I can’t remember how long I’ve been following you but I appreciate your honesty and the fact that you are always looking for that silver lining. As a 55 yr old female doing the solo RV thing, more out of necessity now than adventure, I can appreciate and benefit from your stories. ❤ Keep on keeping on Freya. You’ve got this!
Getting out of an abusive relationship is the best decision you could have made. Hard to do but you saved yourself. You now have a real life, not one serving a heartless automaton. You’ll be fine because you’ve already done the hardest stuff. You are on a healing journey. Life is full of heartbreak. Figuring out how to live a full, open hearted life in the face of heartbreak is really the challenge we all face. I’m a trauma survivor too, as I suspect are many people who come to your channel. Grief from traumatic loss consumed me for years. And yet today I sit here in a completely different space. I did some very specific things to heal and finally found something that worked for me. Good luck to you and all your followers!
I’m so happy you are reclaiming your life. I like your soft voice and calm demeanor. I’m looking forward to your videos and following along on your adventures. You got this. I also have a Sienna and have been essentially living in my van with my dog for the last 2 years while my husband lives in our home ( my choice) . It’s difficult for me to make decisions to move forward. I look forward to your videos.
Beautiful!💖 Thank you so much for sharing your story. Your courage and perseverance are inspiring. As a soon-to-be carlifer (also a Sienna🚙), aspiring writer/creator, and survivor of trauma, you are an inspiration when I sorely need inspiration.🙏
I lost my mother to cancer, and then lost my housing twice during the pandemic, while also simultaneously dealing with a broken transmission in my car, and spiraled into homelessness. I'm now living in a Toyota Sienna myself.
Wow. Thank you for sharing your story. It's way way way too common. But you are finding the strength to get through. You are incredibly courageous so never give up on yourself. This is such an important story to share as it wil help others in a similar horrible situation. I hate hearing anyone going through this and am always amazed at the silent strength that develops.
It will take time to heal and start a brand new life. Domestic Violence and abuse is a real thing. If you enjoy reading, I recommend “Why does he do that? Inside the minds of Angry and Controlling men by Lundy Bancroft and “It’s my life now” by Meg Kennedy Dugan. Two really great books in the field of DV. “Complex PTSD” by Pete Walker and “Healing Developmental Trauma” by Laurence Heller. I wish you the best ❤❤❤
It can be hard to bare your soul to the whole world for sure. I think your baby steps are the best, As my friend Tina who has been much of what you have been through says, "Keep On Steppin'" (Her channel is "Tina's The Outsider"
Great introduction, may I make a suggestion? Starting out, maybe only commit to one video per week? Then as you go along you can try adding an additional video. You sound like you have a lot on your plate and two videos per week could become overwhelming. Also, if you’re only able to get one video a week out then you won’t have to go through all that awfulness of having to apologize and say oh I’m going to try…..be kind to yourself is what I’m trying say. You seem like a lovely woman and I’m wishing you the very best ❤
Congratulations on your writing accomplishments! Unfortunately, narcissistic/ codependent dynamics are common among most couples on some level. Becoming the alchemist through your experiences will lead you to greater self-awareness and transformation.
I have already visited your TH-cam channel. Your video ideas are very nice, I like them very much. I have seen many of your videos where almost all of them have no visa. I have made a great plan for your channel which will help monetize your channel quickly.
You could shift your subject matter to include more problematic character relationships and be just as much if not more bestselling as an author, I bet. Take care!
Life is one giant shit sandwich, sprinkled with false glimpses of hope. We are all locked into these decaying meat suits connected to a trillion pain receptors. Life is Pain, Disappointment and Betrayal. Once you realize this.....every day is gravy. I too come from years of abuse ----you carry it for life. Bullies bully because they can. The Self hatred comes from knowing that you got PUNKED and gaslit by a stupid cowardly man. Once awakened....they are so very tiny. Which makes your self subjugation that more insulting to yourself. Was never much for Christianity. Never made sense. I started embracing and practicing Stoicism. It is an ancient philosophy of the Greeks and Romans. Practicing it consist of envisioning the worst case scenarios every day ----And asking yourself ---how will I react. If this happens to me, how will I survive. What can I do in a worst case scenario to get through it. After years of practice you become bulletproof, unflappable, unshakeable. And when bad things do happen, you save a lot of money on hippy dippy Therapist. I will never turn my mind over to some damn shrink pushing Big Pharma Anti-Depressives. Train your mind to interpret your environment pragmatically. At the end of the day people are just hairless monkeys fighting over bananas. Don't spend your whole waking hours thinking about them. They will not return the favor.
It’s good to see you back making videos! I’m excited to what’s next for you!
Thank you so much, Timothy! You're such an inspiration, that means a lot to me.
You go girl! I'm so proud of you! I'll cheer for you anytime 😊❤🎉
Thank you cheerleader!
You have endured so much and now you're coming out the other side. I'm so proud of you! And, I'm ecstatic you're finding your voice and writing again.
With all my heart, thank you
I can’t remember how long I’ve been following you but I appreciate your honesty and the fact that you are always looking for that silver lining.
As a 55 yr old female doing the solo RV thing, more out of necessity now than adventure, I can appreciate and benefit from your stories. ❤
Keep on keeping on Freya. You’ve got this!
Thank you Roxie!
Liked, subscribed, and rooting for you!
Thank you!
Same here! Keep moving forward you have so much to give and life for.
Love you girl! Looking forward to all your videos!! 💗
Love you back. Thank you LeeAnn
try to be strong, you can start winning again :)
Survived to Thrive !
Getting out of an abusive relationship is the best decision you could have made. Hard to do but you saved yourself. You now have a real life, not one serving a heartless automaton. You’ll be fine because you’ve already done the hardest stuff. You are on a healing journey. Life is full of heartbreak. Figuring out how to live a full, open hearted life in the face of heartbreak is really the challenge we all face. I’m a trauma survivor too, as I suspect are many people who come to your channel. Grief from traumatic loss consumed me for years. And yet today I sit here in a completely different space. I did some very specific things to heal and finally found something that worked for me. Good luck to you and all your followers!
I’m so happy you are reclaiming your life. I like your soft voice and calm demeanor. I’m looking forward to your videos and following along on your adventures. You got this. I also have a Sienna and have been essentially living in my van with my dog for the last 2 years while my husband lives in our home ( my choice) . It’s difficult for me to make decisions to move forward. I look forward to your videos.
Beautiful!💖 Thank you so much for sharing your story. Your courage and perseverance are inspiring. As a soon-to-be carlifer (also a Sienna🚙), aspiring writer/creator, and survivor of trauma, you are an inspiration when I sorely need inspiration.🙏
I lost my mother to cancer, and then lost my housing twice during the pandemic, while also simultaneously dealing with a broken transmission in my car, and spiraled into homelessness. I'm now living in a Toyota Sienna myself.
I'm deeply sorry about your mother. Thank you for your comment. Sending much love and strength to you.
Congratulations on getting away from him. You can now flourish!
Wow. Thank you for sharing your story. It's way way way too common. But you are finding the strength to get through. You are incredibly courageous so never give up on yourself. This is such an important story to share as it wil help others in a similar horrible situation. I hate hearing anyone going through this and am always amazed at the silent strength that develops.
It will take time to heal and start a brand new life. Domestic Violence and abuse is a real thing. If you enjoy reading, I recommend “Why does he do that? Inside the minds of Angry and Controlling men by Lundy Bancroft and “It’s my life now” by Meg Kennedy Dugan. Two really great books in the field of DV. “Complex PTSD” by Pete Walker and “Healing Developmental Trauma” by Laurence Heller. I wish you the best ❤❤❤
It can be hard to bare your soul to the whole world for sure. I think your baby steps are the best, As my friend Tina who has been much of what you have been through says, "Keep On Steppin'" (Her channel is "Tina's The Outsider"
Great introduction, may I make a suggestion?
Starting out, maybe only commit to one video per week? Then as you go along you can try adding an additional video. You sound like you have a lot on your plate and two videos per week could become overwhelming. Also, if you’re only able to get one video a week out then you won’t have to go through all that awfulness of having to apologize and say oh I’m going to try…..be kind to yourself is what I’m trying say. You seem like a lovely woman and I’m wishing you the very best ❤
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Congratulations on your writing accomplishments!
Unfortunately, narcissistic/ codependent dynamics are common among most couples on some level. Becoming the alchemist through your experiences will lead you to greater self-awareness and transformation.
Good on ya! Women are nothing if not resourceful! Signed, 75 y/o living in Toyota Sienna van.
I have already visited your TH-cam channel. Your video ideas are very nice, I like them very much. I have seen many of your videos where almost all of them have no visa. I have made a great plan for your channel which will help monetize your channel quickly.
that narcissism is a real pain... had to shake the abuse results... I may wind up out in my SUV again if things go bad.... take care :)
Much luck and power to you.
@@freyaaurorawilding yes, and you!
You could shift your subject matter to include more problematic character relationships and be just as much if not more bestselling as an author, I bet. Take care!
Life is one giant shit sandwich, sprinkled with false glimpses of hope. We are all locked into these decaying meat suits connected to a trillion pain receptors. Life is Pain, Disappointment and Betrayal. Once you realize this.....every day is gravy. I too come from years of abuse ----you carry it for life. Bullies bully because they can. The Self hatred comes from knowing that you got PUNKED and gaslit by a stupid cowardly man. Once awakened....they are so very tiny. Which makes your self subjugation that more insulting to yourself.
Was never much for Christianity. Never made sense. I started embracing and practicing Stoicism. It is an ancient philosophy of the Greeks and Romans. Practicing it consist of envisioning the worst case scenarios every day ----And asking yourself ---how will I react. If this happens to me, how will I survive. What can I do in a worst case scenario to get through it. After years of practice you become bulletproof, unflappable, unshakeable. And when bad things do happen, you save a lot of money on hippy dippy Therapist. I will never turn my mind over to some damn shrink pushing Big Pharma Anti-Depressives. Train your mind to interpret your environment pragmatically. At the end of the day people are just hairless monkeys fighting over bananas. Don't spend your whole waking hours thinking about them. They will not return the favor.
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