Robert Burale on the dangers of a rebound and the best way to handle a breakup | Lynn Ngugi Show
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ส.ค. 2024
- What do you do when the person you love most breaks your heart?
Do you immediately think of a rebound to help you with the pain or do you find healthy ways to move past the breakup.
Relationship Coach Robert Burale is our guest on the Lynn Ngugi show and he will be talking to us on the dangers of a rebound and the best way to move past a breakup
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What your views on today's topic?
You can connect with Robert Burale here th-cam.com/channels/_DBxhaK8GcWRagHDdU-nMQ.html
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Thank you so much for watching.
So educating 💯
My all time mentor and crushie 🥰😍
I love the statement.Never avoid the process 🙏🏽🙏🏽
keep on keeping it Lynn ...i am always assured of learning something from here
We need him back again..
*Heavenly Father I pray that you keep the person reading this alive,safe, healthy and financially blessed Amen 🙏🙏🙏*
Amen and Amen
🙏🙏🙏
Amen yarabi 🙏🙏
Amen
Amen
Upon listening to the coach, I can honestly say I have never dated, I was only used and dumped at one's will. May God Help me to find someone who will genuinely love me and care for me.
Ain't alone. Can relate though the advice is don't point fingers in blame. We also had our wrongs in it !
Stay strong mommy❤
Hugs to anyone out there going through a heartbreak coz they were betrayed😢 hugs , there's life outside that relationship💯🙏 sending love ❤
Thank you 😔
Amen
Thank you 😌
I tell you going though a breakup nikupita tanuri as in hell but after that forgiving and accepting where you your self messedup u will then be a new life 😄☺💪💪💪😋😋
Thank you
Very powerful, mixed reactions, mixed comments, hurt and unhurt voices speaking from their point of view, everyone's opinions count! Yes we want Robert Burale Back more insights and advises ! He is full of truth, full of wisdom!
Thank you
For once kibe is positive
When you meet Christ while alive you meet the saviour; when you meet him when you are dead you are meeting the judge.So profound.
That was deep it touched my heart
I love Pastor Burale's quotes.❤❤❤
Was touched by that too.
I have just undergone a serious breakup and was soo stressed so couldn't sleep and decided to watch something on TH-cam, thank God I came across your show Lyn because you guys have just given me strength to go through this strongly. Thank you Lyn
Am going through the same it's not easy
Haki my 23 year old marriage is also coming to an end
There is nothing like falling in love 🔨 you nailed it sir. Falling in love is a deceiver. One has to take conscious decision to marry the other part. That is why there is too much divorce because once you fall out of the so called love you decide to move away from the relationship. But once you take a concious decision you be with that person no matter the challenges you face together you find a better solution and continue to build each other because you decided.
Wonderful conversation. I once dated a white guy after 5 yrs of divorce and he was so upset with his ex wife and he was wishing her dead, i saw him only 3 dates, I cut off. Never date a bitter ex of someone else.
I can relate this Mumbi
Amen!
We all need a person who can really talk to us afta a breakup,coz this what we lack....Lynn thanks for bringing Mr.Burale,he's a man who oozes wisdom and never lacks solution to any problem
I like Robert coz he is very genuine. He is not fake.
He is gifted with witty words or one-liners "... When you meet Christ while you are alive you meet the savior, when you meet Him after your death, you meet the judge...."
Black man in dark room
Insightful...
@@nancyannet7164 winking 😂
Am I the only one who doesn't skip ads on Lynn's channel💯👏
Awww❤❤
Love you, thank you:)
@@LynnNgugi welcome❤🙏
Tuko wengi~
Am like how will she make the dollar 💵
One wise man once said, Fools multiply when wise men are silent.
We need people like Burale to talk more and educate people in this break-up path..
And now without further ado, allow me thank Lynn ngugi for today's content ,it's reality💯 real life we all living
Lynn may God bless you beyond ur expectations for having walked with us throughout the year and bringing us different people with different contents, ur my no one this year
Excellent one. Am in my early 50ties and has been so hurt. Still single but his talk has really healed me.
Awww ❤ ❤ ❤
Same with me
On the same category..I hate changing men bcoz all are the same;as proverbs goes"bird of the same feathers flies 2gether..bng single wthout mingling best way ever..one become stress free(faithful men/women lke that of old days never exists...it's better to belief in urself or 4get completely who ure later.
Easy on you my friend... Take it slow
At was yr moment
Robert Burale is the epitome of Bold and Courageous...the bible commands so, Coach I hear you loud and clear.
I did exactly that Robert, vented on the opposite sex and they tried to be better than my ex and I played myself in the process! I did not last long though as I saw that I needed time alone to deal with me. Thank you Lynn for bringing Robert on your show. Appreciation from South Africa.
Thank you so much
Thank you so much sis. I'm in Botswana. So true..i am also a younger youtu.ber, I have a program called Marry who is ready, you may if you please, kindly check it out
Issue of rebound very true,had to call myself for a meeting we are good friends though.Thank you coach.
I agree with you Robert the bible is a service book for human being full stop
I wish those who are going through a break up a quick recovery. Rebound is a pandemic.
Yes, much truth und mostly respekt,....R.Burale ,and Lynn Ngugi ,... Absolutely true from the heart people.....one in very few!💞🙏🏻🙈🙉🙊💯
Great talk, i can listen to Burale over and over again, the guy has wisdom
Lynn. You know what your people want to hear and learn. This Robert show was great and very educative. Thank you once again Lynn and thank you Robert for telling us that there is nothing liking falling in love, it is supposed to be intentional love or friendship.
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Lynn, im from the Solomon Islands very very far from Africa... but i just want to thank you for sharing with the world these amazing and very inspiring stories.
May God richly bless you and your team for getting people to share their stories.
I like how you say 'even if the story inpact one life you are happy'...
Tagio tumas.... means thank you so much!
Wow! Solomon Islands! Yes, very very....very far from Kenya....though together in the net.
I love the fact that Burale appreciate need to see a therapist especially when dealing with this breakups.
May God heal our broken generation and raise more coaches like him to help others professionally
It true not one course of breaking two ways communication
Trust me, there is no road map to healing a broken heart. And don't feel horrible because you're not healing magically the way people around you expect you to heal.
I loved the bit about rebound relationships. After my separation, someone tried to convince me to sleep around and use men 'to revenge what my husband did to me' and I realized that those were the kind of people I didn't want to associate with at all. Just because a person has gone through divorce doesn't mean they're the best to seek advise from. Be discerning, and go for professional therapy!!
Wisdom. You destroy yourself when you think you are hurting your ex by sleeping around with men to sooth your pain.
Lynn we need more of this.What a wisdom packed guest.
Hi darling Lynn, next bring BENJAMIN ZULU on the show, much love from qatar🥰
Benjamin Zulu is one of a kind, very wise and to the point. Will Lynn manage the maestro!!! He is very blunt.
@@TheFrancesZachary she will
Yea please do
Me too, I want benjamin
Benjamin is very loud
I love the spirit. I have been single for 7 years after several broken relationships, and today I feel more confident of what God has done in me.
This channel is all about learning something each and everyday, road to 300k subcribers. Keep moving girl
So much learning. What Blessings.
I have really learnt something ive been asingle for 23yrs thank you lyn keep going gal may God bless you iam watching from dubai.ruth
He honestly spoke well. I like the way he ended by saying; it's the little things that open up to the big things. Yes, that's so true. Lynn did a good job bringing him to speak on these messed up happenings in relationships.
I love this son of the Most High God. He’s full of wisdom and he’s so real. May The Lord keep uplifting you. Lynn, Thanks as always. This is so resourceful 🙏🏾🙏🏾
So true...there's no falling in love..."love is a feeling" ......you can wake up in or out of it...Good advice...loved it!!!!
That is so true about falling love. One has to be intentional and grow loving each other. It takes intentional commitment to love the other regardless. Perfect statement
Simple way to avoid other Factors;
Make Sure Both Parties Are On The Same Page. ...
Communication Is Key. ...
Figure Out Why The Breakup Happened. ... Take It Slow And Be Patient. ...Experiment And Embrace Change....
Time heals all wounds. A relationship is never the end there are so many things in life to appreciate.
Absolutely true
One thing most people don't understand,is that a person who has failed in a relationship gives the best advice, I've learned alot from most of my failures.
Keep up R.B
I've never hurt over someone breaking up with me, but the loss of relatives gets me. I can give testimonies of healing and getting over grief.
I love the way pastor handles and balances answers spiritually and physically cuts the edges...
I'm nowadays hearing a lot about don't be with someone you really love because love will one day not be there (emotionally), but be with someone who you can do things with (progressively, economic reasons)🤷🤷
Robert burale to run for 2022 coach seat tunasema aje tena Na tena. You are here falling in love with his voice. I'm here looking at the shoe and salivating. We love you Papa.
Thank you so so much
Where were you Lynn in the past two days?Kept on checking on TH-cam for something in vain.Thank God you're back .
I can't be quiet anymore.he he been a silent follower.
Just wanna say you're amazing
I am here now🙏❤❤
A rebound is very dangerous when rushing to it for convenience. RB is 100% correct. Do not rush to the opposite sex for comfort by bed warming. Bad mistake. From a rebound, you need to stay far away from telling what happened to the wrong people. Take time to process away from bad influence groups fond of gossip. Quick fixes and hostile quest to fix a failed relationship is rethal. Take time to find your own side of contributing to that breakup and seek to be cautious next time. Relationships fail. It is the manner in which you handle it that matters guys.
Lynn a breakup has no timeline, it depends on your support systems and secondly what Burale has said about how fast you accept reality and your own mistakes.
"There is too much wrong information out there" perfect message.
Love is not enough guys, we can repeat this again and again till Jesus comes.....There is much more.
If you meet christ when you are alive you meet a saviour when you meet him when you are dead you meet the judge..... Wow wow even if i don't learn anything else in this interview that one thing is enough 🙌🙌
“Nothing like falling in love!…… falling from where?”♥️
This issues of people breaking up in relationship and trying to look for rebounds is becoming a major crisis in our nation.. this are things that happen each and everyday due to inadequate therapist and as well ignorance frm spouses.. Mr Burale thank u we really need more people like you🤝
I love the wisdom this moG drops.
Very educative 🔥🥰🔥.
Blessings Coach Burale.
This conversation is just the PLAIN TRUTH..... loud and clear
This man is good. I like his thinking. Seasoned and full of wisdom. Only same thinkers can understand his knowledge. Hello Burale from London ❤️🇬🇧. Lynn, you're always beautiful my lady. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you very much
What Robert Burale is saying is very true.. when you jump into the next relationship without fully healed you going to be hurt even more... My two favorite people I love you both.
Last month my husband and I disagreed to an extent we had to involve parents and wazees but by God's grace we were able to talk and settle things. I was so angry and I blamed everything on him and forgiveness was not easy but by the help of the Holy spirit I read John 8:3 about the adulterous woman and then romans 2:1,22 immediately I had to repent and I feel free and ready to let go of anger and bitterness.
I agree there is nothing like falling in love. I believe grow in love.. I chose to marry my husband because of his personality and i said yes to him then I started growing in love with him. Intentionally made my mind to stay with him forever. Its a deliberate choice to live with him based on what i saw in him.
Yes Robert......we need to ask ourselves where did we also go wrong? That introspection alone makes one to realise one's own mistakes.
This is powerful Lynn.. forgive yourself and forgiving the other person..also plays a key role in the healing process...
I like burale's way of teaching..he has great insights on relationships
I've blaming my ex but I've realized the mistake was mine . I loved him so much but once I was told he's cheating my love for him turned into anger and that's how violence started.
But if he was a cheater don't regret walking out of it. Cheaters don't change
Don't blame yourself. Cheaters are pathetic and leave you broken, insecure, with anger issues.
@@damariszuckschwert9489 but which man doesn’t cheat not even ua pastors
@@millicentesther1315 They is some faithful men out there..,not all men are cheaters.
I haven't cheated in my life but i have been cheated but not all women cheat
Waoh! The man is with a lot intelligence. Whatever he is saying is absolutely true. He should teach this generation the truth about the word of God which is is the light and it witl set them free.
I have stayed for toxic marriage for 20 years before I could run away 3 time trying to make things work out and fearing to be called single mom coz I have raised up by a single mother so I hated that and I need to be in a man hands,I did have a Dad, grandfather or a brother and to uncles it was not good place to be coz of much things so in that marriage I tried to tie myself to him hata madharau yote nilikua na samehe coz I was saved and in me nilikua na jalibu kunyenyekea nione kama ita work but please it was killing me slowly and I was wrong to make someone know your most fear juu nimegogwa na kuto taka kua single but now for 8 months from the time I Divorce I feel I don't want to be near eny man and I feel to stay a lone is best , I have forgiven him and he have moved on and have married but for me I want to stay listening to the word of God all the time waiting for God guide line and He God who is helping me through Jesus and my helper Holy spirit 🙏🙏🙏 am composing my music and now I have a lot of song and believing to get money to record and to praise my God is my priority for now.
Competent, sharp, humble, all. .this is one of the few who can give relationship advice. He knows his limits too. Some dude advices on everything and anything in relationships.
True, if you cannot be together just being, you cannot be together. Just be there chilling
Asanteni sana. Nimefahamishwa, nimecheka kama kumbafu. Tuaschane na ujinga mob tu. Mungu awa bariki sana.
Best coaches are not the footballers. Single hoyeee! We give raw advice.
ouch! my bad! that i cannot have this gentleman all for me💗💗💖 this man is a whole vibe.... i always search for him just to solve my issue and know what step to take nxt more blessings more wisdom from above🙏🙏🙏🙏
Very true Lyn,his voice is unique.. have learned alot ,it hasn't been easy to get over my ex but at least now I have a clue where to start , thank you.
Man of wisdom. Comment section imejaa watu wana agree na wewe. We love you
Lynn You have saved ,encouraged so many souls ,,,Burale this Busia guy is always spiritually guided
This is the best conversation I have ever heard. Life experience and the truth being told. God bless you so much for bringing real people to this channel to speak about real life . God bless you too Robert Burale..
I've learned a lot from this ...Thank you so much I needed to hear this.I'm scared of being alone/lonely so I tolerated lot of heartbreak .I sometimes jumped from one relationship to the next...trying to fill a void that can't be filled and it has got me in a situation that I'm now not happy with.🤔
Apo kwa after heart break don't run to the opposite sex for advice or comfort I can relate 101%
Most do that for comfort and get eaten and double pain on the way
I love this wisdom ... my journey of healing and self restoration, is moving in the correct direction. I have accepted my mistakes - what an eye opener. Thank you from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
Today's episode is so educative to majority of us who are going the rough road of break-up.As he's say,the situation is very traumatizing especially to the one being left.
The truth annoys but he’s saying what it is , let’s call a thing a thing, before I used to hear this Mr. talk and I used to say he’s divorced or single what is he saying to people, hv heard you well today I salute you and keep telling us more
God bless you
Lynn, that was awesome discussion with My friend Mr Burale. He's an amazing guy to always listen 👂. I like the content in his brain. Strength of his spiritual life. Amen team..
Lynn, please make sure u bring Mr Benjamin once again, today I learn something very important from him.
Nice nice , thanks Lynn for bringing us Robert . He gave me the food my heart needed 🙏🏼, please bring him more and more.God bless you.
Nakwambia separation hurt, it tears from inside. If separated by someone you love. But too you can't hold or force someone to love you or leave with you. It good to let them go and cry once; than holding them to make you crying
Exactly.
The best topic so far. I love his thinking and saying reality as it is
Thanks for ur wisdom
This programme about relationship
Is so true
Good evening Lynn, kindly when you host Burale talk about widowhood and the healing process.
The conversation was lit. There could be no other better way to discuss this topic. Very well said and articulated ❤️❤️
Love Mr.Burale's insights....and he has a great sense of humor as well!
This man speaks facts, and he is humorous
He is.
I needed to hear this, Lynn thank you.
This rebound thing has cost me but am learning
That makes the 2 of us. It's been a helpful conversation.
Very true people confuse LOVE and LUST so it should be intentional love I like that
This guy is gifted. I got encouraged.
WOW...burale 🔥🔥🔥🔥,am inspired ,I thought I was the only one who went through the trauma of breakup.thumps up burale.
Lynn U are amazing mum for what u are bringing to us in this channel,today l feel like hugging u it only that am far ,l always follow Robert in all his pages in social media he is a man with destiny his advices changes my life🙏🙏🙏
I also know one day will sit here with Lynn🙌🙌💯🙏
Thanks Lynn for bringing burale,he speaks wisdom Ile watu hawapendi good job.
19:26 happened to me, very painful. It took me a long time to heal. His exact words was “ I’m not ready for a relationship” after we attend church together every Sunday, I meet the family, I went with him to sign for his home, New Years, his moms bday, constant contact.We picked out furniture together. Then he turns around, dismisses me because I wouldn’t sleep with him.
Hugs it is well..
Just failing to sleep with him😌😌😌hugs.🫂dear
Healing to you my dear. Keep your values and hold on, you will get a person with the same values.
Pounding on the truth again and again and again! Informative! To Lynn and Robert, kudos!
Was really waiting for this interview... Burale is full of wisdom
Learning every day from this channel much love ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Wow this is what I needed to hear thanks Lynn for bringing Mr. Burale.
So Lynn really knew what my ears wanted to hear this particular season
Lynn am addicted by your show.niko wa kwanza always. Kama kawaida with my popcorns 🍿 TO enjoy the show
Oooh Burale you have nailed it!!!!!!generation ya today imepotea, they know no love; sexual immorality tu no wonder there are so may heartbreaks and breakups. Hawajielewi
I just love this gentle man's advice
Am glad you hosted this legend alafu salimia EDU and the rest
Edu alibaki Tuko
Some serious morning life classes before work 😊 Thanks Lynn.
This was really awesome!
Am so much educated.
May he come again and again.
I would like him to speak about how to redeem lost self esteem(failing to believe in yourself and feeling worthless in the face of everyone.)
Thank you Burale,Thank you Lynn
Sure sure, I hope Lynn sees this
Know your worthy first ...count yourself loved and worthy before God not before your offenders...you will heal so easy...
RB a great man of God, everyday I learn a lot from you… live long mtumshi… nakupenda bure more blessings and to Lynn a great show baraka gal…
This man this man,, so real and honest kudos to you both ata sijui looking forward to the next show
Have looked for this show so much but I get lazy searching the devil is a liar 🤥. Much love Lynn with our wise man Robert Burale🙏🙏
I love this guy,,I wish I can get talk to him daily
I am watching this late but thanks alot Lynn, it has helped me understand a situation I went through 21 yrs ago🤦. I now understand very well and can help a person going through the same. Big upgal
Single pple we give advice out of experience, that's y we offer the best, Burale I'm ua fun