Black Man Talks To The Boy Who Robbed His Son | Offers Words Of Wisdom, Advise And Forgiveness
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ก.ย. 2022
- Why is the media not talking about this? This is the best video I’ve seen in recent times hands down, the way Winston handled this situation speaks to many of us in the Black community and is a lesson that many from other communities can also take note of and take on board.
In my opinion, he handled this situation well and gave a lot of grace and wisdom to the situation. The world can learn from how he handled this situation and the leaders of this country could learn from it also. I’ve personally learnt and Winston handled this situation how a number of Black parents would want to handle it as we also know about the healing that needs to take place because of the years of trauma, social conditioning and systemic racism that has put a few people in a situation where they act out in this way. Again, the majority of Black people living in the UK are not thugs or criminals but that somehow seems to be one of our mainstream prevailing narratives. This is not a shock to me, what Winston did, it’s within many of us, but seeing it in this way is defiantly encouraging and I hope his words and action goes on to inspire change and re energies change in this area as it has for me.
On the one hand, Lord knows I want to do more in many areas of our life, how we support and grow the Black community is one of major importance to me. As I’ve said many times, I have money, personally that I’m looking to put into tangible and collective efforts to co-ordinate and role out this change in a way that is sustainable both financially and by way of it’s impact. Personally, I’d like to sit down with everyone in this video and see how I can be of support to everyone in it. Winston runs his own business for underfloor heating, who in my network is in need of his service? Check him out, go through the appropriate vetting process to make your decision and use his service where needed. I personally always feel better putting my money down with a company who I know there people are good people. Let’s get more people aware of Winston and his business ( avenueheating?i...) He’s also the chairman of Southside Young Leaders Academy, I’ve not had the time to look into this properly, but I’d like the opportunity to meet with Winston and hear more about it, on first glance it looks like they’re doing amazing work, anyone who can support that within my network hit up Winston / www.syla.org.uk/. The boy who was robbed, what does he want to do with his life / what is he passionate about, how can we mobilise around him at this time and support that. The boy who took the bag and returned it, what are some of the things he is facing, living in a home can’t be easy, I know all too well from people I grew up around who also moved from one center to another / home to another. The system could be better, what are his aspirations, what are the things blocking him currently, how can we mobilise around him, support him and use this as an example to unlock potential, pathways and greatness in many other people who are being failed by the system and are equally making negative life decisions.
You know what I’ve been on since 56 Black Men. I’m still here for this conversation, but Rome was not built in a day, and was not built by 1 person, it will take all of us or as many of us that are willing to put EGO aside, find THE RIGHT leader(s), put up the MONEY needed to finance the situation and actually see the change. Failing this, I’ll continue doing what I’ve been doing behind the scenes with people individually in various communities and with people across various spheres of influence. It’s time we priorities our collective strength as oppose to individual glory, but I won’t be the first person to say something like this across the many decades people have been fighting for equity toward the Black community.
Long and short, support this video, share it with your people / networks, what Winston has done should be seen far and wide and should be on the front of news papers across the country.
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This brought tears to my eyes. I love how the father handled it. Both boys got a lesson in manhood in that moment. Very profound.
What's wrong with you he will do it again tomorrow, the usual suspects again and again.
That mans a g
@@alisonhilll4317 how do you know
If there were more people like this man in towns and cities across the UK, we'd heal so many of the problems the government quite frankly doesn't care about - regardless of political affiliation, they're all corrupt. This would be a program worth funding, but again, politicians are narcissists so this won't happen. Respect to this man.
His old man must have seen a bit in his day and has obviously understood the madness in road. The way he's dealt with this situation is commendable and inspiring. I hope the perpetrator also evolves from this situation to being a better person and chasing his dreams than living a nightmare.
Absolutely commend this father for several reasons. First , he’s schooling both children, secondly he’s showing composure as it must have been difficult not to retaliate and thirdly and most importantly he’s a great role model.
We need more of this please. The society need help.
I wish all situations can get resolved like this...hats off to the father
That was a very mature way to deal with the situation from the father. Respect to him. I hope the words of wisdom did not fall on deaf ears because who does not listen will feel
🇳🇬 proverb: "discipline with the left hand, counsel with the right" 🥊
Salute the dad for keeping his composure.
This is a real man real father
God bless you brother
Dealt with it the honourable way possible
His son will have a blessed life
Ameen
This is what we need on a every day basis!!
The fact that you had to tell him to apologise speaks volumes. He’ll do it again trust
100
I even learnt something from that. Cause if my kid got robbed I as a parent would have reacted differently than him, would have made me look like a bad parent, but he stayed calm n explained it properly.
That’s some beautiful sh#t RIGHT THERE , I love how the dad handled this, I truly hope that kid changes his ways to the RIGHT WAY and succeeds in life , everything doesn’t have to end in violence, well done to all involved 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Top man. His sons experience will hopefully help others.
need more olders like this
Done the best thing here. Big respect
Could be a pivotal moment in life… or NOT time will tell. It’s hard being broke but old habits die hard
Respect to this man
That’s a real man right there all 3 of them
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😥🙏🏾 I hope all young people get to see this……
Real og. Bless this man
This father did a good job he could have been upset and angry but he spoke to the young boy and also got him to listen this is what we should be doing to help the young kids of today.
And we’ll done for the boy for return the child’s bag he did not have to but he did well done 💯
🙌🏽🙌🏽What a moment, in a time where it is rare to hear a good news
This is incredible 🙏🏾🔥 men who need more of leaders
This is how to settle an issue take note but also be aware it doesn't always go this smoothly when confronted
Very well handled
I respect the father and youtman giving back he's stuff to the man son that he robbed from him
This is for positivity, nobody is related here and if they are, the scenario was made up.
But the message is vital and people need to take heed!
Wow...I'm wasn't subbed, but I am now...We NEED THIS! 😶 London/UK is a mess right now 💔
Good to see 👏👏👏
What a great father and a decent member in society....this reminds me of this black guy in America in his late 20s/ early 30s who stood in front of a latino looking female Judge for theft or some other type of stupid charge. The Judge recognised him as they used to be mates back in their school days, and when she reminded him of who she was he cried like a baby (made me shed a tear too)...he kept rubbing his head and saying "Oh my God" over and over, full of regret and embarrassment while his old mate from school reminisced about how helpful, friendly, popular and charming he was back in their school days.
Many lessons can be learned from that
Times have changed people, a reign has come to an end. Secrets are being revealed to all and times are rife. Love one another now as tomorrow is promised to no-one. The signs are all around and God is real, Revelation speaks. Just a reminder to all who's read this far, Peace to you and yours 🙏🏽💗
Wow respect to this man god bless u
Love this maaaan❤❤👊🏾
More of this shit is needed def won’t stop all the issues but a step in the right direction
He just took the call from evolution telling him to wipe that kid out for his actions and declined that. that's a man who deserves to be a father.
THANKS FOR SHARING FAM - THAT'S HOW WE NEED HANDLE OUR SITUATIONS UNTIL THERE'S NO SITUATIONS TO HANDLE. KUDOS TO ALL PARTIES INVOLVED ❤💯🔥 RESPECT ❤❤❤ BALANCE - NEGATIVE TO POSITIVE ❤❤
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 big man ting 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Good teaching
Class act well done buddy 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
👌🏼 spot on bro
🥲🥲 we need the older ones to help! 🫶🏾👊🏾✊🏾
Really proud of the dad and the young boy for doing the right thing
Handled like a true man
i couldnt be prouder of the younger....well done young man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i hope he's being supported, its possible he can get on his uni course without the gcse's or climb the ladder to it, with the support of one of these youth groups and a mentor, he'll go far.
beautiful.
This is real shit respect to all hope we can all see the true message
The hell he wearing crocs with a love heart on it
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 good fella
Brilliant
Well done, sometimes the youths are Mia guided and jus need guidance
I almost start crying
Volumes 🔥
Big up
Nothing but respect for this father. In that position i think i would have tried to deal with it in the same way, but that is after i inflict some pain on him and thats only because his excuse was, he was broke. Had he said, he was hungrey and needed food then i might have had a different view.
Jheezz...real shit
Love to hear how it happened that he brought the bag back. Maybe he was scared of the dad
Eye for an eye…that simple for me…
The boys dad is definitely a figure on the roads 💯. No way man are listening to him if he’s a random guy . They would laugh . He just have respect on road for them to return the bag
I rate this
That's great how this was dealt with, he could of beat him up but didn't 🙂
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That’s a top lad their
He realised he messed with the wrong guy and brought it back either way hopefully it's a lesson learned for the thief
I lot of these young ones cannot make the connection between being "penniless" and "doing nothing" ... especially in London,if you cannot find work in London you got Bigger problems than just poverty
There's no point in resolving things this way, these young kids don't give a fuck about values, respect and morals, they only show regret once they get caught. No point in trying to talk some sense into them, they won't get it.
Man got the crocks on, how can you ask why her robbing ahaha
Where was this
I like this so much better than turning to violence but why name the video Black man does it matter we all have eyes we can see he's black why not name it
Father confronts and talks to lad who robbed his son
Why must the emphasise be on the fact he's a black male
Might sound clichéd but all these young kids that go around stabbing and robbing people
All they really need is someone to tell them they are proud of them or give them a hug 🫂 tell them things are going to ok
It could stop a lot of violence
That's one old looking 12 year old
If the lad was already willing to return the bag of course the dad ain't going to go off on a mad one. Im pretty sure he wouldn't be so calm if he just randomly saw the yute on the street after his kids bag got nicked.
u do know the other path was not spoken off I mean the warning that you had if u don't return it seems like that young lad seen somert we all didnt 😎👌🏻
His dad got smoked by the kids dad that’s why he gave the bag back
@@patricktate4782 how u know
@@kenzbrathwaitw6769 the guy handing the bag over is ZT from 3x3 after his dad got smoked he joined the gang and started rolling proper
@@patricktate4782 stop chatting
@@llose2749 L Lose? You mean Loose? Or do you never win anything.
That’s grown man shit
Won't change a thing I gauerentee he will do it again ...fare play to the father though
Oc he will hes 99% a Gang member theyre very known for robbing civilians so He Probably robbed someone Again the Same day
The dad now has the kids name picture and gets it dealt with at a later date .
Respect to the dad. The theif perhaps ain't got a dad, or if he has, not one he respects as a dad. Hence, the stealing of 12 year old's things. No police. Community taking care of business. The way it should be.
God bles this dad for what he do he could get the cop involve in it but he teach him the best way he can I respect this man to the highest hope he never do it again love and respect
Rob my son ur smoked 💯😤
Dude went off and robbed someone else I bet
The Brits are so witty lmao. Do this in NYC and you getting popped. Dosent matter how big your heart is
You could not just say man you had to say a black man bit racist there ant we.... We all the same guys
why is it only in the nature of people like this to rob someone in the first place
Wow all I get is a soft talking light skin for stealing? Damn bruh it’s fair game out inda jungle then.
Shouldn't the title be 'white man talks to black boy who robbed his son'
The man isn't white
The kid probably got smoked by the dad when the camera went off
Black man? He looks more white
You must have sight problems.
@@ludy41 in what sense ? The guy looks more white than black?
Fake
Betas
Nope that's a true alpha, true alphas don't go around looking for violence they just end it....
@@lickthatbootbiaaatch whole point of Alphas are aggression and fight in them. You need to re-study alphas. betas made peace and end violence - Beta males, by contrast, are nice guys, peacemakers and team players. They make good husbands, fathers and friends. Some experts say they tend to be happier than alphas, since they aren’t driven by the need to be on top. Betas can come in many forms-from competent wingmen to extreme introverts who are so determined to avoid conflict they suffer anxiety of their own. alphas are raw and aggressive. hence teh name Alpha. You're trying to re write truth like the gender benders i guess youre a trans unicorn lover. makes sense for the user name to. Take the L and learn. Can't re write systems. Maybe in your own system. the would not be any world then. Just fairys and unicorns dancing around trans benders.
It's reflect to the animal kingdom. You think an Alpha lion going to not fight another one and call peace? Shut up. we wouldnt even have a realm. we'd have loads of betas thinking ppl are alphas when they not re writing the nature system. that just cant jhappen. even though u try it. bee hive mind. deluded.
@@GrimeUK777 were talking about humans here, look at club doormen boxers etc, those people avoid violence but will beat the shit out of you when they need too!
The father probably robbed the 1 he has
Why doesn't this say grown up black man steals from black child , it's in their genetics what's wrong with the wording here just tell the truth.
How can it be in someone’s genetics to steal? Go and wash your smelly down below Alison and stop spouting off rubbish
Well done dad 👏🏽and we’ll done young Man for return the bag.👏🏽🫡🙏🏾. Try and change the people you hang with. The only way is up for here bro.
Big up