+Armando Jerez I feel it means this....when u have deep family issues and came up a/around problem childs..sometimes ur on the outside looking in and it kills u even deeper to see your brother, sister, father, mother..go thru depression, addiction, And just overall hardship..so when I don't have an answer for your problems or others u turn to smoking ya problems away, drinking them away, getting high to balance out the lows..unfortunately we all have to deal w atleast one person in our family slowly self-inflicting killing their self..just my interpretation... god bless everyone though
I remember when Matty played this song at the concert and he said something like this "I want this moment to be between me and you, put away your cellphones, and forget all the social media, because this is between us." -Matty H. I cry that night so hard.
When I first heard this song , I just kind of knew -knew that I had found a genuine band that was unlike any other . Then I heard the part when Matty goes “oh I was thinking about killing myself” and goosebumps raised on my skin ; a lot of people truly don't know what it's like to go home to a place you hate because everyone fights and it's so unbearable to be there . But I know what it's like . And honestly , there's some kind of relief knowing someone else shares the same problem . The 1975 is so fucking rad .
That's actually so accurate. I use to be a heavy metal fan (Still am but just because of slipknot and a couple of others) but when I listened to this song, the very first I've listened to of The 1975, I fell in love with their music. This band is relatable and so unique. Love them.
Corina Frenchy This song really just ties the knot...it seals the deal on how much you realize you love their music. Their range goes from 80s pop-like music to this beautiful instrumental ambience and soft vocals. It reaches every facet of your mind and your emotions. Fuck, you said it..they're amazing.
Corina Frenchy totally same... Me is the first song i ever listened from The 1975. this song will always be in my heart, known as the start of my infinite love for this band.
Corina Frenchy I know how you feel... I have the same problems as you.... I almost started to cut myself and I thought about committing suicide... but then I just found this sweet escape... I'm still not satisfied I just can't stop thinking about killing myself or just cutting myself
"I was thinking about killing myself, don't you mind?" That lyric really hit home and caused me to start crying.. This song has been on repeat for a while now
+Colin Kurtzweil how is suicide bull? I'm sorry I just don't understand what you mean by that statement. I'm sorry to her about your addiction, hope you're doing well despite it. I also hope you never feel this low to see suicide as the only way out. I agree on the BMTH statement though ahah their older stuff is far better than their new album, saying that I'm going to their concert next month ahah! Thanks, I'm trying. Easier said than done I'm afraid.
In the first half of the the song it feels like he’s saying “don’t you mind?” Like ‘do you even care?’ And the last half he’s saying “don’t you mind.” Like,, ‘don’t worry about it.’ And I don’t know what it is about that specifically, but it breaks me.
Hadn't talked to my family in over 2 years, than I had an acid trip that really woke me up to eveything in my life, so I reached out to everybody and found out my mom is in a homeless shelter for women, my dad is badly addicted to drugs, and my sister is raising her 3 year old daughter by herself, and my brother moved to Oklahoma by himself to also get away from everything. I'm slowly but surely trying to make everything right again, and make sure everybody is taken care of even though I'm not totally where I wanna be in life myself. Its bands like the 1975 that really know how to bring out emotions in their music I swear.
hey, I've noticed this was 3 months ago. How's everything going? Most importantly how are you and your family members so far? I hope everything's improved for you and your family. I send my condolences.
Justianna Harrison The relationship with my sister has taken a 180, we talk everyday, see each other more often, I help her with her kid whether its baby sitting or helping her with money or whatever and things are just really good between us. My dad I tried to help but I was too late, he ended up getting himself in trouble and now hes in prison. My mother is doing better, we helped find her a part time job at the local grocery store which she seems to enjoy, shes also out of the shelter and renting a room from an older couple I know from my job, so shes doing that and trying to save money so we can get her an apartment. Slowly but surely were putting the pieces back together.
Cool fact: Jamie Blackley, the actor who is representing Adam Wilde in the new If I Stay film, listened to this song before the scene with Mia in the hospital to put him in an emotional mood :)
+somebody else I seen them live about 5 weeks ago. It was truly stunning. Matty asked everyone to put their flashlights on and the whole arena lit up as we listened to this beautiful song
do a little dance for him- how are there 113 people who also have men cleaning their window as they listen to this song anyway- it must attract all the window cleaners
I listened to this song all the time during winter probably 2 years ago. I was in my grandparents house and every night i would listen to eps and album over and over. My mind was in a very dark place at that time. My dad was somewhere on a therapy, i was just happy that he wasnt there, and i could spent time with my grandparents without him abusing everyone while drunk. But somehow i couldnt be really happy. I was quiet, i was taking really long walks near the river with my dog, like 7h or less. I would cry, think, lay on the snow, talk with the dog. I had social anxiety at that time so being alone was my relief, i could be free. Whenever i listen to the eps or album i have this feeling that i had at that time. I just start to cry. The 1975 will always hold a special place in my heart.
I was in a place like that about 3 years ago. I spent every single night walking around my town for maybe 5 or 6 hours. Every night, rain/snow/clear, didn't matter. My entire life was falling apart in front of me and all I could do was walk with my headphones in. The second I heard this song for the first time, It brought me right back down to that time of my life. Crazy how a simple song can do that to someone. Hope you're in a better place now.
I think I know what feeling you're talking about. The hollowness in your stomach like no matter what anyone said to you, you'd always be alone. The feeling that makes you stare at a spot on the wall and focus your attention on that empty void until it swallows you. Its that feeling that no matter how hard you try to fight it, it pushes the air from your lungs and all you can do is fold yourself up and cry. I can relate, but before my dad could get therapy, the alcohol killed him. Sometimes the only thing you can do to fix the hole is to force yourself into it. Gotta fight it. Just remember, your not alone.
The lyrics in this song are so powerful it amazes me. Especially the "don't you mind"s throughout the song. I feel like it could be interpreted in so many ways. You could see it as a way of him reassuring someone that he's fine to make them feel better and to trivialize and dismiss his own feelings. Or you could see it as a question like he's asking someone if they care about him at all. Like don't you mind that I have all of these fears and sadness inside me? Do you even care? Idk it's just so meaningful to me. I like to think of it both ways
Totally agree. At first I thought he was asking the people in his life these questions. But then I started thinking about the song in terms of him asking himself these questions. Like he's struggling with an immense amount of guilt over past actions. And feels saddened by his own self. Even the "I love you... don't you mind?" part makes sense if you think about it in terms of him struggling to feel satisfied with himself or struggling with self abuse. It just really hit home to think of it in that way.
Almost like he's shocked, apalled, depressed, and frustrated by his own carelessness and numbness to his situations. His life. It's like two halves of himself are struggling against eachother. Part of him justifies his actions or lack thereof "I'm sorry that I'd rather be getting high than watching my family die". Another part of him screams for him to wake up. To do what's right "Don't you mind?"
I am a mother. My daughter introduced me to The 1975. This song & Is there Somebody Who Can Watch You, kill me. I can't listen to either. After listening to Me I told her that I understood why it was her favorite song & that I was sorry that I put her through the torture of seeing me get beaten by her father, repeatedly. And that I should've left him sooner...for her sake. Even as an adult, when I hear this song, it guts me.
I always thought it was about him talking to a woman who he got pregnant who is leave him during the pregnancy. Something like that can really throw a man into a certain sadness.
I hate cliches like this band saved my life or this band saved my life, but the 1975 has really saved my life. They have made this year the best year of my life, going to their concerts, meeting matty and telling him how much he helped me was the best experience of my entire life and I really just love all of the people I've met through this band we are all just one big family. I love you all! Matty,adam,george, and Ross thank you so much
Curtis How can you hate those 'cliches'? As it doesn't matter what band or artist that person is talking about. Believe it or not but One Direction and Justin Bieber could have saved someone's life. Just because you don't like that certain band or artist, doesn't mean you can hate on those people. A band that has saved my life is Bring Me The Horizon, and I have been told that it's bullshit by people who don't like the band, but that doesn't mean they didnt. On another note, congratulations on meeting the band and I hope the best year of your life continues into the rest of your life.
I got on a plane in the middle of the night, don't you mind I nearly killed somebody, don't you mind, don't you mind I gave you something you can never give back, don't you mind You've seen your face like a heart attack, don't you mind, don't you mind I was late but I arrived I'm sorry but I'd rather be getting high than watching my family die Exaggerate and you and I Oh I think I did something terrible to your body, don't you mind I put your mother through hell, don't you mind I hurt your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind Oh I was thinking about killing myself, don't you mind I love you, don't you mind, don't you mind I put your mother through hell, don't you mind I hurt your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind Oh I was thinking bout killing myself, don't you mind I love you, don't you mind, don't you mind
This song doesn't necessarily make me sad, it makes me feel free and warm, like a child in a young adults body running fast in a loose dress barefoot, passing all the houses and cars in the dark. Holding his hand tightly, knowing that all my problems and pain are nothing compared to this moment
This is the first time I listened to the 1975 and I really paid attention to their songs. And the sound they make just makes me put in like... dreams like in cloudy atmosphere and puts me in peace. Been listening to them for a while now and then I came across to this song. I just break down. This is hauntingly beautiful.
I thought the other day “how did I get through all those depressing years of 2013-2017?” Oh yea, The 1975. They were the soundtrack of my melancholy teenage years, every moment from dancing in my room at 3am to bawling my eyes out, to laying in bed numb, to smoking with friends in the car on the weekends...we played them nonstop. Soundtrack of my fucking life. This particular song cradled my hopeless self, I wouldn’t be able to recognize me back then. The ambience and haunting lyrics I held onto instead of actually acting on them. Music really did save me, this band did.
People need to stop complaining that 12 year olds listen to them. I was 12 when i started and i didn't listen to them to be hipster or indie , i listened to them because i can find myself in the lyrics and their songs helped me a lot with my anxiety and depression . And i'm not afraid to say that i have anxiety . And go ahead call me stupid for thinking that i can't be depressed at my age . How do you know? I've been through alot in my life , and i wish no one to go trough what i've been trough . There's no age sticked on music .
This band is way to underrated, they're super talented and their music is some of the best out there. They're like one of my fav bands but hardly anyone I know knows them and it's too bad. They deserve to be acknowledged more!
Verse 1] I got a plane in the middle of the night,don’t you mind I nearly killed somebody, don’t you mind, don’t you mind I gave you something you can never give back, don’t you mind You’ve seen your face like a heart attack, don’t you mind, don’t you mind [Verse 2] I was late but I arrived I’m sorry, but I’d rather be getting high than watching my family die Exaggerate and you and I Oh I think I did something terrible to your body, don’t you mind [Hook] I put your mother through hell, don't you mind I hurt your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind Oh I was thinking 'bout killing myself, don't you mind I love you, don’t you mind, don’t you mind I put your mother through hell, don't you mind I hurt your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind Oh I was thinking 'bout killing myself, don't you mind I love you, don’t you mind, don’t you mind
Thank you, Matthew, for being so utterly vulnerable by sharing such a painful memory with the public. The solidarity such an act creates and the catharsis it provides for society is becoming both more necessary and more rare as time goes on. Your authenticity is breathtaking; I am in awe.
Sam Sommers I appreciate this comment so much I wish Matty could read it one day. I think his passion for music has given him the motivation to write such raw and emotional lyrics. And maybe because he knows he's not the only one.
The most beautiful part of this song is that on some type of level it's relatable to anyone. Even though it is his words and feelings, we all as humans have felt at least one the elements mentioned in the song. THAT'S why this is my favorite song, and the live performance of this is genuinely magical.
I heard this live, 2 days ago. Matty asked us to put our phones away and just listen. I got out my lighter and waved it with other people. I teared so much. This is an enormous thank you to The 1975 for playing one of my favourite songs of theirs. Praise. xx
I think he asks that at every concert because it's a really personal song to him. From what I've heard it's hard for him to perform it without crying. And I think especially after the Boston concert he makes sure to ask for phones to be put away.
I have cried many times to this song. It connects with me to my core. It represents hurt from a place I haven’t heard before. A touching song for a broken heart.
The first time I realized how important, genuine, and relatable this song was, was when I saw them a while ago and Matty made everyone put their phones away to listen to this because of how important of a song it is to him. He sat down and sang it and it just made me realize this song will probably always be so important to me as well, word for word. Totally a relieving song, and an almost unreal band.
I feel the same way! There are some songs i just like to keep them for myself and not share them with any of my friends. I feel like they're idk...my little escape?
Rosario Pouysségur same here. even before I understood the lyrics of this song, it already touched my emotions for ever..ever. "ME" from The 1975 is the one song I always come back to. favorite :)
This song has a deep meaning to me. It reminds me of being happy as a child, before the naivety of my simpleminded bliss wore off, and I realized just how twisted my life was. The midnight car rides home, where I'd pretend to be asleep, but I was actually watching as we drove by the heavenly wooded meadows, glistening with fireflies. Those peaceful summer nights. How I wish I could get them back. Before my grandmother passed, oh how I wish I never took her for granted. Now when I hear this song, it's like the sad realization of my slow demise, as I lose sense of what my journey was in the first place. Like sitting in the rain, waiting for a bus to come, hoping of running away to start a new life, with barely the clothes on your back. Those nights of staying up late and wondering where the hell you went wrong, to end up here. Those nights where all you do is drink, and watch the shooting stars pass by, knowing the only thing you'd wish for is to be back home again. This song is like a solemn realization of everything bitter and everything sweet, in its finest form.
this song don't make me sad it heightens my emotions and makes me feel alive. I think listening to a song where the writer understands exactly how you feel/felt is the reason people love depressing songs. Weather it makes you feel good or sad is the beauty in the music. The song is just letting us know it understands the pain. We are all human and that makes me happy im not alone in this.
This song makes me think. My mind is travelling to places I've never explored before. I don't know, its just, this song has an extremely deep meaning, as you can tell from the lyrics and I can't help but imagine these things through the perspective of the "characters" eyes. To me it sounds like an abusive father who has hurt his family countless times and is facing life in prison, but is apologizing for what he's done. As if he didn't realize how bad he was hurting them until now. Its just..deep
I'm an old fart whose musical tastes have never stopped evolving with what is current. So sorry to say I'm not up with The 1975 and I must have loaded "Me" as a freebie from iTunes(?). While cleaning out my tunes, "Me" came up and I stopped... replayed it... and again... did a search for the lyrics... felt a bit like a high school kid all over again... back to 1975 when I was a high school senior... and then all the angst of the remaining years rushed through... I have to hear more. I have 5 files for my music: Dance&House, Departed (for funerals), Good4Me (good stuff), mPad (average pop to fit my iPad), and Resist (hate/empower/kickass)... "Me" is the first song to go on all 5 lists. But I'm just an old fart who probably doesn't get it... or maybe I do. ;)
you are so awesome. I'm in my thirties, and I can't stand people even my age, or older, saying they hate the music nowadays or that the music is just not the same. They have probably only heard what they play on the radio or see on tv, which I agree most of it does suck. But there are still plenty great bands, you just have to search. The good stuff doesn't get recognized. Thank god or they'd overplay/overuse it!. Try third eye blind! They're one of my all time favorite bands. Or fountains of Wayne (not Stacey mom, their other stuff). I could go on forever.. Once again you rock!
Karen Scinto Thanks Karen... Been a while since I've been able to sit at my "machines" and create and listen... old graphic designer here... I'm forever creating & updating my music and also blending my oldies... Hope I won't disappoint when I tell you I just listened to one of Zedd's recent mixes of "Find You" to last year's remix of Donna Summer's "Our Love" and throw in something soulful from P¡nk and then Ed Sheeran's "Sing"... Yeah, gotta dance even at my age... my dog is a little sick and I have to take my cancer-stricken dad for a few road trips for treatment... Not to mention outsider jerks making my life suck a bit... facebook.com/EdentonCottonMill?ref=hl So music does help this old fart. LOL! CHEERS!
hurting the one person you have ever loved is like the worst feeling ever.. like a month ago I thought I had to post that "I didn't love him" so he could let go.. That maybe I would make myself believe it.. idk..
The feeling of comfort. Feeling of anxiety. Feelings of loss. All from a 3 minute song. Beautiful. A masterpiece. It's the reason I'm still here. Thank you
that annoying moment whenever people ask you what music u listen to and you tell them; 1975, lorde, nbhd, 5sos.. and they just reply "are you depressed or something" #canufuckingnot
Alice Williams i bet you only know she looks so perfect lol listen to their other songs because most of the lyrics are kind of sad,but not depressing xD you will like it :)
i know she looks so perfect amnesia good girls heartbreak girl don't stop voodoo doll english love affair mrs all american greenlight 18 long way home kiss me kiss me lost boy everything i didn't say and social casualty so yeah i know many more than she looks so perfect :P
"I put your mother through hell, don't you mind, I hurt your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind." When Matty says he put 'your' mother through hell, he's talking to himself. Matty has a brother Louis, which he hurt as well... He put his own family through hell. "Oh, I think I did something terrible to your body" which is talking about how he ruined himself through drugs. The song is called Me because he's admitting to all the things he has done. about how he hurt himself and others. An amazing song that can be interpreted in so many ways...this is why I love this band so much.
This song hasn’t failed me in 8 years. I listen to it every single time my mind wanders into the abyss and I can’t get out. A million tears later, thank you 🖤
+Angi G. I THOUGHT THAT TOO!! Like "I put your mother through hell" and "I hurt your brother as well" like he's saying he hurt his own family. "I did something terrible to your body" reminds me of his own substance abuse problems. "I love you, don't you mind" as if he's asking himself if he cares enough to fix his own life :( goodness gracious
+Erika Alcasid and also when he says "I was thinking about killing myself, don't you mind?" it makes me wanna cry cause most of us make the same question to ourselves as well :(
Before he plays this song at concerts before he sings he says, "this song is about me." and I'm guessing that's why the title is that. Because it's him.
Man I love this song so much like I can't explain it I just do. No matter what stage of my life I'm in, it's almost always relatable and i love the emotion and I just can't
thank you everyone for sharing your stories associated with this song. I'm sat here crying at this as it's such a beautiful song and the community we're all a part of is so beautiful♡
this was the song i listened to everyday when i came home from school in 2016. 2020 now and nothing had changed, this song is such a release of negativity and just makes you want to go on a long ass drive in the middle of the night on an empty highway.
I've listened to this song for years and have never listened to their other songs because I dont want to be let down. This song just hits me like a once in a decade type of song
Always brings back the memories of playing this song with my ex best friend at 3am whiles we used to have our life talks. Still brings me back to those times
this song speaks volumes without revealing too much, it manages to make me feel completely empty and fulfilled at the same time. It's astonishing how music affects us.
“I’m sorry but I’d rather be getting high than watching my family die.” This fucking lyric .
As soon as i read your comnent that lyric played lol
Corina Frenchy 420
+Corina Frenchy excuse my ignorance but i honestly dont get that verse. would you explain it to me?
+Armando Jerez I feel it means this....when u have deep family issues and came up a/around problem childs..sometimes ur on the outside looking in and it kills u even deeper to see your brother, sister, father, mother..go thru depression, addiction, And just overall hardship..so when I don't have an answer for your problems or others u turn to smoking ya problems away, drinking them away, getting high to balance out the lows..unfortunately we all have to deal w atleast one person in our family slowly self-inflicting killing their self..just my interpretation... god bless everyone though
Kahlil Jones that seems right. Thanks! appreciate it.
I remember when Matty played this song at the concert and he said something like this "I want this moment to be between me and you, put away your cellphones, and forget all the social media, because this is between us." -Matty H.
I cry that night so hard.
Tania Elizabeth I was at that concert ❤️❤️
I WAS THERE 💗
i remember he said this at the prague concert in 2017!
He did that when I went to his concert. He's such a genuine human being it's absolutely beautiful to know there are still people like that out there.
yep he said that when i saw them 2 years ago, not sure if it was this song but.. that brought back a lot of memories
this song fucks me up on so many fucking levels
mike omg
yeah
STYLINSON WHERES MY LARRY FAM AT
Omg my two favorite fandoms hello love u guyss
aYO FAM
going back to this song after you were happy for a while sucks. the song is beautiful, but the place i was in when i listened to it everyday wasn't.
I agree
+raina b. Spot on
Same
rain felt
Feel this.
When I first heard this song , I just kind of knew -knew that I had found a genuine band that was unlike any other . Then I heard the part when Matty goes “oh I was thinking about killing myself” and goosebumps raised on my skin ; a lot of people truly don't know what it's like to go home to a place you hate because everyone fights and it's so unbearable to be there . But I know what it's like . And honestly , there's some kind of relief knowing someone else shares the same problem . The 1975 is so fucking rad .
That's actually so accurate. I use to be a heavy metal fan (Still am but just because of slipknot and a couple of others) but when I listened to this song, the very first I've listened to of The 1975, I fell in love with their music. This band is relatable and so unique. Love them.
Corina Frenchy This song really just ties the knot...it seals the deal on how much you realize you love their music. Their range goes from 80s pop-like music to this beautiful instrumental ambience and soft vocals. It reaches every facet of your mind and your emotions. Fuck, you said it..they're amazing.
Corina Frenchy totally same... Me is the first song i ever listened from The 1975. this song will always be in my heart, known as the start of my infinite love for this band.
Corina Frenchy I know how you feel... I have the same problems as you.... I almost started to cut myself and I thought about committing suicide... but then I just found this sweet escape... I'm still not satisfied I just can't stop thinking about killing myself or just cutting myself
Yes your right on so many levels I stay in my room waiting for my brother to running each day in fear his never coming back
"I was thinking about killing myself, don't you mind?"
That lyric really hit home and caused me to start crying.. This song has been on repeat for a while now
Sophiee Cassiee me too
yup, kinda of a wake up call... not suicidal honestly, but shit these lyrics speak volumes
+Colin Kurtzweil they do indeed
+Colin Kurtzweil how is suicide bull? I'm sorry I just don't understand what you mean by that statement. I'm sorry to her about your addiction, hope you're doing well despite it. I also hope you never feel this low to see suicide as the only way out. I agree on the BMTH statement though ahah their older stuff is far better than their new album, saying that I'm going to their concert next month ahah!
Thanks, I'm trying. Easier said than done I'm afraid.
+Colin Kurtzweil oh, I'm so sorry for your loss.
I'll make sure to give your music a listen.
Take care.
"it’s all about guilt and my understanding that my actions have had quite serious consequences."
and still 2 years later it gives me the same exact feeling
Edit: 3 years later and nothings changed
OMG SAME. I lose it every time I hear this song. So many damn emotions.
bae weston am i right
so fucking true I'm weeping my eyes out
this song will always have that hold on me
That's why I love music. Different songs hold different feelings
"Im sorry but I'd rather be getting high then watching my family die" that line hits me so hard
Jade ^( '-' )^ i feel you my dudes
Same here..
I rather just be high...
Same
i’m at my cousins funeral and this is hitting hard
The way he says I love you so quietly like he's not allowed to say it anymore 😢
i read this and literally started crying so hard
💔
hurts
THIS FUCKIN HURT
AWESOME COMMENT
In the first half of the the song it feels like he’s saying “don’t you mind?” Like ‘do you even care?’ And the last half he’s saying “don’t you mind.” Like,, ‘don’t worry about it.’ And I don’t know what it is about that specifically, but it breaks me.
That's the sad part, isn't it?
Mate that's exactly it
Hadn't talked to my family in over 2 years, than I had an acid trip that really woke me up to eveything in my life, so I reached out to everybody and found out my mom is in a homeless shelter for women, my dad is badly addicted to drugs, and my sister is raising her 3 year old daughter by herself, and my brother moved to Oklahoma by himself to also get away from everything. I'm slowly but surely trying to make everything right again, and make sure everybody is taken care of even though I'm not totally where I wanna be in life myself. Its bands like the 1975 that really know how to bring out emotions in their music I swear.
+TheChronic2015 I hope everything goes well for you & your family - stay strong x
Stay strong 🙏
+TheChronic2015 I'm sorry, hope all goes well
hey, I've noticed this was 3 months ago. How's everything going? Most importantly how are you and your family members so far? I hope everything's improved for you and your family. I send my condolences.
Justianna Harrison The relationship with my sister has taken a 180, we talk everyday, see each other more often, I help her with her kid whether its baby sitting or helping her with money or whatever and things are just really good between us. My dad I tried to help but I was too late, he ended up getting himself in trouble and now hes in prison. My mother is doing better, we helped find her a part time job at the local grocery store which she seems to enjoy, shes also out of the shelter and renting a room from an older couple I know from my job, so shes doing that and trying to save money so we can get her an apartment. Slowly but surely were putting the pieces back together.
this is a song for long drives on quiet nights.
its music for cars (thank yous, ill be here till thrusday)
It is!
A song to cry to while driving
its a song to listen to when you're contemplating about killing yourself at 3am in your room.
Lewl we have the same pic
Cool fact: Jamie Blackley, the actor who is representing Adam Wilde in the new If I Stay film, listened to this song before the scene with Mia in the hospital to put him in an emotional mood :)
Just read this myself and freaked out :)
thanks now Im crying.
Crying now
Crying now
I can't 😍😭😫
once you see this live, you're fucked.
i hope that they will perform it in the future since i discovered them after the gig they had in my town. They are not coming on this tour...
i saw them 10 days ago. best night of my life. i hope you'll see them too! i'm sure they'll be back in your town
+somebody else I saw them 4 days ago and watching him sing this song live is just so mesmerizing
+somebody else I seen them live about 5 weeks ago. It was truly stunning. Matty asked everyone to put their flashlights on and the whole arena lit up as we listened to this beautiful song
this is so accurate
Song reminds me of perks of being a wallflower. Also seems very nostalgic
favourite movie ever !
such an amazing book & film.
Yes
I always return to this song. Every fucking time.
I feel you
Yea me too
I'll always love this song
omg me too
Same
Matty once talked about how each part ends with "Don't you mind."
And he's like "Of course, they mind."
And that got my heart cracked.
+P. Praditsorn ive been trying to find an interview where he says that but i cant .. so like can you tell me where he says that
omggg that makes me love this song even more fuck
omg i can hear this comment
there's a man outside my room cleaning my window and i don't want to cry in front of him why am i listening to this oh god
Literally same
same literally
close your curtains or listen to it in the bathroom
do a little dance for him- how are there 113 people who also have men cleaning their window as they listen to this song anyway- it must attract all the window cleaners
Jasmine Francis cry it out honey ❤️
I listened to this song all the time during winter probably 2 years ago. I was in my grandparents house and every night i would listen to eps and album over and over. My mind was in a very dark place at that time. My dad was somewhere on a therapy, i was just happy that he wasnt there, and i could spent time with my grandparents without him abusing everyone while drunk. But somehow i couldnt be really happy. I was quiet, i was taking really long walks near the river with my dog, like 7h or less. I would cry, think, lay on the snow, talk with the dog. I had social anxiety at that time so being alone was my relief, i could be free. Whenever i listen to the eps or album i have this feeling that i had at that time. I just start to cry. The 1975 will always hold a special place in my heart.
:(
Sending virtual hugs to you, my friend
I was in a place like that about 3 years ago. I spent every single night walking around my town for maybe 5 or 6 hours. Every night, rain/snow/clear, didn't matter. My entire life was falling apart in front of me and all I could do was walk with my headphones in. The second I heard this song for the first time, It brought me right back down to that time of my life. Crazy how a simple song can do that to someone. Hope you're in a better place now.
I've been there less than a year ago. True, The 1975's songs carry a lot of memories and feelings for me.
I think I know what feeling you're talking about. The hollowness in your stomach like no matter what anyone said to you, you'd always be alone. The feeling that makes you stare at a spot on the wall and focus your attention on that empty void until it swallows you. Its that feeling that no matter how hard you try to fight it, it pushes the air from your lungs and all you can do is fold yourself up and cry. I can relate, but before my dad could get therapy, the alcohol killed him. Sometimes the only thing you can do to fix the hole is to force yourself into it. Gotta fight it. Just remember, your not alone.
I remember I would just sit on my bed, this song on full volume with my earphones in. and would just cry.
+Katie Margen ...Is your picture of V XD Or am I just high on BTS and seeing things???
+AliceIn_ PsychoLand It's V yeah 😂
+Katie Margen i would cry with you, dont you mind?
I do this, every night
🤝
The lyrics in this song are so powerful it amazes me. Especially the "don't you mind"s throughout the song. I feel like it could be interpreted in so many ways. You could see it as a way of him reassuring someone that he's fine to make them feel better and to trivialize and dismiss his own feelings. Or you could see it as a question like he's asking someone if they care about him at all. Like don't you mind that I have all of these fears and sadness inside me? Do you even care? Idk it's just so meaningful to me. I like to think of it both ways
I've always thought of it as a question. it really hits me hard that way
Totally agree. At first I thought he was asking the people in his life these questions. But then I started thinking about the song in terms of him asking himself these questions. Like he's struggling with an immense amount of guilt over past actions. And feels saddened by his own self. Even the "I love you... don't you mind?" part makes sense if you think about it in terms of him struggling to feel satisfied with himself or struggling with self abuse. It just really hit home to think of it in that way.
Almost like he's shocked, apalled, depressed, and frustrated by his own carelessness and numbness to his situations. His life. It's like two halves of himself are struggling against eachother. Part of him justifies his actions or lack thereof "I'm sorry that I'd rather be getting high than watching my family die". Another part of him screams for him to wake up. To do what's right "Don't you mind?"
+Chelsea McNeil This really is an amazing and interesting way of seeing the song. Never thought of it like this before.. Thank you so much darling.
literalpieceoftrashchelsea yeah i was just going to say that. he's talking to himself.
I am a mother. My daughter introduced me to The 1975. This song & Is there Somebody Who Can Watch You, kill me. I can't listen to either. After listening to Me I told her that I understood why it was her favorite song & that I was sorry that I put her through the torture of seeing me get beaten by her father, repeatedly. And that I should've left him sooner...for her sake. Even as an adult, when I hear this song, it guts me.
Sending much love to you. It was not your fault ❤️
Don’t blame yourself dear :3
you’re an amazing mother for listening to music that your daughter loves
how beautiful and pure the heart of a mother is
Damn. Tears.
I strongly believe this song is about Matty 'talking' to himself, especially during his time as a drug addict.
i'm pretty sure that this song like changes perspectives, the first being matty himself and the second being his dad
alussa fraunch That could definitely be it. Only Matty really knows.
Yeah, he was. He was addicted to cocaine, and The 1975's newer song 'UGH!' is about his cocaine addiction.
Yes. I've been thinking a lot about this and I figured that's why he called it 'Me'. Where as in 'You' he's talking about other people? Idk
I always thought it was about him talking to a woman who he got pregnant who is leave him during the pregnancy. Something like that can really throw a man into a certain sadness.
I hate cliches like this band saved my life or this band saved my life, but the 1975 has really saved my life. They have made this year the best year of my life, going to their concerts, meeting matty and telling him how much he helped me was the best experience of my entire life and I really just love all of the people I've met through this band we are all just one big family. I love you all! Matty,adam,george, and Ross thank you so much
I love them too, and you are so lucky that you got to see and meet them! I wish i could do the same
You literally cannot bash on other people for saying that bands save lives if you're saying the same thing right afterwards. Smh.
Maybe those 'cliches' are actually telling the truth the same way you could be because they saved a lot of people you know. Music does that to anyone
Curtis How can you hate those 'cliches'? As it doesn't matter what band or artist that person is talking about. Believe it or not but One Direction and Justin Bieber could have saved someone's life. Just because you don't like that certain band or artist, doesn't mean you can hate on those people. A band that has saved my life is Bring Me The Horizon, and I have been told that it's bullshit by people who don't like the band, but that doesn't mean they didnt. On another note, congratulations on meeting the band and I hope the best year of your life continues into the rest of your life.
thanks. i know when i wrote that i was being a little insensitive and wasnt thinking so i apologize. thanks for the kind words.
this song will fuck you up at 2:00 in the morning i shit you not
+Iriana Cotto truest statement i've ever heard.
+Iriana Cotto well thats me rn.
!!!
I got on a plane in the middle of the night, don't you mind
I nearly killed somebody, don't you mind, don't you mind
I gave you something you can never give back, don't you mind
You've seen your face like a heart attack, don't you mind, don't you mind
I was late but I arrived
I'm sorry but I'd rather be getting high than watching my family die
Exaggerate and you and I
Oh I think I did something terrible to your body, don't you mind
I put your mother through hell, don't you mind
I hurt your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind
Oh I was thinking about killing myself, don't you mind
I love you, don't you mind, don't you mind
I put your mother through hell, don't you mind
I hurt your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind
Oh I was thinking bout killing myself, don't you mind
I love you, don't you mind, don't you mind
your profile pic just makes this 1000x better
Sierra Boire thanks
Nasty Boy Thanks!!
I've got a blade in the middle of the night.
Thx😁😁
This song doesn't necessarily make me sad, it makes me feel free and warm, like a child in a young adults body running fast in a loose dress barefoot, passing all the houses and cars in the dark. Holding his hand tightly, knowing that all my problems and pain are nothing compared to this moment
That's pretty deep.
Thank you
ethereal_ 16 I feel the same
ethereal_ 16 what
that was the stupidest thing I've ever read
Hauntingly beautiful.
This is the first time I listened to the 1975 and I really paid attention to their songs. And the sound they make just makes me put in like... dreams like in cloudy atmosphere and puts me in peace. Been listening to them for a while now and then I came across to this song. I just break down. This is hauntingly beautiful.
+Sarah Hazel Indie is everything.
+Jessika Eguía Dream pop.
Indie dream pop, among so many other influences and genres. You’re both correct!
I love you, don't you mind, don't you mind?
Oshi Webb aha oh wow it's like we're listening to the same song, wild
jim
how’s pam
Yes I do mind
The fact that this is one of Matty's favorites in their whole discography speaks in so many levels for me.
Has he said that recently? Like currently in 2020? I’m glad he’s moved out of this space, it’s been 7 years.
@@adrianaavila8853 yup, th-cam.com/video/75sjpkIcnBk/w-d-xo.html he has said so in this interview this was just posted last May 2020
This is gonna sound so pathetic, but I have listened to this on headphones for the first time ever.. I'm crying
Same
Let me get this straight. This is the first time you've heard this song using headphones. But before you've used earphones or speakers right?!
+Holly Traynor-Paget okay then there needs to be a support group for this because honestly same.
Let's start a support group for each other.
Matt Shaw gtfo
this makes me have an out of body experience, so hauntingly beautiful
Yes
spot on
Mhm
+☯head.cars.bending☯ ikr
I thought the other day “how did I get through all those depressing years of 2013-2017?”
Oh yea, The 1975. They were the soundtrack of my melancholy teenage years, every moment from dancing in my room at 3am to bawling my eyes out, to laying in bed numb, to smoking with friends in the car on the weekends...we played them nonstop. Soundtrack of my fucking life. This particular song cradled my hopeless self, I wouldn’t be able to recognize me back then. The ambience and haunting lyrics I held onto instead of actually acting on them. Music really did save me, this band did.
It sure is that.
People need to stop complaining that 12 year olds listen to them. I was 12 when i started and i didn't listen to them to be hipster or indie , i listened to them because i can find myself in the lyrics and their songs helped me a lot with my anxiety and depression . And i'm not afraid to say that i have anxiety . And go ahead call me stupid for thinking that i can't be depressed at my age . How do you know? I've been through alot in my life , and i wish no one to go trough what i've been trough . There's no age sticked on music .
yeS YOU ARE COMPLETELY RIGHT AGREED
Beautiful human, you'll be okay. we all will. I promise.
Hey Abigail, just wanted to say "I get you" 💞💖💓
Yes :)
preach girl, preach ❤
This is the type of song that you want the world to hear, but means so much to you that you can't help but to be selfish and keep it to yourself...
It’s 2020 and this song still hits . Dealing with a lot and music is my outlet. I’m grateful for it.
hope things get better for you (:
Same. I second above comment.
🖤🖤 things get better I promise
I just love how he says « i love you » in a much more painful way than « i was thinking about killing myself »
Who knew a song could make you face things you're guilty towards with each lyric, yet make you feel so at ease and calm.
This band is way to underrated, they're super talented and their music is some of the best out there. They're like one of my fav bands but hardly anyone I know knows them and it's too bad. They deserve to be acknowledged more!
i tottaly agree :)
@AndPlayItCool me too
Verse 1]
I got a plane in the middle of the night,don’t you mind
I nearly killed somebody, don’t you mind, don’t you mind
I gave you something you can never give back, don’t you mind
You’ve seen your face like a heart attack, don’t you mind, don’t you mind
[Verse 2]
I was late but I arrived
I’m sorry, but I’d rather be getting high than watching my family die
Exaggerate and you and I
Oh I think I did something terrible to your body, don’t you mind
[Hook]
I put your mother through hell, don't you mind
I hurt your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind
Oh I was thinking 'bout killing myself, don't you mind
I love you, don’t you mind, don’t you mind
I put your mother through hell, don't you mind
I hurt your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind
Oh I was thinking 'bout killing myself, don't you mind
I love you, don’t you mind, don’t you mind
"i'd rather be getting high than watching my family die"
fuck he put my feelings into words
Daldo weakens can slap me with his bass so relatable
Daldo weakens can slap me with his bass I'm getting high
Thank you, Matthew, for being so utterly vulnerable by sharing such a painful memory with the public. The solidarity such an act creates and the catharsis it provides for society is becoming both more necessary and more rare as time goes on. Your authenticity is breathtaking; I am in awe.
Sam Sommers I appreciate this comment so much I wish Matty could read it one day. I think his passion for music has given him the motivation to write such raw and emotional lyrics. And maybe because he knows he's not the only one.
This is really well written
The most beautiful part of this song is that on some type of level it's relatable to anyone. Even though it is his words and feelings, we all as humans have felt at least one the elements mentioned in the song. THAT'S why this is my favorite song, and the live performance of this is genuinely magical.
I heard this live, 2 days ago. Matty asked us to put our phones away and just listen. I got out my lighter and waved it with other people. I teared so much. This is an enormous thank you to The 1975 for playing one of my favourite songs of theirs. Praise. xx
I think he asks that at every concert because it's a really personal song to him. From what I've heard it's hard for him to perform it without crying. And I think especially after the Boston concert he makes sure to ask for phones to be put away.
What a world where you could hear this song live 😭
You know it's about time again when you catch yourself coming back here.
this song makes me cry
said her name was georgia rose… and her daddy was a dentist...
Such a beautiful song with such a personal story within. It's even more amazing live
Loved it live, it was so emotional! Every line he sang was a different story
Its amazing live, and Matty drinking his wine whilst flicking his hair around holy shit👌
Cried when he sang it live
i remember drowning in tears at the concert
Its 3am and I am here drowning my sorrows finding solace in this song.. Masterpiece
knowing matty wrote this for himself makes me cry even more.
This is literally heart-wrenching. I can't even describe how many deep emotions this brings out.
This song is pure perfection .. The way Matty says "I love you, don't you mind don't you mind" is so heartbreaking
Its 4:50 am and im listening to this because its summer break and im just so depressed. ugh, life am i right??
Same :(
sameeeee
I'm living your life one month later. o.o
same ),:
same
I have cried many times to this song. It connects with me to my core. It represents hurt from a place I haven’t heard before. A touching song for a broken heart.
coming here after 5 years feels surreal
The first time I realized how important, genuine, and relatable this song was, was when I saw them a while ago and Matty made everyone put their phones away to listen to this because of how important of a song it is to him. He sat down and sang it and it just made me realize this song will probably always be so important to me as well, word for word. Totally a relieving song, and an almost unreal band.
i'm not feeling good mentally right now and this is helping tons. thank you.
mia I love your profile pic, stay alive fren |-/
are you ok now?
this band makes me feel things that no other band could make me feel
i fell in love in the first intro. totally love it!!!
"I was thinking bout killin myself don't you mind?
I love you don't you mind don't you mind"
That's when I started crying....
same actually
how many men have told you that and you never cried
eyder gutierrez its not that at all actually. I only cried because ive said that to a man before and....he actually didnt mind. He didnt give af
been listening to this song since 2014 & still tears me up every time
Same🖤🖤🖤
Same❤️❤️❤️
It's almost 3 am. I haven't slept for 40 hours and I'm half drunk, listening to The 1975. What a beautiful time to be alive.
What a beautiful
Coming down to 1975. Good stuff
i'm here again to say I am extremely selfish and still want this song to be a little secret of mine
I feel the same way! There are some songs i just like to keep them for myself and not share them with any of my friends. I feel like they're idk...my little escape?
Rosario Pouysségur OMG i thought i was the only one that felt that way xD i want them to by my getaway that no one knows about
Rosario Pouysségur same here. even before I understood the lyrics of this song, it already touched my emotions for ever..ever. "ME" from The 1975 is the one song I always come back to. favorite :)
dazzling luna I feel the exact same way. it's hard to explain, but I totally get what you mean
Erin Matthew this is so comforting for some reason
Joe. If you ever come across this, i still care. Sorry.
This comment made me cry. I'm sorry if you lost someone
Beautychictips awe, dont cry! Thanks for caring though. c:
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Joe Soria that you Joe?
This song has a deep meaning to me.
It reminds me of being happy as a child, before the naivety of my simpleminded bliss wore off, and I realized just how twisted my life was.
The midnight car rides home, where I'd pretend to be asleep, but I was actually watching as we drove by the heavenly wooded meadows, glistening with fireflies. Those peaceful summer nights. How I wish I could get them back.
Before my grandmother passed, oh how I wish I never took her for granted.
Now when I hear this song, it's like the sad realization of my slow demise, as I lose sense of what my journey was in the first place.
Like sitting in the rain, waiting for a bus to come, hoping of running away to start a new life, with barely the clothes on your back.
Those nights of staying up late and wondering where the hell you went wrong, to end up here.
Those nights where all you do is drink, and watch the shooting stars pass by, knowing the only thing you'd wish for is to be back home again.
This song is like a solemn realization of everything bitter and everything sweet, in its finest form.
I hate when personal songs like this get thumbs down :(
god i wish this was on the iTunes album, it's absolutely perfect
***** but not in the US....sadness
Misty Emde if you buy the cd at target the Music For Cars EP comes with their album as an exclusive.
letsgetreckless thank you! I will go see if I can find it.
obsessed doesnt even begin to describe how i feel about this song
this song don't make me sad it heightens my emotions and makes me feel alive. I think listening to a song where the writer understands exactly how you feel/felt is the reason people love depressing songs. Weather it makes you feel good or sad is the beauty in the music. The song is just letting us know it understands the pain. We are all human and that makes me happy im not alone in this.
Can I just say how much I adore not only The 1975 but their fan base as well?
Y'all are just lovely.
I see you're one of us then. :) the world needs love. If only more people actually listened to The 1975...
Ikr?? Like seriously, turn off Future, Chris Brown etc. and let's hear more Matty!
This song makes me think. My mind is travelling to places I've never explored before. I don't know, its just, this song has an extremely deep meaning, as you can tell from the lyrics and I can't help but imagine these things through the perspective of the "characters" eyes. To me it sounds like an abusive father who has hurt his family countless times and is facing life in prison, but is apologizing for what he's done. As if he didn't realize how bad he was hurting them until now.
Its just..deep
I'm an old fart whose musical tastes have never stopped evolving with what is current. So sorry to say I'm not up with The 1975 and I must have loaded "Me" as a freebie from iTunes(?). While cleaning out my tunes, "Me" came up and I stopped... replayed it... and again... did a search for the lyrics... felt a bit like a high school kid all over again... back to 1975 when I was a high school senior... and then all the angst of the remaining years rushed through... I have to hear more. I have 5 files for my music: Dance&House, Departed (for funerals), Good4Me (good stuff), mPad (average pop to fit my iPad), and Resist (hate/empower/kickass)... "Me" is the first song to go on all 5 lists. But I'm just an old fart who probably doesn't get it... or maybe I do. ;)
Do you need some song recommendations? haha
I am in my 50s and LOVE this band, they are so talented.Also, check out The London Grammar Enjoy x
you are so awesome. I'm in my thirties, and I can't stand people even my age, or older, saying they hate the music nowadays or that the music is just not the same. They have probably only heard what they play on the radio or see on tv, which I agree most of it does suck. But there are still plenty great bands, you just have to search. The good stuff doesn't get recognized. Thank god or they'd overplay/overuse it!. Try third eye blind! They're one of my all time favorite bands. Or fountains of Wayne (not Stacey mom, their other stuff). I could go on forever.. Once again you rock!
Karen Scinto Thanks Karen... Been a while since I've been able to sit at my "machines" and create and listen... old graphic designer here... I'm forever creating & updating my music and also blending my oldies... Hope I won't disappoint when I tell you I just listened to one of Zedd's recent mixes of "Find You" to last year's remix of Donna Summer's "Our Love" and throw in something soulful from P¡nk and then Ed Sheeran's "Sing"... Yeah, gotta dance even at my age... my dog is a little sick and I have to take my cancer-stricken dad for a few road trips for treatment... Not to mention outsider jerks making my life suck a bit... facebook.com/EdentonCottonMill?ref=hl So music does help this old fart. LOL! CHEERS!
I love all their catchy stuff, but this and antichrist will forever be my all time favourites. They just tear at you heart
7 years and im still here :)
happy 2020!
Same!
i lied. im still in love with you.. Absolutely always will be. i will always care , darling. i hope you are well
i feel you dude. it hurts.
hurting the one person you have ever loved is like the worst feeling ever.. like a month ago I thought I had to post that "I didn't love him" so he could let go.. That maybe I would make myself believe it.. idk..
The feeling of comfort. Feeling of anxiety. Feelings of loss. All from a 3 minute song. Beautiful. A masterpiece. It's the reason I'm still here. Thank you
This song is so beautiful it hurts
Listen to the song once as
"Don't you mind."
Then have a listen as
"Don't you mind?"
that annoying moment whenever people ask you what music u listen to and you tell them; 1975, lorde, nbhd, 5sos.. and they just reply "are you depressed or something" #canufuckingnot
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Alice Williams i bet you only know she looks so perfect lol listen to their other songs because most of the lyrics are kind of sad,but not depressing xD you will like it :)
Same tbh
i know she looks so perfect amnesia good girls heartbreak girl don't stop voodoo doll english love affair mrs all american greenlight 18 long way home kiss me kiss me lost boy everything i didn't say and social casualty so yeah i know many more than she looks so perfect :P
Besides amnesia, 5sos hasnt released any sad song ?
They say “Music for cars” I say “ Music that makes you want to run out at night and sit on top of the roof and look at the stars “
this song just puts me in my feels, it's crazy how it speaks to me....but don't you mind.
I doņ't mind :D
matty always gets emotional when he always sing this love and i just love that he puts his emotion to his songs.
"I put your mother through hell, don't you mind,
I hurt your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind."
When Matty says he put 'your' mother through hell, he's talking to himself. Matty has a brother Louis, which he hurt as well... He put his own family through hell.
"Oh, I think I did something terrible to your body" which is talking about how he ruined himself through drugs. The song is called Me because he's admitting to all the things he has done. about how he hurt himself and others.
An amazing song that can be interpreted in so many ways...this is why I love this band so much.
This is a good theory, but I'm pretty sure this is about Matty's parents splitting up and he's talking to his dad in this song.
last night, i saw him sing it live, it was so beautiful and pure, i cried..
This song hasn’t failed me in 8 years. I listen to it every single time my mind wanders into the abyss and I can’t get out. A million tears later, thank you 🖤
That saxophone bit is unbelievable and it’s like every time I hear it, it’s as if I’m hearing it for the first time.
"I'm sorry, but I'd rather be getting high than watching my family die" I needed to hear this for a long time
Am I the only one who thought that he might be talking to himself? This way this song fucked me up even more than it did before...
+Angi G. I THOUGHT THAT TOO!! Like "I put your mother through hell" and "I hurt your brother as well" like he's saying he hurt his own family. "I did something terrible to your body" reminds me of his own substance abuse problems. "I love you, don't you mind" as if he's asking himself if he cares enough to fix his own life :( goodness gracious
+Erika Alcasid and also when he says "I was thinking about killing myself, don't you mind?" it makes me wanna cry cause most of us make the same question to ourselves as well :(
+Angi G. That would explain why its called 'Me'.
I've always looked at it from the perspective of his father
Before he plays this song at concerts before he sings he says, "this song is about me." and I'm guessing that's why the title is that. Because it's him.
Im falling in love with the 1975 lately. They put my thoughts in song lyrics and it makes my mind so calm for once.
Man I love this song so much like I can't explain it I just do. No matter what stage of my life I'm in, it's almost always relatable and i love the emotion and I just can't
thank you everyone for sharing your stories associated with this song. I'm sat here crying at this as it's such a beautiful song and the community we're all a part of is so beautiful♡
music for cars is my fav ep
Same with me, I also really like the 'sex ep'
***** I laughed so hard and it's not eve that funny... what's wrong with me? xD
this was the song i listened to everyday when i came home from school in 2016. 2020 now and nothing had changed, this song is such a release of negativity and just makes you want to go on a long ass drive in the middle of the night on an empty highway.
I have never heard a song that carries this much emotion in my life it's something else
I've listened to this song for years and have never listened to their other songs because I dont want to be let down. This song just hits me like a once in a decade type of song
i love this song
Always brings back the memories of playing this song with my ex best friend at 3am whiles we used to have our life talks. Still brings me back to those times
It should be illegal to write songs that hurt this much 😪. This song is mine 💔. It means so much to me.
this song speaks volumes without revealing too much, it manages to make me feel completely empty and fulfilled at the same time. It's astonishing how music affects us.
I honestly get chills every time I listen to this long