The issue on dating apps is that women are focused on top 5% of men - most of them hook up with those guys - relying only on photos and height. Dating apps are waste of time for men in general.
The point you brought up about "don't hate the player, hate the game": I could make an argument that in this case, the player makes the game, so you can blame men for lowering their standards for women. If more men had standards for women beyond physical appearance, women would also have to work on themselves to be better (as it should be, in my opinion). We're long past the ooga booga times where the only thing a woman has to do is be pretty and a good housewife. Unfortunately many people are still stuck in the past, where that's the case. Trad guys with boomer mentality.
Thats all because of these men who are actively using the social media for dating and are totally boot lickers, for girls theres not much difference between men online and men in real life so they know if not you then someone else, its a trade, and we're loosing it. Thanks to all these who are sucking up, now we have a lot of women with a big huge robast ego
nice comment i like your view point, to me men raise their standards when they improve themselves a lot of men are willing to settle for less because they don't think they can get anything better for men a collective raise in standards is downstream from a collective "got our sh*t together". as your watching content like this i appreciate you rising the tide of male standards with me
@HonestImprovementYT It also comes down to life experience, I think. As I was younger, I didn't really mind hooking up with girls just because I found them attractive on a superficial level. I still had a type, though. Like any girl that's kind of "alt" or "different". I hadn't experienced love and heartbreaks and I just wanted to have fun. It took one special girl to change my perspective on dating forever.
Hello! From watching your channel I started approaching girls, which Id never done before. The results are amazing, I get the numbers, and since I'm a very social person its easy for me to keep them intertained and start conversations. But whenever I get their number after some chatting online, I figure out that theyre not kinda interested, i find most of them just boring, they put simple answers, being very late on reply etc. Whenever Im trying to invite them to take a walk they say theyre busy, so after a few invitations I just loose interest. Is thah bcz theyre just boring and not my type of person or thats my problem that I cannot have them interested? I find myself good looking, with a great sense of humor, but most women are just boring af, is that because social media has gotten them lazy? Since they have a lot of men around available theyre not ready to contribute, I'm confused. If you're reading our comments please give an explanation from your experience why so?
It’s important to set a specific day to call her by the end of your first conversation if you've the sensed the attraction and relationship was there. This way getting her number feels intentional, for her. For instance, you might say "Great, I'll call you on Thursday so we can talk more then." Indecisiveness has always been a turn-off for women, and with a clear plan, theyre less likely to flake. Another tip is to make small suggestions during your first meeting, such as moving to a quieter spot. This subtle relocation makes it psychologically easier for her to agree to bigger suggestions later, like a second date, coming over to your place, traveling to Prague, etc etc.
Nah dude, theres no specific planning, just if shes not ready or wasting your time, dump her and go to another one. Nowadays ladies have a big variety of man, so do u. Just for you its a touch easier bcz unlike women, you can approach any girl so u choose. I text them for a couple of days and if I see, no convo is happening, I just ask her out. If shes not willing - shes not interested, start the game over. Hate talking online it sucks @@mangomight7938
hey all love the discussion going on my answer to the question of how to avoid numbers which flake is two fold 1. Master the skill of connection. Women are attracted to men and find men interesting all the time but they don't date them. To be the man she turns up for comes down to the level of emotional connection you make. check out this video for further detail 2. go for dates not numbers. you can save yourself a lot of time by finding out if she's interested by leading with a date plan rather than getting a number which is minimal commitment in the modern day
5:35 that dog walking the path on his own just like me lol
The issue on dating apps is that women are focused on top 5% of men - most of them hook up with those guys - relying only on photos and height. Dating apps are waste of time for men in general.
The point you brought up about "don't hate the player, hate the game": I could make an argument that in this case, the player makes the game, so you can blame men for lowering their standards for women.
If more men had standards for women beyond physical appearance, women would also have to work on themselves to be better (as it should be, in my opinion).
We're long past the ooga booga times where the only thing a woman has to do is be pretty and a good housewife. Unfortunately many people are still stuck in the past, where that's the case. Trad guys with boomer mentality.
Thats all because of these men who are actively using the social media for dating and are totally boot lickers, for girls theres not much difference between men online and men in real life so they know if not you then someone else, its a trade, and we're loosing it. Thanks to all these who are sucking up, now we have a lot of women with a big huge robast ego
nice comment i like your view point, to me men raise their standards when they improve themselves a lot of men are willing to settle for less because they don't think they can get anything better
for men a collective raise in standards is downstream from a collective "got our sh*t together".
as your watching content like this i appreciate you rising the tide of male standards with me
@HonestImprovementYT It also comes down to life experience, I think. As I was younger, I didn't really mind hooking up with girls just because I found them attractive on a superficial level. I still had a type, though. Like any girl that's kind of "alt" or "different". I hadn't experienced love and heartbreaks and I just wanted to have fun.
It took one special girl to change my perspective on dating forever.
Hello! From watching your channel I started approaching girls, which Id never done before. The results are amazing, I get the numbers, and since I'm a very social person its easy for me to keep them intertained and start conversations. But whenever I get their number after some chatting online, I figure out that theyre not kinda interested, i find most of them just boring, they put simple answers, being very late on reply etc. Whenever Im trying to invite them to take a walk they say theyre busy, so after a few invitations I just loose interest. Is thah bcz theyre just boring and not my type of person or thats my problem that I cannot have them interested? I find myself good looking, with a great sense of humor, but most women are just boring af, is that because social media has gotten them lazy? Since they have a lot of men around available theyre not ready to contribute, I'm confused. If you're reading our comments please give an explanation from your experience why so?
So getting a number is not a rocket sciense but having them to go to a date with you is the big issue 🎉
@Ярослав-э8ш3о Agree. Taking a number is not mean a serious desire todays. Especially from women in their 20s.
It’s important to set a specific day to call her by the end of your first conversation if you've the sensed the attraction and relationship was there. This way getting her number feels intentional, for her. For instance, you might say "Great, I'll call you on Thursday so we can talk more then." Indecisiveness has always been a turn-off for women, and with a clear plan, theyre less likely to flake. Another tip is to make small suggestions during your first meeting, such as moving to a quieter spot. This subtle relocation makes it psychologically easier for her to agree to bigger suggestions later, like a second date, coming over to your place, traveling to Prague, etc etc.
Nah dude, theres no specific planning, just if shes not ready or wasting your time, dump her and go to another one. Nowadays ladies have a big variety of man, so do u. Just for you its a touch easier bcz unlike women, you can approach any girl so u choose. I text them for a couple of days and if I see, no convo is happening, I just ask her out. If shes not willing - shes not interested, start the game over. Hate talking online it sucks @@mangomight7938
hey all love the discussion going on my answer to the question of how to avoid numbers which flake is two fold
1. Master the skill of connection. Women are attracted to men and find men interesting all the time but they don't date them. To be the man she turns up for comes down to the level of emotional connection you make. check out this video for further detail
2. go for dates not numbers. you can save yourself a lot of time by finding out if she's interested by leading with a date plan rather than getting a number which is minimal commitment in the modern day
word, if you don't want to meet with people in real life look for a penpal or AI conversation, not a relationship.