Why I’m Alone

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  • @Dash.12
    @Dash.12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2431

    It’s okay to be alone

    • @RainyYears
      @RainyYears 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Just hard

    • @gingw7333
      @gingw7333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@RainyYears Not so hard when the alternative is abusive family. It's a relief.

    • @sma3897
      @sma3897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I want to be alone but I know that things would happen

    • @andrilsantiago3269
      @andrilsantiago3269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah as long as i got thousand bucks alone is always best

    • @Chmbs.33
      @Chmbs.33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s easy

  • @Robuilt
    @Robuilt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3170

    We love Mav.

    • @Landomeisterr
      @Landomeisterr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      WE LOVE MAV

    • @MissEwe
      @MissEwe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      We ❤ Mav

    • @Chef_Nick
      @Chef_Nick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We

    • @taprick
      @taprick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We 🖤 Mav.

    • @1blueorange
      @1blueorange 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I hate mav

  • @bingus8025
    @bingus8025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I never really noticed how similar we all are, anti-social yet random burst of conversation. That really hits home on my personality.

  • @kayd690
    @kayd690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +539

    I took myself out on my first solo “date” in my early 20’s. It felt weird at first, but it became necessary to push myself to be comfortable alone more so in public, I’m an introvert too. I had a 4 course meal that day and it was glorious. I encourage everyone I know to get to know themselves this way. I’ve also gone for drinks and a movie solo. I’m working up to traveling on my own. It’s pretty great to know you can do anything on your own if you choose to. Plus if you can’t like you then how can anyone else?

    • @tommyleibow3996
      @tommyleibow3996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I love going to restaurants alone, my friends say it’s weird cuz i’m 17 but I find it’s very nice. Being alone truly is the only way to learn more about yourself.

    • @SpecialPenguinnn
      @SpecialPenguinnn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Love it

    • @rinhu8864
      @rinhu8864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If you can do drinks and a movie solo you'll have no problem travelling, it's actually a lot easier. Just book the trip without thinking too much.

    • @snubnosedmonke
      @snubnosedmonke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      good idea and way to expression your own self and get to know yourself personally.

    • @bigsmoke4357
      @bigsmoke4357 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But how to learn new People or talk to new People while travelling or having a Drink Alone?

  • @HappyPower
    @HappyPower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    This video speaks to me, couldn't have explained it any better.

    • @AJ-we8cu
      @AJ-we8cu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Samee

    • @browndog9402
      @browndog9402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yea this video speaks to me on so many levels, my sisters have both passed and my parents and we dont have anything to do with that side of the family since my sisters passed so its just me and the wife and our son. I kind of hate christmas it always brings back memories of years past.

    • @Jeppstep
      @Jeppstep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ITS THE GUY FROM FORTNITE

    • @toxicscrub3414
      @toxicscrub3414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts💯

    • @hanslain9729
      @hanslain9729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everyone has social batteries of different capacities.

  • @stevencartlidge6574
    @stevencartlidge6574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    I can totally relate Mav. At 58 I have spent most of my life living alone and still do. All I need socially is to drop by the local country store for few minutes to say hey to one or two people and I'm good...lol

    • @leawarren3004
      @leawarren3004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m only 23 and I’ve been pretty isolated since 18 and I’m losing my mind how do you do it 😭

    • @user-uy3eq5hg1s
      @user-uy3eq5hg1s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Reasons that I spend 95% of my time alone: 1. people are annoying 2. you can't trust anyone 3. people make me uncomfortable 4. I don't have to be self-conscious when I'm alone 5. less chance of being murdered 6. way less drama/head trips 7. no one to boss me around

    • @frenchtoast4630
      @frenchtoast4630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@user-uy3eq5hg1s I agree with you a lil, but family is so good to be around. Just there love for you can mean so much even in those times of pain 😔

    • @akmazaary9197
      @akmazaary9197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      havent seen someone over 50 use "lol"

    • @user-uy3eq5hg1s
      @user-uy3eq5hg1s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@frenchtoast4630 Happy for you that you have some good family, count your blessings. I have one great family member: my mom. Everyone else is sketchy, has betrayed me or is downright unfriendly. That's why I specified 95% of my time. I like to spend the other 5% of my time with my mom or my 1 decent friend or sometimes others, when I can.

  • @taketothehighwaydotcom3152
    @taketothehighwaydotcom3152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    It took me twice as many years to figure this out than it did Mav. If you can learn to be comfortable being alone, and learn to enjoy your own company, it's one of the greatest gifts you can bestow upon yourself in life.

    • @arnavsadhu
      @arnavsadhu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      For me personally, its getting too comfortable being alone. The balance needs to be there which I keep trying to push myself into to meet new people.

  • @SGTPaul-0891
    @SGTPaul-0891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    One of my fondest memories:
    Came home after a year stationed in South Korea, bought a new truck, drove by myself from NY to WA State. Seeing America like that - by myself - from the perspective of someone who was in a very foreign culture for a year - it was amazing. It would have taken away from the experience had someone been with me, I think.

  • @MrWobbles
    @MrWobbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1535

    Hey man this video was really special for what I’m going through in my life, hope you’re doing good and your channel is such a cozy and important place on TH-cam.
    Keep doing you

    • @michaelp1630
      @michaelp1630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      the bard himself watches mav? sick!

    • @trippyfan
      @trippyfan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      bro i love your videos

    • @Klog_uk
      @Klog_uk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can relate highly also and have been a long time veiwer of your channel (fuck knows if u can check but its been years). Really happy to have seen your development in all aspects of life x (ur talented as and a lovely person stay wobbling fella)

    • @Unnchul
      @Unnchul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love your videos

    • @eclipsefreakfhp
      @eclipsefreakfhp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I watch your videos also sir. You are funny and a great singer imo. Keep your head up love you bro.

  • @UnrefinedDiamond
    @UnrefinedDiamond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I feel you 100% on the “extroverted introvert” deal. Sometimes I just wanna laugh, talk and hang out. Other times I just wanna be left alone to do what I want, be it cooking something different, playing video games, driving with some good music, etc.

    • @Lewdacris916
      @Lewdacris916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yeah im definitely this way, i need a large amount of solo time to really enjoy myself. i cant imagine living with somebody 24/7 i feel like i would not be able to fully be myself, not sure if i will ever get married lol.

    • @shadevelt
      @shadevelt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Lewdacris916 ikr like one day they gon leave u

    • @OhSnapKat
      @OhSnapKat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am the same way. I enjoy being around other people, however, I enjoy being alone more.

  • @MrJjfist
    @MrJjfist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    The way you explained being an introvert but still enjoying extroverted activities at times is exactly how I feel. Just gotta take time to charge the social battery sometimes. Living the dream mav! Becoming a bigger fan every day

  • @briawhite7658
    @briawhite7658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels this way.. I always thought it was bad but I enjoy being by myself 90-95% of the time.

  • @pinipcourtois2097
    @pinipcourtois2097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    ... You are "alone" and yet you have 1.7 million of us traveling with you and listening to you... Thank you Maverick for sharing, you are appreciated ... Keep on trucking 👍🙏

  • @DetroBoii299
    @DetroBoii299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Shout out to you man, I suffer from depression and I always feel alone but ever since I started watching your videos, I started venturing off to do things on my own and it feels amazing

    • @AlexBleach
      @AlexBleach 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s honestly not bad
      Makes u feel at peace

  • @tjbrower
    @tjbrower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    I felt this as I’m sure a lot of other people did. Mental health is important yet an extremely tough subject to address. Keep on truckin’ Mav.

  • @THEMUDBUSTERS4
    @THEMUDBUSTERS4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I feel ya man! I’m 25 and single. Bought a house a little over a year ago. I wanted to go on some trips because I have this desire to explore and camp in the wilderness. I kept telling myself I wanted to wait to experience these things with my future wife, but it hit me that we aren’t promised tomorrow, and if I wanted to do something I just need to go do it. So I drove 18 hours to the Grand Canyon over Spring Break last year and hiked to the bottom and back up in one day (something I told myself I wanted to do before I died). I’m planning another trip this Spring Break and it’s been on my mind to go to other places this summer when I’m not working. This video has helped me decide that I am going to do just that.
    If anyone has made it this far into my comment, just know that tomorrow may never come. Your desires today may never happen if you wait to see them out. Go and do what it is you’ve been pushing off until so and so happens. There is no better time than the present.

    • @oakdman7781
      @oakdman7781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude u literally described me and how I'm feeling rn. Though I'm 19 and just graduated high school I don't wanna waste a day. I'm planning to go a park and just camp out of my ford explorer.

    • @shantanujain6376
      @shantanujain6376 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow you bought your own house at 25!!??? That's amazing Man!
      I'm 28 and I don't think I'll ever be able to buy my own little place 😅

  • @Bill_Russell_aka_Coolbreeze
    @Bill_Russell_aka_Coolbreeze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    Honestly... I've been living alone for over 20 years now and I don't think I could do it any other way anymore. I completely get it.

    • @shootpse88
      @shootpse88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same here Bud,been divorced 26 years been single the whole time.wouldnt know how to live with a significant other.

    • @Beaumcwhorter281
      @Beaumcwhorter281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👍🏻

    • @jstanders6973
      @jstanders6973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same here Bill. 21yrs by myself and I don't think I could be around someone now. Empth too. Cheers..

    • @FloppedPizzaParty
      @FloppedPizzaParty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just bought a house a few years ago and I think I'm getting started on your guys journey. My outlet is reading/music.

    • @Aahuwi
      @Aahuwi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Being alone is great. Keep yourself well

  • @peach7796
    @peach7796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    You’re not alone you have all of us and we adore you!

    • @Smarterthanyou-mthrfkr
      @Smarterthanyou-mthrfkr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If that’s your real face, I adore you too!

    • @peach7796
      @peach7796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aww ☺️ thank you!

    • @4ndy123
      @4ndy123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Smarterthanyou-mthrfkr agreed lol

    • @david_perales172
      @david_perales172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You cute

    • @situated4
      @situated4 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, Peach.

  • @jay702kidd
    @jay702kidd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    This video is exactly why I started following your channel Mav. I agree with everything you said. Especially when you said, being in a room full of people and being lonely. I learn to be alone after a long time. And yes it is powerful to be able to be alone.

    • @janieleishman9130
      @janieleishman9130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea I’m an introvert . Even though I’ve always been living with ppl . I was married and I raised 5 kids . I got divorced but we still stayed together for years afterwards . I’ve lived with a couple of boy friends . I’ve lived with my oldest daughter and her husband and kids and now I live and take care of my 91 year old father . But after he passes away I want to buy a van and live in it all by myself except for my dogs . Right now I got three and they’re my fur babies . I never really liked being around a bunch of ppl I didn’t like going to the bars or concerts .

  • @tepsan
    @tepsan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    My dude, it’s so refreshing hearing a fit and young guy talk about eating at restaurants alone.
    As a ”big guy” and always have been a big guy, I can relate so much to what you were saying. I’ve learned the last 4 years, for me, that it’s about being totally selfcentered and imagining the whole world revolves around me and everybody watching my every move and thinking that I knew what people were thinking about me because that’s how I would think about me or them.
    As you said, it is such a freedom to be comfortable in your own company at any place.
    Very intimate and good video Maverick.
    Thank you for making it, I really do love all your content.
    Much love from Sweden. / teps

  • @jachorn36
    @jachorn36 3 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    This dude is always spitting facts. He got me to start living outta my SUV and start traveling around the states. Thanks Mav for being a rad dude and sharing your journey with us!

    • @Nick-gh8hf
      @Nick-gh8hf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Nate Higgers what?

    • @Nick-gh8hf
      @Nick-gh8hf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Nate Higgers dude what are you talking about you can literally just get a test and then board your plane. Don’t know where you get your information from

    • @Nick-gh8hf
      @Nick-gh8hf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Nate Higgers dude I’m not even trying to discuss the vaccine 🤣🤣 I don’t even think the poster of the comment was trying to have a conversation about the vaccine

    • @BillyBob-im7og
      @BillyBob-im7og 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how do you make money, or do you just go on your time off

    • @Tazzc
      @Tazzc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Nate Higgers Your name 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @deeisme1369
    @deeisme1369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    Personally since losing my other half I’m enjoying the solitude. He taught me a lot about doing things on my own and so far his advice served me well. I still have our two dogs and although having to return to the workforce coming home to quiet has been a blessing. If you start to feel alone a dog serves as a great companion. Yes my dogs miss him but the loss has brought us closer. You can come and go when you want and only have to answer to my four legged kids. My time is that mine and we go when we want. Nice!!

    • @ther3aper561
      @ther3aper561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I've always said if my wife dies I'll probably never move on, and honestly reading this has made me a little more comfortable with that idea. Thank you for sharing, I hope all is well!

    • @rosenia5409
      @rosenia5409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Getting a cat is a great idea too if you’re not into the outside walks. Adopting is the best!

    • @NOBOX7
      @NOBOX7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      BULLSHIT , being alone is like being on a boat thats slowly drifting out to sea , get back to shore NOW ...

    • @axelstone3131
      @axelstone3131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Honestly. You sounds a bit like an emotionless robot.

    • @reptiliancow
      @reptiliancow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@NOBOX7 not for everyone.

  • @billnoland9832
    @billnoland9832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    I feel this. It's weird but it's kinda nice to know other people feel similar. Love the vids Mav, keep on truckin.

  • @Jordan-wz7rj
    @Jordan-wz7rj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This made me happy just as a young adult and thinking I’m the one who is wrong for wanting to be alone it’s nice to feel normal and belong

  • @YoursUntruly
    @YoursUntruly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Mental health is a huge problem for me right now.
    It has been for a few years actually. Your videos are a great outlet for me.

  • @klyyoung2728
    @klyyoung2728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I met you at a restaurant in Duluth a few months ago, Mav. You are a super down to earth person. I had a great time chatting with you. We all have our own place to escape to and recharge. Just keep doing what you are doing.

  • @ClawBoss
    @ClawBoss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    We love you Mav. Well said 🤙🏼

    • @matthewschram1100
      @matthewschram1100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Claw boss

    • @ryanmurphy7300
      @ryanmurphy7300 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      With this guy hair he seems like he can get alot of girls 😊

    • @4WDutah
      @4WDutah 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Holy shit Claw watches Mav!?!

  • @benwatts5507
    @benwatts5507 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is exactly why i watch you, for the introvert in me that has no way of honoring that. Watching ur vids satisfies that without having to leave my living room😂

  • @davismichele21
    @davismichele21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I too am an introvert and can relate to everything you talked about and also totally agree with you. Thanks for the reminder that I’m not alone and that there are others who feel the same way!!!!!

  • @G.Photogirl
    @G.Photogirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I'm also an introvert, can relate to what you said. Interestingly enough, there's a side of me that's not introverted, I used to front a band and play in front of big crowds of people in clubs, but the day after a gig I'd always have to be totally alone to decompress from the massive stimulation and energy being around large groups can bring. Now I've chosen photography as my creative outlet which is great because it's singular and I love working alone.

    • @AGuyNamedRicky
      @AGuyNamedRicky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude same? I had a 3 piece band in college. My friends wondered why I could be in front of a crowd singing but in a room full of people I’d be all alone. Something about the etiquette I guess. Sometimes we just need to recharge. Our lights burn hot and bright but for a short time

  • @annettemurielle
    @annettemurielle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You sound like a perfectly normal extroverted introvert. And you're right, being able to function well on your own is extremely important. Bravo!

  • @javachopTV
    @javachopTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    You are an inspiration to all us extroverted loners, Mav. You are the perfect example of a healthy INFJ, and its really cool seeing someone like you living your best life. Don't stop, bro.

  • @kirk1968
    @kirk1968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Right on, man. I'm an INFJ and totally relate (and have had my own "I like your shoes" moments, haha). What's great about the internet is that we as introverts can still connect with people while on our own and keeping our space, and your channel is an excellent example of that! It's been great to see both you and your audience grow, hoping you have a blessed and absolutely rocking 2022.

  • @nevanrushing3608
    @nevanrushing3608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Mav! You’re a good dude, humble, respectful-overall the real deal. There are so many content providers that could learn a lesson or three! Great channel-Great job!

  • @rogeranderson6668
    @rogeranderson6668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Greetings Mav I'm 67 now I love hunting I love fishing I'm an introvert been married to one good woman for 34 years now had seven kids but I still like being alone it helps me stay focused positive and loving everybody else. Keep doing what you're doing you'll go far Lad. God bless Y'all and much peace and love from northeast Texas 🤠✌️🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸 🇺🇸✨🧸✨

  • @herme8863
    @herme8863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    It took me my whole life all 58 years but 4 surgeries forced me to get comfortable with myself or not. I am. I feel better when I’m alone. I set my priorities and that’s Mexico this year lol!! No worries about another I can barely handle myself. Keep on truckin Mav. Do what your self tells you. I sometimes don’t and regret it.

  • @LisaMarie_Fox
    @LisaMarie_Fox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Seriously this is how I feel all the time.. ppl are always asking me why I take so many walks alone and "adventures" Alone. I just prefer it. I love people too don't get me wrong but yah. This hit home. Thanks Mav

  • @andrewridal8535
    @andrewridal8535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “Sometimes I can feel alone in a room full of people” I’m sure this will resonate with a whole lot of people - it certainly does with me. What a great, positive video. Thank you for sharing.

    • @pinky2245
      @pinky2245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ditto!!

  • @robbierobison9105
    @robbierobison9105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bro you seem more together and self aware than 99.9% of us. You do you and stay blessed.

  • @GypsyPanthr
    @GypsyPanthr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You hit the nail on the head with your explanation. I can’t get a lick done with people around and it’s exhausting being a chameleon when they are.

  • @nancyjarrell4620
    @nancyjarrell4620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Hi Mav! I'm old enough to be your grandmother but I love watching your adventures. I totally get how you prefer to be just with you! I am the same way even though I work with the public. When I come home to my sanctuary it is a slice of heaven. Keep on keepin on my friend!!

    • @BigBrotherMars
      @BigBrotherMars 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nancy Jarrell

    • @BigBrotherMars
      @BigBrotherMars 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What a wholesome comment

    • @rene5375
      @rene5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My sentiments exactly!

    • @marliesyanke4580
      @marliesyanke4580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nancy
      I feel same. He's a good young man.

    • @katrinabuckson2653
      @katrinabuckson2653 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I go to restaurants alone; I do like company sometimes. I'm a loner have been that way for years. Maverick just do you

  • @jaydanmcqueen7
    @jaydanmcqueen7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Honestly, this may have been my most favorite video you’ve made. Honest and true to yourself, keep doing what makes you and this channel great brotha!

  • @Patton0911
    @Patton0911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When you are able to walk alone, you learn so much more about who you are. ✌🏻

  • @Crystal-Theeto
    @Crystal-Theeto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love this. Being able to live and do things alone is absolute bliss.

  • @cindytaylor5962
    @cindytaylor5962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’ve learned more about myself alone then with others. You’re an amazing person and your POVs always inspire me, love the fishing, camping, cooking and everything outdoors. Looking forward to more with the new camper! Thanks for sharing!

  • @tarian1287
    @tarian1287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I've always said there is a difference between being alone....and being lonely. You're doing just fine Mav! Keep on Truckin!

  • @t_separator
    @t_separator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    What people don’t understand is, that an introvert recharges when he’s by himself and extroverts recharges when he’s around other people. There is nothing bad about either of the two types. You need to understand what you are and be fine with it.

    • @diplosoriano9898
      @diplosoriano9898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You said extrovert twice

    • @jac1897
      @jac1897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      People don't understand the exact definition of introvert and extrovert? Lmao you good bro?

    • @avril4259
      @avril4259 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jac1897 So, what's your definition?

  • @abigaelfender3779
    @abigaelfender3779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is super relatable. I always feel like my truest most authentic self when I'm alone. I just discovered your channel and am loving your content! Your funny and authentic and your dialogue is fantastic! Your presence is magnetic, thanks for sharing your adventures!

  • @marsdiep1976
    @marsdiep1976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    As a fellow introvert I can totally relate and I have early on reached a point where I got over people challenging my need for alone time and slowly everybody either accepted it or those few who didn’t, are no more a part of my life.

    • @dalegereaux1863
      @dalegereaux1863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People that matter don't care,
      And people that care don't matter.

    • @nexztrah3712
      @nexztrah3712 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      go outside

  • @jamesfrommanitoba.1992
    @jamesfrommanitoba.1992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Definitely one of the best you tube channels on this earth. Fishing, hunting, camping, traveling,cooking and mental health all in one place. Mav your an angel but you just don’t know it.

  • @Alanica47
    @Alanica47 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey Mav! I’m an Introvert too and totally relate to all you said. Sometimes we just need time away from people to recharge or do our own thing. :)

  • @mentici
    @mentici 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m currently in hospital right now and your videos are helping me through a really hard time where I can’t see family and friends, I never feel alone watching your vids Mav, Keep On Trucking!

    • @debbiepalmer1094
      @debbiepalmer1094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sending good wishes for your healing. xx

    • @mentici
      @mentici 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@debbiepalmer1094 thank you xx

  • @sp0rkenste1n46
    @sp0rkenste1n46 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm an introvert too. Even family gatherings take a lot out of me, and I can't wait to get back home (I live alone). I spend a majority of my time by myself, which is how I like it. However, a few years ago I went on vacation alone to Japan for two and a half weeks. The last two weeks of which I spent wandering all over Tokyo, the most populated city on the planet. I loved every minute of it. So I do have my extroverted moments.

  • @cookiethompson7526
    @cookiethompson7526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    💕😇 From 1 introvert to another…thank you for all you do MAV! My coping mechanism for being an introvert was to be the opposite…a social butterfly when others were around! One day I searched 🏕 and your video popped up and been watching you every since. I’m very afraid to be in the woods, so I watch you have fun. Now…I tell the truth! It’s my free will to protect my mental health. Outside my immediate family that understands me I like to be alone..and there’s nothing wrong with that! 💕😇

  • @CountryBoyGamin
    @CountryBoyGamin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love the realness/raw thoughts, it’s super inspiring man, please continue to be you and make more content like this. Makes me feel secure/inspired I hope to have the balls like you do to do this

  • @ME-hm3tc
    @ME-hm3tc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This resonates with me so much. I can be the nicest and friendliest person around others, but the whole time, even among friends and family, I am thinking of what I can do on my own.

  • @5nowwiz25
    @5nowwiz25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've been busting my ass to build a nice travel van and go to do the things I love. Being alone isn't always as bad as it sounds. You give me motivation MAV, keep going.

  • @catherinefoster1481
    @catherinefoster1481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I absolutely LOVE being by myself. I enjoy being with people but on a limited basis only. Do what makes you feel good Mav.

  • @coffeebeans7912
    @coffeebeans7912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This is me lol. I struggle with lonliness at times but being around people is draining. So its a double edged sword. Its hard finding that balance within yourself. Your videos are like therapy to me lol, keep doing your thing man .

    • @the_quaint_gypsy
      @the_quaint_gypsy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You need to realize I mean you've already done half the work because you realize that people are draining. But you also have to realize that you don't need other people. They might need you but you don't need them. There's other things you can do with your life to make it fulfilling without depending upon others and what they think. Make them accept you for you, instead of them expecting you to accept them.

    • @taiytaiy09
      @taiytaiy09 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same! Well said!

    • @the_quaint_gypsy
      @the_quaint_gypsy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had a 1970 VW bus that I customized with copper paint and I redid the interior I did the exterior but the one thing I painted on the outside was "Be who you are not what people expect you to be. " I painted that like 40 years ago and I still think it holds true

  • @GeeDoesItBig
    @GeeDoesItBig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Every part of this video made me feel like you were talking STRAIGHT TO ME. Chills man! Appreciate your content and allowing your self to be REAL even in front of a camera.

  • @bonniepwtf
    @bonniepwtf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I remember when I first read about introverts & realized I wasn't alone & that what I felt was shared. I love my time alone & since I retired, it's even better. Congrats on figuring so much of these important life lessons so early. ✌

  • @andymonzon7518
    @andymonzon7518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    something about the timing of this video hit different. thank you for just speaking and it honestly felt like you were speaking directly to me. it felt good to know that i’m not the only one who sometimes just wants to be alone and away from other people. i love this video so much and i’m so glad you took your time to film this because i appreciate it

  • @MacabreLondon
    @MacabreLondon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Anybody else here to relax before bed? Mav, your videos are so calming!

  • @Mentalsamurai28
    @Mentalsamurai28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am I the only one that finds the sound of his keys jingling, engine turning on, beeping sound from car and blinker signal sounds soothing and relaxing?

  • @morganwest95
    @morganwest95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Dang I felt this video in my bones. It's been hard to help my close family understand that 1. I'm safe doing stuff like what you do and 2. I genuinely enjoy doing solo road trips, camping trips, hiking, etc. Thanks for always being an inspiration, Mav.

    • @ToddCopeland
      @ToddCopeland 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup! I remember one time telling a co-worker (in front of other people) where I'd be going and what I'd be doing (rappelling a slot canyon alone). He said, you should tell someone where you will be going. I said.... I thought I just did? It was funny but also kind of a truth.

  • @ZaniyyahEBlue
    @ZaniyyahEBlue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Haven’t been here that long, but I’ve reached the “protect Mav with your life stage” and I feel like it’s all happening so fast lol these are the most relaxing videos I could watch. The entire channel is so comfy, even when the weather makes me a little nervous. The people commenting are just as sweet. We should all go camping 🥾🏕

    • @IWillSmurfYou
      @IWillSmurfYou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where are we meeting up bud?

    • @BB-tg3rm
      @BB-tg3rm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💪🏽 I feel the same.

  • @brendajean623
    @brendajean623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Happier living alone makes perfect sense. I would love to be on my own, but can’t afford to. A person can rely on themselves and will rarely lie to themselves. I think it’s a perfect lifestyle. One I hope to try someday! Good for you! I’m happy you realize what makes you happy, and you have the guts to do it!!! I love your channel! Keep up the great work!

  • @millionairework8576
    @millionairework8576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wish you happiness and success👊Such a great guy!

  • @TheHotFlash80
    @TheHotFlash80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I felt the comment “ sometimes in a room full of people you can still feel alone.” Deep in my soul. Love your channel!

  • @kenethbudgets6034
    @kenethbudgets6034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    *Mav first and most happy new year* but in reality just want to thank you for inspiring me to start my own TH-cam channel ✨ wish you nothing but success & good health 🙏🏼

  • @TinaSotis
    @TinaSotis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    Social and human interaction is everything. Like Mav says, even having breakfast in a cafe with other people around can be enough for the day. Without that, we're lost.

    • @montanan832
      @montanan832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Comes down to preference.

    • @clreed9690
      @clreed9690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Actually, many people do not feel that “ social and human interaction is everything “ Many introverts feel it is not a necessity at all. Most cannot comprehend that others have different needs.

    • @darky1376
      @darky1376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not really lol. I love life more without social interaction. Don't feel lost at all. Stop generalizing

  • @Bran252
    @Bran252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sometimes I just watch a Mav video and that’s enough for me not to feel alone in a day.
    Being alone isn’t that bad.
    Thanks Mav for the content.

  • @NitroBoarder17
    @NitroBoarder17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Fantastic insights, sharing your personal experiences, imparting some wisdom. I appreciate that Mav!

  • @WAgunfun
    @WAgunfun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    I’m a “loner”. I usually feel pretty down about myself, idk why but for some reason this video made me feel ok for a bit. I guess it’s nice to just know it’s ok to not be the center of attention. That it’s ok to just cruise by myself. I don’t really know what I’m saying… thanks Mav and take care man.

    • @AlexBleach
      @AlexBleach 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You’re alright man
      What he saying is people have an influence on you and being by yourself you know what you wanna do. Aka spending your time you’re way

    • @ashextraordinaire
      @ashextraordinaire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Dude you're good. I'm a loner too, and I don't know how old you are, but it was only in my 30s that I really started to accept that it's okay. Enjoy your life!

    • @RayGunz101
      @RayGunz101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m loner too I only like a select few of friends but I enjoy being alone then a crowd of people that’s okay boys

    • @circuitbreaker8314
      @circuitbreaker8314 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is somewhat autism stuff, i have this also.

    • @MeTreesndirt
      @MeTreesndirt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's not normal for young peep to hide out. U need to be enjying the company be of your buds and keeping up ok r building relat.s to last by thru your lives.

  • @kevinmagee6450
    @kevinmagee6450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I'm in my mid 50's and retired. It took me a long time to realize that being alone is much better than being with the wrong person. I thought I would end up being alone for the rest of my life and it nearly happened and I was fine with it. But that changed for the better a couple of years ago. If you meet the right woman you will know it. Adopting a shelter dog or cat is a great remedy for loneliness as both you and the animal win if you have the ability to take care of it.

    • @Shawn-my2fn
      @Shawn-my2fn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Early 40s here. I know exactly what you're saying. I was scared to live alone when I was younger. I thought my inner thoughts would do me in without someone to break the silence. I was wrong. I bought a house on 2 acres 10 years ago for 28k...not a palace, but it's paid off, and I can reno now. Also got a couple of hard luck case cats from the SPCA. Just socializing them has been a few years battle already. Maybe I'll meet someone, maybe I already know them. Who knows. Sometimes I post long, convoluted responses to Reddit or YT then delete them. I won't delete this one. We are Stardust. We are Golden.

    • @shallwegettit7874
      @shallwegettit7874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Shawn-my2fn you and Kevin know what’s up we’re all put here for a good time 🤞🏽

    • @97I30T
      @97I30T 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup. It’s way better to be alone and wish you were with somebody than it is to be with somebody and wish you were alone.

    • @kevinmagee6450
      @kevinmagee6450 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@97I30T Well said!

  • @airforcemama22
    @airforcemama22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video completely spoke to my soul. Keep doing what you need to be healthy and happy, friend!

  • @flamesincali733
    @flamesincali733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Hey I feel the alone vibes but it’s always good to see people every once and a while

    • @BA-so3mx
      @BA-so3mx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As long as one doesnt feel like he is going in the wrong direction and feeling depression of being alone..sometimes being alone is the best remedy for peace and to find yourself, i would say.
      Some can't handle being alone though, make sure to know yourself.

    • @leahwilliams9333
      @leahwilliams9333 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Idk man...I feel like nearly everytime I see people I am more depressed/less at peace. Sincerely can't stand filling my head with their experiences. I don't like them. I really need to figure out why. I think I'm just nervous and feel like they're competing with me a bit. I really should address that. It's rather unhealthy but I'm genuinely not desiring friendship beyond my immediate family and have been that way most of my life. It is so exhausting.

  • @danieljunior2382
    @danieljunior2382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    But you are never alone, my friend. We're all here with you! Keep on trucking!

  • @matthewheiman7607
    @matthewheiman7607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Hey Mav,
    It always seems like whenever im dealing with something diffuclt in my life you post a video adressing something challenging in your life as well. Your words when you describe how you feel really hit home with me, even if our problems aren't the same on the surface. I want to thank you for making and posting these videos, they really help me and im sure a lot of other people too. All the best to you and your family!
    -Matt

  • @georgiacorey954
    @georgiacorey954 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "family is the greatest joy & greatest turmoil..." and the face you made after that, cracked me up. I bet your Mom loved that. Your personality reminds me somewhat of my son's. But honestly, I completely get where you're coming from. My self made campervan, or the house after everyone has left, is my place of rejuvenation, ahhhhh. Love your videos kiddo.

  • @joanneb3524
    @joanneb3524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    100% understand what you're saying. I'm just glad my family understands that when I need time away or by myself.....they understand and don't give me crap about it.

  • @Leocaprio.Dinardo
    @Leocaprio.Dinardo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    seems like you've navigated your loneliness/solidarity with efforts to entertain yourself with healthy habits. that's more than most can say. I also struggle with the burden of feeling like a chameleon in social situations and like your energy can impact others around you, preferring to be left alone and not show your colors. keep on truckin' man, just found you but see a lot of myself in your vlogs. cheers brother thanks for sharing

  • @steveniece9247
    @steveniece9247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Mav, dude I can resonate with every word you said in this video. I'm starting off 2022 coming out of a relationship a rent house, and moving into my truck full time... Great to hear some of my own thoughts about myself coming from a beautiful, successful, and most importantly happy person. Thanks for all you do Mav, love ya bud!!!

  • @tylerlatulipe3967
    @tylerlatulipe3967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I literally resonate with what your saying you feel in this video, I feel less crazy after watching this 😂 seriously! Love the videos MAV I’m about to be on the road traveling around this year, fishing and exploring might start vloging my travels! Hope this year is amazing for you!

  • @matthiasgraveel9191
    @matthiasgraveel9191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m a trucker and I agree introvert is a big reason I like this job, I love my family but being on the road alone by myself and good music of course is something I enjoy, but the downside of that is finding a partner in life I’m so comfortable and used to be alone that I kinda have a problem when others outside my family come too close

    • @kscommentary9710
      @kscommentary9710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same lol 😂 although I’m not a trucker but I do work for a trucking company

    • @joshuafrost6496
      @joshuafrost6496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel ya there fellow driver.

    • @josealegria3615
      @josealegria3615 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fellow driver here and I agree 100%, my father was the same. I am now pursuing a degree in nursing and it is difficult having to deal with so many people on the daily.

  • @matthewlizzio7431
    @matthewlizzio7431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm actually scared how similar I am to you. You mean a lot to me. Will always support you bro. Much love

  • @KCars
    @KCars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I definitely agree with this mentality. I feel like us "introverted extroverts" just get bored being social and doing things that other people want to do. Keep it up Mav!

  • @slvrwhls
    @slvrwhls 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The entire time you spoke in such an empowering way, and it’s really awesome that you do the things you do simply because you want to live life how YOU want to live it. There’s nothing wrong with being alone, some people are just made that way, and that’s okay.

  • @CactusJinx
    @CactusJinx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I feel you on that introverted extrovert thing. Sometimes I think it’s an only-child thing (I’m an only child too).. Idk tho.. sometimes I feel like some people just don’t know how to be alone. Appreciate your content, Mav!

    • @cajbaf
      @cajbaf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think you're right. I also am an only child and have no issue being on my own and by myself. When I want interaction I have friends that I meet up with.

    • @sensisensei5201
      @sensisensei5201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have siblings but often find myself extrovert and introvert also. I live in the woods by myself. And like to be my own boss just like Mr. Mav. It's more of an in look conscious thing to me. You don't always need to give your energy to others. And simply people who can't be alone just haven't found some type of inner peace. And need others influences to survive.

  • @peppercornsauce5067
    @peppercornsauce5067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You've helped me loads bro. I now actually do things that I want to do , before I didn't really know what that was but after spending time alone and watching you. I started to change old bad habits, so I have much to thank you for. 🇬🇧👍

  • @UriValdez
    @UriValdez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I had to face my loneliness a while back when i lived by myself, and when I became comfortable with myself, I truly enjoyed being alone and living alone. And yes that is very powerful, you certainly realize that the only person you need to be happy with is yourself

  • @calebburgett9870
    @calebburgett9870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    From feeling most alone in a crowd full of people to turning an average or bad day, to a good one; with just a simple gas-station-interaction when buying coffee; this entire video resignated deeply with me, and you just verbalized for me exactly what i needed to hear. --There is immense power in being comfortable with being alone. --I personally need the time to be creative; turn my visions into reality & direct my life for ME. Friends are wonderful to recharge in a different way than being alone, though everything requires BALANCE. So glad to have found your channel!
    I will be doing my first Solo road trip in my 1974 VW Bus.. Going to Breckinridge, CO --With NO HEAT
    ..it will be the most advantageous thing I've done as i approach 18. Your videos help motivate & inspire me to work hard towards my goal of traveling full time. I know you inspire many others, keep doing you!

    • @noonereally5926
      @noonereally5926 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like you think about things too darn much. Not everything needs to be “ figured out” or have a reason or label. Just enjoy life and do no harm.

  • @weeklyupdates6896
    @weeklyupdates6896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I got lots of family up in Minnesota mav. I’m happy how you have grown through your videos and appreciate you giving us a glimpse of your personal thoughts. I wouldn’t say being alone but just very independent! If you think about it you are hanging with 1.7 million followers!

  • @13each
    @13each 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We adore you. I'm the same way I think I help people when I'm in a group or chatting with people but otherwise, I'm so shy and to myself and after I feel soooo drained. My idea of a good time is a cabin/tent in the rain and woods or playing videos games... I'm content with that and just zoning out being myself. I get it.

    • @danielcostello4064
      @danielcostello4064 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think me and you need to start some camping videos on TH-cam Jess

  • @JC-ru3mo
    @JC-ru3mo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You’re doing the right thing Mav. I lived alone for eight years in my one bedroom apartment in Dallas. Best eight years for my life. Alone time is heathy. It builds character also.

  • @shellyolheiser3938
    @shellyolheiser3938 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your words of encouragement. I just recently started watching. Love it. Keep on truck in’!

  • @VintageZippers
    @VintageZippers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    1000% understand.
    I’m actually so comfortable and content being alone that I worry when it comes time to be in a relationship and start a family that my social battery will come into play and I won’t know how to be around people all the time day in and day out. But for now- especially being single- I’m going to find the beauty in now. And work on the balance later.

  • @galileo4k230
    @galileo4k230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This video could not have come at a more perfect time in my life. Peace and blessings to you Mav. Huge fan of your channel.

  • @wildlyunrulyadventures3942
    @wildlyunrulyadventures3942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Good for you Mav! Speaking openly about mental health is vital, especially during these times. And good for you for being open and honest with yourself about who you are and what makes you happy. It takes some people DECADES to realize that, trust me, I know. You're blessed to be young and in-tune with yourself. Very good video Mav.

  • @XxkidsthesedayxX
    @XxkidsthesedayxX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for uploading this, exactly how I feel at this point in my life. Everything you said relates to me and so many out there that isn't normalized. Nothing wrong with enjoying your own journey, at the end of the day you know who you are.