They making it sound like Narcolepsy is something like a heart attack; life threatening and immediately care. If he falls asleep at the wedding, unless he snores it’s not that big a deal, they can nudge him awake or let him wake up naturally Annie is overreacting and so is the whole family.
Or they could just let him sleep. It's not like he would be stretched out across a pew or a row of chairs. I am sure plenty of people without narcolepsy fall asleep at weddings.
Brain conditions have been historically misunderstood and prejudiced against by the population. As a parallel example, epileptic people such as myself were confused for drug addicted bum if we would have a seizure in the street, leading to pebbles thrown at us. That was in the 70s and 80s. Nowadays epilepsy is better understood by most, but there are always the occasional idiots. These in-laws are visibly the same towards narcolepsy.
OP’s mom lost the plot, big time. It’s not even about OP getting along with the in-laws. It’s about *_EXCLUDING A CHILD BECAUSE OF A FREAKING SLEEP DISORDER!!!_*
Nah, the mom's point is about her expecting the in-laws to know her well enough to see through the lies. She bears the responsibility for the fact that the in-laws believed the lies. Of course, that's just a question of her own expectations. The lies and the excluding a child are the actual problems here. But I guess when she was talking to her mother, she was focusing on how the in-laws actually believed the lies, so that's what the mom reacted to?
OP’s mom really missed the mark here. Instead of fostering understanding and compassion, she’s perpetuating a harmful stigma. Families should embrace their differences, not push them away-especially when it comes to kids!
Excluding a child because of a sleep disorder is just cruel and completely unnecessary. It’s not about getting along with the in-laws-it’s about understanding and supporting a child who has a legitimate medical condition.
u are absolutely right. It’s hard to understand why a child should suffer exclusion just because of a health condition they cannot control. This not only shows a lack of empathy but also reflects a society that still holds many prejudices
I had a colleague who was narcoleptic (still is, but he's retired now). It was impressive how fast he could fall asleep in meetings, but wake up again still perfectly able to go on with the discussion. At the beginning I didn't know of his condition and it made me smile a little. Very sharp mind and kind soul. I suppose that he might have gone higher without his illness, but he had a very good position in our multi billion group and his expertise and kindness were always appreciated. And he never snored, and even if he had, no one would have mocked him 😊
yesss that's awesome! It only takes people being KNOWLEDGEABLE about what happened. I mean as you stated, it doesn't hinder everyday life for many. Just cut idiots out ya life otherwise. I hope all is going well for y'all!
What I don't like are the people who "play detective". They are so determined to call out the OP and reveal who that person is. Who the real people are that OP includes in their post. Then there are the people who claim a story has to be fake. All because the OP described a situation that supposedly couldn't have happened that way. 🙄
Medical conditions are no excuse to exclude someone from an event, you should've made the statement and blocked the in-laws instantly, rather than let your kids face that narcissistic hypocrite
i mean it depends i think. if someone is epilepsy i would very much exclude them from an event with flashing lights but fr this case the sil is an asshole
It was already one thing the SIL wanting to exclude her nephew cause of a condition and the in laws spreading lies, but to take it further to mock the kids condition online with memes is repulsive.
I can't understand how people like sil actually expect their sibling to attend their wedding without their SO and kids plus not even think that the sibling wouldn't somehow be FURIOUS at them for excluding their sibling's kid plus treated their sibling's SO. Not surprised that sil showed her true colors and feelings about op when she called her brother. Bet she was shocked that op heard EVERYTHING. I bet she also made that lie to get back at op for "taking her brother from her" and to cover her humiliation. Her parents are disgusting for even going along with it and demanding op HAS to apologize to their daughter despite knowing the truth. I'm not surprised that the inlaws continued to make disgusting posts about op and their grandkid. I bet it's also because they are furious that ALL of the family sided with op and are disgusted with them. That probably grates on them as well as facing reality.
I can’t believe Annie would suggest excluding your son from the wedding because of his condition. It’s so unfair, especially considering how much you and your husband have been trying to support him through his narcolepsy.
The worst thing about having narcolepsy is convincing your new neurologist (when you have to change after moving, insurance changes, etc.) that you're not just a speed addict. Also, her son is not going to get "better". He'll need treatment for the rest of his life. (Source: narcoleptic from a family of narcoleptics.)
I know narcolepsy isn’t a very convenient condition, but it’s not like cancer. This person is making it sound like they had to break the news to the whole family like it’s a huge scary deal. Sure, it’s not good for anything, but making it out to be this horribly debilitating disease that everyone needs to sympathize over 😂
Truthfully I do believe sil could exclude the boy from the wedding but tell them a hour before is unbelievably douche. There’s probably a better way to have handled this on both sides but in truth I don’t think op was in the wrong as she also has the choice not to attend if she wanted
Sil also showed her true colors on the phone about how she actually felt about op. Not to mention the stupidity to tell her brother that he can leave his "dumb" wife and go to her wedding like he wouldn't be furious at her for excluding his son and treated his wife. Especially her parents when they went to spread a lie that op was jealous of sil and was controlling their son. They're beyond disgusting.
Sil entirely has the right to do so. Doesn't make them not a massive jerk for excluding their own nephew over a condition where he MIGHT sleep through a portion of it. And to say it only an hour before? Disgusting behavior for an "adult"
THANK YOU!!! A lot of this is on OP and her husband - TELL THEM WHY YOU LEFT! OP seemed so in her feelings about “boundaries,” and desperately proving that she isn’t “jealous” that she made this all about herself when she should have been advocating for her kid. She seemed so hellbent on proving she wasn’t jealous that she just didn’t even mention how SIL slighted her child.
@@FogJWrestling 100%! She is valid in how needy the family is, no one does trips every other month, hour long calls every other day, weekly dinners if they are far, and it’s okay to have boundaries, BUT, she does sound jealous of the sister. She allowed her jealousy and other issues to make her the main character other than her son who was slighted by her SIL. She is someone who I would never want to advocate for me because she would make it about herself. They all FAILED that child! She also should have explained age appropriately for the child what was going on and let him know that he might face forms of discrimination due to his prognosis and how to handle it with therapy. SMH!
The SIL is a spoiled entitled narcissist and her parents arent any better. they will drag anyone through the mud even if they get covered by it to keep up appearances as "perfect". all 3 of them sounds utterly exhausting to be around and OP her husband and their kids are better off cutting out about 600pounds of dead weight in the family. and tbh i hope the newly minted husband of the sil opens his eyes and see the bag of crazy he has just joined and gets the marriage annulled as the SIL and her parents deserve eachother for life
OP's mom is a doormat. Plus, it's an old-school/traditional stance on family structure. Narcolepsy is not something like cancer or being completely paralyzed from the shoulders down. Narcolepsy is inconvient but is not at the level that the inlaw psycho squad is making it out to be!! SMHHHH
I don't know really who's in the right this time. Not want to but I have to play the devils advocate here, The words of her mother seem quite sensible and afterall you yourself admitted that they are really close and when someone especially a third party person interferes and causes a break in that closeness a resentment is built. As you said you were married young and are married for 20 years. You are free to have your boundaries but somehow I am sure that you forced your husband to make boundaries as well. Anyway just communicate, don't run and cause chaos. All could have been solved .
Think this might be the first time Im early to one of these videos and the comments are about the actual video rather than just a bunch of middleschoolers arguing who gets to be "first" for no reason. So Im proud of you guys I know that took self restraint
A little kid falling asleep during a wedding ceremony would hardly be a disruption in any way. Actually I'm sure lots of children have slept through weddings. Imagine how heartbroken it would be for a kid.... His aunt doesn't want him to be at her wedding ceremony and instead wants him to sit all alone in a hotel room during it. I bet that if they went through with it and agreed to leave him behind during the ceremony that afterwards when it's time for the reception, they (the SIL and/or MIL) would suddenly want him to stay behind for that too. These types of people are exactly the "Give them an inch and they take a mile" types. They will then enjoy any stress this causes you.
It’s truly admirable how you stood up for your son in such a difficult situation. Do you have any plans to address the misunderstandings from your family?
Okay hang on…why TF didn’t the family tell the in-laws the real story when they came over? Why didn’t OP tell her mom the real story when they were first on the phone? Like, the in-laws and mom only got one version of the story, OP never told anyone why they left, so a lot of this nonsense is on them. They could have avoided a lot of drama if they just told everyone the truth at the beginning. This is just bad communication and expecting someone to take your side when you haven’t even given them your side of the story. SIL is obviously an AH and I don’t blame them for leaving the wedding, but for God’s sake communicate why. I know this story is almost assuredly fake but in the off chance it isn’t.
OOP didn't wrote it down, but it seemed when the in-laws visited and they fought, truth was already out because later OOP said the kid might have heard that there was a problem and he was the cause of it. It was also heavily implied that the in-laws already knew the real reason and they just made up the lies to cover up for Annie (possibly because they felt the same about the whole "OOP dragging husband away from his 'real family'" thing) especially because then at the end it was said that the in-laws shared some posts making fun of narcolepsy. In the case of the mother, I am not sure, but I think OOP had told her, but she focused on how OOP should have been working harder to get closer to the in-laws and they fought more about that than the matter of the wedding.
I mean the SIL is entitled to ask OP to not bring her son, its her wedding and she doesn’t want anything to detract from that. OP has the right to not attend at all if she doesn’t want to. The SIL is in the wrong not for the original request, but for how she handled a justified reaction.
It's not your fault it's your sister-in-law's fault because she had banned his son because he has Narcolepsy and she insulted her son and she insulted her too and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for telling lies to the family and she banned her son because he has Narcolepsy and insulting her son and insulting her too and you don't have to apologize for anything and she should go to hell.
Ways to know that Telltales posted a fake story. 1). Too much information (especially at beginning) 2). Weird time jumps that usually has a big one at end 3). The "commenters" aren't mentioned by name 4). Seems like a Lifetime drama/Soap opera 5). Usually has a 1 vs the world theme / Do it for dan theme 6). OP and characters usually goes against normal human nature example: OP gets assaulted in their home and doesn't call cops. Example 2: Person/people OP has problems with "Barge into" their home and again doesn't call police. 7). OP always has to ask reddit AITAH even though asking that question goes against Human nature of the OP being severely wronged. 8). Weird Updates that aren't needed. 9). OP reiterates things multiple times in a single "post". 10). Stating their feelings/how they feel "in the moment". 11). IRL laws do not apply. (Battery, theft, harassment, etc.)
Again, as people say, it doesn't matter if it's fake or not. This channel is probably about entertainment. You may disagree with me, but it's everyone's opinions.
The weird time jumps is cause they probably updated after a few months or years. Some people love to go into detail about stuff, so it's not exactly a red flag unless the information is truly insignificant. The not-calling-police makes sense, some people are too resistant to involving law enforcement for different reasons, and d by
@@kidm0bius190 I think a lot of people here treat these stories like one would treat a book: consider it as fiction/entertainment unless told otherwise.
A lot are definitely fake. However, they aren't the most unbelievable situations. "Bridezilla excludes family member due to disability". That's probably ended up on someone's feed at some point
From what I under stand it is when some body falls asleep but I think it's more than that - it's a scary condition because they could fall asleep at any time , any where & there's no control over it. I think it's a rare condition & I have never met any one with it ( as far as I know ) or seen it 1st hand for my self since it's rare so it's one of those things that is hard to believe in even though it exists. ( My heart goes out to those who must live with that condition. )
it's a sleep disorder just wake him up or let him sleep and besides the kid is a guest and has no role in the wedding so SIL is overreacting and I'm pretty sure everyone has like this habit of falling asleep during a wedding ceremony or any event that's like longer than 20 mins let's all be honest folks I'm pretty sure most of us here had fallen asleep during an event
You wanna know what really grinds? My gears with these stories is the moment that the person that's in the wrong start yelling at the o. P and the OP start crying. Are you serious like that? Just makes you look 10 times guiltier. And secondly, grow up, why are you crying like all of this could have been avoided if she would have said. Your daughter said that my son couldn't come to the wedding bing, bong
I know everyone reacts to things differently but instead of crying I'd be angry bc why tf would you treat your grandchild like that? Your nephew like that? I would've blared to everyone how much of ableist freaks they are to bully a kid for a condition he can't help
Wtf is this story? Nothing makes sense. Everyone is over reacting or under reacting. Its like a continuous of decisions that keep making nothing into something bad. The lack of communication between everyone is fucking my head.
So your moms gets a second chance but his parents don’t? I can see why they think you don’t want to be a part of the family. The sister was wrong but your no better
I thought that the disiese was autism or esquizofrenia or something contagious... But narcolepsy? Isn't this the sleep disiese? Just let the kid sleep in a car if this hits him during the ceremony...
Imagine finally having grandchildren only to not only support them against ableists but to make fun of them for having like literally one thing “wrong” with them. Not even wrong, just different from other folks. Also, I don’t think it’s a wife having boundaries thing. In my opinion, it’s defo an ableist thing from the fact that they posted memes and that apparently OP didn’t have problems with the SIL until the wedding? Ya, it might be because of boundaries but I think it’s just cuz OP’s son is narcoleptic
"Screw the human for having natural emotions regarding their own child!" Either crappy (yet clearly effective) bait or a crappy outlook on people to have
@@missytanner3501 Because, the OP made it so it was as dramatic and about her as possible. Brides do go a bit mental, and sometimes make terrible request, which this was super insensitive. But instead of being reasonable, she triggered her whole family and left in a very conspicuous way. No efforts at adult discussion, no reasonable compromise, nothing but full on asshole move.
@@missytanner3501 The child was just asked to sit out the ceremony. I would have sat the ceremony out with my son, doing something fun for the 30 minutes it takes, then joined the rest of the family for the rest of the day with my son. Then, i would have brought up this unacceptable behavior, later, and demanded my sister in law treated my son to a special day like Disneyland to make up for her asshole behavior. I would not have escalated to the point i made this about myself and been a bigger asshole, which is what i think the OP was here.
@@spicycatsandthings The bridezilla only want her nephew out , and would have had ridiculous hissy fit if op tried that. Bridezilla is the golden child.
@@southernflight5078 I know that’s how it was back then. But I can’t ever imagine myself just blindly following the orders of my partners parents to make them happy. Fuck their happiness, if I’m making my partner happy and we’re safe and sound, it doesn’t matter what I do as long as it’s not illegal.
It's a little weird you're Threatening your mother with no contact cause she has her own opinions. If you dont want her to speak her mind dont ask. You're a weird daughter. Everything else was the aunts fault.
@@FaizatheTempest Believe it or not parents are people too and are allowed to have opinions. She didn't force it on her. she even kept quiet but the daughter pushed and wanted to know her reasoning. then Instantly get mad when told. Like if you can't handle what is said "DONT ASK"
@@iwtbrnk Did you listen to it, she wanted to exclude her nephew from the wedding for treatable conditions and isolate him in hotel room. But it was ok for neice to be there . If she had said no kids they would have been fine that , but instead had them come only say go stay by himself in hotel room. Which is wrong they were being responsible parents. Even the groom said she was wrong
They making it sound like Narcolepsy is something like a heart attack; life threatening and immediately care. If he falls asleep at the wedding, unless he snores it’s not that big a deal, they can nudge him awake or let him wake up naturally Annie is overreacting and so is the whole family.
Or they could just let him sleep. It's not like he would be stretched out across a pew or a row of chairs. I am sure plenty of people without narcolepsy fall asleep at weddings.
@@shells500tutubo that’s what I said but yeah, Annie making a big deal out of nothing, and OP over exaggerated his condition
@@shells500tutubo Literally happened to a friend he passed out due to his job while he was at the wedding funniest shit ever fell asleep standing up
Brain conditions have been historically misunderstood and prejudiced against by the population. As a parallel example, epileptic people such as myself were confused for drug addicted bum if we would have a seizure in the street, leading to pebbles thrown at us. That was in the 70s and 80s. Nowadays epilepsy is better understood by most, but there are always the occasional idiots. These in-laws are visibly the same towards narcolepsy.
@@Darth12000 what’s epilepsy?
OP’s mom lost the plot, big time.
It’s not even about OP getting along with the in-laws. It’s about *_EXCLUDING A CHILD BECAUSE OF A FREAKING SLEEP DISORDER!!!_*
Ikr
Nah, the mom's point is about her expecting the in-laws to know her well enough to see through the lies. She bears the responsibility for the fact that the in-laws believed the lies.
Of course, that's just a question of her own expectations. The lies and the excluding a child are the actual problems here. But I guess when she was talking to her mother, she was focusing on how the in-laws actually believed the lies, so that's what the mom reacted to?
OP’s mom really missed the mark here. Instead of fostering understanding and compassion, she’s perpetuating a harmful stigma. Families should embrace their differences, not push them away-especially when it comes to kids!
Excluding a child because of a sleep disorder is just cruel and completely unnecessary. It’s not about getting along with the in-laws-it’s about understanding and supporting a child who has a legitimate medical condition.
u are absolutely right. It’s hard to understand why a child should suffer exclusion just because of a health condition they cannot control. This not only shows a lack of empathy but also reflects a society that still holds many prejudices
Wait, the in-laws started posting jokes about narcoleptic people online? So basically they're bullying their grandchild.
Pretty sure that there could be several lawsuits filed : Defamation, and according the to state they are in, Disability Harrasement.
@@renadu30cyber bullying is also a crime.
@@renadu30 Alongside with probably no contact with the in-laws, for the son's sake.
@@axinhedgelion8417 True !
@@nadhindrahakim4761 Of course, to me, this was a given XD.
I had a colleague who was narcoleptic (still is, but he's retired now). It was impressive how fast he could fall asleep in meetings, but wake up again still perfectly able to go on with the discussion. At the beginning I didn't know of his condition and it made me smile a little. Very sharp mind and kind soul. I suppose that he might have gone higher without his illness, but he had a very good position in our multi billion group and his expertise and kindness were always appreciated. And he never snored, and even if he had, no one would have mocked him 😊
yesss that's awesome! It only takes people being KNOWLEDGEABLE about what happened. I mean as you stated, it doesn't hinder everyday life for many. Just cut idiots out ya life otherwise. I hope all is going well for y'all!
A lot of people say that this stuff is fake and i don't care if it is fake I like to binge watch these things like other story telling youtubers
What I don't like are the people who "play detective". They are so determined to call out the OP and reveal who that person is. Who the real people are that OP includes in their post.
Then there are the people who claim a story has to be fake. All because the OP described a situation that supposedly couldn't have happened that way. 🙄
Medical conditions are no excuse to exclude someone from an event, you should've made the statement and blocked the in-laws instantly, rather than let your kids face that narcissistic hypocrite
i mean it depends i think. if someone is epilepsy i would very much exclude them from an event with flashing lights but fr this case the sil
is an asshole
It was already one thing the SIL wanting to exclude her nephew cause of a condition and the in laws spreading lies, but to take it further to mock the kids condition online with memes is repulsive.
Why aren't they getting the posts and calling a lawyer I would sue.
I can't understand how people like sil actually expect their sibling to attend their wedding without their SO and kids plus not even think that the sibling wouldn't somehow be FURIOUS at them for excluding their sibling's kid plus treated their sibling's SO. Not surprised that sil showed her true colors and feelings about op when she called her brother. Bet she was shocked that op heard EVERYTHING.
I bet she also made that lie to get back at op for "taking her brother from her" and to cover her humiliation. Her parents are disgusting for even going along with it and demanding op HAS to apologize to their daughter despite knowing the truth.
I'm not surprised that the inlaws continued to make disgusting posts about op and their grandkid. I bet it's also because they are furious that ALL of the family sided with op and are disgusted with them. That probably grates on them as well as facing reality.
You sound like amazing parents. God bless
I can’t believe Annie would suggest excluding your son from the wedding because of his condition. It’s so unfair, especially considering how much you and your husband have been trying to support him through his narcolepsy.
I hope there is that unhinged cousin and uncle that has no problem to call out BS
The worst thing about having narcolepsy is convincing your new neurologist (when you have to change after moving, insurance changes, etc.) that you're not just a speed addict.
Also, her son is not going to get "better". He'll need treatment for the rest of his life. (Source: narcoleptic from a family of narcoleptics.)
I know narcolepsy isn’t a very convenient condition, but it’s not like cancer. This person is making it sound like they had to break the news to the whole family like it’s a huge scary deal. Sure, it’s not good for anything, but making it out to be this horribly debilitating disease that everyone needs to sympathize over 😂
It can be a huge deal cuz what if he was driving and fell asleep
@@ghostxreaper3525 He's 15.
@@ghostxreaper3525 He’s 15, and that has nothing to do with the context of my comment.
@@ghostxreaper3525 Narcoleptic patient should not drive. Op didn't specify what type of narcolepsy her son has.
@ghostxreaper3525 your last two braincells are fighting so hard for third place..
Truthfully I do believe sil could exclude the boy from the wedding but tell them a hour before is unbelievably douche. There’s probably a better way to have handled this on both sides but in truth I don’t think op was in the wrong as she also has the choice not to attend if she wanted
Sil also showed her true colors on the phone about how she actually felt about op. Not to mention the stupidity to tell her brother that he can leave his "dumb" wife and go to her wedding like he wouldn't be furious at her for excluding his son and treated his wife. Especially her parents when they went to spread a lie that op was jealous of sil and was controlling their son.
They're beyond disgusting.
Sil entirely has the right to do so. Doesn't make them not a massive jerk for excluding their own nephew over a condition where he MIGHT sleep through a portion of it. And to say it only an hour before? Disgusting behavior for an "adult"
Annie are you okay?
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Are you okay Annie?
So Annie are you okay?
You beat me to it lol
@@maliknegasi3282 Are you okay?
I’m sorry, I can’t with the tears. Tell people the truth, stop staying quiet, and stand up for yourself. GOD DAMN. Boundaries or a pushover?
THANK YOU!!! A lot of this is on OP and her husband - TELL THEM WHY YOU LEFT!
OP seemed so in her feelings about “boundaries,” and desperately proving that she isn’t “jealous” that she made this all about herself when she should have been advocating for her kid. She seemed so hellbent on proving she wasn’t jealous that she just didn’t even mention how SIL slighted her child.
@@FogJWrestling 100%! She is valid in how needy the family is, no one does trips every other month, hour long calls every other day, weekly dinners if they are far, and it’s okay to have boundaries, BUT, she does sound jealous of the sister. She allowed her jealousy and other issues to make her the main character other than her son who was slighted by her SIL. She is someone who I would never want to advocate for me because she would make it about herself. They all FAILED that child! She also should have explained age appropriately for the child what was going on and let him know that he might face forms of discrimination due to his prognosis and how to handle it with therapy. SMH!
She should've let her husband talk to his sister. Wouldve avoided all this drama!
take a shot every time they say family
The SIL is a spoiled entitled narcissist and her parents arent any better. they will drag anyone through the mud even if they get covered by it to keep up appearances as "perfect". all 3 of them sounds utterly exhausting to be around and OP her husband and their kids are better off cutting out about 600pounds of dead weight in the family. and tbh i hope the newly minted husband of the sil opens his eyes and see the bag of crazy he has just joined and gets the marriage annulled as the SIL and her parents deserve eachother for life
OP's mom is a doormat. Plus, it's an old-school/traditional stance on family structure. Narcolepsy is not something like cancer or being completely paralyzed from the shoulders down.
Narcolepsy is inconvient but is not at the level that the inlaw psycho squad is making it out to be!! SMHHHH
I don't know really who's in the right this time. Not want to but I have to play the devils advocate here, The words of her mother seem quite sensible and afterall you yourself admitted that they are really close and when someone especially a third party person interferes and causes a break in that closeness a resentment is built. As you said you were married young and are married for 20 years. You are free to have your boundaries but somehow I am sure that you forced your husband to make boundaries as well. Anyway just communicate, don't run and cause chaos. All could have been solved .
holy shit that family sounds smothering
Don't let that Wife of yours come between your real family. A wife and kids are in fact literally family
Think this might be the first time Im early to one of these videos and the comments are about the actual video rather than just a bunch of middleschoolers arguing who gets to be "first" for no reason.
So Im proud of you guys I know that took self restraint
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A little kid falling asleep during a wedding ceremony would hardly be a disruption in any way. Actually I'm sure lots of children have slept through weddings.
Imagine how heartbroken it would be for a kid.... His aunt doesn't want him to be at her wedding ceremony and instead wants him to sit all alone in a hotel room during it.
I bet that if they went through with it and agreed to leave him behind during the ceremony that afterwards when it's time for the reception, they (the SIL and/or MIL) would suddenly want him to stay behind for that too.
These types of people are exactly the "Give them an inch and they take a mile" types.
They will then enjoy any stress this causes you.
It’s truly admirable how you stood up for your son in such a difficult situation. Do you have any plans to address the misunderstandings from your family?
Okay hang on…why TF didn’t the family tell the in-laws the real story when they came over? Why didn’t OP tell her mom the real story when they were first on the phone?
Like, the in-laws and mom only got one version of the story, OP never told anyone why they left, so a lot of this nonsense is on them. They could have avoided a lot of drama if they just told everyone the truth at the beginning. This is just bad communication and expecting someone to take your side when you haven’t even given them your side of the story.
SIL is obviously an AH and I don’t blame them for leaving the wedding, but for God’s sake communicate why.
I know this story is almost assuredly fake but in the off chance it isn’t.
OOP didn't wrote it down, but it seemed when the in-laws visited and they fought, truth was already out because later OOP said the kid might have heard that there was a problem and he was the cause of it. It was also heavily implied that the in-laws already knew the real reason and they just made up the lies to cover up for Annie (possibly because they felt the same about the whole "OOP dragging husband away from his 'real family'" thing) especially because then at the end it was said that the in-laws shared some posts making fun of narcolepsy. In the case of the mother, I am not sure, but I think OOP had told her, but she focused on how OOP should have been working harder to get closer to the in-laws and they fought more about that than the matter of the wedding.
I mean the SIL is entitled to ask OP to not bring her son, its her wedding and she doesn’t want anything to detract from that. OP has the right to not attend at all if she doesn’t want to. The SIL is in the wrong not for the original request, but for how she handled a justified reaction.
It's not your fault it's your sister-in-law's fault because she had banned his son because he has Narcolepsy and she insulted her son and she insulted her too and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for telling lies to the family and she banned her son because he has Narcolepsy and insulting her son and insulting her too and you don't have to apologize for anything and she should go to hell.
Just assure ur son that none of this was his fault. It's the grown ups fault.
She waited til an hour before her own wedding to even bother mentioning this? SHE sabotaged her wedding, not OP
Ways to know that Telltales posted a fake story.
1). Too much information (especially at beginning)
2). Weird time jumps that usually has a big one at end
3). The "commenters" aren't mentioned by name
4). Seems like a Lifetime drama/Soap opera
5). Usually has a 1 vs the world theme / Do it for dan theme
6). OP and characters usually goes against normal human nature example: OP gets assaulted in their home and doesn't call cops. Example 2: Person/people OP has problems with "Barge into" their home and again doesn't call police.
7). OP always has to ask reddit AITAH even though asking that question goes against Human nature of the OP being severely wronged.
8). Weird Updates that aren't needed.
9). OP reiterates things multiple times in a single "post".
10). Stating their feelings/how they feel "in the moment".
11). IRL laws do not apply. (Battery, theft, harassment, etc.)
Again, as people say, it doesn't matter if it's fake or not. This channel is probably about entertainment. You may disagree with me, but it's everyone's opinions.
The weird time jumps is cause they probably updated after a few months or years. Some people love to go into detail about stuff, so it's not exactly a red flag unless the information is truly insignificant. The not-calling-police makes sense, some people are too resistant to involving law enforcement for different reasons, and d by
Also people dont call the cops after breakins and assults for many reasons. Here in the US cops tend to make the situation worse.
@@kidm0bius190 I think a lot of people here treat these stories like one would treat a book: consider it as fiction/entertainment unless told otherwise.
A lot are definitely fake. However, they aren't the most unbelievable situations. "Bridezilla excludes family member due to disability". That's probably ended up on someone's feed at some point
When are people gonna learn that just because some people have mental or physical disabilities it makes you no different the rest of us
OP's husband is kind of weak. He needs to feed his parents hands.
Op ask for honesty crys when mom is honest don’t hide things from your kids tell them the truth
Doesn't she know children fall asleep at weddings all the time Jesus christ on a motorbike that's so stupid
I have to ask, what's narcolepsy?
You fall asleep at any time. It doesn't matter where you are or what you are doing, you'll just fall asleep.
A disorder that is pretty much uncontrollable sleepiness even when properly rested.
@@lizzieliz6717thank you
@@RepellentJeffthank you
From what I under stand it is when some body falls asleep but I think it's more than that - it's a scary condition because they could fall asleep at any time , any where & there's no control over it. I think it's a rare condition & I have never met any one with it ( as far as I know ) or seen it 1st hand for my self since it's rare so it's one of those things that is hard to believe in even though it exists. ( My heart goes out to those who must live with that condition. )
it's a sleep disorder just wake him up or let him sleep and besides the kid is a guest and has no role in the wedding so SIL is overreacting and I'm pretty sure everyone has like this habit of falling asleep during a wedding ceremony or any event that's like longer than 20 mins let's all be honest folks I'm pretty sure most of us here had fallen asleep during an event
Like it when it says 20 meters
Op graduated from yappington star university with a degree in yapology
The moment op is talking about misogyny I stopped.
Reads the title, think please not C, story continues...sleep. the "illness" is sleep😂 how dramatic does one bride needs to be.
he said mother had "internalised misogeny" lost me at that point... what a weak man... suspect the writer is a difficult person
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Have a GREEAT day,lad!
You wanna know what really grinds? My gears with these stories is the moment that the person that's in the wrong start yelling at the o. P and the OP start crying. Are you serious like that? Just makes you look 10 times guiltier. And secondly, grow up, why are you crying like all of this could have been avoided if she would have said. Your daughter said that my son couldn't come to the wedding bing, bong
Op is manupulative and controlling 😂
I know everyone reacts to things differently but instead of crying I'd be angry bc why tf would you treat your grandchild like that? Your nephew like that? I would've blared to everyone how much of ableist freaks they are to bully a kid for a condition he can't help
You sound very defensive explaining how simple your wedding was and why etc.
AI not understanding illnesses story #4. Narcolepsy isn't Tourette or some shit.
why is OP making it sound like her son has some serve illness, its just a sleeping disorder.
Wtf is this story? Nothing makes sense. Everyone is over reacting or under reacting. Its like a continuous of decisions that keep making nothing into something bad. The lack of communication between everyone is fucking my head.
Oh god interalized muhsojinee.
So your moms gets a second chance but his parents don’t? I can see why they think you don’t want to be a part of the family. The sister was wrong but your no better
Ugh! Why are the women in these stories so weak? It irks the hell out of me.
I thought that the disiese was autism or esquizofrenia or something contagious... But narcolepsy? Isn't this the sleep disiese? Just let the kid sleep in a car if this hits him during the ceremony...
Imagine finally having grandchildren only to not only support them against ableists but to make fun of them for having like literally one thing “wrong” with them. Not even wrong, just different from other folks. Also, I don’t think it’s a wife having boundaries thing. In my opinion, it’s defo an ableist thing from the fact that they posted memes and that apparently OP didn’t have problems with the SIL until the wedding? Ya, it might be because of boundaries but I think it’s just cuz OP’s son is narcoleptic
I feel this is a reupload.
I remember a story where the son would have seizures, but roughly the same scenario
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The OPs sis is really not skibidi and sigma
If you cry that easily, you need to grow up
Huh??? Lmao
@@abcdefzhij i didn't stutter
@@brianarnold8666 I sidn't dtutter!
Found the in-law
"Screw the human for having natural emotions regarding their own child!" Either crappy (yet clearly effective) bait or a crappy outlook on people to have
You know, getting ostracized from the family isn't enough karma. And not really spicy. Be more creative on that part.
i’m on the brides side. what they did was a bullshit move.
Why ?
@@missytanner3501 Because, the OP made it so it was as dramatic and about her as possible. Brides do go a bit mental, and sometimes make terrible request, which this was super insensitive. But instead of being reasonable, she triggered her whole family and left in a very conspicuous way. No efforts at adult discussion, no reasonable compromise, nothing but full on asshole move.
@@spicycatsandthings
How would you be reasonable, and compromise with isolating one member of your family ?
@@missytanner3501 The child was just asked to sit out the ceremony. I would have sat the ceremony out with my son, doing something fun for the 30 minutes it takes, then joined the rest of the family for the rest of the day with my son. Then, i would have brought up this unacceptable behavior, later, and demanded my sister in law treated my son to a special day like Disneyland to make up for her asshole behavior. I would not have escalated to the point i made this about myself and been a bigger asshole, which is what i think the OP was here.
@@spicycatsandthings
The bridezilla only want her nephew out , and would have had ridiculous hissy fit if op tried that. Bridezilla is the golden child.
11:25 I can’t imagine any scenario how your in laws can make you quit your job to be a stay at home mom. What the actual fuck
That's how it was back then. Wouldn't be surprised if Mom's own parents also pushed for it.
@@southernflight5078 I know that’s how it was back then. But I can’t ever imagine myself just blindly following the orders of my partners parents to make them happy. Fuck their happiness, if I’m making my partner happy and we’re safe and sound, it doesn’t matter what I do as long as it’s not illegal.
It's a little weird you're Threatening your mother with no contact cause she has her own opinions. If you dont want her to speak her mind dont ask. You're a weird daughter. Everything else was the aunts fault.
If you can't stand up for your child when they've been wronged, then you're not a good parent. Just saying.
@@FaizatheTempest Believe it or not parents are people too and are allowed to have opinions. She didn't force it on her. she even kept quiet but the daughter pushed and wanted to know her reasoning. then Instantly get mad when told. Like if you can't handle what is said "DONT ASK"
YTA her wedding her decision
and there decision to leave and protect there son, what kind of grandparents cyber bully their grandson
@@missytanner3501 protect? By lying to him how is lying protecting??
@@iwtbrnk
Did you listen to it, she wanted to exclude her nephew from the wedding for treatable conditions and isolate him in hotel room. But it was ok for neice to be there . If she had said no kids they would have been fine that , but instead had them come only say go stay by himself in hotel room. Which is wrong they were being responsible parents. Even the groom said she was wrong
@@missytanner3501 again her wedding her decision