🏥 DAY 1 OF TRANSPLANT EVALUATION | SHE PASSED OUT! 🏥

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  • @thefreylife
    @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    What an insane day- our first day of transplant evaluation was full- and a had few unexpected events 🤦🏼‍♀️ but we made it through and are thankful to say we conquered it!

    • @sunnya8
      @sunnya8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The Frey Life I started to pass out during my muscle biopsy last week but thankfully I was already laying down ... congratulations you did it - transplant eval done AND the world’s best Mexican food!!

    • @chaney1
      @chaney1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      fingers crossed it's the start of the journey to the results you want

    • @mariasp7007
      @mariasp7007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You did it sweetie!! Congrats to both of you for gooing through all this together
      Sending you tons of love 💕

    • @2listening1
      @2listening1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Can anyone give me the link to that video at 0:17 Where she's wagging her head in the warm looking black winter coat?? :) I know Mary is too busy to find it or she won't see this question anyways, lol. Thanks to anyone who knows where it was!

    • @stellajacobson231
      @stellajacobson231 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope your back home again with Oliver and that everything went well ❤

  • @kaylahensley9709
    @kaylahensley9709 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    How comforting Peter was when you passed out and after you said “I’m scared” actually brought me to tears. I hope one day I can find a spouse that is so beyond amazing like Peter. Wishing the best for you both 💓

  • @melissamital3523
    @melissamital3523 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    My husband works at a private airport, today the organ transportation team showed up to fly out 9 organs. Jason, my husband, was impressed by the effecientcy and organization of the team in charge of the task.

    • @melissamital3523
      @melissamital3523 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sara Jean I don't believe all of the transplant organs were going to the same place. The organs had been harvested from a local individual and dispersed from the area. Even though it is always tragic to lose a life, many others were saved by the generosity.

    • @shekeyra100
      @shekeyra100 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sara Jean hope your dad is well x

  • @shadowgirl815
    @shadowgirl815 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Who else cried when Mary passed out and was breathing with her during PFTs ? 🙋‍♀️ The birds singing for you that morning was such a beautiful blessing 💜 Keeping You, Peter and Ollie Boy Lifted In Prayer...Always 💜

    • @Pinkyhotwheels
      @Pinkyhotwheels 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shadow Girl 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️ that was scary when she passes out...& yea I’m proud of her for not coughing when she got done with PFTs!

    • @kimismith18
      @kimismith18 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm a RN and hearing that, "I'm scared." Just crushed me. I'm such a caretaker....I wanted to be there to reassure her so badly. Peter you did fantastic, btw.

    • @countrymom7438
      @countrymom7438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shadow Girl me

  • @SouthernBelle_sam
    @SouthernBelle_sam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    You two are the perfect example of what a truly great marriage, strength, positivity, courage and faith looks like!! My continued prayers💗

    • @JulieR73
      @JulieR73 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely!

    • @lynnrose7562
      @lynnrose7562 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said. :)

    • @supersparkley123
      @supersparkley123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said, I agree! They are a beautiful couple full of faith and strength! ❤️

  • @wolfsrule100
    @wolfsrule100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    You are so strong!! It hurt my heart hearing your voice after you passed out when you were afraid. Congrats on making it through the week though!

  • @selmaalva9031
    @selmaalva9031 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Love that the birds gave you a beautiful blessed send-off to your evaluation!🥰

  • @andreaberezowski998
    @andreaberezowski998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Your voice after you passed out 😢 I'm so sorry that happened. I was scared. Peter did amazing 💜

  • @savannahmitcham9650
    @savannahmitcham9650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    the way peter loves you Mary makes me emotional! I have spastic Diplegia cerebral palsy and seeing y'alls relationship gives me so much hope. Praying for you both!! Much love!!

    • @isidesiwas6680
      @isidesiwas6680 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️ blessing you in Jesus name amen!

  • @LaurenWoz421
    @LaurenWoz421 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aww I started instantly getting emotional when Mary was scared when she woke up! “What? What happened, I’m scared I’m scared” - this broke my heart for her! I know everything was fine and that reaction is normal but we just love you so much Mary and never want you to feel scared or any other negative emotion. I feel like we are family even if you can’t really know all of us like we know you. ♥️ God Bless Peter for his calm energy, strengths and concerns. We love you both. You are both amazingly strong and such a perfect team / couple! 💪 ♥️
    Ps- I ordered 2 shirts from you guys and I can’t wait to get them ! 🌻💖🌈

  • @Jennstravels
    @Jennstravels 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Praying for you all! You are strong girl! Thanks for always lifting my day with your videos. Have a great weekend! Jeremiah 29 : 11.

  • @mistycgrimm
    @mistycgrimm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I could never be in the medical field. I cried when you passed out. Couldn’t handle it! Glad you are okay!!!! 💗💗💗

  • @beckyklepper315
    @beckyklepper315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Prayers abound for you, and the eventual donors family in advance. May God prepare a place for them and give you peace beyond all understanding.

  • @StefanieRoyMusic
    @StefanieRoyMusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Day 1 of the crazy week begins for us! You must be so relieved to be home.

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stefanie, sending you a high five through this comment as your crazy week is just starting - keep on keeping on!

  • @arayofsunshine4556
    @arayofsunshine4556 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    You are a such a fighter Mary 💪♥️

  • @debbieschlemmer2746
    @debbieschlemmer2746 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks for sharing your journey in your transplant evaluation. You are awesome Mary!!!! WooHoo good job, a lot accomplished in one day!! And Peter, you are the sweetest most sincere loving husband, and so calm when Mary passed out, to give her reassurance that all was ok. I love you guys so much, and watching this makes me also think of how happy you must be to be home now. Sending my love and hugs to the three of you, see you tomorrow!

  • @brittanywatkin3134
    @brittanywatkin3134 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Duke is an amazing hospital! You are in wonderful hands! I work for the other big hospital in the area, UNC, but hear nothing but amazing things about Duke. Loved to see you enjoying yourself a little in my (basically) back yard!

  • @domidarling945
    @domidarling945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank you for publicly going through this multi transplant journey, so I can see what it'll be like when I need a heart/liver transplant! I really appreciate your vulnerability!

  • @LexiLooBelle
    @LexiLooBelle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So thankful you did it! Well done. Love how Peter could see you were about to pass out Mary. Love you guys. Thank you for sharing what is such a personal journey xx

  • @misspepe7416
    @misspepe7416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You both did so great! Thank you for letting us be part of this journey! Praying for you!

  • @suzannebossart6577
    @suzannebossart6577 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are a very brave, strong woman! Not to mention one who has a very brave, strong husband. You got this!

  • @jbaux84
    @jbaux84 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so brave!! Peter, you are an amazing support!!
    I wore my Team Frey Life shirt to work the other day and one of my co-works asked if I knew anyone with CF. I said not personally, I watch a TH-cam channel. Then she shared that 5 1/2 years ago she had a double lung transplant! I was blown away!! I never would’ve known. Made me feel good to still be spreading the word about the Frey Life and CF. You guys are a HUGE blessing in my life 💖

  • @kimberlyprzybyl4737
    @kimberlyprzybyl4737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have eaten so many meals at that Chick Fil A and spent so many hours at Duke Clinic with an ankle fusion last May! Familiar sights!!! So wished I could have come and given you two a big hug while you were there! Hugs and prayers coming for both of you!! Duke is wonderful!!

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kimberly, I'm glad you've had such great experiences at Duke - it's remarkable! And what makes it even better? - Chick-Fil-A :)

  • @Neitha98
    @Neitha98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You got this, hahaha I actually cried but because you've come so far and I always remember that it's been 4 years that I love to see you beautiful face and smile😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️🇨🇵

  • @susanne5803
    @susanne5803 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for sharing! I think it's a very wise decision to make these time delayed videos. That gives you time to process privately! Thinking very much of you! Kind regards from Europe!

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Su, we're so glad you join us from Europe!

    • @susanne5803
      @susanne5803 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thefreylife Thank you so much!🤗

  • @annettequinn2471
    @annettequinn2471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Oh my gosh the perfusion scan was the worst for me! I did not last the whole test had panic attack about not being able to breathe 😬😬
    Glad you are doing so well and only one pass out! 💜💜

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Annette, thank you for sharing with us a glimpse into your experience with perfusion scans. Keep on keeping on!

  • @cheristump9404
    @cheristump9404 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Lol. Oh gift shop! You always make me smile and inspire those around here! Prayers in the name of Jesus!

    • @fragilefleur
      @fragilefleur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I always LOVE the lightness of the gift shop when in hospitals. It's like a little oasis of light in the middle of an intense and scary place.

  • @rdm_bk6138
    @rdm_bk6138 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for allowing us to accompany us on this journey. I had no idea the process was this complicated. It broke my heart when you fainted and I wanted to jump in the phone to help you! Sending you love and prayers as always!

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! We greatly appreciate your continued prayers and encouragement!

  • @qtallstar12
    @qtallstar12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m not even a 1/4 of the way through this video and I can’t see my screen anymore. Mary will always be my hero.

  • @HorrorQueen96
    @HorrorQueen96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are a fighter Mary you are amazing seeing you and peter gives me strength I’ve been struggling so seeing this helps me

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Courtney, I'm sorry to hear you've been having a challenging time lately - keep on keeping on! I'm glad our vlogs can be a source of encouragement for you!

    • @HorrorQueen96
      @HorrorQueen96 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Frey Life do you mind if I put one of your quotes that you guys always say on my wheelchair I make decals and I want to put quotes on my wheelchair for reminder to keep going ❤️?

    • @HorrorQueen96
      @HorrorQueen96 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Frey Life also thank you so much chronic illness is rough but I’m trying to keep my head up and move forward

  • @LornaRo
    @LornaRo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mary you are a superhero. When I’ve had antibiotic tablets they wipe me out completely. You have loads of iv antibiotics and keep going. I’ve passed out before and been completely wiped out for a couple of days, you just got up and kept going. You are amazing.

  • @Judymontel
    @Judymontel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    And we are thankful for you, Mary & Peter.

  • @perucat5045
    @perucat5045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ohh when you said the "room went quite" reminded of me of my blood related passing out I think I said "im going to pass out " but im not sure if it was just in my head or not and the next thing I remember was the nurse behind me propping me up . Like you I had people telling me how brave I am but really with trust in the Lord who walks with us every day with his big old arms wrapped around us like a blanket.... bravery comes .

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing a glimpse of our story with us!

  • @shelleys5765
    @shelleys5765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    your so strong Mary, keep fighting, the Lord is your strength! And were all here to pray for you and support you!!!!! xo

  • @jacquicoder7160
    @jacquicoder7160 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Peter, once again, you have shown all of us how much you care for Mary. Your response when she passed out was so amazing - how many husbands would pass out themselves or just not have a clue what to do. Mary, you are so brave to deal with all of that poking and prodding and those PFTs - I think I would have passed out doing them. Prayers for both you, hope you are home and resting up now.

  • @lilbritt4403
    @lilbritt4403 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mary I had a radioactive die injection and kidney scan in that type of machine last yr. Had a panic attack & nausea for the first time during anything medical. I live in Australia 🇦🇺 I’m 25 and was born with Spina Bifida which affects many parts of my body.
    You’re an inspiration to me and others with chronic medical issues. God bless

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing with us a glimpse of your journey! We're so glad that our vlogs can be a source of inspiration to you and others near and far! Keep on keeping on!

    • @lilbritt4403
      @lilbritt4403 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Frey Life
      Will do! Your reply put a smile on my face.

  • @izzyb7007
    @izzyb7007 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow Peter I have to say you are so strong. When Mary passed out you were right there with her, i pray that there are more men in this world like you. God bless you guys, i pray that all things go well with Mary! You guys will be in my prayers.

  • @cressidahale8252
    @cressidahale8252 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mary you kicked butt!! Peter is so supportive of you and I’m so happy you made it through!!

  • @patriciaconstantino4669
    @patriciaconstantino4669 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are truly such an inspiration Mary.. both you and Peter lift my spirits and I know many of your followers feel the same. I truly thank God everyday that I met you, Peter and Ollie through your vlogs... thank you for sharing your journey... 💜🙏

  • @Stormy5475
    @Stormy5475 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yahll are the reason I smile and enjoy your lives. I’m on my knees all week praying over all doctors and nurses. God is goof yall.

  • @JANDK2004
    @JANDK2004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I didn’t mean to be, but I was breathing with you during the PFTs. 😂

    • @hollyosgerby1901
      @hollyosgerby1901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      JANDK2004 I was inhaling & exhaling right along with Mary as well!! 🤗❤️

    • @donnapenn9284
      @donnapenn9284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too! I have normal lungs and it was hard.

    • @melaniemcaulay9748
      @melaniemcaulay9748 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was doing the same thing lol

  • @crhone5025
    @crhone5025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mary and Peter, you two are such a dynamite team. Your strength, courage, and positive energy. I’m praying for a miracle from God. I love you both. Wished I could just give you both and Ollie the biggest hug. Hugs and prayers. 💖🙏🏻💙

  • @cghynd
    @cghynd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So proud of you Mary!!! It's totally okay if you feel scared or anything. That's normal and expected given all you've been through!!!! You are an absolute warrior, don't you EVER forget that!!! You're amazing Mary!!

  • @fragilefleur
    @fragilefleur 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    only passing out once means you are a freaking rockstar!! I used to almost pass out at just a blood draw of the normal kind from same vasovagal response. I am super excited for you to have this all overwith but wow what a freaking nightmare day!! Sounds like that post the mega tons of tests you needed a reality check of the day. You did good to power out of the hospital mode and into fun mode for recovering from such a crappy day. YOU DID IT! It sounds like the convo with the pulmonologist was too much to take in with all the test stress. Too bad they couldn't stretch it out a bit more. II hope you are not overwhelmed after that week. I would be! Relieved but still overwhelmed. Peter, ya did good to stop shooting film when Mary was passing out and talking her through going out and waking back up. GOOD job to you both. Anything you want/need from Seattle, let us know. much love and you are still you, very much so you are you. You look like you, you performed like you and you are smart enough to take a break after the requirements were done at the end of the day! ONE down, four to go, but knowing you're done makes me wonder how you're doing after it all. Looking forward to watching and learning your progression of treatment and plans and questions answered. You guys feel like never met before family as we have a load of medical crap to cope with in our house too. We've had home kidney bags and me changing bandages and my partner having to change mine. We are similar but we don't have one healthy person, just two chronic sick peeps. Glad you have Peter on full health status for this. I'm sure it's overwhelming for him but he's doing freaking great too. We're walking beside you in spirit here. GO Frey's go!!

  • @babynursegreen3193
    @babynursegreen3193 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been praying for you Mary. You are such an amazingly strong person.... Peter is such a strong, calm presence. 💗

  • @megandressler1757
    @megandressler1757 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are an inspiration to me. I was diagnosed with leukemia and just got diagnosed with avascular necrosis of my femoral heads. Watching your videos have given me a new insite on life and my illness. You both have allowed me to push forward and live through Christ! Good luck with your treatments and scans! Prayers!!

  • @valleygirlgg
    @valleygirlgg 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mary you are so brave and accept what ever comes your way with grace. I admire you. I also suffer from lung disease and I have considered transplant and need one but my heart began to suffer and I can't have it but I am very excited for you. I hope you can get it! You are young and have your whole life a head of you. Mine is half over. You go girl! Thank you for sharing this and allowing us to come along with you on your journeys. I really enjoy them

  • @little72867
    @little72867 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mary and Peter, I wish all the best. God bless you both. I don't know any with CF, but It showed up in my recommended for you. I guess because I like to watch medical videos as being an EMT. My heart goes out to you and Peter. Peter, you are a saint and thank god she has you to walk beside her. I am drawn to your personalty Mary, your such a positive young lady and I don't know how you do it. I had a heart attack and had to have stents put in and I was a nervous wreck. Many hugs, much love and a ton of prayers to you, Peter, the transplant team and all the other medical personal that will be in your life.

  • @monicauyeno7368
    @monicauyeno7368 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I went on this transplant Journey with my father for lungs. It was about 10 years ago. I also made a binder to help manage everything! It was awesome I couldn't control anything except for that flow of information what was expected so it really helped call my mind ( and organizing soul!) But there was a group of people there for our orientation before we split up and continuously met one another in hallways so we actually were able to build a sense of camaraderie and shared Journey. Very similar schedule and the information overload was intense. He opted not to get it for a variety of reasons but it was eye-opening to say the least. I wish you coma Peter, Ollie's, and your family and friends the best of luck with everything. Thank you for sharing your experience cuz just giving me a new understanding of what had gone on at that time.

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Monica, thank you for sharing a glimpse of your story with us, and for walking alongside of us in our journey.

  • @lirpa1981
    @lirpa1981 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m praying, not only for Mary and Peter, but for every medical professional, doctor, specialist, nurse, technician and aid that is treating, examining you as well as performing procedures and surgery on you. Praying God gives them all wisdom and knowledge and that they are able to convey information to the two of you that not only educates you, but also puts your minds at ease. Good things are happening here, I believe that! God Is GOOD!

  • @sophieleanna9391
    @sophieleanna9391 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was just telling hubby today how awesome Mary and Peter Frey are. I watch everyday and some times he watches with me. Mary your courage is astounding; and Peter sounded so calm and collected when you passed out. You both truly are an amazing team. Thank you both for vlogging this. It really helps me know that I can get be brave too when faced with scary medical procedures.

  • @MsJesse2011
    @MsJesse2011 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got so scared hearing your voice after you passed out! I’m glade that Peter was there with you and I’m praying for you both on this journey y’all are on

  • @laurelbee9810
    @laurelbee9810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    But first: tornado warning. Yep that’s NC for ya 😂

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mary, right?! What an experience! 😂

    • @raynalangdon8158
      @raynalangdon8158 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I remember that day, there were back to back tornado warnings!

  • @cherylcarlson3315
    @cherylcarlson3315 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    ABG are the worst. 2 yrs in a row haven't been able to get it without digging endlessly. One year was told I wasn't breathing normally! Was trying not to scream and pass out on the second stab, last year she hit the nerve, never got blood. Thanks to Peter for being so patient and observant, hard to do this alone

  • @coralinejones956
    @coralinejones956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mary I have been following your journey for years and I have been waiting for this upload all week and I started bawling my eyes out when you passed out and I just want you to know that you have so much support here from me and my husband. Prayers from my family 💙 even though I don't know you I feel like I do I feel like I know you want a personal level and your strength has inspired me to gain the weight I need to gain in my anorexia recovery and tonight I am getting chick-fil-a just for you sweet girl!!!!😭😭💙 you stay strong and brave OK! I love you!💖💖💖💖🙏🙏

    • @Lori_L
      @Lori_L 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you see this note and I'm glad you left your comment because I wanted to encourage YOU to keep fighting. I had anorexia for over 15 years and almost died a couple times. with a lot of hard work I was able to fully recover though. I wanted to encourage you to keep fighting. If Chick-fil-A will get you on your path, terrific. Don't ever give up though and know that full recovery is possible

    • @coralinejones956
      @coralinejones956 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Lori_L omg thank you SO MUCH for your beautiful words of encouragement 😭💖💖🙏 you're so amazing for recovering!! In December of 2017 my BMI dropped to 9 and the ER doctor told me 2 things: 1. I was way too sick for a feeding tube and 2 that I was more than likely going to die and he could not do anything to save my life. But I did gain some weight back but I still live with a physical consequence of having a mini stroke and a brain atrophy as a result with siezure. But I'm refusing to keep relapsing and push through! I cannot thank you enough for your words🙏💖💖💖

    • @Lori_L
      @Lori_L 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@coralinejones956 - I've been in your shoes and suffer major physical consequences but I'm alive when so many are not. It's important that I make the most of the life that I've been given. I lost too much to ED and now I strive to make the most of the gift of life. The key is to find your core issues. Rarely is food or weight the issue but the symptom of the problem. I would put money on the fact that you are strong though otherwise you still wouldn't be here. So use that strength to heal. When it comes down to it, our bodies are just the vehicle that carries our soul. How well we care for that vehicle determines how well the ride is going to be. I hope you can learn from some of my mistakes and have a smoother ride so to speak. Prove the doctors wrong too. become another that has recovered. By your TH-cam name it looks like that you have been on that Journey. Keep on going

  • @vloglover257
    @vloglover257 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praying for y’all! Your faith and reliance on the Lord never ceases to encourage me as I fight my own battle with chronic illness. Keep trusting Him and relying on His strength!

  • @reneechristensen2607
    @reneechristensen2607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are so strong! I can’t imagine the nerves and emotions you have been going through. I love you both! Sending lots of love, prayers, support and strength!

  • @carolynkid216
    @carolynkid216 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have had a kidney transplant and get labs on a very regular basis. If you don't already do this, ask for a 'butterfly' needle for your blood draws. When they swap out the tubes, with the butterfly, they don't keep putting pressure on the needle that is in your vein. I also ask for an experienced lab tech. I don't want anyone who has to dig and dig for my veins. They blow too easily as it is. If they really have to fuss to get a vein, ask for someone from the IV therapy team. They are usually the best of the best when it comes to finding veins. I hate getting blood gases drawn, which thankfully is not very often. That just flat out hurts!!! All the best to you. And yes, God is in control. Keep trusting Him.

  • @sarahsherrod2012
    @sarahsherrod2012 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so glad your first day went well except for passing out! It sounds like you were in good hands. I know it’s over, but I’m hopeful the rest of the tests went well. Praying for you guys!

  • @kathleenfannin1375
    @kathleenfannin1375 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to admit that I was breathing very heavy when I heard you had to have an ABG. I passed out when I had the same thing when I went for lung transplant evaluation. I've learned anytime I have blood drawn, to lay down. It is a very weird sensation when you can feel yourself start to pass out. I also was breathing in step when you were doing the long PFT session. Thankfully, my evaluation didn't go on for 5 days and after many years on the transplant list, I got better and didn't need one. I'm hoping and praying the same for you Mary!!!! Hang tough and keep looking up!!!

  • @juliherron8991
    @juliherron8991 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You did do for the whole week, I am so proud of guy's. Reminder to everyone, you chose to be brave, to step forward and leave the past behind. 😊😊😊

    • @Lori_L
      @Lori_L 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great points except not everyone can choose to leave the past behind (I.e. PTSD). That part isn't always that simple

    • @juliherron8991
      @juliherron8991 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Lori_L will yes, but doing the healing work will simplify the ability to have dealt with it and letting go, choose to move on with your life, Mary has shown , don't be the victim when it is no longer happening. I understand, been there -lived through that. I will be praying for you. 🙏🙏🙏 Remenber and stand proud if- for you are one of our Lord children, you are a royal princess daughter of the King of Kings.

  • @laurasmith8348
    @laurasmith8348 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey! Congrats for making the decision to go for the transplant(s). My husband had a liver transplant in 1995 and while they were sucking all of his blood out, he started feeling dizzy. One of the nurses showed me a recliner just for people to rest in (mostly men). They draw a tremendous amount of blood during an evaluation.

  • @tayleafs
    @tayleafs 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Peter you are such a supportive husband, and Mary, you have such a heart of gold, I'm wishing you two all the best in life.

  • @abbymcbride9947
    @abbymcbride9947 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's hard to belive you guys are in my home state! I wish I could meet you, but I know this is a rough period in your lives. I know you hear this a lot, but you both are so inspiring. I work at Walmart, and deal with lots of not so nice people. You two inspire me to be kind and make the best out of every day. You also help me see that every situation is different and it's hard to tell what people are going through. Thank you ❤.

  • @traceywatson2092
    @traceywatson2092 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You can do all things through God who strengthens you. Praying for Mary, Peter, your families and the medical team caring for Mary. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

  • @lorikiszkawoods9350
    @lorikiszkawoods9350 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so proud of the two of you. I can't even imagine how hard this must be!

  • @lindawalters4098
    @lindawalters4098 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am in tears for you Mary,Peter by your side as soon as you needed him.Love you two so much 💖💖💖

  • @debbie7771
    @debbie7771 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I find my nervous belly to goes away when I’m actually doing the thing. It’s always so much worse the days before. Taking action always helps. Go Mary and Peter. This 15 minute video gave me so much hope and strength. You’re in my prayers every night.

  • @lynnham6896
    @lynnham6896 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stay strong Mary. I love watching you everyday. I will be having my port surgery on May 29 in the morning. So will be watching when I feel awake to see you that day. Sending lots of prayers for all of you. You can do it. God never gives us to much to deal with.

  • @JanPstitches
    @JanPstitches 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh what a difficult day for you both! Continue to stand on your faith- God is ABLE! Mary you were sitting soooo still during that lab draw.... both of you have amazing strength. I endured a tornado warning my first week working at Duke many years ago!!

  • @TheLoreann
    @TheLoreann 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh Mary you are so brave and strong, you are my daughters age and when I saw you in that big hospital doing such hard task you looked like a little girl to me I just wanted to hug you. But your not a little girl your a warrior and you are lighting the way for so many people that might have to go through this type thing. By taking us along people will know what to expect. Blessings for you and Peter.

  • @Fowlersyndrome
    @Fowlersyndrome 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so beautiful and strong Mary, and God will guide you through this big journey you are embarking on, and with Peter by your side, you will get through it all. You are so awesome and I’m happy you got through day 1 of your transplant evaluations. Good luck with Day 2 with the NG tubes, I pray all goes well for you Mary. 😊

  • @LaurenLillianHaggerty
    @LaurenLillianHaggerty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had a similar thing happen to me the last time I had needles digging about in and out of my arm before a procedure. It's kind of like dysautonomia, your body kinda reacting to the thing happening to you. I've never fainted prior to this but it is insane! Very odd feeling. I have EDS, possibly Dysautonomia, Gastroparesis and MCAD. We shall see, thankfully I'm starting to understand my body more but every now and again it likes you throw us curve balls.
    You've got this Mary. 💜

  • @wietskevaatstra9847
    @wietskevaatstra9847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In tears as my heart goes out to you precious Mary. Praying for strength for you both. You are so courageous and an inspiration! 🙏❤️
    “The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms”
    ‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭33:27

  • @pattyfluegel7816
    @pattyfluegel7816 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are still going to be you Mary. No matter what, you're not going to lose yourself. Dont be afraid.

  • @calibateman
    @calibateman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so powerful. Watching this, I was so amazed you made it through all of this.

  • @AshleysMommy
    @AshleysMommy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so proud of Mary. She’s a trooper. And you, Peter for being a wonderful supportive husband through it all. You got this. I’m rooting for you all the way from France.

  • @jolenehauck7019
    @jolenehauck7019 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You got this Mary! The birds were sending you off in style! 💗💗💗💖💖💖🤗🤗 praying for you both as always!

  • @melissacaudell1622
    @melissacaudell1622 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hang in there Mary and Peter. God is with you all the way . We are all praying for you guys

  • @MissAlChaos
    @MissAlChaos 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love watching through your journey for the last couple of years and my prayers are with you with this journey you currently venturing through.

  • @raynalangdon8158
    @raynalangdon8158 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Duke is an amazing hospital! They literally saved my Mom's life. You're in the best hands at Duke University Hospital, Mary!!

  • @elizabethmion4595
    @elizabethmion4595 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I think those birds were wishing you good luck before your appointments. 💙

  • @christinesilvey9665
    @christinesilvey9665 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am with you, I used to pass out when they would take the needle out. You are so lucky when you did your PFT, I have to be in a glass room the whole time. I am so happy for you to get your transplant. Take care. Feel better.

  • @laym1003
    @laym1003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Day 1 ✅ Mary you’re a rockstar!!!!!! I’m so glad you’re back at home after conquering the week!

  • @christygalyon4049
    @christygalyon4049 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just love ya'll!! Thank you for sharing with us

  • @kellyreed2768
    @kellyreed2768 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sending prayers. You are so strong Mary. ❤💜

  • @bedifferent93
    @bedifferent93 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aaaah I cried when Mary said she was scared 😭 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Jamie-tk9dg
    @Jamie-tk9dg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so proud of you Mary, and Peter too. I know you e made it through!! I meant to say before that I've had a heart cath and it's not nearly as bad as I thought. Thank you both for sharing this journey with us. I love you both and you're in my prayers always 🙏❤️

  • @ekwrocks
    @ekwrocks 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have all the faith in the world in you two! You will fulfill your purpose! May God continue to hold you and keep and bless you! Your outlook is remarkable and you are an inspiration for so many!!

  • @regalkammerlocher6162
    @regalkammerlocher6162 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so happy that it seems like you guys have had some good people taking care of you so far in this journey. It makes my heart happy for you. Such a hard time that could be made harder by people who weren’t so helpful.

  • @marykowalski7349
    @marykowalski7349 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh, what a tough day!! I love the way you embraced checking off all those stabbings and that you remained your sweet self throughout the day. I'm sorry for all you have to go through but you show us every day how you two are a team. Together, you're better. Just Breathe!!

  • @janineschindler2966
    @janineschindler2966 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so unbelievably strong. You got this..glad your ok from passing out. That worried me.

  • @ArstyImogenSky
    @ArstyImogenSky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You did it though Mary! It’s so warm there, I never thought about tornadoes though 😳😳😳

  • @SweetXOXO31
    @SweetXOXO31 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I give you SO MUCH credit for all you are enduring! I just came home from 22 tubes of blood with crappy veins and I ALMOST passed out but didn’t! But I give you so much credit because I hear ABG’s hurt!! 😢 lots of love & prayer to you Mary!! And good job peter! You are an awesome support person!

  • @michellec7996
    @michellec7996 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow what a day! You guys are amazing!! I'm so happy this week is almost over. Hope you are getting all your questions answered. Love you both. Praying for you. Have a safe trip home!!

    • @thefreylife
      @thefreylife  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Michelle, thank you for your prayers and encouragement! We greatly appreciate it! :)

  • @mrssmurf55
    @mrssmurf55 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your Amazing your bravery astounds me !Praying all goes well for you!

  • @karenwebster3410
    @karenwebster3410 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so sorry Mary that you passed out! I’m an RT and ABGs are not always so much fun. Hang in there!!

  • @judycoulter4556
    @judycoulter4556 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wow. This really touched my heart. I think you were really blessed to not feel the ABGs . prayers for you and your family.

  • @HippieNikkiTheTopeteTribe
    @HippieNikkiTheTopeteTribe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for filming all of this! It is so informative!!! Mary you have such amazing posture! Random thing to notice 🤪

  • @MsLizzy2010
    @MsLizzy2010 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are so strong! Thank you for always sharing your journey. I have had a rough couple of days and it's nice just to hear from you guys. I pray for you both daily