@@FIRSTNAMELASTNAME-zt4kf that's why I limited my speech to one joke and went straight to the toast. Probably done within a minute, because, honestly, no one came to hear me give a speech.
@@charlee_hotel - can't speak to your question, but to clarify: these are speeches at the reception, not during the wedding ceremony. If you've seen movies that include weddings, you've probably seen this kind of thing. The speeches involve things like family members telling cute stories about the bride or groom as a child, or friends who are in the wedding party telling a sweet story about how the couple met or what makes them think that marriage will last. Sort of tributes to the bride, the groom, or the couple.
The wedding hasn't happened yet for it to be ruined but one of my old acquaintances from high school told me if I ever got married that he'd run through my wedding naked screaming "The end is nigh!" Because he couldn't believe that I would eventually marry somebody. I haven't heard from him in years and given he was big on the 'smoke weed every day' life I find it very unlikely I'll ever see him again.
My family's inappropriately flirty accountant joked with me about possibly answering when they asked if there were any objections. I assured him that if he didn't convince me there was absolutely _zero_ chance he would do that, I could guarantee his not being on the guest list. He behaved.
I am a guest who ruined the wedding. While living in Asia, i ve worked for very wealthy sweet family, and we all have been invited to a wedding of my boss work partner in company. The second groom saw me, he was stunned... His eyes were shining, smiling like on a pudding, looking me deep into the eyes.... Suddenly his beautiful bride (seriously she was a 10) was completely invisible... Groom was trying to sit with us at the table, talk to me only, following me everywhere on his own wedding.... I ve managed to ask my boss and his family to evacuate or help me to get taxi, because this is horribly awkward.. When car arrived, groom run on the other side, trying to get into the car with me... My boss managed to get him away so i could escape... Was feeling terribly sad for his bride and whole family, it was weird... I m not a 10, more like a 7, Wasn't flirting, wasn't giving any looks, literally gave best wishes to a couple and crack few jokes with them all... I still don't know what the hell, but this memory stays with me forever
Catholic here, that's not what they teach. I'm very confused as to how the priest and brother came to that conclusion. At most, the church may ask that they have a seperate service to bless the marriage in the church, but other than that, nothing wrong. It's so weird!
my mother in law decided the wedding was a perfect time to tell everyone that she didn't like our theme... (harry potter) she didn't like the food (because it wasn't catered) didn't like my dress (I had a vision since I was very little of getting married in a medieval style dress my cousin MADE said dress by hand as her wedding gift to me) she didn't understand why I didn't go down the aisle to DUN DUN DA DUN (I chose Athair Ar Neamh by Enya... which I thought was beautiful and perfect) we did not get married in a church and have a huge reception at a hall (we got married at our house.... because both my husband and I decided a small wedding with friends and family was better and more economical than going into massive debt) kudo's though to my whole family that was there.... they shielded me and my husband from everything she said by keeping us very busy and away from her... so none of this was found out at the time however... none of my family (who told me about it later) were keen with her.. thankfully the JNMIL is out of our life. Husband cut off all contact with her.
That sounds like an awsome wedding. Aside from the pos MIL ofc. I myself adore Enya’s songs and, have like 12 of them on my playlists (now 13 thanks to your awesome recommendation). I’m sorry for the long comment but I have to geek out about Enyas songs a bit as I rarely meet another fan. “Floras secret” holds the most nostalgia value for me, it has a special place in my heart, as it’s the first Enya song I heard when I was very young. In addition it was played at prom in the last year of middle school when we did the slow waltz like dance. I was actually able to rediscover the song when we were practicing for the dance, and that was the song that we danced to. Funnily enough I was partnered up to dance with my crush (though at the time i had already suppressed my feelings as he had gotten together with someone) when practicing dancing, I sometimes cursed when I accidentally stepped on his foot, as I was so nervous. To the extent that I probably sounded like a sailor. On the actual prom dance, the dance hall (we used our modern looking cantina) was way to small for all three classes to dance (more than 90 teens) so it was very cramped. Therefore, although I had practiced a lot to avoid stepping on his foot, it was unavoidable and occurred about two times, both of which I got so nervous that I said something along the lines of «shit, sorry». I at least ended up with a good excuse of avoiding eye contact so I could instead observe our feet to avoid stepping on him further. Other than that, I equally love “Caribbean blue” and “Exile” as they are special songs for different reasons, the former is upbeat but also relaxing at the same time, and as the title suggest it makes me imagine an ideal tropical vacation, the last of which I have unfortunately not had since I was 4. I only remember bits and pieces but this song helps me remember and immerse myself in that feeling and relaxation I had at the time. The latter song has a beautiful and sort of haunting melancholic quality to it especially with the melodic flute like instrument that sounds like it is being played through mountainous forests. I also appreciate that although the song has a melancholic feeling, it also has a hopeful quality to it when listening to the lyrics, and melody. Anyways sorry again for the long comment but If you have not heard son of the songs I have mentioned (aside from floras secret as it is one of her more popular songs so you probably have) I highly recommend them
@@nell1251 OMG I am such a huge Enya fan Orinoco Flow was probably my first song that I heard of hers but storms in africa is also a huge favorite of mine, when I lived back in alaska I would put the music on my Iphone/Ipod ect... and go out into the woods and go gain inspiration... it is also the music I tend to listen to the most when I am in a super creative mood. I'm glad to have met another enya loving soul!
I would be so excited to be invited to a Harry Potter theme wedding, don't try me haha I may do that now... Your wedding sounds whimsical and down to earth
It wasn't a guest---Well, it did involve a guest-- but the bride was heavily involved. My cousin, twice removed, married a woman that he believed was "the one". He even broke off his "FWB relationship" with his kids' mother (a.k.a. his place-holder), so he could start his new relationship off on a honest start. He said that his fiancee was a lot more classy and beautiful than the women that he usually messed with, or, lived in his town. She reminded him of "Whitley Gilbert" from 'A Different World'. Well, anyway... At the reception, the... blushing bride... was performing some risque dance moves on several male guests. And I am talking about "twerking, doing splits and P-Popping on a headstand" type of moves. I'll give my cousin props: he did file for an annullment as soon as he could. My cousin eventually had gone back to his babies' mom and they're still together. I do feel bad for his children's mother, though. He still has his one foot in and the other foot out the door. He is still looking.
Your cousin sounds like a total classless scrub who doesn't want to take responsibility or do anything that isn't self serving and I feel so bad for his baby mama
@@gabbyfringette7250 He is. And the thing is.... No one can identify the "root" of his character. He was born and raised in the stablest households than any of the rest of us. Both parents are still married. They're called "Gomez and Morticia Addams" because of how they act with each other. They had given him and his siblings stability, encouragement and love.
Funny you should specify they make you want a no alcohol wedding, I feel like the worst offenders in this clip were stone cold sober, so they'd make me want no wedding, period. Or at least one with only two witnesses.
10:58 As an über early bloomer, this one spoke to me straight to the heart. At that age, I was already been harrassed in "that" way by older men, and adult women were already getting the wrong idea (like that woman, albeit they were never THAT mean but rather passive-aggressive). But since this is a wedding related video, whenever I got wedding invites in my teens... I was the one who would catch the bouquets. And yes, being the tallest of the bunch certainly helped, since the heels put me at 6'1". I caught at least three.
My MIL tried and failed to ruin the wedding by telling everyone not to come. If my sister hadn't brought a friend with her then we wouldn't have had the necessary witnesses.
@@jonesnori yes. There were good, objective reasons to counsel us against getting married when we did, but we were talking about getting married in another seven months anyway. Then their housing situation collapsed, because their landlord had been collecting rent but not paying his mortgage, and we moved our wedding from our local church to the courthouse and up seven months.
When I was younger I got invited to a cousin's wedding and I didnt really know her. When she came out I thought she looked really young and pretty so I asked her her age and she said she was like 30 and I said "Oh you're older than you look" and she misunderstood, was pissed and got snarky with me. She basically called me a slut for being excited during the bouquet toss and jumping around (which was another disaster in itself-) but the thing was I didnt understand the concept at the time and I wanted the bouquet itself, not a marrige. I was too shocked that an adult was talking to me like that to explain before she got ushered away. She may have also thought I was trying to upstage her or something since I had this puffy pink princess like dress my mom let me wear for some reason but I was a kid and not even thinking like that.
Didn't ruin the wedding, but my baby cousins were very antsy and just wanted to get to the ice cream bar my uncle had, so they were openly voicing their opinions on how slow the wedding was going. Fucking love those two, they're like in middle school now, maybe high school. I hope they're doing good.
Brother nearly missed his que to walk up with other groomsmen, then gave an insulting speech. To top it off, didn't help clean up and told family he knows I didn't want to know that I'd gotten married. Family drama then springs up. Thanks bro.
this was before the wedding but my aunt tried to fight my mum because she said there wasn't gonna be any alcohol at my mums wedding, my stepdads family are Muslim and flew from Asia to Europe for the wedding and my mum didn't want to offend them with alcohol, also the officiant was showed up drunk and she was the only officiant available which my mum and stepdad was not happy about
Former wedding photographer here. I'm in the older bride category, and I have NEVER wanted a big wedding; too many horror stories (with some photo evidence). My fiance keeps asking what kind of wedding I want, and I say the two of us and a couple of witnesses. I don't care if we get married on my back deck. No drama mama.
I have been weddings with no alcohol few times and it has been just fine. No one should get upset over that. My wedding had alcohol and... Even with decent people there is always this one, whose drinking gets out of hand. At our reception it was my husband of my hubby's cousin. He was drunk already at arrival. His wife was right there and it didn't stop harassing some ladies, including my sister.
I was talked into a cash bar for my wedding. As far as I know, only one guest got drunk - my brother. Thankfully, he wasn't too obnoxious during the reception and was actually friendlier with my husband than he normally would have been. Afterwards, back at the hotel, was a different story, apparently. Stick with that conviction
so this is a story I witnessed on a day trip in 2019. basically my family were at a festival of sorts and we went inside a hotel to find a bathroom. I'm waiting outside the stalls, which are near the dining rooms, for my mom to be ready. I see a man who looks in his 30s and a woman looking in her 60s storm out of the dining room, where I can hear other people too. the woman is shouting at the man, who I guessed was her son. she starts staying things like "you're a fucking (f slur)?!" and "you didn't even tell your own mother!". from the snippets of the convo I pretended not to listen to from behind a wall, the man was apparently gay and getting married to his fiancé, another man. the mother hadn't been told about it, in fact it was mainly the fiancé's family and a few friends who attended a small civil ceremony and the party afterwards. I assumed it was because the mother was homophobic, because jesus christ the vial things that she said. the man eventually asked a staff member passing by if she could get security, he was in absolute tears. I felt so awful for him. the mother was ushered out by a security guard, but not before yelling "I HOPE YOU AND THE OTHER (F SLUR) GET AIDS!". the man sat on the stairs nearby for a bit crying, before his now-husband comes out and brings him back in. I hope the mother goes to hell, no one should treat their own children like that.
I heard that at my uncles wedding, his now ex wife’s brother pulled a gun and tried to shoot him. The guy missed and was disarmed and the police were called. My uncles ended up divorcing her because she had been cheating on him while he was deployed and got caught when he got home
I used to date a girl who's grandmother had hired a hitman to murder her husband. Hitman knocked on the door grandpa opened it, hitman fired, and only hit grandpa in the arm. For months after grandpa and his sons answered the door looking like a colonial militia. Grandma divorced grandpa, married the hitman, divorced the hitman when he was charged for the attempted murder, and married a doctor who drank like a fish and smoked like a chimney. Bullet dodged when she cheated and bailed on me.
Oh I love these lol. Not a ruined a wedding story it was actually hilariously cute to my sister(the then bride) I was told the Christmas before her spring/summer wedding that she wanted 8(?) year old me to be her flower girl! I was so happy because well my sister met the love of her life and wanted me to play such a part! I didn't know much about weddings since I've never been to one so I had no clue this was usually reserved for younger girls. Apparently they decided against doing the ring bearer and flower girl thing and I wasn't informed. I was apparently now a bridesmaid at like 9! Hella cool right? Well I was confused when I was told to follow her friend(I hadn't met any of her friends before) down the aisle for rehearsal and was told not to pretend to spread petals. I was shaking and trying not to cry in utter confusion cause I was so lost on what was happening. No one had their dresses yet(my sister had on a pretty practice dress) and I was in jeans not even knowing what a wedding rehearsal was our why all the benches were empty aside from a few people watching for support. After the priest or whatever he was finished his practice speech we got in a little discussion circle and one of her friends noticed I was really quiet and stunned upset and I stated balling asking what the hell was going on and why we were dressed like this why I was following these strangers and wasn't I the flower girl!? You know what any confused child would do. My sister tried consoling me but she was snickering so much from her utter shock as I'm a mess of tears and confusion xD I know it probably sounds like I was being very immature and for anyone wondering why I didn't know her friends they were college friends from what I remember and we live in different states. I was just so upset that I didn't know what was going on and thought I was following the wrong advice(hence the shaking) since me sister didn't tell me anything herself. Her friends just kinda took over for that part unaware of that I was completely clueless to what was going on lol. I don't even remember the wedding really. I remember the preparation before the wedding itself and the reception though and it was so beautiful! My sister in her dress dancing with her husband and just smiling like no tomorrow. They are still married and I have an adorable nephew and niece from them! I love her a lot and even though that incident still reminds me that I have way too much anxiety apparently even from a young age it's still nice that my sister found enjoyment in it and still tried to clear things up even with all that was on her plate. I know she'd do anything for me. She even keeps bugging me to move to her state and even live and work with her lol. She's a sweetie and I have two other sisters I'm glad to call mine.
11:05 it sounds like Beth found out about him having a crush and blamed the child instead of the creepy boyfriend. Hopefully the family protected the little girl.
Yep little girl was just a outlet, she definitely had something going on in her life that she took it out on the girl! I’ve seen women do this in public to strangers all because they found out their spouse looked at another woman the wrong way.
Imagine a fiance cheating on her husband to be on their wedding day! In the bed of a pickup! The commenter was right. That guy saved that groom from a big mistake!
@@phlushphish793 Yes, she was in the wrong, he didn’t know any better. He just managed to score while doing a chore for someone else in the minimal time left before the wedding started. And all because he had a pickup truck 😂.
That last one had me in stitches! And to the weddings (3) I have been to, nothing bad really happened! Although, my sister-in-law's mom and her MOH fought over the bouquet in the second wedding I went to and a little boy caught the garter in the garter toss with the Bestman basically diving for it behind the kid in the third wedding I went to. Yeah Sis-in-law's mom and MOH fighting over the bouquet kinda killed the mood a little bit and the kid that caught the garter was kind of a funny scene rather than it ruining the wedding.
At my brother's wedding, the bride's friend sobbed extremely loudly throughout the ceremony. My sister in law kept glaring at her and her friend kept apologising but couldn't stop herself wailing.
@@beastmaster0934 My SIL had an unpredictable temper and my brother eventually couldn't take all the verbal abuse. Neither could the rest of the family.
I hope that bride that got their marriage license stolen by their mother cut her out of her life. She doesn't need a parent like that in her life. The one with the brother protesting was so ironic because of the parents being similar to the bride and groom in that story. The parents should have told him that "our union was similar in 'Christian denominations' like your sibling's marriage."
My mom often tells the story about how my older brother interrupted the wedding vows of her friend’s wedding. At the time he was about three or four years old and just generally hated churches. So after sitting for a few minutes he decided to start running up and down the isle while screaming. I’m not entirely sure how to translate this from my language, but after the priest had tried to say something to make him stop he said something like “Shut up you damn priest!” (Håll käften din prästjävel in my native language.) My parents eventually got him out of there so that the ceremony could continue. Apparently a lot of people found this funny so the wedding wasn’t completely ruined, but it did make my mom really embarrassed.
My husband's aunt, who has made the full circle a couple times of Bible thumper to addict/alcoholic and around again, was raging mad when we wanted to have the wedding at a public park and the reception at the shelter house. Nothing big, like 25 people or so. She was mad because alcohol is not permitted in parks. My husband wanted to please everyone, so we had the wedding in his parents' backyard. Whatever. I'm fairly flexible. I just wanted to be with him and enjoy the rest of our lives together. What did send me over the edge was a different aunt's boyfriend was admiring the kukri my husband wore in a sheath around his waist for the ceremony. He held up the machete and said, "this is a great N-word killer!" I don't recall exactly what I said, but it involved "piece of sh*t" and "racist mf'er." I walked/ran away from them and my husband caught up to me a minute or so later. He said he told his aunt to get that SOB out of our reception. They left, and we never saw that boyfriend again. Didn't ruin the event, but definitely was a crappy moment. We will be married 19 years in September 2022.
My dad didn't want to give me away. I finally told him that he gave both my sisters away, so by jiggies he was giving me away! In retrospect I should have told him, "Okay. I'll get Grandpa to give me away," and did so. My grandpa would have been honored. My dad hadn't wanted me to get married because he wanted me to take care of him if his marriage didn't last, but I was 39 and had met the right guy so I told him was getting married whether he liked it or not. It was actually pretty minor compared to a lot of other things I've read here, and I handled it.
I ruined a wedding when I was 5. I was a flower girl for a family friend’s wedding and I did everything wrong and was the stupid horrible person that I am, and I had no concept of being quiet during the ceremony (I had never attended a church service before) and I’m pretty sure I yelled something when the bride’s sister told me to stop talking….like “stop criticizing me” or something. And then when we posed for photos everyone else is standing up straight and smiling, doing it the right way, and I’m leaning to one side with my hands on my hips and a goofy smile. Not sure I did anything bad at the reception, probably by that time I was too tired. I haven’t spoken to the bride since and I’d rather not, she probably hates me, it would probably be mortifying. Plus what if I was the reason the marriage didn’t work out? I mean this was a thing that solidified what a bad person I am. And I’m surprised the parents and other sister have been nice to me over the years.
Not mine, but my girlfriend/at the time friend’s wedding. 1 of her maids of honor worked with friend and I at a hotel. However, in the months leading up to the wedding, that MOH was acting weird. First, she got back with her cheating ex-boyfriend (who was a maintenance guy at the the property) then broke back up with him when finding out he was still dating the first woman he had cheated on MOH for. Then she got depressed. One night when relieving her at work, I noticed 3 cut marks on 1 of her wrists in what looked like a failed suicide attempt. A few weeks after, she covers the cut marks with a tattoo. Finally, on the wedding day itself, she got very inebriated and became a sloppy drunk. She had ruined all the photos that were taken between the wedding and reception, got even more drunk, enough to where she couldn’t drive to the friend’s house for the reception after party. Her parents had to pick her up. Meanwhile, I’m trying to get the bottles of wine and cases of soda for the after party. Right after I come back and ready to help set things up with the groom, the bride gets a call from said MOH’s parents. She won’t be able to make it to the after party cause she’s just short of fall-down, getting close to unconscious drunk. You can hear over the phone the MOH just incoherently screaming, and she was to also get a few things for the after party as well. I then spend another 10-15 minutes at the store getting those items so that my friend can have at least an enjoyable after party. A few hours later, I head into work an realize “Crap, said inebriated MOH is to relieve me in the morning. Hopefully she’s sober/awake enough to replace me on time.” She did, even though I wanted to make sure she was okay. Apparently it was an omen for things to come. Said MOH eventually got fired and arrested by cops for multiple DWIs and drinking on the job (to where she would leave the hotel to go to her car and drink the mini alcohol bottles in her center console). The bride got divorced about 7 years later after finding her husband not only was cheating on her with one of his coworkers, but got said coworker pregnant.
0:51 - was that actually a gay wedding (which I have **NO** problem with btw) or was the groom publicly dragged out of the closet just after marrying his bride? If it's the latter then big yikes.
So not at the wedding and didn’t 100% ruin it but 3 weeks before my parents wedding my dad’s father left my grandma for another women (who he was sleeping with while married to my grandma)(weird enough the name of the women he was with while married to my grandma has the same name as my grandma) he was not invited to the wedding after he left my grandma. My parents also found out my mom was pregnant with me 3 days before their wedding.
The photo story reminds me of an ex friend of mine. I was one of the bridesmaids at her wedding. There was a photographer there taking pix of all the bridesmaids etc. In the wedding photo abum, there wasn't a single photo of me and plenty of photos of other bridesmaids. I was supposed to have been one of her very best friends since high school. Never betrayed her. A couple of years later she just stopped speaking to me altogether and no one, incl myself, knows why. You think you know someone....
my aunt is in recovery for alcoholism (3 years sober) and my cousin (her sisters daughter) is getting married early next year. She wants to have alcohol at the wedding, but my grandmother and her mother are both against it because they feel one of them will have to take my aunt home before drinks start. Personally I believe my aunt will be fine, and that they should at least ask whether she thinks she can handle it, but I've been ignored.
I have watched SO many of these videos and one thing they have in common, is most of them are caused by drunk people. Because of this, no alcohol will be served at my wedding.
That's fine and your choice, but realize far fewer people will attend. No one wants to be there to begin with. Wedding receptions are for the guests, not the bride and groom. It was always supposed to be that way. It's a thank you to the guests who gave up an entire day to pretend they care that you're getting hitched. Free food and booze is the consolation prize. Maybe just elope?
Bro I literally went to a Catholic School, and the one where the guy who was telling everyone that girl's marriage was immoral because of her marrying an episcopalian. I literally had to take a class that included this stuff, and that is completely fine. It's called a mixed marriage, which is any marriage between a Catholic and Christian. Do not need a dispensation.
I was 8 weeks old at my Uncle’s wedding, luckily I just kind of shutdown and wasn’t a huge problem I also ended up flooding a toilet at my cousin’s reception, and even though it wasn’t really my fault I still feel really bad about it
Oh boy, that second to last one... Being screamed and cussed at like that at such a young age has to leave an impression. I'd be shocked if it didn't lead to the kid not helping anyone ever again.
Groomzilla ones are usually jucier because men tend to have no emotional regulation skills at all. Bridezillas cause tears, but groomzillas usually have cops called on them. 😂
My daughter just got married on October 30th this year. So there were 3 things that happened and now she doesn’t even want to discuss her wedding. First of all, her so called best friend of 15 years was supposed to be her maid of honor. She showed up at the church and my daughter and I were running behind in getting there and the b!:#&h had ghosted her because she had a rave to go to so needless to say they’re no longer speaking and then her dad was pitching a fit due to us being behind schedule and stood up in front of everyone and said “This shit doesn’t need to happen anyway and he walked out and had to be chased down because she was ready to walk down the isle! Last but not least an uninvited guy who had given one of the groomsmen a ride was literally smoking weed somewhere inside the church and the Minister smelled it!!!! My daughter grew up in this church and her grandparents still attend and have for many years and it was daughter’s Youth Minister of many years that officiated so now my daughter is absolutely mortified!!!! She has written a formal apology to him but it’s still incredibly embarrassing!!!! Regardless of all that it was a beautiful wedding 😏
I don't understand how if you have a family member who is selfish and will steal food and then walk out how you don't just immediately like a heat seeking missile approach that person and harshly tell them to get the fuck out of there or you're calling the police. Seriously, if you don't want someone in your home, you don't want someone at your wedding, cut the BS and CUT THEM OUT of your life.
I can tell the brother it REALLY religious, to the point where he'd probably be standing on a corner on Halloween holding a sign telling kids that dressing up as their favorite character is evil.
This is late but i once ruined a reception by sayin "is tht all?" Bout the brides dads speech as it was fairly small, granted i wasnt meanin to b mean or anythin and the poor man just went to sit bk down and i still feel bad bout tht to this day
Every wedding should have the "designated roofie guy". Try to spot the trouble makers early, then offer them a beautiful mixed drink with a tiny parasol in it - and roofies. Then just lay them in their cars and make sure you crack the windows a bit.
I don't get why people what alcohol at weddings when all that does is make people drunk and do stupid think whether purposefully or not. Also makes a dangerous situation with tons of potential drunk drivers and the whole cops and fights. Having alcohol that weddings isnt worth it.
That's why I dont want to make a big seremony. I just know that something will go terribly wrong, no matter how hard you try to prevent it from happening. And I dont want to think for ages after the wedding that it was a messed up disaster, and that "other people had ideal weddings and I didnt"
My little sister wedding was super stressful but amazing for the most part. I feel bad for a few things and I wish I actually enjoyed myself more instead of going hard to make things so perfect. But it's not about me it was her day. Some things I did prevent from happening is my younger brother (middle child) getting so drunk and being his usual asshole self and trying to fuck up her day.(dad and I almost beat his ass). My dad was so ready to walk her down the isle that she never got the chance to pee for like 6 hours. I felt so bad for her. I tried to stop my dad and tell him to hold on for like 10 minutes but he was off. (We laugh about it now) my sister her new husband his sister and her boyfriend sneak off to smoke weed and are crashed by our pot head aunt and my sister best friend XD they brought more weed and we got blitzed!!! The shit was awesome! I didn't realize it until the next day that I hadn't eaten anything that entire day and was just go go go until I crashed that night on my tiny little cot because I had my other siblings in town taking my bed and the air mattress. I slept so good! And my sister loved her wedding so not bad. And good riddance to my pretentious and judgmental and just all around rude ass grandma that never showed up. No one has spoken to her since a week before that day. (Months before she had been saying nothing but negative things about my sister's dress and her future husband.) My brother in law is the best and is honestly my sister's soulmate. He and my dad get along perfectly too. My grandma needed to get her head out of her ass and stop being so rude. C'est la vie!
how did they pick a 30 second song dfor their wedding dance and then not even get into place in time 22:37 doesn't make sense. She's arguing with your husband when you show up... with your husband?
I hate weddings, including my own (except I love my husband and obviously wanted to marry him). I was the most disinterested bride you ever saw in any of the decor etc. I didn’t want to spend a dime on the wedding. It was the barest quickest little church wedding you ever saw. I just wanted to get it over with fast and get out of there. I’m not into that “princess for a day, look at me!” bull crap. Or spending a ton of money on one day when it could go into a house instead. The most I can say for it was that I was wearing an inexpensive white wedding dress. He was in a tux. I did not want to inconvenience my relatives with some long winded ceremony. I think the whole thing was over in 30 minutes tops. No reception. No asking for gifts of any kind. Just a “thanks for coming” see you later fam 👋. It was only our closest family members there, very small. Then we took off for our honeymoon because that was going to be the fun part for us. Pretty sure we conceived our son on that trip 😂
My time has come to shine. So when I was back in 5th grade, my friend decided to wed their animal pencil cases. I was the wedding planner and hired people, invited people, made actual rings, the whole deal. On the day of the wedding, other people decided to be nosy and crowded around us. I was shooing them off when a teacher who was most feared throughout the school came up to us and demanded to know why we were packed so tightly. The poor mother-in-law of the cat shaped pencil case had to step up and explain everything. I felt so bad for her because I was the planner and when the teacher came over, all the nosy girls ran off. The next day I held a quiet wedding for them and gave them both a wedding present to compensate for yesterday (it was those plastic diamond things that the people at my school would obsess over). TL;DR: Small 5th grade ‘wedding’ got interrupted by uninvited girls and strict teacher when they crowded around, attracted the strict teacher to come over and demand an explanation from us and ran off like they were never there.
I feel so lucky to have a family that will not try to kill each other after a few beers lol. I have no doubt my wedding will just be good people having a good time.
hahaha the best man one reminded me of my my best friend in a good way. his best man speech started as. i must confess the groom and i have been lovers since middle school. and since 10th grade we been secretly going steady. (pause for reaction) just kidding but i know the bride and groom were made for each other and better name there first kid after me and if they dont (hands me a bullet) thats my sister and now you have one with your name on it
it didn't ruin the wedding for anyone besides my mom 32 and another dancer it happened at my aunt 30 wedding last month at the reception aunt who thought it would be a good way to save money by not hiring dancers for her song ask my mom a dancer to do it as a wedding gift mom agreed so long as aunt brought the outfit they talk about since mom was wearing slacks and didn't want to ruin them aunt forgot to get the outfit and mom didn't find out until the reception when aunt realize she forgot but mom still agree to do the dance along with the other two dancers who aunt guilt trip into doing it during the dance mom pants rip and the other dancer who saw it stop and pointed and laugh just when the other dancer turn and hit her in the face by accident mom ended up having to stuff a hand towel into her belt to cover the hole and the other dancer had a black eye and aunt got to make fun of both of them all night
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Bless that person who dropped their mashed potatoes recipe lmao
I dropped a like strictly for the recipe
that was priceless XD
A rare gem that I am blessed to have found 🙏
The best mashed potatoes ever thanks for the recipe
Has anyone tried it?
I've never heard a single speech at any wedding bc EVERYONE is talking. That is an extremely rude thing at weddings no one talks about.
I've heard them and your not missing much tbh couple corny jokes a couple tears the usual.
@@FIRSTNAMELASTNAME-zt4kf that's why I limited my speech to one joke and went straight to the toast. Probably done within a minute, because, honestly, no one came to hear me give a speech.
Wedding speeches? Is this some grin-go thing that I'm too Latina to understand?
@@charlee_hotel - can't speak to your question, but to clarify: these are speeches at the reception, not during the wedding ceremony. If you've seen movies that include weddings, you've probably seen this kind of thing. The speeches involve things like family members telling cute stories about the bride or groom as a child, or friends who are in the wedding party telling a sweet story about how the couple met or what makes them think that marriage will last. Sort of tributes to the bride, the groom, or the couple.
@@tejaswoman
They really aren't that much of a thing where I'm from (PR), but sometimes they're done.
The wedding hasn't happened yet for it to be ruined but one of my old acquaintances from high school told me if I ever got married that he'd run through my wedding naked screaming "The end is nigh!" Because he couldn't believe that I would eventually marry somebody.
I haven't heard from him in years and given he was big on the 'smoke weed every day' life I find it very unlikely I'll ever see him again.
he's trying to make it more surprising when it happens
My family's inappropriately flirty accountant joked with me about possibly answering when they asked if there were any objections. I assured him that if he didn't convince me there was absolutely _zero_ chance he would do that, I could guarantee his not being on the guest list. He behaved.
He's gone text you a day before the wedding with Thanos quotes 😂
I am a guest who ruined the wedding.
While living in Asia, i ve worked for very wealthy sweet family, and we all have been invited to a wedding of my boss work partner in company.
The second groom saw me, he was stunned... His eyes were shining, smiling like on a pudding, looking me deep into the eyes.... Suddenly his beautiful bride (seriously she was a 10) was completely invisible... Groom was trying to sit with us at the table, talk to me only, following me everywhere on his own wedding.... I ve managed to ask my boss and his family to evacuate or help me to get taxi, because this is horribly awkward.. When car arrived, groom run on the other side, trying to get into the car with me... My boss managed to get him away so i could escape... Was feeling terribly sad for his bride and whole family, it was weird...
I m not a 10, more like a 7,
Wasn't flirting, wasn't giving any looks, literally gave best wishes to a couple and crack few jokes with them all...
I still don't know what the hell, but this memory stays with me forever
He probably fell in love with you. That was wrong though. Glad you this tolerate it. He would have done same to you if you had encouraged it.
Boy, that one with the cancelled venue & hack attacks. Someone was seriously trying to sabotage that wedding!
Person who dropped the mashed potato recipe.. you the MVP 👊🏼
For that religious brother story, I think you should get him away from that priest, that's probably who put him up to all that nonsense.
Catholic here, that's not what they teach. I'm very confused as to how the priest and brother came to that conclusion. At most, the church may ask that they have a seperate service to bless the marriage in the church, but other than that, nothing wrong. It's so weird!
@@blackrose25555
Religious or not, some people are freakin nuts.
@@yesmansam6686 Very true, I´m afraid
@@blackrose25555 I am pretty sure some Catholics teach that. The church is not really united anymore, I'm afraid.
@@blackrose25555 some priests actually do teach this, they just can't accept that not everyone is Catholic and it's honestly annoying
If someone is thinking a 12 year old can steal her man then the police should be having a long talk with the man.
my mother in law decided the wedding was a perfect time to tell everyone that she didn't like our theme... (harry potter) she didn't like the food (because it wasn't catered) didn't like my dress (I had a vision since I was very little of getting married in a medieval style dress my cousin MADE said dress by hand as her wedding gift to me) she didn't understand why I didn't go down the aisle to DUN DUN DA DUN (I chose Athair Ar Neamh by Enya... which I thought was beautiful and perfect) we did not get married in a church and have a huge reception at a hall (we got married at our house.... because both my husband and I decided a small wedding with friends and family was better and more economical than going into massive debt) kudo's though to my whole family that was there.... they shielded me and my husband from everything she said by keeping us very busy and away from her... so none of this was found out at the time however... none of my family (who told me about it later) were keen with her.. thankfully the JNMIL is out of our life. Husband cut off all contact with her.
JN??
@@tejaswoman just no mother in law
That sounds like an awsome wedding. Aside from the pos MIL ofc. I myself adore Enya’s songs and, have like 12 of them on my playlists (now 13 thanks to your awesome recommendation). I’m sorry for the long comment but I have to geek out about Enyas songs a bit as I rarely meet another fan. “Floras secret” holds the most nostalgia value for me, it has a special place in my heart, as it’s the first Enya song I heard when I was very young. In addition it was played at prom in the last year of middle school when we did the slow waltz like dance. I was actually able to rediscover the song when we were practicing for the dance, and that was the song that we danced to. Funnily enough I was partnered up to dance with my crush (though at the time i had already suppressed my feelings as he had gotten together with someone) when practicing dancing, I sometimes cursed when I accidentally stepped on his foot, as I was so nervous. To the extent that I probably sounded like a sailor. On the actual prom dance, the dance hall (we used our modern looking cantina) was way to small for all three classes to dance (more than 90 teens) so it was very cramped. Therefore, although I had practiced a lot to avoid stepping on his foot, it was unavoidable and occurred about two times, both of which I got so nervous that I said something along the lines of «shit, sorry». I at least ended up with a good excuse of avoiding eye contact so I could instead observe our feet to avoid stepping on him further.
Other than that, I equally love “Caribbean blue” and “Exile” as they are special songs for different reasons, the former is upbeat but also relaxing at the same time, and as the title suggest it makes me imagine an ideal tropical vacation, the last of which I have unfortunately not had since I was 4. I only remember bits and pieces but this song helps me remember and immerse myself in that feeling and relaxation I had at the time. The latter song has a beautiful and sort of haunting melancholic quality to it especially with the melodic flute like instrument that sounds like it is being played through mountainous forests. I also appreciate that although the song has a melancholic feeling, it also has a hopeful quality to it when listening to the lyrics, and melody. Anyways sorry again for the long comment but If you have not heard son of the songs I have mentioned (aside from floras secret as it is one of her more popular songs so you probably have) I highly recommend them
@@nell1251 OMG I am such a huge Enya fan Orinoco Flow was probably my first song that I heard of hers but storms in africa is also a huge favorite of mine, when I lived back in alaska I would put the music on my Iphone/Ipod ect... and go out into the woods and go gain inspiration... it is also the music I tend to listen to the most when I am in a super creative mood. I'm glad to have met another enya loving soul!
I would be so excited to be invited to a Harry Potter theme wedding, don't try me haha I may do that now... Your wedding sounds whimsical and down to earth
Didn't ruin the wedding but my uncle showed up in jeans and a multi color windbreaker jacket. Classy, thanks for dressing up.
That's a good one because it's a funny anecdote but not a total disaster.
Went to a wedding in CA. Everyone was dressed up except 1 hippy in a T-shirt. He was nice, though.
That's inexcusable unless it happened in the 80s.
The real question is did he make that shit look good?
If anyone’s story is on here, you need royalties from the amount of ads this channel is playing. Fucking bullshit.
It wasn't a guest---Well, it did involve a guest-- but the bride was heavily involved. My cousin, twice removed, married a woman that he believed was "the one". He even broke off his "FWB relationship" with his kids' mother (a.k.a. his place-holder), so he could start his new relationship off on a honest start. He said that his fiancee was a lot more classy and beautiful than the women that he usually messed with, or, lived in his town. She reminded him of "Whitley Gilbert" from 'A Different World'. Well, anyway... At the reception, the... blushing bride... was performing some risque dance moves on several male guests. And I am talking about "twerking, doing splits and P-Popping on a headstand" type of moves. I'll give my cousin props: he did file for an annullment as soon as he could. My cousin eventually had gone back to his babies' mom and they're still together. I do feel bad for his children's mother, though. He still has his one foot in and the other foot out the door. He is still looking.
Wow your cousin sounds like a complete doushe. Got to treat a lady right.
I honestly think it would be better for the mother to dump this douche.
Your cousin sounds like a total classless scrub who doesn't want to take responsibility or do anything that isn't self serving and I feel so bad for his baby mama
@@gabbyfringette7250 He is. And the thing is.... No one can identify the "root" of his character. He was born and raised in the stablest households than any of the rest of us. Both parents are still married. They're called "Gomez and Morticia Addams" because of how they act with each other. They had given him and his siblings stability, encouragement and love.
I'm sorry but a guy who steps out on his kids' mom just to end up marrying a woman that can't keep her hands off other guys... that's just karma.
I gotta say, these stories make me want a no alcohol wedding
Really not much reason to have any other kind. If they want to be drunk, they can go somewhere else after the reception.
Likewise, and I'm not just saying that as a teeotaler with sensory issues.
We are probably going to do a non-alcohol wedding or maybe just have champagne only
Same here
Funny you should specify they make you want a no alcohol wedding, I feel like the worst offenders in this clip were stone cold sober, so they'd make me want no wedding, period. Or at least one with only two witnesses.
10:58
As an über early bloomer, this one spoke to me straight to the heart. At that age, I was already been harrassed in "that" way by older men, and adult women were already getting the wrong idea (like that woman, albeit they were never THAT mean but rather passive-aggressive).
But since this is a wedding related video, whenever I got wedding invites in my teens... I was the one who would catch the bouquets. And yes, being the tallest of the bunch certainly helped, since the heels put me at 6'1". I caught at least three.
I 'blossomed at an early age and had older men cat calling, propesioning me. Good times. Not
@@barbarastrayhorn4667 Me too. I think I gained weight accidentally on purpose to stop it. Getting older also helped eventually.
My MIL tried and failed to ruin the wedding by telling everyone not to come. If my sister hadn't brought a friend with her then we wouldn't have had the necessary witnesses.
People listened to her?!?
@@jonesnori yes. There were good, objective reasons to counsel us against getting married when we did, but we were talking about getting married in another seven months anyway. Then their housing situation collapsed, because their landlord had been collecting rent but not paying his mortgage, and we moved our wedding from our local church to the courthouse and up seven months.
@@kemarisite Damn. I hope everything is good now.
@@jonesnori oh yeah. 15 years of marriage and a bunch of grandchildren tend to do that.
@@kemarisite Oh, excellent!
When I was younger I got invited to a cousin's wedding and I didnt really know her. When she came out I thought she looked really young and pretty so I asked her her age and she said she was like 30 and I said "Oh you're older than you look" and she misunderstood, was pissed and got snarky with me. She basically called me a slut for being excited during the bouquet toss and jumping around (which was another disaster in itself-) but the thing was I didnt understand the concept at the time and I wanted the bouquet itself, not a marrige. I was too shocked that an adult was talking to me like that to explain before she got ushered away. She may have also thought I was trying to upstage her or something since I had this puffy pink princess like dress my mom let me wear for some reason but I was a kid and not even thinking like that.
How old where you?
@@Emrys91 I couldn't have been older than 9 or 10 but probably younger.
@@galaxywanderer5508 WTF, she sounds crazy
@emrys sounds like the bride had an exteremly fragile ego that was so fragile a mere child could hurt it just from not understanding.
Didn't ruin the wedding, but my baby cousins were very antsy and just wanted to get to the ice cream bar my uncle had, so they were openly voicing their opinions on how slow the wedding was going.
Fucking love those two, they're like in middle school now, maybe high school. I hope they're doing good.
Brother nearly missed his que to walk up with other groomsmen, then gave an insulting speech. To top it off, didn't help clean up and told family he knows I didn't want to know that I'd gotten married. Family drama then springs up. Thanks bro.
oof
this was before the wedding but my aunt tried to fight my mum because she said there wasn't gonna be any alcohol at my mums wedding, my stepdads family are Muslim and flew from Asia to Europe for the wedding and my mum didn't want to offend them with alcohol, also the officiant was showed up drunk and she was the only officiant available which my mum and stepdad was not happy about
Former wedding photographer here. I'm in the older bride category, and I have NEVER wanted a big wedding; too many horror stories (with some photo evidence). My fiance keeps asking what kind of wedding I want, and I say the two of us and a couple of witnesses. I don't care if we get married on my back deck. No drama mama.
When I get married, I definitely won’t be serving alcohol at the wedding.
Smart idea, planning on following that advice.
Same!! Mock tails all the way
I have been weddings with no alcohol few times and it has been just fine. No one should get upset over that.
My wedding had alcohol and... Even with decent people there is always this one, whose drinking gets out of hand. At our reception it was my husband of my hubby's cousin. He was drunk already at arrival. His wife was right there and it didn't stop harassing some ladies, including my sister.
@@duckeh1952 I feel bad for you
I was talked into a cash bar for my wedding. As far as I know, only one guest got drunk - my brother. Thankfully, he wasn't too obnoxious during the reception and was actually friendlier with my husband than he normally would have been. Afterwards, back at the hotel, was a different story, apparently.
Stick with that conviction
so this is a story I witnessed on a day trip in 2019. basically my family were at a festival of sorts and we went inside a hotel to find a bathroom. I'm waiting outside the stalls, which are near the dining rooms, for my mom to be ready. I see a man who looks in his 30s and a woman looking in her 60s storm out of the dining room, where I can hear other people too. the woman is shouting at the man, who I guessed was her son. she starts staying things like "you're a fucking (f slur)?!" and "you didn't even tell your own mother!". from the snippets of the convo I pretended not to listen to from behind a wall, the man was apparently gay and getting married to his fiancé, another man. the mother hadn't been told about it, in fact it was mainly the fiancé's family and a few friends who attended a small civil ceremony and the party afterwards. I assumed it was because the mother was homophobic, because jesus christ the vial things that she said. the man eventually asked a staff member passing by if she could get security, he was in absolute tears. I felt so awful for him. the mother was ushered out by a security guard, but not before yelling "I HOPE YOU AND THE OTHER (F SLUR) GET AIDS!". the man sat on the stairs nearby for a bit crying, before his now-husband comes out and brings him back in. I hope the mother goes to hell, no one should treat their own children like that.
90% these stories make me glad/proud that the worst thing I've ever done drunk is fallen asleep peacefully in my own home.
Why did the music stop? I don't know why, but it made for a very ominous vibe.
I bloody hate it when that happens it's super creepy.
I heard that at my uncles wedding, his now ex wife’s brother pulled a gun and tried to shoot him. The guy missed and was disarmed and the police were called. My uncles ended up divorcing her because she had been cheating on him while he was deployed and got caught when he got home
I used to date a girl who's grandmother had hired a hitman to murder her husband. Hitman knocked on the door grandpa opened it, hitman fired, and only hit grandpa in the arm. For months after grandpa and his sons answered the door looking like a colonial militia. Grandma divorced grandpa, married the hitman, divorced the hitman when he was charged for the attempted murder, and married a doctor who drank like a fish and smoked like a chimney. Bullet dodged when she cheated and bailed on me.
Oh I love these lol. Not a ruined a wedding story it was actually hilariously cute to my sister(the then bride) I was told the Christmas before her spring/summer wedding that she wanted 8(?) year old me to be her flower girl! I was so happy because well my sister met the love of her life and wanted me to play such a part! I didn't know much about weddings since I've never been to one so I had no clue this was usually reserved for younger girls. Apparently they decided against doing the ring bearer and flower girl thing and I wasn't informed. I was apparently now a bridesmaid at like 9! Hella cool right?
Well I was confused when I was told to follow her friend(I hadn't met any of her friends before) down the aisle for rehearsal and was told not to pretend to spread petals. I was shaking and trying not to cry in utter confusion cause I was so lost on what was happening. No one had their dresses yet(my sister had on a pretty practice dress) and I was in jeans not even knowing what a wedding rehearsal was our why all the benches were empty aside from a few people watching for support. After the priest or whatever he was finished his practice speech we got in a little discussion circle and one of her friends noticed I was really quiet and stunned upset and I stated balling asking what the hell was going on and why we were dressed like this why I was following these strangers and wasn't I the flower girl!? You know what any confused child would do.
My sister tried consoling me but she was snickering so much from her utter shock as I'm a mess of tears and confusion xD
I know it probably sounds like I was being very immature and for anyone wondering why I didn't know her friends they were college friends from what I remember and we live in different states.
I was just so upset that I didn't know what was going on and thought I was following the wrong advice(hence the shaking) since me sister didn't tell me anything herself. Her friends just kinda took over for that part unaware of that I was completely clueless to what was going on lol.
I don't even remember the wedding really. I remember the preparation before the wedding itself and the reception though and it was so beautiful! My sister in her dress dancing with her husband and just smiling like no tomorrow. They are still married and I have an adorable nephew and niece from them! I love her a lot and even though that incident still reminds me that I have way too much anxiety apparently even from a young age it's still nice that my sister found enjoyment in it and still tried to clear things up even with all that was on her plate. I know she'd do anything for me. She even keeps bugging me to move to her state and even live and work with her lol. She's a sweetie and I have two other sisters I'm glad to call mine.
11:05 it sounds like Beth found out about him having a crush and blamed the child instead of the creepy boyfriend. Hopefully the family protected the little girl.
Yep little girl was just a outlet, she definitely had something going on in her life that she took it out on the girl! I’ve seen women do this in public to strangers all because they found out their spouse looked at another woman the wrong way.
I'd have gone full Mama Bear.
I'm surprised nobody decked the b****.
The truck story is epic. I mean imagine having that much game.
Imagine a fiance cheating on her husband to be on their wedding day! In the bed of a pickup! The commenter was right. That guy saved that groom from a big mistake!
@@phlushphish793 Yes, she was in the wrong, he didn’t know any better. He just managed to score while doing a chore for someone else in the minimal time left before the wedding started. And all because he had a pickup truck 😂.
Did anyone else know instantly that she was the bride too or was it just me?
@@thebook3481 I knew glad I'm not alone
Actually, sounds like a set-up by the groom to get rid of her.
Apparently JP wasn't first. It was Nathan. I just wanted everyone know that.
I don't get it
@@hoodieninja1646 just gotta read the comment section.
I heard of a bride who wanted to walk down the aisle to the theme of 'Robin of Sherwood'. Instead they played 'Robin Hood, riding through the glen'.
I would have said that was the same thing. Dad's sung it so often. Good for a laugh and you can fix it by getting YT up probably anyway.
That last one had me in stitches! And to the weddings (3) I have been to, nothing bad really happened! Although, my sister-in-law's mom and her MOH fought over the bouquet in the second wedding I went to and a little boy caught the garter in the garter toss with the Bestman basically diving for it behind the kid in the third wedding I went to. Yeah Sis-in-law's mom and MOH fighting over the bouquet kinda killed the mood a little bit and the kid that caught the garter was kind of a funny scene rather than it ruining the wedding.
That juggalo wedding is something i wish i witnessed
5:00 that was kind of adorable.
At my brother's wedding, the bride's friend sobbed extremely loudly throughout the ceremony. My sister in law kept glaring at her and her friend kept apologising but couldn't stop herself wailing.
I bet your now SIL was regretting bringing her friend to the wedding.
@@beastmaster0934 I think she regrets turning up herself. They're divorced now!
@@elizabethwoolnough4358
Oh damn
What happened?
@@beastmaster0934 My SIL had an unpredictable temper and my brother eventually couldn't take all the verbal abuse. Neither could the rest of the family.
I hope that bride that got their marriage license stolen by their mother cut her out of her life. She doesn't need a parent like that in her life.
The one with the brother protesting was so ironic because of the parents being similar to the bride and groom in that story. The parents should have told him that "our union was similar in 'Christian denominations' like your sibling's marriage."
At a friend's wedding the flower girl niece stomped down the aisle turned around and yelled, "Well, hurry up (bride's name)."
Funny and cute
@@colleenross8752 hilarious
"The place we'd planned to take pictures at ended up being on fire" Oh come on, what's a good wedding without a little fire?
My mom often tells the story about how my older brother interrupted the wedding vows of her friend’s wedding. At the time he was about three or four years old and just generally hated churches. So after sitting for a few minutes he decided to start running up and down the isle while screaming. I’m not entirely sure how to translate this from my language, but after the priest had tried to say something to make him stop he said something like “Shut up you damn priest!” (Håll käften din prästjävel in my native language.) My parents eventually got him out of there so that the ceremony could continue. Apparently a lot of people found this funny so the wedding wasn’t completely ruined, but it did make my mom really embarrassed.
My husband's aunt, who has made the full circle a couple times of Bible thumper to addict/alcoholic and around again, was raging mad when we wanted to have the wedding at a public park and the reception at the shelter house. Nothing big, like 25 people or so. She was mad because alcohol is not permitted in parks. My husband wanted to please everyone, so we had the wedding in his parents' backyard. Whatever. I'm fairly flexible. I just wanted to be with him and enjoy the rest of our lives together. What did send me over the edge was a different aunt's boyfriend was admiring the kukri my husband wore in a sheath around his waist for the ceremony. He held up the machete and said, "this is a great N-word killer!" I don't recall exactly what I said, but it involved "piece of sh*t" and "racist mf'er." I walked/ran away from them and my husband caught up to me a minute or so later. He said he told his aunt to get that SOB out of our reception. They left, and we never saw that boyfriend again. Didn't ruin the event, but definitely was a crappy moment. We will be married 19 years in September 2022.
Good for you. Standing up to racists is important.
My dad didn't want to give me away. I finally told him that he gave both my sisters away, so by jiggies he was giving me away! In retrospect I should have told him, "Okay. I'll get Grandpa to give me away," and did so. My grandpa would have been honored. My dad hadn't wanted me to get married because he wanted me to take care of him if his marriage didn't last, but I was 39 and had met the right guy so I told him was getting married whether he liked it or not. It was actually pretty minor compared to a lot of other things I've read here, and I handled it.
I ruined a wedding when I was 5. I was a flower girl for a family friend’s wedding and I did everything wrong and was the stupid horrible person that I am, and I had no concept of being quiet during the ceremony (I had never attended a church service before) and I’m pretty sure I yelled something when the bride’s sister told me to stop talking….like “stop criticizing me” or something. And then when we posed for photos everyone else is standing up straight and smiling, doing it the right way, and I’m leaning to one side with my hands on my hips and a goofy smile. Not sure I did anything bad at the reception, probably by that time I was too tired. I haven’t spoken to the bride since and I’d rather not, she probably hates me, it would probably be mortifying. Plus what if I was the reason the marriage didn’t work out? I mean this was a thing that solidified what a bad person I am. And I’m surprised the parents and other sister have been nice to me over the years.
Not mine, but my girlfriend/at the time friend’s wedding.
1 of her maids of honor worked with friend and I at a hotel. However, in the months leading up to the wedding, that MOH was acting weird.
First, she got back with her cheating ex-boyfriend (who was a maintenance guy at the the property) then broke back up with him when finding out he was still dating the first woman he had cheated on MOH for.
Then she got depressed. One night when relieving her at work, I noticed 3 cut marks on 1 of her wrists in what looked like a failed suicide attempt. A few weeks after, she covers the cut marks with a tattoo.
Finally, on the wedding day itself, she got very inebriated and became a sloppy drunk. She had ruined all the photos that were taken between the wedding and reception, got even more drunk, enough to where she couldn’t drive to the friend’s house for the reception after party. Her parents had to pick her up.
Meanwhile, I’m trying to get the bottles of wine and cases of soda for the after party. Right after I come back and ready to help set things up with the groom, the bride gets a call from said MOH’s parents. She won’t be able to make it to the after party cause she’s just short of fall-down, getting close to unconscious drunk. You can hear over the phone the MOH just incoherently screaming, and she was to also get a few things for the after party as well. I then spend another 10-15 minutes at the store getting those items so that my friend can have at least an enjoyable after party.
A few hours later, I head into work an realize “Crap, said inebriated MOH is to relieve me in the morning. Hopefully she’s sober/awake enough to replace me on time.” She did, even though I wanted to make sure she was okay.
Apparently it was an omen for things to come. Said MOH eventually got fired and arrested by cops for multiple DWIs and drinking on the job (to where she would leave the hotel to go to her car and drink the mini alcohol bottles in her center console). The bride got divorced about 7 years later after finding her husband not only was cheating on her with one of his coworkers, but got said coworker pregnant.
0:51 - was that actually a gay wedding (which I have **NO** problem with btw) or was the groom publicly dragged out of the closet just after marrying his bride? If it's the latter then big yikes.
So not at the wedding and didn’t 100% ruin it but 3 weeks before my parents wedding my dad’s father left my grandma for another women (who he was sleeping with while married to my grandma)(weird enough the name of the women he was with while married to my grandma has the same name as my grandma) he was not invited to the wedding after he left my grandma. My parents also found out my mom was pregnant with me 3 days before their wedding.
The photo story reminds me of an ex friend of mine. I was one of the bridesmaids at her wedding. There was a photographer there taking pix of all the bridesmaids etc. In the wedding photo abum, there wasn't a single photo of me and plenty of photos of other bridesmaids. I was supposed to have been one of her very best friends since high school. Never betrayed her. A couple of years later she just stopped speaking to me altogether and no one, incl myself, knows why. You think you know someone....
my aunt is in recovery for alcoholism (3 years sober) and my cousin (her sisters daughter) is getting married early next year. She wants to have alcohol at the wedding, but my grandmother and her mother are both against it because they feel one of them will have to take my aunt home before drinks start. Personally I believe my aunt will be fine, and that they should at least ask whether she thinks she can handle it, but I've been ignored.
I have watched SO many of these videos and one thing they have in common, is most of them are caused by drunk people. Because of this, no alcohol will be served at my wedding.
That's fine and your choice, but realize far fewer people will attend. No one wants to be there to begin with. Wedding receptions are for the guests, not the bride and groom. It was always supposed to be that way. It's a thank you to the guests who gave up an entire day to pretend they care that you're getting hitched. Free food and booze is the consolation prize. Maybe just elope?
Why do people not just kick these people out!!? Make them leave!! 💀 you do not have to spend your hard earned money on people that don’t deserve it
Bro I literally went to a Catholic School, and the one where the guy who was telling everyone that girl's marriage was immoral because of her marrying an episcopalian. I literally had to take a class that included this stuff, and that is completely fine. It's called a mixed marriage, which is any marriage between a Catholic and Christian. Do not need a dispensation.
You mean a non-Catholic Christian. Catholics are Christians, despite what some Evangelicals believe.
I was 8 weeks old at my Uncle’s wedding, luckily I just kind of shutdown and wasn’t a huge problem
I also ended up flooding a toilet at my cousin’s reception, and even though it wasn’t really my fault I still feel really bad about it
Oh boy, that second to last one...
Being screamed and cussed at like that at such a young age has to leave an impression. I'd be shocked if it didn't lead to the kid not helping anyone ever again.
The one at 25:00 would have honestly made me punch MIL in the face.
I require more bridezilla and trashy wedding stories please 👍
Why are these so addicting?
ask girl has a couple of good ones I hadn't heard before
Groomzilla ones are usually jucier because men tend to have no emotional regulation skills at all. Bridezillas cause tears, but groomzillas usually have cops called on them. 😂
My daughter just got married on October 30th this year. So there were 3 things that happened and now she doesn’t even want to discuss her wedding. First of all, her so called best friend of 15 years was supposed to be her maid of honor. She showed up at the church and my daughter and I were running behind in getting there and the b!:#&h had ghosted her because she had a rave to go to so needless to say they’re no longer speaking and then her dad was pitching a fit due to us being behind schedule and stood up in front of everyone and said “This shit doesn’t need to happen anyway and he walked out and had to be chased down because she was ready to walk down the isle! Last but not least an uninvited guy who had given one of the groomsmen a ride was literally smoking weed somewhere inside the church and the Minister smelled it!!!! My daughter grew up in this church and her grandparents still attend and have for many years and it was daughter’s Youth Minister of many years that officiated so now my daughter is absolutely mortified!!!! She has written a formal apology to him but it’s still incredibly embarrassing!!!! Regardless of all that it was a beautiful wedding 😏
I don't understand how if you have a family member who is selfish and will steal food and then walk out how you don't just immediately like a heat seeking missile approach that person and harshly tell them to get the fuck out of there or you're calling the police.
Seriously, if you don't want someone in your home, you don't want someone at your wedding, cut the BS and CUT THEM OUT of your life.
feel the hot coal shovel story was Wattpad material from start to end.... imagine a enemies with lovers ... it has so much wattpad potential
I can tell the brother it REALLY religious, to the point where he'd probably be standing on a corner on Halloween holding a sign telling kids that dressing up as their favorite character is evil.
7:27
Catholic vs Catholic lite, lol. Most straightforward explanation I've been given.
This is late but i once ruined a reception by sayin "is tht all?" Bout the brides dads speech as it was fairly small, granted i wasnt meanin to b mean or anythin and the poor man just went to sit bk down and i still feel bad bout tht to this day
That one SIL kills me🤣: The wedding was ruined for me because the bride and groom didn't do anything I wanted.
I am congested with a cold I had to do a messy snort after the mashed potatoes. 🤣
The wedding at 3:33 sounds like a beautiful train wreck. I wish I had witnessed it.
The reception in the hay field sounded fun as hell 🤣
The last wedding I was at was actually nice... suspiciously :/
Why are these people getting drunk at weddings? I mean brides and grooms destroy the wedding night.
Apparently that's what you do to celebrate or escape anything. Get drunk.
Every wedding should have the "designated roofie guy". Try to spot the trouble makers early, then offer them a beautiful mixed drink with a tiny parasol in it - and roofies. Then just lay them in their cars and make sure you crack the windows a bit.
I don't get why people what alcohol at weddings when all that does is make people drunk and do stupid think whether purposefully or not. Also makes a dangerous situation with tons of potential drunk drivers and the whole cops and fights. Having alcohol that weddings isnt worth it.
So in the Vermont story with the shovel…the dude who used the shovel slept with the girl he burned/hit? Wow. What a crazy story.
"Today kids, im going to tell you the story of how I met your mother.
It all started when I decided to hit her with a coal shovel..."
God bless the mashed potatoes
This is like listening to the woes of people winning something in a contest lol
That's why I dont want to make a big seremony. I just know that something will go terribly wrong, no matter how hard you try to prevent it from happening. And I dont want to think for ages after the wedding that it was a messed up disaster, and that "other people had ideal weddings and I didnt"
26:00 And that's why my wedding will be strictly 18+.
I am only saving this video because of the mashed potato recipe
Same here. It sounds delicious.
Why not just screenshot the recipe?
I did, but never hurts to have a backup =)
Oh snap, I lost my screenshot. Good thing I saved the video lol
I really like the one about the 7 year old and the choir robes.
2:45
I absolutely love this story xD
Christmas is my favorite holiday, so I’d be angry if one of my family members got married on Christmas lol
My little sister wedding was super stressful but amazing for the most part. I feel bad for a few things and I wish I actually enjoyed myself more instead of going hard to make things so perfect. But it's not about me it was her day. Some things I did prevent from happening is my younger brother (middle child) getting so drunk and being his usual asshole self and trying to fuck up her day.(dad and I almost beat his ass). My dad was so ready to walk her down the isle that she never got the chance to pee for like 6 hours. I felt so bad for her. I tried to stop my dad and tell him to hold on for like 10 minutes but he was off. (We laugh about it now) my sister her new husband his sister and her boyfriend sneak off to smoke weed and are crashed by our pot head aunt and my sister best friend XD they brought more weed and we got blitzed!!! The shit was awesome! I didn't realize it until the next day that I hadn't eaten anything that entire day and was just go go go until I crashed that night on my tiny little cot because I had my other siblings in town taking my bed and the air mattress. I slept so good! And my sister loved her wedding so not bad. And good riddance to my pretentious and judgmental and just all around rude ass grandma that never showed up. No one has spoken to her since a week before that day. (Months before she had been saying nothing but negative things about my sister's dress and her future husband.) My brother in law is the best and is honestly my sister's soulmate. He and my dad get along perfectly too. My grandma needed to get her head out of her ass and stop being so rude. C'est la vie!
My dad almost called his friend’s new wife by the ex-wife’s name in his Best Man speech.
24:45 so...was this a case of the woman trying to marry her son? I know emotional incest is a thing, but that's going too far
how did they pick a 30 second song dfor their wedding dance and then not even get into place in time
22:37 doesn't make sense. She's arguing with your husband when you show up... with your husband?
I hate weddings, including my own (except I love my husband and obviously wanted to marry him). I was the most disinterested bride you ever saw in any of the decor etc. I didn’t want to spend a dime on the wedding. It was the barest quickest little church wedding you ever saw. I just wanted to get it over with fast and get out of there. I’m not into that “princess for a day, look at me!” bull crap. Or spending a ton of money on one day when it could go into a house instead. The most I can say for it was that I was wearing an inexpensive white wedding dress. He was in a tux. I did not want to inconvenience my relatives with some long winded ceremony. I think the whole thing was over in 30 minutes tops. No reception. No asking for gifts of any kind. Just a “thanks for coming” see you later fam 👋. It was only our closest family members there, very small. Then we took off for our honeymoon because that was going to be the fun part for us. Pretty sure we conceived our son on that trip 😂
5:54 no...no...they've got a point
Why would a person’s mother steal a marriage certificate?
The preacher( or whoever is the officiant), the bride and groom have to sign the certificate or the marriage is not official
My time has come to shine.
So when I was back in 5th grade, my friend decided to wed their animal pencil cases. I was the wedding planner and hired people, invited people, made actual rings, the whole deal. On the day of the wedding, other people decided to be nosy and crowded around us. I was shooing them off when a teacher who was most feared throughout the school came up to us and demanded to know why we were packed so tightly. The poor mother-in-law of the cat shaped pencil case had to step up and explain everything. I felt so bad for her because I was the planner and when the teacher came over, all the nosy girls ran off. The next day I held a quiet wedding for them and gave them both a wedding present to compensate for yesterday (it was those plastic diamond things that the people at my school would obsess over).
TL;DR: Small 5th grade ‘wedding’ got interrupted by uninvited girls and strict teacher when they crowded around, attracted the strict teacher to come over and demand an explanation from us and ran off like they were never there.
5:47-ICP. Not even once.
Yeah I'm just gunna have a family bbq instead.
Sounds lit. Bbq is always fun.
Lol "jug-gallow"
When I get married one person from each family is gonna give a toast and it has to be approved by us first.
5:24 and that's how I met your mother...
Never ruined a wedding but I caught the guests attention cuz i pulled up in shorts. I don't wear pants at all 😂
I feel so lucky to have a family that will not try to kill each other after a few beers lol. I have no doubt my wedding will just be good people having a good time.
the juggalo wedding sounds kickass
7:30 sounds like something Mac from It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia would do.
Am I the only one who thought of Little Nicky during the shovel smack story?
What is it with Reddit and offhandedly mentioning that people are obese when it has nothing at all to do with the story?
because ew
Fatphobia is widespread, sadly, as witness the attitude of the commenter before me.
0:53
If that best man told the truth, God bless him and the groom, I hope that they’re the married ones now.
That one flower girl was a genius
hahaha the best man one reminded me of my my best friend in a good way. his best man speech started as. i must confess the groom and i have been lovers since middle school. and since 10th grade we been secretly going steady. (pause for reaction) just kidding but i know the bride and groom were made for each other and better name there first kid after me and if they dont (hands me a bullet) thats my sister and now you have one with your name on it
11:52 lol oh dear.
What's the sand about in 19:10?
I think it's talking about sandbags that people use to weigh things down
it didn't ruin the wedding for anyone besides my mom 32 and another dancer it happened at my aunt 30 wedding last month at the reception aunt who thought it would be a good way to save money by not hiring dancers for her song ask my mom a dancer to do it as a wedding gift mom agreed so long as aunt brought the outfit they talk about since mom was wearing slacks and didn't want to ruin them aunt forgot to get the outfit and mom didn't find out until the reception when aunt realize she forgot but mom still agree to do the dance along with the other two dancers who aunt guilt trip into doing it during the dance mom pants rip and the other dancer who saw it stop and pointed and laugh just when the other dancer turn and hit her in the face by accident mom ended up having to stuff a hand towel into her belt to cover the hole and the other dancer had a black eye and aunt got to make fun of both of them all night
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@@parsnip2699 hi karen thanks for pointing that out but im lazy so oh well
@@parsnip2699 oh my god how can someone be so annoying?