introvert diaries: re-learning how to make friends, feeling lonely, what I eat & a trip to Malaysia!

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  • hi friends. be kind to yourself. you got this. take care. I love you.
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    welcome to the 2nd week of studying abroad in Singapore. I've met so many incredible human beings on exchange and it's got me thinking a lot about my past experiences with friendships (the good and the not so good heheh). and I've realized maybe my friendships just look a little different - my mom, my milo, my cindy, ALL OF YOU... you make me feel like I have friends from all around the world. I'm filled with so much gratitude at the moment. I don't think I've laughed this hard or smiled this much or felt so seen in a while. sending you lots of love & scallion pancakes.
    food!! spots!!! ↴
    SINGAPORE:
    ➯ PUNCH: 32 N Canal Rd, Singapore 059288
    (yummy (pricey) brunch vibes, try the pancakes and French toast)
    ➯3 MEALS A DAY: 1 Rochor Canal Rd, #02-01 Sim Lim Square, Singapore 188504
    (salted chicken egg = fire)
    ➯Liao Fan Hawker Chan (Chinatown): 78 Smith St, Singapore 058972
    (i like the sauce but it’s a little overhyped tbh)
    ➯BIRDS OF PARADISE GELATO: many different stores
    (pricey but good quality & cool flavours)
    MALAYSIA:
    ➯ india gate: 2-G, Jalan Puteri 1/5, Bandar Puteri, 47100 Puchong, Selangor, Malaysia
    (like literally life-changing)
    ➯ mee tarik restoran: 36, Jalan Sultan, City Centre, 50000 Kuala Lumpur, Wilayah Persekutuan Kuala Lumpur
    (100/10 scallion pancakes, SO AFFORDABLE, dumplings and noodles so good)
    ➯ Heun Kee Claypot Chicken Rice: 59, Jln Yew, Pudu, 55100 Kuala Lumpur (SO FLAVOURFUL and CRISPY PERFECTION)
    ➯ HO KOW HAINAM KOPITIAM: 1, Jalan Balai Polis, City Centre, 50000 Kuala Lumpur, Wilayah Persekutuan Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia (good but not fantastic)
    ➯ Mollagaa Restaurant: 50A, Lebuh Ampang, City Centre, 50100 Kuala Lumpur (SO YUMMY AND FLAVOURFUL OMG)
    music
    Music by LOVELOVELOVE - Valentine - thmatc.co/?l=853EB069
    Music by Blue Sirens - Less Traveled - thmatc.co/?l=C9AAF1E0
    Music by Blue Sirens - Honey - thmatc.co/?l=C86E5EEC
    Music by Taylor Van Cleave - Sucker For That - thmatc.co/?l=F7A000A5
    Music by Dakkuma - Away - thmatc.co/?l=D47746FB
    Music by Lohfi - Ginger - thmatc.co/?l=C4EF0C1A
    Music by Sam Celentano - Apricot - thmatc.co/?l=B8CCDD2E
    Music by Andres Jacque - Endless Steps (Remastered) - thmatc.co/?l=4FE0E4B8
    Music by Lohfi - Hello - thmatc.co/?l=3155772F
    Music by Kim Chi Sun, QQQ - don't say you love me - thmatc.co/?l=D94C5FD8
    Music by Pluto & Charon - Seams - thmatc.co/?l=D427B00E
    Music by Public Library Commute - Brand New - thmatc.co/?l=7F29B609
    Music by Carl Burgundy - All I Know - thmatc.co/?l=47520C5C
    Music by Mr. Jello - Impossible - thmatc.co/?l=32005289
    Music by Naomi - Romantic Moon - thmatc.co/?l=B9D66F02
    Music by Mr. Jello - A Love Note - thmatc.co/?l=0D16DC7F
    Music by You ME and the Piano - Merry-Go-Round - thmatc.co/?l=CF4CB039
    Music by Blue Sirens - Bread Box - thmatc.co/?l=4038954A
    Music by Damien Sebe - living life - thmatc.co/?l=AE457AC1
    Music by Ebony Loren - All In My Head - thmatc.co/?l=6B9E9BC9
    time stamps
    0:00 - solo play dates
    1:23 - fake it until you make it
    4:14 - best friends (not) for life
    6:31 - not a need but a want
    8:10 - too good to be true?
    10:41 I’m TOO independent
    11: 37 - this gives me hope
    13:22 - they are out there
    15:14 - thank you universe
    16:53 - I miss my mom
    19:11 it’s kind of wonderful
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  • @willowshine765
    @willowshine765 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +391

    you say you don't have friends . . . but you have a whole community of supporters. we love u linda

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

      there is a part in the video where I mention this 🥹 you guys feel like my family and my best friends

    • @esikazemese
      @esikazemese 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lindasunyt That is really sad, that you call a bunch of strangers friends, while you are surrounded with awesome people and dismiss them in your videos all the time. You are lonely (not by choice, that is BS) because you are a whiny neurotic.

  • @zephaniedalafu
    @zephaniedalafu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    I really love Mother Sun's words of wisdom. She's just a loving Mom. You are so blessed to have her Linda. Sending love from the Philippines!

  • @noemiecp7696
    @noemiecp7696 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    I’m usually a silent viewer but this video resonated so much with me. Everything you said, from thinking that “if you don’t talk, you can’t say something wrong”, or seeing the friends you thought really knew you leave, to feeling kinda ‘jealous’ of people because they have the kind of friendships you wish you had… I’m also in the process of making new friends after finally leaving the ones who made me feel left out and unappreciated, so this video resonated even more with me. I’m also 22 from Canada and I feel like if we ever met, we would definitely be best friends. Thank you for making me feel seen. ❤

    • @Somebodysomeone1
      @Somebodysomeone1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too!!!

    • @finnyork4152
      @finnyork4152 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah same I was like, friends check up on you? I didn’t know that friends do that 🤷‍♂️

  • @CS-jx8rr
    @CS-jx8rr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    as someone who has made/lost many friends, i cherish whatever good memories and lessons those people have gave me and hopefully ive gave those ppl. im lucky to have had met the few ppl in my life that we can talk about anything plus communicate and revitalize our friendships as we change and grow. i know some ppl may leave my life but there are so many others that i havent met yet. love you linda, youre an inspiration to millions of ppl. we'll be cheering for you, near and far! (:

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I feel this so much! thank you for sharing this 🥹

  • @RakisDerra
    @RakisDerra 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    I completely relate to this video. Being the outsider in a friend group and navigating new friendships as a young adult can be so challenging for me. Even though I'm an introvert who needs time alone to recharge, I genuinely enjoy socializing. Without social connections, I feel down, yet there's this internal barrier stopping me from pursuing new relationships. Like you briefly mentioned, it's like a sort of fear of rejection or not being good enough, especially when you've always felt like the odd one out. What changed my perspective is realizing we're more alike than we so often think. The struggles and insecurities we face aren't as unique as we believe, many people go through similar things. So that also applies to making new friends: not everyone is the "outgoing party type", yet people still look for others to connect with. I am probably repeating myself at this point lol but I hope I got my point accross hehehe. Also, if you ever do run out of friends, CONTACT ME I'd love to be your friend HAHA❤

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I feel ya I also used to be so afraid of rejection, especially because of the bullying
      for far too long I've felt like I was never enough, because I was always the odd one out, but once I started my TH-cam channel I have started to realise how I dont need to try to be enough for everyone, that instead we have to first be their for ourselves, and that we dont need to change bc we have all always been enough
      I have some videos that I think you will resonate with the messages in them if you want to check them out and I hope they can help 😄

  • @user-ie6fe7zg8i
    @user-ie6fe7zg8i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

    i love how linda in her videos makes me always so comfortable. Like, your videos are honestly a big, warm hug, a therapy for my soul. Watching her videos is making me be grateful about my life too. I think that's what truly makes her a beautiful person, a really really great internet friend, a kind soul.

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      I love you my internet friend

  • @heni0217
    @heni0217 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    14:47 -15:14 THIS PART---
    "who used me when it was convenient for them..."
    "...the ones who make space for me on the sidewalk"
    My exact thoughts after many friendship breakups in the past 5 years. I used to be the backup friend, the therapist friend, the one they'd make weird jokes about, and when i reacted the certain way, i had no humour or "self-irony".
    It's been kinda lonely, but i used my whole summer break to build a relationship with myself. I truly started to accept myself, but also built up a need to evolve and grow.
    And somehow, when the next school year started, it all fell down again. Not drastically, but i felt it. I was still okay with MYSELF, but my surroundings constantly reminded me of the things i lack. Or the things i used to be insecure of, and i noticed how it didn't come from me. It came from the little gossips, the social media stalking, when they said "oh look at her she's so f4t" (she wasn't, it was just a normal female body) and i looked at myself thinking "well i don't really look that different, do they think the same about me?"
    And then some days later we'd talk about their insecurities. And i noticed that when i was mentally in the right place, feeling good about myself, shining from the inside and outside, i never even thought about criticizing anybody else. I was just happy with myself and it changed how i saw life, and others.
    So what i want to say--- i used to not really believe in this, but it turned out to be true: the most insecure people talk the most sh1t about others. Don't let those thoughts get inside your head, if you don't want to turn into them.
    Also, i can't wait to get out of high school but also kinda lost faith in friendships... so this vid came exactly the right time! ❤

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      awww girl trust me you will find your ppl don't lose faith
      like I say on my TH-cam channel change is the only constant thing in life so as you change so will the opportunities and friendships that will come your way
      if you want I have some TH-cam vlogs that I think you will love the messages from them

  • @maryyermak4819
    @maryyermak4819 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Omg, I felt so understood after you said that maybe I'll just never have or make friends the way other people do...The whole video was as if you were speaking from the bottom of my heart. Although I never met you, I feel like you are my soulmate from the other part of the world. Thank you for being here and sharing your thoughts and feelings!

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      her words always manage to hit me so deep inside
      I hope one day my own TH-cam channel can reach as many hearts I really want to support others grow and become the best version of themseves

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      this comment makes me feel so seen

    • @keishafortune7714
      @keishafortune7714 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi this video really resonated with me as well.Linda just expressed truly how I've felt for many years.

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      same@@keishafortune7714

  • @YourGirlShaylah
    @YourGirlShaylah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    This video really touched my heart especially watching her laugh and smile with her friends. You can tell when love his genuine

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      🥹🥹🥹 it really is from the bottom of my heart

  • @arpitaprakash9460
    @arpitaprakash9460 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    As someone who recently moved out of home, your videos are comforting, you feel like a friend in a place where I know no one. ❤

  • @suchitrahembram3860
    @suchitrahembram3860 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This video makes me so emotional, (IMMA CRY) not because I find it relatable but because of how far Linda has come. I have been watching Linda for the past few years now and I can see how Linda has evolved over these years. It makes me beyond happy to see how Linda is finding herself and finding her people and her HOME :)
    I AM SOOOO PROUD OF YOU and I really wish only the best of the best for you. ❤️‍🩹

  • @Ayaaa2003
    @Ayaaa2003 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I've never been happier , I WATED FOR SOOOO LONG .
    I ALSO RE-WATCHES YOUR OLD VIDEOS CZ I MISSED UR VIBE

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ILY

  • @meghansmith2479
    @meghansmith2479 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Linda always feels like a friend i’ve known for ever in these videos i just love her. you have helped me change my relationship with food and i’m so grateful for you.❤

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      im so glad to hear you have chosen to work on yourself as it only then that we can begin to understand who we want to be
      and If you ever need some friendly reminder I have some TH-cam videos that I think you will love

  • @rh0daaa
    @rh0daaa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was always labeled as shy/quiet growing up, and I used to let that define me and minimize me. It was until recently I’ve realized the importance of being around people who fill your cup instead of drain it. The ppl that try to minimize you/call you shy aren’t your people and truly don’t deserve the chance to know the real you. Loved the video :)

  • @ebba.grhe00
    @ebba.grhe00 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I’ve been binge watching your videos for the last week and was just about to watch another one and then you posted iiiiii🥹🥹 my Friday is complete now 💗💗

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      sameeee literally I was editing for my next TH-cam vlog and she uploaded I needed to stop

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ILY HAVE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL DAY

  • @-maumau-2518
    @-maumau-2518 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hello! I don't usually talk much on the internet almost never.. but just want to say this is such a life changing video for me! Thank you for sharing tips and lessons :)
    You have such a kind soul.. Thank you ❤😊

  • @tulip.s_
    @tulip.s_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    i feel the same way. everyday i ask my 'friends' if they wanna hangout and everyday i get ignored for no reason..i rot in my room most of the time and try to stay as productive as i can but lately i just feel like i don't belong anywhere and i relate to you so much omfg i love you, you're my comfort person.

  • @jammies42
    @jammies42 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This one hit right in the soul. After some not so great friends and a few years of no friends, I'm surrounded by genuinely kind and hilarious people that everyday I am so so grateful for. Wild how they find you when you least expect it.

  • @e.l.1459
    @e.l.1459 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have a soft spot for your videos. I always find myself tearing up when I watch them. I think it is because I can identify myself so much with your experiences. Thank you for talking about the good and the bad sides of life!

  • @monnabarry
    @monnabarry 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I think you are so kind, warm and beautiful. Anyone who is friends with you is lucky. Also, you are literally my top few favourite content creaters.

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      this is such a cute message

  • @sunandini9670
    @sunandini9670 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    when i mean that i get answers, joy and pure happiness from watching your videos. i mean that in the most genuine way, thank you truly linda

  • @meagain739
    @meagain739 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When I saw that a new video was uploaded I LITERALLY jumped of joy. You are such an inspiration. REALLY!!
    You know as an athlete I always struggle with food and my weight, but your videos kind of guided me through the tough process. Thank you for everything 🫶

  • @saharaldroubi1326
    @saharaldroubi1326 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this video felt like a warm hug , thank u linda for being u your videos always bring me comfort and make me feel less alone 💗

  • @niniextra7642
    @niniextra7642 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I relate with this 100%.
    I'm an introvert so I usually don't speak up if I'm in a group of over 4 people. I would expect to have friends even when I spend most nights in my room. I pitied myself for not having a big group of friends and for not having any friends.
    But when I stopped having a victim mentality, I realized that I do have friends; I just needed to put in the effort. For example, I wouldn't be late to hangouts, I kept my promises, and I actively set up hangouts with friends. In the end, I became the friend that I wanted to have, which attracted the right people.
    I changed my view on what it means to have friends - I realized I am my true self when I surround myself with 2 of my closest friends and not when I'm in a big group of acquaintances.

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      most often than not a change in mindset can change our whole perspective in life
      as ive discovered the more I do TH-cam vlogs, my mindset around things keeps on changing, and I hope I can help others develop a more positive mindset and create a community that is as positive as this one

  • @kimilapradhan13
    @kimilapradhan13 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh my god I can’t put it in words about how much I love Linda, the way she speaks her way through my heart and soul is entirely comforting and I really appreciate Mother Sun’s advice, it feels like she is literally giving me a piece of motherly advice and trust me it heals that huge part of me, kind of like warm hug that I really needed.
    I’ll forever be thankful for your videos Linda, thank you❤

  • @dhritide4010
    @dhritide4010 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    If there's something that helps me through when I am completely lost and confused sometimes , those are your videos Linda. Thank you so much for building this community that is nothing less than a warm hug!! ❤❤

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      truly so thankful for this community
      I hope that one day I can build such a big community as this one with my own TH-cam channel I love the one I have so far

  • @thegigirl
    @thegigirl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a 16-year-old girl, it feels so good to know that I'm not the only one strugling with friendships and being the "outsider". Wishing all love and light for everyone who needs ❤

  • @amyvongeis1410
    @amyvongeis1410 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It warms my heart to see you laughing and so happy!

  • @amywadsworth5801
    @amywadsworth5801 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can totally relate with this. For the longest time i felt so alone in my friend group, but i finally made friends who understood me and we just clicked really well.

  • @bobbobina4045
    @bobbobina4045 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you linda! Thank you for sharing your journey feelings and experiences ❤ I really needed this, this video really made me feel hugged. Ive been craving friends and socialising, but am also learning the importance of individuality, being your true self and opening up to others, as a part of growth. I relate so deeply to this video thank you for making me feel so understood THANK YOU love you THANKYOUU!!!

  • @dannix5802
    @dannix5802 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Linda ❤ This made me cry happy tears as I miss Singapore. And cry real tears on the friendship sections. I too have lost so many friends despite always being there for everyone. And slowly learning to love myself, be there for myself if no one else will and embrace that! This has made such a difference to me today. Thank you. ❤❤

  • @trex_r14
    @trex_r14 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    every time I watch your videos, I literally tear up🥹...I just love you sm! I feel at ease when I hear your narration ☺ Thank you!❤

  • @Shoun19
    @Shoun19 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It was very recently that I've said this to my best friend after watching Linda's videos. I said, she's the type of person we'd instantly be friends with 10 mins after a conversation. We read the same type of books, we journal, and our lifestyle itself as well. Your videos are like a warm hug.

  • @kayleeweiler
    @kayleeweiler 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Linda always makes me feel like I am never alone... I absolutely love her!

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      agree
      literally like the friend that is always there
      I hope to also be that to the people on my own TH-cam channel
      because no one should ever feel alone

  • @lilbotititititch
    @lilbotititititch หลายเดือนก่อน

    So glad you got to visit Malaysia. I've been studying abroad for the last 4 years and haven't been able to go back for awhile now. :) Love how much positivity you radiate and the messages you convey through your videos. Your journey of friendships resonate so much with me as a past extrovert turned introvert struggling to find my position in my own life let alone in others :') . Love from the UK.

  • @AmyArseanult49
    @AmyArseanult49 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    thank you so much for helping me through my journey! i love you!

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ilysm

  • @user-jn1wu8hv7l
    @user-jn1wu8hv7l 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    this video spoke to me like you wouldnt know. growing up as an only child i got used to being content alone and as i got older it hasnt changed lol i tell myself i love being alone because Ive had to get used to it. Im happy to see you enjoy your trip with a new group of people 😊

  • @marydunn5793
    @marydunn5793 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tearing up because of how touching and relatable yet inspiring this video was. You truly are sooo special and every video you create offers this warm sense of comfort.

  • @_emmasdigitaldiary
    @_emmasdigitaldiary 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Linda your videos are always so comforting and relatable. Thank you!

  • @hannahshumway1344
    @hannahshumway1344 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You're videos always make me feel so hopeful 🖤 thank you so much, please keep creating!

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      THANK YOU

  • @ShrutiSingh-ev6lz
    @ShrutiSingh-ev6lz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can never just go through a video without its pace being fast or me skipping through it, but you my love, you are my timely dose of therapy every now and then that I wouldn't miss for the world. Thank you for healing parts of me without knowing that you're my healing bandage linda. Thank you ❤❤

  • @Anna20009
    @Anna20009 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for being so authentic and vulnerable with your content ❤I resonate with how you feel as a fellow introvert - good things take time, and the best is yet to come for us 😊

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      exactly like I often say on my TH-cam channel and try to remind others the only constant thing in life is change, when we embrace it rather than fight it this is where we truly begin to understand ourselves

  • @erikamoses3848
    @erikamoses3848 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the rain looks so pretty i'm gonna cry

  • @identityunveiled.
    @identityunveiled. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love that you talk about these emotions!!❤

  • @joslypierre-louis3046
    @joslypierre-louis3046 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you Linda!! Your videos feels like friendship such a blessing I feel so seen in this and relate so much to this thank you for posting

  • @selenophile_36_
    @selenophile_36_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just listening to u talk makes me forget all my worries....I was just crying but after listening to ur voice I automatically smile...thankyou sis for being a good friend🫂🥺❤️

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thank you for being here my friend

  • @jayyjaee
    @jayyjaee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you need a podcast... i love the way you talk and express yourself. its soooo beautiful

  • @schotcey
    @schotcey 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was the right post at the right time. -- perfect timing - a boost just when I need it. Thank you for your work. Best to you

  • @alobiennicky7407
    @alobiennicky7407 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have felt like Linda a few times in life and I have learned that when you enjoy your own company that's all you need and also you will attract the right people who will love spending time with you and love you for who u are.

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When we start working on ourselves, things seem to fall into place
      like once I started working on myself and started sharing my own journey on my TH-cam channel it is when things have began to feel right
      I hope that one day I can reach more people and continue to encourage them to be their more authentic selves

  • @rrrrreaderrrrr9609
    @rrrrreaderrrrr9609 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this video so bad!! I was feeling lonely and crying myself to sleep a few days ago and everything in this video explains what I am going through!! 🤍🤍🤍 love your vids!!

  • @jagrutibandaru3329
    @jagrutibandaru3329 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this was soo good- the voiceover, the message, the video aesthetics- love you Lindaaa

  • @peyarobbins
    @peyarobbins 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mother Sun is so wise. I feel like we're walking this journey together, Linda. Sending you so much love. Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us!

  • @charfalala
    @charfalala หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve always found comfort in your videos but haven’t been watching you for a while! thought of you today and clicked in, surprised to see that you’re studying in sg now 💕 Linda you’re so loved and relatable from a fellow Singaporean girl, also navigating her way through her 20s (school, gym, life and everything). can’t say how much watching your videos has changed my life and brought me calm 🥹 hope to meet you one day!! xx

  • @tubabasowaatuchopgoomp8614
    @tubabasowaatuchopgoomp8614 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I also don't have any friends, everyone left me at my lowest, but after that I understood they never were my true friends. I healed and learned how to love myself, I feel more independent but tbh after that it's so difficult to trust other ppl (sorry if I made mistakes but english isn't my mother language)

    • @niamh8995
      @niamh8995 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i’ve had a super similar experience and i’m still learning, sending you loads of love🫶🏼

    • @tubabasowaatuchopgoomp8614
      @tubabasowaatuchopgoomp8614 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@niamh8995 trust the process, the time heals the wounds 🫂 also sending lots of love!

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      know that there is nothing wrong with you
      you did nothing wrong, they were just not your ppl
      I have lost so may "friends" bc I move around a lot and only have a few that have sticked around, but those are the ones that truly matter
      personally I also struggle a lot on trusting others, but im working on being more vulnerable but like I always say on my TH-cam channel baby steps

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I am so proud of you

    • @tubabasowaatuchopgoomp8614
      @tubabasowaatuchopgoomp8614 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🥹❤️ Thank you guys 🫂

  • @ananyagoel9865
    @ananyagoel9865 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this is such a comforting video i love listening to your thoughts linda

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      she is bomb at editing, she is the one that inspired me to have enough courage to start my own TH-cam channel, and now I have fallen in love with editing and filming and encourage others to become the best version of themselves I hope that I can provide some comfort to many more

  • @NoemiBrk
    @NoemiBrk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video is basically explaining me, I felt so seen 💜 thank you for this

  • @ninalove73198
    @ninalove73198 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video brought me to tears. I’ve been watching you for a few years now. The vulnerability you demonstrate in your videos and articulate within your voice overs brings me an inexplainable comfort that I was not really expecting to receive (but yet I am so grateful for). I’m so happy for you Linda ❤️ God has carried you through so many seasons. He is with and He is for you. He loves you! Thank you for letting us into your journey and helping others along the way!

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I relate, like the comfort and the inspiration and motivation she continues to give me is truly inexplicable
      she is the main reason I started my TH-cam channel where I want to encourage others to be their most authentic selves

  • @allisonlikesyellow
    @allisonlikesyellow 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your mom's words of wisdom are the absolute best 👌

  • @liviablanka8600
    @liviablanka8600 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ive been watching these videos for so long I feel actually proud of you 😭🩷

  • @Link-gs7hh
    @Link-gs7hh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for being yourself Linda ❤❤ you always make my day whenever you post

  • @TheFamilyFromOz
    @TheFamilyFromOz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just so you know literally EVERYTHING you said about feeling lonely/not being able to make friends etc i resonated with 100%. I tell people I'm an introvert and they laugh because I love theatre, dance, social media etc but I honestly feel ON whenever im around people and it's only when im on my own I can truly relax. Like being myself around others is a risk. I used to think there was something inherently wrong with me because I never had that 'girl tribe'. Slowly learning that I can be ok with me and the select few people I know care about me even though i don't see them much. Love that these videos are reminded people out there that no matter what you are worthy of whatever you desire (that goes for you too Linda!) ❤❤

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is better to have few close friends than a billion unmeaningful relationships
      that is what I have began understanding once I've started my own TH-cam channel
      and know all I want is to encourage others to instead of trying to change themselves to focus on being the truest version of themselves
      I have some videos that I think the messages will really resonate with you, I hope they can help you and I would love to know what you think

  • @elisehughes04
    @elisehughes04 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Somehow you always come out with a video of exactly what I needed to hear, thank you for that, thank you for being you🥹🤍🤍

  • @olixiastar
    @olixiastar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can’t explain how much I enjoy watching your videos😭❤

  • @nimu04
    @nimu04 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "If someone asks you to do something say yes. If there's any chance it could make you happy, go." Mother Sun is the mom I'm striving to be for my kids and deserving friends. Thanks for sharing her with us Linda.

  • @heartyfarty5
    @heartyfarty5 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I miss your videos, they always make me so happy! I hope you’re feeling better!

  • @shireenlopes2585
    @shireenlopes2585 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can relate to everything you said so sooo much!! It’s like you put into words what I never could ❤️

  • @zuziastf...
    @zuziastf... 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    your videos always make me cry. soo comforting

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      sammeemem

  • @millyisstrangeee
    @millyisstrangeee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It makes me so happy to see you finally healing, I have followed your journey for some time now and it makes me smile seeing you laugh so genuinely and look so happy. I know things can be tough but I believe in you, we all believe in you. I hope your are healthy, happy, safe and okay where you are now, physically, emotionally and mentally. I love you Linda, your content brightens up my days!!!!!!!!

  • @allybootz2080
    @allybootz2080 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are so talented ❤ never stop making videos because you are one of the few who are real and raw, which counts for so much.

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      truly, we need more realness back in the social media sphere
      I hope that my own TH-cam videos can contribute to creating a more positive community

  • @magicineverydaylife
    @magicineverydaylife 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    My thoughts exactly - will I ever find my 'ride or die'-friend... I just don't know how some people have/make/find so dedicated friends. I will do a lot of things for my pals, but there is no reciprocity, and it hurts. It is very lonely. Going to concerts alone, traveling alone, trying new things alone... Like...I learnt to be ok with it-like it's my 'normal'. But sometimes I do ask them to join me, and 99% of the time they decline. Like why? 😢 I've been working On myself my whole life, hoping that things will change... So either I am broken beyond repair or I am missing sth...

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I feel you, but what I've learned is that they will come, truly
      our journey is a long one, there is time

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm sorry you're feeling this way and going through this. we get to learn how to be our own friends while we find your people

  • @ines4123
    @ines4123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you very much for this video linda !! you help me to get better, really thank you very much
    what you say in your videos makes me think, accept myself and move on in life
    I love you

  • @giuliagaldip
    @giuliagaldip 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for your videos!! You always make my day better! I cant wait until the next one. Take care ❤

  • @user-vy9em7ly8l
    @user-vy9em7ly8l 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    14:19 you laughed, I laughed so damnn hard. Pure bliss and happinessss>>>>>>

    • @lindasunyt
      @lindasunyt  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      AHAHHAHAHA why are the cookies DOING THAAATT

  • @meganb7943
    @meganb7943 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video spoke to my soul. Seriously fantastic, Love you Linda!

  • @hudafarag6095
    @hudafarag6095 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    From someone who grew apart from their friends and became introverted, i want to tell you that i'm proud of you also laugh more because you're a beautiful person, love you💕

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      know that your are also a beautiful person

  • @Milkniac
    @Milkniac 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much Linda

  • @liapon
    @liapon 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Re-watching(listening) every morning for meditation and motivation to get going but also feeling at peace. Thank you Linda!❤🙏🩷

  • @dumzydumzy5
    @dumzydumzy5 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your videos are so healing and hopeful. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Take care

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      was so healed after this

  • @yasminyusuff6840
    @yasminyusuff6840 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Felt like this my whole life and it wasn't until my 26th year that I found my small but true circle. Keep doing you, your tribe will find you. Love your videos!

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      im so glad u find your circle
      it gives me hope that I can do it too
      in the meantime I will continue to help others with my TH-cam videos to inspire them to be the best version of themselves

  • @marina-ny7so
    @marina-ny7so หลายเดือนก่อน

    hi linda, i just watched your introverted diaries and making friends video and i don't think i've ever related to something so much. it's the end of the school year for me and i'm losing friends from their exchange program and i'm really sad and worried i won't keep in touch, but i will try, especially with my friend that i got the closest with. lots of times too i lost friends because we fell out of touch, or things got messy, or just too little time. but i'm coming to realize i can notice change and embrace those experiences i made and remember those times and more to come. i always think of your videos as a reminder that life...happens and everything and anything can happen to change it ❤️lots of love

  • @pdbfbera-zt3vl
    @pdbfbera-zt3vl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't explain how much I feel good when you upload.

  • @kavyahm7086
    @kavyahm7086 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    every video of yours has helped me a lot

  • @shenherose
    @shenherose 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are absolutely right, Linda. God will bless everyone with the right type of people/person in our lives, including myself❤ thank you so much 😊

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @teoyanxin6339
    @teoyanxin6339 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A MALAYSIA FAN HERE !!!! Have been watching your videos for years and I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. I LOVE YOU LINDA

  • @anjastrassholm9235
    @anjastrassholm9235 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your content so much! I feel so much comfort from your videos, I have felt so alone in my emotions and mind, your channel has been like a warm balm to my soul.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @camiilacs
    @camiilacs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    linda your videos makes me so happy, i love you

  • @lianamathew
    @lianamathew 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you and your videos, brightens my day whenever you upload ❤

  • @ayra5964
    @ayra5964 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    LINDA OMG UR IN MALAYSIA WAITTTT I WANT TO SEE U BADLY AND TELL U THAT I LOVE LOVE HEARING UR VOICE AND WATCHING U GROW IVE WATCHED U SINCE 2021 AND YOU HAVE BEEN WITH ME SINCE IM 18 UNTILL NOW IM 21 .. LINDAAAA U MEANT SO MUCH TO ME and i really want to hug u if i ever see u one day pls come to malaysia again : (((

  • @dan_yyy_
    @dan_yyy_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i just started studying abroad as well and was moved to tears. Im so scared of not making friends to share this experience with. though i've only been here for 3 days i am already feeling alone. thank you for reminding me i need to find peace and friendship within myself

  • @pruthviv7768
    @pruthviv7768 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is the most relatable video ever for me.

  • @ashmeesharma418
    @ashmeesharma418 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    linda ,, whenever I watch you I just feel you , You are my biggest supporter linda , Today i got your video and my whole day changed because of u , I feel confident when i see you , the way you deal with everything is just so perfect , I want to be like you and i want to meet you , love u linda truly , at last thanks for everything, You have changed me .. and i love this change

  • @tonimoller7538
    @tonimoller7538 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your videos so much, you make me so happy❤️❤️ you are like therapy for my soul💛

  • @sarabozic9065
    @sarabozic9065 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t have any friends either and I’m ok with that too. I enjoy doing everything by myself too just like you. Reading a good book in the garden or by the lake really makes my day or listening to my favourite albums, songs. In the last years I had a few friends, but after a while they started creating lies and rumours about me so they can break up with me. They were too jealous of me because I’m travelling a lot and they don’t. In this society is really hard to find some good people who actually understand you and you don’t have to pretend to be someone else to feel accepted. Love your vlogs very relatable 😊

  • @nessalovestravel
    @nessalovestravel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Linda, just wanted to let you know that you're the reason why I'm traveling to Indonesia and Singapore solo this summer!!!
    Also, I sooo relate to being an introvert and being the "sidekick" friend and being rejected because "It redirected me to meet my people." 🥺

  • @xyz1234_
    @xyz1234_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i needed this video so bad. thanks for existing linda

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you also for existing

  • @jazzydohadwala5068
    @jazzydohadwala5068 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel your words in my soul. Thank you for sharing this 🫶🫶

  • @dumbowumbo4509
    @dumbowumbo4509 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video resonated with me like no other. thank you linda

  • @lsworldtraveler590
    @lsworldtraveler590 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You look so happy and radiant in Singapore!!

  • @taylor_elainee
    @taylor_elainee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These videos feel so grounding...absolutely love your video style ✨

  • @helena003
    @helena003 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I could listen to Mother Sun advice all day it makes me feel so much better!!!

    • @oxanadc
      @oxanadc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      sameeee