@@DesiresLaidBare what W Tr said is so true lol & i'm a happy & proud gay sub serving my Master it feels so sexy & hot & being humiliating feels sexy & hot af lol .
this video is soo fucking empowering. thank you so much for this. You can be submissive and still be a powerful woman! even in a relationship!!! I love you for this! ♥️♥️
Last night the guy who was my dom said we should stop what we're doing and that he didn't believe i was submissive, it was partly my fault for discussing my boundaries with him but it makes me feel I've done something to him and that he'll never want me back
Discussing boundaries does not make you any less of a submissive, because everyone has boundaries, even doms! If your dom thinks that boundaries are not okay, i.e 'having boundaries means you're not a sub because subs have to submit to everything.' He needs to know that boundaries are ESSENTIAL to any relationship, BDSM or not. You need to tell him that having limits does not make you any less of a submissive. Knowing your limits makes you responsible, and you should be proud of discussing that with him.
I love this video. It's help emensly. My problem i believe is I am not comfortable in my own skin. I have the best Dom on the planet. He is so patient. And so loving.. he's an expert on this subject and has asked me to listen to these videos to get more of a grasp on being a sub. I had a bad experience with my last partner and I guess I can't forget it and when my Dom now asks something of me I feel, silly I guess and embarrassed. I am very overweight and subconscious about that but my Dom is great , he tries very hard to make me feel beautiful. Cause he honestly he thinks I am. But I just can't get into myself to feel comfortable to let myself give him all of me, heart soul and mind and body. But boy do I want to. I don't know if losing this weight would make it better, but I am trying to and hopefully it will open another door. Thanks for your help. I am going to watch more videos.
Me and my wife have been together for 15 years, and we have 3 boys, the third born in August this year. Understandably, we're in a dry spell, and I've had a lot of time with my thoughts... And I realized I want to be submissive to her. My God, when you spoke about kneeling... I had shivers. Problem, we've always been extremely vanilla in our sex life, and I struggled for days on end to tell her. I ended up sending her a 40 lines text, red with embarrassment, while sitting next to her. She hasn't rejected me, but she's leaving me in limbo, and I don't really know what to do. I understand sex is not in the air, right now, but I just want her to let me massage her, and be there for her pleasure, in whatever form...
Communicate, and listen and be patient! Having children is hard with couples intimacy! Higher a babysitter, have the alone time you both desperately need together. Be careful and also remember at the heart of bdsm is trust!
I’m not really naturally submissive, I am caring and love helping out the people I care about, but I’m a bitch and in charge A Lot. I’m giving mixed signals to myself the more I think, I feel like I would want to submit to the guy I love and be his but I’m not sure if that makes me a sub?
From your description it seems to me that you would be a sub to a guy that you really trust, which is valid! (If my assumption is true) It also seems to me like you could be a caregiver type, like a 'parental' figure to those you trust.
maybe someone who takes charge in daily life but behind closed doors your more of a bratty sub. From what you said you want to take charge in life but still recive from someone.
I'm new to submissive behaviour I was approached by a Dom and we are on our second meet and im so excited as At last I have found my true feelings sexually. Im just looking for help and knowledge on the best way I can please my Dom. X Niki
Happy for you @Niki Green I am a switch but lean more towards Dom. Have and be safe. Makes me smile to know that I am not alone in this journey. I’ve be feeling ashamed of my own desires.
I did not know it had a name, but was raised to be submissive by my mother. She was English and used English methods of discipline. Corner time, spankings and early bedtimes were a regular thing for me. I do not remember staying up past 8:00 p.m. up to age 19. I liked making her happy with me and when she said "I was such a good boy for her"
OMG veronia please keep the submissive guide vids going. Im such a newb as i mentioned in a comment under another of your videos. And btw THANK YOU SO MUCH for your response!! 😁😁i call my Dom "master", and hes legit training me, and he said im getting there😊phew. He doesnt f^^k around as the master, excuse the pun LOL Im a single mum, so you can imagine this newfound thrill ive discovered for myself.
thank so much for your video I have learn from your video that I am a bottom because I love being told what to it makes me happy when I make them happy
Hey, I am a sub for a longer term. I enjoy the video very much and I wanted to ask if you have videos with Tipps to how to become a better submissive. I hope that you understand what I mean Greetings from germany
i too am submissive. i get turn on when a strong strict woman of authority ask me to do thim ngs for her. my girlfriend is willimg to play with me. we love each other
Here's what I think about when I think about kneeling -- "With or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil - that takes religion.” ( Steven Weinberg)
Hi Veronica.. my question.. if i have set a hard limit in the beginning of the D/s relationship.. but in time i realised that i am able to submit to that.. how do i communicate it to my partner so he does not think that i am doing it only to please him... but i am doing it because i am ready?. Look forward to your advise. Thsnks!
The best thing you can do is to have a conversation with him! Tell him EXACTLY what you just told me: what used to be a hard limit is now something that isn’t. And I promise I’m not doing it just to please you. Just like that!
I like doing favors for people. Cooking and cleaning, too. Helping people makes me so happy 💗 I hope to find a domme that trusts me enough to do everyday tasks for her! 💗
Being submissive is doing what your Dominant expects from you, not how warm and fuzzy it makes you feel inside. Being submissive isn't always "FUN" . Did you agree to do it or N0T ?
This is a guide for people to find out what they are comfortable with and want that title. Being a submissive doesn't mean you have to listen to the dominant one if you're not comfortable with it. Consent is key and a good dom would not and should not be making their sub uncomfortable or make them do things they don't like.
if youre only doing what you like doing and nothing more how the hell is that supposed to be submissive ?! like.. this is not submissive at all. theres nothing wrong with doing what you want but why are you calling yourselves submissive it doesnt make any sense to me
Yes I know this is 4 years, but no matter what anyone says about bdsm it is about communication and trust. And What you and your partner are into. A lot of people have a no idea what bdsm really means. Everybody plays differently, you both need to communicate your limits!
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1. Educate and know yourself
2. Define what submission means to you
3. Set boundaries
Thank you!
@@DesiresLaidBare what W Tr said is so true lol & i'm a happy & proud gay sub serving my Master it feels so sexy & hot & being humiliating feels sexy & hot af lol .
this video is soo fucking empowering. thank you so much for this. You can be submissive and still be a powerful woman! even in a relationship!!! I love you for this! ♥️♥️
And you can also be spanked, you gorgeous, empowered woman!
Last night the guy who was my dom said we should stop what we're doing and that he didn't believe i was submissive, it was partly my fault for discussing my boundaries with him but it makes me feel I've done something to him and that he'll never want me back
Discussing boundaries does not make you any less of a submissive, because everyone has boundaries, even doms! If your dom thinks that boundaries are not okay, i.e 'having boundaries means you're not a sub because subs have to submit to everything.' He needs to know that boundaries are ESSENTIAL to any relationship, BDSM or not. You need to tell him that having limits does not make you any less of a submissive. Knowing your limits makes you responsible, and you should be proud of discussing that with him.
@@gravity3781 And if he ain't acceptin that shit, leave him.
I love this video. It's help emensly. My problem i believe is I am not comfortable in my own skin. I have the best Dom on the planet. He is so patient. And so loving.. he's an expert on this subject and has asked me to listen to these videos to get more of a grasp on being a sub. I had a bad experience with my last partner and I guess I can't forget it and when my Dom now asks something of me I feel, silly I guess and embarrassed. I am very overweight and subconscious about that but my Dom is great , he tries very hard to make me feel beautiful. Cause he honestly he thinks I am. But I just can't get into myself to feel comfortable to let myself give him all of me, heart soul and mind and body. But boy do I want to. I don't know if losing this weight would make it better, but I am trying to and hopefully it will open another door. Thanks for your help. I am going to watch more videos.
Me and my wife have been together for 15 years, and we have 3 boys, the third born in August this year. Understandably, we're in a dry spell, and I've had a lot of time with my thoughts... And I realized I want to be submissive to her. My God, when you spoke about kneeling... I had shivers. Problem, we've always been extremely vanilla in our sex life, and I struggled for days on end to tell her. I ended up sending her a 40 lines text, red with embarrassment, while sitting next to her. She hasn't rejected me, but she's leaving me in limbo, and I don't really know what to do. I understand sex is not in the air, right now, but I just want her to let me massage her, and be there for her pleasure, in whatever form...
Have you cooked her dinner, vacuumed the house, and cleaned the toilets?
Communicate, and listen and be patient! Having children is hard with couples intimacy! Higher a babysitter, have the alone time you both desperately need together. Be careful and also remember at the heart of bdsm is trust!
Amazing lecture. You are a good teacher too.
I’m not really naturally submissive, I am caring and love helping out the people I care about, but I’m a bitch and in charge A Lot. I’m giving mixed signals to myself the more I think, I feel like I would want to submit to the guy I love and be his but I’m not sure if that makes me a sub?
From your description it seems to me that you would be a sub to a guy that you really trust, which is valid! (If my assumption is true) It also seems to me like you could be a caregiver type, like a 'parental' figure to those you trust.
maybe someone who takes charge in daily life but behind closed doors your more of a bratty sub. From what you said you want to take charge in life but still recive from someone.
Yeah same. But I'm gonna be the one in charge if my dom says I can't eat junk food
I'm new to submissive behaviour I was approached by a Dom and we are on our second meet and im so excited as At last I have found my true feelings sexually. Im just looking for help and knowledge on the best way I can please my Dom. X Niki
Happy for you @Niki Green I am a switch but lean more towards Dom. Have and be safe. Makes me smile to know that I am not alone in this journey. I’ve be feeling ashamed of my own desires.
Curious to your progress in your journey 8 months later
@@honeysharma2351 hey honey Sharma
@@honeysharma2351 what is your info
@@honeysharma2351 I hate to put my id or information in here
I love this ! Starting my BDSM journey 💕
Me too 😊 im so happy for you that you found your glory and embracing it!
Lauren Alexis same
Lauren Alexis me too ☺️
I’m submissive because one time a hot person called me a good boy and rustled my hair and now I like doing things for them.
Can you do a video on what a service submissive is? I totally think I am one 😂💗
Heck yes!
These vids are so helpful, i am just starting to explore bdsm and this channel is amazing
I did not know it had a name, but was raised to be submissive by my mother. She was English and used English methods of discipline. Corner time, spankings and early bedtimes were a regular thing for me. I do not remember staying up past 8:00 p.m. up to age 19. I liked making her happy with me and when she said "I was such a good boy for her"
Your good boy
@@heretostay4565 I am
@@dwheeler016 yes my good boy
Can we contact my good boy
@@heretostay4565 I was taught well
@@heretostay4565 Do you want to train me?
Thanks from someone who just learned to be a submissive at 50+ years old.
Good bitch
Me too!
@MistressDuvenx appreciate your proposal, however I am serving a local Master here in Houston
@MistressDuvenx been two full years now. So far, so good
Thank you for a well thought out and caring video. I wish I had watched this year's ago.
Love your friendly and approachable personality! Such important self-respect points made.
Thank you!!
As a single little brat submissive, celibacy attracts quality partners 💕👑
OMG veronia please keep the submissive guide vids going. Im such a newb as i mentioned in a comment under another of your videos. And btw THANK YOU SO MUCH for your response!! 😁😁i call my Dom "master", and hes legit training me, and he said im getting there😊phew. He doesnt f^^k around as the master, excuse the pun LOL Im a single mum, so you can imagine this newfound thrill ive discovered for myself.
Well, whadda you want to know more about? ;-)
thank so much for your video I have learn from your video that I am a bottom because I love being told what to it makes me happy when I make them happy
Yes! I love it when my partners are happy. I become so happy.
Myself and my partner are new to this scene and we are unsure of the ebreaviations
Thanks for sharing very informative
Make a video for deep throat training and it's importance in d/S.
I have lots of questions
How about we say if you are being forced in a way that feels icky you are being abused.
Exactly. If you say something is a hard limit then you shouldn't feel like you HAVE to do it.
Awesome video. I am not naturally submissive but for a caring man I am totally game to be a submissive.
Very nice can we contact
Great content new to your channel thank you.
I’m starting my bdsm journey with my ldr partner ☺️☺️☺️
Last point is so legit
Where I heard her say “Veronica “ I was like. Huh my name is Veronica 😃💀
I love the way you explained this and it help so much
Thank you, learned that in my beginning phase, although I want to submit fully, for now I want to give what I know will give pleasure and fulfillment
Thank you for the informations👍👍👍👍
thank ya 🖤
Hey, I am a sub for a longer term. I enjoy the video very much and I wanted to ask if you have videos with Tipps to how to become a better submissive. I hope that you understand what I mean
Greetings from germany
Grüße
Thank you!
This helped a lot for my wife and I
Thank u...sizzz..
Being submissive to me reinforces me being wanted. Even if I have to schedule it with someone
Oh that is so deep and so resonant. Thank you for sharing
Wow
How can say submissive in interview
i too am submissive. i get turn on when a strong strict woman of authority ask me to do thim
ngs for her. my girlfriend is willimg to play with me. we love each other
Thank you❤❤
Here's what I think about when I think about kneeling -- "With or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil - that takes religion.” ( Steven Weinberg)
Oh yeah!
Hi Veronica.. my question.. if i have set a hard limit in the beginning of the D/s relationship.. but in time i realised that i am able to submit to that.. how do i communicate it to my partner so he does not think that i am doing it only to please him... but i am doing it because i am ready?. Look forward to your advise. Thsnks!
The best thing you can do is to have a conversation with him! Tell him EXACTLY what you just told me: what used to be a hard limit is now something that isn’t. And I promise I’m not doing it just to please you.
Just like that!
i still dont get it ? what it means .
What’s BBSM ROLE!
I am extremely new to this what is your Facebook page again please ???
Am I "abnormal"? When somebody hurts me and I wanna kick their @ss?
Subscribing because all of this was lovely. BUT- i would've subscribed for the use of the word "LOINS" alone.
What he he cheats then how do you stay like that.
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Yes mistress. Thanku mistress.
How do you show your submission?
I like doing favors for people. Cooking and cleaning, too. Helping people makes me so happy 💗 I hope to find a domme that trusts me enough to do everyday tasks for her! 💗
Hey
Women should be more submissive and less masculine in general if they want to keep a man long term
What was the name of the Facebook group?
Being submissive is doing what your Dominant expects from you, not how warm and fuzzy it makes you feel inside. Being submissive isn't always "FUN" . Did you agree to do it or N0T ?
This is a guide for people to find out what they are comfortable with and want that title. Being a submissive doesn't mean you have to listen to the dominant one if you're not comfortable with it. Consent is key and a good dom would not and should not be making their sub uncomfortable or make them do things they don't like.
if youre only doing what you like doing and nothing more how the hell is that supposed to be submissive ?! like.. this is not submissive at all. theres nothing wrong with doing what you want but why are you calling yourselves submissive it doesnt make any sense to me
I know what a my fetish for submission.
Can you make a video about setting boundaries in a d/s relationship?
That’s not very submissive
Dont be s pussy
Yes I know this is 4 years, but no matter what anyone says about bdsm it is about communication and trust. And What you and your partner are into. A lot of people have a no idea what bdsm really means. Everybody plays differently, you both need to communicate your limits!
Submissive is you just say "yes" a lot.
Love it!
Thank you!