Conversations: Dating After 40

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  • @robynbowie6789
    @robynbowie6789 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    I don’t have a problem being single.

  • @TreeW2244
    @TreeW2244 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    This will be a great content series.

  • @robynbowie6789
    @robynbowie6789 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Keep those standards young lady bc they will be received by the person meant for you.

  • @ranikarob281
    @ranikarob281 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    I'm 50, divorced & just started to live. Marriage had me shackled & worn down. I have a new independent energy & love it.

  • @annette7777
    @annette7777 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Good evening True Tea💞 I really appreciate you sharing this message with us. Blessings to you always 💞💞💞💞

  • @godgirl364
    @godgirl364 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Great Commentary #celibacy I'm single again and I've been divorced for 15 years. I'm loving my singleness state. I have taking the time out to know what I want in my next husband and not looking at all. He will find me. I'm focusing on myself and my relationship with God.

  • @AlmaFountain-nh3kc
    @AlmaFountain-nh3kc 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I enjoyed this commentary as always I agree with you and I’m older than you 69 years old and been single for 20 years and loving it. ❤️💕

  • @Hbrown43
    @Hbrown43 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    This I can get with. Thank you TT.....looking forward to more content like this as well as anything you post.

  • @keytowomanhood506
    @keytowomanhood506 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    This was refreshing to hear you say you were not done healing. It's a journey, and some women will never learn that lesson. You really have to love yourself and have a sense of humor and you have both ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @yolandamontgomery3138
    @yolandamontgomery3138 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I been single and celibate for 11 yrs and I’m 64. It wasn’t easy at the beginning and sometimes I have my moments. But you know there is more to life to enjoy being single is a good thing that’s when you take time to learn about the things you want for yourself such as loving yourself, dating yourself and this is where I‘am in my life. I work on myself everyday for now I’m good. Enjoying my singleness and focusing on what God has for me.True Tea keep striving seek God.
    I don’t have time for lies, cheating, thieves, disrespectful fools. I pay my own bills have a roof over my head and food. I don’t have time for a boyfriend I want a husband.

    • @Cindeegee
      @Cindeegee 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Well said!

  • @loyanadale903
    @loyanadale903 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Great segment
    I'm 51 & is still an active person. I REQUIRE a man that wants to get out & have some fun. Not just sit around the house.
    I love ALL sports so I go to a lot of sporting events.
    I like a man who pays attention to my personality because I do hold a lot in sometimes. So he needs to know what to do when I'm frustrated & withdrawn.
    Etc

  • @southerngirl-florida
    @southerngirl-florida 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    This was refreshing, True Tea 💕. I'm married now but totally understand the dating pool. It was rough out there for me. These men are looking for a woman to support them. They like to be controlling but cannot control their own habits, faults, misdeeds & situations in their own life. I chose celibacy & singleness until I met my husband ❤ #saveTHEkitties meowwww 😂

  • @kimberlyirby8750
    @kimberlyirby8750 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I am married but I do tell all my single friends not to take shit from these men and what ever you do don't settle for Nothing.

  • @michelebyrd6995
    @michelebyrd6995 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Heyyyyy TT!! Dating after 40 for me is great! I'm now 53 but God sent me my TRUE soulmate at 45! We've been together for 7.5 year. . I was with my son's father for 24 years before I left his ass! I was single for YEARS! But happily single! Now I'm in the most loving, God forward relationship ever! ❤❤❤❤

    • @ConversationsWithTrueTea
      @ConversationsWithTrueTea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      I'm so happy to hear this! I wish you nothing but the best Sis!

    • @denisemoody3268
      @denisemoody3268 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      That's truly a blessing!

    • @michelebyrd6995
      @michelebyrd6995 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Thanks ladies!! I've never had a man like this before AND he's 8 years YOUNGER than me! Ohhhh Chile! I need reinforcements!!😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Cindeegee
    @Cindeegee 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I'm loving this conversation already! And the background is beautiful wish that was my house

    • @ConversationsWithTrueTea
      @ConversationsWithTrueTea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you! I appreciate you meeting me over here!

    • @Cindeegee
      @Cindeegee 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​​@@ConversationsWithTrueTeaI had the notification set once I knew you had another account.

  • @pamkelley7449
    @pamkelley7449 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Wow I love this Friend 😊 so calming ✅💪🏽

  • @ruthrobinson328
    @ruthrobinson328 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Being still and focused ❤ I love being single it has shown me who I am and stay focused on my goals getting closer to God ❤❤❤ Thank you TT🙏🏿

  • @robynbowie6789
    @robynbowie6789 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Your story is very similar to mine but I’m probably a lot older .

  • @tangajTANG
    @tangajTANG 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Greetings 🙏🏼 🕊

  • @Uknowit672
    @Uknowit672 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I am 55 and single and guess what...I am happy as all get out! I'm not gonna settle for anyone who can't match my fly and stats. I can do it by myself! So men..if you really want a woman come correct yourself!!!! If you ain't got it together..don't expect from a woman that you Can't give!!! Point blank...Periodtttt!!!! Yep...that's it..that's all!!! #IJS

  • @BarbaraATate4062
    @BarbaraATate4062 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Absolutely agree with all of this!!!! ❤ What’s important for me is for a man to be able to be responsible, think independently, understand intimacy, spend within his means, desire something out of life, free from alcohol and drug addiction, goes to church, and one that is monogamous.

  • @BarbaraMontgomery-m2f
    @BarbaraMontgomery-m2f 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Girl I love that picture on your thumb nail, where can I find one lol. I love your content subject. I hope this is a series. A lot of us stay out of loneliness. Again, good subject!

  • @Imani-u2t
    @Imani-u2t 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Excellent commentary❤️

    • @ConversationsWithTrueTea
      @ConversationsWithTrueTea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Thank you so much!

    • @Imani-u2t
      @Imani-u2t 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ You are loved and respected. God bless you and everyone attached to you.👑🙏🏾🌹

    • @ConversationsWithTrueTea
      @ConversationsWithTrueTea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@Imani-u2t ❤❤❤ ❤

  • @peggyamuker1582
    @peggyamuker1582 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks for sharing with us. You never know who will benefit from the struggle that you have been through. I have been married for 47 years. Met my husband when I was a sophomore in high school. 2 grown sons, no grandchildren. But 2 grand puppies. We have been through ups and downs. I would change it for the world. I would never get married again . He has always treated me like a queen.

  • @annwhite8852
    @annwhite8852 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Young lady, you are the real deal
    When you said, I would have had to comb my hair, 😂😂
    Enjoy listening, Much Love 💕

  • @denisemoody3268
    @denisemoody3268 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    You're absolutely right TT! My late husband died 12/31/99 I have been single and celibate since. I'm not willing to compromise.

    • @ConversationsWithTrueTea
      @ConversationsWithTrueTea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm sorry about your husband. And yes, it's important that we don't compromise.

    • @denisemoody3268
      @denisemoody3268 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@ConversationsWithTrueTeaThank you❤

  • @AmericanBorn66
    @AmericanBorn66 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    love this and the background is very cool!!

  • @brendawinston6384
    @brendawinston6384 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Self love is the best love,, It’s ok to love yourself and Jesus🥰

  • @yolandafranklin5950
    @yolandafranklin5950 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I can relate myself. I left after dealing with my situation which was a messy one. I've been in abstinence for almost 3 years now. Never felt so much at peace at 45. I'm cautious about who approaches me and who I deal with.

  • @Healed75
    @Healed75 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Thanks for your transparency True Tea💜💜💜

  • @kellykell8622
    @kellykell8622 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤

  • @kimmiemonique4432
    @kimmiemonique4432 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m 29 and I’ve been single and celibate for almost 5 years now. This commentary was so refreshing to hear I loved it.

  • @Csaint407
    @Csaint407 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I enjoy my peace! I have been celibate for 6 years now and haven’t looked back. At 56, my peace of mind and independence is priority!

  • @jazzyj7497
    @jazzyj7497 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gm, True Tea 💋

  • @Jay_Taylormua
    @Jay_Taylormua 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Love this lol❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dockelly1908
    @dockelly1908 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey True Tea! 💖Thanks for sharing! I love your openness…..After two divorces and even marrying my first husband TWICE, I just hit my fifties and celibate since COVID. This is my reflective period and I’ve gotten to know myself better to be GREAT! Wishing all women to choose yourself first! Great commentary 💐

  • @floramercury
    @floramercury 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Geezu for the amount of people who didn’t make because of AIDS/HIV back in the day, today’s society is reckless. Great 👍 to hear you chat and giggle 🤭 about past experiences instead of the current social media mess.

  • @Myra707
    @Myra707 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Tell it!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Love this!

  • @nicholeslater5498
    @nicholeslater5498 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for THIS!! Finally, someone who gets it 🙌🏾 This is so relatable and I absolutely enjoyed listening. Peaceful and single over here! I hope there's more to come 💕

  • @sherriew9388
    @sherriew9388 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love it TT❤

  • @BarbaraATate4062
    @BarbaraATate4062 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Hey my FAVORITE content creator! 💕 Would love to hear your take on Tiffany Henyard, mayor of Dolton, IL. She’s all of the way off the chain!

    • @ConversationsWithTrueTea
      @ConversationsWithTrueTea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Hey! I haven't really did my homework on that situation.

    • @gaylepope1957
      @gaylepope1957 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She's one big Mess😅

  • @MsVon-pg6oy
    @MsVon-pg6oy 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I got married for the 2nd time at 41.

  • @Angeleyes818
    @Angeleyes818 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hey True Tea how are you doing?

  • @rozthompson7150
    @rozthompson7150 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hello everyone ♥️

  • @dianereid4630
    @dianereid4630 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dig dat

  • @Cindeegee
    @Cindeegee 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I'm here! 😊

  • @swhite3633
    @swhite3633 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m not having any good luck out here. But, I’m not settling.

  • @Cindeegee
    @Cindeegee 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I agree but one thing about me I've never been desperate for a man I don't give a damn I left my son's father at 25 6 months pregnant and left and never looked back to this day. we're now best friends. He was a serial cheater a serial liar and a serial gambler and he was like 9 years older than me And he thought I would put up with all that never.

    • @ConversationsWithTrueTea
      @ConversationsWithTrueTea  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      He was a serial everything huh? lol. I'm glad you chose YOU!

    • @Cindeegee
      @Cindeegee 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@ConversationsWithTrueTeaeverything under the sun😂

    • @luciamartin4891
      @luciamartin4891 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😮

  • @MzRR22
    @MzRR22 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    We must be related 😂😂😂! I’m the same when it comes to being no nonsense with these guys. I can’t do stupidity, arrogance, toxic masculinity. I enjoy peace of mind so much I’d live alone just to have it.

  • @MsJayLyn
    @MsJayLyn 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💫🫶🏾🙌🏾

  • @NRumph-fu4xl
    @NRumph-fu4xl วันที่ผ่านมา

    I want a man that is submitted to the Lord, hardworking provider, strictly heterosexual and clean (inside and out)!!!

  • @charlahenry
    @charlahenry 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Do you feel like after leaving your boyfriend, trying to date the other guy, you didn't put your ALL into it, we tend to not trust guys after a toxic relationship 😮these men nowadays wants someone to take care of them SMH I can't 😂

  • @Cheleyshe
    @Cheleyshe 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your relationship sounded a lot like Martell and Mel's.

  • @CrochetStudent36
    @CrochetStudent36 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Whew chiiile!!!!! Almost 4 years now!! I just can't share my energy with the undeserving ever again!!!! 🙄🙄🙄 The veil has been LIFTED!!!!!

  • @Katt-6804
    @Katt-6804 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This is going to be interesting.💫♟️💫