff play out in real time. It’s a good eye opener to make you realize you cant just idealistically love a random girl and give her your all when most girls think a certain way. Especially if you’re young. Frankly fresh n fit made me snap out of it and end a toxic relationship with my “highschool sweetheart”.
There are good men and women out there. Yet our culture is so warped by detrimental influences on us such as social media. Platforms can be used for positive reasons but so often it's all about promoting "self". When people constantly seek self inflated egos the result are people who just don't fit in to your narrative.
People in general endeavor to find a man\woman who is everything they want rather than being the best version of themselves which would attract a similar and fit partner to them. I'm not referring to self improvement but authenticity and accountability. Being accountable to exemplify the characteristics you are seeking in another is essential to lasting success. Being authentic to who you are rather than putting on a show just to advance pays off far more in the end - even if it doesn't result in a relationship it preserves dignity which is something the recent generations have been desperately lacking.
When there's no sense of shame or remorse for wrongs we've done or people we've hurt the result is a shallow and unsympathetic society which are two of the greatest repulsive attributes in partners, especially long-term prospects. Be authentic and accountable and you'll get much further in life and relationships.
Everything you said presumes the person has a moderate level of self esteem. People with low self esteem have cognitive disorders that prevent their logic from processing like you described. So they’re stuck in a cycle of self insufficiency and that lowers their self esteem continuously.
Becayse toxic things sell more. Thats why bdrug mafuas are probably billionaires
I think watching those red pill channels kind of equals watching America's Most Wanted if you want to know about human nature.
Exactly. No one can argue they apply to every woman out there but they certainly provides you with a rough map, which is better than nothing.
From a black woman’s perspective, the first thing I noticed when I started viewing red pill channels was...wow these men really sound like angry black women. They literally sound like us when we’re fussin with the girls. But I never spoke on it because I understand the necessity of the manosphere. This video expresses the exact way that I feel about everything. Whenever I would comment to guy friends about, well men do it too...or men need to do better as well...they’re only rebuttal is why can’t it just be about women...and I’m like 👀
You can’t just point fingers at each other and do the blame game. Own up to your mess and do better. Plain & simple.
I get you’re point there is hurt and bitterness on both sides. Problem is neither side wants to take accountability because the hurt and bitterness clouds them
Let’s be honest today’s black women are out of order
@@aarongray1981 exactly. Accountability is the key word. That can only happen when we’re healed. And that’s a process some are not willing to do.
@@igpxmaster indeed. Some of us are. And all black men are innocent angels being taken advantage of? there’s work that needs to be done on both sides. That’s what ultimately clear.
Cool, long as you realize your fellow black women are out of order as well, we good.
this is why I despise everyone equally, makes things so much easier lol
Same!
I'm from houston, I had to move out of Houston to find quality women in abundance. And approach them in public. If they don't like me, then I can move on to someone who does. Now I'm seeing a great woman with values.
I am a woman in Houston. Not from Houston though. May I ask why you had to move from Houston to find quality women? I’m genuinely curious.
I find this whole approach thing quite strange. Maybe it's an American thing, but in Sweden where I am from, we never go around approaching women or men in public. Everyone does their thing.
If I had to live in a society where approaching in public was the only way to get a girlfriend, I would happily stay single and alone for the rest of my life.
@@Tommygunn258 Why? Men are go getters. You think women are going to fall from the heavens and land on your lap? Approaching in public is the most purest way to meet and date women. Men need to reclaim their masculinity again.
@@AJ-nd4nk It doesn't happen in every culture. In the Middle East and most parts of Asia, someone is arranged for you by your parents. In my case, where I'm from, people only meet through parties, bars and friends.
I find approaching in public uncomfortable because you don't know the person, you are only looking at their face and body and assuming anything. Also, it's considered creepy. If I went around stopping women on the street, I would be labeled as a creep and be accused of harasssment. I am an introvert anyway, so I have no reason to even try.
And how many times do you need to approach to be succesful? 50 times? 200 times? I think it's all very weird, it's awkward and a waste of time. You can still be masculine and avoid approaches in public.
@@Tommygunn258 Fair enough. I guess everyone is different. I like going for things I want in life. Whether I get it or not is irrelevant. It's the fact that I tried and left no stone unturned. I don't want any regrets in my final days.
Really appreciative of you guys content. It breaks my heart the amount of men and women who are jaded. Either jaded through hate of the other sex or jaded by the “idea” of what a woman or man should be. Please keep going!
We are all imperfect. It starts within.. Always be yourself. Honesty and communication is key. The only pers
on you can change is yourself. Men think first and feel second. Women feel first and think second. Relationships are work if you think or feel other wise you are delusional. Love is not always about sunshine and rainbows. Just my experience. Humility.
Apparently it’s rare for men to experience having good relationships with good/great women outside of family
Quite rare unfortunately. A lot of modern women are very entitled.
This girl is just screaming INFJ personality type to me, can't wait to see more of her content...very interested
100% i think her content screams that vibe and so connects to other injfs. Shes an idealistic realist in many ways and i defo connect to that.
I feel she's ENFP. Cause I've seen another ENFP men dating coach, they understand men so well and they are much more confident than us INFJ ladies 😅
I’m an INFJ and I think there is a high possibility that she’s that personality type too.
Her content is amazing
For me my first love pretended to be something else for 6months before she dropped the facade; it devastated me so much I didn’t understand how to deal with it and made excuses for her for far longer than I should have and was emotionally beaten to a pulp. Nobody is perfect but a full 180 in personality on someone you are head over heals for can be the most confusing predicament to deal with. I have no doubt there is someone good for me where we can both compliment each other but it took me a full year to even be ready to try again. I’m not the same guy I was before her but I don’t hold it over all women. I just learned I need to be much more careful. This an extremely vague version of my ordeal and doesnt even cover a single % of all the crap we went through but I can’t really go down that road anymore trying to move on. GL all.
There was a point in my life where I thought I would just adopt and be the best father without a wife, becuase I didnt like women after all the redpill content that I consumed.
I like to believe im in a better place now after listening to both men and womens frustrations.
Happy to hear that for you
Honestly it's encouraging to hear someone actually wants to be a good father. I hope you have all of the experiences and fulfillments you are hoping for from this life goal.
Hi! Thanks for sharing. I'm a F and sometimes feel the same. I believe in God and one of the things that Ive learned is marriage works within the community and within that community you find someone as your coequal and becomes your bestfriend before your partner. Then together you share the same goals. I just want to share cause it has helped me too.
I legit subscribed to her channel 2 days ago lol. Good mindset. Smart and intellectual.
I don't fault guys for not wanting to listen to woman for advice on women. It is a tired but true trope that women are emotional creatures and when invoking logic they say one thing but emotionally they do something else. So while this woman might be different it is generally good advice not to listen to a woman's advice on women.
I do believe too that each side men and women has gotten too polarized and I also believe that it has to do with selfishness. Unfortunately in this day an age you cannot just work on yourself without also seeing what your girlfriend or boyfriend is doing. Now the approach and what you do can be significantly different depending on how reception your SO is. You want to be with a person who is willing to help work things out, you want a person is going to put effort into keeping a relationship. Someone who is going to drop you as soon as there is any issue is not someone obviously that is going to last. Likewise you cannot be with someone who is SO different from you that you are essentially changing the entire person. That is not going to work either because the other person is going to be resentful and bitter because they cannot be who they are.
I think people need to get into the habit of having someone whom they can trust and ask that person whether their SO is marriage material. I think in the heat of the moment it is difficult to make a correct decision where a 3rd party observer would be better able to make that decision.
Yes supportive, encouraging, masculine, physically and emotionally healthy!
"What sells on TH-cam is negativity"
😊They just called out Fresh and Fit.
No they didnt lol.😂 but i can see how you see that. Fresh and fit is not woman bashing like how red pill channels are because woman come to that show and speak on their experiences. Yet more like channels like replicant fish and other channels like that is more accurate.😊
@@ramonejohnson3558 bro it's still negativity, you think Frank Castle is a bundle of positivity??
There's a difference between negativity and revealing undesirable truths about people.
@@bmgtab208 Frank Castle is a response to entitled women with attitudes being put in their place. If you have a problem with the "negativity" you should be blaming the women that act like that in the first place.
@D ii Y A you're right
Need more constructive healthy content discussing men and women
certainly 😄
in all honesty he did call that women fat harder than Kevin Samuels called that woman average I'm sure it was an experiment but it was funny
Also girls want guys who aren’t giving them attention. ego is involved. It’s more about getting this person to like you and not actually wanting that person.
I'm 99% sure "all these channels popping up" that are "negative" refer specifically to Fresh & Fit, and Kevin Samuels, among others. I could be wrong, though.
Mainly fresh and fit
@@fedditpiccolo1642 Great channel - shows how ,manipulative and two faced girls are.
@@stdu5559 but what kind of girls??
While this was a good conversation...I’ll address the Elephant in The Room:
There are many who absolutely do take accountability, do the work, and are trying to (as Jordan Peterson says) “clean their room”. But when you do that, and you see how “messy” the state of things are around us, how can you not in sound mind become jaded?
I’ve had this very same conversation with others about “nobody likes positive content” many times; each time, the reasoning for this boiled down to the idea that “positivity is not (or doesn’t seem) as real as negativity” because we have become so used to feeling/experiencing negative more than positive...that is a sobering, yet valid thought.
And so - if all the people that are blessed enough to be “happy” in these times are the “quiet ones”, how does this turn around? I don’t have the answer, but that is something that it’s fair to ask.
We are hard wired to focus on the negative.
If guys try to do what they see in the romance movies in real life they'll probably have a restraining order put on them 😂
No one said they have to do that. I love me a good rom com. It’s good fiction. But my fiancé doesn’t do any of that! Why? Because he’s a real man. He’s not perfect, but he is good. I think the moment people realize we shouldn’t be aiming for perfection, we’ll all be happier. The moment I let go of the perfect man in my head, that’s when I met my fiancé.
I love the conversation you guys are having. Dating life is looked at through social media goggles and it’s sad. People see an image and create an illusion of what they think the person should be like and if you don’t meet that expectation even a little then you are generalize.
Women do the same thing though. I’ve given way too much to a man that maybe didn’t deserve it. Men and women have a lot more in common than we think!
Me and my boyfriend have these conversations all the time!! Men and Women need to start truly communicating. This was nothin but facts.
I wonder if anyone can recommend a channel like the roommates but geared towards women. I love this channel because I see content for men that isn't completely negative (not misogynistic or telling men just to be players).
For women I see either very conservative stuff (not my style) or FDS and... FDS is pretty misandric itself.