Shes clearly mentally unstable, manic, bipolar, her husband was probably a regular dude who was wondering why his wife was banging everything around him.
@@lafred2007 he’s probably just as fucked up as she is. If you respect yourself, would you put up with this for ten years? Also what is the point in continuing to father the children? They’re gonna learn the truth anyways at some point.
My wife’s friend told me about her ex, and to my knowledge, I know of the guy. Long story short, it was her fault the marriage ended, and she played the victim to coup.
Her definition of a kind man (her current boyfriend) is someone who comes over to her house and betrays his coworker and friend and starts an affair with his wife. Interesting.
Women are terrible judgments of character, because it's all about their feelings and not reality. The good men are the ones who f*ck her good, and then leave her, but the bad ones are the ones who marry her and take care of her children 😂
While I agree with your comment, simply as an outline of the situation, which would not establish the boyfriend as a wonderful human, I do have to say, just going by the timeline assuming this boyfriend is her age maybe even a little bit younger because she’s quite immature, so I could easily see her hooking up with a guy a little younger that would have put him in his mid maybe late 20s I’m thinking he was probably about 25-26 she was 27-28 if it was 5-6 years ago since her son is 5. Soooo I really can’t judge a young man in his 20s for participating in an affair with a married woman. I mean yes, in an ideal world every young man and young woman would know this is wrong and not participate but in reality? Especially because we know absolutely nothing about the boyfriend… His background, etc. just looking at it from the outside, he’s a 20 something kid partying with a woman he clearly found attractive and I’m sorry, but there’s a whole lotta men in that age group who would have done the exact same thing so I don’t think that would mark him as a bad person. Now let’s fast forward his life 15 years if he is 40 and doing this particularly the other way around with you know a 20 something girl, and he is married then we can judge him 😂😂
Yeah but the hair goes with the coat and just a personal thing with me but way too much exposed tats. Then there's the ear lobe bighole rings. @@bigisrick
I have a normal mother....the only problem I have with her is that she brought me into this dysfunctional, crazy world.... Human history... a life full of problems...why do we do this? Is there a problem before we are born?…why bring people into existence then? Ecclesiastes 4:2- And I declared that the dead, are happier than the living… But better is to never have been born… th-cam.com/video/E3pOja7dhSE/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/ivUMiPq1-Qo/w-d-xo.html
And think…this woman did NOT. She dismissed her own childhood as pretty ok & then went on to say how her parents had been drug dealers, her dad had been unkind to her mom, and later to her. She seems to gloss over everything…like a state of avoidance/functional disassociation at times. This shows autonomic nervous system trauma. She shows signs of insecure attachment… I would say almost all cheaters have unresolved trauma/attachment wounds. If they heal that, the cheating will likely stop.
@@boodthedude Humiliated bug time, cuckold full time too, playing to be a "father" of those kids that are not his kids from the cheating activity of his cheating wife, he is the ultimate finished manifestation of a cuckold and beta simp "male" thing. Nothing masculine in that ex husband of hers.
The maddest thing about all this is the fact that her husband still treats those children like his own and when mark said that’s very nice of him she said I wouldn’t call it nice, Id call it control. Something is clearly wrong with her worldview.
My thoughts exactly. A man who's emotionally attached the the only positive thing to come out of this, which is innocent children, and she makes it about herself. Totally disgusting!
If she didn't want them to see him, they wouldn't. I bet he pays support. She says "he only comes to see them on weekends". I'm sure that is HER restriction. And so what, they're not kis kids. Weekends is better than some guys.
@@AustraliaUnmasked1984 Yet you just tried to prove that you "look young for your age." The hypocrisy is real 😂😭💀. No one cares. You're still old af and immature at the same time. Looking young means nothing because the fact is you are not.😂😭💀
I cannot imagine cheating on your spouse and then telling them the kids aren’t his DURING THE DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS. Her mom is her best friend because she doesn’t have any friends because she’s not kind to people.
“Mean girl”? What? What part was that? The rest, yes, I see it…however, not likely the same way you do. People who have had trauma (and she did, starting in childhood…which she was very dismissive about), can end up in arrested development. She likely stopped evolving/growing at a point, was more focused on surviving and until she addresses those attachment wounds, she will continue to create her own chaos.
@@dragorn3212 women don’t have to grow in life?? Wow. That’s a very contracted narrative. You obviously haven’t really dealt with many people and make distorted sweeping generalizations. I’ve worked with over a thousand patients, in critical care, and am now in neuroscience…I promise you that women grow. Please site factual, objective, evidence as to women not growing. Why this narrative serves you to have a negativistic view and why it is necessary for you to have this, are good questions to ask yourself. Women grow immensely, not all of them, but many of them. Many are very self sacrificial (above and beyond most men, not all men, but many) in how they give up their hopes, dreams, hobbies, to raise their children. They say “no” to themselves daily, in many ways. Delayed gratification…is a trait of growth. That’s merely a small fraction. It’s sad you have such a toxic view. Not all thoughts are true. They need to be tested, with a 360 degree scrutiny…I imagine that is foreign to you
I worked with this woman at sephora in reno in 2017. Shes was such a mean, disgusting and fake person. Had a bad feeling about her always. I remember when she came in to work with her baby and husband trotting around jcpenny showing everyone, this is absolutely wild.
Out of all the interviews I’ve seen on this channel this woman is by far the scariest and most insane subject. I don’t understood how she functions in society. I’m not going to be surprised when she ends up in prison. Total psycho.
The absolute worst thing a wife could do to their husband is to cheat on him ,get pregnant and gaslight him like this. The ex husband lived an altered reality for 10 years ,that’s down right evil.
I’m willing to bet that her ex husband and the two men she had affairs with are also awful fuck ups. These people tend to choose each other. Someone who is truly nice that respects themselves would never get involved w someone like this.
@@booboo4963you sound like an awfully toxic person. Hope you have the courage to look at yourself, cause this will ruin your chances of being happy with somebody
@@georgestoyanov5387 I mean sure I could be a toxic person. Maybe I’m not. You have no idea. Even if I told you I wasn’t, that’d just be my side of the story. That’s my point. Everyone in here is saying the ex husband is a saint. No one knows that at all. Even if you knew his story, it wouldn’t prove anything. People successfully lie about stuff all the time. Maybe you should think about that before judging someone, whether that’s positively or negatively. It’s insane that you think you know the whole picture after listening to one person for 25 minutes. That’s irrational.
She says the Ex husband was mean but yet his family disowned him for deciding to still claim the kids as his own. I sure would love to hear the ex husbands side of the story.
I mean why? He could lie about the whole thing, she could be lying too we don’t really know. We could hear all kinds of info until out minds are completely full of it. But we’ll NEVER know what actually happened because we weren’t there. But she did say her husband assaulted her infront of her kids. Who knows if that’s the truth, who knows if it’s a lie. Either way I don’t think we have any right to judge them unless we were there.
@@Jazlyn_JigglesREALLY?!?! The lady admits to being a terrible person. She admits to gaslighting her husband. She admits to, not only cheating, but to having children with other men while married to her husband. And after having the kids with other men while married, she allows said husband to believe the kids are his when she knows different. Piece of advice Karen: if someone comes right out and admits they're a sleezeball....believe them. Someone isn't gonna admit they're the devil, but really be an angel...
@@Jazlyn_JigglesI love this comment! I never believe any of these stories 100%… most of these people are lying drug addicts. I’d say I believe about 50% of the stories
That sucks for him all the way around. He steps up and takes care of kids he claimed despite the circumstances, and instead of supporting him and acknowledging that for the nobility it deserves, he gets disowned. And SHE has the nerve to sit there and play victim. She's a narcissist through and through.
No she's not evil and no the comments only show how judgemental everyone is! Im wondering if it was a man telling the same story if people would just shrug their shoulders and take it as another typical male behaviour but without calling him a narcissist and a sociopath. Not everything in life is black and white... I'm by no means condoning her behaviour however there's usually a reason why you cheat
Yea she’s extremely immature and narcissistic. And the fact that she talks about cheating on her husband with glee in her eye is disgusting. And the crocodile tears says it all
@hghgh4505 A home owners association. It's a body that oversees a neighborhood and enforces their (often frivolous) rules and standards through levying fines. They basically try to enforce a particular conformity amongst a group of houses. This may include disallowing the use of certain paint colors, what sort of vehicles can be parked outside, etc.
She comments on how awful it is that her Hispanic daughter looks like her real dad and refers to her as a crazy daughter - can already foresee a dim childhood for that poor girl
Usually what happens is that the baby girl gets treated like her when she was a girl. It's the cycle continuing. The boy gets the attention she wished she had.
The daughter is the future scapegoat. At least when she is an adult she can look at this video and read the comments and help her gain some objectivity
for her children’s sake, i hope they never watch this video. “she used to look so much like me and nowwwww she looks just like her dad, which is terrifying. but again i love her crazy ass too” there’s almost venom in her words as she’s speaking about her own daughter. i hope that little girl is loved regardless of her mothers actions and deserves so much better than this overgrown mean girl as a mother.
This is the kind of energy I distance myself from. I worked with a woman quite similar to this; toxic, manipulative, and terrifyingly unhinged. Kiara is a real piece of work, whoa.
I would love to hear the ex husband's side of this story. She does not come off as honest. She comes off as sociopathic, borderline and narcissistic. It seems the only victims here might be the children and the 3 men. Her boyfriend would be wise to be extremely cautious with this one.
She is brave for telling her story. Now this is how I usually react to these videos and this is the typical reaction I see to these videos so I’m sticking with that reaction. She/he/they have gone through a lot of trauma in life and are brave for sharing. Like you I’m a TH-cam commentator and I take that responsibility seriously. Did you see the circus parade video with the disabled family so people can gawk at them in the guise of donations? Those are my favorite everyone is so positive in the comment section on those videos. It’s a sympathy circle jerk. This isn’t though sadly
I find this person to be toxic, selfish and a compulsive liar. If she has any redeeming traits we weren’t privy during this interview. I feel horribly for her children.
@@ChadVanKlompenburg 1 look at her and it's "run away, fast, hard, and leave no paper trail" lmfao. seriously don't want anything to do with someone like her
What a narcissist. A man is still caring for the kids that he paid for, raised and bonded with, but aren't his, and she thinks he's doing it to try to stay close to her.
They are legally his since he was married to her. He would have to forfeit his right and her bf would to put his name on birth certificate. Husband clearly didn’t want to do that. She said he doesn’t pay support. He chooses to come to stuff and all that so he clearly wants to be there.
Right?! The eye roll when she said the grandparents tried to sue her for fraud was bold as hell too. Like girl you literally scammed him and his entire family in the worst way are you kidding 😅😅 she doesn’t get it
@@TanakaJulian Attirer l’attention sur une erreur typographique dans le vain espoir d’obtenir une justification ne comblera jamais le vide de votre âme. La preuve en est votre envie incessante de le revisiter afin de satisfaire vos penchants narcissiques.
*Red Flags for all the Single Men out there.* 1. _30 year old with Purple Hair and speaks like she's a 15 year old girl._ 2. _Cow Rings in Ears_ 3. _Dresses like Richard Simmons_
Yeah, but we don’t bring kids into the relationship from an outside source and tell the other person they’re theirs. That’s pure, unforgivable, scumbag trash stuff in the fact that you even defend her says enough about your character You ought to be ashamed
She paints the ex husband as so horrible but also says he was homeless or 'unhoused' and still came to parent teacher conferences and coached the kids ball team and is still involved with the kids despite the fact they aren't his. He obviously cares deeply for the children and knows there is no hope with this woman.
We as listeners saw how a covert narcissist operates and distorts truth. She says her ex husband is the abusive one but in reality she's the one. She cheated and had children with other men. While the ex even after knowing the children aren't biologically his, maintains contact with them. If he was really abusive as she said, would he have really done that? The answer is no. All that regret she feels everyday is just an act for the camera. She was no victim but the real instigator.
>sleeve tattoos >face piercings >dyed hair My guy, all the red flags were there. Ain’t no way I’d be marrying a woman like this who still looks/acts like she’s in high school.
@@kedhotkerri1 people move 😢 housing plans with all kinds of stupid rules, like no overnight guests, rules on what mailboxes are acceptable and how high the grass can be. As an HOA member, she gets off on going around and being a fake cop and finding people for infractions. Those people are typically the worst. And she’s that plus a slore on top of it.
There is no way a sensible, well-grounded man would want anything to do with this radioactive woman. That says a lot about all the men she has ever dated.
The men were probably all too happy when she pulled down her pants for them. MOST men who end up with such a demon woman is because they liked the free available pussy they were getting, mistaking it as something ‘good’. …then those men demonize all women because they were too weak to say no to the sex.
Exactly, the ex-husband was either: a moron, a cuck, an abusive POS, or maybe all 3 combined 😭 She’s OBVIOUSLY a living nightmare and he just wifed her right up🤷🏻♂️
@@davidhollenshead4892 yep, she turned herself into the most unsympathetic guest ever to appear on this channel. Hope it was worth the few bucks she received for the interview.
It's interesting how a platform like this can attract people like her. I don't know if Mark found her or she found Mark, but either way, it's interesting how people with these types of personality traits actually want to come talk and think they're portraying themselves as innocent or as a victim, but it's so obviously false or questionable. She thinks everyone views her the same way she views herself, so much so that she agrees and wants to be seen by hundreds of thousands of people, because she thinks it'll reinforce her identity.
As a single father of 2, I'm absolutely disgusted to find she allowed her ex-husband to believe those 2 children were his for 4 years+ !! Then to turn around to say he is controlling! For real? She's toxic, bordline narcissistic. I tend not to judge but in this case i cannot stomach the thought if i was in this predicament as the ex husband. No wonder he's not nice to you.
Dont for one second believe her ex husband is not nice, this is a master manipulator and a gaslighter right here, some men would physically hurt you for deceing and betraying them for years
I'm really starting to think that the TH-cam comments that diagnose somebody with narcissism, or actually comments of a narcissist. Narcissism is present less than 3% of the population and yet, it's a 90% of the TH-cam comments. unreal.
No need to question it. She said she was smoking pot with her AP. She clearly lied about that. Did you miss that? My guess is her drug dealer today has a Dr. before his/her name.
She said she was sober for 12 years. Then said she made the first move touching his hand when they were smoking a joint. But the kids aren't that old. I feel like she is a half truth teller and can't take any responsibility
Every child is not his, but she was the victim? Continuously cheating, unprotected too, and then having children back to back- but, he was very mean to her? *Checks out*
Not every person who can make children should be a parent. People like this lady are the reason why kids grow up with mental problems and have a hard time in life.
Literally irritated the hell out of me, the way she keeps calling her crazy and saying her skin stayed tanned like her Hispanic dad or how she really didnt want another baby but is messing around on her husband. Like girl what be so ffr
She is delutional, inmature and does not take responsability of anything she does. She tried to depict her ex-husband like a monster but ended making him look like a good man. He is too good and emphatic to the point of protecting the kids even though he is not the father, and they are the resut of his wife cheating.
Yesssss.....omg this woman wants to say "control"...more like her control......he apparently loves them children more than she does.....•° she ought to be THANKFUL FOR REAL...... God I can't stand women who wanna use this type of crap against men.......!!! She deserves everything that comes for her.....honesty her kids are even gonna grow up to see what really is up if she don't stop.......girl stop with that modern...."slay", or boss bitch".... .please!!!! I'd come at you too....with your std traveling cheating stupid ugly a$$......😅😅😅😅😅😅
@@saweetzzho Sometimes you have to spell it incorrectly or use other words to sound it out; if you wind up on TH-cam's craplist, they can make a special file for you containing everyday words that others can use but, which, in their eyes, are being used _INappropriately_ so, comments that _you_ make containing them are flagged, prevented from posting, or rendered invisible. Perhaps he uses _THAT_ spelling because he's unable to use the proper spelling.
ironically that's exactly why she can easily play him like a fiddle. people think there's honor in being a nice guy but all that happens is you get walked all over by creatures such as this woman
Spreads destruction everywhere she goes, I was married into a family of women just like her. Got out with my life and sanity intact many years ago. The only thing you can do with people like her is turn your back.
Singy-songy talking, the hair coloring, the eyes, the smiling while talking…not to mention what she has done. She said “When you find someone like him you don’t let him go because someone else will get him and that will make you MAD” not sad, mad. She will destroy that current Bfs life next.
@@UniquelySustainable being loyal is one thing. It’s another thing to be conniving and have children with someone else and pretend like the current partner is the father.
I know she’s terrible. But I do commend her honesty and sharing it with the world without holding back. I would never cheat but even if I did, I could never do what she did. So props to her for being so blunt.
She is insane. I get horrible vibes from her. She makes her voice break on purpose to pretend to cry and while she is “crying” there are no signs of it. The way she talks about her son va her daughter 😢. So sad.
I agree! The only thing is, in some situations it would be hard to prove that the woman didn’t know it wasn’t her husband’s child. The same way it’s sometimes hard to prove that someone with HIV/AIDS or other STDs knew they had it before passing it along to another person.
@misslilmeliss uh. But she knows she fucking cheated and never disclosed it to give the guy the opportunity to make his decision and choose to stay or not. Doesn't matter if she "honestly doesn't know who the dad is". These women should be held accountable for thr deceit
I mean I do agree. I have the same situation and I allowed my husband, even though he did his ish too, I let him know and think about it and come to me when he was ready and here we are 12 years later and he's still the dad to our daughter when he didn't have to be.
@@misslilmeliss did she sleep with a man outside of her marriage? Yes? Then she couldn't be sure who the father is. It isn't an excuse. It is fraud because she tried to hide her affair and get away with cheating until she was caught. She knew what she was doing.
Shes in her 30s. The purple hair, the teenage colloquialisms and mannerisms, and her attire told me all i needed to know. But you just confirmed it. Thank you
@@whiteyfisk9769 her image gives it away for sure, but you'll notice her eyes give it all away as well. her demeanor maybe happy, she may smile, or gesture happily, but her eyes show flashes of sadness and despair. this kind of mixed signaling is clear symptom of some form of mental illness.
So him still being in the kids life is just "control" and he isn't a "nice man" because of it but she hopes he doesn't meet another woman that convinces him to leave the kids that aren't even his anyway.. this woman is a piece of work. He sounds like a very solid dude, respect to him.
Yeah, and as another means of control, he coaches her son's baseball team. He probably controls the church by tithing every Sunday too and the government by paying taxes.
This woman is a nightmare. I don’t believe for a second that her ex husband did anything wrong or is controlling. She thinks WAY too highly of herself.
Yes and she thinks him wanting to play a part in the childrens lives that he raised as his own and coaching their little league is because he wants to control her. LOL She really thinks it's all about her.
@@ed1658it's not that easy when kids are involved. I had a cousin who went through this, imagine raising your child for years then one day finding out they aren't yours. That love you've had for them doesn't go away overnight
The way she is telling her story is very creepy , like a little girl and she finds it very amusing. She is the only person I have seen on on White Underbelly that I have no sympathy for
@@ed1658 y’all really glossed over the part where she said he was emotionally and physically abusive to her once she said he kids weren’t his didn’t ya
@@mehamurmurs1686 It doesn't make his actions right but it does explain she played a big role in making him further resent and hate her once he found out she cheated on him, being betrayed then being betrayed about a baby that isn't yours is a double wammy. I think he already had experienced her cheating on him in the past way before she got pregnant by another man, and carried that toxic resentment towards her through out the marriage along with what other personality flaws he had, as for her shes just ticking time bomb I hope she really has mended her ways tho imo any guy with her should either wear protection or get a Vasectomy rather than risk getting tricked into bringing up another mans baby.
Holy shit. This was one of the most horrifying videos. "I got my babies" holy fuck. Those eyes. She is gone. I'd trust a junkie on the street more than those eyes and smile. I feel so bad for those children.
@@glad777FACTS. Even though I’ve been so red pilled and listen to wives betraying husband Reddit stories prophylactically, I’m constantly amazed on how much worse the mating pool for us straight eligible modern men in the West is today
@@glad777 my crazy ex gf just had a kid at age 38. Dude. First I didn't know that was kinda possible. 2nd I didnt know any girl over 30 wanted a kid and 3rd she told me she never wanted kids. So when at age 38 she popped out a kid. I am never dating anyone under 40 again.
She smiles and shrugs while detailing all the crap she did to others. No personal responsibility or sorrow or introspection at all. And her biggest takeaway -- find the one that's right for you. She gives off the most selfish twisted manipulative vibes I've seen in a while.
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@@MaxGangi Besides the false sabt(Sunday),and teh wide spread of spiritism(yog, karma, ouiaj bord, reiki,hipnosis), last final decie wil be ,atht satn himslef wil come as Hrist, sayinghe changed teh day of rest! And this decie wil be poerful for al those who dont read teh Bible for themseles,as it wil be flowed by great miracles and healings,everywere he wil apear! But teh Bible dosnt live su without wraning to this and cleaerly says aht when Jesius coems " All eyes wil see Him" ,so everyone on earth, wilse satans fake only here and there! -read Mathew chaoter 24! Another direct warning to teh spirit f the anthirst is in 2 Joan 7" anyone who says atht Jesus doenst coem in flesh/body, is teh spirit of the anthirst"! And i would sugest you get abook caled " The great cintroversy" by Ellen White, is ana mazing book, wich depicts the war betwen good and evil,from Lucifers afl til teh very end,and in the last few chapters, is everything about what we live, and whats toc eom, pure undiluted truth, with valiuble insights! God bless you all!
It's the only time her facial expressions were real. Her smile while she talked about how she had hurt the people in her life is the only true thing in this whole interview.
“15:14 is not an excuse. I’m over 50 with just one toddler, and with the maturity and experience I’ve gained, it’s clear how much adults shape a child’s behavior and habits while they’re developing their own.
*Men are in love, women are in business.* They also have a curious doublemindedness that allows them to think one thing while doing something else; it protects their mental health from their actions and is probably an evolved ability since the women who lived long enough to bear children were those that prioritized their self-interest and survival over all else. It's also how they can move on from break-ups so quickly.
Not before she marries them and takes half of their assets in the divorce. I can’t believe she felt entitled to anything after what she put her first husband through. The fact that her ex became “unhoused” shortly after makes me think it wasn’t very fair (well, maybe from her twisted perspective it was) at all.
@@TennesseeDouglas She keeps complaining about her ex being angry. Gee i wonder what crap she pulled to make him angry? From the sound of her voice alone i'd say it was quite a lot
This one is heavy. I wish the best for all involved. All as I will say is relax on the judgment. Hurt people hurt people. It doesn’t make any of it right but the blame does not go to one individual as a whole. Everyone has to, carry the weight of their choices and some loads are heavier than others no pun intended.
“Yeah he coached my sons baseball team, raised my illegitimate children as his own, and still sees them on the weekends” Yeah what a loser amiright? This woman is absolutely unbearable…..
The way she talks with her tons up and down and dragged our words…. Christ almighty smite me I can’t bear to listen to another word… idk how anyone can even stand to listen to her
"Do I have any regrets? No. I got what I wanted" Unbridgled narcissism and probably sociopathy. The fact that she's so matter of fact about the damage she caused and doesn't really care because she got what she wanted...it's just mind-boggling. Let's add on the fact that she somehow thought it was a great idea to let the internet know just exactly the type of person she is. I would hate to see her crashing. It must be friightening.
Agreed, bad things are going to happen now. I feel her interview was done to gain support, this didn't happen. She has to deal with reality now. Hell hath no fury.....!
She is at the least a clinical narcissist, probably a sociopath but at the least has a personality disorder. And i worry about her daughter. She made multiple comments alluding to the idea she wishes she were gone. Just as she wishes the childrens father were gone
She starts crying and explaining getting physically assaulted by the dude…she definitely still feels bad about the divorce, and shouldn’t after someone physically assaults you, that means they don’t care for you.
I hope Kiara's daughter gets all the love and acceptance she deserves, she isn't blind either and she may get traumatized by the whole situation unless raised with lots of love and patience. I hope she gets the love she needs in that household, especially from MOM, no one wants another traumatized girl. I did go through a long emotionally abusive relationship as well, but what Kiara did is indeed cruel on another level...I think she knows that. I hope they find forgiveness between each other, talk, and apologize sincerely. That's the only way for both of them not to carry that pain in their hearts further.
So funny, I noticed that right away and not only did she not say thank you she didn’t even look at him or her whoever gave it to her. I didn’t think it was Mark. I thought it was like a production assistant or something like that. It was as if a ghost handed it to her.
I'm glad she is alive because her husband pushed her over the edge and physically abused her. I'm so sick of men demonizing women after the shit they put us through
This woman is sick. Her laugh while talking about cheating, her lack of remorse and inability to take accountability for her actions is beyond disgusting.
The fact that there are no repercussions for women who defraud men like this is disgusting and just goes to show you there is no equality Women get away with pretty much everything
We need to hear the ex-husband side. A cheater will always paint the victim in a bad image so they can feel better about what they did. She is a monster!
A disgusting wh*re showing dupers delight during the interview and then the tears to feel sorry for her sick ev*l ways ! Surprised she never used the line of " look made me do " !
I came here to say that and saw you already had. That's what I noticed. "I hope you're right...for the kids' sake" (exhausted/exasperated sigh) at 23:55. @@beatewagner7.2934
@@ArayaLightI'm sure that's what you'd like to tell yourself. Nah..I'll let you in on a male secret. It means what it means. He's just trying to decide how much trouble he's willing to deal with. It's always the "just use her and throw her away". But never anything long term. And the men that end up putting kids in them. Are the ones just like her...So it's a dead end street.
The black and white photos are often so telling. Sometimes they offer a clearer look into the persons soul and this women's photo is a perfect example of this.
I'd love to hear the ex-husband's side of the whole story.
Oh yeah, that would be really interesting to hear.
Me too
Me too
Yes!!!
Shes clearly mentally unstable, manic, bipolar, her husband was probably a regular dude who was wondering why his wife was banging everything around him.
You need to get the ex husband on here for an interview. I’d love to hear his side.
Excepting my friend 👏👏👏👏🇬🇧🇬🇧
Why?
If I think the man he is, he will not to hurt the kids
@@lafred2007 he’s probably just as fucked up as she is. If you respect yourself, would you put up with this for ten years? Also what is the point in continuing to father the children? They’re gonna learn the truth anyways at some point.
My wife’s friend told me about her ex, and to my knowledge, I know of the guy. Long story short, it was her fault the marriage ended, and she played the victim to coup.
Her definition of a kind man (her current boyfriend) is someone who comes over to her house and betrays his coworker and friend and starts an affair with his wife. Interesting.
Yeah. That’s a solid point there.
Pretty terrible.
Women are terrible judgments of character, because it's all about their feelings and not reality. The good men are the ones who f*ck her good, and then leave her, but the bad ones are the ones who marry her and take care of her children 😂
Actually it was his boss. He came over once a week and poured the coals to his bosses wife. Despicable.
how you find him is how he will leave you. find him cheating , he will cheat
While I agree with your comment, simply as an outline of the situation, which would not establish the boyfriend as a wonderful human, I do have to say, just going by the timeline assuming this boyfriend is her age maybe even a little bit younger because she’s quite immature, so I could easily see her hooking up with a guy a little younger that would have put him in his mid maybe late 20s I’m thinking he was probably about 25-26 she was 27-28 if it was 5-6 years ago since her son is 5. Soooo I really can’t judge a young man in his 20s for participating in an affair with a married woman. I mean yes, in an ideal world every young man and young woman would know this is wrong and not participate but in reality? Especially because we know absolutely nothing about the boyfriend… His background, etc. just looking at it from the outside, he’s a 20 something kid partying with a woman he clearly found attractive and I’m sorry, but there’s a whole lotta men in that age group who would have done the exact same thing so I don’t think that would mark him as a bad person. Now let’s fast forward his life 15 years if he is 40 and doing this particularly the other way around with you know a 20 something girl, and he is married then we can judge him 😂😂
Seems like the type to steal your wallet and then help you look for it
Best way to put it 😂
Great expression!
Not wrong there! 🤌🏿😂😂😂😂😂
great expression she'd probably then ask him
to borrow some money. and give it to his kids
Yeah. What a pig.
"He doesn't tend to pick the best women" Well you got that one right.
She was aware of that implication when she said that.
That purple hair is a HUGE red flag
LMAO BURN 😂😂😂
Yeah but the hair goes with the coat and just a personal thing with me but way too much exposed tats. Then there's the ear lobe bighole rings. @@bigisrick
@@ouch74 what are you even saying? foolishness HAHAHAHAHA
This lady is absolutely nuts and you are so good at doing interviews!
Batshit for sure.
Batshit crazy
I couldn't even watch it past couple minutes.. .her boyfriend must be as crazy. She's pathetic
1000 percent spot on
Not crazy, but rather she is a sociopath...
If you had a normal mom, be grateful and thank her today.
Facts. This is hard facts!!!
I have a normal mother....the only problem I have with her is that she brought me into this dysfunctional, crazy world....
Human history... a life full of problems...why do we do this?
Is there a problem before we are born?…why bring people into existence then?
Ecclesiastes 4:2-
And I declared that the dead, are happier than the living…
But better is to never have been born…
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@@lawrenceaddison so sad you don't know.
I miss her so much.
And think…this woman did NOT. She dismissed her own childhood as pretty ok & then went on to say how her parents had been drug dealers, her dad had been unkind to her mom, and later to her. She seems to gloss over everything…like a state of avoidance/functional disassociation at times.
This shows autonomic nervous system trauma. She shows signs of insecure attachment…
I would say almost all cheaters have unresolved trauma/attachment wounds. If they heal that, the cheating will likely stop.
This is what total unaccountability looks like.
I have zero doubts that she is a feminist.
No one is ever the villain in their own story
I mean, she is. LOL
@@Cotillion308in her own sugar coated way. I imagine the reality is much worse.
Chances are this is the watered down version
Exactly! That's why this channel got old quick. Everyone here acts like they're the victim.
@@rlans002 Some are victims...
I hope the ex husband can at least find solace in knowing this woman is the first thing that pops up when you search "unfaithful wife".
🎯
solace? more like continued humiliation
omg this is great 😂😂
@@boodthedude Humiliated bug time, cuckold full time too, playing to be a "father" of those kids that are not his kids from the cheating activity of his cheating wife, he is the ultimate finished manifestation of a cuckold and beta simp "male" thing. Nothing masculine in that ex husband of hers.
😂
The maddest thing about all this is the fact that her husband still treats those children like his own and when mark said that’s very nice of him she said I wouldn’t call it nice, Id call it control. Something is clearly wrong with her worldview.
Narcissists usually project, so it’s not surprising.
My thoughts exactly. A man who's emotionally attached the the only positive thing to come out of this, which is innocent children, and she makes it about herself. Totally disgusting!
If she didn't want them to see him, they wouldn't. I bet he pays support. She says "he only comes to see them on weekends". I'm sure that is HER restriction. And so what, they're not kis kids. Weekends is better than some guys.
@@Rob-dp3vr yep
@@stu1037 no one does - but even what she’s describing is pretty self incriminating.
“Here we are with 3 baby daddies and 2 kids, is what I joke”
What a fun little joke
@@andeeramone89 That bit cracked me up lol, love her sense of humour.
@@Dannielle247oh yeah soooooo funny is what the commenter meant. Very self aware you are
@EventhorizonShadows I'm laughing with her. The ex husband is a clown 🤡
The amount of people this woman has caused damage to is insane. The way she enjoys telling her story at times tells you everything you need to know.
You have no idea what you are talking about. You mistake a smile for joy because you are blind.
Socialpath
she's clearly a sociopath
Dude still stepped up as a father and she calls it control. What a whacko.
FACTS! She is HORRIBLE!!!
So she's 33 now. But still talks like she's a sophomore in high school.
Yep, I got the same impression.
33, looks 48, talks like she's in high school. dumb girl
I'm 39 and look younger than this girl!
You poor 90's kids have had a hard life!
Yet you have no photo to prove that. Keep telling yourself that bet it makes you feel better 😂💀. @@AustraliaUnmasked1984
@@AustraliaUnmasked1984 Yet you just tried to prove that you "look young for your age." The hypocrisy is real 😂😭💀. No one cares. You're still old af and immature at the same time. Looking young means nothing because the fact is you are not.😂😭💀
I have a narcissistic mother and this lady had all the signs
💯 all of the traits, all of them.
She oozes it!
Hey what are some of the signs?
I cannot imagine cheating on your spouse and then telling them the kids aren’t his DURING THE DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS. Her mom is her best friend because she doesn’t have any friends because she’s not kind to people.
Same
“My childhood was quite ok but it comes out my parents were drug dealers and they took them away”.
She's in her thirties, but still expresses herself like a high school mean girl.
She looks almost 50.
“Mean girl”? What?
What part was that?
The rest, yes, I see it…however, not likely the same way you do.
People who have had trauma (and she did, starting in childhood…which she was very dismissive about), can end up in arrested development.
She likely stopped evolving/growing at a point, was more focused on surviving and until she addresses those attachment wounds, she will continue to create her own chaos.
Welcome to 2024.
Women don't have to grow in life...
@@dragorn3212 women don’t have to grow in life??
Wow.
That’s a very contracted narrative.
You obviously haven’t really dealt with many people and make distorted sweeping generalizations.
I’ve worked with over a thousand patients, in critical care, and am now in neuroscience…I promise you that women grow.
Please site factual, objective, evidence as to women not growing. Why this narrative serves you to have a negativistic view and why it is necessary for you to have this, are good questions to ask yourself.
Women grow immensely, not all of them, but many of them. Many are very self sacrificial (above and beyond most men, not all men, but many) in how they give up their hopes, dreams, hobbies, to raise their children. They say “no” to themselves daily, in many ways. Delayed gratification…is a trait of growth.
That’s merely a small fraction.
It’s sad you have such a toxic view.
Not all thoughts are true. They need to be tested, with a 360 degree scrutiny…I imagine that is foreign to you
I worked with this woman at sephora in reno in 2017. Shes was such a mean, disgusting and fake person. Had a bad feeling about her always. I remember when she came in to work with her baby and husband trotting around jcpenny showing everyone, this is absolutely wild.
This is the comment I was looking for. Not at all surprised to read your perspective.
Wow crazy
Hope she was never around your man! 🤔🤣🤣
Damn!
Out of all the interviews I’ve seen on this channel this woman is by far the scariest and most insane subject. I don’t understood how she functions in society. I’m not going to be surprised when she ends up in prison. Total psycho.
The absolute worst thing a wife could do to their husband is to cheat on him ,get pregnant and gaslight him like this.
The ex husband lived an altered reality for 10 years ,that’s down right evil.
no..the worst thing she could do to her Children. She tried to take their father away out of spite
I’m willing to bet that her ex husband and the two men she had affairs with are also awful fuck ups. These people tend to choose each other. Someone who is truly nice that respects themselves would never get involved w someone like this.
@@booboo4963you sound like an awfully toxic person. Hope you have the courage to look at yourself, cause this will ruin your chances of being happy with somebody
Totally right. She tried to cut him out of the kid's lives. That's why her lawyer dropped that bomb in court@@charlesreid9337
@@georgestoyanov5387 I mean sure I could be a toxic person. Maybe I’m not. You have no idea. Even if I told you I wasn’t, that’d just be my side of the story. That’s my point. Everyone in here is saying the ex husband is a saint. No one knows that at all. Even if you knew his story, it wouldn’t prove anything. People successfully lie about stuff all the time. Maybe you should think about that before judging someone, whether that’s positively or negatively. It’s insane that you think you know the whole picture after listening to one person for 25 minutes. That’s irrational.
her calling her own daughter crazy is a major red flag
"this is going to sound bad about me" girl the entire thing sounded bad about you
I know right, lots of blatantly obviously terrible decisions being made ALL the time.
She was a creampie hotwife being bred deep by her bulls, and she’s the victim
after listening to this video my whole state of being feels off. like I just took a tour of a mental asylum. this woman just oozes out mental illness.
S he is only sorry that he r plan was exposed...😊
Yeah blue hair says it all
She says the Ex husband was mean but yet his family disowned him for deciding to still claim the kids as his own. I sure would love to hear the ex husbands side of the story.
I mean why? He could lie about the whole thing, she could be lying too we don’t really know. We could hear all kinds of info until out minds are completely full of it. But we’ll NEVER know what actually happened because we weren’t there. But she did say her husband assaulted her infront of her kids. Who knows if that’s the truth, who knows if it’s a lie. Either way I don’t think we have any right to judge them unless we were there.
@@Jazlyn_Jiggles I'm 100% percent judging this trash dumpster of a person.
@@Jazlyn_JigglesREALLY?!?! The lady admits to being a terrible person. She admits to gaslighting her husband. She admits to, not only cheating, but to having children with other men while married to her husband. And after having the kids with other men while married, she allows said husband to believe the kids are his when she knows different. Piece of advice Karen: if someone comes right out and admits they're a sleezeball....believe them. Someone isn't gonna admit they're the devil, but really be an angel...
@@Jazlyn_JigglesI love this comment! I never believe any of these stories 100%… most of these people are lying drug addicts. I’d say I believe about 50% of the stories
That sucks for him all the way around. He steps up and takes care of kids he claimed despite the circumstances, and instead of supporting him and acknowledging that for the nobility it deserves, he gets disowned. And SHE has the nerve to sit there and play victim. She's a narcissist through and through.
her tone and the way she speaks it's like she's auditioning at a casting... psychotic
Exactly 💯
😂
The smiling and playing victim… zero accountability
Yes. You said what I was thinking
You gotta be psychotic to work for HOAs.
“I’ve been clean for 12 years.”
*proceeds to talking about smoking weed 5 minutes later
Whatta you gonna do? She's a terrible lying disgusting human being
The fact that everyone in the comments saw right through her. Gives me hope for society..
same here, man.
[ex husband still supporting and taking part in her childrens lives even tho they're not his]
ex wife: I sense ulterior motives
There are lots of men who need to watch this video.
Only because she’s cartoonishly evil. Most women that do this to their husbands are much more adept at gaining sympathy.
No she's not evil and no the comments only show how judgemental everyone is! Im wondering if it was a man telling the same story if people would just shrug their shoulders and take it as another typical male behaviour but without calling him a narcissist and a sociopath. Not everything in life is black and white... I'm by no means condoning her behaviour however there's usually a reason why you cheat
It’s creepy and bizarre how she seems to be enjoying telling the story of all the lives and people she screwed up.
She's in charge of HOAs.
She seems to be bipolar schizophrenic
Yea she’s extremely immature and narcissistic. And the fact that she talks about cheating on her husband with glee in her eye is disgusting. And the crocodile tears says it all
My thoughts exactly!
One guy alone giving her that attention is confusing and an ego boost…3 people?! Grand opening-grand closing✅😂
“He wasn’t the nicest person” coming from the chick who forced a man to unknowingly raise provide for and love children that aren’t his. 🤔
This is a stark reminder that a cheating woman will never take any kind of responsibility for her actions.
Being an HOA manager is just the icing on the cake.
Hii! Can you explain to me what HOA is?
@hghgh4505 A home owners association. It's a body that oversees a neighborhood and enforces their (often frivolous) rules and standards through levying fines. They basically try to enforce a particular conformity amongst a group of houses. This may include disallowing the use of certain paint colors, what sort of vehicles can be parked outside, etc.
@hghgh4505 I've never been involved in one, but from what I have seen, the board of an HOA seems to often be made up of wannabe tyrants 😬
Loooooooooool this comments deserves a chefs kiss
@@liamfebery6636 ihihih ok now i see😂 i thank you very much!🥰
Paternity fraud should be made punishable by law. This woman is a narcissist
Exactly she's trash and she's spouting this "I deserve to be treated" like what exactly? Trash should be treated as trash.
👏 👏 👏
Jezebel spirit
The law doesn’t care about men
it will never happen
women can literally get away with anything
She comments on how awful it is that her Hispanic daughter looks like her real dad and refers to her as a crazy daughter - can already foresee a dim childhood for that poor girl
I caught that as well. I think she was describing herself and projecting
Usually what happens is that the baby girl gets treated like her when she was a girl. It's the cycle continuing. The boy gets the attention she wished she had.
Yeah it’s horrible!
The daughter is the future scapegoat. At least when she is an adult she can look at this video and read the comments and help her gain some objectivity
She also says “I wish I could pick a different second baby daddy”… I can’t imagine the pain this little girl grows up with feeling all this.
for her children’s sake, i hope they never watch this video. “she used to look so much like me and nowwwww she looks just like her dad, which is terrifying. but again i love her crazy ass too” there’s almost venom in her words as she’s speaking about her own daughter. i hope that little girl is loved regardless of her mothers actions and deserves so much better than this overgrown mean girl as a mother.
This is the kind of energy I distance myself from.
I worked with a woman quite similar to this; toxic, manipulative, and terrifyingly unhinged.
Kiara is a real piece of work, whoa.
Yes...Exactly...discernment is priceless
Couldn't stomach her for over 5 minutes🤮
I'm surprised you would say that.. Women usually don't hold women accountable, for any reason what so ever.
@@lancerussell755
She’s a disgusting creature
I would love to hear the ex husband's side of this story. She does not come off as honest. She comes off as sociopathic, borderline and narcissistic. It seems the only victims here might be the children and the 3 men. Her boyfriend would be wise to be extremely cautious with this one.
Yes! I want to hear the ex husband’s side!
She is a a typical female. Notice she has guilt. Sociopaths do not feel guilty. This is far more vile.
She is brave for telling her story. Now this is how I usually react to these videos and this is the typical reaction I see to these videos so I’m sticking with that reaction. She/he/they have gone through a lot of trauma in life and are brave for sharing. Like you I’m a TH-cam commentator and I take that responsibility seriously. Did you see the circus parade video with the disabled family so people can gawk at them in the guise of donations? Those are my favorite everyone is so positive in the comment section on those videos. It’s a sympathy circle jerk. This isn’t though sadly
I couldn't agree with the sentiment more.
absolutely agree
I find this person to be toxic, selfish and a compulsive liar. If she has any redeeming traits we weren’t privy during this interview.
I feel horribly for her children.
Well said!
Look at that evil 4:50 grin
Compulsive otherwise too
Absolutely agree. She is super selfish, careless and toxic. Her attitude about what she has done makes me want to vomit.
Yeah
Seeing the way she looks, the way she describes her upbringing, you see how she has attachment issues and lies.
My soul needs a shower after listening to her.
Oh yea me too !! What a Disgusting person
Agreed. I can't imagine being the guy she's with and seeing this interview... All of it is "run away"
I agree with you needing a shower. She’s is so fake!
Yep, run and don’t look back!
@@ChadVanKlompenburg 1 look at her and it's "run away, fast, hard, and leave no paper trail" lmfao. seriously don't want anything to do with someone like her
What a narcissist. A man is still caring for the kids that he paid for, raised and bonded with, but aren't his, and she thinks he's doing it to try to stay close to her.
They are legally his since he was married to her. He would have to forfeit his right and her bf would to put his name on birth certificate. Husband clearly didn’t want to do that. She said he doesn’t pay support. He chooses to come to stuff and all that so he clearly wants to be there.
@cherylbritt7227 You're too retarded to have a conversation with.
She's looney as hell
@cherylbritt7227 WRONG! Unless and until he adopts them, they aren't his. They're hers. You're too stupid to have this conversation
Right?! The eye roll when she said the grandparents tried to sue her for fraud was bold as hell too. Like girl you literally scammed him and his entire family in the worst way are you kidding 😅😅 she doesn’t get it
Shockingly the most unlikable guest yet
Improve your spelling, Mensan.
@@TanakaJulianimprove your Gate keeping of spelling.
Nunya.
@@TanakaJulianThe Mensan thing was a pretty good burn 😂
I agree
@@TanakaJulian Attirer l’attention sur une erreur typographique dans le vain espoir d’obtenir une justification ne comblera jamais le vide de votre âme. La preuve en est votre envie incessante de le revisiter afin de satisfaire vos penchants narcissiques.
PSA - you don’t sleep and have kids with any kind man who crosses your path ….
The ex husband dodged a dirty bullet
Mark's exhausted exhale at the end of this interview says it all!
exactly, i didnt know if i should feel sorry for her or the kids, or her ex whom she lied to and deceived
@@Vistacraft82 Perhaps pity for her (and the fool she is) but sympathy for the ex and children!
Mark probably took an Ace Ventura shower after this one!😂🤣🤷🏼♂️
I feel sorry for anyone that comes into contact with her @@Vistacraft82
@@Malama_Ki😂😂😂
Any woman who cheats, has a kid, then lies to her husband about who's the father, is a big POS. The absolute worst.
Whore means whore
Textbook sow.
*Red Flags for all the Single Men out there.*
1. _30 year old with Purple Hair and speaks like she's a 15 year old girl._
2. _Cow Rings in Ears_
3. _Dresses like Richard Simmons_
101.Mark your awsome
Yeah, but we don’t bring kids into the relationship from an outside source and tell the other person they’re theirs. That’s pure, unforgivable, scumbag trash stuff in the fact that you even defend her says enough about your character You ought to be ashamed
She paints the ex husband as so horrible but also says he was homeless or 'unhoused' and still came to parent teacher conferences and coached the kids ball team and is still involved with the kids despite the fact they aren't his. He obviously cares deeply for the children and knows there is no hope with this woman.
True dat ! My thoughts exactly!
We as listeners saw how a covert narcissist operates and distorts truth. She says her ex husband is the abusive one but in reality she's the one. She cheated and had children with other men. While the ex even after knowing the children aren't biologically his, maintains contact with them. If he was really abusive as she said, would he have really done that? The answer is no. All that regret she feels everyday is just an act for the camera. She was no victim but the real instigator.
Lmao 😂 exactly. I wanna hear his side lol. SWU Season 2 lol
She’s a real piece of work. 😮
That would be a good video Mark. His side. Theres always 3 sides to every story.
>sleeve tattoos
>face piercings
>dyed hair
My guy, all the red flags were there. Ain’t no way I’d be marrying a woman like this who still looks/acts like she’s in high school.
She’s impossibly unlikable and on top of it all she works for an HOA 😂
I said the same thing
Best laugh of the day!
What's hoa ? 🇬🇧❤️
@@kedhotkerri1home owners association
@@kedhotkerri1 people move 😢 housing plans with all kinds of stupid rules, like no overnight guests, rules on what mailboxes are acceptable and how high the grass can be. As an HOA member, she gets off on going around and being a fake cop and finding people for infractions. Those people are typically the worst. And she’s that plus a slore on top of it.
I find that when someone claims everyone treats them a certain way and that they're a victim in every relationship, it can be a red flag.
A blanket of red flags.
It more than can be.
She's lying.
Can vouch. If someone tries to guilt you by saying "everyone leaves me" there's a HIGH chance there is a VERY GOOD REASON
It IS a red flag. There's a common denominator, and it's this woman! 🚩🚩🚩
Absolutely! Learned that one the hard way!!
There is no way a sensible, well-grounded man would want anything to do with this radioactive woman. That says a lot about all the men she has ever dated.
She knows how to pick men she can abuse & use...
The men were probably all too happy when she pulled down her pants for them. MOST men who end up with such a demon woman is because they liked the free available pussy they were getting, mistaking it as something ‘good’. …then those men demonize all women because they were too weak to say no to the sex.
Exactly, the ex-husband was either: a moron, a cuck, an abusive POS, or maybe all 3 combined 😭 She’s OBVIOUSLY a living nightmare and he just wifed her right up🤷🏻♂️
lol she glitched out for a second. Eeeehhhhhhhhhhhhhitttss been different 😂😂😂😂
My guess is this little interview didn't play out like Kiara thought.
She expected sympathy. Instead she outed herself as a total narcissist...
She likely will destroy anyone who comes near...
@@davidhollenshead4892 yep, she turned herself into the most unsympathetic guest ever to appear on this channel. Hope it was worth the few bucks she received for the interview.
I really hope we get to hear the ex’s side of the story.
@@davidhollenshead4892I actually don’t think she expected sympathy tbh
She really enjoys herself. She is clearly feeling like she's some celebrity or an academic whom everyone admires and can't have enough of listening to
It's sickening to listen to 🤮
It's interesting how a platform like this can attract people like her. I don't know if Mark found her or she found Mark, but either way, it's interesting how people with these types of personality traits actually want to come talk and think they're portraying themselves as innocent or as a victim, but it's so obviously false or questionable. She thinks everyone views her the same way she views herself, so much so that she agrees and wants to be seen by hundreds of thousands of people, because she thinks it'll reinforce her identity.
Very sick woman. She's just a handful
As a single father of 2, I'm absolutely disgusted to find she allowed her ex-husband to believe those 2 children were his for 4 years+ !! Then to turn around to say he is controlling! For real? She's toxic, bordline narcissistic. I tend not to judge but in this case i cannot stomach the thought if i was in this predicament as the ex husband. No wonder he's not nice to you.
Dont for one second believe her ex husband is not nice, this is a master manipulator and a gaslighter right here, some men would physically hurt you for deceing and betraying them for years
Borderline narcissist? Mmm....fullblown imo!! 😅
@@courtneyremarks1133 you're not wrong! The traits are there in full view! Haha
Amen brother. Was gonna say exactly the same. She is utterly revolting.
Nothing borderline narcissist about this
I cannot conceive in my head how this woman is not removed from society. It really is astounding how this kind of stuff goes unpunished
Her reactions. How she animates herself. How she speaks with some energetic happiness. Shes a lunatic. So happy to be a narcissist
the drugs definitely did their job on her undeveloped brain
I'm really starting to think that the TH-cam comments that diagnose somebody with narcissism, or actually comments of a narcissist. Narcissism is present less than 3% of the population and yet, it's a 90% of the TH-cam comments. unreal.
Aptly said
The fact that she can cry on cue is disturbing.... And I'm wondering if she loves her daughter the same as her son.
You have no insight in people whatsoever if you mistake these mannerisms with happiness. This woman is deeply troubled.
I truly lost count of all the red flags very early on in the interview. This woman is unbalanced. And I question her 12 year claim of sobriety.
This.
She was itching a whole lot in this interview. I was questioning her sobriety too. Something don't seem right.
Her addiction is sexually.
No need to question it. She said she was smoking pot with her AP. She clearly lied about that. Did you miss that? My guess is her drug dealer today has a Dr. before his/her name.
Yes. I hope she truly can embrace recovery and the change and freedom that it offers.
She said she was sober for 12 years. Then said she made the first move touching his hand when they were smoking a joint. But the kids aren't that old. I feel like she is a half truth teller and can't take any responsibility
"California" sober
Lots of alcohol and weed. Probably the occasional xanax and addie. You know. Sober.
There is approximately 0% chance she's sober.
Damn, good catch
California sober 😂
Every child is not his, but she was the victim? Continuously cheating, unprotected too, and then having children back to back- but, he was very mean to her?
*Checks out*
If your version sounds this bad… I can’t imagine the truth
Not every person who can make children should be a parent. People like this lady are the reason why kids grow up with mental problems and have a hard time in life.
I can vouch for this… I came from one of them 🎉 mental problems and hard time In life confirmed.
Never underestimate THEIR ability to rationalize bad behavior, block transparency, and evade all accountability.
There is his side, her side and the truth ❤ i hope she learns and starts working on herself
Right ! She’s a SCANK !!
@@xoxoxok
I hope you realize that we probably never get the full, truthful story from her.
She’s calling her daughter who is less than 5 years old crazy, no witch, you’re the crazy one
BIG red flag.
Literally irritated the hell out of me, the way she keeps calling her crazy and saying her skin stayed tanned like her Hispanic dad or how she really didnt want another baby but is messing around on her husband. Like girl what be so ffr
Glad I’m not the only one who caught that. I don’t get a good feeling from the way she describes her daughter.
When a narcissist calls you crazy just remember it's themselves they are referring to
Throws victim role, deflects, narcissistic behavior of creating stories she’s bought into, this woman is a sociopath
You know it's coming full circle when Mark ends up interviewing these kids in 10+ years...
She is delutional, inmature and does not take responsability of anything she does.
She tried to depict her ex-husband like a monster but ended making him look like a good man.
He is too good and emphatic to the point of protecting the kids even though he is not the father, and they are the resut of his wife cheating.
Love the way you spelled delusional 😆
Yesssss.....omg this woman wants to say "control"...more like her control......he apparently loves them children more than she does.....•° she ought to be THANKFUL FOR REAL...... God I can't stand women who wanna use this type of crap against men.......!!! She deserves everything that comes for her.....honesty her kids are even gonna grow up to see what really is up if she don't stop.......girl stop with that modern...."slay", or boss bitch"....
.please!!!! I'd come at you too....with your std traveling cheating stupid ugly a$$......😅😅😅😅😅😅
Yeah he’s a dumb cuck. Save your money and move on bud it’s not too late!!
@@saweetzzho
Sometimes you have to spell it incorrectly or use other words to sound it out; if you wind up on TH-cam's craplist, they can make a special file for you containing everyday words that others can use but, which, in their eyes, are being used _INappropriately_ so, comments that _you_ make containing them are flagged, prevented from posting, or rendered invisible. Perhaps he uses _THAT_ spelling because he's unable to use the proper spelling.
ironically that's exactly why she can easily play him like a fiddle. people think there's honor in being a nice guy but all that happens is you get walked all over by creatures such as this woman
Crying with no tears. Smiling as she recounts “getting away with it”
- Tries to paint the ex-husband as an abuser
- Inadvertently paints ex-husband as a hero
This woman is evil, believe me
Spreads destruction everywhere she goes, I was married into a family of women just like her. Got out with my life and sanity intact many years ago. The only thing you can do with people like her is turn your back.
I agree.. :/ I truly feel bad for the children...
Singy-songy talking, the hair coloring, the eyes, the smiling while talking…not to mention what she has done. She said “When you find someone like him you don’t let him go because someone else will get him and that will make you MAD” not sad, mad.
She will destroy that current Bfs life next.
hardly a hero, she likely wasn't loyal to him because he was abusive.
@@UniquelySustainable being loyal is one thing. It’s another thing to be conniving and have children with someone else and pretend like the current partner is the father.
I know she’s terrible. But I do commend her honesty and sharing it with the world without holding back. I would never cheat but even if I did, I could never do what she did. So props to her for being so blunt.
She is insane. I get horrible vibes from her. She makes her voice break on purpose to pretend to cry and while she is “crying” there are no signs of it. The way she talks about her son va her daughter 😢. So sad.
Casey Anthony vibes...
Yeah she’s totally 💯 ick.
she is creepy as hell
Calling him "controlling" for staying in the kids life? WTF!! Zero accountabilty. Some people are utter trash. Would love to hear the husband's story.
Utter trash? What a shallow take.
@@parafracerenwell is she not ??
@@parafracerenshe fucked his friend and had his kids, kind of trashy imo
Paternity fraud should be considered as a crime which should be punished either with jail time or a high penalty fee.
I agree! The only thing is, in some situations it would be hard to prove that the woman didn’t know it wasn’t her husband’s child. The same way it’s sometimes hard to prove that someone with HIV/AIDS or other STDs knew they had it before passing it along to another person.
@misslilmeliss uh. But she knows she fucking cheated and never disclosed it to give the guy the opportunity to make his decision and choose to stay or not. Doesn't matter if she "honestly doesn't know who the dad is". These women should be held accountable for thr deceit
In a lot of states, it is illegal.
I mean I do agree. I have the same situation and I allowed my husband, even though he did his ish too, I let him know and think about it and come to me when he was ready and here we are 12 years later and he's still the dad to our daughter when he didn't have to be.
@@misslilmeliss did she sleep with a man outside of her marriage? Yes? Then she couldn't be sure who the father is. It isn't an excuse. It is fraud because she tried to hide her affair and get away with cheating until she was caught. She knew what she was doing.
"I made the first move, of course!" What a psychopath!
Kiara Renee Gragido was charged with domestic battery in the first degree on March 8th, 2015, in Reno. This woman is an absolute witch.
Doxxed
@@purebloodkjb🤡
Shes in her 30s. The purple hair, the teenage colloquialisms and mannerisms, and her attire told me all i needed to know. But you just confirmed it. Thank you
@@whiteyfisk9769 her image gives it away for sure, but you'll notice her eyes give it all away as well. her demeanor maybe happy, she may smile, or gesture happily, but her eyes show flashes of sadness and despair. this kind of mixed signaling is clear symptom of some form of mental illness.
So crazy
So him still being in the kids life is just "control" and he isn't a "nice man" because of it but she hopes he doesn't meet another woman that convinces him to leave the kids that aren't even his anyway.. this woman is a piece of work. He sounds like a very solid dude, respect to him.
Yeah, and as another means of control, he coaches her son's baseball team. He probably controls the church by tithing every Sunday too and the government by paying taxes.
This woman is a nightmare. I don’t believe for a second that her ex husband did anything wrong or is controlling. She thinks WAY too highly of herself.
Yes and she thinks him wanting to play a part in the childrens lives that he raised as his own and coaching their little league is because he wants to control her. LOL She really thinks it's all about her.
@@ed1658it's not that easy when kids are involved. I had a cousin who went through this, imagine raising your child for years then one day finding out they aren't yours. That love you've had for them doesn't go away overnight
The way she is telling her story is very creepy , like a little girl and she finds it very amusing. She is the only person I have seen on on White Underbelly that I have no sympathy for
@@ed1658 y’all really glossed over the part where she said he was emotionally and physically abusive to her once she said he kids weren’t his didn’t ya
@@mehamurmurs1686 It doesn't make his actions right but it does explain she played a big role in making him further resent and hate her once he found out she cheated on him, being betrayed then being betrayed about a baby that isn't yours is a double wammy.
I think he already had experienced her cheating on him in the past way before she got pregnant by another man, and carried that toxic resentment towards her through out the marriage along with what other personality flaws he had, as for her shes just ticking time bomb I hope she really has mended her ways tho imo any guy with her should either wear protection or get a Vasectomy rather than risk getting tricked into bringing up another mans baby.
Divorce is the absolute best thing to have ever happened to the ex-husband.
Holy shit. This was one of the most horrifying videos. "I got my babies" holy fuck. Those eyes. She is gone. I'd trust a junkie on the street more than those eyes and smile. I feel so bad for those children.
Favorite comment so far😊
Then you are nowhere cynical enough when it comes to female behavior.
@@glad777FACTS. Even though I’ve been so red pilled and listen to wives betraying husband Reddit stories prophylactically, I’m constantly amazed on how much worse the mating pool for us straight eligible modern men in the West is today
@@glad777 my crazy ex gf just had a kid at age 38. Dude. First I didn't know that was kinda possible. 2nd I didnt know any girl over 30 wanted a kid and 3rd she told me she never wanted kids. So when at age 38 she popped out a kid. I am never dating anyone under 40 again.
@@emptyplenty4730 I could tell you how insane my first wife was but even I can not really believe it.
She smiles and shrugs while detailing all the crap she did to others. No personal responsibility or sorrow or introspection at all. And her biggest takeaway -- find the one that's right for you.
She gives off the most selfish twisted manipulative vibes I've seen in a while.
Besides the false sabt(Sunday),and teh wide spread of spiritism(yog, karma, ouiaj bord, reiki,hipnosis), last final decie wil be ,atht satn himslef wil come as Hrist, sayinghe changed teh day of rest! And this decie wil be poerful for al those who dont read teh Bible for themseles,as it wil be flowed by great miracles and healings,everywere he wil apear! But teh Bible dosnt live su without wraning to this and cleaerly says aht when Jesius coems " All eyes wil see Him" ,so everyone on earth, wilse satans fake only here and there! -read Mathew chaoter 24! Another direct warning to teh spirit f the anthirst is in 2 Joan 7" anyone who says atht Jesus doenst coem in flesh/body, is teh spirit of the anthirst"! And i would sugest you get abook caled " The great cintroversy" by Ellen White, is ana mazing book, wich depicts the war betwen good and evil,from Lucifers afl til teh very end,and in the last few chapters, is everything about what we live, and whats toc eom, pure undiluted truth, with valiuble insights! God bless you all!
That woman is a narcissist!! He has a good reason to be angry with her!! Those children are fortunate to have him.
Her foot flying into the camera as she swoons back... relishing the spitlight... bizarre 😵💫
@@MaxGangi Tia Power Im convinced we truly live the end times, and that is not much till we will hear about the sunday decret! As the Catolic church, ran the inquisition in the midle eve, so it will be în these last times, with al who will want to live only to a 100 % "stays writen", especilay the true sabat (4th comandmnt in the ten laws, Exodus 20:8)! I recomand you get a book caled The great controversy by Ellen White! It depicts the war betwen good and evil from Lucifers fall, till the very end, and in the last 100 pages youl find everything about the sunday decret, what we live, whats to come, pure undiluted truth, with amazing insights! Is a must read for everyone who is intrested that we live the end times, and how everything, is playing out! May God help us be sheeps and not goats in that day! God bless you and youre loved ones!
@@MaxGangi Besides the false sabt(Sunday),and teh wide spread of spiritism(yog, karma, ouiaj bord, reiki,hipnosis), last final decie wil be ,atht satn himslef wil come as Hrist, sayinghe changed teh day of rest! And this decie wil be poerful for al those who dont read teh Bible for themseles,as it wil be flowed by great miracles and healings,everywere he wil apear! But teh Bible dosnt live su without wraning to this and cleaerly says aht when Jesius coems " All eyes wil see Him" ,so everyone on earth, wilse satans fake only here and there! -read Mathew chaoter 24! Another direct warning to teh spirit f the anthirst is in 2 Joan 7" anyone who says atht Jesus doenst coem in flesh/body, is teh spirit of the anthirst"! And i would sugest you get abook caled " The great cintroversy" by Ellen White, is ana mazing book, wich depicts the war betwen good and evil,from Lucifers afl til teh very end,and in the last few chapters, is everything about what we live, and whats toc eom, pure undiluted truth, with valiuble insights! God bless you all!
The smile on her face while she talks about the absolute havoc and pain she has wreaked across the lives of those around her is disturbing.
It's the only time her facial expressions were real. Her smile while she talked about how she had hurt the people in her life is the only true thing in this whole interview.
@@BruceLyeg Modern day Jezebels the lot of them.
Super Dupers Delight mental psychosis with a narcissistic personality disorder to boot ! @@BruceLyeg
She is a nutjob
“15:14 is not an excuse. I’m over 50 with just one toddler, and with the maturity and experience I’ve gained, it’s clear how much adults shape a child’s behavior and habits while they’re developing their own.
Condolences to the children and the ex husband. Wishing you a lifetime of healing.
I wish her a jail cell for paternity fraud.
That hole will never heal !
@@FreeUkraine69 yes it was a bit sarcastic
She has mad dupers delight goin on !@@AlpinePreparedness
Ex husband is abusive yet cheating is where you draw the line? Absurd.
Crazy how a person can laugh about destroying another persons life.
My mom reminds me of this Cee U Next Tuesday let me tell ya! Makes you wonder who's minding hell while they're away. Really does.
*Men are in love, women are in business.*
They also have a curious doublemindedness that allows them to think one thing while doing something else; it protects their mental health from their actions and is probably an evolved ability since the women who lived long enough to bear children were those that prioritized their self-interest and survival over all else. It's also how they can move on from break-ups so quickly.
the truth about women is spineless men repulse them. she likely found joy in playing her husband and getting away with it. probably still does
@@Mr.Ambrose_Dyer_Armitage_Esq.lol
@@Mr.Ambrose_Dyer_Armitage_Esq.
Uh quite the opposite. and who drives women to be like that. men. lets notact innocent shall we
Give her five years... She’ll have two more kids with two more guys, be dating someone new, and calling her current boyfriend “a monster”.
People like this should not be allowed to reproduce
Not before she marries them and takes half of their assets in the divorce. I can’t believe she felt entitled to anything after what she put her first husband through. The fact that her ex became “unhoused” shortly after makes me think it wasn’t very fair (well, maybe from her twisted perspective it was) at all.
@@TennesseeDouglas She keeps complaining about her ex being angry. Gee i wonder what crap she pulled to make him angry? From the sound of her voice alone i'd say it was quite a lot
my new boyfriend is the sweetest most nicest guy..."
No doubt.
This one is heavy. I wish the best for all involved. All as I will say is relax on the judgment. Hurt people hurt people. It doesn’t make any of it right but the blame does not go to one individual as a whole.
Everyone has to, carry the weight of their choices and some loads are heavier than others no pun intended.
Thank you for a kind comment ❤ This section needed this reminder!
“Yeah he coached my sons baseball team, raised my illegitimate children as his own, and still sees them on the weekends”
Yeah what a loser amiright? This woman is absolutely unbearable…..
Absolutely
Sure she and other women will see him as a loser for doing those things.
The way she talks with her tons up and down and dragged our words…. Christ almighty smite me I can’t bear to listen to another word… idk how anyone can even stand to listen to her
@@louismccomack9524and yet, here you are lol.
Hurt people hurting people 😢
"Do I have any regrets? No. I got what I wanted"
Unbridgled narcissism and probably sociopathy. The fact that she's so matter of fact about the damage she caused and doesn't really care because she got what she wanted...it's just mind-boggling. Let's add on the fact that she somehow thought it was a great idea to let the internet know just exactly the type of person she is. I would hate to see her crashing. It must be friightening.
Agreed, bad things are going to happen now. I feel her interview was done to gain support, this didn't happen. She has to deal with reality now. Hell hath no fury.....!
She is at the least a clinical narcissist, probably a sociopath but at the least has a personality disorder. And i worry about her daughter. She made multiple comments alluding to the idea she wishes she were gone. Just as she wishes the childrens father were gone
Let's just call her a total freak and a total sick twisted bitch, instead of "muh narcissist"
She is unabashedly narcissistic and delusional, she makes me feel like I’m watching an Oscar performance! Sociopath 101.
It makes me sad that there are really horrible people out there like this. She is completely unsympathetic and unlikable.
💯% UNLIKABLE!!
Did something awful happen to her as a child do you think? I do wonder with these terrifying people...
You jerk. She's CONFESSING.
She starts crying and explaining getting physically assaulted by the dude…she definitely still feels bad about the divorce, and shouldn’t after someone physically assaults you, that means they don’t care for you.
I hope Kiara's daughter gets all the love and acceptance she deserves, she isn't blind either and she may get traumatized by the whole situation unless raised with lots of love and patience. I hope she gets the love she needs in that household, especially from MOM, no one wants another traumatized girl. I did go through a long emotionally abusive relationship as well, but what Kiara did is indeed cruel on another level...I think she knows that. I hope they find forgiveness between each other, talk, and apologize sincerely. That's the only way for both of them not to carry that pain in their hearts further.
I always pay attention to the people who cry but don’t say “ thank you” when Mark hands them tissue.
you're on to something...
Ohhhh I never thought of that. Great point.
I thought I was the only one 😂😂
thought i was the only one,,,,, Phew!!!!!
So funny, I noticed that right away and not only did she not say thank you she didn’t even look at him or her whoever gave it to her. I didn’t think it was Mark. I thought it was like a production assistant or something like that. It was as if a ghost handed it to her.
Mark, please do a follow up with her. I’d love to see what she thinks about the overwhelming and intense disapproval of who she is and what she does.
why?
@@sinane.y Because I, personally, would be entertained.
I'm glad she is alive because her husband pushed her over the edge and physically abused her. I'm so sick of men demonizing women after the shit they put us through
@@sagekay9121I mean she demonized herself. Even if her husband was abusive it was her choices that led to this.
I think that would be a bad idea. She’d probably just love the attention.
I love Mark’s groan/sigh at the end. We all felt the same exasperation with this immature woman!
@@baublesanddollsTHIS!
What? Do you not realize life is not black and white??? Stop saying shit like that.@@baublesanddolls
A complete woman-child (as opposed to a man-child). I hope I never get close to one of these landmines.
There aren't many people that I dislike instantly....but she is one of them.
Immature is right. I feel like I am listening to a teenager who doesn't have any self awareness.
The coldness and lack of remose/accountability is chilling
This woman is sick. Her laugh while talking about cheating, her lack of remorse and inability to take accountability for her actions is beyond disgusting.
Called narcissistic
That's because she's a narcissist
Lol it's called schizophrenia
Laughing is a coping mechanism.
U didn't see her cry and talk about feeling guilty?
She is the FIRST interview where I actually HATE the person!!!
Same thing! Yuck from 30 seconds in.
HATE is a VERY STRONG emotion & u don't even KNOW her!!!
@@nikkidotts1279you’re only saying that because she’s a women lol if this was a man you’d be jumping on the hate train too
Agreed. And I’ve seen many 🤦♀️
That's pretty bad when there are interviews with P3dos on this channel.
Humans were a mistake.
Why did she keep calling her daughter ‘crazy’ and then only speaking about her son in a positive light?
I also noticed that. Sounds like her daughter will be the future scapegoat (everything will be the daughter's fault)
cause she's a narcissist and her daughter is competion to this snake
I noticed that. She said "my son is the best human ever" & "well my daughter, I love her crazy a$$ too" definitely telling.
Then my he's so kind to my son, and he's even patient with my crazy daughter. I feel terrible for her daughter
She’s more “tan” and looks like her dad. That’s probably the reason.
I slipped on purple hair dye running to comments on this one 😂😂😅
Disgusting to pretend your husband is the father of your children when he was not. Shameful behavior.
it's also called paternity fraud.
Shes a dumb huh-Or
She’s boil a rabbit crazy
The fact that there are no repercussions for women who defraud men like this is disgusting and just goes to show you there is no equality
Women get away with pretty much everything
I forgive her
Her nursery rhyme voice and the way she keeps looking at the ceiling is nutty.
her voice and tone is driving me crazy...
Reminded me of Moira Rose a couple times😂
came here to say that lol.
@@ArayaLightunderrated comment. i definitely see it now lol.
@@nazarsoroka23 only thing missing was her saying Bebe a couple times 😂😂
We need to hear the ex-husband side. A cheater will always paint the victim in a bad image so they can feel better about what they did. She is a monster!
A disgusting wh*re showing dupers delight during the interview and then the tears to feel sorry for her sick ev*l ways ! Surprised she never used the line of " look made me do " !
They all are monster. All 4 of them. The reall victim here is those kids that brought into this mes by these adults.
@@ykhatat she is the monster, you need to hear from the men to make that comment about them, you sound quite toxic with that statement!
There’s 3 sides to every story. We need to hear his side. So we can find the truth.
@@VariableSpringyeah, because physically and mentally abusing someone is totally fine, but all women are monsters. Ridiculous and sexist take.
Mark already knows she’s a narc-histronic-socio - he’s asking the right questions 😂
This woman is so sick. Her face just lit up with delight to share that she fooled her children and husband with her infidelity.
That's because she's a narcissist
I'm less than a min in and there's something about her I can't stand. I know I'm wrong for that, but I just have that feeling I can shake.
The Schadenfreude here is stunning. Terrible human being.
Sickness
her voice and valley girl drawl is strange.
When Mark said “you’re trouble” he was definitely disgusted and just done with her.
I came here to say that and saw you already had. That's what I noticed. "I hope you're right...for the kids' sake" (exhausted/exasperated sigh) at 23:55. @@beatewagner7.2934
Really? To me it was flirtatious AF.
I bartended for half my life. I know flirting when I hear it.
@@ArayaLightI'm sure that's what you'd like to tell yourself. Nah..I'll let you in on a male secret. It means what it means. He's just trying to decide how much trouble he's willing to deal with. It's always the "just use her and throw her away". But never anything long term. And the men that end up putting kids in them. Are the ones just like her...So it's a dead end street.
@@grazydine2 are you a robot? Wtf are you even saying 😂😂
@@grazydine2 ok MGTOW INCEL like you have a freaking clue about men flirting with easy women 😂😂🤡🤡
The black and white photos are often so telling. Sometimes they offer a clearer look into the persons soul and this women's photo is a perfect example of this.
Yep ,usally black white pics look goid but not in her case
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