🇵🇭❌Rich American BLINDSIDED & DUMPED by a Poor Filipina Province girl after he DID THIS! (SHOCKING)❌
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ต.ค. 2024
- A cautionary tale about a foreigners romance in the Philippines gone wrong from the horses mouth. (MUST WATCH)
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There’s a bombshell at the end of this video if you watch the whole thing.
20 and 59 is a whole gap- and I live in Thailand
@@bijanbayne3259ok
Hero syndrome. Don't lead with your wallet. He scammed himself. Don't be this guy !!
Ok
It's also helping others....
Victim blaming is exactly what scammers do..
Good job 🖕🤨👍
I'm only 5 minutes into the interview... but...
You. Cannot. Buy. Desire.
I'm not against supporting $$$ a woman, especially in an age gap relationship. But know the game.
Props to him sharing his story.
Watch till the end, there’s a big bombshell
The game is live and well throughout the globe. If you got money you can play as you choose!
The lesson here is to not date a kid. 20yr old girl with a 2yr old kid. Why would any 50yr old man not see this coming. She's a kid, very immature 😮
I think he was 59. But ya. Nice guy. But ya. Big age gap.
I agree with you 💯 percent. However no disrespect to the guy but some of it is about feeling relevant. A 20yr old is going to make a 50yr old guy feel special about himself more than a 50 year old female in most cases. It’s all in the mind!
This guy got lucky. She could have dragged him another 5 years.
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My takeaway from the whole story is - that guy was leading that relationship with his wallet wide open and hurt himself. Second, he sounds like a simp and desperate to me. He needs to see a SIMPOLOGIST for help
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"I did everything by the book..."
Well, the book says stay the hell of dating apps, especially if you are a technologically challenged older guy. There's another chapter about avoiding LDRs and single moms too, and definitely to not expect her to behave while you're away. It's too bad he didn't catch on earlier, as I suspect there were tells he missed.
If it feels better to blame the whole thing on a missed message dependent upon a third party, okay, but I bet this will not be the last rodeo for this poor guy. Even a good girl will walk all over you if you don't take the lead, and not via long distance. Live n learn
Ok ok.
Fair points
Yeah the text message story is nonsense. The fact that he doesn’t realize that at his age is disturbing
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The number one thing my daughter taught me is the absolute power of genetics. I saw it in her at six months.
Grandma said, "The apple never falls far from the tree." Dad never saved enough to buy his tools. Mom stayed home in the shack. Lots of excuses to avoid education. Baby before twenty. SURPRISE!
Lol
Baby daddy probably got word that she got a sugar daddy and wanted a piece of that pie. You can bet she will try to get back with him when the money dries up.
Yup
I had similar thoughts
Obvious as to what happened. The whole family played the part. The baby daddy was NEVER out of the picture. In a lot of ways the girl thought the guy wouldn't stop sending money. He's best to stop all communication with anyone that has any type of association with the girl.
I was thinking similar
Do you believe this "Rich American" was alone when he left the poor Filipina for three or four weeks to visit some island? Common sense suggests that he was with another woman! Filipinas are extremely jealous and would never allow such behavior.
@@Ram-wu2vj I can neither confirm or deny as to IF the guy was with another for those 2-3 weeks. There never was no mentioning if he was. If I had to bet on it, I'd probably say he most likely was. Also if I do recall, the girl declined to go with him. Used the daughter starting school thing when in reality she was with the baby daddy and didn't want to be away from him. If the guy was with someone then oh well. It's very obvious the girl was always with the baby daddy and her family played the part. So I guess what's fair for one ... Is fair for all.
Reality is yeah the guy lost out on some money and a relationship but I'm sure he'll rebound. On the other hand the girl ended up losing that valuable support money and someone who appeared to respect her, which will be much harder to replace.
@@jimnoble905, the poor Filipina was in love with the foreigner till he went alone on that vacation; everything changed when he returned from vacation. Is that not self-explanatory? In fact, he didn't say that he invited her (or she allowed him) to have that vacation. Poor Filipinas would never tolerate a cheating foreigner.
He went from “ I love her” to “these people “ really quick 😂
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Nice guy but how can you vacation travel without her after saying she is so compatible. Relationship is more than bedroom. Bad fit. Low chance of success. You don't want to be stuck with each other for life. Let it go. Baby daddy saved your bacon buddy!
lol
Better for taping early than years down the line
This dude thinks it's still 1980. These wmn don't respond to romance like they used to. 😅
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Al least usually
She didn't ask because there was no need he was already giving.
$600 a month is a lot of money to a fillipina also all the work he did to the house.
Almost a 40 year age gap a LDR.
A lot of girls that have foreigner's visit them then end up in a LDR have a Filipino boyfriend on the side a lot of the time the girls family are also in on it for the money,
Chances are she was still with the babies father all along,
A lot of the time they will introduce the Filipino boyfriend as a cousin or some family relative.
It's a lot more common than a lot of people think.
How is he so sure she wasn't with him all along ?
He’s not sure
I agree 1000%
As I always say, they don’t have posters of 60 year olds in speedo’s on their walls. They prefer their own age on her own culture or certainly on age even if it’s a foreigner that you know like 30 or something.
@@JasperinthePhilippines i totally agree its human nature a woman or a man at age 20 will want someone near their own age.
I have dated younger women myself but not for a serious relationship.
Guy's try to be realistic about age gap relationships 10 or 15 years.
There is exceptions to the rule when it comes to massive age gap relationships but its far and few between.
Do you really bleave someone 40 years younger is going to find you physically attractive.
Yup
Don't you always say....... the more you give them the less they respect you?
1000%. Sadly
Especially when you’re not physically there and it’s an extreme age gap, and the genuine burning desire level may not be high or even even existent
This guy seems like a decent person , but he is not equipped to handle a 20 year old. He obviously doesn’t have the skill set. His outlook and interpretation of everything that happened is wrong. Not to be a jerk, but the whole phone texting thing is total nonsense. He should find a nice attractive 35 yo.
I agree late 30s for mid 60s
Filipinas now are fussier because of the possibility of dating a handsome Chad (young adult man). There are many handsome Chads in Metro Maníla.
Yup. Agreed
If texts don't work give someone a call, plus there is hundreds of internet text apps like what's app
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How can he do that if he's with another Filipina, promising to marry her? Filipinas are extremely jealous and never want to compete with each other! Both women would dump this rich American the moment they find out he's with another Filipina, regardless of how poor she is.
YES.
My daughter won't answer my calls or texts, but when I send a Snapchat, she answers immediately.
People ten years older than me won't text because it used to cost like fifty cents a message.
It's a generational thing.
Twenty years old, nothing more needs to be said. Him being 59 as we all know you go to what you know and the Filipino is going back to the Filipino.
Seems so in this case.
Greatly appreciate that he shared his side of the story. Really sorry this happened but good warning to others in a similar situation.
Exactly
My thoughts 💯
This dude should stay away from single moms. Also, he needs to mess with 30+ year olds at his age. at least for serious relationships.
Yup
There are many inconsistencies in this Rich American's story. It seems to me that the Poor Filipina has enough evidence to believe he was cheating on her.
Or perhaps she was slowly getting back close with her baby’s father to complete her family and didn’t care.
You never know
Really can't say if there's inconsistency or not.... Truthfully none of us was there. Sure things may appear out of place but none of us was actually there at that time, at that moment.
@@jimnoble905, check his answer for "Did she agree you to alone for 3 weeks vacation?". A poor Filipina would never agree for such a trip. But a cheating Filipina would ignore such behavior for money.
She never asked for anything because he was already making it rain with USDs 💵. 2:21
True.
Smart Filipinas don’t ask they just make you their man and discuss their hardships with their boyfriend assuming 90% of them will bite
Asking is a rookie move.
Haha These are advanced skills. Haha
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What s story! I believe it's the age gap and she's delusional in dealing with a text miscommunication. That's crazy. I think the American gentleman should choose a pinay in BGC, Makati, or Manila in general, closer to his age group IMHO
Crazy indeed
Hooking up with a single mom is like all the cool kids were invited to the cool kid party and while you weren’t invited, you were welcomed when it was time to clean up afterwards. Maybe I’m an asshole but that’s my attitude. I’ve dated one single mom in my entire life (I’m 50) and that was enough of that.
Wo
Let’s be clear I’ve seen a many guys play themselves involved with a Filipina. From my very first visit there while I was stationed at Clark AB in the mid 80’s until my most recent visit in June. Often the guy blames the Filipina, however it’s not the Filipina at fault. Guys think with the wrong head. They get heads over heels with a girl because of their beauty and they are absolutely adorable. They are experts in pleasing a guy. You take a 65 year. Then he has a young beautiful 25 year old Filipina. She’s going to separate him from his money. But let’s keep in mind he’s doing it because he wants to she’s not forcing him. Because he has absolutely zero chance of getting a young beautiful lady in his own country. I’ve seen it happen time and time again. This is an absolutely great story real life events. I enjoyed the video and I appreciate thank you for sharing✌🏾.
It’s 1000% not the girls fault. Be realistic 40 year age gaps never work outside of the money.
Sure you right!👍🏾
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Oh It happen to me. I admit it. $35,000 in one month & never saw her again.Also Im not rich. I took a 20 year loan against my home. I dont know what I was thinking.
Sounds unbelievable. Wanna call me and tell your story in a video anonymously exactly like this? Email me it’s in my about section. 🫡
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I get upset when I hear these knight and shinning armor dumb stories but my anger isn't misplaced.
WHY the hell don't you guys let her EARN your support???
Didn't you work for your money or was it given to you free???
It's 2024, we shouldn't be making this simp mistakes anymore.
Stay away from broke single moms outside of boom boom and close your wallet.
Wo.
Vicious but accurate
@@JasperinthePhilippines
Yeah man..
These guys are killing me with their desperation or whatever.
They're tough guys in their home countries then go get got by 3rd graders in the Philippines.
It's freaking embarrassing.
lol. Hey 12th or 13th grade hopefully.
You’re much more authentic and pleasant in an interview than solo.
I’m authentic solo, but I’m certainly not that pleasant. 😂😂😂😂😂
Either way, I’ll take that as a compliment. I want to do a lot more interviews.
His first mistake was dating 1 with a kid😅,She used the kid to gaslight him😅 kids don't make decisions 😅
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Never never date or sleep with a single mother; ex boyfriend or even husband will find out thru family or jealousy friends or neighbors. Run Forest Run!!!😅
Lol
He seemed to be a decent guy that did a lot of good things for the girl and her family. It sucks to get used and mistreated like that but he'll do fine elsewhere.
Agreed
Love how everyone on here thinks it’s because of the age. It has nothing to do with it. There was some clear things to me of why this happened.
1. She wanted to be married. He says he was going to propose but no Filipina wants to wait 5 years. It’s not their nature. She even said to him he still hadn’t got married to him.
2. Haven’t committed to how she wanted to live. They had clear differences in where they were at. She wanted to be at home & raise the daughter. He wanted to travel & do vlogs.
3. He travelled without her thinking she would be ok with it. This is another red flag to a Filipina. They are jealous women & will think you are cheating on them.
I’m not saying it was right what she did. It wasn’t. But I can see how she would see their relationship having red flags & maybe a risk because he wasn’t fully committing & wanted different lifestyles.
Il be honest, it wouldn’t surprise me if she came back to him heart broken that he would take her back. I hope the best for this guy, but please make sure if you say you’re getting married, do t delay it & certainly never travel around without your woman.
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I still think if she was 30+ maybe it could have been diffrent
Yea true
So you fell in love with a 20 year old cam girl? Hmmmm.... There is a sucker born every minute.
Cam?
@@JasperinthePhilippines 24:09 She does "Live-streaming" pretty sus occupation. Nice catch
@@LeaoDude oh live streaming is not being a camgirl technically a camgirl is somebody that’s doing a different type of live streaming, but got it
9:55 in this interview is where (knowing what I know now) we would have went different directions, I will NEVER support a family being that i have been thru the ringer a couple of times I learned my lesson. I give much respect to this guy cuz hes upfront and honest but unfortunately this is his first rodeo of overseas dating and its pitfalls. Hopefully he'll learn from his mistakes and do better. Again when you are overseas YOU ARE THE PRIZE and they cant say shit to you if you are bringing in the beard so you set the rules.
All good 🫡
Every relationship is a negotiation, especially when money is changing hands. In a negotiation , especially where you are the prize (foreigner in PH) you maintain high value and drive direction , no exceptions, or you pay the price.
Interesting take.
I appreciate it
Agreed you are the prize in SE Asia
I think this same way in Colombia
Ok 👍
One thing about this story that I'm wondering is, if he wasn't able to send messages to his girl, is it possible that he just wasn't able to send any messages to anybody? It would be weird for somebody to not be able to send messages to a specific person but be able to send messages to other people.
Ya true
This is crazy. The girl just seemed really ungreatful and like he stated does not think about the future. even though she could not reach him she should have waited for him, he showed proof it was not his fault. The problem with the young filipina single moms is filipinas do not do hookup regularly like in the west so the man who she as a kid with most likey took her virginty and that is her first love, in the furture she will be weak for him. When i came to the philippines was not looking for a virgin i just did not want a single mom plus i am younger than 30 so getting a 20+ year old was not going to be that difficult for me to get a genuine realationship with.
Ok
If you say so
@@JasperinthePhilippines what do you mean do you not agree with that I said
I think you should stay within 20 years on the age gap unless you’re like 65 maybe dating a 3940-year-old you can maybe pull that off
@JasperinthePhilippines Okay, i see luckily me and my girlfriend and I are 4 years apart, plus I am a younger guy, I am my girlfriend first boyfriend , so not worried about this situation ever happening. It just seems she was very ungrateful he saved both of her parents what will happen when they have another issue
This poor guy. She is worse than Hannibal Lecter eating his liver
Wo
These are my two rules that i follow: 1 whenever dating the woman age should be half my age plus seven.
2. Never be too serious with a young single mother. (Unless the baby father died). Women are ruel be there emotions, we men cannot change that.
Exactly my thoughts maybe if he’s a foreigner definitely stay away. If he’s a Filipino it’s going to end bad 90% of the time.
Those young Filipino daddy are usually very good sweet talkers and they can easily get woman they want.
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Move on young man there’s more fishes out there
I think he’s in his 60s
But ya. Move on man *
I lasted 3.5 minutes. I’ll leave a thumbs up, but these guys are typical.
Hmm. Alot more To the story.
But ya 👍
They problem begins in their own countries...they become divorced or widowed, then loneliness sets on finds the internet and find a lady....with our without any anchor telling him how handsome he is and she loves him and her starts off sending beaucoup bucks to someone he has never met in person. Of course she is going to ride they gravy train as long as she can. I feel bad for these guys as I almost fell into that trap myself. It hurts to find out the truth usually too late
regardless of the age gap- being in her early 20s was the biggest mistake; That age tends to be shallow, less stable, unappreciative, short sighted for anyone- us included😅. Thats why Filipina’s like older men themselves- stability and security; emotionally and financially. He ignored the “red flag” of her age, w a baby no less. Regardless of compatibility that was the flaw. Age gaps work best if the girl is at least in her 30s. 20-30 year gaps prove out good long term there ive noticed if the guy is stable.
Good insights 🤝
@@johnclark1469 , I don't think age is the problem. Even if he married an older woman, 30-40, it is still the same. It is woman with kids. Older woman is even more demanding because they already have experiences! This may be worse.
Hes 3 decades older n broke rule #1. Dont mess with a female with a young child. She will 99% of the time return to him even if things are perfect between the 2 of yah. Lesson learned hope he does better with the next 1. But u know he wont
4 decades
That guy sounds like Donald Trump 😂Lol
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Maybe when there’s no messages back-and-forth, you get on a plane and go see her to clarify if she’s that important to you😮
Wo
Jasper, please get her side of the story and post a video. Is it appropriate to judge her without listening to her perspective?
I don’t know her
This is anonymous.
If she sees this and reaches out I will be happy to
Wow she didn't think about her kids future vary sad 😢
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Maybe she was thinking of the kids when she went back with their dad. It isn’t always about the money
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Mean while the kid's future is circling the drain as well as mom,,dad is having fun with mom while looking for a place to run 🏃♂️
Wo
Great story. That was really something!
Yup 👍
Sounds to me like he didn’t have much of a dating life in his younger years. As a military veteran, I went back to college at 26 and dated classmates who were normally 22 and under. It was a bit of a trip.
Most of them have not experienced self sufficiency.
Occasionally they party like crazy, can’t hold their liquor sometimes, don’t know how to pace themselves. Very different personalities come out during these like very flirtatious, amorous, to drama queens, which they regret the next day. Wild stuff.
They haven’t yet had a real professional job so expectations are a bit whack.
They haven’t learned to talk things out in an adult way so it just gets weird sometimes. Like they are super into you one day, then suddenly ignoring you. No explanation.
They still haven’t figured themselves out. They still need outside validation. So many men are thirsting for them. Sometimes they can’t handle all the choices. And it’s not easy because the attractive exciting guys are often the most likely to cheat.
I’m guessing this girl was just that. Torn between her first love and baby daddy, and the gringo who could make her and her family’s life better.
In the end, she chose her feelings. Hopefully, the dude man’s up and stays and won’t break her heart again. If so they’re likely going to live in a shack the rest of their lives and she knows that.
Yeah, I mean he was married to a Filipino for 18 years previously
I made a video about this it was called be careful dating single moms and this was the exact reason because complete family is everything and a baby daddy in his 20s is going to be stiff competition for a 60 year old even if the baby daddy is broke women do not care about money if they are extremely sexually attracted to you and they have food and a roof over their head. Trust me I’m living proof updated many women in America that made 10 times what I made.
At her age it’s all romantic Romeo and Juliet; young love surpasses security, money…
100%
Gues what , she never broke with the babe daddy in the first place , she play him all the way....
Very possible
He was already there wen the messages didn go thru😅,He would've been leaving again cause I would've took all them upgrades .
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Well He was a,fool
Ok
Strange guy. How can you not see the red flags. Find the right one. I did
Me2
I think he was just in love or lust or whatever you wanna call it
I’m a good dude and have good social skills. Been vacationing for over a decade in the Philippines. Good job, well funded and tall and pogi and gwapo. I have met and dated some very hot women there. I’m talking 9’s and 10’s. Some ended up with their own websites they were that attractive. I have learned over the years unless you are there day to day full time it’s just too challenging for an LDR with a girl that’s appealing to most men. I have also taken my lumps but no way I send pesos for anything……it’s just a waste of your assets and time. If I could just be happy with an average woman then maybe it could work LDR, lol.
Nice
He's a simp. Plain and simple. Doesn't matter if she's Filipina, Latina, Caucasian etc. He's still getting played everywhere he dates
Wo
what you expect? all those year's you have not married her?
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It was Covid.
What a shocking story ..
Ok 👍
That sucks
Yes sir
Well, at least this sucker that chases women that are 30 years younger than him can look at it like this he helped the young couple with water and electricity installation to their house. I wonder if he will go to their wedding LOL😂🤣😆😆🥳🤪😝
Wtf
How dare you
He’s a nice guy.
i think 40 years younger.
Ok
sad story
True
Chastity belt 😂😂😂
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My thoughts are baby daddy was with her from day one.
Possible
59 and 20 ?? Wtf ?? !!
Lol
Ohhh my Godddd...
Crazy huh
I get the impression some details might be left out and the guy's solo trip to Thailand (well known sex tourist destination) probably didn't help the situation inside the girlfriend's head. but yeah don't over-invest too soon.
Not Thailand
Bantayan Philippines
@@JasperinthePhilippines ok fair enough, the phone audio can be difficult to understand at times...
Yup
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Her father was stabbed in the head? I thought you said the Phillipines was safe?
I did
Yes
There is crime every where
Exactly
why the foul language?
Because I do what I want when I want
Sounds lime high school.
Lime? & corona???
My understanding is Filipinas are quick to move on. And she didn't hear from you, she thought you moved on. You should have found a way to maintain contact with her.
Yes
a simp
Ok