Advice from a life coach: you are NOT too old
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ย. 2024
- Midlife is not a death sentence and life is not all downhill after 40! We're conditioned to believe that once we're beyond our 20's and 30's that life is over, that there's nothing else left, and that there's nothing left to do but sit back and let nature take it's course. In this video, I challenge this old way of thinking, and offer a new perspective on aging. No, you are not to old - you are NEVER to old - to do anything in life that you want to do.
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My mother was still attending rock concerts at 90! Age is all in your head.
Dear Tiffany, thank you so much for this discussion today! I am 71, almost 72 years old. I had these realisations some years ago! I totally agree!! Occasionally come across people my age who are simply giving up! This makes me so sad. Currently I am lobbying the politicians for improved women’s rights, and am seriously considering writing a book for women. I have much in the way of life experience, and get quite irate when I see inequality! Injustice!! Sorry, I’m sure you get my vibes! Lolol. Seriously though, I’m so thrilled to see a lady like yourself speaking publicly about this unhealthy idea that “ over 50 is old!!” Thank you so much! Namaste, Brigid from Australia 🙏🌹🌈💚💕👌
Thank you Brigid! Thanks for watching and for your lovely comment😊
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I'm 28 my wife is 60
Were from Ireland
I just saw The Rolling Stones and I don't believe they've ever had that attitude about aging. Definitely One of the greatest concert experiences i've ever had. I hope many people hear your message and wake up about how precious later life is.
yes! a great example of not letting age get in the way!
Thank you because I almost gave up today.
I am in my early 60’s and received my Masters in my 50. I am disabled from a stroke then got sick again diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis.
So now I am trying to get my license to be a therapist and it’s difficult. I had 3 people very close to me pass : my mom, my aunt, my uncle and my nephew who lived with me was murdered. I took care of my mother when she was sick and I diagnosed with cancer. Recently, I reconnected after 40 years with my high school sweetheart. He was my boyfriend all through high school and I loved him. I left him because he kept other woman in my face.
Now he’s back in my life but he’s wanting a woman who is financially stable. I am starting over trying to regain what I lost when I was sick. I don’t want to lose him but I need to face being alone. So yes I almost just gave up because someone said to me you will be 70 and what are you going to do? That question made me feel like my life is over and I am too old to try and get my life back.
Thank you. 43 and still dreaming. ❤❤❤
absolutely!
Tiffany, age should never define us. And always know you're beautiful on the inside and out 🙏
My parents had me at an older age and they were active, with a group of friends.
that's amazing and so so important! thank you for sharing!
I'm 70 and retired for the best part of ten years and I still have ideas of adventure. I have already done wonderful things and know I will never do all the things that are possible for a person to do but the future is NOW not next year or next week. Learn to live in the present and don't think of not being here in the months and years ahead or the thought of time will become your enemy.
You're right - the future is now! Thanks for sharing!!!
Very inspiring. As a former hip-hop recording artist who also worked in the entertainment industry I recall moments sharing my music with some peers at a prestigious company i worked for. Some would take a liking to the uniqueness of my wacky sound, playful recording style & visuals. I'd ending up meeting face to face with some gatekeepers where they'd pop the question, "how old are you?" My response over the years, "28-29-30" where i'd get hit with "oh you look so young though" or "i thought you were younger than that!". Once my age was revealed (to those older than me might I add) the convos. shifted. One peer told me "man i love what youre doing but you should definitely go the indy route because you're older & more experienced & the people who i can introduce you to are going to want your publishing & i'm in sure you aren't interested in that". It dawned on me.. the industry thrives off taking advantage of younger, naive, limited life experienced artists. I started chopping off 3 years just to get on people's radar. I got so jaded to where I focused my efforts elsewhere. In hindsight they were wrong as the internet democratized the whole industry. Age became a number. 2Chains as a hip-hop artist was 36 when he became a prominent figure. Charles Bradley signed his very first recording deal in his 60s after being a diamond in the rough for over 30 years. But to think of all the people who gave up on their recording dreams too early because they felt they were too old (me being one) when in fact plenty get better with time..its so unfortunate. It's a premature death. I've been trying to my encourage 40+ peers with a high skill set to get back to it as their experiences now would be highly valuable to the genre at large.
Wow - that is an amazing story! I'm sure you are a great inspiration to that 40+ age group - thank you for sharing!!
😂😂😂a good friend used to say, we're not getting old we're getting wiser 😅😅
like a fine wine....we all get better with age 😉
Tiffany You shaking the pillars of social beliefs = > GO FOR IT!
The soul is ageless.
There are many older people, like me (62) for whom "the plan" did not materialise and so, at a senior age, we still need to work. I find that society (and employers) have a diminished view of our worth and there is an attitude that goes something like this: "You had your chance, you blew it, now f**k off and die and get out of the way for the younger generation."
Sadly, many older people have the life experience, wisdom and expertise to contribute and indeed, the desire and stamina to do so, but other members of society shoe-horn them into a labelled category where their value is diminished and disrespected.
I've been seeing this more and more, especially in the workplace - and it's a loss for everyone when 'older' people are pushed aside - such a loss of wisdom, knowlege and experience!
Its like people don't realise we're all part of the cycle of life,.. Well this realisation will come in time ofcourse,. But I also feel eventually this stance will change as A.I. will defenitely level the playing field and will force us all to take a more humanitairian stance. I wish you the best of like brother. ✌🏼👊🏼❤
I'm 50 and was recently diagnosed with Parkinsons disease. However I have seen this as an opportunity and have now started to improve my education, something I did not get to do when I was younger. Hopefully I'll be able to become self employed in a couple of years. If you believe in yourself, what can stop you?
thank you for sharing! Keep believing in yourself - sounds like you're on an inspiring journey!
Oh I agree completely, 48 isn't too old to be a creaky gramps. couple more years, I'll be cashing in on those senior discounts at Denny's. Hey, will you go with me? It's a real pain pushing my wheelchair alone. I make you deal, you push and I buy
Thank You 🙏
endless blessings to you and your family
honestly this video is an eye openener...thanks Tiffany for sharing this pleasant insightful video..."Age is a Perspective" is a golden message to everyone...becuz when you change this one perception , you also change your self-image...change your story....change your life....life is a journey...enjoy everymoment of it...🌟✨🌟✨🌟✨🌟✨🌟
thank you!
@@TiffanyClayTV You are welcome🙏
Wonderful ! I Never think : I will die. I do not understand why ? !
not that you won't die, or that you should be scared of it.....it's that people give up on life when they have so many years left to live as if they were sitting there waiting to die, which is really sad! I've seen that happen and it's a shame that these people could have enjoyed their lives more.
Brilliant video very encouraging
" old ideas / old conditions " love that !! Subscribed.
Awesome, thank you!
Thank you from the heart.
Thanks. I needed to hear this.
Glad it was helpful!
Menopause zaps the life out of so many women. It is psychologically and physically devastating. Added to that, turning 60 has definitely made finding a job so much more difficult.
Beautiful & uplifting thank you ❤
You are so welcome
Dear Tiffany, thank you so much for this uptdate.But....the Wall is undefeatable. Despite all beauty products women use to have used. It's Time, and time has no mercy.
Awesome tutorial, very helpful through your positive insights. Cheers! 😊😊🌹🌹
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you 🙏
When you're not happy with yourself and feel like you are stuck with no way forward it's hard to imagine the future.
Thank you! 🤍
I'm almost 32 and I already feel too old when I go out in parties. I have little time left in my youth to start socializing or even attempting to approach women. I feel old and defeated. I hate being alive. Have done absolutely NOTHING with my life. No purpose no interests. No money.
It’s probably just easier for you because you’re so unbelievably beautiful but you make a lot of sense as well thanks for the video take care miss
I was always told by my parents that as you age, that is once you hit 30, your body starts falling apart and health goes bad, blah, blah, blah. I’ve never accepted that 🐴💩 and now I’ll be 50 this year, I bike to work and go on 60 to 70 miles out of town rides regularly, work on my strength training, and I think the most important thing is to steer clear of processed and packaged foods. Eating clean keeps you running better. Last time I graduated from a university (the third time) I was 46. Totally do-able. I couldn’t imagine retiring and just sitting around. Too much to experience.
I wonder if the current stereotypes are based on A. the past, when most people were often declining in health due to living conditions and poorer medical care available or B. people's own personal laziness; using age as an excuse not to make any effort and let yourself decline. I know so many people who use the excuse "I'm old." to not do any physical activity. And yet I know people older than them who are in better shape and do much more.
yes - I think both are true! And how a person thinks ends up determining their quality of life - I know a 90+ year old who's still playing tennis and socializing and I know a 70+ year old who's given up on life and spent most of the last 20 years on the couch.
Thank you for this
you're welcome!
Thanks!
How do I find out what lights me up? I keep hearing advice about doing what you love and are passionate about.
By getting very curious as being brave enough to go through with what ever curiosities toil around in your mind.
"It's weird to discover you're the same age as old people." Other than the options changing constantly, there is no reason why life should get less interesting with age. And there have never been any guarantees either way anyway, so why ponder on it? Some options are missed for ever, but it is like that for everyone. You can't enjoy an early start and sleepin' in simultaneously. Choosing is an essential part of being chosen.
Great advice!
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment
@@TiffanyClayTV No problem! Have a great week!
Exactly,it matters what you believe
Thank you.
Thank you 🇬🇧
you're welcome 🙂
How lovely....❤❤🌹🌺☀️
Wow wow❤
We are all human beings
Then have taken the Advanced Meditation Program😊😊😊
Young
I 46 no kids, with boyfriend who doesnt want to talk much and says its normal, mother who is angry with me cause I live abroad. I dont feel sorry for myself , just would like to finally change it but dont know how to start- dont have power:(
you always have power, even if it doesn't feel like it, It's there....
Gonna turn 26 in a couple of months 26 is making depressed
Stars
Amen! 😊
i know one thing at 62 im done with women.last straw was last friday night a beautiful gal from high school got ahold of me we set up date her ex husbamd a cop started making my life miserabile.ill stay with my dog im good
I'm 57. Life feel like there is nothing left worth doing. My bucket is empty.
I’m 47 and I’m starting to feel the same way.
If i need a coach, im too old and 2 ugly!
I turned 47 this year and my hair is starting to go grey I’m starting to feel ancient and irrelevant.
That Is what I was told. I'm to old, that is weird AGE should not mattef
no it shouldn't - ageism is the one thing that isn't being talked about enough!
Yes, I am too old. I am 62
62 isn’t that old
Lucky
And you are still Prety
Ananda
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Reach the holy spirit as love and we are the same age at "lived a long life" as Laws faith Love is Jesus Christ Lord..back to god
Well, I’m too something.
some next level cope
“Society” - who is society?
We are not victims of society. “Society”doesn’t force us to do anything- I hate the helpless, victim mindset. It’s counterproductive and a LIE.
People choose a path in life and if they end up not liking their choices and the consequences of their choices, they relieve themselves of the guilt and blame society.
If you don’t like the consequences of your choices, change your choices NOT blame society.
Also, life isn’t a linear process- life has ups and downs and it’s important to let the ups and downs be our teacher, our tour guide.
You do not know what you're talking about. I am 68. I haven't had a relationship since I was 22. I have been constantly rejected by women since then. I gave up on women 10 years ago.
I'm sorry for the disappointment that you've endured most of your life. I understand, I too am a 68 year old man. My last significant relationship was when I was 42. When I reach out to women in their 50's, they all reject me because the number 68 scares them away, even though I'm physically, financially in decent shape. Apparently, women set the "bar" even higher as they age. Most women still look for a 6 ft. tall man, makes 6 figures, and has 6 pack abs. I'm 5 /7 , too short for most women and too old. And I'm definitely not interested in women in their 60's, and 99% of them aged like sour milk. I look younger than 99% of them. It really doesn't matter what I think because ultimately all of life is in God's plans and purposes for each individuals life. If its God's plan for you or me to finally be with a woman who will spend the rest of our lives with, then it'll happen. If not, then it means we make peace with it and live the rest of our life alone. It's very difficult, next to impossible to find a woman at our age, but its possible when it's the will of God. I don't know if this encouraged you, but I'm just telling you how I approach still being single at 68. God bless you in your own personal life journey.
Sounds like you gave up on everyone long before that time. What about the men you know? Do you have friends, or do you want friends? Maybe you need some therapy? It's not too late. You may not be crazy, but you just won't accept that everyone else is. Read the great books? Travel and don't worry about fitting in. Work on chilling out, and living what's left of your life your way. That's what I'm doing. I'm 69, and trying to hang tough. No expectations. Just party when I can, and living life. Don't be bitter. Be grateful you've come this far, while so many others have fallen be the wayside. That's all I got, pilgrim. Carry on...
What a pessimistic view. Abviously I't doesn't have nothing with your age.
Where is the man in your life?
Your only old when you throw in the towel 😢
Not true. Its definitely all downhill from 40.
This coming from an attractive, prolly “kept” woman in good health. Age is age, Madam. Many in middle age are not healthy nor well and so this diluted thinking is just trite and inaccurate. Good day.
I’m 45 and I get some ageism on occasion. One thing I like to do is look for famous people still kicking butt physically who are older than me. Tom Cruise still doing insane stunts and running. Mike Tyson is in phenomenal shape and getting ready to fight. Hugh Jackman got in incredible shape for the new Wolverine movie.
Any age comes with limitations as of the things we can do. This feel-good BS that we can do anything and everything no matter our age is non-sensical.
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