So what if my wife broke up with me, i got an apartment, she got a new "BF", but we been steady smashin and I been sleepin over all the time. Do I just keep crushing it while I learn how to be less or a douche or do I cut her off and find a new supply and just be friends?
Sharing a house with your wife, while attempting to get her back can be challenging. My advice would be that you should give her space, while creating space for yourself, in other words, activities that do not include her but are leading to your self-improvement. This will not only show her that you are capable of providing her with distance , but also, that you are taking the time to work on your self improvement, you are working on becoming a better version of yourself without needing her presence to do so.
Did that for years. We still talked and was intimate but that slowly slipped away. Two days after dinner buried my dad, she left. Won't talk or anything. If you don't get it worked out before she leaves, it's less likely yall will get back together. Not impossible but unlikely.
I don’t think your advice always applies to all situations. I like the idea of looking inward and fixing my side of the street; however, we shouldn’t be expected to compensate for our partners are insecurities. Even when led, there’s some things women have to navigate through on their own.
I respectfully disagree. Even if you could get her back, it's not worth it. She now knows that she can experiment with other men and you will still take her back. I agree that the guy who was cheated on likely has a lot of growing to do. However, make sure that you're doing all this growth for a brand new woman who has never cheated on you. Also, if you still want her back after she's slept with another man, then you're operating from a position of scarcity. Men who are operating from abundance do not give second chances in this regard. Now I will say this, I'm not married (in a 3 year relationship) and I don't have any kids. So I can't tell married men with a family what they should do. I just know what I would do. No second chances for unforgivable behavior. However, do what's best for you.
What about a situation where my fiance is still a virgin like I am, but she cheated once by kissing another man but never slept with him? She is torn now.
@Lysimachus78 I can't tell another man what he should do. Every man must decide for himself. However, if I'm with a woman in a committed relationship and she kisses another man, then I would interpret that to mean that she does not respect me. If she does not respect me, then I would never be able to trust her to be faithful. I'd have to spend the entire marriage looking over my shoulder. That's why I'd leave her and just start over with a different woman. Nevertheless, there's no right or wrong answer. It all depends on your risk tolerance and your stress tolerance. Personally, I like to keep life as stress free as possible.
My life too busy running businesses to play games and worry about things where im walking on eggshells and being careful not to turn her off... take me as i am or dont have me at all. its ok. Its cheaper and less stressful to deal with women that are only good for recreational use. Them other serious women are a threat to your money, emotions, success and will cut you off based on her emotions. Enjoy women for recreational use. Sorry not sorry
Schedule A FREE Call With The Marriage Mastery Team:
👉 www.joshhudsoncoaching.net/apply?sl=youtubemm150
Don’t try to get her back. Don’t feed into this. Once lines are crossed there’s no going back.
So, not even the fact the self-reflection would improve yourself, is worthy of consideration?
Shut up
If its a girlfriend I completely agree, move on, focus on you, find a better person.
A wife with kids...its different.
If she cheats let her go.
My wife is seeing another man and doesnt want to talk to me but she hasnt blocked me on anything what can i do to win her back
It doesn't worth it.
What do if she has a boyfriend but still love her but she says. No interest
So what if my wife broke up with me, i got an apartment, she got a new "BF", but we been steady smashin and I been sleepin over all the time. Do I just keep crushing it while I learn how to be less or a douche or do I cut her off and find a new supply and just be friends?
Got a family holiday next weekend with the wife of 20 years.. shall I flirt.. but she seeing some 1 ekse
Heck yea
Try a bit but she made it clear not to
What if you are living with her but sleeping in separate rooms?
Sharing a house with your wife, while attempting to get her back can be challenging. My advice would be that you should give her space, while creating space for yourself, in other words, activities that do not include her but are leading to your self-improvement. This will not only show her that you are capable of providing her with distance , but also, that you are taking the time to work on your self improvement, you are working on becoming a better version of yourself without needing her presence to do so.
Thanks for the advice.
Divorce her ASAP
Did that for years. We still talked and was intimate but that slowly slipped away. Two days after dinner buried my dad, she left. Won't talk or anything. If you don't get it worked out before she leaves, it's less likely yall will get back together. Not impossible but unlikely.
I don’t think your advice always applies to all situations. I like the idea of looking inward and fixing my side of the street; however, we shouldn’t be expected to compensate for our partners are insecurities. Even when led, there’s some things women have to navigate through on their own.
Is there not
I respectfully disagree. Even if you could get her back, it's not worth it. She now knows that she can experiment with other men and you will still take her back.
I agree that the guy who was cheated on likely has a lot of growing to do. However, make sure that you're doing all this growth for a brand new woman who has never cheated on you.
Also, if you still want her back after she's slept with another man, then you're operating from a position of scarcity. Men who are operating from abundance do not give second chances in this regard.
Now I will say this, I'm not married (in a 3 year relationship) and I don't have any kids. So I can't tell married men with a family what they should do. I just know what I would do. No second chances for unforgivable behavior. However, do what's best for you.
What about a situation where my fiance is still a virgin like I am, but she cheated once by kissing another man but never slept with him? She is torn now.
@Lysimachus78
I can't tell another man what he should do. Every man must decide for himself. However, if I'm with a woman in a committed relationship and she kisses another man, then I would interpret that to mean that she does not respect me. If she does not respect me, then I would never be able to trust her to be faithful. I'd have to spend the entire marriage looking over my shoulder. That's why I'd leave her and just start over with a different woman.
Nevertheless, there's no right or wrong answer. It all depends on your risk tolerance and your stress tolerance. Personally, I like to keep life as stress free as possible.
My life too busy running businesses to play games and worry about things where im walking on eggshells and being careful not to turn her off... take me as i am or dont have me at all. its ok. Its cheaper and less stressful to deal with women that are only good for recreational use. Them other serious women are a threat to your money, emotions, success and will cut you off based on her emotions. Enjoy women for recreational use. Sorry not sorry