His mother is the reason he is the way he is. That and his father sitting there mute. He won't change and she needs to run fast and far away from the narcissistic POS.
@@vasilisconstantinides4476 that’s rich 😂 you could be a stellar mom with a stellar dad to help and still end up with a pregnant teen. I’m not saying that’s the Case here, especially since that’s not what anyone was talking about 😂
Yes! I don't push my son cos he pushes back. I can see that with a toodler that is why you parent!! The mother is so lazy and now she has a brat son and I hope they make them pay child support
Diego’s parents should be ashamed of themselves for accepting his behavior and thinking it’s ok to treat the mother of his child like that, but I guess ignorance breeds ignorance.
Yeah that's a learned behavior. They have allowed him to continue to be disrespectful. By not correcting it, they've trained him to believe that's acceptable.
It wouldn't surprise me if Diegos parents view this baby as a ball and chain for their son. My dad's mum viewed me the same way and encouraged her son (my dad) to bolt.
“I think this baby shower is boring.” Diego, there is nothing boring about the celebration of your baby. You need to be there for Emily. She must be so stressed already because she’s pregnant and as a teenager. Be there for your girlfriend. Even if she wasn’t pregnant.
No literally. I love seeing dads-to-be excited and involved during the baby shower, regardless of their age. We just had our baby shower a week ago and I was so happy just seeing my fiancé get excited over the gifts and just seeing people we know.
Diego is horrible but I can understand why a teen boy would find a baby shower boring. I'm a mom and had my son at age 33 and I did not want a baby shower as the idea of having to attend any event, especially at that point in my pregnancy when I was constantly uncomfortable, tired and having breathing problems constantly throughout that pregnancy did not sound like a way I wanted to spend my day. And I remember being bored to tears when a few years prior, I attended a friend's baby shower. So I did not have a baby shower and 7 years later, I don't regret my decision. Some people are just not into that type of thing, and there are other ways to celebrate a pregnancy. So with all that being said, I can understand why a teen boy would likely definitely find it boring. However instead of hurting his girlfriends feelings he did not need to say it out loud.
Well now we know why he's is such an a** cause the parents sucked at raising him to take responsibility for his actions and to not be a deadbeat like he is. I bet he with forever live with his parents
I could say the same for Emily lol if he doesn't want to be apart of her and there kids life them thats on him thats her fault for having jer legs open instead of focusing on her future ohh well the mistake have alr6been made
So the only thing Diego and Emily had in common was athletics? How about same or similar values on which to base a successful marriage or long-term relationship?
I think he just chose her caz she is pretty and she was a cheerleader and skinny and fit, he basically just didn't want to say that, he not ready to be a dad
Everyone blames Diego, but nobody points out that she was present too. How about her? She’s as much of a nincompoop as Diego, she’s as much ready to be a mother as Diego is to be a father, she just has better support system around her.
If my sons treated his child’s mother this way I would not tolerate it. If he can’t be apart of the child’s life I will. No matter what I’ll support my grandchild and the mother of the child 💕
My daughter's father was the same way as Diego. Needless to say I had her at 18 and by her 1st birthday I left him. 17 years later and she is an amazing girl who I am so proud of. Emily can do it alone. ❤️💪
@@jaime7658 I think you mean Holland. Dutch people are from Holland/The Netherlands. Danish/Danes people are from Denmark. But yeah, I believe the OP meant to say "ditch" Lol.
That boy was so incredibly RUDE. He didn't care about those diapers because he knows he won't be the one buying them so it doesn't matter to him. His Parents clearly condoned his behavior and that is a BIG part of his problems. This guy is NOT Father material and he won't be around long..
That's so true. His mom mentioned that he pushes back if someone pushes him well MOM you should have thought your son some manners and to keep his thing in his pants so he would not have been going through this situation right now
This boy (not a man) will NEVER change his child's diapers. His and Emily's relationship is a disaster in the making. I feel sorry for both Emily and baby.
It doesn't appear that he will there for his child or pregnant "girlfriend" so at the very least in a year or so, from when this show was recorded, he will be 18 years old and they can begin to request child support.
Diego needs a paternity test and then put on child support and brought into the real world. His sports need to end because now he needs to be getting a job and supporting this baby he helped create. He wanted to play and now he needs to man up and pay. His behavior towards the mother of his child is typical of a spoiled young man who has never had any responsibility for anything. They both played a part in the pregnancy, but she is having to bear all the responsibility.
He’s a literal child and his parents stopped trying to raise him obviously after he learned how to talk. All he knows is to disagree, blame, and say “no”.
That baby needs to see a happy momma!! Your baby can have a father without you being in a relationship or married to him. Staying for the kids is a mistake we women continue to make daily.
“ When you push Diego, he pushes back, it just doesn’t work ” that’s how you know you didn’t discipline your child correctly when they were growing up.
This girl doesn’t even appreciate her mother’s wisdom. Her mother literally faced the exact same dilemma when she was pregnant with this girl and is telling her what happened when she went down the route of staying with a father who mistreated her. The girl even admits she wouldn’t be with deadbeat Diego if she wasn’t pregnant with his baby. Edit: Thank you all so much for the likes 🥺 this is the most I've ever received on a comment. I hope everyone has an awesome day/night! 💕
It’s different once you’re in the situation, people hold on to the hope that it’ll get better and won’t turn out like it did for someone else. you can’t blame her for that🤷🏽♀️
You find the birth of your first child and a baby shower boring? Okay. Bye Boy. You know what, Mama really does know best, Emiley. What I am saying is that my Mother and family could see problems coming in my marriage that I could not see and did not want to see. We ended up divorced. So yeah, listen to your family and their opinions.
Sweetheart, show Diego the door and lock it behind him. He hasn't grown up and will make your life miserable. There is someone out there who will love and respect you and the baby. I wish you the best of everything.
"I don't think it's right to stay together bcause of the baby", just my two cents, I really agree w/ this one, it's better for the child to grow without a father than having a dad and witnessing all the abuses inside your home. It hits differently, it is more diiffcult to go home knowing that "home" houses a monster...
"That might work for her daughter but that won't work for my son" well then do something about your low life son's attitude because it's disgusting and he'll go no where in life. His parents and him are doing Emiley and their baby a disservice.
They act as if it’s all her fault that she’s pregnant. From his behavior he acts like it not his baby. The statement my girlfriend is pregnant. Like he had nothing to do with it. SMH.
Oh man that boy got me soooo heated! I would not allow my daughter to tolerate a boy like that. I have a son that’s 14 and he be damned if he would treat a girl like that. The parents obviously didn’t teach him how to respect I can only imagine how he treats his parents. So rude and not tolerated. The poor girl needs to let him go she doesn’t deserve to go through that embarrassment.
I’m turning 30 this year and I can’t imagine being a parent! My cousin had a baby at 18 with an immature deadbeat like Diego, and it forced her to grow up. It can be done, but it’s very, very hard.
Funny how you ladies fought so far for independence and being free to choose the man you want to have a family with, and still get with the worst ones ending in single motherhood or 3 feet underground, in the end your emotions/traumas will get the best of you, that's why fathers chose their daughters fiances/husbands not so long ago, to prevent this BS from happening...
His parents are awful. They gave birth to him the end. They stopped putting in the work of a real parent that day. I’ll be damned if I ever let a man treat me or my family that way.
The saying “You become like one parent and marry the other” is so true. She is in the same situation her mom was in and she found some useless guy that doesn’t want to be in his own child’s life, like her own father.
Girrrrllllll if you don't leave that BOY smh. She don't need a father, she just needs a mother who can show her what genuine care and compassion is. And if you can provide her with love thats all she needs coming from someone who grew up without my father.
The baby does need a father. This is coming from someone who had and still has an excellent mom. My mom could never be and will never be my dad. Dad's are needed regardless to the fact that many of us grow up without them.
Yeah this pattern is too common. Women with "daddy issues" and unresolved trauma continue being attracted to emotional unavailable men because of the familiarity and limiting beliefs. Break the pattern Emily because you deserve sooo much better! ♥️
@@EmpressNic very true which is why therapy is important. Helps break the "generational curses". In this case she is too influenced by her own wounds to see that she is repeating the pattern. Its so unfortunate but I do hope she heals.
True but hearing Emily's story with her father, her mother same cycle so was the grandmother what did these matriarchs do to school her protect her? It seems things where over looked now they want her to see. Life does not work like that.
She is learning but instead of doing what she should she is trying to do what is best for the baby which is seeing there dad! She is also just giving Diego a chance with his baby
He was so disrespectful I couldn’t take it. I honestly really felt for Emily’s mom, they really try to make her out as the bad guy. Their communication wasn’t the best but you can tell that her mom genuinely cares and wants the best for her.
Put him on child support and dip. He don't gotta be there for you, but you gonna make him support that baby cuz it took two! These is were I see child support is needed
Darling girl, Trust me on this, you don't need the father of your child to raise your baby. You can do it on your own. An irresponsible man and father is not something you are looking for. Wish you all the very best in life dear girl.
Ohhh yes, let the baby girl imprint on an absent father so when she grows up looks after a partner with the same characteristics as him to repeat the cycle once again, what an awesome idea!!!
I’m absolutely appalled at his behaviour, and how is his mum allowing him to be so rude to the mother of her own grandchild and everyone else. Can’t imagine how she felt, pregnancy can be an extremely lonely time espescially when your partner is acting like that
NEVER STAY TOGETHER JUST FOR A CHILD. Trust me! I know that sounds bad, but your children AND yourself will thank you later. When you stay, you're potentially putting yourself in a situation where you can be hurt, or hurt someone, AND if there are arguments your children will be there witnessing that. Your child would rather you be happy and healthy than in an abusive toxic relationship. Please get out ASAP
My mother was in this situation and convinced my dad to stay. He abused me physically and emotionally long into adulthood. I BEGGED my mother to leave him throughout my life but she felt trapped in the relationship because of money and the kids. Children who grow up with awful fathers know that no father is far better. Take his child support and get out of there or you and your children will be abused like the rest of us kids that never had the option to leave. And the PTSD you and your children develop will harm you forever even if you escape. Run.
I like the way grandma said she didnt like the way he treated her but if she could handle it, it was her choice. The way she put it, she acknowledged his bad behavior but didnt try to put her opinion onto her granddaughter. Having been through abusive relationships when i was young, shes probably more likely to reconsider the relationship if she feels like its really HER choice.
My mom was in the same boat as Emiley's mother. She also tried many years to make it work before she left him and raised me by herself. It's the best decision she's made, for herself and for me. I'd much rather be raised by a single mom than live in a broken household.
Emiley has an interesting relationship with her mom. They seem to have very different personalities. Emiley is more like the grandma, soft and calm. The mother is quite harsh, and borderline intimidating. But I think she's gonna be the only one putting Diego in his place!
The mom is not harsh. She just wants the best for her daughter. She doesn’t want her daughter to stay with a disrespectful low life because she first hand has already went through that. She would rather her daughter not go through that pain.
I think she's just super concerned because she went through the exact same thing and she wants to do everything she can to help the daughter not make the choices she did
Teenage pregnancy is preventable, let's get that straight. Sometimes the girl thinks she'll be "taken care of" as well as the child. Education is key. One can anticipate a life of hardships otherwise. 🌹
My younger sister thought that. She and her highschool boyfriend got pregnant at the end of highschool, they were both honor students with their college and careers already planned out and obtainable. Then the baby came and they both thought the new grandparents would take car eof the baby while they still continued on to college and started their career paths. Nope! Both of their college funds went towards the bills from the birth and although both families did A LOT to help out, he was still super immature while my sister was forced to deal with everything; which didn't turn out well since she'd always been catered to and spoiled. They ended up breaking up 2 weeks after the baby was born, it's been almost a decade now and neither of them went to college or got careers anywhere close to what they originally planned for. Now they're both heading towards 30 trying to have a late teen/early adulthood that they never had which isn't going well since they are both married to other people and have kids with those marriages as well. It's a bit sad because my niece doesn't even see her parents as parental figures and now she's helping to take care of her half siblings whenever she's either of her parent's homes.
@@hambone4984 I'm so very sorry about the situation that you explained. There's a saying:. The years will pass in anycase, so let's use them towards my dream" ok I changed the wording. It's never too late to go back to school & fulfill your dreams with a career. Life experience also counts. You sister can still come out on top, even if school is part time. Maybe help her out with babysitting, if you are able? Yes.. it's confusing to have 2 homes..being pulled in different directions. I speak from experience. The children pay in everyway..I was one of them. Especially going back & forth & having to grow up with adult's issues upon your shoulders. It's unfair to this child, though learning valuable life lessons. Best wishes.....hoping you can help with creative solutions. You're an uncle. Step up, please 🌹
He is 17. A child. With man parts. He is in no way ready, willing or able to parent a child. I'm happy to see her family is standing with her. Her education , parenting skills, effort to make a home for herself and her child is her future.
Just because he’s a boy doesn’t mean we give him a pass. He’s also not really resting her well at all. She’s a child too but she has no choice but to get ready
This was heartbreaking! Wow! He’s is a spoiled,entitled,mommas boy who won’t ever be worth of anything unless he confronts that…. And truly heals. Mark my words.
Emily is so caught up in her pain of not having a dad that she doesn’t see you can’t force someone to be something they don’t want to be…waiting 4 years won’t make a difference he doesn’t even want to be in a relationship
It breaks my heart the mother’s position! She feels for her daughter and she is totally right, I hope Emily comes down to make the right decision in time
I am a 19 year old girl and I haven't went through this but I really feel bad for her and I condem the boy's behavior as well. But one thing I'll say, a student especially those who are below 20 years I think you should focus on your studies and its okay if you are in love relationship with someone but don't marry and have a family untill you are financially independent . And planned pregnancy is the best decision everyone should make, unplanned pregnancy generally give rise to such depressing, saddening incidents. Don't get your girlfriend pregnant, 1) just becoz you can't control your desires to physically touch her. 2) Ifyou really don't want to take responsibilities of your own child. And, seriously I can't believe this guy has no love for his own child 😑😑😑😑
She hasn’t known him for long. A year is not enough time to determine if someone is going to be a great parent or if you should make that commitment. Both of these kids are in the wrong.
Diego’s mom and Dad are the only ones responsible for Diego’s disrespectful attitude.. Maybe they should’ve taught their son how to be a respectful young man, not a little mommas boy!! Girl move on!
I thought the boy's mom (ofc boy, he's nowhere near being a man) would be more concerned with his attitude, how he's treating his gf, etc. But she's just making excuses for him - even the dad is by not saying anything. Idk what's up with him but I really do hope she dumps him soon, she and her baby deserve so much better.
She’s such a lovely, sweet humble girl! She will b an amazing mother and woman and the right guy will come along and be the most amazing husband/father to her and her daughter! It will all work out💙
The two parents needed to sit down early on and truly decide if the pregnancy needed to go ahead. Neither of them are ready emotionally, physically, or financially to have a child.
Diego's parents really thought they were doing smth by just showing up, staying silent and watch their soon to be daughter in law get humiliated and mistreated in THEIR OWN BABY SHOWER.
I love her mom, she's telling her to break the cycle and how a child with an absent father is better than having the father in the picture but he might as well be absent and how this effects not only her but the baby!
This family deserves so much healing. May Emily gain wisdom and instead of seeking what she wants to happen, seek what will be the happiest real life scenario instead. She could be just as happy. School, raising her beautiful daughter, career, and and if she wants, finding a partner who has all the attributes she deserves.
My Nana was a 16yr old teenage mom and gave birth to my dad and i still dont know who is the father of my dad but i proud of my nana being a single teen mom at that time..
As a teenager myself, watching that this kind of male exist just sad. He once seems like a decent person and apparently down for "having fun" but the moment he got her pregnant he's acting like she made the baby herself 🥲
Diego reminds me so much of my ex and Emiley reminds me of how I used to be; quiet, kind of a push over and easily persuaded. I am so grateful I moved on and found a man who appreciates me and has built up my confidence 10x.
A couple of months ago I found her yt channel. She’s raising the baby alone. He basically walked out of their lives and never looked back from what I remember.
Having no father is better than having an abusive father.
Preach
Amen to that!
Having no father is better than having Diego as he is, as a father.
Well.Said.
Yes indeed
As a mom who married a deadbeat dad when I was 19, don't walk away, Girl, RUN.
Lol. I was not expecting that
So did I. Twice
I agree with you, run as fast as you can young lady.
Fast as you can please 😂
best advice ever
I’m shocked and disgusted his mom would allow him to act like that, dismiss it & say that’s just how her son is.
They'll get a taste of it too, sooner or later.
I was just thinking the same thing
His mother is the reason he is the way he is. That and his father sitting there mute. He won't change and she needs to run fast and far away from the narcissistic POS.
Terrible parenting
@@SagebrushRambles definitely
diego’s mom is disgusting. letting him act like that not even trying to be supportive
Dad also. We always put more responsibily on women
Diego's parents are a prime example of why parenting classes should be mandatory!
AMEN!!! It should be definitely mandatory and written in law.
Doesn’t Emily parents allowing her to get pregnant at 16 warrant parenting classes as well?
@@vasilisconstantinides4476 that’s rich 😂 you could be a stellar mom with a stellar dad to help and still end up with a pregnant teen. I’m not saying that’s the Case here, especially since that’s not what anyone was talking about 😂
I'm a firm believer in...the apple never falls far from the tree
When his mom spoke. It all came together.
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Facts. I Think that whole family wants to pretend that Emily and that baby don't exist.
Apple don't fall far from the tree his parents not too intelligent
Right?
It sure did come together. 17 years of no parenting.
Diego's parents are the one's who spoilt him... it's a shame he is to be a parent. Such a baby
Yeah, he didn’t seem to mind making the baby, but he can’t even act like he’s enjoying the baby shower even for her. He never loved her.
YES
Yes! I don't push my son cos he pushes back. I can see that with a toodler that is why you parent!!
The mother is so lazy and now she has a brat son and I hope they make them pay child support
He too feels its a shame he's gonna be a parent.
Hispanic parents for ya. They baby their son way too much.
Diego’s parents should be ashamed of themselves for accepting his behavior and thinking it’s ok to treat the mother of his child like that, but I guess ignorance breeds ignorance.
I was thinking the same thing! His parents cosigning on Diego's BS attitude is half the problem!
Yeap that shows who absolutely has control.
Yeah that's a learned behavior. They have allowed him to continue to be disrespectful. By not correcting it, they've trained him to believe that's acceptable.
It wouldn't surprise me if Diegos parents view this baby as a ball and chain for their son. My dad's mum viewed me the same way and encouraged her son (my dad) to bolt.
A lot of Latino families are like that tbh
“I think this baby shower is boring.”
Diego, there is nothing boring about the celebration of your baby. You need to be there for Emily. She must be so stressed already because she’s pregnant and as a teenager. Be there for your girlfriend. Even if she wasn’t pregnant.
No literally. I love seeing dads-to-be excited and involved during the baby shower, regardless of their age. We just had our baby shower a week ago and I was so happy just seeing my fiancé get excited over the gifts and just seeing people we know.
Diego is horrible but I can understand why a teen boy would find a baby shower boring. I'm a mom and had my son at age 33 and I did not want a baby shower as the idea of having to attend any event, especially at that point in my pregnancy when I was constantly uncomfortable, tired and having breathing problems constantly throughout that pregnancy did not sound like a way I wanted to spend my day. And I remember being bored to tears when a few years prior, I attended a friend's baby shower. So I did not have a baby shower and 7 years later, I don't regret my decision. Some people are just not into that type of thing, and there are other ways to celebrate a pregnancy. So with all that being said, I can understand why a teen boy would likely definitely find it boring. However instead of hurting his girlfriends feelings he did not need to say it out loud.
Let me go find my small violin
“That might work for her daughter but it won’t work for my son” his behavior makes perfect sense now
Diego's parents are doing a lousy job raising him.
No discipline and he basically does what he wants
Facts
Well now we know why he's is such an a** cause the parents sucked at raising him to take responsibility for his actions and to not be a deadbeat like he is. I bet he with forever live with his parents
I could say the same for Emily lol if he doesn't want to be apart of her and there kids life them thats on him thats her fault for having jer legs open instead of focusing on her future ohh well the mistake have alr6been made
He is still a.kid.........without direction.
"I chose her because she does alot of athletics". Yeah, that's definitely the mind of an immature person. 🙄
So the only thing Diego and Emily had in common was athletics? How about same or similar values on which to base a successful marriage or long-term relationship?
@@babawali3021 they’re kids…
I think he just chose her caz she is pretty and she was a cheerleader and skinny and fit, he basically just didn't want to say that, he not ready to be a dad
He does not love her
Everyone blames Diego, but nobody points out that she was present too. How about her? She’s as much of a nincompoop as Diego, she’s as much ready to be a mother as Diego is to be a father, she just has better support system around her.
If my sons treated his child’s mother this way I would not tolerate it. If he can’t be apart of the child’s life I will. No matter what I’ll support my grandchild and the mother of the child 💕
Aaaamen!
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Same
I would be devastated if I raised a son like Diego.
My daughter's father was the same way as Diego. Needless to say I had her at 18 and by her 1st birthday I left him. 17 years later and she is an amazing girl who I am so proud of. Emily can do it alone. ❤️💪
Just the fact that he said “my girlfriend Emily is having a baby” in stead of WE are having a baby is enough said!! Dutch him if you already haven’t!!
Samantha, on top of him saying “it’s your baby shower, you’re right.”
Its a stretch but with all the other red flags yeah...
Dutch him. 😂 You meaned ditch? not make him move to holland and get citizenship.
Jaime I was thinking more of “Dutch oven him” lol.
@@jaime7658 I think you mean Holland. Dutch people are from Holland/The Netherlands. Danish/Danes people are from Denmark. But yeah, I believe the OP meant to say "ditch" Lol.
That boy was so incredibly RUDE. He didn't care about those diapers because he knows he won't be the one buying them so it doesn't matter to him. His Parents clearly condoned his behavior and that is a BIG part of his problems. This guy is NOT Father material and he won't be around long..
That's so true ❣️❣️❣️❣️
That's so true. His mom mentioned that he pushes back if someone pushes him well MOM you should have thought your son some manners and to keep his thing in his pants so he would not have been going through this situation right now
@@dhaniramkavita you said it!
This boy (not a man) will NEVER change his child's diapers. His and Emily's relationship is a disaster in the making. I feel sorry for both Emily and baby.
It doesn't appear that he will there for his child or pregnant "girlfriend" so at the very least in a year or so, from when this show was recorded, he will be 18 years old and they can begin to request child support.
Diego needs a paternity test and then put on child support and brought into the real world. His sports need to end because now he needs to be getting a job and supporting this baby he helped create. He wanted to play and now he needs to man up and pay. His behavior towards the mother of his child is typical of a spoiled young man who has never had any responsibility for anything. They both played a part in the pregnancy, but she is having to bear all the responsibility.
with or without, I hope he signs the birth cert. that would be enough to help her get child support
@@jemmaj2919 he doesn’t even deserve to be on the birth certificate
This was a long time ago
@@Sis.andpets what's the update, do u know?
Very well put!
The fact that his family just allows him to act that way is sickening.
Everything the mother stated was straight up facts. Very unfortunate that the daughter doesn't seem to be taking it in.
Facts do not help the emotions to go away.
The mother should support her, she will figure it out soon enough. and then she needs her mom.
@@Widdekuu91 it's excuse but glad that the mother seems to be supportive
His mom saying "hes been that way his whole life" like it isn't _directly_ her fault 🙄
Exactly 🙄😒
There’s something mentally off about Diego… and he was not raised right. What a shame!
Probably has problems with his dad
He’s a literal child and his parents stopped trying to raise him obviously after he learned how to talk. All he knows is to disagree, blame, and say “no”.
He's mentally off because he was babied and still is. That affects mental and emotional maturity.
Ditch Diego!!!!!
Right her life would be much better
Now that’s a hashtag.
That baby needs to see a happy momma!! Your baby can have a father without you being in a relationship or married to him. Staying for the kids is a mistake we women continue to make daily.
She did! She’s much happier now.
@@thefannfamily3991 I hope she did. He’s one heck of a deadbeat, selfish brat.
The fact that he said my girl is having a baby and it’s your baby shower says EVERYTHING!!!
“ When you push Diego, he pushes back, it just doesn’t work ” that’s how you know you didn’t discipline your child correctly when they were growing up.
This girl doesn’t even appreciate her mother’s wisdom. Her mother literally faced the exact same dilemma when she was pregnant with this girl and is telling her what happened when she went down the route of staying with a father who mistreated her. The girl even admits she wouldn’t be with deadbeat Diego if she wasn’t pregnant with his baby.
Edit: Thank you all so much for the likes 🥺 this is the most I've ever received on a comment. I hope everyone has an awesome day/night! 💕
Dump him., now .
People need to learn from their one experiences. All kids do this. Never listen to their parents🤭
@CIERRA MCGUIRE then they have less to learn from. Parent need to setup a learning envionment for their kids. Exploring in a safe envionment.
Because ist hard for girl to admit to be in the same situation,and she only wants to try,we can't blame her
It’s different once you’re in the situation, people hold on to the hope that it’ll get better and won’t turn out like it did for someone else. you can’t blame her for that🤷🏽♀️
Emily has a beautiful heart. I hope she finds a man that treats her well and her baby.
No how about she needs to grow up, get an education and a career and learn from her mistakes. The last thing on her list should be a man
She doesn’t need a man! She’s a child with a child, she needs to focus on healing so that she can break this horrible generational trauma!
You find the birth of your first child and a baby shower boring? Okay. Bye Boy. You know what, Mama really does know best, Emiley. What I am saying is that my Mother and family could see problems coming in my marriage that I could not see and did not want to see. We ended up divorced. So yeah, listen to your family and their opinions.
Sweetheart, show Diego the door and lock it behind him. He hasn't grown up and will make your life miserable. There is someone out there who will love and respect you and the baby. I wish you the best of everything.
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@@aliceserafin7613 Mmm
Family is usually always right when they truly love you and want your best. If u don't listen THAT'S what u get. Periodt.
"I don't think it's right to stay together bcause of the baby", just my two cents, I really agree w/ this one, it's better for the child to grow without a father than having a dad and witnessing all the abuses inside your home. It hits differently, it is more diiffcult to go home knowing that "home" houses a monster...
Diego going to try to act like the father of the year it never fails . When she finds someone that supports her and her daughter
"That might work for her daughter but that won't work for my son" well then do something about your low life son's attitude because it's disgusting and he'll go no where in life. His parents and him are doing Emiley and their baby a disservice.
They act as if it’s all her fault that she’s pregnant. From his behavior he acts like it not his baby. The statement my girlfriend is pregnant. Like he had nothing to do with it. SMH.
@@roadrunner17lee66 so true he put her pregnant, it's more his fault than she's.
Lol
And his dad is just sitting there, shouldn’t he correct his son and show him how to be a proper man?! Very sad
Diego seem slow 🤷♀️
& she seem slow for putting up w it🤷🏽♀️
They all do 💀
@@gabriellejoi I have to agree. Diago is a brat
i think they're both a lil off
😂😂 definitely
Oh man that boy got me soooo heated! I would not allow my daughter to tolerate a boy like that. I have a son that’s 14 and he be damned if he would treat a girl like that. The parents obviously didn’t teach him how to respect I can only imagine how he treats his parents. So rude and not tolerated. The poor girl needs to let him go she doesn’t deserve to go through that embarrassment.
As an 18 year old myself , I really can't imagine being a parent at this current age while I'm still studying...
That’s because you are smart and have common sense. Plus your parents did a great job.
I’m turning 30 this year and I can’t imagine being a parent! My cousin had a baby at 18 with an immature deadbeat like Diego, and it forced her to grow up. It can be done, but it’s very, very hard.
Common sense is extremely rare these days. So understandable actually
It looks like she is in a way better place right now. Proud of her
“Choose the father of your child wisely”
Funny how you ladies fought so far for independence and being free to choose the man you want to have a family with, and still get with the worst ones ending in single motherhood or 3 feet underground, in the end your emotions/traumas will get the best of you, that's why fathers chose their daughters fiances/husbands not so long ago, to prevent this BS from happening...
I don’t know if it’s exclusively a women problem though, I’ve seen plenty of men chase women that are blatantly abusive.
HE'S A PERFECT EXAMPLE "CHILDREN HAVING CHILDREN..." IT FEELS LIKE SHE'S HAVING TWO KIDS, NOT ONE....🤬😱👶👶👶
I agree
His parents are awful. They gave birth to him the end. They stopped putting in the work of a real parent that day. I’ll be damned if I ever let a man treat me or my family that way.
The saying “You become like one parent and marry the other” is so true. She is in the same situation her mom was in and she found some useless guy that doesn’t want to be in his own child’s life, like her own father.
I’ve never heard of this saying. Is it true?
Sigh, true in this case, for the pregnant teenager. 😢
Girrrrllllll if you don't leave that BOY smh. She don't need a father, she just needs a mother who can show her what genuine care and compassion is. And if you can provide her with love thats all she needs coming from someone who grew up without my father.
The baby does need a father. This is coming from someone who had and still has an excellent mom. My mom could never be and will never be my dad. Dad's are needed regardless to the fact that many of us grow up without them.
Yeah this pattern is too common. Women with "daddy issues" and unresolved trauma continue being attracted to emotional unavailable men because of the familiarity and limiting beliefs. Break the pattern Emily because you deserve sooo much better! ♥️
Yes! How can she listen to her mom (exact same store repeating itself) and say it will be different.
Therapy can help her in this difficult time and deal with what will happen next
Well said
One can't break a cycle if one was not taught to do so. Kids look at actions not words. At 16 she won't know how if her parents didn't teach her how
@@EmpressNic very true which is why therapy is important. Helps break the "generational curses". In this case she is too influenced by her own wounds to see that she is repeating the pattern. Its so unfortunate but I do hope she heals.
This girl is NOT learning from others' mistakes. Sad.
True but hearing Emily's story with her father, her mother same cycle so was the grandmother what did these matriarchs do to school her protect her? It seems things where over looked now they want her to see. Life does not work like that.
The girl is trying to do what she thinks is the best for her child
She is learning but instead of doing what she should she is trying to do what is best for the baby which is seeing there dad! She is also just giving Diego a chance with his baby
As I say in spanish: "Aprendamos de los errores de nuestras ancestras"
The fact that his mother is ok with him acting like that speaks volumes, Emily needs to run!!
He was so disrespectful I couldn’t take it. I honestly really felt for Emily’s mom, they really try to make her out as the bad guy. Their communication wasn’t the best but you can tell that her mom genuinely cares and wants the best for her.
Exactly the problem, Diego’s parents don’t push him so he steps all over everyone. I know Bridget is trying so hard not to ring his little neck
His parents are Hispanic. They don't discipline their sons the same way they do their daughters.
Put him on child support and dip. He don't gotta be there for you, but you gonna make him support that baby cuz it took two! These is were I see child support is needed
Darling girl,
Trust me on this, you don't need the father of your child to raise your baby. You can do it on your own.
An irresponsible man and father is not something you are looking for.
Wish you all the very best in life dear girl.
Yeah thats how the girl become a teen mom i guess in the first place
Ohhh yes, let the baby girl imprint on an absent father so when she grows up looks after a partner with the same characteristics as him to repeat the cycle once again, what an awesome idea!!!
His Mother already making excuses as to why he shouldn't have to participate or make effort. Bravo 👏
Diego’s mom is the reason he is the way he is
Where is this kids mother? I would be livid if my son acted such a way. Shameful
She enables his rude behavior
He should take responsibility for this baby and be there and pay child support.
What about his father?
Unfortunately she's naive to think that Diego will be there. He's going to be one of those deadbeat dad's.
He’s at about a third grade maturity level. That poor child. And his parents! They look like poor relatives of The Addams Family.
I love the way they support her! It’s a sad situation but, atleast she has there support. She will be a great mother!
Diego’s dad is huge looks like he was CGI edited in when they all 3 sat together 😂😂😂😂
I’m absolutely appalled at his behaviour, and how is his mum allowing him to be so rude to the mother of her own grandchild and everyone else. Can’t imagine how she felt, pregnancy can be an extremely lonely time espescially when your partner is acting like that
how is the mom not embarrassed that her son is a spoiled brat??
NEVER STAY TOGETHER JUST FOR A CHILD.
Trust me! I know that sounds bad, but your children AND yourself will thank you later.
When you stay, you're potentially putting yourself in a situation where you can be hurt, or hurt someone, AND if there are arguments your children will be there witnessing that.
Your child would rather you be happy and healthy than in an abusive toxic relationship.
Please get out ASAP
Totally. Doesn't make sense to be with someone for a baby bc it's obviously gonna be muuuuuch worse! Its sad that people in 2022 don't know that yet 🤪
My mother was in this situation and convinced my dad to stay. He abused me physically and emotionally long into adulthood. I BEGGED my mother to leave him throughout my life but she felt trapped in the relationship because of money and the kids. Children who grow up with awful fathers know that no father is far better. Take his child support and get out of there or you and your children will be abused like the rest of us kids that never had the option to leave. And the PTSD you and your children develop will harm you forever even if you escape. Run.
Same, you're sooo right.
I like the way grandma said she didnt like the way he treated her but if she could handle it, it was her choice. The way she put it, she acknowledged his bad behavior but didnt try to put her opinion onto her granddaughter. Having been through abusive relationships when i was young, shes probably more likely to reconsider the relationship if she feels like its really HER choice.
As soon as the mother opened her mouth it all clicked. She’s allowing her son to act this way, she even said it herself. Rlly sad tbh.
She smiles & looks so uncomfortable 😞 You can tell she’s trying her best. I applaud her.
His attitude he got it from his mom.
Diego needs to be ditched. Go Diego go
I wanted to be the first dislike💀💀💀🤭
@@wenase999 go giego go
diego kani
best comment
The best joke overall 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Diego's mother saying he's been that way his whole life.... No, he's 17 he's been like that as a child he hasn't lived his life yet.
My mom was in the same boat as Emiley's mother. She also tried many years to make it work before she left him and raised me by herself. It's the best decision she's made, for herself and for me. I'd much rather be raised by a single mom than live in a broken household.
The moment he said my girlfriend is having a baby I rolled my eyes
Emiley has an interesting relationship with her mom. They seem to have very different personalities. Emiley is more like the grandma, soft and calm. The mother is quite harsh, and borderline intimidating. But I think she's gonna be the only one putting Diego in his place!
👏🏼👏🏼🙌She needs mom and grandma in her corner right now👌
I think the mom is there for her. She’s just feeling protective considering she is seeing warning signs , she is worried for her daughter
The mom is not harsh. She just wants the best for her daughter. She doesn’t want her daughter to stay with a disrespectful low life because she first hand has already went through that. She would rather her daughter not go through that pain.
I think she's just super concerned because she went through the exact same thing and she wants to do everything she can to help the daughter not make the choices she did
The mom is saying nothing but facts she's not being harsh just telling her child the reality of the situation
Teenage pregnancy is preventable, let's get that straight. Sometimes the girl thinks she'll be "taken care of" as well as the child. Education is key. One can anticipate a life of hardships otherwise. 🌹
My younger sister thought that. She and her highschool boyfriend got pregnant at the end of highschool, they were both honor students with their college and careers already planned out and obtainable. Then the baby came and they both thought the new grandparents would take car eof the baby while they still continued on to college and started their career paths. Nope! Both of their college funds went towards the bills from the birth and although both families did A LOT to help out, he was still super immature while my sister was forced to deal with everything; which didn't turn out well since she'd always been catered to and spoiled. They ended up breaking up 2 weeks after the baby was born, it's been almost a decade now and neither of them went to college or got careers anywhere close to what they originally planned for. Now they're both heading towards 30 trying to have a late teen/early adulthood that they never had which isn't going well since they are both married to other people and have kids with those marriages as well.
It's a bit sad because my niece doesn't even see her parents as parental figures and now she's helping to take care of her half siblings whenever she's either of her parent's homes.
@@hambone4984 I'm so very sorry about the situation that you explained. There's a saying:. The years will pass in anycase, so let's use them towards my dream" ok I changed the wording. It's never too late to go back to school & fulfill your dreams with a career. Life experience also counts. You sister can still come out on top, even if school is part time. Maybe help her out with babysitting, if you are able? Yes.. it's confusing to have 2 homes..being pulled in different directions. I speak from experience. The children pay in everyway..I was one of them. Especially going back & forth & having to grow up with adult's issues upon your shoulders. It's unfair to this child, though learning valuable life lessons. Best wishes.....hoping you can help with creative solutions. You're an uncle. Step up, please 🌹
@@malkaringel7864 maybe they can’t, you really don’t know what relationship they have with their sister. Maybe they even live very far away from them!
@@cassie3028 you're right.
Yes. Agreed.
I would Not want to watch my son grow up disrespecting women like he didn't come out of one.
exactly
Diego is a walking red flag i hope she have left him like he is sooo immature
He is 17. A child. With man parts. He is in no way ready, willing or able to parent a child. I'm happy to see her family is standing with her. Her education , parenting skills, effort to make a home for herself and her child is her future.
Neither is her but the baby is coming because they didn't take precautions
Just because he’s a boy doesn’t mean we give him a pass. He’s also not really resting her well at all. She’s a child too but she has no choice but to get ready
The mother of the baby is also a child. He doesn’t just get a pass because he’s a boy, he willingly participated in the making of that baby
He doesn’t get a pass. She is bearing all the responsibility. He needs to grow TF up
@@tazylab6233 Sometimes a baby comes about even if precautions are taken
This was heartbreaking! Wow! He’s is a spoiled,entitled,mommas boy who won’t ever be worth of anything unless he confronts that…. And truly heals. Mark my words.
I just love that his mother is basically ok-ing his behavior.
Her mom & grandma are so supportive and love her so much
❤ she is a sweetheart, im sure she will find someone as pure as her!
This girl needs to do it herself. Find you a real one hun forget him
Emily is so caught up in her pain of not having a dad that she doesn’t see you can’t force someone to be something they don’t want to be…waiting 4 years won’t make a difference he doesn’t even want to be in a relationship
hes a product of his parents my son would never be allowed to behave like that he has no idea what respect is
It breaks my heart the mother’s position! She feels for her daughter and she is totally right, I hope Emily comes down to make the right decision in time
I am a 19 year old girl and I haven't went through this but I really feel bad for her and I condem the boy's behavior as well.
But one thing I'll say, a student especially those who are below 20 years I think you should focus on your studies and its okay if you are in love relationship with someone but don't marry and have a family untill you are financially independent . And planned pregnancy is the best decision everyone should make, unplanned pregnancy generally give rise to such depressing, saddening incidents. Don't get your girlfriend pregnant, 1) just becoz you can't control your desires to physically touch her. 2) Ifyou really don't want to take responsibilities of your own child. And, seriously I can't believe this guy has no love for his own child 😑😑😑😑
She hasn’t known him for long. A year is not enough time to determine if someone is going to be a great parent or if you should make that commitment. Both of these kids are in the wrong.
Both the girl and boy were irresponsible. They are having a baby without planning to have one.
Diego’s mom and Dad are the only ones responsible for Diego’s disrespectful attitude.. Maybe they should’ve taught their son how to be a respectful young man, not a little mommas boy!!
Girl move on!
I thought the boy's mom (ofc boy, he's nowhere near being a man) would be more concerned with his attitude, how he's treating his gf, etc. But she's just making excuses for him - even the dad is by not saying anything. Idk what's up with him but I really do hope she dumps him soon, she and her baby deserve so much better.
His parents did a horrible job raising him he should be ashamed of himself so should his parents smh
I love how Diego’s mom is not like him and is supporting Emily and there baby
His mom literally just enabled his disrespectful attitude towards Emily how is that being supportive
She’s such a lovely, sweet humble girl! She will b an amazing mother and woman and the right guy will come along and be the most amazing husband/father to her and her daughter! It will all work out💙
It's so sad the see such children becoming parent so early, he's such a child himself.
The two parents needed to sit down early on and truly decide if the pregnancy needed to go ahead. Neither of them are ready emotionally, physically, or financially to have a child.
sad but true
So true
The child already exists and has a right to life.
Diego's parents really thought they were doing smth by just showing up, staying silent and watch their soon to be daughter in law get humiliated and mistreated in THEIR OWN BABY SHOWER.
She let him hit raw and got pregnant just because she thinks he's cute, she was just as immature for not waiting and discussing a baby first
I love her mom, she's telling her to break the cycle and how a child with an absent father is better than having the father in the picture but he might as well be absent and how this effects not only her but the baby!
He ‘chose’ her because he thought she wouldn’t be clingy because they were both in sports. Wow. And he ruined the baby shower in my opinion.
This family deserves so much healing. May Emily gain wisdom and instead of seeking what she wants to happen, seek what will be the happiest real life scenario instead. She could be just as happy. School, raising her beautiful daughter, career, and and if she wants, finding a partner who has all the attributes she deserves.
"I'm ready to leave " pretty much sums up his attitude about his relationship & so much more about his child.. smh
My Nana was a 16yr old teenage mom and gave birth to my dad and i still dont know who is the father of my dad but i proud of my nana being a single teen mom at that time..
As a teenager myself, watching that this kind of male exist just sad. He once seems like a decent person and apparently down for "having fun" but the moment he got her pregnant he's acting like she made the baby herself 🥲
The young man is very resentful of having a child; he doesn’t want to have a baby. That’s the reason he’s rude and disrespectful.
Update: this happened years back and Diego is in his daughter life and is a member of the Military. He’s grown up a lot
How do you know?
@@Mariemarie-uw7id social media and an a “where are they now” episode 2 years after this
Did they get married?
What’s his social media
Gosh I sincerely hope this is true
Diego reminds me so much of my ex and Emiley reminds me of how I used to be; quiet, kind of a push over and easily persuaded. I am so grateful I moved on and found a man who appreciates me and has built up my confidence 10x.
This is so sad. I wish I didn’t know what this felt like. We need our communities to hold these boys ACCOUNTABLE.
A couple of months ago I found her yt channel. She’s raising the baby alone. He basically walked out of their lives and never looked back from what I remember.
"I don't wanna be at this baby shower" What Girl leave him. You deserve better.