Dr. Gabor Maté - Compassionate Inquiry

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    Dr. Gabor Maté discusses Compassionate Inquiry with @BanyenBooksSoundVancouver .
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    Dr. Gabor Maté, renowned addiction expert and international speaker, discusses Compassionate Inquiry, a psycho-therapeutic method for facilitating physical, mental and emotional healing. Born out of necessity and rooted in the inseparability of mind and body, Dr. Maté highlights the importance of processing unresolved pain within ourselves as the foundation of helping others free themselves from the past, release trauma, and connect to a healing power within. Gabor Maté's books are available from Banyen Books: banyen.com/mate
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    Credits:
    Interview Host: Farah Nazarali
    Video Production: Vitantonio Spinelli
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    Music: Laura Reznek

ความคิดเห็น • 45

  • @sj2024sj
    @sj2024sj 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dr. Mate's voice is also relaxing! He is amazing!! Thank you 🙏

  • @MelanieSakowski
    @MelanieSakowski 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    “You’re not there to make someone feel better, but to make them better at feeling.” Boom 🙌🏻

    • @mariobragaiii4763
      @mariobragaiii4763 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is a great way to put it !

    • @jarijansma2207
      @jarijansma2207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad of this western-eastern cocktail that is brewing within our collective hearts and minds. Everywhere I look I see interesting synthesizing of all levels of truth, kick-started by the katalysator of technology.. I have faith

    • @saskiazieltjens
      @saskiazieltjens 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said..! And so true..!

  • @doreenlarose590
    @doreenlarose590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I love to listen to Gabor and his honesty and ability to just be real. Many in our society have lost this.

    • @michaelboyd8933
      @michaelboyd8933 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The more real we allow ourselves to be the more real people we happen to meet.

    • @tesskennedy4959
      @tesskennedy4959 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s often true.
      Being real enables being real

  • @elisemeola6375
    @elisemeola6375 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is brilliant!!! First time hearing about this. Love Dr Mate!!!!

  • @beerbread
    @beerbread 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I listen to Dr. Matė, it's like someone turning up the dimmer switch. TY.

  • @denise2169
    @denise2169 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    19:51 “Fierce compassion means that you’re not afraid of the pain that comes up….”
    25:09 “There’s a reason for everything…”
    Being able to compassionately reconnect with my childhood pain has helped me immensely to understand myself and to love my inner child, one who always felt abandoned and put down. I am finally letting go…. Thanks, Dr Maté!

    • @jameswarrren2545
      @jameswarrren2545 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good for you. Don't stop loving that sweet little kid!

  • @willyjhopuky
    @willyjhopuky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m glad I discovered dr mate’ on you tube he is a great person and doctor

  • @Be1More
    @Be1More 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    you are there to help someone see the truth of self, and that migt come w pain but you have to pace yourself by listening to cues of patient.... he's great and hope his personal life is in peace after figuring out his own workacholism etc

  • @jarijansma2207
    @jarijansma2207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm so glad of this western-eastern cocktail that is brewing within our collective hearts and minds. Everywhere I look I see interesting synthesizing of all levels of truth, kick-started by the katalysator of technology.. I have faith

    • @aceslizeski1882
      @aceslizeski1882 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said. I've been feeling something similar.

  • @kevinmaher397
    @kevinmaher397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A brilliant compassionate man. Thank God I came across his work

  • @shellyjohnson7964
    @shellyjohnson7964 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He is just so lovely 🫶

  • @SelfImageStylist
    @SelfImageStylist 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    24:07 Compassionate listening vs. compassionate inquiry.
    25:30 How to respond to "the tragic communication of a need" : see the need underneath the words and the behavior, see them more clearly than they see themselves.
    [Next edit: .25 GAB-or]

  • @yayangtapir4130
    @yayangtapir4130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love listening to him. His accent is so soothing!

  • @TomTom-df9ph
    @TomTom-df9ph 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    An incredible man. But with such pain in his eyes.

    • @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138
      @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      life experience. our society is truly savage (gain wealth forget all but self) and inflicts misery on millions of people

    • @lorenzovillegas2457
      @lorenzovillegas2457 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah… it takes one to know one… so to speak.🙏🏾

    • @Jyeah89
      @Jyeah89 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      his dad was in a concentration camp and his grandparents were killed by nazism.

    • @jameswarrren2545
      @jameswarrren2545 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The "Wounded Healer." Look it up!

    • @tesskennedy4959
      @tesskennedy4959 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unfortunately and sadly

  • @jennytaylor3324
    @jennytaylor3324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lovely Gabor.

  • @svetlanalevinzon884
    @svetlanalevinzon884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are the Best of The Best 👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️, thank you soooo much for your help and your wonderful work !!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @cgenoversa
    @cgenoversa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this guy. Clearly he’s on the beam

  • @aminahrolsdorph8551
    @aminahrolsdorph8551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I Love The Host 💚
    & A Student of Dr Gabor ..
    Such Generous Ray of Genuine Compassion Educating Us In A Very Powerful Beneficial to Me..
    Also The Blend of Intellectual & Spiritual Human Nature Observations...
    I Love It.
    It's Beneficial for Any Age With Different Ethnic Background.
    Seeking Growth..
    Thanks ☀️

  • @joy96815
    @joy96815 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks for the upload, good interview.

  • @nabilc1667
    @nabilc1667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Not to feel better, but make better with feeling"

  • @CynthiaSchoenbauer
    @CynthiaSchoenbauer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yay!

  • @saxongreen78
    @saxongreen78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I saw the jump cut near 'what revolves around what?' 😊

  • @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138
    @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    hey! love to know all the facts... why was the video edited at 11:52? does the lady believe the sun revolved around the earth? that's alright ;)

  • @AnnaPoli800
    @AnnaPoli800 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What does it mean being held emotionally? Being connected through feelings right?

  • @roberthiggins2252
    @roberthiggins2252 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anyone know what it means to "Mirror back to someone their true self" like was mentioned in the video? Please respond with a Mate' quote or video so I can learn more about that. I found that interesting and wanted to follow up on that.

    • @denise2169
      @denise2169 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      16:30 “Compassion simply means the willingness to accept someone for exactly as they are.” And I would add that this includes compassion for ourselves and what we have been living. Such warmth and understanding in a world that sometimes seems so devoid of these.

    • @lorenzovillegas2457
      @lorenzovillegas2457 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/MYJqW00220k/w-d-xo.html

  • @sandyzappa840
    @sandyzappa840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Volume!!

  • @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138
    @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    16:20