We Owe $85,000 In Credit Card Debt!

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  • @BraddPaisley
    @BraddPaisley หลายเดือนก่อน +250

    No sense of urgency !!
    Wife’s not working !!
    17 credit cards!!!
    That’s crazy.

    • @BarbaraPearson55
      @BarbaraPearson55 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He can always default and negotiate later on.

    • @BarbaraPearson55
      @BarbaraPearson55 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He should just declare bankruptcy.

    • @rodgertim2881
      @rodgertim2881 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Managing Money is different from accumulating wealth, and the lack of investment education in schools may explain why people struggle to maintain their financial gains.

    • @rodgertim2881
      @rodgertim2881 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      People downplay planner’s role, until they are burnt by their mistakes.

    • @ZhannaDavidova
      @ZhannaDavidova หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How did you choose a reliable financial advisor? How can you determine if they are trustworthy and competent?

  • @NOMORERATRACE
    @NOMORERATRACE หลายเดือนก่อน +184

    17 credit cards? He is 100% f%ck up.

    • @perotal
      @perotal หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      it's the American dream bud

    • @chazzkramer7676
      @chazzkramer7676 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      ​@@perotalIt's not the American dream as much as the American nightmare of buying into the American banking system.

    • @AKAAAK
      @AKAAAK หลายเดือนก่อน

      @chazzkramer7676 it's actually buying into American Consumerism and trying to keep up with the Joneses. Americans are consumer centric and the mentally that if my neighbor has one, so I want one too, is keeping them broke as a joke.

    • @jonathanarras1281
      @jonathanarras1281 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yeah this is just reckless

    • @UTP504
      @UTP504 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chazzkramer7676Consumerism gone wild, it’s pure insanity.

  • @karenhardie1132
    @karenhardie1132 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    Wife can work part time. Weekends, from home, different shifts. You can do insurance billing from home while the kids nap. Take in one more kid bringing in daycare money.

    • @huskydawg44
      @huskydawg44 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      My mom did this for years. Watched the neighbor kid both of who's parents worked.

  • @Tap354
    @Tap354 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    “Mortgage doesn’t take a credit card” sums up this guy 😂

    • @danielleamory5428
      @danielleamory5428 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      No kidding.

    • @tyson1357
      @tyson1357 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Meaning his debt would’ve been way worse, thank God he can’t use a cc for the mortgage

    • @jonathanarras1281
      @jonathanarras1281 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ahhhh mortgage does take a credit card if you cash advance it

    • @thabsmkhize2481
      @thabsmkhize2481 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re actually so right lol

    • @maxinef6654
      @maxinef6654 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The mortgage company dodged a bullet with him.

  • @thesuperdingos
    @thesuperdingos หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    I just don’t understand why one has this many credit cards and think “this is fine”.

    • @kevinhook6000
      @kevinhook6000 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I start sweating at 3k

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Cards aren't the problem it's the balances.

    • @gtileo
      @gtileo หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@djpuplex no, its the cards. $500 on each of the cards doesn't sound scary, but add them together. $9500 is an ugly amount to owe at 20%+. its pretty easy to build up small amounts on each card without even thinking

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@gtileo I have just about 30 cards with $0 balance on them.

    • @MisterNightfish
      @MisterNightfish หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Anyone who wouldn't think "this is fine" would stop long before it gets to this point. That's how.

  • @thabsmkhize2481
    @thabsmkhize2481 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    6:30 “Since we stopped paying the credit cards we’ve been cash only” well yeah lol you’ve maxed them out, you CAN’T use them.

    • @phumzileqwaqwa7392
      @phumzileqwaqwa7392 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @thabsmkhize2481 I thought I was the only South African who watches this show😂I am looking at your surname. It has saved me from making so many dumb decisions, gosh😢🤞🤣

  • @astroboy5137
    @astroboy5137 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    17 credit cards! Think maybe that’s the problem!

    • @pdxmusl1510
      @pdxmusl1510 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I think its absurd credit card companies will look at someone with 16 credit cards and think.... you know what that guy needs... a 17th one!
      That's the problem. I mean I agree applying for 17 is absurd. But issuing 17 is dumber.

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I have over 30 cards never paid a dime in interest and have collected over $10k in rewards/bonuses.

    • @nypinstripes02
      @nypinstripes02 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I don't know how people are being approved for all these cards. I can't even get approved for a second card. I want to do a balance transfer so I can pay off my balance and pay less interest. But I can't get approved for anything . Smh

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nypinstripes02 I have a credit score of over 800. Pay in full every month. Capital one and Amex don't approve me because I'm not a profitable customer to them everyone one else never had a problem.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @nypinstripes02 who are you applying to?

  • @JoeyNYSDnomad
    @JoeyNYSDnomad หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Staying at home is a luxury, having your own business is a luxury. You cannot afford this.

    • @mybdayis420
      @mybdayis420 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      its called entitlement

    • @Mrs.Butterworth
      @Mrs.Butterworth หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Daycare for 2 kids will cost around 20k per year. She would have to make more than that after taxes to have it make sense.

    • @Rashaadthegr8
      @Rashaadthegr8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Having kids is a luxury.

    • @ClaxtonBay123
      @ClaxtonBay123 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Mrs.Butterworth 20K? On what Planet? Try 36K on the low end.

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Mrs.Butterworth Weekend and job and co-parenting. Daycare is $20k a year but excuses are priceless.

  • @jimmymcgill6778
    @jimmymcgill6778 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    An electrician and deck builder, and he can't find clients?

    • @sccdean
      @sccdean หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yup he won’t pay his bills but imagine if one of his customers didn’t. He’s a bum

    • @Imjustaviewforstudies
      @Imjustaviewforstudies หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@sccdeanwhat are you 😂😂

    • @analyticalchick3064
      @analyticalchick3064 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      He might have a bad reputation

    • @bettysmith4527
      @bettysmith4527 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@analyticalchick3064 Yes this, I just had a guy do a new shower for me, and I regret it. He seemed very desperate for the work, and it's really hard to find a contractor in this area, so I gave him the job... needless to say, once said job was finished, I realized why he was desperate for work, he was not a very bright guy and his finish work was TERRIBLE, I have to do it over!! Needless to say he gave me a few business cards to pass out to friends, and I legit kept one to give to someone I don't like, and through the rest out int he trash, as I would NEVER recommend this person to anyone I care about!! It's possible this caller needs to do some self reflection, as perhaps being a contractor isn't the right fit for him!

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Most people make horrible business owners. Some people would rather go $80K into debt so they can “work for them self” rather than punch a clock

  • @LucyVade
    @LucyVade หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Hit 200k today. Thank you for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started with 14k in last month 2024

    • @FavourGift-en6en
      @FavourGift-en6en หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow that's huge, how do you make that
      much monthly?

    • @chinyerejoseph8004
      @chinyerejoseph8004 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As a beginner what do i need to do? How can i invest, on which platform? If you know any please share.

    • @LucyVade
      @LucyVade หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sincerely speaking. I will continue to trade and stick to expert ja ne daily signals and guides as long as it works well for me...

    • @AnthonyAntoinetteNwaurugu
      @AnthonyAntoinetteNwaurugu หลายเดือนก่อน

      GREAT NWES!!started working with Christina back in April , and my financial goals have been clearer. It's like having a strategic partner for my money with a solid track record.

    • @Norberth67
      @Norberth67 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Access to good information is what we investors needs to progress financially and generally in life. this is a good one and I appreciate

  • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
    @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    $85k in consumer debt but your wife isn’t working??? And you’re not paying them off???
    I have news for you-you cannot afford her to be a stay-at-home-mom. I know she prob has zero skills, but tell her to get a job as a cashier. Wake the Hell up.

    • @siva47931
      @siva47931 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Dave's wife didn't work even though he filed bankruptcy

    • @jasonrodgers9063
      @jasonrodgers9063 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You DO realize that daycare (unless for free with a family member) is EXPENSIVE AS HELL! If she can't do better than being a cashier, then it's COUNTERPRODUCTIVE!

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@siva47931and Dave constantly talks about what an idiot he was back then. You trying too hard 😂

    • @ninjagirl226
      @ninjagirl226 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jasonrodgers9063Not really. He works first shift she works second. Or she only works part time on the weekends when he is home.
      I’m not saying it’s great but it’s something to get money and that’s what matters

    • @carolr7823
      @carolr7823 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jasonrodgers9063 She can get a job on the weekends when her husband isn't working. Or she can work in the evenings when he gets home from work to watch the kids.

  • @leedalton508
    @leedalton508 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    Some of this advice is so basic, why u have to call in is beyond me, it's common sense

    • @einstein1102
      @einstein1102 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Common sense is not so common anymore 🤷🏽‍♂

    • @manoftomorrow5987
      @manoftomorrow5987 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@einstein1102well true.

    • @floresnashvilledrummer
      @floresnashvilledrummer หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Dave says it all the time, it's just common sense. But it's the lack of it that keep his company in business!

    • @carojames6776
      @carojames6776 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@floresnashvilledrummer Works both ways.

    • @xKeville
      @xKeville หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      They have to take the easy calls when Dave's not on the show. This thing is going to fall apart once he fully retires, he's the only one that has answers that feel unscripted and genuine. Jade straight up asks the same exact questions every single call, it feels like she is straight up reading a script.

  • @BagsNBaguettes_327
    @BagsNBaguettes_327 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Sometimes people want to work for themselves to not work, be lazy, and have the flexibility. Doesn’t sound like he’s working much and neither is she.

    • @289Mustang67
      @289Mustang67 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      We don't know that either of them are "lazy." He's been in a business with a product that customers might postpone or decline because inflation is eating up their own incomes. Whatever the reason that business dropped off, he probably should have jumped at the chance to work full-time as an employee a little sooner.

    • @jjpark1989
      @jjpark1989 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Successful business owners work their own business. Labor costs are usually the make or break for most small businesses.

    • @thabsmkhize2481
      @thabsmkhize2481 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But she’s right. Some people just aren’t cut out for independent work. This does sound pretty laid back…

  • @Ja50nkAt
    @Ja50nkAt หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Rachels face when he's counting the credit cards "oh mercy me!" lol

  • @David-wo9un
    @David-wo9un หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love these two, especially when they are on together; they both are so compassionate and offer hope to what may feel like an impossible situation resolve.

  • @FrankS111
    @FrankS111 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    Everyone thinks they can be a business owner and CEO. Guess what most of you aren’t capable of even mid level management let alone a business owner. This is why 90%+ of businesses fail. People either lack the drive, intelligence, or business knowledge. Most of you are just capable of being an individual contributor and that’s it. Sorry

    • @Mojo-pl3oj
      @Mojo-pl3oj หลายเดือนก่อน

      Learned that one the hard way didn’t you? Little Frankfurter.

    • @rh-bd6wv
      @rh-bd6wv หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      It is true. I learned early in my work life that I was a valuable follower but a terrible leader. Cool thing is, valuable followers may never be wealthy but they can be paid really well with none of the headache. No need to be sorry, everyone has a place.

    • @kiuki42
      @kiuki42 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Problem is, you won't know you're capable until you try

    • @rabidgoon
      @rabidgoon หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      They also tend to think they can start somewhere in the middle instead of starting small and building up.

    • @jerrystauffer2351
      @jerrystauffer2351 หลายเดือนก่อน

      People who can't hold jobs want to own businesses

  • @enjoywarmwinters
    @enjoywarmwinters หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Ive noticed many of these calls involve a stay at home mom. I’m pregnant with my first and wish more than anything that I could stay home with my little one, but it’s not in the picture for us just yet. My husband and I live in CO and make over 200k a year and it still wouldn’t make sense for me to quit. So expensive here! The only debt we have is a mortgage. We are not suffering but if we lived off just my husband, it would be stressful and extremely tight.

    • @ERNIE555
      @ERNIE555 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Why have a baby?

    • @carolr7823
      @carolr7823 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      For a mother that doesn't have a high paying job, it may make sense for her to stay at home. However, I was really impressed with a secretary at my job in the 80s. She wanted to stay at home with their first child, so she quit but she took in another baby to watch, which actually worked out well since her baby had company. She & her husband also delivered newspapers and cleaned some offices in the evening several days a week. They worked it out so that she could stay at home, but they could still have an acceptable income.

    • @enjoywarmwinters
      @enjoywarmwinters หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@carolr7823 see that’s really smart! I was thinking about working in the evening cleaning or some job to make it work. That’s inspiring. ❤

    • @ebullock1000
      @ebullock1000 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      It’s all about priorities. Being a SAHM takes sacrifice as the entire family. In this case, it seems they weren’t financially stable or disciplined to handle the sacrifice it takes.

    • @Tunechi65
      @Tunechi65 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ERNIE555because you can do both 🤡

  • @ClaxtonBay123
    @ClaxtonBay123 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    I love that Jade always asks how old the kids are. She's always trying to get the mom back to work which I love

    • @jeffreywhitaker5154
      @jeffreywhitaker5154 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      GREAT point. 🙏🏽💪🏽👍🏽

    • @analyticalchick3064
      @analyticalchick3064 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's what I wanted to know. Also, they catch some situations with SAHM who have school age kids sometimes the oldest is a teen, too.

    • @jeffreywhitaker5154
      @jeffreywhitaker5154 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@analyticalchick3064 What does SAHM mean?

    • @madambutrfly23
      @madambutrfly23 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jeffreywhitaker5154Stay at home mom

    • @sallylarson882
      @sallylarson882 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Why do you love moms not being home with kids?

  • @BaileyJames-zv2ddd
    @BaileyJames-zv2ddd หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    This year is even worse than the last. Last year, I lost a lot of money on bad investments that I never would have made if I hadn't been so worried about my portfolio. I didn't know if I should continue to invest or pay my mortgage off. After selling my investments, I discovered that the house needed more work than I thought it would. I don't know how long I can keep doing this

    • @AlexClarkcompany
      @AlexClarkcompany หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We have all made mistakes, therefore keep it simple

    • @LouisMorganxb3
      @LouisMorganxb3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Invest in businesses that have predictable cash flows to diversify your holdings. In ten months after I hired a planner to assist me build my portfolio at the end of 2023, I have made money in over 500 different markets. If 2023 teaches us anything, it's that good luck never lasts. We should work harder to be ready for the worst case scenario even in good times.

    • @OscarOwenn
      @OscarOwenn หลายเดือนก่อน

      Alright, so where can someone locate a reliable financial planner? It won't be a problem for me to find the professional who helped you. I'll be retiring in two years, and I might require assistance with handling my far more valuable assets. I'm not willing to take any risk

    • @LouisMorganxb3
      @LouisMorganxb3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      *June Renae Matthysse*

    • @LouisMorganxb3
      @LouisMorganxb3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are likely to find more information if you look her up online

  • @Mrs.Butterworth
    @Mrs.Butterworth หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    The husband needs to get a second job. Daycare is too expensive, so it's smart that the wife handles that. She could also take in some kids for afterschool care.

    • @pamforrester844
      @pamforrester844 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      She needs to work a different shift or weekend work, in this day you probably don't need the liability of in home care, sadly, neighbors, friend or even family can sue you into eternity and your homeowners will not pay if you are taking a penny. They will say you were running a business and sadly, I found out the hard way money turns some people into greed monsters

    • @ninjagirl226
      @ninjagirl226 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@pamforrester844If she has any crafting ability she could try an Etsy store? Or something like that. A good friend of mine has gotten her store in a nice place.

    • @Jane-rh7tc
      @Jane-rh7tc หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@pamforrester844 taking care of your own kids is not a 9-5 desk job, it doesn't end at 5pm, unless the husband step up and willing to babysit the 2 toddlers at night and wkend, sadly the mother has to take care of them 24/7. base on the responses for this video, the men don't ever think taking care of kids is their responsibility, so the husband may not want to help out at all. tell me how can the mom take care of 2 toddlers And work at same time?

    • @mattcrad8605
      @mattcrad8605 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@Jane-rh7tc..."tell me how can the mom work and take care of two toddlers at the same time". I remember my buddies mom cleaning offices at night - she would take us with her. She also sold tamales and other baked goods to contribute on top of babysetting me. When with my mom, me and my sister played in a designated room in the back of the office. Income is not even the issue in this call, spending is. The only circumstance a child is a legitimate excuse to not work is while they are a newborn.

    • @gunnerarshavin2009
      @gunnerarshavin2009 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@mattcrad8605 Agreed. Where there's a will, there's a way to make safe additional income for your family. It may not be big money, but even a little extra income goes a long way.

  • @mikespain8655
    @mikespain8655 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    17 credit cards, wife not working, no sense of urgency, no plan. Then wants to declare bankruptcy and make it all disappear. Geez

    • @ryder4508
      @ryder4508 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just like Trump. 😂

  • @alainsoltura
    @alainsoltura หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Rachel's face as he counts the credit cards! 😂😂😂😂

  • @bigdrefromthebay6475
    @bigdrefromthebay6475 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    How do people even get approved for this much lmao

    • @rabidgoon
      @rabidgoon หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I’m self-employed and make only about 50-60k per year and I have about $100,000 worth of credit in credit cards that I barely use. I currently have a very good credit score but a few years ago my credit was somewhat mediocre and I applied for an REI store credit card and they approved me for $25,000, which is an absurdly high amount for an outdoor recreation retailer.

    • @ryand7713
      @ryand7713 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have over $150k in available credit (I don't know the exact amount) - They give it away like candy if you don't need it. Could I get it higher? Sure, but there's no point - That's not our goal anymore. It's all sign up bonuses (SUB) game now. When you "need" it and your utilization is worse, obviously CC companies are more stringent (And have a right to be).

    • @BusArch42
      @BusArch42 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s insane. We have three. One is the kids (it’s actually just for college costs). Total credit limit is 50k. Our income is 480k. And we have zero other debt. House was paid off 15 years ago

  • @jeffreywhitaker5154
    @jeffreywhitaker5154 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Me being an RN my analogy is this. Being 500lbs-getting a gastric bypass surgery-losing 300lbs-then eating the same foods and amounts of it-then gaining all that weight back. You got to make the lifestyle change. 👍🏽💪🏽🙏🏽

    • @FortuneSeek3rz
      @FortuneSeek3rz หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@jeffreywhitaker5154 Yep, when the dinner bell rings you gotta say no sometimes.

    • @jeffreywhitaker5154
      @jeffreywhitaker5154 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@FortuneSeek3rz EXAAACTLY.

    • @Desertbiker617
      @Desertbiker617 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As an RN, I took care of 500Lb patients. Not so fun.

    • @jeffreywhitaker5154
      @jeffreywhitaker5154 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Desertbiker617 Yeah? Me too, but when they were in full blown septic shock from eating a buffet 2 days after GB surgery SMMFH. Now THAT'S no fun.

    • @Desertbiker617
      @Desertbiker617 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @jeffreywhitaker5154 NPO next 30 days!🤣
      I once had a 520-pounder who had an allergy to "water," so she couldn't drink water! Only sodas with every meal. Of course, she couldn't wipe her behind.

  • @SLangel18
    @SLangel18 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    If you think about it the opposite way, you wish you could have $85k in money if you just didn’t buy all that 💩. I mean that’s really hard to do but how easy it is to accumulate debt vs wealth.

    • @raymond_sycamore
      @raymond_sycamore หลายเดือนก่อน

      yeah because THAT's how it magically works.

  • @danielleamory5428
    @danielleamory5428 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Sorry to say, he needs to Man Up.
    You worked as an electrician, but you wanted to be a 'business owner' and started building decks?
    Dave would say that was a "dumb butt" idea.

  • @firegirljen
    @firegirljen หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    7:57 your wife notices the oven😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @PInk77W1
    @PInk77W1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was bad with credit cards. My hi was
    $27k balance. I was making roughy $45k. I finally had enuf and paid it off. It was very difficult. It was so worth it.
    Now I have my home paid for and no debt at all. $50k in savings. I’ve done a complete 180 since first hearing Dave back in 2017. Thx

  • @mohshad
    @mohshad หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cameron , I think this is some solid advice. Contact the debt that are in collections, try and do a settlement. Some may allow you to do a settlement with multiple payments. Good Luck!

  • @brentlorrilliere6057
    @brentlorrilliere6057 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This guy ain't stopping at 85K....what's the difference if he files bankruptcy at 85K or 200K....literally nothing.

  • @maxinef6654
    @maxinef6654 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Rachel’s face said it all 9:24 😂😂. He’s not going to cut up the cards.

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Look at the banks HQ and look at your house. Who has the nicer building? - Dave Ramsey

    • @siva47931
      @siva47931 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I know a lot of failing business or business that declared bankruptcy that had nicer buildings than my house

    • @Rashaadthegr8
      @Rashaadthegr8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@siva47931 they weren't credit card company smh.

    • @MyAirMyles
      @MyAirMyles หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I wouldn't want to live in a glass office building so to live in, my house is nicer.

    • @Rashaadthegr8
      @Rashaadthegr8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MyAirMyles boy you don't get the point. sad. sad. sad.

  • @_Palmi
    @_Palmi 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i am addicted to this show

  • @gtileo
    @gtileo หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    some terrible life choices. close the company and go work for someone else, and tell your wife to go back to work

    • @FortuneSeek3rz
      @FortuneSeek3rz หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Daycare costs will wipe them out. She has to stay at home.

    • @IMBIue
      @IMBIue หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah no, that would be stupid to make her go to work and ask family to raise their children.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      FortuneSeek3rz there’s income based daycares that won’t cost nearly as much

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FortuneSeek3rz You have no idea, maybe she could make great money!

    • @gtileo
      @gtileo หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FortuneSeek3rz please, my sister owns a good daycare, the parents in town love them, $1100 a month per kid, daycare costs aren't that high. If the wife is making 25k a year they're coming out on top, and in many places that's part time wages.
      Go to work, shut your mouth, build a quality life and make some sacrifices for the benefit of your family and yourself, even for the short term.

  • @dnah02
    @dnah02 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    He will need to be working a lot and she needs a part time call center job possibly remote. Then at night when he comes home from work she can work a 2nd part time. They can do it in 4 years or less at 20k payments.

  • @Frederickotto55
    @Frederickotto55 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to make your money work for you... prevent inflation

    • @Frederickotto55
      @Frederickotto55 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A lot of people still make massive profit from the crypto market, all you really need is a relevant information and some ‹professional advice. ‹it's totally inappropriate for investors to hang on while suffering from dip during significant

    • @Robertkruk-n1e
      @Robertkruk-n1e หลายเดือนก่อน

      You trade also?, I

    • @Frederickotto55
      @Frederickotto55 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same, I operate a wide- range of Investments with help from My Financial Adviser. My advice is to get a professional who will help you, plan and enhance your management skills. For the record, working with Elizabeth Rossiello, has been an amazing experience.

    • @Robertkruk-n1e
      @Robertkruk-n1e หลายเดือนก่อน

      This sounds so good and I would like to be a party to this, I there any way I can speak with her?

    • @Frederickotto55
      @Frederickotto55 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sure what's Apk her directly, but TH-cam's got a thing with posting number

  • @tduck828
    @tduck828 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    His wife needs a job...

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Ramsey's dance around that subject. Her hustle is her husband.

    • @doutheo8399
      @doutheo8399 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@djpuplexthey never realistically consider childcare costs and taxes. Even a 100k pretax job can hardly break even the childcare costs of two young children. You need to hire 10 hours of nanny to go for an 8 hour job. Also, Nannies would not multitask to do housework so when you are back home, you have increased workload.

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@doutheo8399 There's two people and seven days in the week on/off parenting she could work weekends while he works Monday thru Friday. On the weekends he can be Mr. Mommy many people do this.

    • @SRTBOAT
      @SRTBOAT หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@doutheo8399Well, Google says the monthly average for childcare in Atlanta is $2500.
      Most places have package deals for multiple kids, so it'd realistically be $4000-$4500 for both kids until one hits kindergarten age.
      For her to out-earn that, she'd need $4500 take home pay, which is $80k/yr assuming a 32% overall deduction.
      I'm just spitballing numbers, but 5-7% 401k + 24-27% taxes is probably what the average joe has at an $80k income.
      Obviously you can manipulate that to no 401k, but just tossing out numbers. I think you gotta make $80k to make that balance out. Otherwise just stay at home or find a below average daycare.

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@djpuplexit is clear you don't have children. What is your brilliant plan to have kids and the parent work? Their kids are 2 and 4 years old.

  • @Fishouta
    @Fishouta หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I swear to God, 90% of calls that come in have a stay at home spouse.

  • @johnny2100
    @johnny2100 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    *i went out on a date with this one chick recently, she told me she had multiple businesses and was ceo of all them. she had a mobile home cleaning service, baked cookies and deserts, and did mobile eyelash appointments. i then found out she had 2 kids from 2 different baby daddies. when the check came she was quiet. people needa stop throwing around they business owners and ceos n shit its so diluted lmao*

    • @arthrodea
      @arthrodea หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well - at least she was working to support her two kids and hopefully was not leaching off the government.

    • @SalisburySnake
      @SalisburySnake หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      LMAO. Should have asked her what "CEO" stands for. Bet she doesn't even know.

    • @tramnguyen0000
      @tramnguyen0000 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I saw that as an admirable and hustling lady but eh that's not CEO

    • @FortuneSeek3rz
      @FortuneSeek3rz หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen. Preach

    • @johnny2100
      @johnny2100 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@tramnguyen0000 nah fam she was broke, 29 yr old living with mom lol. i had to pick her up n drop her off i was like swerve. i just thought it was crazy her bio was gassed up saying ceo and business owner. smhhh

  • @SabineLayla
    @SabineLayla หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm favoured only God knows how much I praise Him, $230k every 4weeks! I now have a big mansion and can now afford anything and also support God’s work and the church.

    • @SabineLayla
      @SabineLayla หลายเดือนก่อน

      Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!

    • @AdrizzBeer
      @AdrizzBeer หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?

    • @YehMichell
      @YehMichell หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

  • @FadedHolySoldier
    @FadedHolySoldier หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rachel has the best faces for the video screenshots!

  • @mwhe3111
    @mwhe3111 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Dude could make some BANK as an electrician.

  • @melinda67
    @melinda67 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Why is wife not working??

    • @Inty-wo8bg
      @Inty-wo8bg หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Maybe taking care of the household taking care of the kids noting young kids ,it’s more than multiple jobs within itself. It’s a man’s job to take care of the family he is responsible for their financial needs. He needed to be smart that was his job!

    • @rabidgoon
      @rabidgoon หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because she married a simp

    • @penelope5500
      @penelope5500 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Mommy doesn't have the luxury of the SAHM gig.

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Because she said so and will cry if it's brought up.

    • @rabidgoon
      @rabidgoon หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      She worked hard to find a doormat to marry and she’s not going to give up what’s hers. He can get a part time job at arby’s.

  • @tredegar4163
    @tredegar4163 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    A lot of “she needs to work, get night work, work from home” etc but I’ll put in my two cents. Working isn’t just child care, which is significant unless she has an engineering degree in her back pocket, it’s also a lot of phantom costs like transportation, attire, quick food as their both working, taxes on the income etc. It’s always income minus expenses, and a good housewife can significantly bring down the expense side.
    Better for him to focus solely on income and she do everything else. A lot less friction as well on trying to mesh mandatory work schedules too.

    • @Sable1837
      @Sable1837 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She sat back while they racked up everything on credit cards now she’s good with filing for bankruptcy. She’s part of the problem and they both need to feel the pain or they’ll be back here again in no time. She can do something from home. She needs to do something.

    • @analyticalchick3064
      @analyticalchick3064 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There's ways around this. My husband and I share a car. We picked out an apartment near his work and he usually walks to and from work. I sub in daycares. A lot of them do first kid free. One of them, one of the teachers and her husband share a car. He drops her and the kids off and picks them up at the end of the day. When they needed her to come in early, the director picked her up for a few days. I've had bosses offer to drive me occasionally, but we don't really need that. When the car broke down for a couple days, I rode my bike to and from work. Maybe wife can work part time in timeslots he doesn't need to work or do drop off babysitting at the house.

    • @tredegar4163
      @tredegar4163 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Sable1837 So I would say we don’t know if she just “sat back” or is good with bankruptcy, maybe she is but we don’t have her side of the story. She does need to work, but like a regular wage slave you have rockstars and slugs in homemaking; we don’t have the information to know where she falls.
      Also it’s interesting you associate employment with punishment, I would prefer not having to go to a job but I wouldn’t go that far

    • @tredegar4163
      @tredegar4163 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@analyticalchick3064 The major thing to be considered is income per hour. For example if he can make $40 an hour and she can only make $20 it makes more sense to maximize his working hours. If schedules mesh perfectly then of course it works great, but real life is usually there are complicated moving parts, friction and opportunity costs.
      For example he gets offered overtime but she has a mandatory shift she has to work so he has to skip the far higher per hour rate. Also if they are both juggling working a childcare it’s hard to sit down, see the household as a functioning unit and cut down on waste. $100 in saved expenses is worth more than $100 in income

  • @box1007
    @box1007 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jade and Rachel the dream team! ♥️♥️♥️ could both answer how the would cope with going out for a date with a man who has not got a credit card?

  • @baileywalkermusic
    @baileywalkermusic หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Dave would have answered this call in a much more straight forward fashion.

  • @earthlylynx
    @earthlylynx หลายเดือนก่อน

    i gotta be honest... being close to the finish line with not having to deal with crazy credit debt is so relieving and calming to know that I do have to worry about incurring interest every month unnecessarily.

  • @robloxvids2233
    @robloxvids2233 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These calls used to start with "so I bought a new truck" now they are all "so I started a business..." and "so I bought a property..."

  • @DJRiyzen
    @DJRiyzen หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My bank keeps wanting me to get a redit card, with a $15k credit limit.. I always tell them no!

  • @j_5244
    @j_5244 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The wicked borroweth, and payeth not again: but the righteous sheweth mercy, and giveth. -Psalm 37:21

  • @dnah02
    @dnah02 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why did you ever get 19 cards why?

  • @davesrvchannel4717
    @davesrvchannel4717 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I look at bankruptcy similar to welfare. You make decisions in your life, you pay it, not someone else. Man up!!

    • @andrewsnyder9262
      @andrewsnyder9262 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you say that to the corporations that go insolvent?

    • @Absolutely144
      @Absolutely144 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes

  • @carolr7823
    @carolr7823 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don't understand how it is possible to have $85,000 in credit card debt. How can you get that high a credit card limit? How can you get that many credit cards?

  • @mkwyche
    @mkwyche หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I don't think people realize stay at home spouse is a luxury and shouldn't be an expectation unless you have the requisite salary.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      that’s the thing! Ppl still think these 80-100k salaries be enough to provide for a family and it’s not

    • @GigaChad_169
      @GigaChad_169 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@reese85 NOPE...$100k doesn't go as far as it used to. Once you pay all of your fixed expenses like housing, transportation, food, various insurances and incidentals... you still have to fund your retirement and hopefully put money away so your children can get an education (college/trade school) without massive student loans. All of those take a considerable amount income to pay/save for. Most people don't think about the savings obligations.

    • @reviewsbygen5591
      @reviewsbygen5591 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@reese85I literally just did my budget and our total bills never exceed $3500/month. My husband brings in $130k/yr and I don’t work because we want a parent to raise our 4 young kids instead of tossing them into a daycare. We save a ton annually and if people can’t make it on $100k, they have a lifestyle issue that is fueled by debt. Kids don’t need Jordan’s, Stanley cups and parents don’t need luxury SUVs, vacations every other month, designer clothes, etc.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @reviewsbygen5591 so including rent/mortgage, and all your other bills the total is only $3500 a month and how much do you guys save a month? But a lot of you guys get getting by or we make it work confused with being comfortable. Sure a lot of ppl can struggle/ get by on less but they gotta give so much to make it work cuz they need more money

    • @reese85
      @reese85 หลายเดือนก่อน

      reviewsbygen5591 so including rent/mortgage, and all your other bills the total is only $3500 a month and how much do you guys save a month? But a lot of you guys get getting by or we make it work confused with being comfortable. Sure a lot of ppl can struggle/ get by on less but they gotta give so much to make it work cuz they need more money

  • @malamii8348
    @malamii8348 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I would not judge a wife! Maybe she is sick or something. I also have a debt, but also have a bipolar disorder and I was not consistent with the medication and they say that it has caused me cognitive impairment, I started to have problems with planing and switching off etc. Also for some time I was terribly fatigue and soo tired of it, not even depressed, I just had a complete exhaustion, pains everywhere, needed to sleep 18 hours per day. It was a typical depressive episode, but it caused me inability to work. I called sick, later had long sick leave but this leave is coming to the end. The work medicine doctor said that I am better, so I can work, but I do not feel mentally fully ready to go back to corporate job. My partner says, do not worry, if you can not work for some time, I will support you. I am not doing it, because I am lazy, I am authentically unable to work. I will just work maybe little bit, to have most minimum for the debts, but I will not be able to pay more.

  • @patty109109
    @patty109109 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Jade and Rachel are out to lunch.
    $85k cc debt is growing $1k/month+. He brings home $4k and has to raise a family.
    He is a perfect candidate for bankruptcy.

    • @zone4garlicfarm
      @zone4garlicfarm หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He needs to forget about building decks and find a new job as an electrician. A journeyman or master electrician should be earning more than $33/hour. He also needs to work as much overtime as he can and cut his lifestyle for a few years. He doesn't need to file bankruptcy.

    • @cutehumor
      @cutehumor หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bankruptcy is legalized stealing

    • @GigaChad_169
      @GigaChad_169 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They aren't out of touch. The strategy is that they make sure they can pay for their four walls: shelter, food, transportation, and utilities. That's it...they can do that with $4k...Ideally he works for someone else and picks up extra hours to make more than $4k a month since he isn't good at running his own business. Take the L and move on, entrepreneurship isn't for him. Pick yourself up and move on.
      The credit cards get paid if there is anything left at the end of the month. As Jade and Rachel stated in the video, he will need to end up negotiating a settlement with his creditors for pennies on the dollar. That doesn't require bankruptcy. It requires a phone call to the lenders saying "I can't pay, I don't have it, now its your problem. You need to work with me to settle these debts".
      Dave regularly states that most credit card companies will settle for 10 to 20 cents on the dollar once you twist their arm enough... That's like $10,000...a far cry from $85,000 and not enough to turn your life upside down going the bankruptcy route...

    • @zone4garlicfarm
      @zone4garlicfarm หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cutehumor Some bankruptcies are loan restructuring to make smaller payments over a longer time. Those are not theft.

    • @cutehumor
      @cutehumor หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zone4garlicfarm I’m talking chapter 7 discharging bankruptcy is legalized stealing

  • @kedarkulkarni9464
    @kedarkulkarni9464 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Some people really don't know how to run a business and they just jump in head first without any idea on how to make things work when the business is facing a down time. Last year he had a good year and he didn't save anything for a rainy day.

  • @dawnt5587
    @dawnt5587 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He needs to be working full-time and a side hustle. His wife can run a daycare out of their house.

  • @Justin-vb4ek
    @Justin-vb4ek หลายเดือนก่อน

    Seemed like a guy who watched a video about maxing out everything and do a bankruptcy is the smart, easy way to live.

  • @elizabethallen4353
    @elizabethallen4353 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He just wandered into this, I guess? Wow.

  • @fusionreaper
    @fusionreaper หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He makes her get a job, then she divorces him

  • @ronaldharris53
    @ronaldharris53 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Praying for us dealing with debt, we will succeed in Jesus name Amen

  • @godsdozer
    @godsdozer หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    file bankruptcy and get another hand full of credit cards dude. This stuff is fun.

  • @fhuber7507
    @fhuber7507 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He stopped paying at $85k, 7 months ago... And now owes $110,000 due to interest and penalties.
    His business is a fail.
    He's deluded.

  • @rebeccahaskins799
    @rebeccahaskins799 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Stay at home with children is better than paying for a babysitter

    • @carolr7823
      @carolr7823 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Only if you don't make much money.

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They can coordinate shifts so 1 of them is always home. Or, if she is skilled and the money is good, then it still may be worthwhile.

    • @BusArch42
      @BusArch42 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I make 190k. Pretty hard to not come out ahead on that

  • @Tap354
    @Tap354 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Jade writing it all down like it is a damn quiz lol bruh...you just going to say the same thing you always say, live on less than you make, sell the cars, work 3 jobs, attack that debt XD

    • @JasRog1026
      @JasRog1026 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      She has to follow the rules just like any other employee.

    • @danieljohnson4418
      @danieljohnson4418 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Seriously. Wash, rinse, and repeat. This show is for the sheep who enjoy having their "safe space" reinforced by talking heads (except Dave Ramsey himself, as he has legitimate business and life experience).

    • @raymond_sycamore
      @raymond_sycamore หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      she has to look busy.... they're good at that

    • @thelastboomer9088
      @thelastboomer9088 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yea but she looks darn fine doing it

    • @gunnerarshavin2009
      @gunnerarshavin2009 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please stop watching if you don't get any value from it. Nobody forced an adult like you.

  • @barbararepko4824
    @barbararepko4824 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Holy crap, I thought we were bad with $38000 in credit card debt in middle age! That’s scary.

  • @BHarris25
    @BHarris25 หลายเดือนก่อน

    17 Credit cards is crazy, I have 3 and they are all set to auto pay the full balance every month.

  • @alinatamashevich3354
    @alinatamashevich3354 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    OMG, the need for his skill is in demand in ATL, he need to get on the street, now! The work is out there, he needs to get his hustle on.

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The guy I hired a few years back to replace a deck, put me on HIS schedule as he was booked out 6 months! Something else going on here.....

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Become debt free before dating and only date debt free people or you end up like these callers call literally everyday. I am the only one who sees this pattern. They up load a video almost everyday of almost the same exact couple the only thing changes is the name and the state. GROW UP PEOPLE!

  • @FortuneSeek3rz
    @FortuneSeek3rz หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Probably put an Audi Q7 on the credit card.

  • @CammyKessler-m3c
    @CammyKessler-m3c หลายเดือนก่อน +297

    *Amazing video, you work for 40yrs to have $1M in your retirement, meanwhile some people are putting just $10K into trading from just few months ago and now they are multimillionaires*

    • @BarryHolzbach-r4d
      @BarryHolzbach-r4d หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most people are retiring this year and has nothing to show for. But I assure you it’s never late to get your financial life together again.. All thanks to Maria Frances for I and my family

    • @NicolasFar-u7b
      @NicolasFar-u7b หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly, I'm surprised that this mrs Maria Frances is mentioned here, came across a testimony about her from one of the beneficiaries on the CNBC news, she seems to be doing extremely well....

    • @JohnUecker-k6p
      @JohnUecker-k6p หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you are not conversant with what you see here you can look upto her on the internet using her full name ❤️

    • @TonyYayo-vz9ri
      @TonyYayo-vz9ri หลายเดือนก่อน

      I made 2 million last month

    • @stevethecheese
      @stevethecheese หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Stop scamming people have some morals

  • @ryanskinner8789
    @ryanskinner8789 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He's already given up, he doesn't care, next.

  • @Cristobal8605
    @Cristobal8605 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The denial in his voice is unreal 😅😂

  • @saelaird
    @saelaird หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Company has failed. Go get a job and reset.

  • @HelloWorld-hb7yt
    @HelloWorld-hb7yt หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why ppl blaming on the wife? My wife is stay at home mom. And she is very very busy

    • @madness03
      @madness03 หลายเดือนก่อน

      but you probably don’t owe 85k in CC

  • @HairyTornado
    @HairyTornado 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The good news is that he has insanely marketable skills (carpentry and electrician) but he has no business sense.

  • @jonquis07
    @jonquis07 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They should do debt consolidation. They gotta be able to find something lower than 85k divided into 17 payments and 20%+ interest.

  • @Sepharite
    @Sepharite หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Being cash only doesn't fix anything. Dude, cut your spending. Wife has to go back to work.

  • @andrewsnyder9262
    @andrewsnyder9262 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You can always default and negotiate later on. Not all creditors will sue you.

  • @danielhurst8863
    @danielhurst8863 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    While I like the sentiment of looking at things that can make you money as a side gig, people need to be very careful on what they recommend. You can mow your neighbors lawn for money, but your stove is not going to legally make you money. You may get away with it, but food sales, even small amounts, have very specific rules for food safety, and making food in a non-commercial kitchen can land you in legal hot water. BTW, I think this rule is stupid, I don't support this rule, but I don't want people getting into legal trouble either. You don't need to be clawing your way up out of a debt hole to be knocked back down by Government fines and liens.

  • @kphka
    @kphka หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    If the wife gets a job, she will only be working to pay daycare 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @analyticalchick3064
      @analyticalchick3064 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's a lie. The cost of daycare is like $3 an hour per kid of working full time hours. Work at a daycare and the first kid is free. They can stagger where he works early like 6 or 7am start and then she takes them in to daycare and goes to work and then he picks them up. I work in daycares. Most of the time the opposite parents do drop off and pick up like that. Usually dad drops off between 6 and 8am in construction clothes and wife picks up between 2 and 6.

    • @AKAAAK
      @AKAAAK หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@analyticalchick3064that must only be where you live. Here in SoCal, you're spending $1000/mo/child with NO "first kid is free" bonus.

    • @lionheart93
      @lionheart93 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@analyticalchick3064 where lol? u must live in the midwest or something

    • @mattcarpenter6986
      @mattcarpenter6986 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Evening and weekend work exists.

    • @Fishouta
      @Fishouta หลายเดือนก่อน

      Work during hours that husband is home. Zero daycare cost.

  • @Moudaddy12
    @Moudaddy12 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We need Dave. Both ladies too soft on him. We need Dave to wake him up

  • @BenState
    @BenState หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When you try to buy yourself a job and you fail.

  • @teresasachs3979
    @teresasachs3979 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You obviously can not work for yourself

  • @matthewengman5180
    @matthewengman5180 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wife needs to stop playing house and get to work.

  • @markeayers
    @markeayers หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These guys have been sitting in a burning house talking about what's for dinner. Meanwhile, the house is about gone now. Hard choices should have been made a few years ago.

  • @bianconerointheus6692
    @bianconerointheus6692 หลายเดือนก่อน

    17 credit cards and no shame. And people like this walk away with a better car and house than me.

  • @malniehamex5273
    @malniehamex5273 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know someone with over 30 credit cards, has filed bankruptcy once already and likely will have to again. People don’t listen and see bankruptcy as a get out jail card yet never solve the real issue of their finances.

  • @al-mz1wy
    @al-mz1wy หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Cash only!!! Yeah he was wishing dady biden disappeared his debt😂

  • @coderider3022
    @coderider3022 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Too soft, Dave would have given him a proper jolt to his system. Quit wasting time with the brother in law and get a better new job and wife too. 100k 2 years back is irrelevant and keeping him living in hope of it repeating. Should have heard house prices and mortgage costs etc.

  • @AnjaWhitaker-bf2tw
    @AnjaWhitaker-bf2tw หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He is guessing his business and personal numbers. And then we wonder why the business is not successful.

  • @ludens1526
    @ludens1526 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Men be trying to be a “provider” lol but going broke 😂😂😂

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      MGTOW for the win

    • @rabidgoon
      @rabidgoon หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      When i hear the phrase “stay at home mom” on this show, it always reaffirms my choice to stay single. Marriage is a curse.

    • @raymond_sycamore
      @raymond_sycamore หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rabidgoon marriage to these women NOW is a curse. Yes

    • @MrTmenzo
      @MrTmenzo หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@rabidgoon and worse is when the wife has college debt but becomes a stay at home wife once she suckers a guy in 😂

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rabidgoon MGTOW for the WIN!

  • @ThrowBackZone
    @ThrowBackZone หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cutting up credit cards? 😱 More like giving them a ‘scissors-ectomy!’ Let’s hope that creativity kicks in soon! 😂✂

  • @JUthebarber-ci5dc
    @JUthebarber-ci5dc หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Awesome to see two women on the platform. Way to go Dave!

  • @walters2405
    @walters2405 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    17 credit cards is INSANE!!!

    • @janeoleary8454
      @janeoleary8454 หลายเดือนก่อน

      17. He counted them on the air

    • @walters2405
      @walters2405 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@janeoleary8454 thats what I said....17. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @joeplem5329
    @joeplem5329 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Some people are okay wasting their lives working cause of CC debt. You know I don't have any of that? Cause I hate my fuckin job 😒

    • @bettysmith4527
      @bettysmith4527 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ditto that, I stay out of debt so I can work the bare minimum of 32 hours to keep my insurance and pay the bills!

  • @moneywithjustliving5258
    @moneywithjustliving5258 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They both need to go out and get jobs. Call those credit cards and get on a payment plan. Sheesh, this is crazy.

  • @anndeecosita3586
    @anndeecosita3586 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m surprised they didn’t bring up selling the house. The family could pay off the debt and rent while they start over until they can buy another house. . Or if they have multiple cars, sell one and pay off the lower balance cc.

  • @GigaChad_169
    @GigaChad_169 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The days of being a stay at home mother for most people are OVER. Relic of the olden days. Unless you have a wealthy husband you're going to have to figure out how to work AND raise your children. The economics of today make having a single income household out of reach for the majority of people. Its a luxury now.