Mother In Law Messes Up My Food & Then Watch Me Eating It With Smug Smile On Her Face... Oh My God
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- My husband and I met his family for a meal at a nice restaurant. I didn't know it but mother in law and someone else from in-laws messed up with my food behind my back and then she watched me eating it with a smug smile on her face...
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![[FULL STORY] My mother in law is obsessed with my wedding dress.](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/zxDc3ng4HAs/mqdefault.jpg)
Story 1: Tampering with food, causing someone physical pain, and possibly making them very sick is not a prank. It's horrendous. What is wrong with that family
In my neck of the woods MIL would receive an ivy and neet bath. She would definitely react to that.
The fact that husband and aunt were sharing knowing smirks shows that it seems to run in the family. Good thing hubby seems to separate from the psycho tree.
I can't do SPICY FOOD I have ACID REFLUX DISEASE so spices are not an option for me
Not to mention food tampering is illegal
It doesn't matter if they're the same height and weight a custom dress is never going to fit someone else the same way as the person it was made for.
Yes, especially a replica 1530s court gown. There a whole set of custom fitted undergarments like the corset that have to be worn as well to make it have the proper shape. But OPs sister thinks she can just slap it on and go play Anne Boleyn. 😂
Not only that but op said no. That should be the end of the discussion.
Last story. The fact he's not showing remorse for hurting op tells a lot about his character. Run
He's so furious about a stuffed animal that he made her bleed and won't apologize. Be afraid. This is just the beginning of this kind of behavior.
If I were in the hubbys place I'd be so chuffed to see my partner liked a gift I gave them so much that they unconsciously cuddled with it ... If he wanted to cuddle were the plushie was he could have gently removed it but instead he chose to be violent, wake her up, and pick a fight over literally nothing, and has her feeling so bad she genuinely doesn't know if she did something wrong
Seriously he got mad at her snuggling a little stuffed dragon? Then refusing to apologize when you hurt your wife even unintentionally? Insecure much? He would have been backing out of the room with the verbal tongue lashing I would be giving him.
What is wrong with a stuffed animal? That is bizarre! I am in my 30s and still sleep with stuffed animals! My husband said he didn't think it was weird. I love stuffed animals!
How does a 5'9 woman think she's fitting into a dress custom made for a 4'11 woman...?
Anne Boleyn didn't wear mini skirts. ' she has nothing else to wear' buy something then.
Honestly, the milkshake bath is LESS bad than your food being tampered with. I'm a baby to heat as well. A shower easily takes care of the milkshake... and yes, I'd definitely suffer with digestion issues if I had tried to eat something too hot.
Tampering with someone's food in ways that can lead to health issues is often considered equal to poisoning in most countries' laws.
@@Eppon6foodtampering is a crime by law in most country's
@@paulinadeboer3604Exactly. It is a felony, not a civil matter in my country. The cops would charge her after the call regardless of what the op or her family said.
Eating bacon puts me in the hospital because I can't digest it well, forget eating REAPER, that could burn a hole through my stomach, and that's not a joke. A lot of people don't realize it's possible.
if shit went down and it definitely can she'd be looking at far worse than assault
How hard is it NOT to mess with someone's food? Leave people's food alone!
I ran a cafeteria for a year and a half, i could care less what kind of pranks they pulled on each other as long as they cleaned the mess but food and drink were not to be tampered with
Dress: Tell everyone that The SIL can borrow the dress as long as she puts up a *5000 dollar bond* which will be forfeit if the dress isn't returned in *EXACTLY* the same condition as when it went out. And get it in writing, with pictures and video documenting every last seam and stitch in the dress.
Id get the money up front the moment she comes to borrow it. Otherwise you know she would make up some bs and cry to the family that sis is so mean and op would never get that money without a stressful trip to court
@@Potatoypotato No, that's what the bond is. You get the bux first and then *only* hand it back if the dress is in original pristine condition. And nb that I didn't use 2.5kbux as the figure, but *double* that at 5kbux instead, ie, the FU rate. No one in the family would ever agree to that, so problem averted.
OP needs to lock up the dress or take it to a friend’s house to make sure that it is safe. The SIL, mom or brother is going to attempt to take the dress. If they do, OP needs to make them pay when the dress is destroyed
@@pickle_pup8187 Yeah, I was wondering that but couldn't get arsed to find that section, whether The Opie had her own place or if she lived with The Family and her dress was right there and vulnerable.
Story 1: it was assault, that the kind of spice that has sent people to the hospital, and I’m a firm believer that prank or not you don’t mess with someone’s food. If I had to guess either, there’s something wrong with her or she didn’t want to give you the satisfaction of a reaction. An idiot who laughed then said you took it too far can suck an egg, you had an understandable reaction to a horrible prank, and it wasn’t as bad as what MIL did.
Dress story: I remember there was a time I would just ask people for their stuff without realizing how rude it was. I think I grew out of that when I was *_FIVE._*
Asking is one thing. Demanding, which Emma is doing, is something else!
*NO MEANS NO!*
OP in the dress story needs to contact the dressmaker and have them provide an itemized receipt for every stitch and square of cloth put into that dress. She also needs to put the dress somewhere very safe, or at least have a camera on it. If the SIL doesn't steal it herself, some family member is likely to, to keep the peace. Then OP can have them arrested.
Story about the dress: ANYONE has the right to say NO to anything. Period. Anyone who throws a tantrum because they don't get what they want is always the AH. Period.
emma can buy a 50-buck costume shop standard princess dress, one of those where you practically see her underwear are the best for her i would say
I am 63 years old and I still sleep with a Snuffleupagus that was gifted to me by my late wife. Sorry I misspelled Snuffleupagus.
You forgive your wife, the person who actually cheated…but the friend noooooooo. The wife spat on her vows not the friend. Just divorce.
This. OP acting like friend orchestrated the whole affair. He can either end relationship or suffer and avoid the friend. He chose not to walk away when he had the option.
OP is living in lala land. I have no sympathy for anyone who takes back their cheating partner. The wife is the problem here, not the friend. Friend didn’t force the wife to text her ex; she did it on her own.
S3: OP, your wife had an affair and cheated on you. Why didn’t you just divorce her? Cheaters cheat and she will cheat on you again.
You can never truly trust her.
He's taking out his anger on the friend and not the woman who, you know, cheated on him.
wanna bet if she goes alone and she cheats again she will say 'well that's what you get for letting me go alone, it's your own fault'
OP is in lala land
I hate when people want the original poster to " KEEP THE PEACE" 😡
Especially with something so expensive. Like, what's the limit? She wants to borrow OP's car, so OP has to give it to her? Her house?
@@akl2k7her womb?
@@CouncilEstateRach I can just imagine. "Just let her be your surrogate to keep the peace!"
Story 4: Or she can spend her own money and buy herself a dress and just take no for an answer because you don’t owe her sh*t. This is what happens when you can’t just take no for an answer, and think someone has to give you a detailed explanation for why you don’t want to give them your stuff. You have to be the bad guy and give unfiltered truth.
She cannot borrow your dress because it’s expensive and she cannot fit it, you’re not obligated to give her your stuff to keep the peas because She too much of a baby to accept the truth. And maybe it’s just me, but under no circumstance should someone wear your clothes before you.
Last story- he hurt you, drew blood, and isn’t even remotely remorseful. Leave now, or that behaviour will be repeated!
Look out for yourself, OP
I'm in my 30s and still cuddle with stuffies. Even made a sandseal plush for loz tears of the kingdom. Wanting to cuddle is ingrained in our deepest psyche, we're social, affectionate creatures by nature, and sometimes people aren't up for cuddling on our schedule, stuffies are a great work around. No one should be shamed for wanting something to cuddle.
And the husband is definitely TA for not apologizing for the earring thing. She was literally bleeding, if it was in that amount of force, clearly he was in the wrong, wrong either way, but there's no reason he should have used that amount of force to grab the stuffy
Story 4: NTA, with your size difference there is no way she could fit in that dress, in any way shape or form. On top of that, it is your dress and your SIL has no right to it.
Bonus points to your AH of a brother, for taking her crazy entitled side.
Dress Story: Even if Emma was her identical twin sister, a simple "I don't want to lend it" is enough reason not to. Tell brother and parents to hand over $3k - $4k for the cost of the dress plus insurance to lend it to their precious cry baby. Seriously, SIL sounds like a spoiled rotten teenager trying to steal her sisters clothes
I really wish ppl in these stories would stop saying " if u do something like that again I'll press charges" why give them a chance to do it again? Press charges this time.
Ren Fair Dress: NTA, and oh boy I was kinda on the edge of my seat for a second there. I was sooo hoping the dress wasn't destroyed somehow, thank god it wasn't! I miss going to ren fairs, they're so much fun. Always something to do and it's always a little different every year. And agreed her story about the historical themed party that next weekend is complete bullshit. No way that's the truth. No way would that dress fit, either, she's both too tall and too big.
2k dress story: This is the number one reason I LOCK MY BEDROOM DOOR when I have company over. People tend to snoop and money or other items seem to grow legs and walk away. This SIL seems very entitled by calling Op selfish "I need it more than you do". Who the heck says so. Let her go cry a river and let the brother paddle in it with her. Even Stevey Wonder can tell their's a big difference between 110lbs and 200lbs. Her big butt,would ruin the dress and Op would have nothing to wear to her party. Jeez Louise.
Last story. My 40-something unmarried daughter has over 200 stuffed animals, all of which have names which she remembers. She sleeps with Hugo, an enormous stuffed bear, but she'll occasionally replace Hugo with some other animal for a night or two. I don't see anything weird about this.
Last story : are you freaking kidding me ? You’re REALLY kidding me, right? My husband has bought me 3 different sized axolotl long stuffies. One is the same length as our bed. Best believe he would regret disturbing my sleep like that, let alone ripping something from my arms and INJURING ME. I’m furious on behalf of that woman
Story 1: Glad to see the husband taking his wife's side for a change.
So to get this straight - causing someone physical pain is a-ok but dousing someone with a milkshake is over the line?
That's according to the "be the bigger person/DOORMAT" camp!
S3: OP should let the friend's fiance know what kind of woman he is actually marrying. Someone that blatant about encouraging infidelity wouldn't have any qualms about being unfaithful herself.
That's why I question any family who is supportive of a couple when it starts as an affair. Especially when there's minor children. No separated getting divorced doesn't mean you can date assholes.
There's a bigger problem. As one of the commenters said, he's taking out his anger at his wife on the friend. The friend encouraged the wife to cheat, but the wife was the one who cheated (and will probably do it again).
Someone who is 5'9 can't fit into the dress of someone 4'11. The hem will come up to her knees
IF she does not rip it's seams out TRYING to get into it. Buy I like the other comment. SIL knew she had a party and HAD NOTHING TO WEAR? 🤔HMMMMMM Not buying what she's trying to sell.🤣🤣
The point is to DESTROY the dress because the brat doesn't want OP to have it.
Not just that it's a replica 1530s dress. Those are worn with custom fitted corsets and stomach panels. OPs sister will look like a sausage bursting out of it's casing.😂
Doesn't matter, OP has not even the chance to wear it herself, even if they are the same size. The nerve.
A dress from the early 1530s. That's very specific! "It was the hottest dress of March 1533. All of the cool kids had one."
That felt very specific to me too, but I also know that people who are knowledgeable about historical fashion absolutely narrow things like that down to the decade. Which makes complete sense if you think about it, I can't imagine that the clothes that are popular now in the 2020s will still be worn the same way in the early 2100s.
@@NightingaleAnim Usually the fabrics and some materials like beading or boning are different but the shaping and stuff are pretty close to the original.
Story 1: NTA, if it were me I’d probably be in jail and my partner arranging a funeral.
Story 1: NTA, but the milkshake was the best thing for you to drink, to ease the pain from the spice, it was cold, it had milk, and it had sugar (all things known to help lessen spice reactions),
If a family member of mine did this to my SO, it would be the last time I was in the same place as them, for a good long while (to ever), This was just one step less bad as "testing" someones allergy, on the assault scale.
Food tampering is a felony.
Couldn’t the behaviour in story one lead to someone’s death?!? I have no words
Dress: Why don’t people (ADULTS) just say HELL NO!
Who asks to borrow other adults (that aren’t their friends), expensive clothes?
People are out there entertaining way too much BS from other people. 🤦🏽♀️
anne can buy a 50-buck costume shop standard princess dress, one of those where you practically see her underwear are the best for her i would say
I was sleeping with a stuffed animal earlier in the year.
I had had heart surgery and it kept me from rolling the wrong way in my sleep. 😂
Eventually, I traded it for a pillow, but am now back to sleeping with a real animal. 😊
I'm a guy, but I cannot fathom the nerve it takes to ask to borrow a $2500 dress from someone who even has not the chance to wear it themselves. Even if the dress fit perfectly, it would still be a no-no from me. Given some of the entitlements I have read on here, I wouldn't blame OP if she put the dress under lock and key in case SIL takes it further.
The last story really set me off. OP’s husband is a total jerk. Many adults still sleep with stuffed animals, it brings relaxation and comfort, especially to those with mental health issues, severe anxiety, and severe stress. My husband and I still sleep with stuffed animals, yet we are in our 30’s. OP’s husband needs a kick in the butt.
Looks like the husband has showed OP who he really is, a pathetic man who gets jealous over a toy. Jesus Christ I’ve heard of people getting jealous over a dead spouses but never a freaking toy.
And what is wrong with adults owning stuffed animals? I’ve heard that stuff demos with adults really can be comforting and some has ease depression and I even heard a story that one has even save the marriage?
I do my partner and i came together after i said i slept with a big bear 1m. He found it cute. This story 🤯
I'm almost 40 and sometimes cuddle a stuffed animal (normally my snoopy or my ewok from disney). it was a comfort thing for me after my mother passed away and it helps me sleep if i'm having a hard time getting to sleep. this husband has some insecurity if a cuddly toy being cuddled threatens his sense of manhood
I wonder if the husband would have issues with the OP hugging a pillow while sleeping. It's pretty much the same thing just more "acceptable" for an adult to have a pillow rather than a stuffed animal.
Regardless, the husband is just being crazy and quite possibly a sign of worse behavior to come.
I sleep with a stuffed animal.Specifically A TEDDY BEAR. Teddy Bears are a girl's best friend.Get MR. DRAGON OFF THE SHELF AND WRAP YOUR ARMS AROUND HIM LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW!
You went too far by pouring a milkshake? Are you kidding me? She could have seriously hurt you! It could have done damage to your stomach, you could have ended up in the hospital!
Story 2: NTA, your maternal family, has no obligation to involve your step and half-siblings.... If your father tries to prevent your healthy relationship with them then, it is time for those family members to go to court, and get court ordered visitation.
He did not want kids to feel left out then he should not have married a woman with so many kids, just watch next step is sending money or sharing a college fund if the maternal family has one for him and kali
Last story. NTA. I am a 59 year old female who still sleeps with stuffed animals.
Second story… I can’t keep track of all these damn people
4. GIVE THE DRESS TO A FRIEND TO HILD ONTO.
Last story: I'd be willing to bet that this was an issue long before this incident. OP is just not telling us.
Whooo gives a fuck ? It’s just fucking stuffed animal what harm comes from that that u go to Violence?
“What’s mine is mine… and what’s yours is mine, too!” It’s 100% ok to shame people with this attitude. Just stop talking to them. They’re clearly delusional, and will drive you straight to crazy town, then blame you for it!
Run faster and don’t look back.
The dress story, there's no party. Sister-in-law is just used to getting what she wants.
Story 5: NTA, sleeping with a stuffed animal is not "weird", it is the same thing as cuddling with a pillow. This is very common, especially for adults used to sharing a bed, when their spouse isn't in bed with them.
16:55 Kind of scary to have someone give you a gift one day and then have them freak out on you because you fell asleep with it in your bed &&&.. then ripe it away from you and also taking your earring with it....😴😱😮🩸🩸👂🏼.
I'd be sleeping in another room and suggest maybe Marriage counseling/divorce for being physically assaulted while sleeping with some thing that he gifted you! What was he thinking??? Is he jealous of a stuffed animal???😮 🚩🚩🚩🚩
I suspect this is the start of realising she's not in a loving, caring relationship. Hope it takes her less than the average 7 times trying to escape. Also that she's secured her birth control so she doesn't get baby trapped.
Last Story: I'm 40 and have a handful of stuffed animals on my bed that I cuddle with while sleeping. This man is an abusive AH.
"To keep the peace" is never a good reason for anything. It just means that you should take the fall for someone else benefit.
I hope MIL just found out what happens when she f's around 😂😂😂 let the good times roll old girl. Game On
Story 1: I don’t think that you went far enough, given what your MIL did to you!😠
Story 2: I counted ten kids. Is that right? If it is, it’s ridiculous that your dad expects your maternal family to take on all those kids😠
Story 3: OP, you’re directing your anger in the wrong direction. Your wife’s friend didn’t force her to get into bed with another man. Consider divorcing your wife and finding a woman who will truly love you🙂
Story 4: Borrowing a dress that you saved up for, a dress that would have to be altered to fit her? No way! Keep that dress under lock and key😟
Story 5: Your husband is jealous of a stuffed animal? Don’t wait any longer for an apology, just work on a way to get from this man!😟
13:27 The dress!
You should offer to sell it to her. If you can get another dress made just the same from the same person in new color Because you know she's not gonna fit into it right! Just say
"Sure you can BUY the dress IF You want for it!"
A dress she cant fit into!! let the spoiled princess get her lovely dress.
Who gets mad about their partner cuddling a stuffed toy? There is something seriously wrong with him.
Story 3 see I would have gone and made a speech telling the husband to keep a short leash on OP's wife's enabling friend as if she encouraged my wife to cheat, what do you think she's capable of. And also announce reconciliation was a mistake and that I'm divorcing the wife.
Edit: glad im not the only one who thinks thats a good idea.
My boyfriend buys me tons of stuffed animals and I cuddle with them. He just laughs when he sees me cuddle the stuffed animal
Last story, Dad is 71 and says to tell your adult-boy hubby that cuddling with an idiot is beneath you, and he is outta luck from now on. Also the suggestion that some have made about getting away from that "Manly adult" should be taken.
Sure, I'll loan you a dress that I have paid a few grand for, even though I haven't got to wear it yet myself. Let's not mention the fact that it wouldn't even fit you and you would ruin it just trying it on. And it would hit just below the knees.
I have a giant, over 3 foot stuffed rabbit. Sometimes it sleeps in the bed next to me. I'm 61.
My mum bought me a stuffed toy because when I was four I used to have constant nightmares and she told me it was a special toy that stopped bad dreams and it helped. I'm 28 and will always have my Rosie with me lol.
Got a knitted lamb my grandma made for me, I was the last grandchild she knitted something for. i still sleep with it from time to time
I'd have told Emma I needed a three thousand dollar retainer and then she can borrow the dress.
Last story: Husband is an abuser. Period.
MAYBE
If this the ONLY thing he has ever done?
Then NO
Then this might just be him overeacting a bit
If there is a patern?
Yes
But nothing points to that! and we don't even know how long they have been together
@@robertx8020 it's the lack of apology. He hurt her made her bleed and is still angry at HER. A good partner at releasing that their actions have physical harmed their spouse would say sorry not double down. This is not a good sign and feels like the stepping stone of abuse
@@kureaz Wait! I agree that his act was abusive (and stupid) but what I was saying is that ONE act (and as far as we know it was this one time) doesn't make him abusive in general.
@@robertx8020if you only kill one person, are you not a murderer? Same applies.
@@lwolfstar7618 Yes..IF it was intentional! If not then no...ask any lawyer
If you drive someone over with your car by mistake, are you an abuser?
I like spice and have tried some stupid sauces but if someone switched what I thought was a mild wing with a reaper wing (I'm assuming this means Carolina reaper which until very recently this year was the hottest chilli in the world) I'd also be considering my first ever assault in retaliation for the assault committed on me.
Imagine you ordered a cold drink and someone switched it with boiling water and let you try to drink it like it wasn't boiling, you'd be calling the cops on them.
Re: The Ren Faire Dress: NTA
1) It's custom made.
2) You haven't even gotten to wear it once yet.
3) It is super expensive.
4) She's not even vaguely the right size.
5) Even if someone wants to argue with 1 through 4, it is your dress. You get to decide which of your possessions you feel comfortable sharing and which you do not.
I mean, those dresses are a bit more flexible in sizing due to the corsets, but they're not THAT flexible around the waist to go from someone 4'11" 110 to someone 5'9" 200. Add in the height, with nothing to fix the hem, and I don't know what any of them were thinking.
Other people have pointed out that it's a bit suspicious that SIL didn't already have a dress picked out for the party, and I do agree with them that she should have had one in hand. I suspect her plan was to shop your closet. You having just bought this marvelous new dress was a bonus. Though that still means she's a real idiot about sizes.
Story 1: people have had heart attacks caused by that level of spice.
First story.Perhaps she should have poured the milkshake on her dinner?
The spicy thing is dangerous to some. I accidentally added a jalapeño to a coworkers wrap once. He literally started bleeding from the mouth. I felt so bad: it was an absolute accident but I felt so bad I never made his wrap ever again.
Story 1: waste of a good milkshake should use hot sauce instead
Yup into MIL eyes.
Last story: well if adults shouldn’t have stuffed toys, why did he buy it for you? In fact, despite this idea I actually don’t know a single adult that doesn’t have a stuffed toy. Sometimes it’s a precious memento every time it just the nice little sleep, buddy married or single.
He physically hurt you and your ear to bleed, but he refuses to apologize because you were cuddling up to our stuffed toy. He got you while he was out of the room? I truly hope he didn’t do that out of jealousy because you don’t watch him like that. That might be the most pathetic thing I ever heard, grown jealous of a stuffed toy he gave his GF, how do you not think wow this guy must suck if he threatened by a toy, and not even a vibrating one.
@@d.phantomfan1216 right?! My husband and I have been together for 11.5 years now, and we are in our 30’s. On our anniversary, and on our wedding anniversary ( we’ve been married for almost 6 years ), we go to Build-A-Bear just for fun. My very first Build-A-Bear I ever got with him was a stuffed kitty I named Creampuff. I’ve had her for 10.5 years now, and I’ve slept with her ever since I got her. My husband thinks it’s the cutest thing ever. My husband loves the element, water, and anything associated with water, including animals. Turtles are in his top three favorite animals. I bought him a stuffed turtle last year, who he named Cucumber. He has slept with Cucumber ever since he got him. I personally think it’s adorable. I don’t honestly see the problem.
Story 1: Do not ever fuck with my food unless you want to fight.
No, dude. I love...like LOVE LOVE hot stuff. My nieces and nephews think pepperoni is too spicy to eat. You know what I don't do? I don't try to sneak pepperoni into their food. You know why? Because I'm not a certifiable arsehole. Because all have their levels of spiciness and no one should ever tamper with their food. What she did was battery, it hurt you. What you did just hurt her feelings. Eff that bench.
for the last story with the stuffed dragon. I am a 51 year old man and my wife and I have matching tigers that I bought her while we were dating. Hers is white and mine is brown. We sleep with them every night and have for nearly 15 years. There is nothing weird about the wife sleeping with this dragon toy. It is not a replacement for the spouse. It is just a comfort thing. For my wife and I it just feels weird if we do not have it near us. When my wife and I first started sleeping in the same bed I flailed around and since she put the tiger next to me I completely stopped. This says more about the husbands fragile ego than the OPs cuddling with the stuffed toy. OP.. your husband needs to get over himself.
Uggg, people who like spicy food and make judging people who don't, their whole personality are the worst.
I absolutely LOVE spicy food, but never in my life would I be forcing anyone to eat my food when I do have it spicy (I can't always have it).
@@itsjustmaddisenheh, I love spicy food and never in my life would I LET anyone eat my food when I make it spicy. I love eating spicy food that leaves me leaking everywhere.
Last story: I still have a stuffed animal from my childhood, I STILL SLEEP WITH IT! It’s not embarrassing and my husband even went and tracked down the exact lovey to gift our daughter when she noticed it and started trying to take it. He knows I can’t sleep without it, that’s what your husband should be doing! Encouraging you to find comfort in happiness! I hate the bullshit “adults can’t do that” mindsets. Wasn’t it the point of being an adult that we could do whatever we wanted?!
I completely agree with your last sentence. I didn't grow up into an adult to be told by anyone what I cannot do (as long as it harms no one else).
I’m autistic and have sensitivity issues if someone did that to me I’d probably be in tears like mint toothpaste is too much for me mother in law would of ended up with a black eye
Story 3: So i do completely agree the friend is a complete POS for encouraging the wife to cheat but i dont understand why Op is sooo forgiving towards his wife who actually WAS the cheater.
Op is NTA but he realllly should just end things
Dress: wow 2.500dollars is more than my wedding dress! i would not lend that out and even before the owner has used it ONCE!!! THE AUDACITY🤬
SIL is jealous and wants to intentionally destroy the dress
@@nancyomalley6286Yes, definitely jealous and entitled.
Let me get this straight. It's selfish of you to not lend out a $2000 dress that you had custom fit and commissioned for an event that you've been looking forward to for a long time, But it's not selfish for this girl to come into your closet, see a dress and immediately go ooh I want to wear that, you have to give it to me.
Don't let her make this into an issue about her weight, either. Her weight has nothing to do with this. The problem is her feeling entitled to other people's things just because she wants them.
She's a very tall, emotional toddler! And OP seems to be the family scapegoat, with brother & SIL the Golden Child w/spouse attached
Nta. Why go to the wedding of a person who encouraged an affair. I would out her in front of everyone at the reception. Then before leaving remind the groom that he can still have the whole wedding annulled. Bc fact is weddings performed over the weekend don't get filed until Monday.
when you have food that is too spicy in your mouth, water doesn't help, it just floats the heat to the roof of your mouth. Milk or salt do help.
Ice cream, too.
Story about the dress: OP should put that dress away somewhere safe. I wouldn't put it past SIL to try to "borrow" it.
Last story: Reacting that harshly to a stuffed animal is not normal, even more so because OP's husband bought it for her. That's some seriously controlling behavior and also sounds like anger management issues. She should leave before it escalates.
Dress story, tell her and brother they can borrow it with a deposit of the full price, if it's damaged, you keep the money. I'm willing to bet they're much less eager.
But also, op needs to lock that dress away in case they come over and knick it.
Full price? Nope. DOUBLE PRICE.
That way, sil can have the busted dress, and OP gets a new one for next year's ren fair.
Dress: oh hell no. 4’11 and 110 pounds does not let her dress fit a 5’9” 150 pound woman. And custom? No. She’s just jealous.
costumes that don't fit right are really uncomfortable too
Exactly! She wants to destroy the dress! "If I can't wear it, then neither can you"
Imagine being SO insecure that you're jealous of something you bought for her.
Story1: NTA. The MIL is lucky OP didn't rub hot pepper in her eyes instead of dumping a milkshake on her. I don't react well to capsaicin. It makes my nose run, makes me nauseous and gives me a migraine. OP's MIL is a sadist.
Dress: Ask for a 3000.00 deposit.
S2: honestly OP, you're the idiot for staying with a cheater, and letting the cheater keep her friend
IDK, Who is this "Opie" character that keeps appearing in every story on every channel? The only "Opie' I'm aware of, is Opie Taylor Who was portrayed by Ron Howard and Ron? Howard is now a grandfather so I'm trying to figure out what this is all about. It seems very convoluted to me
Some commenters are adding 'ie' to 'OP', maybe because of a language confusion (English not being their first language)
RE: Hot Tender
OP should have drank the Milkshake rather than the water as it is more effective.
Nta. Your father is dismissive, abusive, and neglectful
Last story. Girl. RUN. My ex started like that. It ended after 8 1/2 years of abuse. Don’t let this happen
Why are Emma's always the villains in these stories 😅😅 I'm being called out here.
The sugar hack is sus. Too many sweet n spicy things in my city for me to believe it
It really works, I promise! That’s why a lot of Indian food has sweetened yogurt as an ingredient in sauces or drinks- to cut the burning.
@@theloverlyladylo9158 thank you for the endorsement!
@@theloverlyladylo9158no thats why indians drink green tea by their food.
So nobody misunderstands first let me say that the wife is trash & she's 100% responsible for her actions.
People have GOT to stop blaming others for their cheating spouse, especially if y'all are going to take them back. The reason being is that doing that signals to your spouse that you don't hold them responsible for their behavior. That means no consequences & no accountability & nothing to make them feel guilty when they do it again since they know you'll just blame somebody else.
If your husband or boyfriend cheats on you with another woman, she did nothing to you because she isn't the one who promised you loyalty. If your wife or girlfriend cheats on you, their friend isn't responsible for that no matter what they were saying to her. The only time you get to blame someone else too is when the affair partner is somebody who would also owe you loyalty due to your own relationship with them (parent, sibling, cousin, best friend). That's the only case where the accountability should be spread out to both parties cuz they both owe you loyalty & you gave both your trust.
1st story, how could op not tell??? Whenever there's spicy food you can smell or see the difference between SUPER spicy and not spicy (obviously not her fault mil is crazy) but how didn't she notice
The dress one absolutely boggles me. There's a foot height difference between OP and SIL and she thinks it'll fit ??????
Story 1: I would've gone with the sock.
Cowinky-dink! 😂😂😂
Story 1:
I would have simply called the cops and reported her for assault!
See how she likes that crap!
She can maybe borrow one of the older dresses. They are all wrong.
Last story.
I have stuffed animals, and im a long time adult.
People sometimes get me new ones; "because this one is softer to sleep with" !
I sometimes roll on top of them, so the soft ones I get now are perfect.
Anyway, what i wanted to say : he thinks she is cheating with the stuffed toy dragon!!
His masculinity is so fragile that he is afraid of a piece of fabric (and some sentimental atatchment to the people in the book this one came from)
He is afraid you cheat with non existing people (or a existing plushie)
OP should walk out and take a restraining order on MIL . Where was her husband in all this story? Watching? Why didn’t he stand up for his wife? OP should rethink her entire marriage. She said that her husband usually supports her? Why in private and not in public when it really counts? Why didn’t he take his wife by the hand and walk out? Mummy assaulted his wife and he supports her when mummy can’t see him doing it?
Oh, as for my actual judgement on story one: People who eat something that's too far beyond what they can handle, spice-wise, can have their throat swell shut in reaction; and this see you next Tuesday went and put a "'Can you eat this?!' challenge" tier spicy thing in front of somebody she KNEW was a complete wimp in terms of spice. If OP's luck had been just a little worse, this you-know-what could've ended up in jail for *fecking MURDER.* So, NTA for saying you'd press charges if she ever tries that crap again. ...but you know that MIL could've pressed assault charges right back for the milkshake, right?