@@tuckandsammie Tucker, you are one hell of a of a stand up gentleman, you know , you have to deal with idiots on you social media platforms and in life, from me to you ultimate like 👍 the way you handled yourself, I'm from Manchester England, forget negativity, peace and love for you and your family
I love how you owned your reaction to this kind of behavior from others. He was a hard one and you are learning and growing from it. The universe will test us and you are spot on with your yearning for a better approach😊
meself had great customers because they said it was so cheap and worked properly the smart TV only they called about the remote as they did not know what to press after telling them what to press they never called again because the instructions booklet of remote meself threw to the rubbish bin Anyways some customers do act weird that side in USA maybe because they want to buy and take the parts and call you and say it is bad thinking that you not a technician of devices you reselling most do that they buy because it is cheaper and take it remove all the parts and later want their money back so they call and say it is not working
You posted it AS IS!! You were correct taking it back, because people like that will just cause you major headaches!! I get what you said about trying not to allow things to trigger you. I'm 66 and I also have a temper. I've learned to deal with it better, and you will too. You're on the perfect track by recognizing the problem. You got this young man!!
One of the things I make sure when selling electronic things is to check that they work before selling. If you have the portable electricity battery, show the customer that it works, then there are no complaints.
Sold as is..but if you are buying something bring a battery bank…it’s really not on the seller and that policy crap doesn’t matter people can make a million different facebooks
Exactly!!!! Can’t dig crap out of the trash and not test it. Crazy spending time selling stuff and possibly sell something not working. That wouldn’t bring back customers. Test it and show it works, then maybe will bring further sales in the future.
Real Growth today Tucker !! Humanity is nothing to be ashamed of in this case. I've been watching your Vlogs for years and I'm so proud of you. Honestly, all the times I've seen you be so caring and giving to so many others, far outweighs this minor blip today. Self awareness is such a gift to yourself. Keep moving forward teaching and entertaining us. Many Blessings Tucker !!
You shouldn’t have told him you got it out of the trash. Of course he’s going to think it doesn’t work. Always test your items. No one wants to buy something that doesn’t work.
Tucker , I think a lot of people try to take average of your kindness, if he was that concerned about things working, he would invest in something that would be able to help him, well done for standing up for yourself 🤜🏼 respect from England 🏴
Here's an analogy I found this morning. I apply it to myself first. Hope it helps. It's a little long but good. I LOVE THIS ANALOGY: You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your arm, making you spill your coffee everywhere. Why did you spill the coffee? "Because someone bumped into me!!!" Wrong answer. You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup. Had there been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea. Whatever is inside the cup is what will spill out. Therefore, when life comes along and shakes you (which WILL happen), whatever is inside you will come out. It's easy to fake it, until you get rattled. So we have to ask ourselves... “what's in my cup?" When life gets tough, what spills over? Joy, gratitude, peace and humility? Anger, bitterness, victim mentality and quitting tendencies? Life provides the cup, YOU choose how to fill it. Today let's work towards filling our cups with gratitude, forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation, resilience, positivity; and kindness, gentleness and love for others.
AllSounds Good on PAPER? All Human! Worst are the LIBS/Left that Push messages of Tolerance! UGH!!!!! They atr the WORST! & LEAST TOLERANT! Mostly Talk! As Long as Thins Go Their Way.
Perfectly said, I think Tucker has a lot of built up anger. He often makes inappropriate comments. Needs to realise plenty of people have more life experience. Respect
I was in retail and resell for many years. I always went by the old motto, the customer is always right, although 30% were not. Also never lose your temper with a customer. A very hard thing to do, takes a lot of control.I also would have “as is, no refunds” in listing if for some reason I couldn’t test myself. You are a very hard working man, don’t let your temper get the best of you, working on it is a true sign of maturity. Good luck with your business. Your daughter is growing up so quickly, she is truly loved.
I guess it depends if the listing states NOT Tested. $30 for some non working stuff would be a rip off. I understand both sides but I’ve found it always pays to be clear in the listing. Communication is key! Keep on keepin on!
Yes. Every single time I have sold old electronics, I always made sure they all worked. $30 in today's economy can be a lot for some people. After watching this, I think if I ever sell something old again I will video tape me making sure it worked just to avoid conflict if the buyer takes it home and a day later wants to claim it didn't work .
@@edwass5938 Yeah I actually did not have as is posted in the listing but I for sure should have and usually do. I have a large amount of electronics to move so I may just make a new listing with like 12 VCRs, DVD players, stereos, and other stuff for someone who wants to test and sell piece by piece.
I say try it before you buy it i sell items from time to time if you test it first that way you don’t run into a problem great video tucker thank you for sharing .
I know how it feels when you meet someone to sell something on marketplace that's rude. It almost makes you want to quit selling. But I guess it's part of the deal. There is always going to meet someone that just pisses you off. I am sure you will sell the rest with no problem. Keep on Pushing❤️❤️
Thanks to you & videos like this, I just sold 3 items on FB Marketplace this week. I made a quick 50$. Thanks for the tips. A couple of days ago, like you, I similarly overreacted to a situation and spoke out of turn to someone. She was in the wrong, but I should have held my tongue. We are all on a journey of self-awareness & growth. The first step in changing a behavior is recognizing that you do something that you wish to change and make an effort to change. Life is a journey.
That interaction was wild. He probably went home thinking the items didn’t work because who would go all the way there just to not do the sale with the stipulation being the item working lol. Sounds like you’re still learning yours ways and trying to adjust. That’s what life is about. Good vid, yew 🤘
Hey Tucker don't be too hard on yourself.Were all on a learning curve down here on earth.lol.I work in retail and it gets very wearing people always WANT MORE.Those 4 great items would've gotten for 30$$ ??? COME ON NOW YA CHEAPSKATE!!I mean geez it's practically FREE!!good grief I wanted to smack him upside the head myself.On a topnote I loved "David Soul" back in the day.lol.totally forgot about him.Appreciate you showing us the ropes n keepn it real.Keep up the good but hard work you do😊
Good for you, Tucker. I've watched dozens of your videos and you are nothing but chill and positive all the time, but there are boundaries and we all have them. It's good to see you standing up for yourself as a reminder to the rest of us that we all have limits. Not only that, but you're standing up to the rules of Marketplace- no refunds!
No!!! I spoke too soon. Tucker. Seeing you do that helped lots of us. You showed the man you weren’t taking the crap. It was a great deal. You seem to have a heart of gold. You and Sammie are great people raising the sweetest baby girl. Praying you find peace with yourself because you really were in the right🙌🏽🙌🏽
Tucker, I've been watching you for years now and you are doing great, as a man, a son, a father and husband. I know we only see a small snippet of your life. But as long as you continue to strive to be better, that's all anyone can ask. Hello to Sammie and Finn!!❤
Tucker at 75 years I have seen that type of of personality often. I feel you were correct then and your thoughts now are correct as well especially if you get to deal with with it in a positive way
I've been watching you for quite a long time Tucker. I'm proud of how much you have changed and grown up. Never be afraid to express your feelings. Love you all.
I want commend you for being REAL!! You are right where you should be. Believe it or not, most people start "waking up" to how to handle life situations. Kudos to your growth and awareness!! May God continue to work in your lives to bring HIM glory! 🎉
Tucker, I love you man. You have the greatest personality and I love the growth I have seen with you over the years. You’re doing great, and good on you for reflecting. Peace ☮️ ❤
That baby rocking chair ...well my 3 babies all used the same one. It was that style and just last year I painted it white and put all different fabric on it. One day maybe my grandson will have a child and use it.
As a breath coach of 40 years I have helped many overcome triggers and "fight or flight" reactions with DIAPHRAGM BREATHING. This should be our normal breath, but people are taught fear when young and shift to upper chest breathing which can lead to anxiety and ego-based reactions. It only takes a month to become a full-time diaphragm breather with practice. The result is positively life changing.
👍Whoaaa dude awesome how u revisited that in ur mind and came up with a better response and tone 50:18 , that's a winner. Anyone can get pissed off and lose it, most people do. It takes real character to have tolerance and patience in any heated situation. Rehearse those situations in ur mind with that improved reaction and whenever you have an encounter that triggers u STOP yourself, take a deep breath and push out that new calm reply, it'll get easier if u do it everytime. Thanks for sharing that man. 👍
You were being nice to that guy and it didn't make any sense that he acted jerky. I understand you getting a little pissed. If it ever happens again, just smile and say we're good and take your goods back home. Love how you are helping people to turn their items into cash. Love and hugs 🤗
Its ok Bro, we all go threw shit sometimes. My husband called a pool salesman a fucking asswhole and literally picked him up by his suspenders and threw him out the door. He baited and switch the pool pictures and sale. My kids we saying, afterwards i guess we arent getting a pool right daddy? And he said not from that lier. This was omg when our kids were little, they are all married and stuff. You were actually nice, u were even gonna give him something extra! ❤ Your a good guy, you always say positive stuff!! Your the best, and you have a beautiful family!!!
If he posted "as is" then the guy should know the situation. Tucker could have at least plugged them in and saw the light come on and made sure the DVD trays at least opened and closed and threw VHS in to make sure it ejected and all that. I get he's doing a lot, but It would have taken less than a minute.
Tucker you were in the right. I'm not sure of Facebook Market rules but for $30 I wouldn't have expected someone to have offered a return. It's just like a yard sale you take your chances sometimes. Yes he triggered you. Maybe a way to avoid the return issue is to state no returns in the post? It's human nature to get your cage rattled once in awhile. I try to stop and pause a minute to reflect my thoughts and choose my words before speaking. But I'm not perfect and I screw up sometimes. Take a deep breath and let it go. You're a good person. 😊
I’m proud of you for self reflecting. But I understand why you were offended. You are so busy a lot of pans in the fire😊 You’re a great dad and a wonderful husband!!
A lot of our behavior is learned from what we go thru in our lifetime and it can be changed if it’s something we want to change. If it helps you be a better person, and a happier person then facing those issues and working on them is so worth it. We are all a work in progress! You’re so right! ❤
Selling on FB is both amazing and a freaking nightmare. I test most items and post its condition accordingly. If I'm not able or haven't tested an item, i post "as is". To me, that's then on the buyer if they didn't or don't want to test before purchasing. I also base a transaction on the buyer's attitude and promtness, if i go through with the sale or pull out. As much i want to make money and get rid of an item, i don't have time to deal with Assholes 😊
I always test everything that I sell, and even make a short video. If I sell something that is not working, I put it in the listing details. This if someone tries to return stuff I'm covered.
I think you did the right thing by acknowledging at the end of video. I think we all have things we need to work on that happened in our life .just hope you get help with whatever is bothering you 🙂
I really like the horse head painting on the of the shed. I have a horse that looks like the portrait. It catches my attention every time you go inside the little bldg.
Yo Tucker now then nice to see you shown that I am at the same point in my life taking account ability respected it spun my head because I struggle to hold it back nice one
I also sell on Facebook, but more as a side hustle. I hate confrontation, so I always test or say untested in the listing. Selling untested means you get less money, and they get a deal if it works. It should be a mutual understanding.
You are right let the customer buy items that work at a retail store guaranteeing a refund. He knows what you are about. He knew you did not buy wholesale to sell cheaper than retail. It was good you video the meet you showed no disrespect. You handled it will and besides you stated no refunds or not tested, hopefully.😊
Don't beat yourself up about it. However I love you explored all sides.. as we get older we realize we have tempers. This is good. As a business person, always smile while you implement your business policy. You just needed to say thank you no and smile, have a great day.
You being open and trying to better yourself is a good thing. Nothing wrong with that. If more people tried to be more self aware maybe the world would be happier.
I understand your frustration Tucker but the man has a right to know does it work, simple question whenever I sold anything I made sure it worked because I don't sell junk or garbage and $30 dollars is $30 dollars.
Hi Tucker. Always love watching your videos Been subscribed to you and Sammy’s videos for about 12 years or more. Your only Human. You listed it as is. The Guy was an asswhole. We are all chasing the clock. Trying to get things done with limited time we have to do it. The guy would have been a problem.
We all let our emotions get to us Tuck. It is human.. we are all human.. And it's good you are recognizing your faults. Sending good vibes your way. You are a great person and just know that all of us have our faults..
I didn’t think you were rude at all .. I watch all videos and you work so very hard and there a people that want something for nothing .. Honestly you sale things way too low … I am not telling you what to price things at because I know you have more experience.. Tucker stop being so hard on your self .. you are such a kind man seriously
I'm going to be that one guy that got a chuckle out of you going off on that dude. Don't make it a big deal it was nothing serious. I think I remember you going off on a cop years ago same way. You were very calm actually. It was nice to see Sammi for a minute
There’s always one out there that will bring you down. Don’t understand what they get out of it but you did the right thing never question yourself you know what your doing and playing fair clear conscious!!!
As a buyer on market place you have to ask those questions prior to meeting. If item was listed as is condition then that’s how it’s sold. I know it does take awhile to test vcrs but in the long run you’ll make more money by selling them on eBay. Good luck keep grinding.
Oh what a day ..1st a crazy dude...then the ginger bread man lying flat on the street then the story about the hoarder show 😂😂😂 don't worry whenever I watch that show I start throwing stuff out too lmao.... just another day in paradise😊 luv ya keep up the good work
I understand your reaction to the man. Whether he was right or wrong you didn’t feel right about the way you handled it. Props to you for being honest with yourself.❤
I feel you. I would have reacted the same way. I totally understand everything you said and can relate to what you said after you calmed down. In the moment, for me, I get tunnel visionand can lose it. I too am working on my temper. This was not TMI either.
Hey bro new to your channel here. I cant say you were wrong of your reaction everyone reacts different. I can say its cool seeing and addressing that you could have handled it better and willing to work to better improve yourself. No one is perfect we all have room to be better, do better. Everyone needs to take time to self reflect. Love the videos bro.
@@HaileyPaulson-fw2ubone man’s trash is another man’s treasure! Tucker and Sammie are hard working people. We can only imagine that when Fin is old enough to talk about what her father does for a living, she will say it proudly and probably tell them he was always there for her. You can’t put a price tag on their happiness.
I totally agree with you on taking that stuff back. When you buy so much stuff for $30 you take the gamble and it’s sold as is. If you had tested it and knew it worked it would have been listed as a working item and priced as such.
if you tried it and it works, he was just trying to make sure and swindle you down... but anyways now he is gonna bash you online to others on FB so always be kind to your customers even if they are wrong, hope there is no consequences ...
Absolutely within your rights to take it back- some people wouldnt be brave enough to do that so props to you! We can all learn from you- just be nice!
In the listing you should put NOT TESTED and AS IS. Otherwise you’re waisting their time too. How hard is it to test it though, it would save conflict? I don’t understand why it wasn’t clear before the sale.
I had to rewatch the end and comment that you do seem to be very humble! The area is in economic stress which causes issues. I would like to say if you really try to sell in other areas where the people are not financially stressed the outcome and your mental health will prosper. Good luck
This guy once drove 3 hours to buy my mt bike and he had this contract all written up saying if there's any issues he can get his money back and what not. I told him its as is but there's no issues and i took good care of it. He then tried to haggle me down nearly 500 dollars and I just said, "Sorry i'm not selling it to you anymore, I have multiple people who have contacted me wanting it." He got all pissed off that he drove 3 hours but sometimes people just make a simple sale difficult.
Tucker please don’t feel bad! I’ve watched you and Sammie for years and no one could be sweeter than the two of you! If he said something under his breath and wasn’t man enough to say it to your face, than you were justified! That deal wasn’t worth your time, he wasn’t worth your time, so let it go! Anyone who watches you knows you’re worth more than his insulting words! Love to Sammie, Finn and you, 💖
I usually put in the ad description that the item is from a storage unit and it may or may not work. Buy at own risk, or i take it home to test it then sell from home
for nothing. The gentleman buying the stereo equipment was getting a very good deal and is old enough to know better, and be polite & grateful. IMHO. Listen to your instincts, Tucker.
Overall how does everyone think I handled that situation and has anyone dealt with rude people selling on Facebook Marketplace before? #freedomtodream
@@tuckandsammie Tucker, you are one hell of a of a stand up gentleman, you know , you have to deal with idiots on you social media platforms and in life, from me to you ultimate like 👍 the way you handled yourself, I'm from Manchester England, forget negativity, peace and love for you and your family
@@tuckandsammie 🤡
I love how you owned your reaction to this kind of behavior from others. He was a hard one and you are learning and growing from it. The universe will test us and you are spot on with
your yearning for a better approach😊
meself had great customers because they said it was so cheap and worked properly the smart TV
only they called about the remote as they did not know what to press after telling them what to press they never called again because the instructions booklet of remote meself threw to the rubbish bin
Anyways some customers do act weird that side in USA maybe because they want to buy and take the parts and call you and say it is bad thinking that you not a technician of devices you reselling
most do that they buy because it is cheaper and take it remove all the parts and later want their money back so they call and say it is not working
I deal with rude people with my retail job 😂 so I understand where you are coming from!
O my I’m a mom , this makes me so PROUD to see you stand for yourself this is why I love your videos
Wow! Tucker, you are the most HONEST, FAIR , and the MOST RESPECTFUL.
Keep on keeping on! You are amazing!
Working on myself I want to be more honest about certain things with our audience but a time will come for that. Thank you!
You posted it AS IS!! You were correct taking it back, because people like that will just cause you major headaches!! I get what you said about trying not to allow things to trigger you. I'm 66 and I also have a temper. I've learned to deal with it better, and you will too. You're on the perfect track by recognizing the problem. You got this young man!!
I would have reacted the same way. Don’t beat yourself up over this. We are all human. I’m a 83 year old grandma and think you handled it well.
God love ya girl!!
83 years old and watching and commenting on TH-cam videos, I love it!!!
One of the things I make sure when selling electronic things is to check that they work before selling. If you have the portable electricity battery, show the customer that it works, then there are no complaints.
Exactly it doesn't matter if it's selling for $5, if you are selling something as working the buyer would expect it to work properly!
Yeah it would have taken two seconds
Sold as is..but if you are buying something bring a battery bank…it’s really not on the seller and that policy crap doesn’t matter people can make a million different facebooks
Exactly!!!! Can’t dig crap out of the trash and not test it. Crazy spending time selling stuff and possibly sell something not working. That wouldn’t bring back customers. Test it and show it works, then maybe will bring further sales in the future.
Good for you Tucker!! Its hard working with people, dont worry.
Real Growth today Tucker !! Humanity is nothing to be ashamed of in this case. I've been watching your Vlogs for years and I'm so proud of you. Honestly, all the times I've seen you be so caring and giving to so many others, far outweighs this minor blip today. Self awareness is such a gift to yourself. Keep moving forward teaching and entertaining us. Many Blessings Tucker !!
Glad 2 see a Vid Post again. Smart Move taking the Items back. Do not Blame You.
You shouldn’t have told him you got it out of the trash. Of course he’s going to think it doesn’t work. Always test your items. No one wants to buy something that doesn’t work.
Tucker, never told him he got them out of out of the trash, Tucker said ( I have one like that , that works out of the trash) 😊
Tucker , I think a lot of people try to take average of your kindness, if he was that concerned about things working, he would invest in something that would be able to help him, well done for standing up for yourself 🤜🏼 respect from England 🏴
You can sell it for parts and it’s worth more than that
Here's an analogy I found this morning. I apply it to myself first. Hope it helps. It's a little long but good.
I LOVE THIS ANALOGY:
You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your arm, making you spill your coffee everywhere.
Why did you spill the coffee?
"Because someone bumped into me!!!"
Wrong answer.
You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup.
Had there been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea.
Whatever is inside the cup is what will spill out.
Therefore, when life comes along and shakes you (which WILL happen), whatever is inside you will come out. It's easy to fake it, until you get rattled.
So we have to ask ourselves... “what's in my cup?"
When life gets tough, what spills over?
Joy, gratitude, peace and humility?
Anger, bitterness, victim mentality and quitting tendencies?
Life provides the cup, YOU choose how to fill it.
Today let's work towards filling our cups with gratitude, forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation, resilience, positivity; and kindness, gentleness and love for others.
AllSounds Good on PAPER? All Human! Worst are the LIBS/Left that Push messages of Tolerance! UGH!!!!! They atr the WORST! & LEAST TOLERANT! Mostly Talk! As Long as Thins Go Their Way.
are & things 2 Things that, Auto Correct Missed? They rather Mess words up while Typing instead?
Perfectly said, I think Tucker has a lot of built up anger. He often makes inappropriate comments. Needs to realise plenty of people have more life experience. Respect
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You’ve really stepped up your TH-cam game within the last 12 months or so. I watched every single one of your videos. Keep it up.
Get the records out of the shed. It gets way too hot in them.😊
Your doing awesome
I was in retail and resell for many years. I always went by the old motto, the customer is always right, although 30% were not. Also never lose your temper with a customer. A very hard thing to do, takes a lot of control.I also would have “as is, no refunds” in listing if for some reason I couldn’t test myself. You are a very hard working man, don’t let your temper get the best of you, working on it is a true sign of maturity. Good luck with your business. Your daughter is growing up so quickly, she is truly loved.
I guess it depends if the listing states NOT Tested. $30 for some non working stuff would be a rip off. I understand both sides but I’ve found it always pays to be clear in the listing. Communication is key! Keep on keepin on!
Yes. Every single time I have sold old electronics, I always made sure they all worked. $30 in today's economy can be a lot for some people. After watching this, I think if I ever sell something old again I will video tape me making sure it worked just to avoid conflict if the buyer takes it home and a day later wants to claim it didn't work .
@@edwass5938 Yeah I actually did not have as is posted in the listing but I for sure should have and usually do. I have a large amount of electronics to move so I may just make a new listing with like 12 VCRs, DVD players, stereos, and other stuff for someone who wants to test and sell piece by piece.
you had the power unit test it , You test the shit off the curb with it,,,Grab the $30 and call it a day
Yah it makes me think it didn't work.... he always tests stuff.... and i thought he had power unit.too..
@@donbrown8454 Honestly need to just work on video content because that’s the business that actually provides for us not selling items ✌🏻
I say try it before you buy it i sell items from time to time if you test it first that way you don’t run into a problem great video tucker thank you for sharing .
Yes. It’s was just miscommunication. Plug shit in so you don’t gotta deal with Mr refund. Ha
I know how it feels when you meet someone to sell something on marketplace that's rude. It almost makes you want to quit selling. But I guess it's part of the deal. There is always going to meet someone that just pisses you off. I am sure you will sell the rest with no problem. Keep on Pushing❤️❤️
You've got half the battle won by taking accountability and identifying your weakness! You're a good guy Tucker❤️
Thanks to you & videos like this, I just sold 3 items on FB Marketplace this week. I made a quick 50$. Thanks for the tips. A couple of days ago, like you, I similarly overreacted to a situation and spoke out of turn to someone. She was in the wrong, but I should have held my tongue. We are all on a journey of self-awareness & growth. The first step in changing a behavior is recognizing that you do something that you wish to change and make an effort to change. Life is a journey.
That interaction was wild. He probably went home thinking the items didn’t work because who would go all the way there just to not do the sale with the stipulation being the item working lol. Sounds like you’re still learning yours ways and trying to adjust. That’s what life is about. Good vid, yew 🤘
Hey Tucker don't be too hard on yourself.Were all on a learning curve down here on earth.lol.I work in retail and it gets very wearing people always WANT MORE.Those 4 great items would've gotten for 30$$ ??? COME ON NOW YA CHEAPSKATE!!I mean geez it's practically FREE!!good grief I wanted to smack him upside the head myself.On a topnote I loved "David Soul" back in the day.lol.totally forgot about him.Appreciate you showing us the ropes n keepn it real.Keep up the good but hard work you do😊
Good for you, Tucker. I've watched dozens of your videos and you are nothing but chill and positive all the time, but there are boundaries and we all have them. It's good to see you standing up for yourself as a reminder to the rest of us that we all have limits. Not only that, but you're standing up to the rules of Marketplace- no refunds!
No!!! I spoke too soon.
Tucker. Seeing you do that helped lots of us. You showed the man you weren’t taking the crap. It was a great deal. You seem to have a heart of gold. You and Sammie are great people raising the sweetest baby girl. Praying you find peace with yourself because you really were in the right🙌🏽🙌🏽
growth is learning from mistakes we made and recognizing it and being willing to change.
Tucker, I've been watching you for years now and you are doing great, as a man, a son, a father and husband. I know we only see a small snippet of your life. But as long as you continue to strive to be better, that's all anyone can ask. Hello to Sammie and Finn!!❤
Thank you and i appreciate that! More growth to come.
Go TUCKER!!! That’s so ridiculous. I’m so glad you filmed this. And you’re giving me the courage to stand up for myself!! Thank you
Tucker at 75 years I have seen that type of of personality often. I feel you were correct then and your thoughts now are correct as well especially if you get to deal with with it in a positive way
Thanks Tucker for recognizing the wrong! You are the one whom people are going to remember. I love you.
I've been watching you for quite a long time Tucker. I'm proud of how much you have changed and grown up. Never be afraid to express your feelings. Love you all.
You’re a solid man, Tucker. We all have our things we need to work on. I’m 62 and still growing. Hugs.
I want commend you for being REAL!! You are right where you should be. Believe it or not, most people start "waking up" to how to handle life situations. Kudos to your growth and awareness!! May God continue to work in your lives to bring HIM glory! 🎉
Tucker, I love you man. You have the greatest personality and I love the growth I have seen with you over the years. You’re doing great, and good on you for reflecting. Peace ☮️ ❤
You did the best thing by calling off the deal with Mr. Teal Pants. People have actually given me grief over the FREE stuff I'd listed. 😅
You did the right thing, Tucker! Love, love the Reggie White Jersey! Go Birds!! 🦅💚🖤🦅
That baby rocking chair ...well my 3 babies all used the same one. It was that style and just last year I painted it white and put all different fabric on it. One day maybe my grandson will have a child and use it.
As a breath coach of 40 years I have helped many overcome triggers and "fight or flight" reactions with DIAPHRAGM BREATHING. This should be our normal breath, but people are taught fear when young and shift to upper chest breathing which can lead to anxiety and ego-based reactions.
It only takes a month to become a full-time diaphragm breather with practice. The result is positively life changing.
👍Whoaaa dude awesome how u revisited that in ur mind and came up with a better response and tone 50:18 , that's a winner. Anyone can get pissed off and lose it, most people do. It takes real character to have tolerance and patience in any heated situation. Rehearse those situations in ur mind with that improved reaction and whenever you have an encounter that triggers u STOP yourself, take a deep breath and push out that new calm reply, it'll get easier if u do it everytime. Thanks for sharing that man. 👍
Tucker and Sammy, Mom and Sweet Fin Thank You for taking us along 🙏💞
You were being nice to that guy and it didn't make any sense that he acted jerky. I understand you getting a little pissed. If it ever happens again, just smile and say we're good and take your goods back home. Love how you are helping people to turn their items into cash. Love and hugs 🤗
I loved the shot of you driving through the other units and the background music was perfect!!
Keep the Dream.
Its ok Bro, we all go threw shit sometimes. My husband called a pool salesman a fucking asswhole and literally picked him up by his suspenders and threw him out the door. He baited and switch the pool pictures and sale. My kids we saying, afterwards i guess we arent getting a pool right daddy? And he said not from that lier. This was omg when our kids were little, they are all married and stuff. You were actually nice, u were even gonna give him something extra! ❤ Your a good guy, you always say positive stuff!! Your the best, and you have a beautiful family!!!
@@Moot30 haha good story but if he was lying to you all then he deserved it!
If he posted "as is" then the guy should know the situation. Tucker could have at least plugged them in and saw the light come on and made sure the DVD trays at least opened and closed and threw VHS in to make sure it ejected and all that. I get he's doing a lot, but It would have taken less than a minute.
Growth indeed, Tucker. Dealing with abuse as a reseller does not have to be tolerated.
Definitely bright and early!!! You are amazing! Keep pushing - the right person will see the thing they want. It just ust takes a minute sometimes…😅👍😺
Tucker you were in the right. I'm not sure of Facebook Market rules but for $30 I wouldn't have expected someone to have offered a return. It's just like a yard sale you take your chances sometimes. Yes he triggered you. Maybe a way to avoid the return issue is to state no returns in the post? It's human nature to get your cage rattled once in awhile. I try to stop and pause a minute to reflect my thoughts and choose my words before speaking. But I'm not perfect and I screw up sometimes. Take a deep breath and let it go. You're a good person. 😊
You are learning how you work with your mind. Don’t beat yourself up It’s no easy to deal with the public. You’re a good person.
Tuck....i go through the same thing. Same switch. Thank you for being so open.
I’m proud of you for self reflecting.
But I understand why you were offended.
You are so busy a lot of pans in the fire😊
You’re a great dad and a wonderful husband!!
Can’t blame him. I would have asked the same question. IMO
A lot of our behavior is learned from what we go thru in our lifetime and it can be changed if it’s something we want to change. If it helps you be a better person, and a happier person then facing those issues and working on them is so worth it. We are all a work in progress! You’re so right! ❤
Good luck with everything man i hope you come up with the quickness keep on keeping on god bless
Selling on FB is both amazing and a freaking nightmare. I test most items and post its condition accordingly. If I'm not able or haven't tested an item, i post "as is". To me, that's then on the buyer if they didn't or don't want to test before purchasing. I also base a transaction on the buyer's attitude and promtness, if i go through with the sale or pull out. As much i want to make money and get rid of an item, i don't have time to deal with Assholes 😊
I always test everything that I sell, and even make a short video. If I sell something that is not working, I put it in the listing details. This if someone tries to return stuff I'm covered.
I think you did the right thing by acknowledging at the end of video. I think we all have things we need to work on that happened in our life .just hope you get help with whatever is bothering you 🙂
I really like the horse head painting on the of the shed. I have a horse that looks like the portrait. It catches my attention every time you go inside the little bldg.
Yo Tucker now then nice to see you shown that I am at the same point in my life taking account ability respected it spun my head because I struggle to hold it back nice one
I also sell on Facebook, but more as a side hustle. I hate confrontation, so I always test or say untested in the listing. Selling untested means you get less money, and they get a deal if it works. It should be a mutual understanding.
So adorable…and growing fast 🎉…love you guys…yeew yeew…🐾🙏🏻☮️💯🥰
You are right let the customer buy items that work at a retail store guaranteeing a refund. He knows what you are about. He knew you did not buy wholesale to sell cheaper than retail. It was good you video the meet you showed no disrespect. You handled it will and besides you stated no refunds or not tested, hopefully.😊
Yah that's the thing....how was ot listed? Was it listed "as is"....or just listed......
Don't beat yourself up about it. However I love you explored all sides.. as we get older we realize we have tempers. This is good. As a business person, always smile while you implement your business policy. You just needed to say thank you no and smile, have a great day.
You being open and trying to better yourself is a good thing. Nothing wrong with that. If more people tried to be more self aware maybe the world would be happier.
I understand your frustration Tucker but the man has a right to know does it work, simple question whenever I sold anything I made sure it worked because I don't sell junk or garbage and $30 dollars is $30 dollars.
You acted in a fair and honest way, don't take money and take it back. Thats what I would have done.
Hi Tucker. Always love watching your videos Been subscribed to you and Sammy’s videos for about 12 years or more. Your only Human. You listed it as is. The Guy was an asswhole. We are all chasing the clock. Trying to get things done with limited time we have to do it. The guy would have been a problem.
Thanks man happy to hear you have continued to follow our journey!
You are very patient and cooperative with people you sell to. And generous, & never over price. Some people, ( many people want something
Very impressive the ending .being accountable for your actions is great shows how you are as a person proud of you!!!
I agree with the buyer. Why would I want to pay good money for something that doesn’t work
$30??????
@@azjersee Yes, that is good money. Maybe not to you, but to a lot of people. You don't know anyone's financial circumstances.
We all let our emotions get to us Tuck. It is human.. we are all human.. And it's good you are recognizing your faults. Sending good vibes your way. You are a great person and just know that all of us have our faults..
People have to understand when you’re buying goods out of the back of a pickup truck there’s no guarantees or warranties
I didn’t think you were rude at all .. I watch all videos and you work so very hard and there a people that want something for nothing .. Honestly you sale things way too low … I am not telling you what to price things at because I know you have more experience.. Tucker stop being so hard on your self .. you are such a kind man seriously
Yeah I agree my prices are low but I have to make them low to move the items.
I'm going to be that one guy that got a chuckle out of you going off on that dude. Don't make it a big deal it was nothing serious. I think I remember you going off on a cop years ago same way. You were very calm actually. It was nice to see Sammi for a minute
I would have reacted the same way. Don't beat yourself up about it. It was nice seeing your mom. ❤😊 Love to you and the family.
There’s always one out there that will bring you down. Don’t understand what they get out of it but you did the right thing never question yourself you know what your doing and playing fair clear conscious!!!
As a buyer on market place you have to ask those questions prior to meeting. If item was listed as is condition then that’s how it’s sold. I know it does take awhile to test vcrs but in the long run you’ll make more money by selling them on eBay. Good luck keep grinding.
Tucker you did nothing wrong and I believe you acted the right way. Keep being you. Freedom to Dream!!!
#freedomtodream
Oh what a day ..1st a crazy dude...then the ginger bread man lying flat on the street then the story about the hoarder show 😂😂😂 don't worry whenever I watch that show I start throwing stuff out too lmao.... just another day in paradise😊 luv ya keep up the good work
I understand your reaction to the man. Whether he was right or wrong you didn’t feel right about the way you handled it. Props to you for being honest with yourself.❤
The hardest view to see is when we're not the hero. acknowledging you're faults is the first step towards growing past them brother. safe journey
You’re 💯 correct, but we get it and it shows maturity how you felt bad about it.
Got to keep growing staying in the same patterns my entire life would be unhealthy.
I feel you. I would have reacted the same way. I totally understand everything you said and can relate to what you said after you calmed down. In the moment, for me, I get tunnel visionand can lose it. I too am working on my temper. This was not TMI either.
Hang tuff Tucker you have the pre 8 am blues. Coffee before claims 😊. Wawa sells espresso toss a double in your regular coffee 🎉
Hey bro new to your channel here. I cant say you were wrong of your reaction everyone reacts different. I can say its cool seeing and addressing that you could have handled it better and willing to work to better improve yourself. No one is perfect we all have room to be better, do better. Everyone needs to take time to self reflect. Love the videos bro.
Loved the Ending, Bike yes! & MOMMA G. Over looking the PEANUT.
Tuck:
TIME is Money,
FAMILY IS EVERYTHING,
Personal Awareness is a BONUS!!
THANKS,RON. ( LUCY 😂😂)
He needs to work like a real man to support his family.daughter grows up and tells everyone my dad collected garbage to support us.Get a real job.
@@HaileyPaulson-fw2ubone man’s trash is another man’s treasure! Tucker and Sammie are hard working people. We can only imagine that when Fin is old enough to talk about what her father does for a living, she will say it proudly and probably tell them he was always there for her. You can’t put a price tag on their happiness.
That child seems lots more cheerful after he had some coffee and food and woke up. Tell him this old grandma says he has a wonderful smile.
He was a very nice guy would be happy to have him back again to work with me.
I don't blame you, I don't let anyone disrespect me either ✌️😎
Your human call the guy give him the set. Make amends with him and yourself. Lesson learned for both of you.
I totally agree with you on taking that stuff back. When you buy so much stuff for $30 you take the gamble and it’s sold as is. If you had tested it and knew it worked it would have been listed as a working item and priced as such.
You handled it like I would have. Don’t ever put up with BS! ✌️
if you tried it and it works, he was just trying to make sure and swindle you down... but anyways now he is gonna bash you online to others on FB so always be kind to your customers even if they are wrong, hope there is no consequences ...
Bro, you were a lot calmer than I would have gotten.
Absolutely within your rights to take it back- some people wouldnt be brave enough to do that so props to you! We can all learn from you- just be nice!
In the listing you should put NOT TESTED and AS IS. Otherwise you’re waisting their time too. How hard is it to test it though, it would save conflict? I don’t understand why it wasn’t clear before the sale.
I had to rewatch the end and comment that you do seem to be very humble! The area is in economic stress which causes issues. I would like to say if you really try to sell in other areas where the people are not financially stressed the outcome and your mental health will prosper. Good luck
This guy once drove 3 hours to buy my mt bike and he had this contract all written up saying if there's any issues he can get his money back and what not. I told him its as is but there's no issues and i took good care of it. He then tried to haggle me down nearly 500 dollars and I just said, "Sorry i'm not selling it to you anymore, I have multiple people who have contacted me wanting it." He got all pissed off that he drove 3 hours but sometimes people just make a simple sale difficult.
Tucker please don’t feel bad! I’ve watched you and Sammie for years and no one could be sweeter than the two of you! If he said something under his breath and wasn’t man enough to say it to your face, than you were justified! That deal wasn’t worth your time, he wasn’t worth your time, so let it go! Anyone who watches you knows you’re worth more than his insulting words! Love to Sammie, Finn and you, 💖
Becoming self aware if the first step to getting better.
I usually put in the ad description that the item is from a storage unit and it may or may not work. Buy at own risk, or i take it home to test it then sell from home
for nothing. The gentleman buying the stereo equipment was getting a very good deal and is old enough to know better, and be polite & grateful. IMHO. Listen to your instincts, Tucker.