@@1badjane493 it's ok, you can call me jezzybell. That doesn't really affect me because I don't believe in your whole reasoning behind why the word is bad. I can be a slut and that's totally fine because unlike you, I actually enjoy freedom. And saying I'm going to burn? Wow! There truly is no hate like Christian love. Want to have a phone conversation?
@MarkDriscollMinistries This cant be 100%. Christ himself did not marry. The spiritual conflict within a person is not resolved by merely maintaining a status quo. We do have to grow as men AND women, but it doesnt mean that the men who came before us, many or most of whom were motivated to do all of what you said through lust, greed, worldliness, shallow mindedness, and ego were altogetger right. Or else we'd have nothing to grow up to and away from... If you follow Christ, his message is a spiritual one that did not directly involve any of what you are saying. I cant trust your message even if it is well intentioned. This is not to say that what you are saying is wrong... but it is only one barren and lifeless side of the story. We all know when we are walking in the Spirit and not weak in the flesh... spiritual freedom has always been gradually won like the story of Christ in the desert. In an odd way, rejection of stress and faith in the worldly things you demand, makes at least myself better at doing them... and better at doing them honestly/naturally. And i think this may be because any orderly thing i do in this world must be done in the Service of God and for the sake of heaven for all his Creation, and not primarily for me to be the "Best" or "Good" man. I am Willing to believe that God Will Guide me if my Goal is Right... that I am dependent on God... if not then what are we even believing in?
@@MotownModelsYes in seeing how Christians interact with people like you am i increasingly disillusioned. Certain messages seem to lead them to settle and feel comfortable in certain ways of being. The change we need begins as an internal one that it expresses itself to the outside... it cannot just a surface appearance doing of things on the outside. It just cant be and i refuse to believe it. Edit: But i will say this as i am being fully transparent. My experience has shown me that what you are calling "freedom" is by far the exact opposite. The Christian message is still a beautiful and saving one from what i can gather, and just because individuals can spurn you while like me-- attempting to call themselves Christian or while attempting their best to properly interpret things (theyre only human); it doesnt mean that you have to select an opposite extreme as your solution away from them. If you were outside the flesh, would you truly direct it to do such frivolous things with inevitable internal consequences? If the answer is no, then did you ever truly exercise your own freedom when you chose those things? The sane question can apply to Mark Driscoll's message in fairness--i dont think God made billions of individuals to grow ideally in that one way he advises. Many have tried and many have failed as a result of even doing it.
ALL because these men were raised by their mothers WITHOUT a father. I was one of them. Born in 1980 coddled by my mother while my father was belittled and removed. I ended up a homeless alcoholic drug addict and by the grace of God finally grew up. I am now the father of 2 children and am doing everything I can with the help of Jesus Christ to take care of them and their mother. Someday I will rekindle the relationship with my mother when she is done hating men.
She May need a gentle view and voice before continuing to abandon her. She is missing real love. She needs Jesus and God. But you could be that bridge.
I’m sure ur Mother LOVES U VERY MUCH !!! Big difference between being a Mother & hating other men…U must forgive her cause GOD forgives us…U only have 1 Mother, u can have many Dads !!! Forgive & renew ur relationship w/ her…A Mothers Love is very stronge…May JESUS Help u w/ this & Bless Ur whole Family…💜💜✝️✝️🙌🙌🕊️🕊️✨✨🥰🥰🙏🙏
You cannot have one mother and many dads. That’s apart of the problem with our culture and society. We act like the father is replaceable and/or interchangeable.
Well my dad behaves based on emotions and doesn't think rational and places himself above everyone else and is just an all around despicable human... So don't let this sermon be the the be all end all of resolution
God is our dad. If you follow God's teachings he will gladly be your dad. I saw many people turn their life around for the better after they found God. Thank God.@@RickJames-qq1re
@@RickJames-qq1re The man who raises you to be a man doesn't have to be your father, if the father is unable to raise a man. Could be an uncle, older brother, or grandfather, or some other figure like that.
Nah, imo youre just hearing a nice monologue--a good man's opinion about how he wants society to be and what he thinks will save many. I THINK dissenting voices and comments are deleted here too and so you only receive this one man's well spoken opinion with very little apparent counter opinion(and they dont need to be combative or aggressive commebts to be deleted either). I say that he may be boiling down and distilling virtue to his own narrow path. And though I respect his point of view, peoples' experiences show that he clearly hasnt stumbled upon a panacea. The path he mentioned has not protected many people from spiritual or even earthly ruin. Those who are neither prepared nor compatible with it have made systems dysfunctional and dreadful. Those who are compatible with it often become bullies of those who they consider weak or those who God would have likely fulfilled had they simply gone a different route. I assume that this mah's advice backfires often only because for many the motivation to act on this kind of advice is based on a belief and fear of the world rather than a Faith in one's own sufficiency and dependence in God. Im not saying that he is wrong at all, but maybe that the well-adjusted life he has won is not the goal, but rather the symptom of doing things right on the inside. If it is the goal before God... well that becomes idolatry and worship of the god of this world: Satan... doesnt it? Maybe im wrong, but i still want this side of the story to be considered. I believe i had something more worthy to say on the matter and though i didnt even necessarily disagree with the sermon, my comment was promptly removed. I also assume this one will be removed too. All i have to ask you is did Jesus Himself do what was recommended here? In fact... did He Himself even recommend something like this for others to follow? And is He not the leading authority in that Book?
He said there's no motivation for a man to work if he doesn't have kids but said a single man should work 60-80 hours a week ie two jobs, while he talks for a living lol very contradicting
It's nice to hear someone acknowledging that this isn't all on men. Men alone can't fix this. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially enslaved men and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
Better woman? Just be a woman, and you will have come a long way. Women today have forgotten what it is to be a woman, and they dress like men. Sunday, I was in church and only saw one dress.
One of the best things that ever happened to me was my wife getting pregnant when we were "not planning" to have a baby. Caused me to take 21 credit hrs in one semester to finish my grad degree and started applying for hobs in order to provide. My Family is the best thing I have and I am so thankful for God giving us our first son when he did. Boys, pull your pants up, man up, get married, and make a family!
This is excellent teaching. I'm a Christian Psychologist and from my experience working mostly with Christian men (and knowing my own mistakes) I can give you a hearty amen. Thank you for being you.
Don't put this man on a pedestal he has a lot of common sense suggestion to be a man. There's a big difference of being male or being called a man or a Man of God that's something your not just called it's earned...
@@My2sense427 So they can’t thank Mark for encouraging men to be Godly men in comparison to the echo chambers that are telling me to go out and sleep with numerous of women, to not marry, to not have children, etc??? How is a simple thank you putting him on a pedestal?
He (Mark) needs to address and encourage Young White men to become men period!! Because you sure heck don't see this stuff going on in the Hispanic culture or community!.....Praise the Lord Jesus Christ (Yeshua HaMashiach)! ✝️
Yep I too was raised by a single mum who was controlling my father left when I was 5 I wouldn't wish this on anyone I will add that this epidemic is just as bad in Australia this country is almost gone there is a very small remnant of true believers and I thank Jesus for the grace to be one I wouldn't have survived without him
I think a lot of western countries in general are struggling with this crisis. Then you have a similar yet different crisis in Japan, South Korea, China, and other asian countries where they don't want relationships or children as a whole. Everything is so backwards.
Agreed. So many men not stepping up to take more responsibility. My employment organisation is made up mostly of female Management. The lower positions are made up mostly of men. I also blame the false gender-quota culture in Australia that seems to prefer women over men in middle management positions.
Im 39, i have two children, im married & my wife is pregnant & i work 11 to 12 hours a day 6 days a week. I didnt grow up with my dad in the house. I want to earn more & be a solid provider, but i dont know how. I pray everyday 2 or more times a day for Gods guidance to lead me to do something more, it just hasnt happened yet. I wont give up, i just need to catch a break. Im not relying on what I can do, Im relying on The Lords guidance.
Having children is a blessing and they are expensive. For a season some women need to contribute, like work from home or doing something to add finances to the household. 5 people to take care of us lot of responsibility. So, look at accessing her skills and see if you can add skills or education, training to your life It takes a lot of money now to make things happen and God will support whatever you put both hands to accomplish
This is why the establishment of the big-tech/banksters crony-capitalists and their Global international Corporatism are already engineering a backshift loss stepback of their own orchestration. They are correcting the CRT, Trans, Peddo, direction because they knew it was too far, too fast for the West and USA to accept. They fix it before real men do. They are making things appear to be fought by the good guys at the top levels, so that only artificially will it seem like the rough times coming will bring back a majority of real tough men, when gatekeepers, upper elites are reorganizing to give the masses a short battle “victory” (to stay on their target fir a ww3 to win the next huge WAR. Just to crash the financial system, to install their new OWGvt nwo that is on A.I. , handles Trade, commerce, crypto-banking, custody of assets, property, tax on used items, garage sale items, online transfers of EVERY digital dollar, token, credit, reward, points, or anything in all big Marketplaces! There will be a coming 2nd sxxual revolution of hedonism/polyamory, free sxx, fetishizes for everyones desires, public normalizing of bdsm, and elevation of the jezebel spirit into millions of damaged young women, also traumatized by men, used, pay for play online onlyfans women of Gen Z, Millenials, mostly that will not trust male leadership, will control their husbands of bf’s thru Open relationships, sxx withholding,humiliatrix type dominant wives etc. Women are already being further weaponized, like certain words have been, to put men in their place, seek female friendly supremacy movements like various forms of feminism, or cultural marxist socialism, and subjective reality as ideological ways of the future. The vast majority of men and women will not realize the ‘Goddess’ worship dominance coming (with future News, MSM, Government & corporations in support), and will only see the “kink” side or sxx side that will attract young men like Bees 🐝 to a honey 🍯 pot. DYOR
My son hasn't been able to find a decent woman that wants a relationship or marriage and family. They either have several babies from different men or do drugs. This society is messed up.
It's a common problem and even if a good woman can be found, the odds are firmly stacked against him. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially delivered men into bondage and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
It’s always easier to gaslight men as this pastor is doing instead of addressing the problems that made men react accordingly. Men just adapted to the broken system that was laid out in front of them and it was applauded as inclusive and progressive.
Pastor Mark, You ended it perfectly. WE DON'T NEED BETTER GOVERNMENT WE NEED BETTER MEN! Hallelujah, praise be to Jesus! Thank you TH-cam for giving this man a Platform
20+ years ago when I was a young lawyer, discussing hiring at the firm, one of the senior partners, a woman often said: "we need more young married men with kids and mortgages." In her experience, they were the hardest workers. Her observation, not mine. Oh, and the firm is defunct, so there's no use making trouble for it.
As A Christian Woman I Approve Of This Great Message From Pastor Mark Driscoll! Shalom And Amen!✝️✝️🛐🛐📛🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🤰🤱🧬🤰🤱✨👑✨🦁🦁🦁❣️❣️❣️🌺🌺🌺😇🌟🤗🙏🙏🙏🇨🇦🇮🇱♾️🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🗽🦅‼️
When my husband died in 2011, the Lord burdened my heart to start praying for men. I do. For all. For these issues and to know God as their Father. The need is great. Thankful for men who speak truth in leadership. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I needed this pastor I honestly am blessed to have found this on my feed and was able to follow I love listening to pastors who truly are getting revelations of the seasons we’re in as a generation! In Jesus Name let those who have ears let them listen!🔥🔥🔥
THANK YOU for speaking out on what we all know is true. The crisis our nation and world is living through is the result of many generations of failed fathers. This needs to change. Fathers need to step up to become the Dads they're called to be and their children and families need them to be.
Men alone can't fix this. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially enslaved men and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
You ever notice that his channel has no dissenting voices? That's not because there are none. He deletes all dissent. That lacks courage. Not much of a man if he can't take criticism.
4 and a half years ago I was drunk unemployable and a terrible father. To the point I had my kids taken away from me. Around that time I decided to get Sober. Fast forward to today I have primary custody of those kids, I have had a child since then and am also a step father of 6. I got sober for myself (it's a selfish program that's the way it has to be) but I'd be lying if a lot of that wasn't also for my children. I am not a perfect man I still fall short, I still have to pray for forgiveness and guidance, but the reward of being a present and caring father is immeasurable.
I have 4 boys that are well step sons even though I do not claim them as such,that being said, I came into their lives as teens and one was 21. I have done what I can to help give them a push to be their own "man" and for the most part they are doing well,with God's grace they will mature like they should.
So proud of all all my kids, but in the context of this video, my boys. My older son (26) "launched" maybe a little earlier than we expected. He hasn't been other than a visitor at "home" since his freshman year of college- worked in another state all college summers, then went full time there when he graduated. When the pandemic measures caused him to be laid off, he did "gig" work and then found a job in his field 2 states from where he was. Now he is married and doing very well. My younger son (18) does welding school 1/2 the day and works the other half. Lately, we have been talking to him about saving so he can buy a house by about 21. Good young men are out there. I see it in many of my community's sons as well.
Thank you Mark! I love you and thank The Lord for your willingness to speak boldly! You motivate me and I want to encourage you to keep on pushing on strong! What a good ministry this is
Thank you Mark. This put it all into perspective for me. I knew what I was seeing, but you put it into words in a way that’s impossible for me. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Mark, agree 100%. However, there is one catch. For the life of me I cannot find a woman worth marrying. I've searched high and low yet here I am alone. It's one bitter pill to swallow realizing there is no prize (wife and family) after dedicating so much blood, sweat, and tears preparing myself to be a good father and husband. Not here to complain as I've given in the towel, but I'm fed up with only hearing that it's men's fault. Are women ever held accountable!?
That's what they all miss. They act like guys don't want to get married. The reality is so few honorable women and 80% of women go for the top 10% of guys and feel like they're settling. Feminism promised women freedom and independence and gave them a 7th century Middle Eastern Harem culture.
Women are as primarily driven to be socially compliant as men are driven to protect & provide. The problem is that the education system of the last 35 years or more has messed up girls' minds about what they should want.
Me, I wasn't all that interested in guns - only on carnival when we dressed up as cowboys 😉 I played wooden ice cream sticks to be street cars in the sand and gravel backyard 😆 but certainly I wasn't interested in dolls...!
Men alone can't fix this. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially enslaved men and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
My daughter is with a man that doesnt want to work and cries about everything. Asking her for him to stay at home with the kids but wanting her to do all the chores. He wants three more children even though he does nothing to help with their new baby. Hes forever making fun of her or stressing her out over small things. She says theres a shortage of good men as she has been in and out of relationships prior to this one. Its so sad and i feel sorry for her.
The most honest video I have seen in a very very long time I am surprised that TH-cam has not removed it you can't say things like this anymore but I love hearing it preach preach it brother
Funny when I was growing up, I thought I was going to be a player for life and never have kids. I have been faithfully married for 16yrs and have 3 kids. I can say having my family has made my life much better than being single and having no direction in life. My wife has brought me to God and I am working to better my life through Christ to be a better husband and father.
We need to abolish no fault divorce and child support. No sane man is going to put his well being in the hands of an entitled woman and hope she doesn't ruin his life when all of a sudden she's not happy.
YES MEN MATTER TO US, CHILDREN, THIS WORLD, AND TO THE GROWTH OF GOD'S KINGDOM. I praise the Lord for this message. All males need to hear this inspiration. We women need to hear it to properly support them and appreciate them. God Bless Father's, Husband's and Godly men living everyday to it's fullest according to Gods will. Yes this video made me subscribe to this channel.
It takes a godly responsible man to teach his children, specially his boys, how to be(come) the next generation of godly responsible man through taking self sacrifice and selfless acts each and every single day.
It’s two way street, I’m a single father with full custody and I refuse to date ever again as much as I’d like to I simply don’t trust anyone to be involved in my child’s life after the last few relationships including her mother so I’m tapping out just being a dad and trying to focus on building my empire and teach these lessons onto my daughter. The culture is rotten and depravity is celebrated. You make some good points but feel like you’re missing why all these things are happening it’s no “anomaly” or coincidence it’s by design
That is why it is called the Satanic Six, it is by design. Satan wants to completely destroy every pure and good thing. He revels in the pain, and the mental and spiritual destruction of humanity. As God has given us free will and we are sinful, then Satan uses that weak spot or spots to decemate us to thumb his nose and God and laugh. However, his time is even shorter now and he knows it. It will get worse. Prayer is protection.🌼
Exactly! It's all by design. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially delivered men into bondage and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
I had no father and only had a Mom about 5 years. It is hard to practically have no family. Lived in orphanage. Thankfully God took a hold of me which was my salvation.
Thanks for staying true to this ideal that the LORD has called you to preach. After being unjustly shut down at the 2024 men’s conference by the head pastor, I not only feel burdened for the men of the future, but feel the calling to promote and implicate these disciplines in my life. I won’t allow myself or my children to be castrates by a wicked culture. Don’t grow weary in doing good, Pastor. Us as men cannot tolerate or compromise. We cannot be dominated.
The sloth index is through the roof (sadly). I moved out of the house when I was a senior in high school (Gen X mid-80s). Couldn't wait around till graduation, lol. Bottom line: FEMINISM is the root cause.
Truth! Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially delivered men into bondage and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
As a Mens Group leader at my church, and having studied these issues for years, this is spot on. Glad I found you this morning. Looking forward to digging into your content. Thanks so much brother. 💪🏼✝️
As a mens group leader, are you doing anything to address the underlying cause? Men alone can't fix this. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially enslaved men and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
Your awesome Pastor Mark. I have just found you on TH-cam. You sound like my Pastor. Keep up the boldness that God intended. I subscribed and will share your videos. God bless you.
This speech could be like nails on a chalk board to those it condemns or the absolute best pep talk to those who are trying to be good men in a degenerating society.
The pastor made some good points that we've all heard before, and as usual for those in leadership, stayed silent about the reason many men aren't marrying. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially delivered men into bondage and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
Lol. Yeah blaming men for women being lesbians. Sorry, 80% of women think they DESERVE the top 10% of men. Modern women are raging narcissists and have destroyed their ability to pair with their promiscuity by the time they graduate college. With the cash and prizes award system the feminist courts set up, women file 80% of divorces. 90%, if they have a degree. It's a suicide pact for even the most alpha of males. Transgenderism and lesbianism is a direct result of the feminist movent. By reversing the gender roles for decades that is of course going to manifest in a very literal and physical sense where women will think they're men and men will think they're women.
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@@MotownModels.....go swim with Bull Sharks jezzybell.......Motown moldies....👍🏻🤣🤣🤣
🔥🔥🔥U gonna 🔥🔥🔥
@@1badjane493 it's ok, you can call me jezzybell. That doesn't really affect me because I don't believe in your whole reasoning behind why the word is bad. I can be a slut and that's totally fine because unlike you, I actually enjoy freedom. And saying I'm going to burn? Wow! There truly is no hate like Christian love. Want to have a phone conversation?
@MarkDriscollMinistries This cant be 100%.
Christ himself did not marry. The spiritual conflict within a person is not resolved by merely maintaining a status quo. We do have to grow as men AND women, but it doesnt mean that the men who came before us, many or most of whom were motivated to do all of what you said through lust, greed, worldliness, shallow mindedness, and ego were altogetger right. Or else we'd have nothing to grow up to and away from...
If you follow Christ, his message is a spiritual one that did not directly involve any of what you are saying. I cant trust your message even if it is well intentioned.
This is not to say that what you are saying is wrong... but it is only one barren and lifeless side of the story.
We all know when we are walking in the Spirit and not weak in the flesh... spiritual freedom has always been gradually won like the story of Christ in the desert. In an odd way, rejection of stress and faith in the worldly things you demand, makes at least myself better at doing them... and better at doing them honestly/naturally. And i think this may be because any orderly thing i do in this world must be done in the Service of God and for the sake of heaven for all his Creation, and not primarily for me to be the "Best" or "Good" man.
I am Willing to believe that God Will Guide me if my Goal is Right... that I am dependent on God... if not then what are we even believing in?
@@MotownModelsYes in seeing how Christians interact with people like you am i increasingly disillusioned. Certain messages seem to lead them to settle and feel comfortable in certain ways of being. The change we need begins as an internal one that it expresses itself to the outside... it cannot just a surface appearance doing of things on the outside. It just cant be and i refuse to believe it.
Edit: But i will say this as i am being fully transparent. My experience has shown me that what you are calling "freedom" is by far the exact opposite. The Christian message is still a beautiful and saving one from what i can gather, and just because individuals can spurn you while like me-- attempting to call themselves Christian or while attempting their best to properly interpret things (theyre only human); it doesnt mean that you have to select an opposite extreme as your solution away from them. If you were outside the flesh, would you truly direct it to do such frivolous things with inevitable internal consequences? If the answer is no, then did you ever truly exercise your own freedom when you chose those things? The sane question can apply to Mark Driscoll's message in fairness--i dont think God made billions of individuals to grow ideally in that one way he advises. Many have tried and many have failed as a result of even doing it.
"We don't need bigger government, we just need better men"
Excellent teaching. Thank you Pastor.
Joe Biden is a product of an era when times were supposedly better. Explain that. Same with Hillary Clinton, Nancy Pelosi, Joseph Stalin,
GLOBAL Supremacists and WOKE ENEMIES: My Children and I are NOT YOUR PROPERTY. Cease and desist death threats, poisoning, all harassment and abuse
ALL because these men were raised by their mothers WITHOUT a father. I was one of them. Born in 1980 coddled by my mother while my father was belittled and removed. I ended up a homeless alcoholic drug addict and by the grace of God finally grew up. I am now the father of 2 children and am doing everything I can with the help of Jesus Christ to take care of them and their mother. Someday I will rekindle the relationship with my mother when she is done hating men.
God bless you and praise the Lord for His work that He has done in your life
She May need a gentle view and voice before continuing to abandon her. She is missing real love. She needs Jesus and God. But you could be that bridge.
I’m sure ur Mother LOVES U VERY MUCH !!! Big difference between being a Mother & hating other men…U must forgive her cause GOD forgives us…U only have 1 Mother, u can have many Dads !!! Forgive & renew ur relationship w/ her…A Mothers Love is very stronge…May JESUS Help u w/ this & Bless Ur whole Family…💜💜✝️✝️🙌🙌🕊️🕊️✨✨🥰🥰🙏🙏
@@jesusrocha3362he did say that
You cannot have one mother and many dads. That’s apart of the problem with our culture and society. We act like the father is replaceable and/or interchangeable.
“It takes a man to raise a man”… so true! As mom to boys, this is SO SO SO TRUE!
Well my dad behaves based on emotions and doesn't think rational and places himself above everyone else and is just an all around despicable human... So don't let this sermon be the the be all end all of resolution
God is our dad. If you follow God's teachings he will gladly be your dad. I saw many people turn their life around for the better after they found God. Thank God.@@RickJames-qq1re
@RickJames-qq1re probably because he had a father that was just like that or notbin his life.
It's generational
Yes- this is painful truth for myself and my son!
@@RickJames-qq1re The man who raises you to be a man doesn't have to be your father, if the father is unable to raise a man. Could be an uncle, older brother, or grandfather, or some other figure like that.
THIS SHOULD BE PREACHED IN EVERY HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE. RIGHT ON BROTHER!!!!!!!!
This is a ted talk not a sermon. I think its helpful but there's no gospel here.
Amen! Every middle school too!
Nah, imo youre just hearing a nice monologue--a good man's opinion about how he wants society to be and what he thinks will save many. I THINK dissenting voices and comments are deleted here too and so you only receive this one man's well spoken opinion with very little apparent counter opinion(and they dont need to be combative or aggressive commebts to be deleted either). I say that he may be boiling down and distilling virtue to his own narrow path. And though I respect his point of view, peoples' experiences show that he clearly hasnt stumbled upon a panacea. The path he mentioned has not protected many people from spiritual or even earthly ruin. Those who are neither prepared nor compatible with it have made systems dysfunctional and dreadful. Those who are compatible with it often become bullies of those who they consider weak or those who God would have likely fulfilled had they simply gone a different route.
I assume that this mah's advice backfires often only because for many the motivation to act on this kind of advice is based on a belief and fear of the world rather than a Faith in one's own sufficiency and dependence in God. Im not saying that he is wrong at all, but maybe that the well-adjusted life he has won is not the goal, but rather the symptom of doing things right on the inside. If it is the goal before God... well that becomes idolatry and worship of the god of this world: Satan... doesnt it? Maybe im wrong, but i still want this side of the story to be considered.
I believe i had something more worthy to say on the matter and though i didnt even necessarily disagree with the sermon, my comment was promptly removed. I also assume this one will be removed too. All i have to ask you is did Jesus Himself do what was recommended here? In fact... did He Himself even recommend something like this for others to follow? And is He not the leading authority in that Book?
Every parent should remove their children from the high school indoctrination programs. Self responsibility...
He said there's no motivation for a man to work if he doesn't have kids but said a single man should work 60-80 hours a week ie two jobs, while he talks for a living lol very contradicting
As a woman, we need to be better women, too…
It's nice to hear someone acknowledging that this isn't all on men. Men alone can't fix this. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially enslaved men and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
Now quiet down, we’re discussing men not you.
Not too.... period
@Onesparrow-76. Women will need to unlearn what the feminist indoctrination taught them over the decades.
Better woman? Just be a woman, and you will have come a long way. Women today have forgotten what it is to be a woman, and they dress like men. Sunday, I was in church and only saw one dress.
One of the best things that ever happened to me was my wife getting pregnant when we were "not planning" to have a baby. Caused me to take 21 credit hrs in one semester to finish my grad degree and started applying for hobs in order to provide. My Family is the best thing I have and I am so thankful for God giving us our first son when he did. Boys, pull your pants up, man up, get married, and make a family!
It must be motivating to know you're going home to a warm body...
I’m a single father of two so I really love the word he speaks. My human and soul needed this, thank you!
This is excellent teaching. I'm a Christian Psychologist and from my experience working mostly with Christian men (and knowing my own mistakes) I can give you a hearty amen. Thank you for being you.
Thank you for encouraging men to be Godly men!!
Don't put this man on a pedestal he has a lot of common sense suggestion to be a man. There's a big difference of being male or being called a man or a Man of God that's something your not just called it's earned...
@@My2sense427SHUSH! 🤐🧐😠 You spew filth
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So they can’t thank Mark for encouraging men to be Godly men in comparison to the echo chambers that are telling me to go out and sleep with numerous of women, to not marry, to not have children, etc???
How is a simple thank you putting him on a pedestal?
@@My2sense427what does your comment have to do with this persons thank you?
He (Mark) needs to address and encourage Young White men to become men period!! Because you sure heck don't see this stuff going on in the Hispanic culture or community!.....Praise the Lord Jesus Christ (Yeshua HaMashiach)! ✝️
"Going to work today makes you special. " So many men truly need to hear this, especially the men who take care of their wife and children.
Yep I too was raised by a single mum who was controlling my father left when I was 5 I wouldn't wish this on anyone I will add that this epidemic is just as bad in Australia this country is almost gone there is a very small remnant of true believers and I thank Jesus for the grace to be one I wouldn't have survived without him
I think a lot of western countries in general are struggling with this crisis. Then you have a similar yet different crisis in Japan, South Korea, China, and other asian countries where they don't want relationships or children as a whole. Everything is so backwards.
Its pretty shagged here. The trades are half gone. Housings wrecked. And as you say being a christian is very much the outlier now days.
Yep to all the above.
Agreed. So many men not stepping up to take more responsibility. My employment organisation is made up mostly of female Management. The lower positions are made up mostly of men. I also blame the false gender-quota culture in Australia that seems to prefer women over men in middle management positions.
Im 39, i have two children, im married & my wife is pregnant & i work 11 to 12 hours a day 6 days a week.
I didnt grow up with my dad in the house. I want to earn more & be a solid provider, but i dont know how.
I pray everyday 2 or more times a day for Gods guidance to lead me to do something more, it just hasnt happened yet. I wont give up, i just need to catch a break.
Im not relying on what I can do, Im relying on The Lords guidance.
Pray without ceasing…
1 Thessalonians 5:17
God bless you, sir, I will pray for you. I hope others will join me.
What does the 420 in your "name" mean?
Having children is a blessing and they are expensive. For a season some women need to contribute, like work from home or doing something to add finances to the household. 5 people to take care of us lot of responsibility. So, look at accessing her skills and see if you can add skills or education, training to your life It takes a lot of money now to make things happen and God will support whatever you put both hands to accomplish
@GranolaBear13 you know what it means. Judge not...
“Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.”
This is why the establishment of the big-tech/banksters crony-capitalists and their Global international Corporatism are already engineering a backshift loss stepback of their own orchestration. They are correcting the CRT, Trans, Peddo, direction because they knew it was too far, too fast for the West and USA to accept. They fix it before real men do. They are making things appear to be fought by the good guys at the top levels, so that only artificially will it seem like the rough times coming will bring back a majority of real tough men, when gatekeepers, upper elites are reorganizing to give the masses a short battle “victory” (to stay on their target fir a ww3 to win the next huge WAR.
Just to crash the financial system, to install their new OWGvt nwo that is on A.I. , handles Trade, commerce, crypto-banking, custody of assets, property, tax on used items, garage sale items, online transfers of EVERY digital dollar, token, credit, reward, points, or anything in all big Marketplaces! There will be a coming 2nd sxxual revolution of hedonism/polyamory, free sxx, fetishizes for everyones desires, public normalizing of bdsm, and elevation of the jezebel spirit into millions of damaged young women, also traumatized by men, used, pay for play online onlyfans women of Gen Z, Millenials, mostly that will not trust male leadership, will control their husbands of bf’s thru Open relationships, sxx withholding,humiliatrix type dominant wives etc. Women are already being further weaponized, like certain words have been, to put men in their place, seek female friendly supremacy movements like various forms of feminism, or cultural marxist socialism, and subjective reality as ideological ways of the future. The vast majority of men and women will not realize the ‘Goddess’ worship dominance coming (with future News, MSM, Government & corporations in support), and will only see the “kink” side or sxx side that will attract young men like Bees 🐝 to a honey 🍯 pot. DYOR
I have quoted this quite often.
Strong men create easy times is how I say it. We have it easy, not necessarily good.. 🤷🏻♂️
@@RP-do9vz Yepper, and I am getting ready for the step of cycle for what the weak men are creating.
Very well said.
My son hasn't been able to find a decent woman that wants a relationship or marriage and family. They either have several babies from different men or do drugs. This society is messed up.
That’s a reason why men are refusing to marry nowadays.
I’ve already told mine he’ll need to go overseas to find a good woman. These American women ain’t gonna cut it.
It's a common problem and even if a good woman can be found, the odds are firmly stacked against him. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially delivered men into bondage and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
A decent woman for marriage, first she must be childless.
It’s always easier to gaslight men as this pastor is doing instead of addressing the problems that made men react accordingly. Men just adapted to the broken system that was laid out in front of them and it was applauded as inclusive and progressive.
This needs to be heard in our high schools.
This is what true religious work means! Stunning! From physical to mental to spiritual transformation!
Praise the Lord
Thanks for preaching TRUTH Mark.
YES. Man that was on point. God help us to lead the next generation to be men!
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We need and respect men like you!
God bless everything you put your hands to! 🙏
MOST ACCURATE COUNSEL , WE GOTTA PRAY FOR SO MANY CAUSE THEY WON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT THEASE THINGS.
Pastor Mark,
You ended it perfectly.
WE DON'T NEED BETTER GOVERNMENT WE NEED BETTER MEN!
Hallelujah, praise be to Jesus!
Thank you TH-cam for giving this man a Platform
As a woman, I approve this message!
I approve also. I have 4 boys, and I'm raising them to become men, alongside my husband, who's kind, sensitive yet manly. Thank you God
Meanwhile its an open boarder down south.
Let me guess…. You are one of these types that Mark is talking about right?
We don't need, nor care about the approval of a woman... That's the entire point of this message. You must have missed it.
No, you are, tool@@fpeer
20+ years ago when I was a young lawyer, discussing hiring at the firm, one of the senior partners, a woman often said: "we need more young married men with kids and mortgages." In her experience, they were the hardest workers. Her observation, not mine. Oh, and the firm is defunct, so there's no use making trouble for it.
Keep preaching on my brother!
As A Christian Woman I Approve Of This Great Message From Pastor Mark Driscoll! Shalom And Amen!✝️✝️🛐🛐📛🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🤰🤱🧬🤰🤱✨👑✨🦁🦁🦁❣️❣️❣️🌺🌺🌺😇🌟🤗🙏🙏🙏🇨🇦🇮🇱♾️🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🗽🦅‼️
When my husband died in 2011, the Lord burdened my heart to start praying for men. I do. For all. For these issues and to know God as their Father. The need is great. Thankful for men who speak truth in leadership.
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wow, clear teaching, needs to be preached much more often!
I needed this pastor I honestly am blessed to have found this on my feed and was able to follow I love listening to pastors who truly are getting revelations of the seasons we’re in as a generation! In Jesus Name let those who have ears let them listen!🔥🔥🔥
Wow! Most truthful sermon I've heard in awhile. He says what people need to hear, not what they want to hear.
THANK YOU for speaking out on what we all know is true. The crisis our nation and world is living through is the result of many generations of failed fathers. This needs to change. Fathers need to step up to become the Dads they're called to be and their children and families need them to be.
Men alone can't fix this. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially enslaved men and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
So true. My 19 year old nephew graduated late and will not even look for a job. Finished high school plays in room like a 12 year old.
How can he not work? Being supported or enabled by parents or guardians? Guidance needed
@@jenniferwyatt8945Sometimes the single mother or father wants the company of their son so a vicious cycle ensues out of fear of being alone
Parent's failure
Tough love
Kick his ass out!
Very good sermon.
Thank you for posting.
1000 % truth !!!
Amen to that! God bless you Mark for preaching this word. Thank God for strong, loving men who lead righteously.
This video should have a billion views and be in everyone’s algorithm! 🗣️ )))))
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You ever notice that his channel has no dissenting voices? That's not because there are none. He deletes all dissent. That lacks courage. Not much of a man if he can't take criticism.
Amen Brother. This sermon needs to be beamed into every head in America.
AMEN. AND AGAIN I SAY. AMEN.
This is soooooooo good Mark
Thank you br. Mark. Keep providing and beating the drum on the solution, biblically based, and sound teaching.
WOW!!! THINGS ARE REALLY BAD. THANK YOU PASTOR MARK. THANK YOU.🙏
Praise the lord! Through Christ we are the light in the darkness and the salt of the Earth! Lets give our future generations a fighting chance!
Incredible sermon!
4 and a half years ago I was drunk unemployable and a terrible father. To the point I had my kids taken away from me. Around that time I decided to get Sober. Fast forward to today I have primary custody of those kids, I have had a child since then and am also a step father of 6. I got sober for myself (it's a selfish program that's the way it has to be) but I'd be lying if a lot of that wasn't also for my children. I am not a perfect man I still fall short, I still have to pray for forgiveness and guidance, but the reward of being a present and caring father is immeasurable.
Appreciate this so much!! Thank you pastor Driscoll. From South Africa❤
And more preachers that preach like bold men like Pastor Mark.
Such a good word!!! 🙏🏼
Absolute TRUTH !
I have 4 boys that are well step sons even though I do not claim them as such,that being said, I came into their lives as teens and one was 21. I have done what I can to help give them a push to be their own "man" and for the most part they are doing well,with God's grace they will mature like they should.
So proud of all all my kids, but in the context of this video, my boys. My older son (26) "launched" maybe a little earlier than we expected. He hasn't been other than a visitor at "home" since his freshman year of college- worked in another state all college summers, then went full time there when he graduated. When the pandemic measures caused him to be laid off, he did "gig" work and then found a job in his field 2 states from where he was. Now he is married and doing very well. My younger son (18) does welding school 1/2 the day and works the other half. Lately, we have been talking to him about saving so he can buy a house by about 21. Good young men are out there. I see it in many of my community's sons as well.
SoRightN SoTrue !!! ❤ 🕊 ThankYOU- 4Sharing!!! ❤ 🕊 🔥 🕯 MuchLove!!!
Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters (Colossians 3:23)
So so so true brother!!!!!!! We need this message in the whole world today!!!! Keep preaching
What is dead, may never die but comes back stronger!
Mark kicks ass
Not this time.
This will not be reversed.
Thank you Mark! I love you and thank The Lord for your willingness to speak boldly! You motivate me and I want to encourage you to keep on pushing on strong! What a good ministry this is
Crystal clear, on point, teaching of The Word.
Thank God.
Thank you Mark. This put it all into perspective for me. I knew what I was seeing, but you put it into words in a way that’s impossible for me. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Once again Pastor Mark is hitting the target on all Points. Appreciate your Ministry. Andrew Tate is NOT the example young men need.
That's why Christians get a bad name because they are judgemental why don't you pray for Andrew Tate God values his soul just as much as yours.
He is a product of the world in which we live today
Oh no he’s not!
This pastor is sent by God, for sure. Everything he says is 100% correct.
Exactly! I'm a Life Coach for teens and young adults. I see this firsthand with young men. Great message. Disturbing, but true statistics.
But not for the reasons he's saying.
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Amazing breakdown of society’s breakdowns. Thank you brother.
God bless you ❤
THIS IS FANTASTIC!!! Gr8 job Pastor Mark!!! Ty for wisdom!
correct , ... i never knew my dad - been living poor for a long time ,
but God makes me rich
Mark, agree 100%. However, there is one catch. For the life of me I cannot find a woman worth marrying. I've searched high and low yet here I am alone. It's one bitter pill to swallow realizing there is no prize (wife and family) after dedicating so much blood, sweat, and tears preparing myself to be a good father and husband.
Not here to complain as I've given in the towel, but I'm fed up with only hearing that it's men's fault. Are women ever held accountable!?
Truth.
That's what they all miss. They act like guys don't want to get married.
The reality is so few honorable women and 80% of women go for the top 10% of guys and feel like they're settling.
Feminism promised women freedom and independence and gave them a 7th century Middle Eastern Harem culture.
You will find her brother. Just keep searching🙏🏻
Word. Women never get held accountable
Women are as primarily driven to be socially compliant as men are driven to protect & provide. The problem is that the education system of the last 35 years or more has messed up girls' minds about what they should want.
So well said. Amen
I don’t have the time to go through every comment, but from what I have read, a huge thumbs up to all you beautiful people….
When I was a kid, boys played with toy guns and girls played with dolls. Totally natural, the way it ought to be.
Absolutely!!
Me, I wasn't all that interested in guns - only on carnival when we dressed up as cowboys 😉 I played wooden ice cream sticks to be street cars in the sand and gravel backyard 😆 but certainly I wasn't interested in dolls...!
If only all the young men could hear this ! Outstanding teaching !
Thank you for preaching the truth!!!!! We need men to live for God and family!!!
Men alone can't fix this. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially enslaved men and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
Thank you Sir. God Bless!
amen! thank you for uploading and sharing this content!
What a great presentation! Thank you! Blessings.
"And so God gave them over to their depraved minds..."
Thank you for not worrying about hurting their "feelings"
My daughter is with a man that doesnt want to work and cries about everything. Asking her for him to stay at home with the kids but wanting her to do all the chores. He wants three more children even though he does nothing to help with their new baby. Hes forever making fun of her or stressing her out over small things. She says theres a shortage of good men as she has been in and out of relationships prior to this one. Its so sad and i feel sorry for her.
The most honest video I have seen in a very very long time I am surprised that TH-cam has not removed it you can't say things like this anymore but I love hearing it preach preach it brother
Funny when I was growing up, I thought I was going to be a player for life and never have kids. I have been faithfully married for 16yrs and have 3 kids. I can say having my family has made my life much better than being single and having no direction in life. My wife has brought me to God and I am working to better my life through Christ to be a better husband and father.
Thank you
We need to abolish no fault divorce and child support. No sane man is going to put his well being in the hands of an entitled woman and hope she doesn't ruin his life when all of a sudden she's not happy.
These men should learn not to sleep around for they'll end up with entitled women.
May the Creator bless you!
YES MEN MATTER TO US, CHILDREN, THIS WORLD, AND TO THE GROWTH OF GOD'S KINGDOM. I praise the Lord for this message. All males need to hear this inspiration. We women need to hear it to properly support them and appreciate them. God Bless Father's, Husband's and Godly men living everyday to it's fullest according to Gods will. Yes this video made me subscribe to this channel.
We’ll said and agree!
terriebrown3462
I subscribed too, only because of this preaching!
This is exactly what we all needed to hear and know.
Amen 🙏 Jesus Christ forever in your debt 🙏♥️♥️♥️
True by the time I was 22 I was in the military been on my first deployment and 2 kids
Real talk! Very well said
It takes a godly responsible man to teach his children, specially his boys, how to be(come) the next generation of godly responsible man through taking self sacrifice and selfless acts each and every single day.
This was one of the Best Videos on TH-cam!!
It’s two way street, I’m a single father with full custody and I refuse to date ever again as much as I’d like to I simply don’t trust anyone to be involved in my child’s life after the last few relationships including her mother so I’m tapping out just being a dad and trying to focus on building my empire and teach these lessons onto my daughter. The culture is rotten and depravity is celebrated. You make some good points but feel like you’re missing why all these things are happening it’s no “anomaly” or coincidence it’s by design
That is why it is called the Satanic Six, it is by design. Satan wants to completely destroy every pure and good thing. He revels in the pain, and the mental and spiritual destruction of humanity. As God has given us free will and we are sinful, then Satan uses that weak spot or spots to decemate us to thumb his nose and God and laugh. However, his time is even shorter now and he knows it. It will get worse. Prayer is protection.🌼
Exactly! It's all by design. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially delivered men into bondage and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
I had no father and only had a Mom about 5 years. It is hard to practically have no family. Lived in orphanage. Thankfully God took a hold of me which was my salvation.
The enemy is after our men and he is winning...I went through this 10 years ago 😢 Now that husband is dead
Thanks for staying true to this ideal that the LORD has called you to preach. After being unjustly shut down at the 2024 men’s conference by the head pastor, I not only feel burdened for the men of the future, but feel the calling to promote and implicate these disciplines in my life. I won’t allow myself or my children to be castrates by a wicked culture.
Don’t grow weary in doing good, Pastor. Us as men cannot tolerate or compromise. We cannot be dominated.
In Jesus name Brother.
Excellent video!!! So much truth!!!
The sloth index is through the roof (sadly). I moved out of the house when I was a senior in high school (Gen X mid-80s). Couldn't wait around till graduation, lol. Bottom line: FEMINISM is the root cause.
Agreed.
Truth! Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially delivered men into bondage and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
Awesome Pastor Mark!!
As a Mens Group leader at my church, and having studied these issues for years, this is spot on. Glad I found you this morning. Looking forward to digging into your content. Thanks so much brother.
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As a mens group leader, are you doing anything to address the underlying cause? Men alone can't fix this. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially enslaved men and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
Your awesome Pastor Mark. I have just found you on TH-cam. You sound like my Pastor. Keep up the boldness that God intended. I subscribed and will share your videos. God bless you.
This speech could be like nails on a chalk board to those it condemns or the absolute best pep talk to those who are trying to be good men in a degenerating society.
You can see all the comments from the condemed.
Thank you thank you thank you
I LOVE IT ❤️ ‼️
We left Arizona five years ago, but boy, I wish we'd move back to be under this pastor.
The pastor made some good points that we've all heard before, and as usual for those in leadership, stayed silent about the reason many men aren't marrying. Family courts that are hostile to men and that have essentially delivered men into bondage and given the authority to women is the source of the problem. Until that's fixed, the dysfunction will only get worse. Nobody will talk about that elephant in the room though, let alone work to fix it.
Lol. Yeah blaming men for women being lesbians. Sorry, 80% of women think they DESERVE the top 10% of men. Modern women are raging narcissists and have destroyed their ability to pair with their promiscuity by the time they graduate college.
With the cash and prizes award system the feminist courts set up, women file 80% of divorces. 90%, if they have a degree. It's a suicide pact for even the most alpha of males.
Transgenderism and lesbianism is a direct result of the feminist movent. By reversing the gender roles for decades that is of course going to manifest in a very literal and physical sense where women will think they're men and men will think they're women.