My husband and I got a lot of grief from friends as we were raising our kids. We also kept in mind we were raising future adults that needed to be able to problem solve and survive on their own successfully. We wanted them to learn what they liked, disliked and believed while they were under the umbrella of our security. They are now in their late 20’s and early 30’s. Both successful in their own right. They always had chores, bedtimes, structure, routines, and rules to follow. Each season always has its own challenges and learning curves. But they grow up and move out before you know what hit you. And yet another new season with learning curve presents itself. You are totally right, slow down and enjoy the seasons and changes. Take the extra time to let the littlest learn. Be willing to do extra clean up so they can help. And always take time to listen to their hearts. I promised myself I would always stop, with in reason, if my littles wanted to chat or read or go outside and dig in the dirt. I wanted to cultivate relationships that they would be able to look back on with good memories. And I endeavored to make sure they knew they were loved beyond measure and meant more to me than anything in this world. I succeeded. Times were not always easy. And we definitely had rough days. But it was all worth it and I would go through every darkness and hard time all over again in order to end up where we are today. Keep the faith. And know that it’s going to be worth it.
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My husband and I got a lot of grief from friends as we were raising our kids. We also kept in mind we were raising future adults that needed to be able to problem solve and survive on their own successfully. We wanted them to learn what they liked, disliked and believed while they were under the umbrella of our security. They are now in their late 20’s and early 30’s. Both successful in their own right. They always had chores, bedtimes, structure, routines, and rules to follow. Each season always has its own challenges and learning curves. But they grow up and move out before you know what hit you. And yet another new season with learning curve presents itself. You are totally right, slow down and enjoy the seasons and changes. Take the extra time to let the littlest learn. Be willing to do extra clean up so they can help. And always take time to listen to their hearts. I promised myself I would always stop, with in reason, if my littles wanted to chat or read or go outside and dig in the dirt. I wanted to cultivate relationships that they would be able to look back on with good memories. And I endeavored to make sure they knew they were loved beyond measure and meant more to me than anything in this world. I succeeded. Times were not always easy. And we definitely had rough days. But it was all worth it and I would go through every darkness and hard time all over again in order to end up where we are today. Keep the faith. And know that it’s going to be worth it.
@kcnelsonmueller "under the umbrella of our security " - I'm going to keep that close to my heart. Thank you for sharing a bit of your testimony! ❤️
Fellow Homemaker here and new subscriber. I really enjoyed your vlog and can’t wait for more💕
Thank you. ❤️ and welcome!