@@supermichaelssecondchannel4342 There are a lot of women who do! Sadly there are a lot who don't. It's all about attracting the right kind of women. I actually have an online course, How to Get a Girlfriend, that will help you learn how to do just that. Here's a link 😀 coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend/
I've met a girl while working at the remote site of a client. She is incredibly shy around me and I find that really flattering. She is genuinely nice and intelligent although she's a little nervous about being touched. Just being myself at all time her presence makes me feel masculine. We strike just the right balance of being different vs having things in common. It was actually her idea to go to the movies on our 2nd date, this Friday. I think this is gonna be really exciting... :)
Awesome! I've done a couple since I posted this video that I don't know if you've seen. Here's a link to one th-cam.com/video/JqHToqKmVAs/w-d-xo.html And here's a link to the other th-cam.com/video/-Nr_uDOwBEA/w-d-xo.html I'll keep them coming!
My, I was surprised about the hair style!!! My girl took me to the hairdresser and told him how she wanted my hair to look. Her daughters and her Mom were so complimentary about it when we got back. I hadn’t realised that it was so important, you have reinforced that for me.
Hello Melanie. I thank you for addressing the nice guy myth. Often I too have heard the nice guys finish last. I personally am nice and what to be nice,honest,etc.But as you mentioned in this video I am one of those men and I’m not a pushover or a doormat etc. After watching this video and I thank you for your insight which is so refreshing, I wanted to let you know that we are out here and your reaching us so thank you much for your insight.
You have literally made me a better man after watching your videos. I mustered up the courage to ask out my coworker and we have been together for 6 months now and I think she's the one. Thank you so much. 😊
I'm so glad you are enjoying them! Here are some videos that will help th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html And here are some videos on maybe why she pretends th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Best of luck!
I'm having an insanely hard time here. My son's mother and the woman I have been in love with cheated on me when I thought everything was going good. I've been her man for 7 years, and although not the best man, I have always been genuinely nice to her, not the kind of nice where you're just trying to get some tail. Now, the part that boggles my mind is, the part about being nice to them, I feel like given the situation that we were in, living in a small town, two kids, opposing schedules, she's super messed up for cheating on me. It wasn't just one man, and I feel like she's the kind of girl who takes advantage of a real nice guy. It would take a lot for me to explain to you what I've done for her and put up with to feel like me just being an asshole every now and then is not a good enough excuse to cheat on me. I mean damn... At least say hey we need to talk, before doing something like that. Am I wrong?
I am SO sorry that has happened to you! Please don't feel like it's your fault she treated you that way. NO ONE deserves to be treated like that. Unfortunately there are some very toxic women who misuse and mistreat really good guys. Treating a woman with kindness is the way to her heart IF she is a non-toxic woman. The kind of woman who wants to treat you with respect. When she is toxic there is nothing you can do that will help her treat you right because it's on her, not you. Here are some videos I've done on this that you will find helpful th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html I'm sorry again that has happened to you!
Been there done that. It really comes down to a the fact that she doesn’t respect you. The fact that you can give so much to someone who treats you that way w out leaving her says everything. That in and of itself shows her how little self respect you have or demand for yourself, and it is undoubtedly pervasive throughout your relationship. Respect is fundamental to attraction and she steps out on you sexually but keeps a home w you because she doesn’t respect you as a man but uses u as a provider. She has the power, which is why you’re the one torn up looking for answers when she’s the one out wreaking havoc. Demand the respect you deserve in all facets of your life, from yourself and the people in your life, and if they don’t give it to you, walk away or send them out the fkn door. Do that and watch how everything changes 💯
Hey Melannie, I’m new to you’re channel and its helping me out. I just want to add that having men to get their eyebrows done is empowering as well. I feel great after getting everything done
I love the fact that you approach attracting girls from a Christian perspective I love that. I miss being in a relationship I was married once before and I like to have that dream girl my dreams. How much are the master classes are they free? Thank you so much for posting videos on how to attract girls especially the girl of your dreams I was looking for information like this from a Christian perspective.
I love your videos and I like the way you smile it’s great thank you so much for putting our great information from a Christian perspective and God bless you Melanie.
Props on changing your hair up. My hair used to be long in high school. Now at 33, I shave my head and absolutely hate how my hair feels when it starts to grow in again.
@@CoachMelannie You got it, Melanie, and thanks for the boost of confidence. Props on the cute images (the title card for each video) that accompany your videos.
Wowww I'm so bless. You are wonderful. You are not only beautiful on the outside but also inside. Love your advice and the way you are putting it so real and charming. They make us good guys feel like no beautiful women for us . I have hope now. Single mummies be wise next time! Don't go after bad guys oooo
Thankyou Mellani For this video it really spoke to me as a man Iam a Christian like yourself All your video's are God inspired Unlike most video bloggers Thankyou brother Kevin x
Your comments are so powerful,excellent and also enlightening brain box effectively hooshiii coach thanks a lot. Keep up good work may the good Lord bless you. Amen.
I have only one purpose for the woman I work with, it's that she can look back 10 years from now and never regret a single second of choosing me! I would love to make her feel like the most loved woman in the world and treat her like a queen every day of her life!
YES! Some tips about how to dress atractively it would be very good. NICE! I am really interested in how to get the traits of a nice confident guy. Use/say her name was very surprising, I do not understand why and I can not imagine an entire video with thsi tip. 🤔 ---------- Thanks for the tips and encouraging us to be nice guys.
It's a good feeling to know my work crush thinks about me all the time with all the body language signals she gives me. The majority of my friends have advised to wait it out until she feels better in her headspace. At least she knows I'm still interested when I made a move before, and I consistently show I'm interested.
Wouldn't the feeling be more genuine if she thought about me on her own or do similar thoughts run through similar minds. Maybe we only visualize in our mind the exact opposite of who's thinking about who
Yes! Not setting boundaries is the reason many people think girls don't like good guys. In reality it's the fact that he doesn't have a back bone that is unattractive to her. Thanks for watching!
@@CoachMelannie Well, it's also who Women end up choosing while not selecting the Men they know are actually good for them. That's a major part of the problem.
As far as hair on my head, im older and lost most of my hair, but as far as facial hair i have a beard and keep trimmed, as far as cologne i usually use polo blue cologne
I talk a lot about this in my program. And here are a few videos I've already done on this. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VhSo0oY4quqslQJ09AZaLO.html Thanks so much for your comment!
Good tips. Someone else did recommend cologne and not the cheap kind so the girl you like remembers how you smell even more. I was thinking to try cologne that's kind of beach themed and not that expensive. Though I am hoping with the kind of work I do, which sometimes makes me sweat a little, that the cologne will last since I usually see the girl I like after I am done with my shift. Some girls I met online that live overseas are clearly attracted to me already when we only talked a short time. I still rather date the one girl I like that lives near me. Maybe you can make a video dealing with foreign women soon? Many are Christian and want a white man for a husband.
I like the tip to use cologne that isn't cheap! I was actually going to mention that but kind of ran out of time lol Thanks for your suggestions and for watching 😀
That's totally ok! I've known several men who are completely bald and still very attractive. Often the best approach is to just shave all of it and embrace it rather than try to fight it or cover it up. Rock what you got 💪 😀
Hi Melanie I enjoy watching your channel, I have a question though in regard to having a good haircut! What if the guys hair is thinning and receeding ?
Thanks for watching! Question of the Day: Which tips surprised you the most? AND which would you like to hear more about? 🤔
Why can’t woman just stay committed to one guy?
I love your hair by the way. It’s very voluptuous.
@@supermichaelssecondchannel4342 There are a lot of women who do! Sadly there are a lot who don't. It's all about attracting the right kind of women. I actually have an online course, How to Get a Girlfriend, that will help you learn how to do just that. Here's a link 😀 coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend/
This was a good video. thanks
Thanks soo much im so gratefull
I've met a girl while working at the remote site of a client. She is incredibly shy around me and I find that really flattering. She is genuinely nice and intelligent although she's a little nervous about being touched. Just being myself at all time her presence makes me feel masculine. We strike just the right balance of being different vs having things in common.
It was actually her idea to go to the movies on our 2nd date, this Friday. I think this is gonna be really exciting... :)
Good for you! I'm so happy for you 😀
Right on, Man! Good for you. 😊😊
All d best
We need an update lol
Your consistent smiling is just awesome!
Thank you so much 😀
Totally agree…love the way she bursts into a laugh or smile 😀
Yes I agree , I told my brother and I were saying the other day how attractive it is when a woman smiles when she talks, it’s so endearing ❤
You’re keeping it real. I love that.
I'm so glad! My goal is always to be upfront and honest. Thanks for watching!
YES!! Melannie I'd love to see more about fashion dressing for men in youtube video's!!
Awesome! I've done a couple since I posted this video that I don't know if you've seen. Here's a link to one th-cam.com/video/JqHToqKmVAs/w-d-xo.html And here's a link to the other th-cam.com/video/-Nr_uDOwBEA/w-d-xo.html I'll keep them coming!
My, I was surprised about the hair style!!! My girl took me to the hairdresser and told him how she wanted my hair to look. Her daughters and her Mom were so complimentary about it when we got back. I hadn’t realised that it was so important, you have reinforced that for me.
Thanks for sharing!!
This lady definitely knows her stuff. Keep up the great work, Melannie!
you have taught me so much about dating. thank you❤
Finally a Christian dating coach for Christian men. Thank you Melannie!
Thank you for your kind words! Have a great day 😀
Hello Melanie. I thank you for addressing the nice guy myth. Often I too have heard the nice guys finish last. I personally am nice and what to be nice,honest,etc.But as you mentioned in this video I am one of those men and I’m not a pushover or a doormat etc. After watching this video and I thank you for your insight which is so refreshing, I wanted to let you know that we are out here and your reaching us so thank you much for your insight.
' Wear clothes that are flattering to you.... ' Pure quality! But nice guys never win :)
Have you seen these videos? th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XV9YGvxOR5T79CbwLhJBKM.html I think they will be a big help!
@@CoachMelannie Dear Melanie. I'm an assertive dominant unapologetic masculine male. Hence my original statement based on facts :)
'Doopest' Channel in a while.. Especially for Christian Men!! Your Charm is Contagious!
Thank you! And thanks for watching 😀
High Quality/high value / encouraging😊
You have literally made me a better man after watching your videos. I mustered up the courage to ask out my coworker and we have been together for 6 months now and I think she's the one. Thank you so much. 😊
That is awesome! Way to go my friend! 😀
Your voice is golden. I listen to audiobooks all the time. Your voice tone is lovely. Could listen to you all day
Thank you! 😊
The true, beautiful things here, is your beautiful voice
Thank you for your kind words! Have a great day 😀
You should get a dating game going with viewers ! Love your style!
Thank you! i enjoying watching yours video.i need more on how to know if a girl is interested in you but she's pretending.
I'm so glad you are enjoying them! Here are some videos that will help th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html And here are some videos on maybe why she pretends th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Best of luck!
I'm having an insanely hard time here. My son's mother and the woman I have been in love with cheated on me when I thought everything was going good. I've been her man for 7 years, and although not the best man, I have always been genuinely nice to her, not the kind of nice where you're just trying to get some tail. Now, the part that boggles my mind is, the part about being nice to them, I feel like given the situation that we were in, living in a small town, two kids, opposing schedules, she's super messed up for cheating on me. It wasn't just one man, and I feel like she's the kind of girl who takes advantage of a real nice guy. It would take a lot for me to explain to you what I've done for her and put up with to feel like me just being an asshole every now and then is not a good enough excuse to cheat on me. I mean damn... At least say hey we need to talk, before doing something like that. Am I wrong?
I am SO sorry that has happened to you! Please don't feel like it's your fault she treated you that way. NO ONE deserves to be treated like that. Unfortunately there are some very toxic women who misuse and mistreat really good guys. Treating a woman with kindness is the way to her heart IF she is a non-toxic woman. The kind of woman who wants to treat you with respect. When she is toxic there is nothing you can do that will help her treat you right because it's on her, not you. Here are some videos I've done on this that you will find helpful th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html I'm sorry again that has happened to you!
Gotta wonder though what's the full story, I don't it was for no reason.
Been there done that. It really comes down to a the fact that she doesn’t respect you. The fact that you can give so much to someone who treats you that way w out leaving her says everything. That in and of itself shows her how little self respect you have or demand for yourself, and it is undoubtedly pervasive throughout your relationship. Respect is fundamental to attraction and she steps out on you sexually but keeps a home w you because she doesn’t respect you as a man but uses u as a provider. She has the power, which is why you’re the one torn up looking for answers when she’s the one out wreaking havoc. Demand the respect you deserve in all facets of your life, from yourself and the people in your life, and if they don’t give it to you, walk away or send them out the fkn door. Do that and watch how everything changes 💯
Hey Melannie, I’m new to you’re channel and its helping me out. I just want to add that having men to get their eyebrows done is empowering as well. I feel great after getting everything done
Welcome! I'm so glad you are liking my videos 😀 That's a great tip! Thanks for sharing!
I just got mine trimed the last time I got a haircut by a women and I look better.
Adds a lot of personality to yourself. Makes women look at the fact you take grooming seriously and try you’re best to look good.
Yes and thank you. God bless you!
You're so positive and spreading the positivity with your videos.
You are so kind! Thank you!
@@CoachMelannie Thank you too🙂
I love the fact that you approach attracting girls from a Christian perspective I love that.
I miss being in a relationship I was married once before and I like to have that dream girl my dreams.
How much are the master classes are they free?
Thank you so much for posting videos on how to attract girls especially the girl of your dreams I was looking for information like this from a Christian perspective.
Yes, the masterclass is free. coachmelannie.com/masterclass
I just love the way you talk, it is refreshing
Thank you for your kind words! Have a great day 😀
Sure. I'd be open to get some. New & budget friendly tips. On looking better
I love your videos and I like the way you smile it’s great thank you so much for putting our great information from a Christian perspective and God bless you Melanie.
I loved that post. Thank you.
Hello Melanie, the first things are noticed about you is your beautiful smile and voice. And you are very skillful. Your teaching is great. Thank You.
I’m happy my videos are helping! 😀
You can tell she likes the topics she’s talking about
Props on changing your hair up. My hair used to be long in high school. Now at 33, I shave my head and absolutely hate how my hair feels when it starts to grow in again.
Many girls find shaved heads very attractive! 😀 Thanks for watching!
@@CoachMelannie You got it, Melanie, and thanks for the boost of confidence. Props on the cute images (the title card for each video) that accompany your videos.
I could listen to you speak for days lol. Your voice is so soothing
Thanks for watching! God bless 🙏
I think you are very insightful when it comes to body language. Keep that kind of info: TY Melannie
Thanks! So glad you liked it! 🙏
I know I got all these on point thank you for confirming
You are very welcome! God bless 🙏
@@CoachMelannie bless you
Oh I've got plenty of girls who like me, and some are more forward than others. The trick is finding that girl who likes me that I like...
Hi Mel, I love your vids so much, you are such a positive person, thanks for everything.
YES, add some videos about dressing attractively
Great! I'll be sure to get right on it 💪 Thanks for your comment!
Very down to earth message
Thank you! I'm happy you liked it 😀
SPEAK💓💛💚🎶🎵🎬🎤💔💔💪🌹 MELANNIE!!!!
Really enjoy your videos Melanie very informational and I can tell your speaking from lots of experience and from the heart thanks so much
You are so welcome! Thank you for watching!
The phrase "make her crush on you" is incredibly vivid and memorable! I can remember those points more readily by fat. Just FYI, FWIW...
Good/nice guys don’t finish last we’re just ahead of our time
Nice guys are the BEST!
Wowww I'm so bless. You are wonderful. You are not only beautiful on the outside but also inside. Love your advice and the way you are putting it so real and charming. They make us good guys feel like no beautiful women for us . I have hope now. Single mummies be wise next time! Don't go after bad guys oooo
I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀
Thankyou Mellani
For this video it really spoke to me as a man
Iam a Christian like yourself
All your video's are God inspired
Unlike most video bloggers
Thankyou
brother Kevin x
Thank you! God bless 🙏
She does think about me and wonders what I’m doing or knows. The problem is that she is with someone else so it’s complicated
Thank You so much Melannie i really like the way You talk so sweet and kind! Bye for now my adorable friend!
Thank you SO much 🙏 I hope you have a great weekend!
Likewise my Human angel!
Right, Mel. I totally agree with you.
Thank you! I'm so happy you like it 😀
Your comments are so powerful,excellent and also enlightening brain box effectively hooshiii coach thanks a lot. Keep up good work may the good Lord bless you. Amen.
Jovan musk cologne really works
Yes on the fashion advice please. I can use it. :/
Sweet! Thanks for letting me know 😀
I have only one purpose for the woman I work with, it's that she can look back 10 years from now and never regret a single second of choosing me! I would love to make her feel like the most loved woman in the world and treat her like a queen every day of her life!
That's great! God bless! 😀
Heres a good question.....How to stop the person thats trying to get in the way of the person you want to be with?
YES!
Some tips about how to dress atractively it would be very good.
NICE!
I am really interested in how to get the traits of a nice confident guy.
Use/say her name was very surprising, I do not understand why and I can not imagine an entire video with thsi tip.
🤔
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Thanks for the tips and encouraging us to be nice guys.
Very true on the haircut
Thanks for watching! 😀
Thanks mel some good tips there.
You are so welcome! Thanks for watching! 😀
Ive watched a lot of videos on getting women and this one was the best so far thanks and nice nice nice
Thank you so much! I am delighted that you are enjoying them 🙏 Have an awesome day!
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Tip #1 is to have an attractive and fluttering hairstyle..... I'm bald, DAMN IT!!! (Lol)
That's totally OK! I've known a lot of men who are totally bald and are insanely attractive. Rock it! 💪
😂😂
Hahaha
It's a good feeling to know my work crush thinks about me all the time with all the body language signals she gives me. The majority of my friends have advised to wait it out until she feels better in her headspace. At least she knows I'm still interested when I made a move before, and I consistently show I'm interested.
Best of luck!👍
@@CoachMelannie thank you!
@quaker hello this is HR we like to see you in our office the next business day.
@@nomadic8000 haha! Well, I'm glad I didn't that coworker. She turned out to be a mess. Also dated several guys at work. Dodged a bullet there.
Hopefully, whoever you have your eye on is listening to what your saying. If not, I have a feeling he's missing out on someone special.
Thank you so much for your kind words and for watching! I appreciate it 🙏 Have a great day!
Your so cute when you bloop things up
Yes Nice ❤️
The bloopers always make me laugh when I watch them again 😂 Thank you for your comment! I'll be sure to make videos on these topics soon!
What if you're partially bald on top in your teeth gone so what do I need to do
It's nice to teach people how to act dignified
Thank you so much! Have a great day 😀
Hi melaine you looking so pretty and glowing you talking Very sweetly
Awww! Thank you 😀
Wouldn't the feeling be more genuine if she thought about me on her own or do similar thoughts run through similar minds. Maybe we only visualize in our mind the exact opposite of who's thinking about who
I have to say Coach Melannie looks hot herself. And i love that microphone she's using it makes this video sound great👍
Please talk much more about "Nice Guys" and women. Thank you!
I have a video coming soon on this topic!
You are so great! God bless you!
Thank you so much for your kind words! 😀 God bless!
Folks gotta understand that they need to set up boundaries and have a backbone.
Yes! Not setting boundaries is the reason many people think girls don't like good guys. In reality it's the fact that he doesn't have a back bone that is unattractive to her. Thanks for watching!
@@CoachMelannie Well, it's also who Women end up choosing while not selecting the Men they know are actually good for them. That's a major part of the problem.
I'd like to see the videos on mens fashion
Jaw lines haha, I just started doing that recently, wasn't sure how ladies felt about that🙂
thanks Melanie!
You are welcome! Thank YOU for watching and commenting 😀
@@CoachMelannie although i'm not paying, just wanted u to know that your advice is helpful and valuable 😙
Thank you you give me a big point
My pleasure! Thanks for watching. 🙏
As far as hair on my head, im older and lost most of my hair, but as far as facial hair i have a beard and keep trimmed, as far as cologne i usually use polo blue cologne
You really do have a pleasant smile
NICE!
All your tips are going to help
I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀
What do you think of Eternity For Men? I know it's not an expensive cologne but I like it.
If you like the smell after you put it on and it's not too overpowering then it should be a great choice! Have a happy day! 😀
YES! YES! YES!
Two tips in: Sharp haircut and stubble... I have a shaved head and a full beard :D.
Believe me, Coach, if I land her, all this will be worth. Vote for dressing videos...
I guess the Texting/saying her name. Definitely gonna try that.
That's a good one! You've got this 💪
Thanks! The last one is my favorite!!!
I love that one too! Thanks for watching 😀
Coach Melannie,
You are so genuine and thank you.
Please more on fashion dressing. AND haircuts for men. Thank you!
I talk a lot about this in my program. And here are a few videos I've already done on this. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VhSo0oY4quqslQJ09AZaLO.html Thanks so much for your comment!
Good tips. Someone else did recommend cologne and not the cheap kind so the girl you like remembers how you smell even more. I was thinking to try cologne that's kind of beach themed and not that expensive. Though I am hoping with the kind of work I do, which sometimes makes me sweat a little, that the cologne will last since I usually see the girl I like after I am done with my shift.
Some girls I met online that live overseas are clearly attracted to me already when we only talked a short time. I still rather date the one girl I like that lives near me. Maybe you can make a video dealing with foreign women soon? Many are Christian and want a white man for a husband.
I like the tip to use cologne that isn't cheap! I was actually going to mention that but kind of ran out of time lol Thanks for your suggestions and for watching 😀
You have said about hairstyles as your first tip. What about hairstyles for bald men. How can you help them
Im balding also, but hairstyles for bald men made me laugh.
That's totally ok! I've known several men who are completely bald and still very attractive. Often the best approach is to just shave all of it and embrace it rather than try to fight it or cover it up. Rock what you got 💪 😀
Hoping to find a girl just like you😊
good video, thanks!
I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏
Hi Melanie I enjoy watching your channel, I have a question though in regard to having a good haircut! What if the guys hair is thinning and receeding ?
That's not a problem to most women. The important thing is the haircut shouldn't look like you're trying to hide it. I hope that helps!
Yes and recommend cologne
Here's a link to my Amazon store with several cologne suggestions 😀 www.amazon.com/shop/coachmelannie
@@CoachMelannie thanks. you're amazing
Listening about haircuts while going bold. 😑
Bald can be very attractive too!
@@CoachMelannie you made me laugh because it's funny and also true. 😄
What if you look like Thor? Lol. Long hair, muscular, and a 2 guard on beard.
I would want a girl to think about me all the time
You have a beautiful Smile ☺️
Nice.
Great! I'll be sure to make a video on this soon 😀
My question is why can women drown their self in perfume all day and when a man smokes he can't spray it.
What do we do if we love the teacher and school is out forever?
Coach Melanie just a question do you prefer funny confident men or introverted (confident ) quiet men
Hi I started wearing colonge at work as I have a crush on a coworker and I've noticed that ever since I've been wearing it, she has noticed me more.
That's great!😀
I love the way you sound. its very relaxing
She's Def a good girl
Hello my wonderful friend :)
Hello 😊 Have a great day!