Why Being “Non-Binary” Makes No Sense - It's Not "Just About Respect"
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How do you have the audacity to put his identity in quotes….?
You forgot about hermaphrodites mister
@@kotekgraey85 Hermaphrodites are extremely minorities and are an anomaly (meaning "non-normal"). Don't try to bring up extreme minority to normalize it, it's not normal and never will be. Also, hermaphrodites are one gender or the other, one genital develops more than the other when they get older (the genital that develops will define his/her gender). That's it.
Id rather not "ma'am"
Rude...
I got the "maybe you're non binary" before. Because I happen to be a female mechanic. I like dresses and nail polish and also happen to like pulling a heavy ass gearbox out of a truck. That doesnt mean I cant be a woman. I find it pretty disrespectful to tell me that I dont qualify as a woman just because I happen to have some stereotypically male interests.
as a transman, whoever said that to you is gross. good job on all your success btw!!! mechanics is so awesome
I'm all for freedom of expression. These people who identify as non-binary are free to do so. I have no issue with them, I don't hate or even dislike them. I just don't agree with the entire concept of it.
@@pigged_ for what? genuine question.
@@dragontantra i agree. i don't hate them at all, i just dont understand it? there's a difference between masculinity and being male and femininity and being female so idk how there's gonna be a middle gender. or is related to masculinity and femininity instead of male and female? i dunno.
EXACTLY. Just because a woman likes cars doesnt mean she is not a woman. Is stupid thinking one got a non existing gender just because one dont follow the gender roles.
I love the kid who was asked what makes a boy and the boy literally slapped the response of “a X and Y chromosome”. 😂
@•:Sasha_theShadowbuck:•
Kid has more balls than most humans
They weren't expecting him to give a scientific answer. That's hilarious. Because I can imagine most kids they ask that question stutter and have no idea what to say. So sad that they prey on kids because they're easy to mold yet they think that they have the ability to make life altering decisions that young.
He is an old soul.😊
That kid has good parents. I'm sure he will be very grateful come 15 years or so when all of these other kids that are raised "genderless" are going through severe mental illness.
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As a computer programmer, I didn’t know that binary could be considered a gender
lmao
I identify as computer-gender! My pronouns are zero/one
we really need to address the enbyphobia of computers. SMH
it's the elusive "2" glitch
@@Crowbar01 You mean "10" glitch.
its so confusing. When I was a kid, I liked Barbies but I also liked Hot Wheels but I didn't like to wear dresses much. I also didn't like some types of dolls and I liked to play in the dirt and climb the trees with my Barbies. That didn't make me any less of a girl and it certainly didn't make me a boy. What I don't understand is how they claim to be so against gender stereotypes but when their child doesn't fit within those gender stereotypes they claim to be so against they immediately hop on the bandwagon of "my child is trans" Why can't kids just be kids?
I used to get dressed up in my frilliest dress, go in my mom’s room and play with her make up and get ‘beautiful’. Put on mom’s high heels….. head out to the garage and help my dad work on his 18-wheeler truck. Covered in oil, head to toe…then after a few hours head back in the house to help my mom, cook or sew. My dad commented on how beautiful I was, as he taught me the names of every tool I handed him and what they were for. My mom, always threw a fit, hoping the oil, dirt, and grease would wash out… but she always got it out and was never angry with me. 😂🤣 I am 100% female, and have never let anyone tell me who I was or could be. What a great childhood I had, and honestly never fully realized it when I was younger. Thanks mom and dad.
💯 I hear you. Buck Angel doesn't like it when people call kids trans kids. A kid is a kid. Some might experience gender dysphoria but it's best to let the kid grow up finding themselves they could just be learning about their feminine and masculine characteristics. The label trans kids probably shouldn't be a thing and when the word is used should be reserved for those strongly experiencing gender dysphoria.
Me too, I didn't like pink and was a bit of a pick me, but I was not a boy or NB hahaha
Here is the REAL truth about Gay and Transgenderism: It is NOT about chromosomes (the XX or the XY) or the BODY, it is about the STRUCTURE of the human brain. A Doctor with a Ph.D. in Genetics and his team did research on the STRUCTURE of the human brain. They studied the brain of straight women and straight men, gay women, and gay men, as well as transgendered women and transgendered men. What they found is this, the STRUCTURE of the brain between a male and a female is as different from each other as night is from the day. They also found that there are two distinct and separate areas of the brain that deal with sexuality and gender. They found that the area for sexual orientation in gay men is STRUCTURED the same as in straight women, NOT straight men, and in gay women, that area is STRUCTURED the same as in straight men, NOT straight women. Likewise, the center in the brain that deals with gender identity is the same, in transgender women (male to a female) it is STRUCTURED the same as in cis-women, (born and identify as female) NOT cis-men, (born and identify as male), and in transgender men, (female to male) it is STRUCTURED the same as in cis-men, NOT cis-women. It has been STRUCTURED this way since BEFORE birth. Two other teams in different parts of the world doing the same study all independent of each other found the exact same results. When a baby is first formed in the womb it is formed 100% female. Then after a few weeks, a signal from the father's genes tells the baby's body, the body only, to change and become male. The baby goes on for a few more weeks this way until it can produce a massive amount of the male hormone testosterone, which then tells the brain to change into the male pattern, such a massive amount will never be seen in that Child's life again except at the onset of puberty. If for some reason that baby does not get that massive dose of testosterone in the womb then the brain, or parts of it, continues to develop in the female pattern. Or in the case of gay women or Trans men, at some time in the mother's pregnancy that baby received a small dose of testosterone at the wrong time, either the mother ingested it somehow or her body produced it or the baby’s own body produced it all of which can and have happened. When a baby is being formed in the womb, any variation, even in the slightest, of the chemicals can cause birth defects. You have seen these birth defects in babies being born all the time, some born blind, or deaf, born with missing limbs, or heart problems, or even with a spine outside of the body, and many, many others. So why is it so hard for the right to believe that a person’s BRAIN can be STRUCTURED in the opposite way from what their bodies say they should be? You can believe in all other birth defects so why not this? I will use transgender women for this example, even though the body is male she likes all the same things a cis-gender woman likes, her emotional likes, wants and needs are the same as any woman's, and the way she sees the world is the same. Her interactions are the same, everything about her is the same as any cis-gender woman except the body. Sexual characteristics (the body) are set by the genes (the XX or the XY) but Gender is set by the STRUCTURE of the BRAIN, this has been proven through sound scientific study. Gender is how one see themselves and their place in the world and how they interact with it. If your body is set one way and your brain the other it causes a disharmony of mind and body (gender dysphoria) it is not now or ever has been a DELUSION or a PERVERSION or a MENTAL ILLNESS. When someone is going through life with this Dysphoria their life is a living hell, when people tell them that they can't be WHO they are inside because that person is uncomfortable with it then you are forcing the trans person to live in severe PAIN, Anxiety, and Depression, a PAIN that having your arms and legs cut off with a dull rusty hacksaw without any anesthetics seem like nothing in comparison, a pain that kills, LITERALLY KILLS. Think of everything you like and want as a man or a woman, everything that makes you, you, and then think how you would feel if you were constantly told that you can't have it, or be it, or do the things you love, because you are the opposite of who and what you are now, that you must bury everything that makes you, you because other people don't like it because it makes them uncomfortable, If constantly you were told that you were evil and dammed because you are who you are, denied a job, or a home, insulted, belittled, assaulted and even targeted to be KILLED just because you exist, how would you feel? Women, think how would you feel if you were forced to live, think, told to feel like and be a man, And told that you MUST do what men do, how men do it, see things the way men see them in order to be a man and you MUST be a man and that something is wrong with you if you don’t? How would you handle that? Men, think how you would feel if you were forced to live, think, feel, and be a woman? Told that you MUST do what women do, how women do it, see things the way women see them in order to be a woman and you MUST be a woman and that something is wrong with you if you don’t? How would you handle that? A trans woman does NOT fit, in a man’s social circle the same way a man does and yet they are expected to if they do not go through transition, they are expected to think, feel, and act just like any cis-gender man in that circle, but they can’t because their brain is STRUCTURED differently, so they are insulted, belittled beat on ridiculed, and humiliated by these men, constantly, all because their brain is STRUCTURED the same way a cis-gender woman’s brain is STRUCTURED. With their brain being STRUCTURED that way they would fit into a woman’s social circle but with their bodies being male, again they don’t fit in and they are excluded. They want to wear the same outfits the women wear because their brains tell them they should be just like them. Everything inside them SCREAMS that they are just like the people who are of the opposite gender and yet they are NOT allowed to be because other people are uncomfortable with them doing so, so they are FORCED to live in severe PAIN, anxiety, and depression. Trans people just want to be accepted for who they are, they want and are deserving of the very same rights as everyone else, no more and NO LESS. Here is the truth about the road to transition: First, the person MUST go to therapy, no therapy no transition, they will meet with a therapist who has knowledge and experience with transgender people. During this time they will begin social transitioning, social transitioning is nothing more than changing one's name and pronouns, and appearance such as hairstyle and clothing. Then after a number of sessions with the therapist (usually about a year) if the Dysphoria continues, and depending on the age of the person they may be given puberty blockers, (which are reversible). Then after many more sessions with the therapist and again if the Dysphoria continues they may be given hormones, it is these that have irreversible effects. Last: when they reach the age of CONSENT (CONSENT, NOT A KID, NO ONE IS DOING SURGERY ON KIDS) and if the Dysphoria continues, and if they have lived in the gender of their choice for a MINIMUM of 1 full year, and have letters from two therapists with one having a P.HD in psychology with both therapists having seen the person over a period of time they may get a consult from the surgeon, and there is usually a long waiting list for that, after the consult if the surgeon agrees then you get on the long waiting list for the surgery. IF ANYONE TELLS YOU DIFFERENTLY FROM THIS THEY ARE LYING TO YOU. Definition of a woman: How you define a woman is by how she sees herself, a woman is one who sees herself as one in mind and soul. If a person sees themselves as a woman, thinks as a woman, acts as a woman, and lives as a woman, then what is the harm to treat and respect her as one? If you cannot have compassion for another human being then how can you ask others to have compassion for you? Show compassion, empathy, and respect by calling them the name they prefer and with the pronouns they prefer. It does NOT harm you to do so but it does great harm to them when you don’t. Definition of a Man: How you define a man is by how he sees himself, a man is one who sees himself as one in mind and soul. If a person sees themselves as a man, thinks as a man, acts as a man, and lives as a man, then what is the harm to treat and respect him as one? If you cannot have compassion for another human being then how can you ask others to have compassion for you? Show compassion, empathy, and respect by calling them the name they prefer and with the pronouns they prefer. It does NOT harm you to do so but it does great harm to them when you don’t. Some of you reject the LGBTQ community because you have a need to feel morally superior to others, “pull the beam out of your own eyes before you try to pull the mote out of another’s”. Some of you reject the LGBTQ community because you don’t understand it and it fills you with fear, fear of something that is different from what you are used to, different from YOU, either one goes forward or one stagnates and dies, you limit your thinking and can’t or won’t learn, grow, and adapt. Some of you reject the LGBTQ community because you just want to hate and hurt others, it gives you a sick thrill, and you use the LGBTQ as an excuse to do so. But ALL of you who do these are small, weak, insecure, monumentally stupid, and utterly pathetic excuses of human beings.
I am a biological, real woman, and when I was younger, I liked lightning McQueen and Barbies. I am 21 now and still like girly shirts, dresses, heels, curling my hair, etc. Doesn't make me gender fluid or non binary.
I’m literally just more feminine than most guys. It doesn’t make me “non binary” 😭
you must be a transwoman then
I think that’s what validates trans people’s existence though. There’s a distinction there, between “acting” feminine or masculine vs and that understanding that you are that gender.
@@AlexCenFinerIf you have to repeatedly proclaim something is “valid” or “exists”, it’s more likely that you’re just gaslighting something that really isn’t and doesn’t.
@@AlexCenFiner What's the distinction?
@@AlexCenFinerYou literally make no sense. Where is the line you draw from becoming one gender to the other? No sources I’ve seen online can tell me that because it’s all subjective, there very inconsistent. Everyone is in a spectrum of masculinity and femininity regardless of their gender. There is no rigid, concrete way to be a man or woman
One of my coworkers asked if I was a lesbian because I'm still a virgin. I'm sorry, I didn't know having sex with every guy I've ever found mildly attractive was the only way to live as a straight woman. Geesh. And I only just turned 22, 4 years I've been an adult, yet I was the strange one (even as a minor) for still being a virgin.
Fucking hell sometimes people are weird.
This reminds me of the time my mother asked me if I was gay, (i’m not gay btw) because i’ve never had a boyfriend before, I’ve never dated anyone before. I’m also only 18 😅
Good for you! Wait until marriage! It’s the right thing to do!
@@sashhhaa4874 I was 19 when I had my first and only bf. And it was a bad choice to make, I wish I had listened to the warning bells going off in my brain.
It’s nothing wrong with being a virgin or not being a virgin but as a adult I can see why people would question it
The worst part is that speaking the truth is basically a social death sentence nowadays
Agreed
What happened to politely correcting people, instead it’s all about throwing a tantrum acting like a child basically and throwing people in prison over something that is minor and stupid, if you ruin someones life over something minor, stupid and childish then have just given that person a reason to hate and distrust you.
So I agree with you
The truth will always set on free but unfortunate today's society rather live in a lie than to acknowledged they are suffering from mental issues
@@ismaelrojas1614 You help people by getting them help not by enabling them.
In highschool, I went to a very ghetto liberal school. My English class was ALL about social issues. That’s what we were forced to make our presentation, projects, and essays all about in that class. Having a transgender ultra liberal teacher for that class, I literally had to bullshit my entire way through. If you brought up conservative talking points, you WILL have your grade on that project dropped. I learned very quickly to simply appease to whatever I thought the teacher wanted to hear. Literally leaving out important research I find, and getting a better grade. Because it’s what they wanted to hear.
@@boobear9944 That sounds downright unbearable, honestly
YES!! I agree with you 100%! I'm a tomboy and always have been. Even at 5/6 years old, I understood that I was a girl who didn't like traditionally feminine clothing. I don't conform to any gender norms and I dress like a man half the time. But at the end of the day I am still a WOMAN.
Same here.
@gaymer lol, fool.
@gaymer theres no such thing as a men becoming a woman and vice versa. There are masculine girls and feminine boys.
You know how insane the world has become when I feel special joy at plain common sense being spoken.
@@busterofcoviddeniers reality? WHAT DO YOU? think is reality, reality is just what YOU want it to be and just because the world has more genders than female or male doesn’t mean we are delusional non-binary and other genders have been around longer than you have so grow up and deal with it
I’m not really against non binaries or they/them, but what really hurts is the thought of people confusing personality with gender and transitioning simply cause of that alone.
Or remaining something they are not simply because that's what hateful people like the one above says they should do!
i think this is why proper education about what is gender and the nature it being a very personal thing based upon experience rather than sex, and also that being trans and not undergoing transitioning is 100% valid, are really important
@@icicleditor then suppose a trans person whose sex is female but did not transition will not be allowed in male spaces bcs that will be uncomfortable vice versa if a trans women who didn't not undergo medical transition if that trans women enter female spaces it will be uncomfortable for a women we will be getting defensive I can't help it what's are your thoughts on that
These non-binaary people and Leftist seem so quick to turn.
ain't nobody transitioning simply because they're confusing "personality" with gender. do you know what it actually takes to begin medically transitioning?
Can these people please not put children through this bs by claiming their baby is genderfluid, like they will just grow up confused of their identity 😭
Totaly sick! I'm afraid of saying to my son that; "i am/his father is a trans men." And they wanting to make their BABY'S QUEER?
it's none of ur business how other people decide to raise their kid(s), just like conservative parents who don't want their kids being state educated
@@c0ree it can easily become child abuse
@@c0ree Sure, instead we must kill them before the future of humanity is no more. Right?
@@c0ree why is it none of our business?
I’m a very heterosexual man who loves to cook beyond the barbecue; appreciates and participates in the maintenance of a clean home, along with proper functioning; very much enjoy the theatre, but also hard rock, delta and rock blues.
Does this mean I am non-binary? No. It means I am eclectic and open to a number of different experiences. Also a man.
The greatest chefs are typically men, so I don't see why a man being interested in cooking is feminine.
@@Jupiter__001_ nor do I … yet I know a lot of men who openly refer to it as a “woman’s job” in the house.
It's almost like ... being non binary is not about liking stereotypically male and female things. It's almost like it has nothing at all to do with it. Huh...
Your activities, what you dress, etc do not define your gender.
@@Mia-ko9eu so … what does it have to do with? I mean, you see this in the video where others proclaim that they were more interested in their mom’s things than playing sports.
Frankly, I don’t even know if I am against this whole non-binary thing, but it is becoming more and more apparent to me that it is a cultural fad.
I've never understood how intersex is suddenly the gotcha argument.
It doesn't even make logical sense. Even if intersex conditions were another sex - which they aren't - if sex and 'gender' are not the same, what have they got to do with anything?
i've always been confused. aren't intersex people just hermaphrodites?
@@empirebeachNo, they are not. Hermaphrodite is a term reserved for beings that are naturally like that, meaning part of their normal biology. Intersex is a genetic disorder.
Intersex is a biological condition, not a mental one.
Yea, that argument makes no sense lol those people forget that intersex people are still one of the two genders and saying they are something else because of their body parts/DNA is very offensive. They already have insecurities about their body and that's just making it worse. They are using their own definition of "intersex".
I once had a “non binary” ‘friend’ and it was really clear how unstable and narcissistic she was, everything was about her ego and getting attention. The narcissism was off the charts. She broke contact as soon as I started asking critical questions for making her “uncomfortable”.
I have a cousin that is one.😭
I had a worker that did this. Pretended to be nonbinary, but never corrected anyone when accidentally saying she. But she acts like a girl, and prefers to be a girl more. Which isn't even what nobinary is. And she also is the type of person that would pretend to "have an episode and zone out" and it was mostly at work. And mostly when she was supposed to be doing something, and the amount of times we had to tell her to get back to work she goes "oh sorry I zoned out" which isn't what zoning out is. I mean it's different for everyone, but zoning is more on auto pilot, still doing things and not just standing there to not work. Idk it's annoying, it sounds more like they wanted a label to feel special.
Bullet dodged, yo. Pray for her, but you made the right choice to make her “uncomfortable “
The entire LGBT community is full of narcissists who only do this for attention. It’s ridiculous
@@Evan.280 Just wait for when s hits the fan, these people are going to crumble and just be dead weight when the rest of us are trying to survive.
I'm a tomboy with short hair please leave me be😭 people always think I'm nonbinary, it's pretty sexist really...
Lol be quiet
@@gaybatgosqueak she-ra pfp, opinion rejected
@@Wawawawowowo No u
@美丽Mary listen to my money talk
@gaymer It's sexist because she's being labeled as something that she doesn't want to be labeled as because she doesn't follow norms. She is a tomboy and is okay with it, but not 'nonbinary.'
It sickens me seeing parents deciding what their child is and isn't and basically deciding their future despite their kids being what age? 10? When the brain isn't fully developed and it's easier to influence/brainwash them? This should honestly be criminal but unfortunately it's not.
Dillon c.... its called grooming, it's incredibly sad when you realise that these sick perverts are targeting schools to influence/ groom young vunerable minds.
Yeah theres reasons why children cannot make life changing and major decisions
But the same would critizise parents for raising children in a religious way.
@@tosh.m.k that's a weak argument. Biology is not a belief. Being a woman is BIOLOGY, not a descriptive word for how someone dresses & acts!
@@technoloverish I see you have no reading comprehension skills. Biology isn't a belief (like religions are that are debatable as true or false). Biology is science. Woman is biology/science related, not a descriptive term for how someone chooses to dress or act! You are very confused.
You don't have to like feminine/masculine things to be a woman/man; you can still embrace your unique femininity/masculinity! For example, I'm not very tomboyish or girly girl but that doesn't make me non-binary, but I embrace my femininity/womanhood in my own unique way!
Exactly. I can understand medical transitioners but to social transitioners and non binaries, what makes them not a man or a woman? What does feeling like a man/woman or not feeling like a man/woman even mean? This is especially true when they say a woman is “whatever you want it to be” in that case why are you non binary when woman is already such inclusive language. What makes you any different from a woman that you have to be trans-men or non-binary? The same goes for men when it comes to trans-woman.
I guess intersex people makes a lot more sense to be non-binary as they are in a way both but to people who aren’t intersex, it doesn’t really make any sense.
@@MasterlyRex8789 I am a believer of freedom of speech, self-expression, thought, etc. If someone feels most like themselves by not believing they have a gender, that's fine with me, and I don't mind using their preferred pronouns, names, etc. I find it a problem when ppl try to force their ideologies onto others, and those whose ideologies are their entire personality.
Imagine this: I wear "boyish" clothes and "girl" clothes 😱 I love baking as much as I love video games. Liking certain things or wearing something doesn't define what gender you are. It makes me sick that they use the strongest defined gender roles I've ever witnessed. Even the 50s and medieval ages had better gender roles.
I was a real Tom-boy as a little girl. I was forever climbing trees, etc. and most of my friends have been boys. However, I still liked playing dress-up like a Princess, ballet and figure-skating. This is merely called MY PERSONALITY. BTW, I am a married woman and mother.
@@lexiburrows8127 same, my toddler doesn't understand these things, when people try to push it on her, she just says "no, I'm " she's 3, she won't understand that she's even a girl yet and they push it on them... its sickening.
EXACTLY!!! Masculine things drift to feminine constantly. Archery, berets, kilts, even high-heels were originally military-men stuff. Prince and Bowie challenged gender norms, possibly to bring fashion into a gender-neutral equilibrium, but now everyone learning about them just go "WERE THEY TRANS?!?!!?!" because brute-forcing the end-goal of your ideal world is preferred over gradual change. Expect a hard swerve in society in the next decade, because Iranian women wore jeans in the 80s before change got a little too ambitious.
I am a man biologically, but because I don’t feel like working in the coal mines I’m not a man? That’s so dumb
Its so weird how activities and clothes are gendered in my opinion... like really. But im still non binary not because of the activities i do or the clothes i wear, its just thats how i mentally percieve myself.
You're definitely correct about the internalised misogyny. I used to think I was non-binary or trans, but that was only because I hated being a woman and would do everything I could to look more masculine like cutting all my hair off and wearing men's clothing. I'm so glad to have escaped that hole I was in. My hair is now down to my waist and I like being female. I mainly still wear masculine-looking clothing because it's comfortable, but I fully identify as a woman now and I'm happier for it.
And that's what you call a tomboy and there's nothing wrong with that , I don't see why people have to erase woman who connect to masculine traits more then thier feminine side same goes with males who are more connected to the feminine side instead of having to throw non-binary and trans at them
Im realy happy for you. Once youre into that its hard to step back and accept none of those escapism fantasies are real and rather harmful to you by re inforcing misogyny and self hate, it takes a lot, best of luck
Thank goodness. 😊
Just say you're a woman. Using the "identify as" bs is how people get sucked in. You don't identify as your age, race, nationality, etc. You just are. We need to be clear with wording because this nonsense sprouted from semantics. Setting woman or man up as a way of thinking or acting is how people get caught up.
i kinda get that, i thought i wanted to go by it/its at 13 💀💀
The idea of gender (from "gendra", "type", "kind", "sort") comes from the needing to generalize the human species in the two most physically and mentally different groups. Doesn't make sense for each one of us to have our own gender, since it breaks the whole point.
If you feel like male or female ins't enough to describe you, that's just having a personality. All of the identity you need is just your name and what you build with it.
How about... Nope. I'm going to remain non-binary despite your opinion. I will still exist weather you like it or not. Byeeeee, Karen!
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@@manolgeorgiev9664 same reason ice and water have different names, so we can more easily tell them apart in conversations which require the distinction of functionality and characteristics
Truth be told, people are different, and pretending otherwise is inherently hurtful to society. The only points in equality should be of respect for each other's differences and freedom to how you live your life
@@manolgeorgiev9664 oh, the gender X sex thing.
I don't think the social expectations for gender are necessarily a bad thing tho. Men are averagely stronger so they do the physiological labor, whereas women are more emotionally intelligent, so they are more suit to take care of the babies. That doesn't mean that the woman has to leave her job or that the man can't take care of the children at full time. For each to do their own. The problem comes when people are forced to apply to a lifestyle they don't like, so I think we should male an effort to sustain *freedom of gender* (be a man/woman the way you like it)
thanks 🙏
I think the main problem is that there's not a clear definition for non binary. a lot of times the "symptoms" ig of non binary is just having interests outside of traditional gender norms. wanting to express your self out side of those norms is different than feeling so dysphoric about your biological/ physical sex characteristics that it would be in your best interest to physically change yourself with surgery and medication. And wanting to be seen as someone more than just man or woman and identify first as a human being is a very common and normal feeling that most if not all people feel at some point. Ig my point is it can be difficult to tell sometimes if the gender dysphoria comes from the brain or from feeling uncomfortable because you were made to feel that you don't fit in to your birth sex as well as others. Gender dysphoria is real but some people can think they have gender dysphoria when it's something else. Especially if your young and don't have much knowledge of psychology and mental health.
Exactly
As a lesbian masculine girl
Boomer Gender roles are silly and obsolete, and they're the ones making kids go non-binary/trans at age 10 😞
If you're a girl youre not supposed to "play with dolls, have kids and cook for the rest of your life" you can have your own interests and nobody should dictate your life. You're a girl and like cars, short hair and want to be an industrial engineer? Amazing! You're not automatically boy for liking what boomer society expects the opposite gender to like, you're just yourself, a girl with her own interests, not a non-binary and not "wrong"
If boomer gender roles were just left in the past, the percentage of transgender people (non-binary, agender, demigender, bigender) would decrese.
Nonbinary people telling they are "neither a man nor a woman but a human being" make no sense for me. It's just offensive. Like, if I identify as a man or a woman, why do you think I am not a person? Do you think I have no interests? Do you think I have to follow stereotypes and question my identity all the time? Do you think I should highlight the fact that I am a particular gender? No one should. It's just what being a person is. And you can still be binary.
@@user-xu5ym4jd3m i cannot emphasize enough how much a nonbinary person saying "i'm neither a man nor a woman but a human being" is not about you and has nothing to do with you, and in no way implies that people who do identify with binary genders are "not a person". it is downright silly to take offense at someone else expressing their own identity; you are making up a person to be mad at so you can validate your own discomfort with nonbinary identities by manufacturing persecution.
@@kaleviv For me, saying "I am not a woman but a person" is the same as saying "I am not a child, just a person", "I am not an American, just a person" and so on. One does not exclude the other. Men and women are people. They are allowed to express themselves however they want without changing their gender identity. "Nonbinary" and all the other new labels just make everything more confusing. And, since no one ever made a clear explanation why they chose to identify this way, I assume it stems from gender stereotypes. Otherwise, I cannot explain why so many enbies are either teenage girls with short hair and internal misogyny or men wearing makeup and dresses.
We’re not all crazy. I’m 16, so I’m a Gen Z, and I don’t understand non-binary either. I have two older brothers. I grew up playing in mud, with trucks, climbing trees and getting my knees scraped nearly weekly. Still a girl
That's really good to hear. Don't listen to these dummies. They don't care about how you feel, but about how you make them feel when you conform to their ideas.
Thats not what non binary is-
Redneck pipeline hits hard...one day you're playing in the backyard, the next you're a victim to the agenda.
@xyeonjvnzx nobody said it was, they’re just saying how their breaking social norms and still identify as a female.
@@xyeonjvnzx then what the fuck is it?
I grew up liking dolls and girl things but I also grew up in a time in society (thankfully) where I wasn’t told I was another gender for simply being a feminine male.
Not how it works
@@AbsolutelyAri1 Yes it is. When you observe what gender you "feel like", what you are really observing is what gender's stereotypes you find most relatable, appealing, and can apply best to you.
@@AbsolutelyAri1 ok professor 👨🏫
@Bernard Knoll ok if you force your kid to be trans that's messed up, but simply having them know they exist isn't really bad
awesome, you realize it's conservatives who pushed the idea that dolls were for girls to begin with right? allowing people the opportunity to break gender roles and stereotypes is just that, gender non-conformity. shock surprise, men being feminine and people being able to self-determine their own identity are not mutually exclusive paradigms
That little boy in the intro: "An X and a Y chromosome"
He's so much smarter than many adults 😊
based boy
Based white boy, they come for him soon.
The trannys always respond “well it’s not that simple some people have xxy or other combos”
Ok bud, then we can call that very small percentage of people actual trans people.
He's pretty ignorant really, considering that intersex people exist. Neither genetics nor psychology agree that there's two genders. Nothing about the human condition is simple.
nope. becuase gender isnt based on sex? and there is more than XY and XX chromosomes. Gender is a social construct.
I'm genuinely afraid to raise a child in this world.
Do not be afraid. We are here for you. I have 3 elementary aged kids and we are proactively handling this stuff.
Me too
Don't have kids. There's literally no reason to reproduce.
I'm just happy I'm too old for that.
same here, I'd rather not have a child at all in the future if they have to grow up in this dumpster fire of modern society
I’m female, and one time I felt real sick and wore baggy clothes outside. I spoke with a low, hoarse voice at the grocery store and the clerk called me “sir”. I didn’t even bother correcting him because who the fuck cares? I can’t believe these people crying about it like someone killed their mom.
I love how you guys say trans people have to have dysphoria in order to be respected and then absolutely disrespect trans people for having dysphoria. Of course you don't feel that way, because you don't have dysphoria. You haven't been told your entire life that because of who you are you're "disgusting" "unnatural" "predatory" "dangerous". You haven't been forced to pretend to be someone else your entire life, and when you finally are yourself people tell you that's not you and you aren't allowed to be *that*.
Lol please I'm sure you'd care if you were constantly misgender. And even if you wouldn't, most people would be. Also be less of a pos
@@matiasroque4716 That what?
Exactly! I’m a woman who is 6’ and have been called “Sir” to my face, and on the phone, many times. I literally couldn’t care less. Being a sir isn’t offensive, so their mistake isn’t hurtful at all. As a kid I was definitely a tomboy, and there were even times when I was told to leave the girls’ bathroom. At ten years old, YES that was embarrassing, but I fully understood the mistake, and it did NOT traumatize me. So when these idiots cry that being misgendered wounds them so deeply, I can stand on experience when I express my disgust. And I am extremely liberal.
@@matiasroque4716 nah I'll tell you what dysphoria is, it's having a hissy fit because people don't conform to ur delusions or let u be different and quirky. U kno you'll always be just a normie and never special, and it makes u sad
"You must play along with my delusion to make me feel good" is only half the argument. "Or else!" is the rest of the argument.
Have you perhaps actually engaged in an argument, or are you making things up?
Only time 'they' should be used is:
A) A group of people
B) Unknown gender (New classmate/co-worker with unknown gender, an androgynous person, etc)
I have no idea what these people are on but i want it fs😭
It's absolutely fascinating that when you say 'non-binary doesn't exist' people react with: 'so I don't exist?' this is their whole identity. They don't have anything else. They only have their gender ideology. They have no likes and dislikes, they don't have interests, they only have that idea what they are and make that the entire center of their life and personality. It's scary. Just look at the reactions on this video. That's the first thing all of them say in their reaction. If you dare say that this concept might not exist, they interpret that as you telling them, they don't exist. How can that be healthy?
Good point.
I personally don't really care if a person prefers they/them pronouns, as long as they have actual interests and life purpose. Not having interests or purpose isn't healthy for anyone, non-binary or not.
@@peacemaker2057 I don't care either but it's stupid af, at least for me (mostly cause in my language this isn't even a thing, there's just he and she and when there's both it's referred as he in plural aka "eles") 🤷♀ If you wanna use your stupid pronouns, whatever, go ahead, but don't force me to play along w you (not directed specifically at you btw, just my feelings towards "non-binary" people)
It's the same as saying men/women don't exist. Your own identity is not consumed by you being (I assume either a man or a woman) ,however if somebody made such a claim would you react any differently?
@@clarkbowler157 Men and women are not an 'identity'. That's the point. We're male and female humans. We're not saying you don't exist. We're saying 'gender' doesn't exist as an objective fact. It's an idea you can either believe in or not. You can't force other people to believe in it or support it just because you do.
I'm old enough to have dealt with the actual girl/boy strictures back in the '70s. Boys shirts buttons were on the right, girls were on the left. Boys combed their hair from the right (even though I had a cowlick). The Baptists I was subjected to declared against long hair, and girls wearing pants. I really thought we got over all this BS.
We did grandpa. That's not what nonbinary is about
@@gaybatgosqueak Only if you assume that some, no longer having hard gender sartorial codes, got confused as to their gender, even their sex. The fundamentalists told us that if girls were permitted to wear pants that they would forget they were female , we didn’t believe them, but now….
@MrNiceGuy nah unless it's your mom ;)
@MrNiceGuy respect is earned. disrespecting my identity will not earn someone my respect in return. ever.
@MrNiceGuy im nonbinary:)
The whole "non binary" thing isn't breaking any gender norms. If anything, we're going backwards. I felt like I was back in the first grade listening to Misha teach me about the purpose of pronouns.
Indeed, it is just about spreading a theory that is "revolutionary" and "flawless". The activists think that they are the next Sigrud Freud for having this theory.
right? they are just creating more gender categories if anything...
It’s not about the norms. Feminine and Masculine Non-Binary people exist.
@@frogs3338 Feminity and masculinity tend to rest on what society's perception, though. Hell even the whole idea of a gender-neutral look is still heavily dictated by society, even if it's by queers.
@@frogs3338 femininity and masculinity are normal parts of humans since ever regardless of sex, NOBODY is 100% anything, you have all been brainwashed by this communist like agenda by these hostile anti capitalist/white supremacy blablabla idiots because they need more slaves to go against it. While Im against those things myself to a reasonable degree, Im not gonna adopt another extremist cult trying to force ppl with this delusional garbage.
Was I the only one who cracked up when hearing “non-binary lesbian” … because isn’t lesbian by definition reserved for anyone who identifies as _female?_ Feck me sideways does anyone else remember when there weren’t 80+ gender identities? 😒😒😒
Almost. But female is a sex, not an 'identity'. Being lesbian is a sexual orientation.
@@Mel-wn9gb but you have to identify as woman/girl/anything feminine _and_ have feelings for another woman/girl/anything feminine, eg a gay man can not be a lesbian … though given the never-ending list of new gender identities it wouldn’t shock me if that had changed
@@LadyLeomon No. Women are not 'femininity'. They're female humans. You have to be a woman to be a lesbian, to state the obvious.
@@LadyLeomonunfortunately the lesbian community is awashed with ‘non binary lesbians’ and anyone else who wants to identify as a woman. Doesn’t even matter if they have a p***s. Also, they are trying to change the term lesbian to non-men loving non-men.
I am absolutely not trying to stereotype all non-binary people when I say this, (I'm LGBT+ myself), but I have met multiple NB/Trans people in person and it is literally their entire personality. Like, they're absolutely obsessed with it and is pretty much all I ever hear them talk about. It gets really annoying, like they're looking for a reaction.
You are in a cult
Yeah, I agree with you. I am a straight female, religious, and as I do respect the true non-binary people (as a Catholic I respect everyone), I feel like when a person says they are non-binary I feel like they just want attention.
A lot of them are also confusing stereotypes and bodily dysmorphia as something in dissonance with their brain and body. I don't believe they are looking for attention as much as they are looking for a community to be a part of. Time and time again I've seen people eventually slip under the umbrella after going through rough patches in their life where they simply have no hope. The identity gives them something to latch onto and that's exactly why they become hyperfixated on the idea. It's a band aid put over an already infected cut so the relief and belonging it brings is only temporarily (most of the time).
I had a non-binary friend, and they were so obsessed with it that they didn’t even care looking for a job. Because the NB stuff was on their mind all the damn time.
As somebody who has a sister that's now identifying and it's not non-binary, this makes me concerned. Because she is not the narcissistic type at all. Like at all. In fact I can say that me and her both equally can't stand narcissist. And now she's just confused. I mean if she thinks she wants to be a boy in the future to go through a transition then I'll support her. But she better get professional help instead of taking advice from people who thinks they're a different gender because they wear a different pair of pants from a different section of the store.
Hopefully her mind doesn't start going south. Cuz I like the fact that I can still have a conversation with my little sister no matter what it is and no matter how deep it gets. The last time I was questioning about her non-binaryness, and I was trying to be respectful, she didn't really have a problem or make a fuss. But she did have a struggle trying to help me understand it. It's like no matter how hard they try they always make it sound just like Jenna dysphoria or like they can't decide whether or not they want to be trans. But if that's what they meant by non-binary then I think I wouldn't have a problem with respecting it. You're in between the in between. You're still figuring it out from the very beginning. But it's not. They're making all this illogical nonsense explain why they're both are neither genders.
Oddly enough, at least I can say I'm lucky that she's holding the both route. So there's no complaining that I still call her my sister. She's still allowing me to call her my sister. Just now I can also call her my 2nd brother if I wanted to.
I'm not. She's always going to be my little sister. She also thankfully doesn't make a big fuss with anybody in the house for not understanding it. She understands is going to be a hard concept for us to grasp because it's still a relatively new concept.
Anything she just tried to come to me first because I am the oldest within our family that she can come to when it comes to I guess LGBT problems given I'm bi and would be more understanding in that department. But even I struggle to understand this concept and she kind of expected that. She did not act surprised when I had questions. If anything she should know better than I'm the one to constantly ask questions. I'm usually going to want to get to the bottom of something if I don't understand it. Cuz I want to understand it. I want to dress my mind around what the heck is going on. I hate it when I can't.
So maybe I'm just lucky for now. But man the s*** coming out of this community it's just getting ridiculous. This is why I don't even associate with the LGBT community. I swear to God that community is literally eating itself alive and depressing and becoming a very same they were fighting again.
And I really wish they would just stop saying that live and let live b******* when that's not even what it's about anymore. Especially now that they want to resort to racism and sexism because oh well it's happening to whites and males thus it doesn't count. No, by definition it is still sexism and racism.
By that brain dead as logic should we commence a genocide against white skin colored people do just because they've done it to others in the past?
It almost feels like it's digressing to that point. And it's ridiculous. It went from live and let live to we will do upon others that those have done to us. And if they look like the others who have done to us, we would do to them anyways even if they're innocent. 🤦
don't matter if you're conservative, liberal, progressive, traditional, there are hypocrites on both sides and I can't f****** stand it.
Honestly I tried understanding the difference between binary and non-binary and I still don’t understand it no matter how many times it’s explained to me. It feels like is the same so I stopped trying to understand
hey just so you know I’m on the girl in this video’s side but I’m pretty sure in many of these people’s definitions: males and females make up the gender binary, and being non-binary means you’re totally against it and want to create a fictional gender that’s not male or female.
Basically, calling yourself "non binary" is an attention seeking delusion people have in their minds and believe that if they think something, it must be true.
Thank u Misha for making videos like these and speak truth in this chaotic society. As an Asian luckily we don't have this culture here, it's insane to see all this, I play a video game called splatoon, the splatoon community uses twitter, and literally 8/10 of the people have gender/sexuality/pronouns in bio, some have weird pronouns like fae/faer, xe/xer...
I don't know what started it all but I think the environment they grew up in affects them by a lot. Like if u are a kid with loving parents that work, cook and care for u, u have friends and hobbies, whether it be sports, drawing, reading, musical instruments, dancing, chess or whatever, if a kid have goals and hobbies and activities and friends the only thing they'll think about is being excited for tmr, excited to hangout with their friends, they will never even think of "I'm born in the wrong body".. But now we have so much kids that have no friends, no goals, no hobbies, goes on the internet and literally have no personality other than talking about their gender and sexuality, even though they never had sex they dont like being straight, they make up pronouns that's wrong in the English vocabulary and force u to acknowledge it.. u can't disagree or you're sexist transphobe
There's too much to put into words, but seeing the trans people who regret it, people who get infections and open stitches and fucked up voices it's just so so wrong to glorify it. There's a difference between accepting and glorifying and promoting.. The internet and media plays a big part in all this and it's poisoning our generation
Thank u for doing what u do misha
Which country are you from? I am from Malaysia and gender ideology is able to penetrate certain members of English speaking circles. My friends who are from the English debate scene are believers of this ideology and I am very saddened. Even if parents think normally and this culture is not found in Asia, however remember there is this weird little thing we call "the internet", and the internet will export American leftist ideology to other countries
@@yokelengleng same here in indonesia. This makes me want to keep being conservative and stay in my circle rather than brainwashed by western media
@@soralaaa yessss you should be conservative in to reasonable degree instead of being brainwashed by leftists! Btw do you mind gay people? I don't really mind gay people
thats why i am learning chinese no joke, woukd love to live in a more communal society, tired of the bullshit here
@@Patryyyyck you still can't escape gender ideology by learning Chinese because of this little thing we call translation. My friends and I are ethnically Chinese, but that doesn't stop my friends from being brainwashed
My brother works with kids and he told me about this 6 year old boy who came in with his parents, his parents asked him "what are your pronouns?" And the little boy turned around to my brother and jokingly said "toilet!" And that annoyed the parents and they kept asking until the boy gave up and said "They/them". My brother was laughing because this kid is 6! 6 years old!
To me it just sounded like these parents are telling their kid what his pronouns should be. It just seems like they wanted woke parent points to look cool.
"Non-binary" is definitely one of those issues that is like "The Emperors New Clothes." It doesn't exist, but many people are too afraid to say it.
Hi, I'm non binary... tell me why it doesn't exist, I'd genuinely love to hear it.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@Mia-ko9eu I'm a three-headed dragon. Tell me why that doesn't exist. I'd love to hear it.
@@stevenalexander6713 Being non binary has nothing to do with your psychical biological being. Sex is biological, gender isn't. No one is saying that they're biologically something that they're not.
Your overused argument really doesn't make that much sense when you actually understand the topic you're trying to argue about.
Gender is a mental instinct u know what u are same sex or not , but for some people there brain don’t except that and can cause confusion so it’s pretty real but sadly ppl these days are doing for attention
I was a leftist liberal due to the influence of social media from a young age, but now I am conservative leaning. Honestly I feel so luck that I have friends and family who don't simply affirm everything I say. Last year after I cut off my hair I felt a lot of gender confusion because as a young woman who had long hair for most of her life I felt unlike myself and that I didn't fit into my dresses and skirts anymore. During that time I had started uni and I had liberal friends who used they/them pronouns and told me about how much they wanted to get top surgery. At first I was very confused as I was raised in a pretty conservative household compared to the western ideals of today. While I was having my gender confusion all of my liberal friends encouraged my "new identity" as a non-binary or even trans person before I even came to a conclusion and made me even more confused and distressed. In contrast all of my non-university friends were calming me and saying that since I never had this kind of gender confusion before maybe it was because I was influenced by my non-binary friends and that it will go away once I grow out my hair. They would tell me it was totally normal to feel more faminine or more masculine sometimes and that it had nothing to do with gender. I am so glad I listened to them because after I grew out my hair the confusion left and I was feeling more feminine than ever. As a 20 years old media literate educated person I was influenced into a situation where I nearly made a decision I would totally regret today. I am terrified for all of the young and impressionable kids who are growing up in this climate and getting surgeries they can never come back from. My heart goes out to all of them and I hope that they have people in their life who will challenge their views and will not create an echo chamber of affirmation.
THIS. THIS is the comment I’ve been waiting for. You’re not automatically experiencing “gender dysphoria” bc you don’t fit the stereotypical gender norms. Step outside of the box and accept that you like different things and that’s okay! You’re not more or less feminine/masculine based off of a simple haircut, clothes you prefer to wear, colors you like, toys or items you like over others. Sometimes it’s okay to just be and be happy! No reason to magically become “non-binary” bc everyone around you thinks it’s cool. You’re correct. Your real friends will challenge your thinking and sometimes it’s for the best. Not always but most of the time your friends know you better than you know yourself. They see you from an outside view and from a different perspective. They know when you’re not being yourself and when you’re not happy! This comment made me smile and basically summed up how I feel about the “non-binary” lifestyle and trend.
Being nonbinary/trans has nothing to do with how you dress or the length of your hair or how you look like. Being nonbinary/trans does not mean that you dress up androgynously, or that you have to / must want to get any surgeries or treatment.
So of course, on the other hand, having your hair cut short never inevitably means you are nonbinary. It's totally okay to be confused (which apparently is due to the gender norms of this society including encouraging women to have long hair) for some time and you don't have to do as either your 'liberal friends' or 'conservative friends' tell you.
The people who 'helped' you decide your gender and 'encouraged' you to transition were not respecting you and were doing a wrong thing. But don't blame nonbinary people as a whole for that, or assume that most nonbinary people are cheated to 'be nonbinary', or decide that being nonbinary is a nonsense.
@@kualnchaln636 Honestly I have other left learning and non-binary friends who did not immediately affirm any of my gender confusion and instead told me to take my time and told me they would be my friend no matter my gender, which was the very same sentiment my conservative leaning friends told me. My criticism is towards those on the extreme left who claim to be against 'gender norms' but labels you as trans or non-binary the moment you decide you don't like wearing dresses or the colour pink. I lean towards centre left when it comes to politics but I am against re-creating the same gender roles we fought against for years when it comes to a person being trans or non-binary.
@@studyingpeach6691 Thanks for your reply. I think we are actually thinking the same way. （However being trans or enby is not about reinforcing or recreating gender roles.) Here is a commentary video about this Misha's video which may explain some misunderstandings. th-cam.com/video/W2FGLt7dqEE/w-d-xo.html
Yes, I totally get you about not recreating the classic gender roles or just repeating the same stereotypes that this lgbt movement originally fought against to change.... the backwards logic and hypocrisy by the new gender ideology movement makes no sense to me. On one side, men/male and women/female are more then xy or xx, or their genitals, but then at the same time if you dress like a sterotypical man or woman then you must be a man or woman, or the simple mentality of trans/nonbinary is not enough but you need hormones/surgery like testosterone to be man or estrogen to be women.... cause that is all it takes to be a man or woman is the one steroid hormone, maybe some new clothes. Hypocritical and reductionist, insulting even.
It is truely sad tragic frustrating infuriating and bizarre how this movement has evolved and the prooganda has swept up the youth via phones internet social media tiktoks. People will not listen to reason or have open discussion. Body positivity is so fake, as they do not reinforce self acceptance self love and a natural lifestyle (whihc includes no body mods, cosmetic surgery, hormone drugs, ect).
It is a bit disturbing to me that some of your friends were actually obsessing about getting top surgery. It is an even more absurd exaggeration of older body complex and insecurity issues... such as a nose job or boob job. This is like a twisted evolution of that, just pushing ego vanity and materialism, hoping for plastic surgery and synthetic drugs to fix an internal loss of happiness or sense of identity. It really bothers me that a child teen or adult would ever think to remove their breasts or genitals to feel complete, to view these gender surgeries as their "end goal/end game". Seriously messed up and wrong mentality to push on school kids or college kids. This is why I grew to hate the new woke progressive liberals, or even democrats for supporting this ideology. I used to lean left but now Im just center.. center forward or something.
This will end up being one of the biggest medical malpractice and ethics violations in US history... the backlash will be severe. I am glad that you were strong enough to resist the influences by the media and your peers. Good job, you have a strong mind. I hope you continue to talk and speak about it, and convert those away from this brainwashing.
@@studyingpeach6691
You made an excellent point at the end about how male non-binary people don't feel pressured to get gender-affirming surgery as female non-binary people do. I think you're spot on that this is internalised misogyny - women feeling like they're not good enough unless they're akin to a man.
when i was in 8th grade i had a major tomboy phase. i dressed like a boy all the time. i wore a lot of baggy hoodies, baggie pants, & beanies. i liked dressing like a boy and had liked more boyish things since i was little. but i knew that i was still a girl, I just simply preferred boy clothes, toys, movies, etc, my whole life. when i went out and people referred to me as a girl, it didn’t bother me at all of course, because you can very well tell by facial features and voice if someone’s a male or female; even if your entire body is covered. i liked being a girl. as i grew up i started dressing more girly & getting into more feminine things. i think it’s absolutely cruel to brainwash your kids at a developmental stage in their lives, that because they like boy things, they are going to be referred to as he/him, or if they like both girly and boyish things they are now they/them, the list goes on. and because of this they must be “non-binary!” a little kid is non-binary?? really?? it’s just so stupid that they are setting those kids up to have an identity crisis in their future just because they want to be “inclusive”. absolute bullshit.
thank you omg. it feels like its just bringing back gender roles.
X and a Y chromosome.
That kid is gonna be just fine. Slay, lil dude.
As a gender dysphoric person, she articulates my views perfectly. I've accepted that I can just be a feminine man, and that's fine.
Same
You don't need surgery or medicine- you are great the way you are!
I honestly have a hard time understanding gender dysphoric people. Because as a guy, I’ve never not felt like a guy. I just don’t like all the things that males stereotypically like. And I’ve liked things that females typically like (For example, I played with barbies as a kid) - but I’ve still always just been a guy.
I mean, what if I loved Japanese culture? Loved the stereotypical food, lifestyle, culture in general, would that make me Japanese?
The sad part is now there are people who are using racial stereotypes to say they are a different race - but most people aren’t okay with that - but it’s like, when is they line drawn?
@@tiamod I also had a hard time understanding what this was all about because you never really got to hear an explanation. For me I just heard that those people identified as that and that they feel more comfortable being called like that. As for your question I think it’s due to the gender roles that are put onto us, so e.g. women have to cook, take care of the children & the household, play with dolls and etc while boys are taught that they need to manly, strong. And so when you’re e.g a boy, who likes playing with dolls it wouldn’t be uncommon for your environment to be against because that’s now what boys should play with, which results into you feeling suppressed and not being able to express who you are because of those gender norms. That’s why it’s not uncommon for those that felt this way to develop a gender dysphoria, the belief that you don’t align with your biological gender, because everyone tells you that what you’re doing is wrong, confusing you what type of gender you really have or if you actually have one. These people feel more comfortable identifying as non-binary because they don‘t really feel like their biological sex.
@@x.star3779 secures where we get into a slight problem people who identify as non-binary expect everyone who has never met that too automatically know that they’re non-binary and know they’re pronouns No I’m not saying that this is all non-binary people but what I have noticed that there is a very large collective of that group & people who are meeting them have that expectation
I identify as a billionaire.
Isn't really working out for me either, bank just says "no you are not" 😂
LOL
You don't even see the irony in this
@@JustSomeKittenwithaGun guess that flew over your head so fast that you missed it entirely.
Hint, all a teller would need to do is bring up my bank acct. info to say "no you are not a billionaire" and be 100% correct
Similar to what a Geneticist could do, even after someone "transitions"
But that don't stop them from identifying as something they are not, or ever will be. Because their 'account' says otherwise.
aka irony, you may want to look up the definition of it..
Deffently made me laugh though.. 👍
To me, there's no such thing as non-binary. There is ONLY binary.
All Humans are Binary.
Binary people see it that way. 😊
@@danielgouge4639 Every Human being is Binary!!
You come from a Male and Female, you are by biological,scientific fact, Binary!
Maybe a bit brain damaged, but you are indeed a binary species.
I identify as trans-millionaire. You must affirm my identity by sending me your entire net worth.
@@technoloverish And a few decades ago there wasn't. Tell me, is truth dependent on an ever-shifting consensus?
@@technoloverish What medical consensus? Activists?
@@technoloverish So you believe that truth itself depends on what we as humanity decide it to be (consensus)? How absurd! The logical conclusion of what you are saying is that if we can get enough people (especially scientists) to believe it, the moon will be made of cheese.
@@technoloverish No, I don't rely purely on the Bible as it is only canonised scripture, and was only canonised after a few hundred years of the Church's existence. The teachings of the Church Fathers are therefore highly important (although not infallible, unlike the Bible which is literally a canonised collection of texts declared to be infallible by the Church).
Anyway, as to the shape of the Earth, I am able to observe by looking at how islands with cliffs disappear over the horizon (their beaches vanish first, then up the cliffs gradually until only the mountaintops are visible) and conclude that there is a curvature to it. I could even calculate it myself using the height of the cliffs and the distance covered, but it is easier to look at the work others have done and see if their methodology, results and conclusions are sensible based on my observations of the world. I studied physics at university, so we were taught not to blindly trust others for the most part, as it is not helpful for progress. You are advocating for blind trust of those who are not accountable to anyone but each other. (And even then, that accountability is breaking down as the peer-review system allows all kinds of nonsense through at times, as many experiments on the system itself have shown.)
Anyway, this is all a tangent away from the point I was trying to make, which is that scientific progress is towards an absolute truth, and does not define truth itself. Otherwise the balance of the four humours really would have been the way the human body worked and regulated itself in the 13th century. This is obviously utter nonsense, it never worked that way, so scientific consensus does not control the truth. (Although it does play a major part in controlling our _awareness_ of absolute truths regarding nature.)
@@Jupiter__001_ Hard to argue with any of that. (No counter-argument forthcoming, I take it.)
Thank you so much! I’m a „cis“ lesbian and i hate that „non-women“ try to tell US that lesbians are „non-men loving non-men“. It was always women loving women. It’s not okay that they try to tell lesbians to love them and be attracted to them, especially because biological men can be „nonbinary“ as well.
Don't buy into their bullshit by calling yourself 'cis' then.
@@Mel-wn9gb ah yeah right, mb. I meant, I am a biological woman
The new words don't really match the old ones ;)
yeah. as someone who is bi, "non-men" doesnt sit right with me. a "non-man" could be ANYTHING. lmao. these people r trying to erase womanhood
The lesbian community is overrun with narcissistic men, and stupidly way too many women have fallen for their agenda. We are even calling ourselves ‘cis’ to announce that we are biological women…absolute madness!
"what makes a man a man and a woman a woman?"
"An X and Y chromosome?"
funny that kid was the smartest one.
He was incorrect bit it makes sense why you consider that "smart"
@@gaybatgosqueak He was correct man and woman refer to your biological sex. Gender, that way it is used now, is a meaningless label.
@@gaybatgosqueak Ya i have a dick that wasn't shoved in a blender. i'll probs keep myself that way =p Nya!
@gaycatgirlgopurr372 nice argument senator, why not hack it up with a source m?
@@adamsparty Source? How does one source social categories that aren’t innate, fixed, or universal? ‘Man’ and ‘woman’ are contingent cultural constructions.
It’s really sad how people let their feelings and interests dictate how they perceive reality. Just because you “feel” one way, doesn’t mean you are that feeling!
Honestly, it seems to be mainly a mental issue. The horrifying thing about it is, we are told to accept their mental issue as the truth!
Just because you feel that the table is solid doesn't mean it is! It's just particles and mostly empty space. You never REALLY touch the table - it's just how you feel but that's not reality.
We all perceive our own realities and they're very very far from what is actually real. There is nothing wrong with you believing you're touching the table, it's your reality and it helps you navigate the world we live in. I don't think this is much different. Me thinking of myself as non binary doesn't really affect you at all but it helps me make sense of my own existance.
@@technoloverish It is just a feeling. A feeling that prevents them from coming to terms with the reality of their body's sex.
Sex is not a feeling, however, and that's the issue.
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@@technoloverish Technically that is true, just not in a way you're gonna like. Gender Dysphoria is a medical disorder, akin to compulsive hoarding, depression, etc. The only reason it's never called that anymore is the woke mob got mad about it and got it changed through pressure
@@Mia-ko9eu i genuinely want to understand, i dont want to ridicule or annoy you, that being said, what do you mean by you dont feel feminine or masculine?
I came out as non-binary to my friends three months ago and i started to get really confused about my identity recently.
So, I was searching for some info about being nb.
Until I found your video (which i consider to be the best on this topic) I found only either pride-like tiktoks or videos made by sexist transphobes.
Girl, you literally explained me. I guess I was really just trying to get away from misogyny and weird, uncomfortable situations which happened to me only because I was a girl, to get away from that cisheteronormativity since I'm lesbian. I guess that's was the real source of my disphoria.
I'm probably going to de-out myself and go back to she/her.
Edit: I finally did it! My friends accepted me. It wasn't an easy decision but was totaly worth it
❤❤ We’re here for you, girl!!
That‘s amazing to hear!❤
I feel sorry for your mental health problems
@@Avenger127she doesn’t have mental health problems, she just joined a fad and submitted to a social contagion. Young people are impressionable, and unfortunately it’s become fashionable and hip to go along with this delusion. You should praise her for finding common sense, she’s just a lesbian who bought into what’s popular right now. We need more like her, who woke up from being “woke”
I’m so happy for ya!!! I’m a detranistioner who went on T and came off of it for the same reasons you listed ❤ you’re very courageous
“You just have a problem with gender stereotypes” This is what I’ve been trying to tell my Gen Z sister. It’s like they’ve created a big elephant in the room and we can’t address it or they’ll get so offended and stone us.
So true! Gender roles have always been fluid and people have always struggled to find their place/role... but nowadays I think folks are fighting too hard against tradition and gender roles. The stereotypes exist for a reason but I guess it's more fun to vilify them than to try to understand why it's worked for humans for millenia.
Hey, we all wanna feel special but at some point we just have to come back down to Earth, suck it up, and find some ways to be useful to the world...
It's not necessarily about gender roles or stereotypes. Also you don't need a reason to identify with a gender...
@@gaybatgosqueak could you explain it’s other reasons besides gender roles and stereotypes?
Then why make it a big deal to call you how you want to be called if you don’t need a reason?… and just call you for how you look. You kinda made it sound like it doesn’t matter.
@@gaybatgosqueak Then why do people insist that if you don't match your gender stereotype or wear your gender's clothes that you are the opposite gender?
Also why do people need to identify as anything at all? Why can't they just live their life without taking hormones and/or surgery? Its so unnecessary and causes irreversible damage. They just need to accept the sex they were born as.
@@oddphasing well in general, gender identity is formed by people's experiences within their culture or society. That includes stereotypes and roles, but it could also pertain to culture, philosophy, or just how you see things.
When I say you don't need a reason I mean to validate your identity to others. If someone identifies as a man and I ask why do you identify as a man, and he says "idk I just do" I'm not going to press or interrogate him to get an answer. A lot of times it's just how you feel. A personal, subjective, feeling. And since gender is an identity that most people care about, you should respect their identity and pronouns.
This generation is just getting more open minded that their brain is almost out.
It isn't just younger people caught up in this.
@@amandag5072 Ik, but it’s most.
Almost? I would say it already fell out, lol
Least we have a brain
Very well said, Misha. I wish in the future more people adhered to reason and not merely their emotions. Keep up the great work!
Actually, most people do adhere to reason, they are just afraid of the few loud ones to say so
@Solur i belive so, is just a small minority that basically have too much attention because the news love to put it out there, and the eh.. conservative bite hard and promote it too by always talking about it. Tho it is indeed becoming bigger and bigger because of it
@@martinacosta3821 the longer we let it live, the longer it corrupts and spreads and causes mayhem and chaos
@@goreborn6045 one word: *EXTERMINATUS!*
@@miniaturejayhawk8702 I will say nothing else than BRING THE INQUISITION AND A LOT OF HEAVY FLAMERS
non binary never made sense to begin with.
in a world where humans can be born as a 3rd option other than a man or woman, it could make sense. but we live in reality where almost all species on the planet that reproduces are either male or female. plants are even male or female. plants are smarter than us at this point it feels like
I have many friends who consider themselves non-binary and cant be argued with or else they get offended. 90% of the time they have "issues" and use tiktok, Any connection or am I crazy?
This is coming from a Tomboy who hates girly stereotypes but still accepts the fact I'm a woman.
and edit: Most of them I met in Middle school....
It's almost like being non binary is not about the things you like.
Tomboys rule. I still have SUCH a crush on Pippy Longstockings.
Thank goddess that Pippy didn't have blue hair and take testosterone, or that would have killed it for me.
You need better friends.
@@Mia-ko9eu It's not. Your preferences don't define your gender.
Tiktok is the new tumblr when it comes to misinformation and grooming in the LGBT+ community.
We need to stop playing their fantasies and have them understand what reality is.
Welp the reality is that IT IS valid to have a differnt gender than you sex. No one is saying they can change their sex. Sex is chomosomal. Gender is nerocromical. These school systems are failing.
Yeah slap em in the face with cold, hard reality, that'll ought to teach them.
1000% agree. A man and a woman are not the only genders 🏳⚧
@@essisofia Why are women from this country always so pretty
@@JustSomeKittenwithaGun ohhhh you’re mistaking the trans flag for a country flag lol but you’re not wrong trans women are always so pretty 💕
in middle school i was definitely a tomboy. i was going thru an awkward time with puberty and felt more comfortable wearing boyish clothes and having short hair. im so so so glad i never fell into the non-binary stuff and that it wasnt prevalent when i was in middle school.
What year were you in when you were in high school?
Spot on. Our body is either male or female, and you can't do anything about that. No matter how you dress, how many hormones you take or surgeries you undergo to change your appearance. Male and female bodies are too different.
So the only thing you can do is accept it.
But the body you are in should not dictate what you like and how you behave. If those things are in conflict, don't try to change your body or pretend your body did not assign a gender to you. Instead, break free from the expectations based on your body, and be yourself. 🙂
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That's not what they said at all dipshit
Don't try to spin this to shoehorn your own agenda.
If you feel like a man you're a man
If you feel like a woman you're a woman
If you don't like gender norms so you refuse to conform to one or the other, you're wrong
That's all that's being said here Jackass
They and them have always been prounouns in English to state something is not he or her
Nonbinary is a term used to call someone who wants to be themselves and not follow gender rules. I'm non binary I wear skirts and still use the male toilets.
exactly. Im a girl and i have preferences for "boyish clothes" and tend to like doing "boys" activities (like basketball) but that doesn't mean i identify as a male
True that
I love the kid at 16:09. He doesn’t sugar-coat it, he just says the truth.
Except he doesn't and admits he's wrong later in the vid 🤔
@@spoopytrashpanda2158 Self reporting eh
@@spoopytrashpanda2158 What do you mean you people? YOU people are notorious for causing various forms of harm to anyone you don't think is normal. Then they grow up and be who they were meant to be anyway. Their simple existence as a mostly adjusted, content adult turns you into the victim. I just wish I understood your thought process. You guys always say we are this way through abuse, but who do you think is doing the abusing? Some random person online supporting them, or their intolerant parents?
Yeah I am in some creative writing club at my school and on the first day of this club the teacher asked "on this index card write your name, PRONOUNS, and what you like to write. As a joke a wrote apple for the pronoun and now every single time I'm referred to in that club I'm called an apple even though Im clearing a boy. This video made me think of that knee slapper of a story and I thought people would want to hear it.
People took your troll seriously? This world is insane! Maybe next time you are asked your pronouns, just say "make a smart guess"
yes I play along because its funny as hell
Yeah the first day of my class this semester (I am a junior in college) my professor asked me what my pronouns are. Do I not look like a girl to you? I told him my pronouns. Yeah idk about this generation. I feel like these pronouns are dumb. If you look like a woman I shall refer you to as a woman. If you look like a man I shall refer you to as a man.
@@yokelengleng no its probs cuz they know hes transphobic and want to make fun of him by calling him apple lmao
@@shannon8254 Instead of telling him your pronouns, you should have said “My pronouns are sexed-based, like my oppression.” (But maybe that would have been tRaNspHObiC to say.)
The words they/them refers to a group of people, it's not a gender.
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don’t agree with everything in this video but the idea that you can be trans without gender dysphoria makes me so mad. gender dysphoria is AWFUL and saying that stuff is so invalidating to trans people who have gone through hell and back to alleviate it.
@@NiTuJHGTkO Dysphoria is absolutely needed, stop making it a fashion statement
@@NiTuJHGTkO Don't care whatever ideology they are being forced to accept or blindly adhere to. Our culture should not be appropriated by people seeking attention. Those who think for some reason they are trans, yet don't experience being in the wrong body as indicative of that, are contradicting themselves.
@@NiTuJHGTkO As a hon, I strongly disagree
This whole thing feels more like a tomboy or tomgirl situation not a oh I’m the wrong gender, when I was younger I sometimes played with my sisters Barbie’s and enjoyed some of the stuff she did doesn’t mean I’m a woman.
@Beastbombshell yeah that’s the problem is adults are teaching children this stuff when they have absolutely no clue what being non-binary is being a lesbian or gay they just know the word not the true meaning in my opinion the adults probably don’t even know what it is either.
i do worry that if i was a kid these days i would either believe i was a trans man or i would have certainly fell into the non binary bs. I was as about as tomboy as you could get as a child. It seems like the 'progressive' side is actually just reinforcing old ideas of what it means to be a boy or a girl, when i was at school it was all about smashing those stereotypes. The reason this is dangerous is people are being forced to conform to this and kids may grow up at best confused and at worst in some cases being given hormone blockers or surgery. This is why it is so important to be able to discuss these things. I will say if you feel genuine gender dysphoria i am all for respecting your pronouns and rights, if you dont tho then your not trans your something else and i wish the trans community expelled these guys from association as it does not do them any good.
That literally just means you had a good imagination, barbies are a good way to express your gender
I identify as Michael Jackson. My pronouns are He HE.
Epic
The king himself ❤
For me (girl, 17), the main driving force behind questioning my gender was simply internalized misogyny and escapism. I was going through some bad times, nobody stood behind me and I longed to be someone strong, someone who isn’t vulnerable, who is logical. And the answer to that in my mind was a man. But since I of course wasn’t a man, and I was sick of being a woman, being sensitive and people pleaser (not necessarily woman’s characteristics, but my mind equated these two things because I saw this in my family), I must’ve been someone else. And I also longed for easy friendships with men, since I am also a lesbian and not interested in them romantically, but still emotionally. So, gender ideology slid right in and tada, I was actually non-binary. I liked to secretly flatten my chest when nobody was home, I liked to call myself gender-neutral pronouns. But I also liked my actual chest and my actual pronouns. It was detransition stories that led me to stop this behaviour. It still gets me sometimes, that what if. I am feminine, always have been but the word woman feels wrong. Not the pronouns, just the word.
Mental vulnerability between men and women is an interesting topic. The suicide rate for men is 3-5 times higher than it is for women according to data collected since the 1950's (in the USA), likely because the traditional social norms for men (strength, independence, risk-taking behavior, economic status, and individualism) prevent them from seeking help when they experience mental health issues. On the other hand, women are 1.5-3 times more likely to be diagnosed with depression, because women experience hormonal fluctuations regularly, and because they go through more intense hormonal changes at specific times in life (from around 10 years old). Of course, any people (male or female) who don't fit the traditional social norms can struggle with that in itself.
I think that if children (and adults) would be more knowledgeable about the challenges that each sex faces and how gender norms are just large scale observations that don't have to be forced upon all individuals, there would be a whole less desire for gender ideologies like non-binary. I think that people without actual chronic gender dysphoria, who struggle with certain aspects of their human experience that are partially influenced by their sex, would embrace their sex (and the challenges that come with it) more.
Just some thoughts that came to mind while reading about your experience, specifically about the need for escapism. Wishing you the best!
Thats why its a process to make sure you are who you say you are. I appreciate those who discovered that they weren't trans and still respectful to those who do identify as such.
Not everyone is the same nor will have the same experiences as you or me. We all are different and we need to address it accordingly in a humane and civil way.
Sounds like something you will need therapy for. You can feel however you want about the word "woman" but its just a word. "Woman" is a beautiful word to me. But if you prefer Spanish you can go by "Mujer"
@@BadgerCheese94 muj is man in bulgarian hahaha
Womb-Man = became Wo-Man.
The Womb part is just biological fact
Whether you surgically alter everything else, doesn't remove being born with a womb.
They arent called Vagmen.
I mean, we assume pronouns based on secondary sex characteristics and it’s hard to go against that when we instinctually make these assumptions based on appearance.
It's not hard, it's impossible. That's how nature is. We're not gonna go back against nature just because someone is mentally ill.
Then you made it simplw for yourself; don't make assumptions!
@@jan-3356 If I see a man, I will call him a man (he/him), if I see a woman, I will call her a woman (she/her).
@@teamojesusss i wonder what animals call each other when they don't see makeup or skirts on each other 🤔
@@jan-3356 I wonder how people compare animals to humans 🤔
I’ve seen non-binary T-shirts for sale…available in either male or female 😂
Because nonbinary people can be male or female. Sex≠gender
Exactly!! This gender identity is crazy! I understand challenging gender roles or stereotypes if you want to, but you’re still male or female 🤷🏻♂️
What a wonderful young woman. Smart, articulate and not afraid to tell it like it is!
Said no one, ever
@@thebluepineapple684
whenever some is described as “telling it like it is” they’re usually an asshole
@@username-yc3bd that’s scarily correct
@@thebluepineapple684 nahhh
@@username-yc3bd yeah cuz the truth hurts
Hey! I’ve also noted that most of them are girls. I too thought it was a feminist thing but I also thought it may have alot to do with the menstrual cycle and woman’s hormones. The spike in testosterone could be what girls describe as “feeling masculine”.
There’s also this “I’ve always known” phenomenon. But through my experience with mental health, both personal and shared, I know it’s not true either. And what really happens is self sabotage through a sort of cherry picking or misinterpreting of experiences to fit their answers. Some children with adhd or autism believe themselves to be Aliens because of the inability to fit In, they’re “alienated” respectfully. Then they turn on the tv and relate to the character superman, making them believe they too are aliens.
So this “I’ve always known I’m trans/non-binary” really stems from the prior dislike of stereotypes. They’ve just enhanced the thought to themselves because it’s what they want to believe. It’s really hard to get them out of it. Very…
"sometimes i wear a girl shirt and boy pants" is nothing but a basic, not-even-remotely-controversial fashion situation, certainly not a biological or even dysmorphic issue.
LOL, right?!
Pffft exactly. When I was little we all wore normal t shirts and jeans.
non binary is just cringe, it’s just people trying to be somewhat special
your cringe
@@femo3336Learn the difference between your and you're before calling people cringe
Gender and sex are the same thing. There is no such thing as "non-binary" DNA. Intersex, yes.
I love how the "non-binaries" here are mad even though you made some pretty logical remarks.. it just proves their delusion more
True they are inforce here in the comments abusing her
Props to the boy in the intro
"An X and Y chromosome"
😂😂 😂 Yes you are correct
That Boy is the next Jordan Peterson!
i would probably start a war after this reply but..
I'm a Transmen, and i can say you're correct. I never be fully a male and i understand this. But will not cry on tiktok for this.
Some people on tiktok don't want to beliave this and put some stupid labels. But its the truths.
Go you for talking about such a controversial topic. It’s really hard to talk about stuff like this because of the sea of terror that will come afterwards. But I really agree with a lot of things you said. Parents who label their young children as “Gay” or “trans”, “non-binary” have always angered me to extreme levels. They’re basically brainwashing their kids into believing they’re something they are not (yet IG). Children do not have the mental capacity to choose they’re sexual orientation or gender or pronouns. Most people aren’t even aware of who they are as a person or what they truly want until well into they’re late 20’s. Anyways great video as always! Keep up the good work ❤
I agree, and it makes it even more sucky that the parents of these kids focus more on their sex and identity than what they should be learning which is abcs, or things that would actually help their future such as teaching them what credit is or how to do taxes when they're closer to understanding ages instead of confusing them about their own private parts. 😭😭
Love Live fan with a working brain 🙌
@@technoloverish What? No. I’m quite supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. But a child can’t choose or say they want to transition or date the same gender because they don’t even know who they are as a person. Of course no matter what I say you’re going to get all crazy and start saying I’m homophobic or transphobic or trying to twist what I say. Pro tip for next time- Actually read what you’re commenting on.
@@technoloverish why would you immediately jump to that assumption? you're just looking for shit to be offended about and putting words in ppl's mouth- you're textbook rn yikes
Honestly at this age I thought we would advance in our scientific knowledge but it's the other way around and the world is becoming even more divided
If you can't define something that you are, then that tells me and everyone everything they need to know about you.
What are you, really? Your mind? Your body? Your soul? Just some particles? Literal star dust? All of the above?
If you think you are your body, would you be less you if you lost your arm? Do you become less you whenever you cut your hair?
How do you define what you are? I'm curious
@@Mia-ko9eu easy. I'm a living organism of the species homo sapien...(which doesn't stop being true if I lose a limb). I identify with many of my beliefs and personally believe in the soul.
That wasn't hard
@@LipSyncLover Awesome! I personally think I am a mind/soul within a body of said species. I think of my body more like a vehicle for my mind/soul. My body isn't really me. While my body is of female sex, it doesn't really make sense for me to gender my mind/soul - hence, I'm non binary.
@@Mia-ko9eu I love the fact that you searched up on TH-cam "Why Non binary people make no sense" either that or you're subscribed to her and you know her opinions on the matter, but it doesn't stop you from clicking on the video to be offended. Incredible.
@@Mia-ko9eu why doesn't it make sense? Your body has a gender while your soul is alive in this realm whether you like it or not. Why pretend otherwise? I may not make a big to do about my gender either. But pretending I don't have one would be like pretending I'm not Swedish...or that my body has no ethnicity. It's just dumb.
The goal in the 80’s was that we wanted rid of ‘gender roles’.. just do what you enjoy, work the job you want, play with what you want, wear the clothing you want. Stereotypes were understood as stupid. YOU BE YOU. How we have ‘progressed’ to more stringent ‘gender roles’, after 40 yrs later, that are worse than anything we had in the 60’s and 70’s???
This is stupid nonsense. Stop! Ignore them and move on.
Exactly. It boggles my mind that they don't see this. My theory on that is that they're too attached to the idea of being special and unique, and their super special 'enby' identity to allow for logic and reason.
you were right lol! i saw a doctor on TikTok explaining exactly what gender dysphoria is and all hell broke loose in the comment section because she was apparently "misgendering" and "stereotyping" 😂
shhh shut up
Bet she was🤷♀️
I laugh at people who identify as nonbinary cause that term itself is such a self own. They claim that there are more than two genders yet they use non-binary- as in "there are two genders but I'm neither of them". They're so clueless that they fail to notice their language contradicts their own ideology.
Most of society thinks there’s only two genders- which make up the binary gender system- hence term non-binary. That is, since popular opinion states that there can only be “man” and “woman,” the term non-binary defines gender identities that differ from the binary gender model society assumes. So it’s a way to express that we don’t fit in the typical gender mould, rather than a means to enforce the gender binary, if that makes sense.
@@annarhianne1543 No, it doesn't make sense. You're either a man or a woman. You don't have to be femenine or masculine but you're still a man or a woman, like Misha explained.
How how genderless folk "clueless". I'm 25 years old and know myself better than anybody else. I never liked seeing myself as a girl/woman and hated feminine terms used on me my whole life.
the whole LGBT#$%5456AGUDTH and whatnot makes no sense. Everyone around the world knows that very well, people are just afraid to say it that's all.
yep.
I'm a queer and saying it: All of these pronouns and new genders are nonsense.
Theres shouldn't be + on LGBT. More simple isn't?
I was a tomboy. I still know that I’m female
I identify as Michael Jackson. My pronouns are he He
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Misha, I have an idea, why don't you do a street interview in leftist events (for example pride parades or whatever) and ask them a simple math question: "There are 40 students in a class. If there are 20 boys, how many girls are there?"
1. If they answer 20, say that they're wrong because "how dare you assume gender is binary?"
2. If they see through your motive and ask you to stop asking this question, just ask them why they refrain from answering this simple math question and also try to urge them to answer the question.
3. If they are smart enough to ask "There is not enough information. How many non binary students are there?" Then just give them a number and let them answer the question.
The reason I am doing this is to poke holes in their ideology and prove that they aren't always loyal to their ideology because the human brain automatically reverts to common sense without them knowing
@Brandon Letzco what does gender or race have to do with math?
@Brandon Letzco none. Because men and women is not here in this question. You only mention a bunch of alien invanders who probably interbred with each of the own siblings (if they call they playmates this in their home planet??)
@Brandon Letzco LOL
There are 40 people at your family gathering, including you. 20 of them are people you have not fooled around with. How many did you fool around with?
They almost got me with this. I confused non-binary with non-conforming with gender stereotypes, so I supported it 100%, obviously. Now I see that in order to become non-binary, first you have to believe and reinforce those gender stereotypes, and in fact they become your whole identity😂😂 It’s absolutely backwards.
My question is how do they not see this? Is it that they lack critical thinking skills, or are they aware of how counter-productive and hypocritical they're being, but just can't let go of their need to feel super special and unique, and the edge-lord label 'enby'? 🙄
@@Mel-wn9gb It’s just brainwashing, and not stepping outside of what you’re surrounding yourself with. They also get called names or might lose friends if they question it and get treated horribly. And also what you said, yes, lol.
@@nostalgiagatuna Oh yes, that too. For some reason saying one word against this ideology will have you ostracized, cancelled, fired, rejected. It's like a cult. Nobody is allowed to think for themselves or have a different point of view.
People say gender is a spectrum when they mean fashion and interests are a spectrum.
I have a delusional co worker… she definitely had abuse as a kid, lost her parents as a kid. She clearly did not get the help she needed as a kid. I lost 3 jobs because I refuse to affirm a person’s delusions when they need professional help.
Cis - don't have gender dysphoria completely.
Trans - have gender dysphoria completely.
NB - have gender dysphoria partially???
Cis is wrong word.
It's called "real".
Cis men/women are REAL men/women.
I'm transfolk helping you understand. Gender dysphoria can increase and decrease. I'm Two Spirit and I have experienced life through the lens of my Mansoul and separately my woman soul. I lived as a boy when I was a kid because my first identity in life was that I am a boy at 4-5 years old. I didn't say "I think I'm a boy." That meme is so stupid that says "Momma I think I'm a boy " I was like I am a boy. It should come across pretty strong from the child. But yes I am Two spirit I have felt a woman soul within at times. Mansoul is along for the journey the experience to learn and grow. In my experience that's part of what gender dysphoria is....a shared space with an opposite gender spirit within thus why I freaked out at age 5 when I realized I was physically different below the belt when me and my buddy went to the bathroom one time to pee. The brain can be formed opposite the birth sex. I don't believe it is a mental disorder.
@@danielgouge4639 oh, are you indigenous? I’ve always found indigenous genders so interesting
@@danielgouge4639As you just demonstrated it's a belief system. 'Mansoul' and 'womansoul' have no basis in fact or reality.
@@danielgouge4639I agree being trans is not a mental disorder but thinking you have 2 spirits is a delusion. It sounds like you're just describing your "feminine" and "masculine" personality tendencies which is normal to have; i am a cis dude I have feminine tendencies too but like....that doesn't make me less of a man
imagine being this mad about other peoples gender identities (which are scientifically proven to not be the same as sex)
Brainwashed
@@Badookum oh no I've been brainwashed by science and compassion for other people😱😱😱
@@Badookum "brainwashed snort snort 🤓🤓"
What’s the difference then?
If they're not the same then why do you treat them as such when it comes to sports, bathrooms, locker rooms, and prisons?
With the logic that non-binary people use, I may as well say I identify as a millionaire, then I’ll get the money cause I identify as rich!
Sigh... If you want to be a millionaire, don't waste time posting stuff like this. Get out there and make the money. You have an identity crisis and you attack others' identities instead.
It’s not about respect, it’s about comfort
Wrong. It's about control.
Not everyone will be comfortable with everything ever said and that's a good thing. If the type of "comfort" these people seek is one that tries to trump biological facts and common sense and that's more destructive than anything else.
Your comfort is ruining my comfort
@@shahadalgarni975 What am I doing thats hurting you?
no its stupid
People rightfully get clowned on for being "non binary" in the groups im in, they definitely are doing it for attention
Can I ask what age range your groups are? Trying to figure out if there’s still hope…
This is the result of closing down Lunatic Asylum years ago... These are severely and mentally damaged people/children, hiding behind being normal when they are totally dysfunctional, and we, normal people, must treat them as normal?... Not going to happen! GET PROPPER HELP!!
"Sir/ma'am/friend, this is a Wendy's..."
Asylums were heavily damaging and often made things worse, it was just a way to close off the weirdos to they could be forgotten.
Speaking frankly to people with dellusions, whatever they may be, rarely helps. The cognitive disonsance is so strong that they often block the incoming information, willfully or unconsciously. It's so difficult to have a rational and logical conversation, when they put up these walls.
Edit: really feel your frustration here... hope your mental health is keeping strong through these crazy times.
So I shouldn't speak frankly to you, understood
Apparently I'm delusional, huh?
@peeness339 yeah but you will never believe it because your far too gone now in your delusion
@@nesswhopees you are yes
@@nesswhopees yes
Instead of making all this fuss, why dont you just dress as you want and that's it?
Because clothes dont define genders. So, if you dont have gender disforia and you dont feel the need to make a BODY TRANSITION. Well..................just be you and dress and act as you wish. Easier, right?
We need more people like you in this crazy world 😂
Yes
Right
In German there is only one word for gender. Not like in English, sex and gender. in German it is just "Geschlecht" because there is no difference between sex and gender.
The ironic thing is the same people who say gender is a different word for sex (male,female) don't realize that the word gender derives from the Latin word genus (to beget,to produce (also known as sex))
I don't necessarily have a problem with people identifying however they want. It's just when they start calling people bigots when you refuse to go along with their self-identified pronouns. That's when I typically start scrutinizing the factual integrity of their logic. They seem to hate it when I bring up the scientific model because they then have to prove how their gender identity connects to their biology. They try their darnnedest to justify gender identify through science, but they have to struggle to explain how their biology correlates to their gender.
Because its simply disrespectful, if I told you my name was Jeremy please call me Jeremy and you called me Steve I personally wouldn't want to hangout with or be near you. Think about it like this, if a homosexual came out to their grandma and said "Hey this is my boyfriend, I am coming out to you as gay." and the grandma simply replied with "Oh well what a lovely girlfriend you have there I am so glad you are straight!" That's where the real delusion is. If you don't like homosexuals, simply say so don't try to avoid the conflict by playing dumb, and anyone has the right to call you out for your bigotry. Same with gender if someone was nonbinary and said "Hey I'm actually nonbinary I go by they them pronouns" and you said "No, I don't think that you are nonbinary because I don't think its real " That's simply delusional and clearly the person in the latter would be considered a bigot to the nonbinary person and most anyone around them. You can deny your role as a bigot but facts do not care about your feelings, if you don't respect nonbinary people don't hangout with them its as simple as that, there's no struggle of avoiding when the group of people you disrespect are less than 1% of the American population. Of course surely if you understand biology and the science behind gender (not sex by the way!) you'd find that plenty of studies find transgender people's brains and how they think correlate with that of the gender they Identify with. If you need help with finding studies here is a study that explains why nonbinary people may think the way that they do it is simple a neurological type indication that differentiates a nonbinary person from your typical cisgender person, pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33440198/ This links to the abstract which really summarizes the study but after reading the study as a whole which I highly recommend you do, you may have a better understanding of how it works. Saying "Science is on your side" is simply false. In just America alone we have been studying gender for over 50 years, to say that gender identity is reliant on sex is an immaculate simplification that does not have any basis in reality. It is no struggle to explain, it is rather a struggle for many to understand, I would give you the benefit of the doubt and say that perhaps you don't understand how it works and you were really close when you said "how their biology correlates to their gender." But it was just a lost cause. Didn't mean to make this so long but I felt oddly inspired and maybe you'll learn something if not then that's fine but don't get all whiny when people rightfully call you a bigot.
@@zurzuse3483 Are you serious? One of your main qualms with what I said was that you thought misgendering someone was disrespectful. That's a feelings perspective, buddy. Your whole stance about facts don't care about your feelings is total nonsense. Get out of here with that bad faith and inconsistent garbage. You're literally projecting here, and not to mention that you're being hypocritical. You can't even consistently believe that by your own contradiction LOL! Meanwhile you're also using the idea of being disrespectful in this instance to also equate me to being a bigot. That's not exactly a fact statement. That's an ad hominem fallacy which is antithetical to being a fact. It solely functions as painting me as the bad guy and doesn't actually make your point. You can falsely call me a bigot but it's a total moot point.
But if you want to talk about facts, let's talk about the source you provided. The abstract literally contradicts itself in the first few statements since the whole concept of non-binary means that you're outside of the binary in the sense that you're neither male nor female. Yet the article says that you can somehow be both. That's a literal paradox since the distinction of male and female are polar opposites.
The whole reason why I brought up the biological factor into this is because it relates to one of the important axioms of the scientific model. You have to have tangible, testable, repeatable evidence in order for it to be potentially considered scientific. The whole reason why we can scientifically say that male and females correlate to genders such as being a man, or a woman is because we have tangible evidence in the form of human biology to test this theory. If we are to define what it is to be a man or a woman, we could say that they are an adult human male or female whose gender is comprised of the set of behaviors and influences that stem from the nature of their biological sex. That definition is concrete and consistent with the tangible aspect of the scientific model because the genders map onto a physical/tangible aspect that can be tested. The concept of being non-binary refers to no specific anatomy which disqualifies it from being scientific evidence that proves its place as a gender. It simply states that it's neither of the 2 genders which is completely ambiguous. At most, the article proves that the feeling of being non-binary is a mental phenomenon, but it fails to show that it's an actual gender since gender is a part of human nature that stems from sex. Because that's how you measure it in accordance with the scientific model. That's the most basic step lol. Men tend to be more aggressive because of testosterone. That's how sex affects a man's behavior since testosterone is a sex-based hormone. It's not unfounded, it's basic evolutionary biology. So yes. The science is on my side here. You proved my point about not being able to explain gender's relation to biology by missing the whole point of the scientific model.
And your whole example about the grandma is so vague that it's terribly incoherent. If the boyfriend is male, grandma's totally wrong for calling him a her lol. Yes, she misgendered him, but that's not the same as "misgendering" someone who identifies as the opposite gender. Your point here achieves nothing LMAO! Same thing for the very first example you gave. People don't typically call you bigot for getting their name wrong. They normally correct you because that's not their name. They may go by an alternate name but it's a total false comparison to the gender conversation since people don't call you a terrible person or bigot for not calling them by their name. Jesus Christ! This has to be one of the worst arguments that I've seen in a looooong time. If people can't respect the fact that we have the freedom to choose not to call them by their preferred pronouns, they're free to move on and go about their day. It's that simple. Just as I've explained, facts literally don't care about their self-identified feelings.
@@zurzuse3483 Okay, *she* or *he.*
@@StarFestival143 I’m a cis male, stop embarrassing yourself
@@zurzuse3483 Apologies, dude. You just sounded like you use highschooldropout/highschooldropoutself 'pronouns.'
And; I ain't reading allat. I can't be a bigoted to a group of people with a non-existent 'identity.'
This is so ridiculous on so many levels. The world has become too woke and i absolutely believe there's no such thing as non binary.
There is, just that those people have a mental illness...
Stay woke fam
Maybe part of why people aren’t completely onboard with non binary people is because like you said there’s no concrete definition. But I’ve found that a lot of non binary people from my experience have talked about how they don’t support the concept of ‘gender’ because it makes them feel trapped and like they have to conform to gender norms or something like that. It’s kinda hard for me to understand their perspective honestly. But these days you don’t really have to conform to gender norms, at least if you’re living in a progressive country like the US or Australia for example. If you’re a man who likes dressing up as a woman and has feminine interests that’s fine. Sure, there will probably be some people who make fun of you for it, but you’re still well within your right to do so. And even though I have a very androgynous haircut and have boyish interests, I’m still a woman. I sort of understand how being transgender works and believe that it is valid, but I just don’t get this non binary stuff. I of course don’t hate non binary people, I just don’t understand it. It makes no sense to me personally.
Your perception and fashion sense don't tell your gender....