realistic day as a gay living alone in japan
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ต.ค. 2024
- HEY today I showed you what a normal day looks like for me in japan, and shared with you a little about my current apartment search :P. thanks for watchin
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Ryan, I think you should stay in your current apartment. Based on your visa situation, your current school dynamics, money availability, and the horrendous cost of the new apartment. It just doesn't make sense.
Im gonna be your big sister for a moment and say that you should stay in that appartment a little longer. Since you got so lucky with the cheap rent, and it also being closer to school. Also Im sure you are aware of all of this, I just didnt want "all" the comments to say "get it" haha. Also, also: I totally cant eat without watching a yt video either
This is really sweet of you!!
I totally agreed with you, with the price, the time it’s take to go to school and the neighborhood its self is literally everything you need to consider before moving
I agree with you..
idk why but this comment sounds so sweet and sincere😭 btw i 100% agree with u
I agree w u sm
I have a feeling that we like to watch videos while eating because it makes us feel like we're having a meal together with someone and not just eating alone. I think meals are meant to be shared and eating can also be a social situation so the video fills the need!
this is so cuteee c:
watching this while studying is what's keeping me going. Thank you. You're so much fun to watch wallah
BRO SAMW
im watching this as i do hw rn 😭
honestly the apartment looks beautiful but if i was u i wouldn't do it u can still search for more apartments u never know maybe u'll find something better/cheaper/closer🤷♀ but it's obviously up to you so do what u wanna do❤
I’m so obsessed with your videos whenever it’s late and I can’t sleep I rewatch them all. thanks for sharing your life with us 🥹
your videos are like my comfort thing, its my medicine for being anxious and today i had a really hard day and your video just make me feel better i feel so good rn so thankssss aaa looot
what you were saying is that when things get though you might tend to run away or avoid what you are feeling. Try to sit down with that feeling and maybe you will find a bit more rest in those moments :) just some food for thought
That new apartment isn’t worth it love💗 wishing you positivity and wealth💗
its giving the biggest worldofxtra vibes, in a good way
I want to go to Japan so bad 😭😭😭😭
My best friend and I moved to Japan years ago. Best decision EVARR. Our life quality improved exponentially. It’s incredible here.. and so affordable!
@@rolandaustria7926 omggg sounds awesome I would love to do that someday!!
go rn its easy
@@theo.Minion I wish I could but I still have school n shi 💀💀
@@emmyoftheweek im just saying because theyre accepting almost everybody rn but がんばって
tbh I really like the apartment u have rn jus bc of how affordable it is and the distance from your university, however if moving is going to help you out mentally I suggest searching more for smth u like which is closer to uni and not expensive as well !!
I love your videos ! You're a treasure and feel like a friend talking ; Japan looks so beautiful
i don't really hang out on tik tok but i do hang out on youtube, i made it to the 11 minutes easily lol. ty for sharing your day.
I personally think tiny living is cute and fun, especially when you don't have to share. I would save up as much money as I can and use it on other things like trips
currently binge watching every video! 😤
i love ur videos sm 🥺🥺 best of luck with ur apartment hunting!!
Living in japan wont solve all my problems, but i will be dealing with my problems living in japan!!!!😭💔
Do NOT get that apartment. The “buyers remorse” of all the money and extra commute would add to your stress. Instead take some money and redo your current space. I’ve been in your situation and the money stress is real.
I'm coming to Japan next year in February bestie I'm actually so excited!!
I love how you put realistic and gay in title to make it as specific as possible. Awesome vlog bro.
Stay, stay, stay in your apartment. If you take the new space you'll lose $3000 that could go to things much more fun. You need experiences and immersion in the community and you won't get that in a nicer place that encourages being inside. If you don't like your bathroom set-up go to a local sento (a calming and meditative experience), something you can't do almost anywhere else. Become Japanese!
I love watching your videos beacause you have this homey vibe and youre like someone i want to be around
There’s a score to like just moving around your furniture
I discovered your channel just yesterday and seriously your videos are very nice, quiet calm and help me to forget my pain
you are also very nice, i'm glad i came across your channel, thank you
i also can’t eat without watching something, im eating while watching this
Ugh cus of my exams I didn’t realise u posted WATCHING U IS SM FUN
Wow the 5k to move in… is just like in LA if you plan on moving out its first month’s rent+security deposit rent out here is usually $1500-$2,00 so around 5k to move out too
I love your vlogs so much it really inspires me to go to Japan and live there !! ❤️❤️
I’m eating rn while watching you 🫠
I feel like moving to that place isn’t really the smartest thing to do, especially if it’s double the rent just for a place that you think you want. You should most definitely wait on it til it feels right or keep looking at other’s, and if you feel like you need some change in your living space or life you could decorate it differently move some stuff around to change it up a bit. Really make your apartment feel like yours yk and be less impulsive to leave, or take up a couple of more hobbies or do some that’ll take a lot of your time from home so that when you’re not there you’ll miss it, if that makes sense.😄
yey i missed your vlogs
I'm not great with these types of things but I would say don't move quite yet. if everything is doubled INCLUDING your walk to school it's like kind of not worth it? I would say maybe go for it if you had the money and it was closer to your school that your current apartment, but its further so it's a no-go for me personally. You do you though!
Japan seems so fun but the difficult thing for me is not understanding what the food labels say or what people r saying 😂🤷♀️
I always look forward to your uploads! Your content is so fun 🤍
That smile is everything
You’re so funny, but I literally ran out of breath just listening to you 😂
If you are "okay" with your current apartment - best to remain for now. The new place might be tempting but the move in cost is a lot. Best, to hold on, save or spend that money on "life" things that bring memories - like "travel". Sounds like the apartment now is a good price and isn't perfect but not horrid. Keep your life expenses low, and spend on the things that matter more. Think about it, typically after a few months the honeymoon phase of a larger space starts to fade. Once I heard, double the cost, double the commute - etc - from my experience - not worth it. My 2 cents for what it's worth.
And see it’s the needing that extra money to fill those voids to do other other things so it’s one of those this or that situations (Keep cheaper rent to have money for resources to fill voids for other things). Because new apartment = higher rent which would mean less money available for traveling etc
5000 to move in. Then the cost of packing and transportation of your things. NO WAY!!!!!
omg ryan!! , i love your videos :D I swear this past few days ive been in love with youuuuu!!!!!! Keep up the good work :))
i luv watching ur channel grow omg
I just started watching him not even an hour ago and im alr subscribed im obsessed with his videos 😭❤️
ok who turned emma chamberlin into a gay guy living in japan ? lol honestly it gives me old school emma vibes before she changed and lost the fun/relatability
You should stay where you are. Cheap and functional. If you fail Math what happens to your visa?
I love ur videos im glad I found u on tiktok
Ryan I love ur vlogs I enjoyed please upload new vlogs m waiting ✋️
Why dont u do an airbnb for a month somewhere else close for a cheap price just to clear out ur mind? That way u dont have to commit to a more expensive apartment and regret it
math is hard dude i have never gotten higher than a C my entire college career. godspeed. pls attend those classes. mcdonalds is comfort food ♥
I’ve been binging your videos and honestly they bring me such comfort, I’ve had the opportunity to be in Japan for a week and have forever yearned to go back. Once I finish schooling here I plan to transfer there and live on my own! This is some great insight
that really means so much to me ;-; ily
Sending a smile to You from Canada. I like learning about your experiences.
you got once in a lifetime deal on a apartment i think you should stay . maybe its just time for redecaration for o new mind set. see how school goes if you stay in or not then decide .
Ryan honey get help with your math . Are there tutors that can help you? Just go for a C 😎You will be so thankful later that you graduated. I feel for you. Hope you are okay. I am glad you are taking time with picking an apartment. Sending hugs from California ❤
I second this! A tutor could make a big difference. I still need a calculator for basic math, but I got my grade up enough to pass. Good luck!
If the travel time with your possibly new apartment is too long I suggest getting a bike, it will get you everywhere faster and Japan has lots of bikers
i love your videos keep uploading !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i love your videos so much they’re really getting me through life rn
$5,000 in fees & double the rent. Don’t move, it’s not worth it.
Okay no I finished my food as you were saying you have to watch something when you eat. because SAME
i love you smmmm 😭😭 literally been following since your first apartment tour tiktok ugh literally my comfort person ❤❤❤
Keep searching and searching until you find a list of apartments that have decent pricings, decent neighborhood, close to wherever you need to go / easy ways to get to places you need to go.
Feels a bit serious but you gotta do what you gotta do ryan 😭
Message 1: Oh my lord that one apartment you got sad about when it came to the area, i get it!! it's so so pretty ☹
i love ur videos sm
ur the video i’m watching while eating
really enjoyed the videooo
I love coffee a lot too man! 😂 But I wanna know how hard is to live in japan like work statistics and stuff!
Bro i love your content, it feels real and doesn't feel like its marketed if that makes any sense. im planning to move to japan in the future and your videos help me see the reality of living somewhere that's so romanticized
Omg I’m early I love your videos my dream is to move to Japan!
3:45 me eating while watching him eat lmfao
I like your apartment! Very cute. Save your 💴 and just make your crib cuter inside with some modern affordable stuff there in Tokyo. Take care and enjoy Japan. 💗
it's good to see you cooking!
My two cents: stay in your apartment and stay in school 😬
It's hard, but you'll manage! We are really capable of doing great things if we push ourselves enough while taking care of ourselves.
Good planning and good organization work wonders to clear the mind and achieve our goals. And it makes us enjoy our time off better as well!
I love your videos, by the way! You are very charismatic.
がんばって！^_^
Try lowering your spendings first bc from personal experience spending double the finances is really gonna catch up to you, i love the apartment(s) but honestly its not the only apartment(s) youre gonna come by. You should stay where you are for a little longer, try redesigning or replacing stuff to make ur apartment feel more fresh. at the end of the day the longer u stay the more excited youre gonna be when the time finally comes :)
I’m so tempted to move to japan
Don’t
Unless you’re planning on getting compensated in usd. Yen is outdated.
If you do just learn the basic stuff respect what and what not to do and about how your going to do it try learning all the information you need
@@greysilm9891 you know how much money Japanese companies pay gaijin in yen a month/year. They pay them Pennies and the cost of living of living in Tokyo Japan is high Asf. You need to be a TH-camr with a million subscribers to be able to enjoy your days stress free in Tokyo.
@@Top5OniiChan not true rent is considerably low but if I was OP I’d consider studying a lot of Japanese and if you have a degree you can apply for the jet program too!
Bro your vids make me wanna live in Japan so bad but my friends say it’s a bad idea. Now I’m not sure 💀 help
Your options are limited but you have three options
Student visa- good for two years
Work visa- good for two years (renewable)
Holiday work visa-good for one year
Omg i love your videos sm they are so relaxing 🥰
I know kinda random but I saw you questioning the purpose of you talking for a long ass period of time about shit, but like for real, I watch EVERY video of you from the beginning to the very end and it just immediately makes me smile, like I enjoy your videos so fucking much and you motivate me to move to another country, so please, KEEP IT GOING!
your videos always make me so happy idk why i just love seeing you do random things & your voice is also very calming!
i would hold on to the place your in a little longer and save money so you can feel good about the a future move fully and not feel any kind of regret! you might be fixating on moving bc of your stress regarding school? the place your in right now is still a vibe 💕
TH-cam recommended me your video, I guess because I'm also in your situation. Thinking of moving, but also only if I find THE ONE. I think if I were you I'd only move if the apartments you showed were reasonable distance (like 15-20min) max walk to where you need to be everyday. Your current place is insanely well priced and you got really lucky!
Patients is key and is something that I am learning as well. Staying a little longer might be your best option financially. 😊
this oral essay was everything ryan 😀✋
Dont move, it's not wise.
SLAYYYYYYY 💅💅✨✨i love ur vids so much they inspire me a lot KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK QUEEN PURRRRR
RYAN HOW ARE U!!!!???
Always enjoy watching your videos! Love Japan.
Love this video
Three minutes in n ur talking about watching a TH-cam video while eating and i just finished eating😭 that’s y I got on herw
So the new apartment would be twice as expensive as your current apartment and would be twice as far away from the place you go to on a daily basis? I would not do that. Having low monthly costs is so nice. You can afford so much more per month. You can save so much more money per month. Also you live there only for a year now and you think about getting an apartment that has about 5,000 $ initial costs, which basically is the costs for living 10 months in your current apartment. Living for one year in an apartment is NOTHING.
The reason EVERYONE loves you is your honesty.......about everything. Warm wishes from a woman old enough to be a grandmother living in the beautiful Texas Hill Country. 👍👏❤
There’s noth8 g wrong with the apartment… most Japanese places are tiny as and that one looks nice
3:35 so real
I’m in a similar boat, except I live in Philly and am 36 😭I hate my apartment, it’s small (about 500 square feet) and dated, I don’t even have a washer/dryer. But for my neighborhood it’s affordable ($1100/month plus utilities). I really want to move because I really really want more space, ideally 2 bedrooms, but I would have to pay at least $4000 to move (first, last, and security). I don’t know if I should ride this out, or move 😩
pls post more ryannn
I wouldn't move... the extra money you save could go to shopping, trips, food, extra stuff... I would love LOVE to live in your apartment.. How exciting that would be... I'm a new subscriber and would like to know more about you... Why Japan....What's your major.....Do you work..... I want to know everything about Japan.. How much does one need to spend a month or two in Japan just as a vacation. My only thing is sometimes you go a little too fast, slow down so I can see the surrounds/people.. If you save some money, can you do a blog on Bali-have you been to Bali? Love it cause your earthy, a little serious, out going but not overly silly... Thanks for just being honest..Grace
You likely have ADD, among other issues. Perhaps do less social media and work more on yourself.
As a mother I advise DONT GET THE APPARTMENT you have a fantastic cheap apartment you wont find again you will have to sacrifice alot to have laundry inside I would just rearrange and redecorate your current apartment new bedding sheets etc you would also have to add the cost of moving all your stuff im imagining you have collected stuff over the years
My school is 2 trains and 2 busses away from where I live. That's like 1.5h just for going there and another 1.5h for going back. 50 minutes is not that bad ^^
3:34 literally me.. watching youtube and eating as we speak..😭😭
Tan emocionante tu aventura en Japón! Saludos desde Colombia
Can you make a video explaining how you moved to Japan, and how people like me from America can do it too?
I mean 26 minutes of a walk compared to 13 minutes when it’s hot af or cold af matters. Also, everyone’s telling you to get it cuz they don’t pay ur bills lol
Hmm maybe don't move into the new apartment unless you are comfortable and able to afford it. Although the new apartment is spacious and all, but the cost is doubled. You do you anyway✨