Do You Have No Time to Play Video Games? - Retro Bird

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  • Time can be hard to come by, and even harder to come by when you'd like to have it for playing video games. In this video, I explore the challenges facing most gamers when it comes to finding the time!
    Do You Have No Time to Play Video Games? - Retro Bird / Too Busy to Play Video Games / Not Enough Time to Play Video Games
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  • @RetroBirdGaming
    @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Here is the video about tackling backlogs that I mentioned: th-cam.com/video/-wbDmPYB-Z0/w-d-xo.html
    Games played: Golden Axe (0:00), Mr. Heli (0:09), Mario Party (0:15), Fighters Megamix (0:34), Donkey Kong Country (1:15), Snatcher (4:25), Castlevania III (5:40), Breath of the Wild (6:05)

    • @j0hncon5tantine
      @j0hncon5tantine 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      What you deserve is Donkey Kong on gameboy from 1994........... 👍

    • @leeartlee915
      @leeartlee915 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just wanna say you are 100% right about putting down your phone. Personally, I almost never use my phone anymore. Having said that, I use my iPad a LOT. But I must say that I find myself doing more “substantial” activities when using a tablet vs. a phone. Not all the time but most of the time. Wasting time on a smart phone tends to be primarily looking at stupid stuff that you barely remember the moment you put it down.

    • @Blas4ublasphemy
      @Blas4ublasphemy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mr. Heli is awesome but so difficult! I can't imagine beating a real arcade cabinet version.

    • @mugsofmirth8101
      @mugsofmirth8101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Friendly reminder that the more time you spend watching Retro Bird videos is less time you spend actually playing video games.

    • @mugsofmirth8101
      @mugsofmirth8101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@leeartlee915 FYI you can play games on your phone

  • @themonotropicguitarist
    @themonotropicguitarist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +442

    I try to make time to play but mostly just stare at my games before bed and let them know I'll eventually get to them.

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

      They know you care that way :)

    • @megamob5834
      @megamob5834 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      The time really melts away during a good video game stare-down. I swear I’ve lost hours some nights.

    • @TheMysteryDriver
      @TheMysteryDriver 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Just break down and play them alphabetically. 1 hour minium no matter how bad the game is. Then you can move on. Or you've found one you like and play to beat it. Then you go to the next on the list. Keeps you from having decision issues.

    • @StomachPlug
      @StomachPlug 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@TheMysteryDriver
      Another good option is listing a bunch in a random picker wheel online.
      Bonus points if you have friends that would be willing to watch you stream and chat while you play. 😊

    • @theowlsofouterheaven
      @theowlsofouterheaven 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I like to pet mine a little and give them a few kisses.

  • @markracer3281
    @markracer3281 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +294

    As a 60+ year old, I'm nearing retirement and my plan is as follows. Wake up late, consume much caffeine, walk my dogs, and play video games. Rinse and repeat... I have a backlog of games from hell to play and I'm looking forward to quality ME time!!! Thanks for the vid and seeya on the next one!!!

    • @dapperfan44
      @dapperfan44 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Enjoy retirement!

    • @mratzloff
      @mratzloff 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      You're living the dream!

    • @DigitalHaze65536
      @DigitalHaze65536 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I'm in my early 50's and the only thing I "waste" money on is video games. I plan on retiring as soon as I can. Sleep to when I feel like it, get up look at the markets, have caffeine, exercise, do any S___work that needs to be done for the day, then shower and game. EDIT: Haha was listening while I typed this and heard finances. The reason I prioritize them is that I will soon get the freedom to not have to drive to work for 10 hours a day to do 💩that I don't want to do. Once you learn how they work it isn't so time consuming.

    • @MetalJody1990
      @MetalJody1990 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I hope you have another 60 years left in ya to live it up like this

    • @jjmini
      @jjmini 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      teach me your ways@@DigitalHaze65536

  • @spotifyseascapessmoothjazz
    @spotifyseascapessmoothjazz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +143

    Millennial with young kids here. Free time? No energy. Energy? No free time.

    • @21wagstaff
      @21wagstaff 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      The struggle is real.

    • @Raylightsen
      @Raylightsen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Kids are overrated

    • @satansshadow2163
      @satansshadow2163 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      A millennial with kids very rare you must have full time custody

    • @polarbear1713
      @polarbear1713 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Energy is overrated.

    • @greenkoopa
      @greenkoopa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My kids are 16 and 12, I have time when I make time but I just have little interest in playing

  • @petemalogne5219
    @petemalogne5219 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +227

    That “You don’t deserve to Donkey Kong” bit was great!😂

    • @jonj9352
      @jonj9352 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Too real

    • @WilliamSmith-ex9et
      @WilliamSmith-ex9et 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It was fantastic

    • @satansshadow2163
      @satansshadow2163 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You don't deserve to Donkey Kong 🦍

    • @Totavier
      @Totavier 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It was hilarious and catchy at the same time, lol!.

    • @BraylinJones
      @BraylinJones หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s stuck in my head now lol

  • @carlosrueda9204
    @carlosrueda9204 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Instead of playing my backlog, i hate myself for buying more games i'll never get to

  • @bradvanvleet8630
    @bradvanvleet8630 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    Now that I am retired I play in the morning while drinking coffee.

    • @kevinmccartney4906
      @kevinmccartney4906 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Sounds like a win-win situation!

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Sounds pretty nice!

    • @dacatindahat8275
      @dacatindahat8275 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      What's this retired you speak of? 😅

    • @Wil_Dsense
      @Wil_Dsense 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I heard they moved the retirement age to 69. Are you that old? If not, put the gloves back on. 😂

    • @willnox1
      @willnox1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nice! I’ll be working till death sadly

  • @Mark-wrecken
    @Mark-wrecken 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    Appreciate our guy taking the time out of his own lack of gaming time to entertain us 👍

    • @neogohanamv
      @neogohanamv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It's a genius plan. "No, honey, I'm not goofing off playing Katamari Damacy. I'm working! This is research!"

  • @shawnwolf8423
    @shawnwolf8423 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    As an almost 40 year old single father, the guilt of playing sometimes is overwhelming...I needed this video. Thanks man!

    • @KeroseneKerosine
      @KeroseneKerosine หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      19 and I understand, maybe not as much just because you're a dad but I have to take care of my elderly mother. I'll sit down to play halo and start feeling a panic in my heart, feeling like a disappointed someone. Then I realize I'm just relaxing, and my anxiety was unwarranted. Yes, I could be doing something productive, but.....isn't this productive in itself? It makes me happy, and I'm not taking drugs.....sounds like a win to me. Better than being sad and drinking that guilt away

    • @bjornironsides6474
      @bjornironsides6474 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Single dad here too. My youngest likes to play too, we were playing cuphead this week. I tend to play my games late at night. My biggest gripe is there isn’t enough time in a day and sleep is necessary. I wish days were 48 hrs with work hours still being standard 8-12hrs. Time flies when I’m playing and I get mad when the clock says 9pm when I start and 2:30am it what seems like an hour. 😅

  • @kevinmccartney4906
    @kevinmccartney4906 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +142

    As a 40+ year old, uninterrupted time gaming is highly underrated!

    • @chrisherman663
      @chrisherman663 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I can't agree more!

    • @marccaselle8108
      @marccaselle8108 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I agree 100 percent. I work 10 hours day and only have 2 days off to 5 days off a week.
      When I have free time that is actually free, it's glorious

    • @gaylordfocker7990
      @gaylordfocker7990 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just be lonely with no kids, spouse, or friends. Plenty of time for games.

    • @Stu2be2
      @Stu2be2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just became a digital hoarder and then find it even to find a game on your Down time but deep down you know
      I’ve got most of my nostalgic games somewhere 😂

    • @marccaselle8108
      @marccaselle8108 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Stu2be2 ive been downloading games since 1995 lol

  • @lewisrodriguezespigares3325
    @lewisrodriguezespigares3325 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I'm a psychologist from Spain and you don't know how many times I have to talk with my patients about the time they lose with the phone. I call it "the scroll tiranny". People who are depressed because they feel like they lose the things that made them happy in the past, and when you ask them about how much time they spend with the social media and other things they find that they lose 2-3 hours per day. When they get to the point that allow them to not use too much the phone they start enjoying again videogames, reading, enjoy movies, create art...
    I love your videos and your humor. And, in this case, I love how you treat that issue directly. I think that not most people understand how dangerous is the phone in terms of losing the point of what kind of things you really LOVE to do in tour life (specially when you're adult and time is limited, as you explained).

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you for sharing this!

  • @Dzztzt
    @Dzztzt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

    You deserve to Donkey Kong!

    • @Ganon136
      @Ganon136 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      We agree

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Appreciated :)

  • @FirstLast-vp5fp
    @FirstLast-vp5fp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I found a video game club online where we all play the same game each month and then get together on discord to discuss the game at the end of the month. We have a rule that the game must be beatable in 10 hours or less. I find this removes the guilt feeling for me because I know a bunch of other people are doing the same thing and it’s a social interaction too. Highly recommend it.

    • @willnox1
      @willnox1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This sounds great!

    • @helpfulinformation1162
      @helpfulinformation1162 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What's it called? It's hard for me to find people in meat space to game with.

  • @joeyisabsb1
    @joeyisabsb1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Youre absolutely right about your phone. Everyone wastes time, including me, watching mindless content instead of doing something more enjoyable 😂

    • @goob8945
      @goob8945 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      i put it away completely on occassion and im always surprised how much more free time i get

    • @SpecialAgentEBunny
      @SpecialAgentEBunny หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m doing that right now. Dammit!

  • @SegaTron64
    @SegaTron64 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    I'll never unhear "You don't deserve the Donkey Kong" repeatedly.

    • @DerSaa
      @DerSaa หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      to

  • @The_IN_Famous_ElGuapo_714
    @The_IN_Famous_ElGuapo_714 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +121

    Best retro gaming channel. Hands down!😂

    • @StomachPlug
      @StomachPlug 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Definitely one of the better ones, but it really depends on what you're looking for.
      I found hungrygoriya recently and she does these little reviews of ancient games almost nobody in the modern day knows with a soothing voice.
      Baberuthless is cool if you like classic fighting games, she covers the unbelievably niche genre of fighting game backgrounds and trying to find their real world inspirations when applicable. It's pretty neat.
      Gamesack is a bit long winded and not as fun today with just the one host, but I like the transitions and they cover a lot of different content.
      I've got some others but can't think of them atm, though I imagine most RPG-centric channels generally focus on PS1 and SNES.

    • @elgatofelix8917
      @elgatofelix8917 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@StomachPlug Big Ole Words is good retro gaming channel if you like the NES

    • @StomachPlug
      @StomachPlug 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@elgatofelix8917
      Thank you for the suggestion, I'll give 'em a look.

  • @RetroRockGamer
    @RetroRockGamer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    This is the paradox, I have every game I could ever want on a fingernail sized SD card, and no time to play.

    • @elgatofelix8917
      @elgatofelix8917 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Is it a 5 terabyte SD card?

    • @bjornironsides6474
      @bjornironsides6474 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So stolen games?

    • @randyturner270
      @randyturner270 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@bjornironsides6474 Yes

    • @bens3767
      @bens3767 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What's the point if your comment? You think people who "steal" video games care what some insignificant loser has to say online?

    • @bjornironsides6474
      @bjornironsides6474 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@bens3767 I’d argue the person with no money to buy games legitimately, is the loser.

  • @TehPwnographer
    @TehPwnographer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I hate that I relate to this video 😢 I want my endless video game weekends back from childhood!

  • @BarnabyBuckles
    @BarnabyBuckles 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    That inner voice bit at the beginning was amazing.

  • @joelstoecklin2418
    @joelstoecklin2418 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    2:00 wow this is literally my mind

  • @sergiostockfleth823
    @sergiostockfleth823 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Being a dad to child with disabilities, and irregular sleep patterns, is extremely tough, because I always feel like I should sleep whenever I have the chance in the evening, because I will probably be woken up in the middle of the night for a few hours. I have found out that almost all newer triple A titles are out of the question because they take too long time to complete, but retro games are fantastic, because it’s instant action and fun, and even after playing only 15 minutes, I can still feel like I accomplished something, instead of grinding for hours to unlock key components to be able to advance.

    • @bjornironsides6474
      @bjornironsides6474 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love AAA titles, but I agree… games are just getting way too long. 30hrs is a sweet spot for completion and revisiting, but most are easily 80-150hrs to thoroughly play through.

  • @decisionparalysis7856
    @decisionparalysis7856 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I hate being too tired to even push some buttons but yeah I know how that feels, once upon a time I never dreamed that even possible.

    • @the.littlest.toaster
      @the.littlest.toaster 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂 fr sometimes i turn on my pc or console get stuck choosing a game or searching the market place and thats as far as i get then i knock out.

    • @decisionparalysis7856
      @decisionparalysis7856 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@the.littlest.toaster Oh I hate that too, game overload, there are too many options. I feel like we are in the golden age of gaming, but I sure do miss the old days of gaming, few options on the shelf, mastering what you had.

    • @majorgear1021
      @majorgear1021 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You’re not alone. I still wonder to this day how I played games for 6 hour or more at a stretch.
      That energy is long gone, lol. Now an hour is a stretch.

    • @KP-my1ud
      @KP-my1ud 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactly ​@@majorgear1021

  • @PolybiusArcadia
    @PolybiusArcadia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    I like what you have to say.

    • @lukeautosymbol2668
      @lukeautosymbol2668 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I like how he says it, too.

    • @clarencerichardson9566
      @clarencerichardson9566 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have to play games between 2 and 4 am because I have to take care of a family, 4 dogs,cleaning the house,fixing things around house and working on my gameroom I have been working on it for 4years (gameroom) never get any sleep lol

    • @Teejay_2000
      @Teejay_2000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He's the retro bird oh yeah....

  • @merrillsheffer9590
    @merrillsheffer9590 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I once decided to play a few minutes of Final Fantasy Tactics before bed. It felt like a couple of hour TOPS, but as I noticed the morning light splash into my room, I was shocked. That day was the hardest day of work I have ever had.

  • @neogohanamv
    @neogohanamv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Going back to using official hardware on a real CRT has helped me a lot. I love RetroArch, but I'd find my gaming sessions being slowed down or halted by technical issues (driver/monitor stuff, controller sync, frame rate problems, etc) half the time.
    Now I turn on the CRT, turn on a console, and play. Having the setup in a physically separate place helps as well as there are no distractions from other media.

    • @zajicapp
      @zajicapp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Same for me. Hooking up my Genesis, SNES and PS2 to a CRT has been the most fun I've had in my gaming carrer. Sessions are short but sweet!

    • @Xhalonick
      @Xhalonick 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I literally configure the settings one time per core (at most) in retroarch and map the buttons if need be, and never have to touch it again. Sounds like a you problem XD

    • @neogohanamv
      @neogohanamv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah, I have 'me' problems. Seems to be fewer of those on original hardware, but I realize that won't be the case for everyone.

    • @jonah1976
      @jonah1976 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      To be fair, Retroarch can be cumbersome to configure correctly and the UI is complex in many areas. I'm technical enough to compile my own versions of MAME and even I had trouble until I figured out how to get Retroarch to switch the refresh rates of my LCD monitor and TV to match the emulated hardware. Now I have zero desire to ever see a goddamn CRT ever again unless it's an oscilloscope.

    • @knucklestheechidna5718
      @knucklestheechidna5718 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly it makes it so much more official and more nostalgic too

  • @peterr85
    @peterr85 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    For me, its my high school age kids, wife, and helping take care of my mother in law who lives with us due to health issues. But i am happy when i do get time, its fun and therapeutic.

  • @Mordenheim
    @Mordenheim 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Something I try to keep in mind at all times.
    "If you enjoyed the time you wasted, then it wasn't wasted time."

    • @shaun8062
      @shaun8062 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      underrated comment

  • @nickatmacomb8965
    @nickatmacomb8965 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    The whole voices in my head skit is exactly what happens to me every time I try to relax

    • @KikiAelita
      @KikiAelita 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Have you tried having a notepad or note doc on your phone where you can list all the things? It tends to help me set them aside to write them down when they intrude upon whatever I'm trying to focus on.

    • @nickatmacomb8965
      @nickatmacomb8965 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KikiAelita thanks. I will try that

  • @megamob5834
    @megamob5834 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This is possibly the most relatable video I’ve ever seen… in fact, I carved out a little slice of “The time when the world stops” just to watch this video. Now it’s time to go back to feeling guilty for staying up too late to play silly games 👍

  • @AnalogByte
    @AnalogByte 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I look forward to your videos every week, and am never disappointed. Thank you :)

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Thank you for watching every week!

    • @etchatails
      @etchatails 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      same here

  • @viktorbosnjak2037
    @viktorbosnjak2037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I wait till everyones asleep and game for 2-3 hours.

  • @cc-vd3oq
    @cc-vd3oq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I'm currently working 12 hour shifts so this video hits hard. Everyday I try to play for 30 minutes at the end of the day but I usually end up dozing off.

    • @majorgear1021
      @majorgear1021 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don’t feel bad. I tend to read a book before bed, heck, in bed! … when I’m low energy.
      My brain suggests “game?” and my body replies “book”

  • @ashleyholbird4287
    @ashleyholbird4287 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "I dont judge people, thats a job for passive agressive distant relatives" that is one of the greatest lines ive ever heard. Its also FRICKING TRUE. My 88 year old papa cant understand why i play video games. I have two special needs kids. One of which has a 1 in 45,000 genetic disease and he cant walk at 5. I told him "papa its either video games, or drugs."

    • @JosephCox-yx4ds
      @JosephCox-yx4ds 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hey chick, I came back to this just to say this for you: you're a good parent. Drugs will make you unfit to be the loving parent you are and may actually harm your ability to properly love. Your video games keep you a proper parent. Keep on loving your kids and being there for them. Always choose those games over that other, lesser option.

  • @scrilla4047
    @scrilla4047 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Every time... "YOUR CAR NEEDS AN OIL CHANGE"

    • @the_kombinator
      @the_kombinator 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      .... it takes like 20-30 mins though? Grab a beer and do it. Hell, I changed a CV shaft over my lunch.

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@the_kombinator It's more that it's just "one more thing" we need to get to.

    • @the_kombinator
      @the_kombinator 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@RetroBirdGaming ... yeah and those things are easily ignored. Play more games!

    • @majorgear1021
      @majorgear1021 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the reminder. Even though I let the dealership do it, I’m still stuck in their waiting room until it’s done.

  • @AnalogByte
    @AnalogByte 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I find work gets a lot of my time. Not just being AT work, but the hour long commute each way. Very thankful for handhelds!

    • @tonyp9313
      @tonyp9313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh yeah the buses can be terrible. I drive to my work.

    • @CasperEgas
      @CasperEgas 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good advantage of public transport. Playing on the way to work. I did the same, but I have changed jobs now and van cycle to work. The extra time and energy I get now is great. I spend less than 30 per day on my commute now.

    • @devodeaves5685
      @devodeaves5685 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep, for me work doesn't strictly end when I leave, phone calls, emails etc. I have to set a personal cut off time after which, I don't care until the next day.

  • @dustang5.O
    @dustang5.O 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Damn, Retro Bird you really do get it. Being an adult is kind of the worst. I can never relax or enjoy just being lazy or playing video games for days on end because there’s always something i should be doing instead. Ugh, adult freedom is nice but now I’m chained down to all of the shit I had to buy and now how to take care of. Almost 40 years old, single, no kids, good career and good money, and have another 30 years of keeping all of it up before I finally get to die.

    • @shiptj01
      @shiptj01 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You sound like me. Lol

  • @SvennyMcG
    @SvennyMcG 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I got a 2DS around the time my son was born and I absolutely loved it. Being able to flick a switch and suspend a game - any game - and pick up later was amazing. Even in simple things like running an errand my wife would drive so I could get 5-10 minutes extra gaming in

    • @alanmauries2184
      @alanmauries2184 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Handheld gaming is the way to go! I was always fond of them growing up and now that i'm an adult it just makes more sense. Game on!

    • @blubblurb
      @blubblurb หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes the DSs are so covenient in that regard. Steam Deck comes close though.

  • @sonicsega1699
    @sonicsega1699 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    this is where game music comes to play. listening to the game can take my mind on the same adventure as playing it. as long as i'm familiar with the game of course.

  • @tonyp9313
    @tonyp9313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I work 5 days a week at Amazon. Only work 30 hours. However during those 5 days a week I am lifting bags that weigh an avg of 40 pounds. I put about 9 of those on a cart sometimes it's boxes on there or mixed. This is on 1 cart. I usually do anywhere from 10-20 carts just pulling them with a lot of weight every day to prepare the packages for the drivers.
    So basically dealing with heavy boxes all day long. When I come home from work I go straight to me bed & take a nap because I am really tired. I basically watch old tv shows now because it's way easier just watching something than playing games.
    Playing my games takes a lot of mental effort that I just don't have anymore. I don't play couch coop or vs because all my friends work different schedules than me. That's really hard now to get your friends over to play too. Then on my days off I play a couple of hours if my games. I really want to start focusing on playing games when I get home from work & I feel guilty not playing enough now.

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      If you'd rather just play on your days off, I see nothing wrong with that. Whatever helps you relax the most after each day of work is what's best!

  • @jared3977
    @jared3977 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Working from home in IT lends to my free time to play through my retro backlog. I get my stuff done as early and as fast as possible, multitasking a bunch, then get to shut the world off for hours each evening. Also prioritizing my 'me time' and the power of being able to just say no to people/things helps a lot. Nothing wrong with a little self care in whatever form that takes for you!

  • @holisticreviews
    @holisticreviews 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was so inspired by this video that I put down my phone and stared at my games for a whole 10 minutes!

  • @GAzcona
    @GAzcona 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nowadays I have more time watching TH-camrs like this guy than playing video games. Thank you for your service to the gaming community Sir.

  • @TwoGendersOnly
    @TwoGendersOnly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    As a single 40 year old man without children, I have a lot of time to play games, though somehow my backlog doesn't ever seem to budge 😅

  • @jeffpereira4767
    @jeffpereira4767 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Best video yet! Very poignant. Having a high pressure job, kids, and a wife and striving to keep all parties content, I neglect self care and take gratitude in the small instances I get to game. Setting myself up for retirement.Be well.

  • @davidtaylor5871
    @davidtaylor5871 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was so relatable across the board. The part about just staring at your games nails it for me. I think part of it is as you're going through you reminisce on the memories of past experiences with the various games you've played. It's kind of a stroll down memory lane. At least that's what it is for me.

  • @Hemejonez
    @Hemejonez 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This was my life In a nutshell!! 🤣 Owning every game u can possibly enjoy and as soon as you get a minute to yourself to play some of them games... BOOM !! that feeling of guilt 🤣🤣, gotta love when u can relate

  • @oasisbeyond
    @oasisbeyond 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This guy is Humble, and honest, and true and most importantly real, keep it up my dude. As you get older it's tough, I have no kids, no gf / wife and it's tough. You come home from work and you have maybe 4 to 5 hours max to enjoy videogames / Life! Sometimes you get to tired, so you just want to watch someone play a video game, or watch youtube videos... But, once you find that game that clicks for that time, it's a blast, but, I find it hard to find that game now, I can download a zillion games and not feel anything, but, again once you do, it's magic and why I still Love video Games.

  • @View619
    @View619 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Haha, this channel always makes me laugh when I need it.
    Thank you sir, it's appreciated.
    For what it's worth, I have all the time I potentially want for gaming (bachelor life) but that comes with its own drawbacks.
    Ultimately, I think striking a balance that works for you is important.

  • @bananonymouslastname5693
    @bananonymouslastname5693 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I always have more to do than I have time to spend. Usually, my game time is just a very brief respite after my kids go to bed or playing with them on the weekends. I do hit a wall now and then, and my wife is very understanding if I need to unwind for a few hours from time to time. It's very rare that I don't feel that pang of guilt while playing, but once in awhile, I get to sink my teeth in unfettered and just play, and it's always happy.

  • @DarkseidJoshua
    @DarkseidJoshua 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I have lots of free time to play video games, but I still find it hard to make progress in games due to having so many games to play and make progress on. I have almost completely cut out MMORPG games and online multiplayer games that demand too much time for too little progress.
    I now try to focus on single-player games that have an actual end to them that I can enjoy in my own time instead of playing a game like Destiny 2 that demands all your spare time to keep your gear and level up to date and doing daily and weekly activities. That have limited time availability which causes stress and make gaming feel like work and not fun which they are meant to be.

  • @elodvezer1790
    @elodvezer1790 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I stare and appreciate my collection until I feel which game to play, setup the necessary console, then play it until I am bored... and then stay up until 3 am playing BG3 😅😅❤

  • @pieterbalk-ht7kq
    @pieterbalk-ht7kq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    “Eventually you will get to them”…….the problem is YOU NEVER WILL.
    Time will become more precious and goes faster (yes it does!) the older you get and interesting games keep being published.
    So the backlog keeps growing and then you realize you have way too many games.
    So I quit buying them as I can’t play games more than a few hours a week and will never finish a game like Elden Ring or the 30+ hours Ubisoft trash.
    So nowadays I buy a game……and finish it. And then buy a new game. Usually they are already discounted then as I don’t buy everything on release date anymore, so gaming becomes more fun and cheaper.
    Thanks for again a great video @RetroBirdGaming

  • @RetroSpectiveGameReviews
    @RetroSpectiveGameReviews 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m so glad you brought up the whole idea of spending too much time on the phone. I was in a rut, always thinking I didn’t have time to play games. And then noticed I was playing more games than ever, just on my mobile device. After a long internal dialogue, I deleted just about every game on my phone and went back to my consoles. I was a lot happier this way.

  • @michielkroder4031
    @michielkroder4031 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is all too relatable. I actively need to reserve time to play my games, otherwise it isn't happening.

  • @johnrussell8086
    @johnrussell8086 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You hit the nail right on the head. Guilt and energy are my main problem. Yesterday was a great example of getting things done on a bank holiday (because guilt) and then having no energy at the end of the day. I fell asleep on the couch after dinner and that was me. When I woke all I could do is hold the controller and cried why I keep doing this to myself 😂

  • @jeremyrobinson9829
    @jeremyrobinson9829 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    You don't deserve the Donkey Kong. 😂 Hilarious!!!

  • @chunkacheese2702
    @chunkacheese2702 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ive been watching your content regularly since 2020, and that "guilt.. car needs an oil change" bit, had me diiiiiiiie'n!!! I literally feel that way sometimes, but nobody has presented that situation in such a funny, yet brutally realistic way. Easily the hardest ive laughed at anything thus far this year. Good stuff my dude. Your videos are a permanent entertainment staple of mine.

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Happy to hear that and I really appreciate you watching my videos for all these years!

  • @justicle
    @justicle 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this video. This was as good for me as a month’s worth of therapy. I have so much internalized guilt around taking time to play games. It hit me pretty deeply hearing you say that as someone who loves video games, taking time to play them is truly a necessity for a healthy life. Maybe with the money saved on therapy cost, I can buy an original copy of Chrono Trigger and give myself permission to take the time to play through it; something I’ve wanted for my whole adult life, but felt guilty about both the cost and time commitment required.

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The guilt is a very real struggle. We all deserve to do the things we enjoy the most. Like I said in the video, it's nourishing and makes us better in the other parts of our lives :) Sometimes I find it helps to get a little something done right before jumping into a gaming session. Even if it's small, it gets you in a good mindset to let go of everything else and enjoy some games.

  • @brichan1851
    @brichan1851 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    “You don’t deserve to Donkey Kong…” that is unbelievably hilarious!

  • @BigXSmoke1
    @BigXSmoke1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Only 42 seconds in and I can't relate more thank you for the video 👍

  • @matthewheupel8960
    @matthewheupel8960 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for another great video. I look forward to these all week, it's the best part of Friday. With everything going on in the world these days, it's so good to have 1 video a week with such a positive and uplifting person to listen to and make me laugh. And I absolutely identify with this weeks video, unfortunately...

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! Glad to hear you enjoy them :)

  • @hemangchauhan2864
    @hemangchauhan2864 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hilarious video, but the smartphone part hits me hard.
    I feel it took too much time from gaming, social stuff and responsibilities.
    Thank you

  • @Zahir658
    @Zahir658 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I do play on weekends for 3 hours straight and I had made my peace on not beating the backlog of my games.

  • @vituschaglaf
    @vituschaglaf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    retrobird, I gotta say, you are propably the cozyest content creator ever. I love that your videos are such a nice safe space for gamers. Sometimes I feel so ashamed playing video games because "it's just a silly game" but hearing you discuss exactly that makes me feel so mich better about my hobby. Great work man, thank you so much!

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Happy to hear that my friend :)

  • @rickalbuquerque1205
    @rickalbuquerque1205 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is one of your best shows thank you😊

  • @chrisagu28
    @chrisagu28 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is by far the best episode I have seen you make. Speaks to my life so much sadly but truly.
    I replayed while laughing at the voices at the head part. Something similar to my thoughts.
    Thank you for making my day. Love the content. Will continue supporting your channel!

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! Appreciate the support :)

  • @Qwinn03
    @Qwinn03 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Absolutely nailed it. After getting the kids to bed, walking the dogs and cleaning up I played about 30 minutes before passing out. Only to get up, walk and feed the dogs and play before the kids get up.

  • @The8bitFighter
    @The8bitFighter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have a day job to make money, but I have a second "dream" hobby outside of work. So it became a question of chasing that dream versus relaxing with gaming. So instead I fill the gaming itch by vicariously gaming through little videos like this on occasion.

  • @Jaxell
    @Jaxell 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The best advice you gave was in the backlog video, and that is to decide the night before which game to play the next day.

    • @TheMysteryDriver
      @TheMysteryDriver 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just do it alphabetically. Even less to decide.

    • @Wil_Dsense
      @Wil_Dsense 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yeah and also when he said about when choosing video games to play, think of it like renting a few out at a time, and focusing on only those select games for a while.

    • @Wil_Dsense
      @Wil_Dsense 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@TheMysteryDriver that doesn’t really work you gotta be in the right mood to play certain types of games, and that is something that’s variable and unpredictable. Like there’s times to play racing games, fighting games, platformers, RPG’s, FPS, even Real Time Strategy games on PC - and everything in between.

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, that really is one of my biggest pieces of advice. Makes things a lot smoother.

  • @yournightmare9999
    @yournightmare9999 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    No time to play ...that's why i play with cheats and enjoy games. Because everyone can waste 20 or 80 hours for grinding

    • @lukebrowning4712
      @lukebrowning4712 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly my thoughts. Especially old rpgs I use a lot of fast forward

    • @yournightmare9999
      @yournightmare9999 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lukebrowning4712 in old RPGs like final fantasy 7,8,9,10,12 I wasted +/- 1000 hours for grinding status

    • @lukebrowning4712
      @lukebrowning4712 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yournightmare9999 yeah I use a steamdeck and fast forward is very helpful

  • @DHaworth100
    @DHaworth100 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I purchase around five to ten retro games a week, and I find myself just putting them in their designated console and testing the game for 10 to 15 minutes to make sure it works. Once I do that I add it to my collection and sometimes I may not pick it up for another year.

  • @MissLollipoplindz
    @MissLollipoplindz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I usually wait til my kids are in bed to play some games but then I stay up way too late 😅 luckily my oldest loves retro gaming as much as I do💖

  • @KingC89
    @KingC89 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    First on a Retro Bird video. My life is complete.

    • @_Seagie
      @_Seagie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Good work, Sparky!

  • @erneststackhouse1133
    @erneststackhouse1133 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm 50 & about 6 years ago i made a career change. Figured i was 2 old to do stressful jobs & got a Night Security Job. Then about 2 years ago my kids school work went beyond me, so they are on there own. With that said my free time is wide open & i've been living my best video game life after work! Best way to describe it is watching Season 1of Grimsburg Episode 4. I'm basically the janitor at nights but instead of relaxing by an open fire I'm playing video games. Thanks for the bird seeds to the Mr. Heli video game!

  • @JCpNK
    @JCpNK หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is the best video about gaming I've ever seen! You can add the guilt of trying to stay healthy and not be a couch Potato. I got up early this weekend so I could game, go for a run, then game some more before the wife wanted to leave the house. You gave me a great idea though.. Instead of scrolling on my phone, I will game.

  • @MetalJody1990
    @MetalJody1990 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My condolences to those who struggle a lot to find time to enjoy this beautiful and exciting hobby. I wish those people had at least a quarter of the free time that I have. Life's too short.

  • @iwanttocomplain
    @iwanttocomplain 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You do it like this. You choose an old game that is skill based. You play to see how far you get then when you run out of continues you decide if you would like to play again or if there is no time you should do something else. So it's like 30 minutes.

    • @CasperEgas
      @CasperEgas 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Come on over and have some fun with Crazy Taxi!! ;)

  • @christopher1989ish
    @christopher1989ish 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    34, a full time and a part time job.so no days off. i just tend to set a shorter time frame for gaming 2 hours min. at the end of the work day and after chores are done .some times your in it and you go over. feels great.

  • @thenerddad3741
    @thenerddad3741 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ouch… “Never too tired to look at em” this hit me hard. It’s way too accurate.

  • @kaio0777
    @kaio0777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    why does this happened its sad honestly hopefully retirement home as an arcade or twitch stream games in my retirement home for sure.

  • @JosephAlanMeador
    @JosephAlanMeador 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I found that smartphone point really helpful. If you feel guilt or pressure of any kind when it comes to playing the games you enjoy, just think about the time you waste on your phone! Putting down the phone and trading in that time for gaming is a smart move-and it’s actually better for your brain!

  • @HypnoGenX
    @HypnoGenX 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I genuinely get stressed out over all the games I'm not playing that I feel I 'should' be playing. Backlog just keeps growing every year.

  • @ymarksthespot
    @ymarksthespot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow, this really nails what gaming is like at this point in my life. Thanks for another great video!

  • @DerSaa
    @DerSaa หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Playing video games is better then the most time consuming and idiotic pastime activity people still have nowadays: watching the TV program.

  • @justinmoravetz4544
    @justinmoravetz4544 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I went indie after working for PlayStation for about a decade. For me, indie life is hard and rewarding (not so much financially). It is a constant struggle to keep the lights on and the team paid. Because of that, I have overwhelming anxiety nearly every time I go to play games. “Why play games when you should be working?”. I do have a retro room though and sometimes just sitting down and recalling all the stories for each game / system can feel very recharging.

  • @mcdavyg
    @mcdavyg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You’ve outdone yourself. Hilarious and too relatable.

  • @abdelali9279
    @abdelali9279 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That taking time to stare at your games is so real to me now, I realized I get my PS2 games CIB just so I can be up at 10 pm staring at the pretty pictures in the game manuals before going to sleep, not even reading them, just staring at the pretty pictures. 😅

  • @grody_highroller
    @grody_highroller 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I recently took down my bookcase full of all my old games and put them in storage. I hated walking by it every day, knowing I won't be able to enjoy them anytime soon. Two jobs and a kid doesn't leave much room for play. I'm typing this while dead tired on my lunch break. Sometimes life just gets in the way. Like Bob Ross once said:
    "Gotta have a little sadness once in awhile so you know when the good times come. I'm waiting on the good times now."

  • @Bargadiel
    @Bargadiel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've tried making a list of annual holidays/developer birthdays/anniversaries of certain series ti motivate myself to play my collection when it's most relevant. This allows me to kind of create an event of it.

  • @nerdrage3626
    @nerdrage3626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I don't get off work until 2:30 A.M.
    If i go to Bed by 5 A.M. i can get 1 & 1/2 - 2 Hrs. of Gaming a night
    Which isn't "A Lot", but since i started this Job, I've still managed to beat 6 Star Fox Games, 7 Sonic Games, 2 MegaMan Games, and i Just started Pokémon Colosseum!
    So it's Something!

    • @tonyp9313
      @tonyp9313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      2:30 am wow. Yeah I be very tired too if I finished at that time.

    • @nerdrage3626
      @nerdrage3626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @tonyp9313 I mean, its 4pm - 2:30am
      I'm not "Super" tired at the end of the day, but there is a Limit to how long I can stay up

    • @tonyp9313
      @tonyp9313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nerdrage3626 Wow 10 hours. Yeah that's long. I only work 6 hours a day. Yeah for sure you need rest. Video games require a lot of time & effort

    • @nerdrage3626
      @nerdrage3626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @tonyp9313 that just means I slowly Chip at my Games
      Like I said, I Just started Pokémon Colosseum, and between 2 Days of Playing, I've only got 1 Hr. 20-something Min on my Playtime Save File!
      Again, it's not A Lot, but it's Something! And I'm Fine with that!

    • @tonyp9313
      @tonyp9313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nerdrage3626 Ok cool

  • @lilliput_steps
    @lilliput_steps 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As a teacher, I have basically no time to play games during the school year, but a massive chunk of uninterrupted time alone during vacations to tackle my backlog and focus on more high-demand games. It’s not a bad trade off :)

  • @theowlsofouterheaven
    @theowlsofouterheaven 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Between two kiddos, watching shows with the sweetie pie, chores around the house and work, its extremely difficult to find any free time to play games. When I do get free time, all I want to do is lay there and relax and sometimes if I'm lucky, go to my large "watch later" playlist on TH-cam. 😂 Then I don't get enough sleep for the next day and I'm tired. Rinse. Repeat. Felt this video in my soul (and mind) when I sit down for some Kremling crushing in Donkey Kong Country.

  • @Lowntree
    @Lowntree 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s been different for me this year: I have an eleven month old, so finding time to play has been sporadic as my kid’s needs have fluctuated. Recently though he’s starter to sleep consistently at night, so I’ve started having some black hole time at night again. You never know how precious time is until you don’t have any anymore. Which, ironically, was something I was looking forward to when starting parenthood. It was nice having tons more time to play games before, but I feel I appreciate the time I have to play more now that it’s limited.

  • @thatoneguyoverthere4236
    @thatoneguyoverthere4236 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I totally relate to the no free time for gaming so this video hit home for me. Anytime i finally turn on a game of some kind it's a big relief. Also your game staring stuff makes me laugh, I too also look at things on my shelf and just think man wish i had time to play these! I had to subscribe because of it, makes me laugh every time.

  • @Tetrastuctural_Intelligence
    @Tetrastuctural_Intelligence 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I just got fed this video from the algorithm. Such great and funny content you have here! Yeah as a Millennial with multiple children, I relate so much with this video. I like your bit on guilt and your perspective on accepting that video games are part of my life and I need to play them to feel better. That sounds like legit mental health advice right there! Anyway thanks for the video, you got a new sub!

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you enjoyed it and could resonate with it. Welcome to the channel!

  • @ExcelMK
    @ExcelMK 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    From the perspective of having time to play video games a lot of the time, it’s actually a negative too. It’s definitely easy to give into the “you have time, go play this” or “go play that since you aren’t doing anything or don’t want to do anything” and it actually becomes quite bad as you begin to prioritize video game time over everything else. Keeping busy is definitely something I’d stress to do, as without having deadlines or due dates on anything video games can creep into your head more then they should.
    This is quite common for me as I also deal with social anxiety so I stress and procrastinate while overthinking about important things and how I’ll do on them.

    • @RetroBirdGaming
      @RetroBirdGaming  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Definitely. Finding a nice balance between everything is the key :)

  • @Tmaster2590
    @Tmaster2590 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was actually playing SM64 and Super Mario Sunshine on my Sony Trinitron at the time you uploaded this.

  • @j0hncon5tantine
    @j0hncon5tantine 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I binge a game, and then I wait a while, many days or weeks, then try some games out here and there and then binge another one, thus the cycle repeats... I also am way more into reading about and fixing game controllers and arcade parts than I was in the past............

  • @aetheralmeowstic2392
    @aetheralmeowstic2392 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have the unofficial Android port of Ship of Harkinian installed on my phone

  • @emanhero6311
    @emanhero6311 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Cooking more at home for the family to save money. It has put a damper on my gaming time. Mainly weekends and holidays are best.