“If your man still ain’t come, there’s still more work for you to do” 😩 ohhhh I felt that. And I know exactly the work I need to be doing 😞 time to be obedient!!
Been single for a year. Some days are harder but one thing I learned ladies is that you don’t need outside validation to feel good about yourself it must come from God and within. Once you focus on yourself you will experience so much peace. As women we all want to be adored by a man but God already adores us!! I had a lot of things I had to change about myself and couldn’t see it because I was so focused on all his faults not realizing I needed to change too. Be blessed!
The Five F’s: Freedom Focus Family Finances Friends Single is not a curse. When the time is right it will happen for me to marry again, something I said I wouldn’t do again.I’ve been truly busy with writing my book and finally working on my business. You have and are a blessing to us all. We appreciate you Bro. Tony more than you know. Much Love ❤️ . Be Blessed!! The Blessed Tribe!!
Fancy Pants i was going through the same thing and then God showed me how to communicate through these relationships with friends and also we can share our knowledge and help them without overwhelming ourselves. Just like Tony is doing here. He’s on assignment and giving knowledge. Sometimes our friends are assignments. It’s our job to balance through while also enjoying our alone time.
LaFenice Forbes lol I’m the same way so I’m agreeing. I block everybody but then i had to say now Tiffany wait. Give knowledge and keep it pushing. You’re absolutely right. Under no circumstances will we allow the foolery
nikki0327 and so we can meet in public, then I go home and they can go home, and the next day, or whenever, to have hopes of meeting others, and that's enough.
If you are single like me God is positioning u for something better and what's for u like Tony said don't settle for less get what's only for u specifically for u what God has for u it is for u!!! 🤗 Thanks Tony as always!!!
“Your single life has to be so amazing that someone has to convince you to be in a relationship.” TG👏🏾 Really in a season of being more consistent on my exercise, eating and undertaking the tasks in my business to take it to the next level. It feels so much to do! It can be overwhelming tbh. But it’s so true. Sometimes, I wonder if this is why God hasn’t sent me my husband yet.
I really needed to hear this. I'm 29 and I've never dated. I felt unwanted for years, but I now realize that Jesus is fixing my heart and mind..not only for my relationship with Him, but with myself. Now, I'm just chilling and building..I'm ok with God's timing.🙌🏾
I’m 29 and haven’t been in a relationship either. I think the grass just looks greener on the side. I’ve come to accept that God has different timing for different people and his timing is always right.
I started dating at 26. My first adult relationship. I am disabled. I wasn’t even looking. He came to me through a mutual friend. I was working and wasn’t focus on a boyfriend. He out there patience. I’m 36 now. I had 2 adult relationships but patience is a good thing to do. The last boyfriend drove 4 hours to see me too.
This video was such an inspiration. I am 41, single, no kids, multiple streams of income off someone else's job. Been flirting with starting my own training and development business. Be blessed!
How come no one ever talks about how a woman can be doing all the right things focusing on herself staying busy praying and believing and the love never comes? Speak on what to do when God says no despite the desire of your heart for love.
Summer Gunn the truth is that the vast majority of us will never find true love. It’s a horrific truth to swallow. I believe it will take about two or three generations for this dire social issue to be turned around. I’m 31 and I have NEVER been in a healthy relationship. I’ve truly given up and intend to fully focus on my education and son.
I'm so glad someone had the guts to ask this and keep it REAL!!! I'm convinced that some of us are not destined to be coupled up. As painful as it is, we have to come to terms with this reality. 😔😕
I’m over 60 and NEVER had the pleasure of being in a healthy relationship too. GOD blessed me with three wonderful children. But by faith I’m not giving up on my future husband GOD has for me.
Be blessed tribe! I will be totally honest and say I was thinking something was definitely and desperately wrong with my life since I'm 43 and single. No children, never been married. I was close. I was engaged but my fiancee passed away. It took GOD to instill in me my season of singleness is beautiful and I fell in TRUE LOVE with the TRUE KING. I can blow this comment section UP with all He has taught me. Earthly I'm single, but from above in Heaven, I'm not single. I've been chosen.
I have no business here.. but I’m here for it! 😩😂❤️ Being single was/is dope! It’s just YOOUUU!! No questions, considerations, compromises🥴...Y’all better live your best life before you’re snatched tf up 😩
The word “impossible” can always be seen as “I’mPossible.” All things are possible when you put God first. Single or married, young or old, always stay strong through Christ Jesus! ❤️🌹❤️
I work in the UK. I'm a nurse at the Emergency Department and I have this colleague who is 7 months pregnant and is still working. I said to myself, I will never marry a man who will allow me to be in a position. Meanwhile even during this COVID-19 crisis and she's 8 months pregnant she's still working! I wonder what her husband is doing in life? Ugh dusty! I'd rather be single!
I’m coming up being single for 6 years. I was fine the first 3 years but now the loneliness is bothering me. I wish I had a group of friend girls around bc that’s the issue too. I get friends that keep me around but then dump me when I’m no use to them anymore.
Hear that! The friends will come, I’ve been getting out and about doing the stuff I like to do like skate, paint, cycle, write, meet up is the way to go!
Be Blessed. Life is very different when you have never been single. Ladies please understand it is nothing wrong with you, God create us all in a perfect way. We as women sometimes pray for a mate...….we end up with "WHO SHOT JOHN AND FORGOT TO KILL HIM".....A MANS REJECTION IS OFTEN GODS' PROTECTION.
And those familiar spirits try to attach to you.also dealing with the spirit of rejection. Its alot. But i walked away from alot so called friends. I need Godly friends that love God the way i do
I am such a Home Body. I am a nurse in a busy ER in Atlanta , and after working 12 hour shifts 3-6 days a week, all I want to do on my days off is stay in. I need to get out and mingle if I want to meet a mate.
"I used to think that the worst thing in life is to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone." Robin Williams
WHEN I TELL YOU I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS RIGHT HERE!!! I was so down today, questioning myself about the standards I have and being single but this was so encouraging to me. It kept me with my persceptive. So glad you listened to the Holy Spirit and spoke on this topic! Thank you Mr. Tony Gaskins!
This video is my favorite. Not taking the rest you made for granted but this touched many nerves for me. I've been selling myself short. Thanks Tony. Time to do better! BLESSED TRIBE.
Being single is not a bad thing. Sometimes it's time for us to grow and there may be things we need to work on before we can be in a relationship. I've been single since 2000 and honestly, I love being single. I'm very independent and I don't feel like a man can complete me. I complete myself. I place God before myself or anything else. God bless you all.
I use to feel that way a lot when I first got divorce years ago . But with school and work my kids that’s what keep my mind clear and going to church was the best part about it 💯❤️
Imagine being in the wilderness running and your future husband is running thousands of miles behind you. After a while he sees you, his future wife, ahead of him. He keeps running, but at this point he is chasing you. Eventually you slow down a little and you catch him. In the end, you both run into a beautiful paradise made for you to thrive and prosper. However, if you both didn't run out of the wilderness together you wouldn't have made it to paradise. Ladies and gentleman get yourself ready and enjoy your life. Your future partner will eventually come. Thank TG.
This is so good! So many people are throwing their lives away in the wrong relationship. Putting their future on hold just standing still. I'm thankful that hasn't been my experience. I have spent more time being single than in a relationship, but my life reflects that. I still don't feel as great as I believe I can be, but I'm in a great place!
I think God is being real with me and is telling me to get my sh*t together. 27, almost 28, been single my whole life. After the pandemic is over, I'm hitting the gym and putting 10000% in self improvement. Everyday is such a struggle, I wanna die everyday. I just want to be loved. My family doesn't love me.
Invest in exercise but ALSO see a nutritionist AND have a solid blood test. It took me until I was 36 to be able to consistently lose weight because my attempts to eat healthy still had too much hidden sugar and not enough iron and potassium. I'm 40 and gyms aren't reopening until next week... but I'm STILL dropping sizes. You're in your TWENTIES ... you can do this! Also, if no one has ever told you: YOUR LIFE IS VALUABLE. You are not here by mistake; your life has value and purpose. In 8 billion people, YOU ARE HERE BECAUSE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE HERE. Keep pursuing your life until you REALIZE this truth for yourself and find out all of WHY (hint: you are going to need all of your human lifespan, so plan on living a long time and enjoying it)!
You have no idea what your words mean to me. I just want to thank you for allowing GOD to speak through you because some of us need it. This was a complete eye opener. No I’m not lazy but I am going to go harder. Thanks Coach!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
This is good Tony! Coming from a 27 year old single woman I approve this message! I was just talking to someone about this. Actually these are the very things that should be a 🚩to men who are seeking a real woman. If she doesn’t possess these qualities, she is NOT ready. Preach brother I’m woke!
Be blessed. Thank you Tony! Focus on your purpose, how you can serve others, have fun, spend time with with God, etc. Enjoy your single season ladies!! It’s not about just having a partner. While living your life the man will come.
I believe the elderly understand the meaning of being alone and are satisfied with having a campanion with no intent of being married or spending day to day with someone.
Thanks Tony. God does work in mysterious ways. Last night I was in my feelings about being single and this message showed up on my TH-cam when I needed it. Your message uplifted my spirit, giving me a new perspective and focus. I can't thank you enough.
So many jewels in this video💎💎... I had to comment... Brother Tony you are a blessing😀!! May the Most High continue to bless you and your family! Thank you for helping me recover, rediscover and get it together!!
For me I’ve just been single for 2 months now, no kids I enjoy the piece and quiet, but I miss the companionship and taking to him, I may not see him everyday but he was always taking to me everyday. It’s hard to have no more contact But I’m all focused on my faith, family and fitness, so just feel lonely. Also living alone makes it hard.
So 20 mins into the video and I had to join the bless tribe. I am bewildered as to why this powerful video got so many dislikes, its ludicrous! Tony is teaching us, teaching me how to workout at home, how to enjoy my own company, how to build myself, how to be a better version of myself, all FOR FREE!! What is wrong with people. He is under obligation to none of us to be doing this, but for some reason he does it anyways, EVERYDAY!!! And we wana be mad because he's telling us the truth. I know its hard to hear but the message that is hard to hear is often best for us. So thank you Mr Gaskins for ALL ur wisdom and kindness because its kind to help people u don't even know.
THIS RIGHT HERE.... I don't know who needs to hear this but this ALL THE WAY spoke to ME!!! Lately I've been running around here feeling sorry for myself--I'm usually upbeat most of the time--but I been letting the fact that I'm single, lonely, and no prospects get me down. Tony spoke directly to my SOUL in this vid! I have the degrees, a home, a job... BUT I also have a book in my spirit I haven't written yet, a non-profit I would like to build, people are naturally drawn to me to counsel them, and this body could use some work... AND I know I don't get in God's word like I should. MERCY!!! This vid brought the clarity I needed to turn within and work on me. Thank you Tony Gaskins! Please keep doing what you do!!!
Amen, (Self love) (The five 5's) Freedom,Focus, Finances,Family Friends The three (B's) Brain,Brand,Body In the most of your path stay focus and work on you, in due season and time everything else will fall in place amen, Sumitt your prayers faithfully with all supplication. FAITH& TRUST THE LORD ALMIGHTY ONLY!!!
Rt at the moment i have 2 fractured ankles... Healing nicely... Will start my walking program when it's nicer out... Lose 10 more lbs.. Down 30 so far... Will work on my Brain and Brand !!! Be Blessed y'all !!! 💙💚💜
With internet, everyone has the capacity to excel in any domain, learn what they want, and now everyone can work from home. It’s infinite information out there, it’s just distractions and choices that separate the successful from the impoverished. Another thing, everyone writes now, so the authors market is congested and competitive. You have to put in more work than all the others that have already surpassed you in order to not get left behind.
I love this mans videos, whenever I’m feeling sad or lonely I have to come here and get reminded of a few things lol and the plus is that he is high key a comedian. Sometimes I be laughing so hard you would think I was in here with a group of friends but nope just me lol
So true!! I love dating myself 🤗 going to breakfast or lunch, rollerblading at the park, hanging at the bookstore, going to church, etc!! I’ve started building my brand and all! Life is amazing 💪🏽💖
BROTHER TONY! THIS VIDEO BLESSED AND CONFIRMED SOME THINGS I'VE BERN STRUGGLING WITH AS A SINGLE WOMAN WITH NO CHILDREN.BUT I SEE THINGS NOW CLEARER THANKS TO THIS AWESOME MESSAGE! BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
Thank you Tony! I’ve had some struggles in my single season, and this is exactly what I needed to hear today! Took plenty of notes, and creating my day schedule right now! #BeBlessed 🙏🏾
Tony, you and your wife are so lucky to have each other. I'm in the process of getting a divorce after 9 years. A disrespectful man with no ambition, goals, or values isn't for me. His word means nothing to me anymore.
Great video, right on time. I had to journal as I was listening to this message, I greatly appreciate you taking out your time to help us women in our weakness! I listened to this video more than once today and felt my self getting stronger. Thanks
Yesssss I’m here for this!! “If you don’t have you a voice memo app, you don’t have a phone 😂 you need to get you a phone, a smart phone, you got you a slow phone 😭😂🤣”
I needed this. I’ve been single for six years and recently my parent’s 35 year marriage ended and it’s really hit me. As a result I’ve felt for the first time in a long time that I want a partner and that I’m undesirable because it’s been so long. I thought that I was all done working on myself while single, but I am not. The fact that my parents marriage ended and I’ve been struggling with that is a sign right there- I need to address my changed views on relationships. Finding someone won’t change the distress that this has caused. I know deep down that a partner won’t actually fix what is going on with me. I still have work to do and if someone comes along during that then great, but I’m not going to waste another second wallowing about being single. It’s okay to feel lonely but it’s not serving me to live in such a low spot.
Wow, so I just found Tony but man I been telling myself this for a long time. I see so many unhappy relationships and I've told myself that I will work on myself and when the time is right...love will find me.
Be Blessed!🙌🏽 Got soooo much from this post. "Not unwanted, but unmatched!" Working on my voice memo😊. Thank you for all that you do! May God continue to bless and keep you!
Thank you soooo much for this video!!! U don't know how much I NEEDED to hear this. I have watched almost all of your utube podcasts, and I am going to invest in your books. Thank You soooo much. The title of this podcast is exactly how I was feeling. I really really appreciate you taking out the time to do this. I believe everytime you do a video and/or write a book, the angels in heaven add more jewels to your crown. You and your entire family are blessed and highly favored. Be blessed.
I definitely needed to hear this because I had a situation early this morning & I was crying out to God about what I had going on in my life. God spoke to me through this video & it’s not that He don’t always guide me, I was just in a whole other space that I’m not normally in. Thank You Tony Gaskins
This is one of your best videos, Tony! You dropped so many gems regarding various relevant topics! I am so happy I watched this video in full! I feel blessed! God bless you Tony!
MAN......It's so crazy how God really uses Tony as a vessel to speak life into others. This message was super encouraging to me and I really needed to hear this. I was at a river today praying that God would help me figure out what I needed to improve in my life. And at 22:17 -- 23:17. That particular part blessed me and spoke directly to me in this season. Thank you again Tony.
“It’s not that you’re unwanted, you’re unmatched”😢. I needed to hear this. Thanks TG.
Me too!
Yes!
A word!
Elle Jaye 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Wow that's powerful thank you Tony
You can be in a relationship and still be lonely, that’s a fact ✅
That's much worse.😭
That's so true!
Yep
Unfortunately smh 🤦♀️
means you're in the wrong relationship
Words can’t even describe the way God is using you to transform my life.
Amen. Mines too!!!
AMEN!!!!
Amen 💕💕💕
yes girl!... and in all of this truth I find healing
Same here !
“ a whole lot of people are just settling for what they can get. “ - Tony Gaskins 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙄😩 OOOO LORD 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
Very true!! 🙌🏽
Takisha D. Fields That’s on everything!!!
Takisha D. Fields that’s what I did and I’m so glad I got out of it.
@M Robin the irony, at least you know what's real.
Takisha D. Fields ... I never will settle anymore in this life or any other life... single it is for me...
Sometimes when I'm bummed about being single, I just remind myself that I would much rather be single than with the wrong man.
Tell me about it
Yes!
“When the wife is ready, the husband will appear.” TG 🙌🏽 a word
“If your man still ain’t come, there’s still more work for you to do” 😩 ohhhh I felt that. And I know exactly the work I need to be doing 😞 time to be obedient!!
U ain't alone sis
❤️🐾👣💐🌺
I’m at that stage. I’m working myself to the tee with my writing.
Sometimes the man doesn't appear because HE'S the one who isn't ready yet as well
Been single for a year. Some days are harder but one thing I learned ladies is that you don’t need outside validation to feel good about yourself it must come from God and within. Once you focus on yourself you will experience so much peace. As women we all want to be adored by a man but God already adores us!! I had a lot of things I had to change about myself and couldn’t see it because I was so focused on all his faults not realizing I needed to change too. Be blessed!
Awww,sis!!! Tks for that!!! It's true tho,God
Is a everlasting God of love,peace and happiness amen!!!
Momma Tish1 yes he is you’re welcome sis 😘😘
So true beloved it start upstairs god1st queen 2queen
try single since birth’
Shaun Dave I’m so sorry. Know You are loved.
The Five F’s:
Freedom
Focus
Family
Finances
Friends
Single is not a curse. When the time is right it will happen for me to marry again, something I said I wouldn’t do again.I’ve been truly busy with writing my book and finally working on my business. You have and are a blessing to us all. We appreciate you Bro. Tony more than you know. Much Love ❤️ . Be Blessed!! The Blessed Tribe!!
I am sure thinking about doing that
I'm not sure how to work on my business
H Cohane yes indeed! I have been working my business and now working on my book! God knows everything we need in the right time! Stay encouraged!
KARON RILEY I purchased Tony’s Entrepreneurship with purpose course. It gives you everything from the basics to more in-depth info
@@ericabostwick4033 thank you!! 😊
“You’re not meeting your match because you’re not meeting enough people - I receive that! My brother also told me that I have to be seen.
Lol. My brother told me the same thing. He said you can' t find anyone while staying at home all the time.
I'm just curious where to find a mate?
I want friends but then again I don’t people annoy me and I get tired of them easily I’m much more happier and at peace when I’m by myself.
I have this same dilemma. Lol! I have to find balance.
They become needy or full of drama or they being a dummy to some bum man, or they well off and look down on ppl.
Fancy Pants i was going through the same thing and then God showed me how to communicate through these relationships with friends and also we can share our knowledge and help them without overwhelming ourselves. Just like Tony is doing here. He’s on assignment and giving knowledge. Sometimes our friends are assignments. It’s our job to balance through while also enjoying our alone time.
LaFenice Forbes lol I’m the same way so I’m agreeing. I block everybody but then i had to say now Tiffany wait. Give knowledge and keep it pushing. You’re absolutely right. Under no circumstances will we allow the foolery
nikki0327 and so we can meet in public, then I go home and they can go home, and the next day, or whenever, to have hopes of meeting others, and that's enough.
Its not that yur unwanted... you're unmatched... WoW!! 🤯
If you are single like me God is positioning u for something better and what's for u like Tony said don't settle for less get what's only for u specifically for u what God has for u it is for u!!! 🤗 Thanks Tony as always!!!
All praises to the Most High.
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Amen. 🙏🙌❤️
Preach Queen! A lot more of my sisters need to realise this and stop settling for trash.
lies!
“Your single life has to be so amazing that someone has to convince you to be in a relationship.” TG👏🏾
Really in a season of being more consistent on my exercise, eating and undertaking the tasks in my business to take it to the next level. It feels so much to do! It can be overwhelming tbh. But it’s so true. Sometimes, I wonder if this is why God hasn’t sent me my husband yet.
I really needed to hear this. I'm 29 and I've never dated. I felt unwanted for years, but I now realize that Jesus is fixing my heart and mind..not only for my relationship with Him, but with myself. Now, I'm just chilling and building..I'm ok with God's timing.🙌🏾
Jessica same here sis! I’m 28 and never been in a relationship. God has been working on me as well! Our Prince Charming is worth the wait! 😊
I’m turning 26. Never dated either.
I’m 29 and haven’t been in a relationship either. I think the grass just looks greener on the side. I’ve come to accept that God has different timing for different people and his timing is always right.
I started dating at 26. My first adult relationship. I am disabled. I wasn’t even looking. He came to me through a mutual friend. I was working and wasn’t focus on a boyfriend. He out there patience. I’m 36 now. I had 2 adult relationships but patience is a good thing to do. The last boyfriend drove 4 hours to see me too.
The grass is greener is where you watered it
This video was such an inspiration. I am 41, single, no kids, multiple streams of income off someone else's job. Been flirting with starting my own training and development business. Be blessed!
Please help a girl out n share some tips on these multiple streams of income 😭😂😩. I need some shmoney too
I teach on the side, I write resumes and cover letter for folks, and I bake cakes. Find the right people with a need and you can sell it!
@@notnsecure137 thank you for sharing 🙂
All hail a sister doing it for herself!
Get it girl such an inspiration
How come no one ever talks about how a woman can be doing all the right things focusing on herself staying busy praying and believing and the love never comes? Speak on what to do when God says no despite the desire of your heart for love.
Summer Gunn the truth is that the vast majority of us will never find true love. It’s a horrific truth to swallow. I believe it will take about two or three generations for this dire social issue to be turned around. I’m 31 and I have NEVER been in a healthy relationship. I’ve truly given up and intend to fully focus on my education and son.
I'm so glad someone had the guts to ask this and keep it REAL!!! I'm convinced that some of us are not destined to be coupled up. As painful as it is, we have to come to terms with this reality. 😔😕
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I’m over 60 and NEVER had the pleasure of being in a healthy relationship too. GOD blessed me with three wonderful children. But by faith I’m not giving up on my future husband GOD has for me.
I have been wondering thinking and contemplating on this exact concept for the past several months....
Took your Birth Your Book course. My book is also dropping April 7th, 2020. It's called: Love Yourself First. Thanks for the wisdom!❤
👏👏👏✍❤You go girl
Congrats!
Congratulations!!🙏🏾
Proud of u send me the book when finish I will buy it
Krystle Laughter amen so happy for you!
I promise you, Tony is def that older Uncle we all wish we had. The content is always new, insightful, funny, and refreshing..point, blank perIOOOODT!
Older brother for me.
Be blessed tribe! I will be totally honest and say I was thinking something was definitely and desperately wrong with my life since I'm 43 and single. No children, never been married. I was close. I was engaged but my fiancee passed away. It took GOD to instill in me my season of singleness is beautiful and I fell in TRUE LOVE with the TRUE KING. I can blow this comment section UP with all He has taught me. Earthly I'm single, but from above in Heaven, I'm not single. I've been chosen.
Lady Shenna 45 single, no kids..We blessed!!! Our time comin hun!! 😍🥰😘
God bless you!
I have no business here.. but I’m here for it! 😩😂❤️ Being single was/is dope! It’s just YOOUUU!! No questions, considerations, compromises🥴...Y’all better live your best life before you’re snatched tf up 😩
Say right huntie Chile.
I’m going to try
Ha!! Yaaass!
@Marie Michaels Don't do it unless you are God lead. You will only be left more lonely and pregnant with expectations trust me.
The word “impossible” can always be seen as “I’mPossible.” All things are possible when you put God first. Single or married, young or old, always stay strong through Christ Jesus! ❤️🌹❤️
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I like that!!
Amen,amen&amen
Demetria Calvin Thanks!🙏🏽
caramel kissez I appreciate it!❤️
I work in the UK. I'm a nurse at the Emergency Department and I have this colleague who is 7 months pregnant and is still working. I said to myself, I will never marry a man who will allow me to be in a position. Meanwhile even during this COVID-19 crisis and she's 8 months pregnant she's still working! I wonder what her husband is doing in life? Ugh dusty! I'd rather be single!
I’m coming up being single for 6 years. I was fine the first 3 years but now the loneliness is bothering me. I wish I had a group of friend girls around bc that’s the issue too. I get friends that keep me around but then dump me when I’m no use to them anymore.
I get this
Hear that! The friends will come, I’ve been getting out and about doing the stuff I like to do like skate, paint, cycle, write, meet up is the way to go!
Be Blessed. Life is very different when you have never been single. Ladies please understand it is nothing wrong with you, God create us all in a perfect way. We as women sometimes pray for a mate...….we end up with "WHO SHOT JOHN AND FORGOT TO KILL HIM".....A MANS REJECTION IS OFTEN GODS' PROTECTION.
Amen
And those familiar spirits try to attach to you.also dealing with the spirit of rejection. Its alot. But i walked away from alot so called friends. I need Godly friends that love God the way i do
Speak over yourself encourage YOURSELF! 💫🌸❤
Amen, Cher❤ we as in people must INCOURAGE OURSELVES amen!!! Real talk Cher!!!😌✍
@@coachnatishamommatish144 🙏🏿💯
💫💫
Thank u Mr Gaskin from Trinidad ❤❤❤
I am such a Home Body. I am a nurse in a busy ER in Atlanta , and after working 12 hour shifts 3-6 days a week, all I want to do on my days off is stay in. I need to get out and mingle if I want to meet a mate.
I'm so tired of fighting alone.
Turn to the Lord in prayer. You’re never alone
I like that..I'm Unmatched..not Single. Yess!!
“I’m not unwanted. I’m unmatched. I’m not willing to settle.”
U have really motivated me to get my body together and lose weight. That's the last step I need to complete.
I've been trying to get out more to enjoy life and maybe meet someone,but this 'rona and "6ft of separation" is messing up my vibe 😭.
Awww stay strong sis, Blessed Tribe got your back hun!!!💕
@@coachnatishamommatish144 thanks 💚💛❤
Lol yess
It's messing up everyone! 😭😭😭😭😭
I feel you, darlin'. Big hug to you.
I used to feel that something is wrong with me
Bertha Elias i know this feeling 😔
Me tooooo
Same .....I have these random breakdowns ..... At home, at work ... While I'm driving etc and I just wonder why I'm alone
YALL GOING TO GET SOMEONE VERY BEAUTIFUL..
Me2 motherless kid issue but God healed that hole now we got work 2do
being single for the majority of your life as a woman does feel like a curse.
"I used to think that the worst thing in life is to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone." Robin Williams
WHEN I TELL YOU I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS RIGHT HERE!!! I was so down today, questioning myself about the standards I have and being single but this was so encouraging to me. It kept me with my persceptive. So glad you listened to the Holy Spirit and spoke on this topic! Thank you Mr. Tony Gaskins!
Thank you! I’ve been rejected by everyone I ever loved 🙏🏾
I have too 💔
Me too. I have hobbies, musical groups, two jobs, travel. I can do single but I’m SICK OF IT!
Same here..
Me as well 💔
She looks good I wish I was next to her to tell her that
This video is my favorite. Not taking the rest you made for granted but this touched many nerves for me. I've been selling myself short. Thanks Tony. Time to do better! BLESSED TRIBE.
Being single is not a bad thing. Sometimes it's time for us to grow and there may be things we need to work on before we can be in a relationship. I've been single since 2000 and honestly, I love being single. I'm very independent and I don't feel like a man can complete me. I complete myself.
I place God before myself or anything else.
God bless you all.
Ms Mae9 dang since 2000 how old are you now
I use to feel that way a lot when I first got divorce years ago . But with school and work my kids that’s what keep my mind clear and going to church was the best part about it 💯❤️
Question:. How did you decide on a church home?
Imagine being in the wilderness running and your future husband is running thousands of miles behind you. After a while he sees you, his future wife, ahead of him. He keeps running, but at this point he is chasing you. Eventually you slow down a little and you catch him. In the end, you both run into a beautiful paradise made for you to thrive and prosper. However, if you both didn't run out of the wilderness together you wouldn't have made it to paradise.
Ladies and gentleman get yourself ready and enjoy your life. Your future partner will eventually come. Thank TG.
BEAUTIFUL ANALOGY... LOVE IT!!!
This is so good! So many people are throwing their lives away in the wrong relationship. Putting their future on hold just standing still. I'm thankful that hasn't been my experience. I have spent more time being single than in a relationship, but my life reflects that. I still don't feel as great as I believe I can be, but I'm in a great place!
I think God is being real with me and is telling me to get my sh*t together. 27, almost 28, been single my whole life. After the pandemic is over, I'm hitting the gym and putting 10000% in self improvement.
Everyday is such a struggle, I wanna die everyday. I just want to be loved. My family doesn't love me.
The more you build yourself things will get better!!
@@unodos2007 Thanks brother!
Invest in exercise but ALSO see a nutritionist AND have a solid blood test. It took me until I was 36 to be able to consistently lose weight because my attempts to eat healthy still had too much hidden sugar and not enough iron and potassium. I'm 40 and gyms aren't reopening until next week... but I'm STILL dropping sizes. You're in your TWENTIES ... you can do this!
Also, if no one has ever told you: YOUR LIFE IS VALUABLE. You are not here by mistake; your life has value and purpose. In 8 billion people, YOU ARE HERE BECAUSE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE HERE. Keep pursuing your life until you REALIZE this truth for yourself and find out all of WHY (hint: you are going to need all of your human lifespan, so plan on living a long time and enjoying it)!
You have no idea what your words mean to me. I just want to thank you for allowing GOD to speak through you because some of us need it. This was a complete eye opener. No I’m not lazy but I am going to go harder. Thanks Coach!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
I am blown away. THIS is just what I needed to hear. Thank you sir. Blessings.
This is good Tony! Coming from a 27 year old single woman I approve this message!
I was just talking to someone about this. Actually these are the very things that should be a 🚩to men who are seeking a real woman. If she doesn’t possess these qualities, she is NOT ready.
Preach brother I’m woke!
People always think its weird I am single. I think its weird They are in a relationship And not really in love And faithful…
BEAUTIFUL ❤️ LADIES!!! Let’s get out & date & love ❤️ ourselves on purpose in the manner that we want to be dated & loved!!!LAW OF ATTRACTION!!!
Be blessed. Thank you Tony! Focus on your purpose, how you can serve others, have fun, spend time with with God, etc. Enjoy your single season ladies!! It’s not about just having a partner. While living your life the man will come.
Being single is. such a great gift! Embrace it while it lasts! :)
Being single ain't a gift meeting somebody is a gift
You develop yourself as a single person. Yasssss, I needed to hear that. It's so true, find you in you.
I believe the elderly understand the meaning of being alone and are satisfied with having a campanion with no intent of being married or spending day to day with someone.
Thanks Tony. God does work in mysterious ways. Last night I was in my feelings about being single and this message showed up on my TH-cam when I needed it. Your message uplifted my spirit, giving me a new perspective and focus. I can't thank you enough.
I needed to hear this...🙏
So many jewels in this video💎💎... I had to comment... Brother Tony you are a blessing😀!! May the Most High continue to bless you and your family! Thank you for helping me recover, rediscover and get it together!!
👋🏼👋🏼 Happy Thursday blessed tribe.📝 I'm unmatched, I need that person that's equally yoked to me. 💜5 Fs: Faith, Family, Friends, Finances &Fitness.💜 🤯3Bs BRAIN: Faith, Relationships, Books, Retreat, Coaching, Seminars🤯 🎒BRAND: Career, skills, Training, Shake hands, Persona, No fakeness 🎒 🧘🏽♀️BODY: Workout routine, Healthy foods, No spreading eagle, Protect your temple🧘🏽♀️
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Amen to that Caramel, you said that right on point!!!
@@simplyme8671 yes luv💜🤗
For me I’ve just been single for 2 months now, no kids
I enjoy the piece and quiet, but I miss the companionship and taking to him, I may not see him everyday but he was always taking to me everyday. It’s hard to have no more contact
But I’m all focused on my faith, family and fitness, so just feel lonely. Also living alone makes it hard.
So 20 mins into the video and I had to join the bless tribe. I am bewildered as to why this powerful video got so many dislikes, its ludicrous! Tony is teaching us, teaching me how to workout at home, how to enjoy my own company, how to build myself, how to be a better version of myself, all FOR FREE!! What is wrong with people. He is under obligation to none of us to be doing this, but for some reason he does it anyways, EVERYDAY!!! And we wana be mad because he's telling us the truth. I know its hard to hear but the message that is hard to hear is often best for us. So thank you Mr Gaskins for ALL ur wisdom and kindness because its kind to help people u don't even know.
Thank you very much for your support! Bless you!
This is crazy cause this is all the things I’m doing. Learning piano, vocal lessons, skating, concerts, new languages, new skills and more.
I've been following for some years now, and I have to say this encouragement is one the best I've heard! Keep pushing and enlightening people Tony!
THIS RIGHT HERE.... I don't know who needs to hear this but this ALL THE WAY spoke to ME!!! Lately I've been running around here feeling sorry for myself--I'm usually upbeat most of the time--but I been letting the fact that I'm single, lonely, and no prospects get me down. Tony spoke directly to my SOUL in this vid! I have the degrees, a home, a job... BUT I also have a book in my spirit I haven't written yet, a non-profit I would like to build, people are naturally drawn to me to counsel them, and this body could use some work... AND I know I don't get in God's word like I should. MERCY!!! This vid brought the clarity I needed to turn within and work on me. Thank you Tony Gaskins! Please keep doing what you do!!!
Amen, (Self love)
(The five 5's)
Freedom,Focus, Finances,Family
Friends
The three (B's)
Brain,Brand,Body
In the most of your path stay focus and work on you, in due season and time everything else will fall in place amen, Sumitt your prayers faithfully with all supplication.
FAITH& TRUST THE LORD ALMIGHTY ONLY!!!
Ok I see you in class!👀📝
@@CaramelKissez Yes indeed I surely am!!! Point Blank Perrriyawd,Caramel💋You know how we roll🗣👂👩💻✍❤
Momma Tish1 Amen!!
Atlanta House Girlfriends🤣😂!!!So true, Tony is so hilarious while teaching us the game! We appreciate you Tony G.!!!
Laughter is good medicine! Thank you Tony for laughter..Im getting up to do what Im supposed to do!! I'm almost there, Appreciate you.
Amen
This man has changed and continues to change my life going through a break-up, rebuilding my self-esteem one day at a time...
Jessssssuuusssss you PREACHED THIS MESSAGE!!! May God bless you and your family richly ❤️🙏🏽 Thank you for your obedience unto God!
Rt at the moment i have 2 fractured ankles... Healing nicely... Will start my walking program when it's nicer out... Lose 10 more lbs.. Down 30 so far... Will work on my Brain and Brand !!! Be Blessed y'all !!! 💙💚💜
The Lord is in the house today! Thanks for answering your call Bro. Tony and your willingness and love for us out here.
Amen to that sis, amen!!!
This motivated me even more to get out there and enjoy life. Thanks Mr. Gaskins !
With internet, everyone has the capacity to excel in any domain, learn what they want, and now everyone can work from home. It’s infinite information out there, it’s just distractions and choices that separate the successful from the impoverished. Another thing, everyone writes now, so the authors market is congested and competitive. You have to put in more work than all the others that have already surpassed you in order to not get left behind.
This is my first Valentine’s Day single in 8 years. I really needed to hear this. Thank you.
Try being single for 7 years 😪
Single is not a curse is my next book after Mrs. Right. I preordered a Woman's Influence too.
I love this mans videos, whenever I’m feeling sad or lonely I have to come here and get reminded of a few things lol and the plus is that he is high key a comedian. Sometimes I be laughing so hard you would think I was in here with a group of friends but nope just me lol
So true!! I love dating myself 🤗 going to breakfast or lunch, rollerblading at the park, hanging at the bookstore, going to church, etc!! I’ve started building my brand and all! Life is amazing 💪🏽💖
you obviously dont need sex, how do you even do that??!
i like rollerblading too. but im frustrated about being single.
BROTHER TONY! THIS VIDEO BLESSED AND CONFIRMED SOME THINGS I'VE BERN STRUGGLING WITH AS A SINGLE WOMAN WITH NO CHILDREN.BUT I SEE THINGS NOW CLEARER THANKS TO THIS AWESOME MESSAGE!
BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
“ I just feel like God has forgotten me” voice, I’m screaming🤣🤣. Okay Tony that was a Jab @ me but I get it I get it!
Thank you for telling the story Tony. It’s encouraging when you share your journey. “My time is coming.” Yes sir.
Thank you Tony! I’ve had some struggles in my single season, and this is exactly what I needed to hear today! Took plenty of notes, and creating my day schedule right now! #BeBlessed 🙏🏾
Blessed Morning to everyone! Be safe!!!
Tony, you and your wife are so lucky to have each other. I'm in the process of getting a divorce after 9 years. A disrespectful man with no ambition, goals, or values isn't for me. His word means nothing to me anymore.
I am so glad I found your channel. You have so much wisdom paired with Godly teaching. It's so on point and empowering. God bless you Tony!
Great video, right on time. I had to journal as I was listening to this message, I greatly appreciate you taking out your
time to help us women in our weakness! I listened to this video more than once today and felt my self getting stronger. Thanks
Come on TONY. Speaking relationship and prosperity into our lives !!! @ 33:00 👏🏾🙌🏾
Yesssss I’m here for this!!
“If you don’t have you a voice memo app, you don’t have a phone 😂 you need to get you a phone, a smart phone, you got you a slow phone 😭😂🤣”
Amen sis!!! Me too
Momma Tish1 🙌🏽🙌🏽
This video helped me so much thank you Tony Gaskin!!
7 years with the wrong person after time can make you feel taken and lonely
Words cant express how much this video has changed my life already. I'm going to start speaking positively into my life.
I needed this. I’ve been single for six years and recently my parent’s 35 year marriage ended and it’s really hit me. As a result I’ve felt for the first time in a long time that I want a partner and that I’m undesirable because it’s been so long. I thought that I was all done working on myself while single, but I am not. The fact that my parents marriage ended and I’ve been struggling with that is a sign right there- I need to address my changed views on relationships. Finding someone won’t change the distress that this has caused. I know deep down that a partner won’t actually fix what is going on with me. I still have work to do and if someone comes along during that then great, but I’m not going to waste another second wallowing about being single. It’s okay to feel lonely but it’s not serving me to live in such a low spot.
Literally in tears. My God 💛🤞🏾
Wow, so I just found Tony but man I been telling myself this for a long time. I see so many unhappy relationships and I've told myself that I will work on myself and when the time is right...love will find me.
You better preach Mr. Gaskins... I needed to hear this! May God continue to Bless you.
SPEECHLESS !! This was POWERFUL TRUTH!!
Tony, can I just say - your videos have helped me in so many ways I can't explain. Thank you for blessing us, you are an inspiration! lots of love x
That's good Bro Tony Gaskins, develop your self while being single. Investing in your life. Your teaching is always informing and on time.
Be Blessed!🙌🏽 Got soooo much from this post. "Not unwanted, but unmatched!" Working on my voice memo😊. Thank you for all that you do! May God continue to bless and keep you!
THAT WAS THEE BEST VIDEO EVER!!! finna start writing my book & stop being scary. God bless you
Thank you soooo much for this video!!! U don't know how much I NEEDED to hear this. I have watched almost all of your utube podcasts, and I am going to invest in your books. Thank You soooo much. The title of this podcast is exactly how I was feeling. I really really appreciate you taking out the time to do this. I believe everytime you do a video and/or write a book, the angels in heaven add more jewels to your crown. You and your entire family are blessed and highly favored. Be blessed.
I definitely needed to hear this because I had a situation early this morning & I was crying out to God about what I had going on in my life. God spoke to me through this video & it’s not that He don’t always guide me, I was just in a whole other space that I’m not normally in. Thank You Tony Gaskins
Gotta start taking advantage n doing what I love again smh 😮😊 ❤
This is one of your best videos, Tony! You dropped so many gems regarding various relevant topics! I am so happy I watched this video in full! I feel blessed! God bless you Tony!
MAN......It's so crazy how God really uses Tony as a vessel to speak life into others. This message was super encouraging to me and I really needed to hear this. I was at a river today praying that God would help me figure out what I needed to improve in my life. And at 22:17 -- 23:17. That particular part blessed me and spoke directly to me in this season. Thank you again Tony.