Mother In Tears: Teenage Father-To-Be Has No Respect For His Pregnant Girlfriend | Unexpected

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  • Emiley and Diego are both teenagers and are getting ready to welcome their first baby. But Diego is not embracing his impending fatherhood, and his bad attitude makes everyone upset.
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  • @mamabear9646
    @mamabear9646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24955

    Having no father is better than having an abusive father.

  • @ashleey2145
    @ashleey2145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19266

    I’m shocked and disgusted his mom would allow him to act like that, dismiss it & say that’s just how her son is.

    • @Okont
      @Okont 2 ปีที่แล้ว +498

      They'll get a taste of it too, sooner or later.

    • @jamikaharris6390
      @jamikaharris6390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      I was just thinking the same thing

    • @jt1364
      @jt1364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +523

      His mother is the reason he is the way he is. That and his father sitting there mute. He won't change and she needs to run fast and far away from the narcissistic POS.

    • @tia6752
      @tia6752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +243

      Terrible parenting

    • @tia6752
      @tia6752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@jt1364 definitely

  • @stephanienarvaez7399
    @stephanienarvaez7399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3297

    diego’s mom is disgusting. letting him act like that not even trying to be supportive

    • @asmrsofi4786
      @asmrsofi4786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Dad also. We always put more responsibily on women

  • @MaMa-up8sr
    @MaMa-up8sr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1906

    Diego's parents are a prime example of why parenting classes should be mandatory!

    • @marusam6810
      @marusam6810 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AMEN!!! It should be definitely mandatory and written in law.

    • @vasilisconstantinides4476
      @vasilisconstantinides4476 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Doesn’t Emily parents allowing her to get pregnant at 16 warrant parenting classes as well?

    • @The_Great_Depression
      @The_Great_Depression ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@vasilisconstantinides4476 that’s rich 😂 you could be a stellar mom with a stellar dad to help and still end up with a pregnant teen. I’m not saying that’s the Case here, especially since that’s not what anyone was talking about 😂

    • @fayeart5277
      @fayeart5277 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm a firm believer in...the apple never falls far from the tree

  • @michellestella7477
    @michellestella7477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12235

    Diego's parents are doing a lousy job raising him.

    • @queenroe7431
      @queenroe7431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      No discipline and he basically does what he wants

    • @whodoitbe6633
      @whodoitbe6633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Facts

    • @breannarobinette3147
      @breannarobinette3147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Well now we know why he's is such an a** cause the parents sucked at raising him to take responsibility for his actions and to not be a deadbeat like he is. I bet he with forever live with his parents

    • @sharonlee_333
      @sharonlee_333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I could say the same for Emily lol if he doesn't want to be apart of her and there kids life them thats on him thats her fault for having jer legs open instead of focusing on her future ohh well the mistake have alr6been made

    • @kathrynshields8221
      @kathrynshields8221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He is still a.kid.........without direction.

  • @Grrrfrend
    @Grrrfrend 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12752

    As a mom who married a deadbeat dad when I was 19, don't walk away, Girl, RUN.

  • @camille3086
    @camille3086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +888

    “I think this baby shower is boring.”
    Diego, there is nothing boring about the celebration of your baby. You need to be there for Emily. She must be so stressed already because she’s pregnant and as a teenager. Be there for your girlfriend. Even if she wasn’t pregnant.

    • @racquelskaare9476
      @racquelskaare9476 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      No literally. I love seeing dads-to-be excited and involved during the baby shower, regardless of their age. We just had our baby shower a week ago and I was so happy just seeing my fiancé get excited over the gifts and just seeing people we know.

    • @winterlynn9012
      @winterlynn9012 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Diego is horrible but I can understand why a teen boy would find a baby shower boring. I'm a mom and had my son at age 33 and I did not want a baby shower as the idea of having to attend any event, especially at that point in my pregnancy when I was constantly uncomfortable, tired and having breathing problems constantly throughout that pregnancy did not sound like a way I wanted to spend my day. And I remember being bored to tears when a few years prior, I attended a friend's baby shower. So I did not have a baby shower and 7 years later, I don't regret my decision. Some people are just not into that type of thing, and there are other ways to celebrate a pregnancy. So with all that being said, I can understand why a teen boy would likely definitely find it boring. However instead of hurting his girlfriends feelings he did not need to say it out loud.

    • @ashgangtv2675
      @ashgangtv2675 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Let me go find my small violin

  • @uniqueo1152
    @uniqueo1152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +731

    "That might work for her daughter but that won't work for my son" well then do something about your low life son's attitude because it's disgusting and he'll go no where in life. His parents and him are doing Emiley and their baby a disservice.

    • @roadrunner17lee66
      @roadrunner17lee66 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      They act as if it’s all her fault that she’s pregnant. From his behavior he acts like it not his baby. The statement my girlfriend is pregnant. Like he had nothing to do with it. SMH.

    • @Alex-rr3xc
      @Alex-rr3xc ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@roadrunner17lee66 so true he put her pregnant, it's more his fault than she's.

    • @ashgangtv2675
      @ashgangtv2675 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

  • @ja9204
    @ja9204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7815

    Diego’s parents should be ashamed of themselves for accepting his behavior and thinking it’s ok to treat the mother of his child like that, but I guess ignorance breeds ignorance.

    • @TM-oe2on
      @TM-oe2on 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      I was thinking the same thing! His parents cosigning on Diego's BS attitude is half the problem!

    • @EmpressNic
      @EmpressNic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeap that shows who absolutely has control.

    • @meowkris
      @meowkris 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Yeah that's a learned behavior. They have allowed him to continue to be disrespectful. By not correcting it, they've trained him to believe that's acceptable.

    • @nothanks1239
      @nothanks1239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It wouldn't surprise me if Diegos parents view this baby as a ball and chain for their son. My dad's mum viewed me the same way and encouraged her son (my dad) to bolt.

    • @reesemalo
      @reesemalo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A lot of Latino families are like that tbh

  • @helenlee6427
    @helenlee6427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6500

    "I chose her because she does alot of athletics". Yeah, that's definitely the mind of an immature person. 🙄

    • @babawali3021
      @babawali3021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      So the only thing Diego and Emily had in common was athletics? How about same or similar values on which to base a successful marriage or long-term relationship?

    • @dontliveinfear.7640
      @dontliveinfear.7640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      @@babawali3021 they’re kids…

    • @tyssamacias5559
      @tyssamacias5559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +303

      I think he just chose her caz she is pretty and she was a cheerleader and skinny and fit, he basically just didn't want to say that, he not ready to be a dad

    • @lilyanne2676
      @lilyanne2676 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      He does not love her

    • @motherofdragons5287
      @motherofdragons5287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Everyone blames Diego, but nobody points out that she was present too. How about her? She’s as much of a nincompoop as Diego, she’s as much ready to be a mother as Diego is to be a father, she just has better support system around her.

  • @georgiamanu6353
    @georgiamanu6353 2 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    Everything the mother stated was straight up facts. Very unfortunate that the daughter doesn't seem to be taking it in.

  • @Ruthy-with-a-Y
    @Ruthy-with-a-Y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    My daughter's father was the same way as Diego. Needless to say I had her at 18 and by her 1st birthday I left him. 17 years later and she is an amazing girl who I am so proud of. Emily can do it alone. ❤️💪

  • @JPabloRL
    @JPabloRL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10183

    When his mom spoke. It all came together.

    • @jessicaaudate
      @jessicaaudate 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @mariex8168
      @mariex8168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +352

      Facts. I Think that whole family wants to pretend that Emily and that baby don't exist.

    • @pameladrake7547
      @pameladrake7547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      Apple don't fall far from the tree his parents not too intelligent

    • @pankstress2502
      @pankstress2502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right?

    • @lisagoehringer424
      @lisagoehringer424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      It sure did come together. 17 years of no parenting.

  • @OnlyTheChronic
    @OnlyTheChronic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5617

    That boy was so incredibly RUDE. He didn't care about those diapers because he knows he won't be the one buying them so it doesn't matter to him. His Parents clearly condoned his behavior and that is a BIG part of his problems. This guy is NOT Father material and he won't be around long..

    • @juliekeller4920
      @juliekeller4920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That's so true ❣️❣️❣️❣️

    • @dhaniramkavita
      @dhaniramkavita 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      That's so true. His mom mentioned that he pushes back if someone pushes him well MOM you should have thought your son some manners and to keep his thing in his pants so he would not have been going through this situation right now

    • @margaretmunce1501
      @margaretmunce1501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@dhaniramkavita you said it!

    • @babawali3021
      @babawali3021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      This boy (not a man) will NEVER change his child's diapers. His and Emily's relationship is a disaster in the making. I feel sorry for both Emily and baby.

    • @siateel6545
      @siateel6545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It doesn't appear that he will there for his child or pregnant "girlfriend" so at the very least in a year or so, from when this show was recorded, he will be 18 years old and they can begin to request child support.

  • @danivierra3127
    @danivierra3127 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    The fact that his family just allows him to act that way is sickening.

  • @debbieulloa4077
    @debbieulloa4077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She smiles & looks so uncomfortable 😞 You can tell she’s trying her best. I applaud her.

  • @nopez1nu
    @nopez1nu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9287

    Just the fact that he said “my girlfriend Emily is having a baby” in stead of WE are having a baby is enough said!! Dutch him if you already haven’t!!

    • @lianasoares8052
      @lianasoares8052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      Samantha, on top of him saying “it’s your baby shower, you’re right.”

    • @kaijohnson7827
      @kaijohnson7827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      Its a stretch but with all the other red flags yeah...

    • @jaime7658
      @jaime7658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      Dutch him. 😂 You meaned ditch? not make him move to holland and get citizenship.

    • @j.elizabethbaxter1069
      @j.elizabethbaxter1069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Jaime I was thinking more of “Dutch oven him” lol.

    • @terminologicalinexactitude
      @terminologicalinexactitude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@jaime7658 I think you mean Holland. Dutch people are from Holland/The Netherlands. Danish/Danes people are from Denmark. But yeah, I believe the OP meant to say "ditch" Lol.

  • @ruthieaay4264
    @ruthieaay4264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6237

    Diego's parents are the one's who spoilt him... it's a shame he is to be a parent. Such a baby

    • @margaretmunce1501
      @margaretmunce1501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Yeah, he didn’t seem to mind making the baby, but he can’t even act like he’s enjoying the baby shower even for her. He never loved her.

    • @sararomero209
      @sararomero209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YES

    • @janebaker4912
      @janebaker4912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yes! I don't push my son cos he pushes back. I can see that with a toodler that is why you parent!!
      The mother is so lazy and now she has a brat son and I hope they make them pay child support

    • @samanthafreeman4315
      @samanthafreeman4315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He too feels its a shame he's gonna be a parent.

    • @asdfghjkl-oo7lv
      @asdfghjkl-oo7lv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hispanic parents for ya. They baby their son way too much.

  • @123thomas30
    @123thomas30 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    "I don't think it's right to stay together bcause of the baby", just my two cents, I really agree w/ this one, it's better for the child to grow without a father than having a dad and witnessing all the abuses inside your home. It hits differently, it is more diiffcult to go home knowing that "home" houses a monster...

  • @emilyc8056
    @emilyc8056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I would be devastated if I raised a son like Diego.

  • @tonyahayre5541
    @tonyahayre5541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5444

    Diego needs a paternity test and then put on child support and brought into the real world. His sports need to end because now he needs to be getting a job and supporting this baby he helped create. He wanted to play and now he needs to man up and pay. His behavior towards the mother of his child is typical of a spoiled young man who has never had any responsibility for anything. They both played a part in the pregnancy, but she is having to bear all the responsibility.

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      with or without, I hope he signs the birth cert. that would be enough to help her get child support

    • @rachelortiz1157
      @rachelortiz1157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      @@jemmaj2919 he doesn’t even deserve to be on the birth certificate

    • @girlwiththeclips6995
      @girlwiththeclips6995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This was a long time ago

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@girlwiththeclips6995 what's the update, do u know?

    • @aliviashae4910
      @aliviashae4910 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very well put!

  • @countrygirlxo7188
    @countrygirlxo7188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5421

    If my sons treated his child’s mother this way I would not tolerate it. If he can’t be apart of the child’s life I will. No matter what I’ll support my grandchild and the mother of the child 💕

  • @jay-oq4cv
    @jay-oq4cv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Girrrrllllll if you don't leave that BOY smh. She don't need a father, she just needs a mother who can show her what genuine care and compassion is. And if you can provide her with love thats all she needs coming from someone who grew up without my father.

  • @carlyrichardson3082
    @carlyrichardson3082 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    His Mother already making excuses as to why he shouldn't have to participate or make effort. Bravo 👏

  • @Papiercutz
    @Papiercutz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3955

    Ditch Diego!!!!!

    • @leslienava3076
      @leslienava3076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Right her life would be much better

    • @piprobins6833
      @piprobins6833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Now that’s a hashtag.

    • @kerribennett3013
      @kerribennett3013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      That baby needs to see a happy momma!! Your baby can have a father without you being in a relationship or married to him. Staying for the kids is a mistake we women continue to make daily.

    • @thefannfamily3991
      @thefannfamily3991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      She did! She’s much happier now.

    • @margaretmunce1501
      @margaretmunce1501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@thefannfamily3991 I hope she did. He’s one heck of a deadbeat, selfish brat.

  • @alishaarmstrong6273
    @alishaarmstrong6273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1804

    There’s something mentally off about Diego… and he was not raised right. What a shame!

    • @chocoflan6672
      @chocoflan6672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Probably has problems with his dad

    • @nunurbiznis4749
      @nunurbiznis4749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      He’s a literal child and his parents stopped trying to raise him obviously after he learned how to talk. All he knows is to disagree, blame, and say “no”.

    • @minacerra
      @minacerra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's mentally off because he was babied and still is. That affects mental and emotional maturity.

  • @hi-il7ug
    @hi-il7ug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The saying “You become like one parent and marry the other” is so true. She is in the same situation her mom was in and she found some useless guy that doesn’t want to be in his own child’s life, like her own father.

    • @amorerobinson4140
      @amorerobinson4140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’ve never heard of this saying. Is it true?

  • @josephfong2003
    @josephfong2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    As an 18 year old myself , I really can't imagine being a parent at this current age while I'm still studying...

  • @hapustatw
    @hapustatw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +874

    His mom saying "hes been that way his whole life" like it isn't _directly_ her fault 🙄

  • @Little_Devotchka
    @Little_Devotchka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3982

    This girl doesn’t even appreciate her mother’s wisdom. Her mother literally faced the exact same dilemma when she was pregnant with this girl and is telling her what happened when she went down the route of staying with a father who mistreated her. The girl even admits she wouldn’t be with deadbeat Diego if she wasn’t pregnant with his baby.
    Edit: Thank you all so much for the likes 🥺 this is the most I've ever received on a comment. I hope everyone has an awesome day/night! 💕

    • @arlenesecrist354
      @arlenesecrist354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Dump him., now .

    • @gothiclove4977
      @gothiclove4977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      People need to learn from their one experiences. All kids do this. Never listen to their parents🤭

    • @gothiclove4977
      @gothiclove4977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @CIERRA MCGUIRE then they have less to learn from. Parent need to setup a learning envionment for their kids. Exploring in a safe envionment.

    • @Verablonda
      @Verablonda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Because ist hard for girl to admit to be in the same situation,and she only wants to try,we can't blame her

    • @jmichele7872
      @jmichele7872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      It’s different once you’re in the situation, people hold on to the hope that it’ll get better and won’t turn out like it did for someone else. you can’t blame her for that🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @lislatifolia4228
    @lislatifolia4228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It looks like she is in a way better place right now. Proud of her

  • @Hope-vg8ig
    @Hope-vg8ig ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Diego’s mom is the reason he is the way he is

  • @aliciaasc4996
    @aliciaasc4996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +670

    Emily has a beautiful heart. I hope she finds a man that treats her well and her baby.

    • @BrickKid0416
      @BrickKid0416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      No how about she needs to grow up, get an education and a career and learn from her mistakes. The last thing on her list should be a man

    • @TripleKmafia
      @TripleKmafia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BrickKid0416 - Says the bitter woman with no dad.

    • @lilyjay2118
      @lilyjay2118 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She doesn’t need a man! She’s a child with a child, she needs to focus on healing so that she can break this horrible generational trauma!

  • @bisolasoutlet9371
    @bisolasoutlet9371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    “Choose the father of your child wisely”

  • @BreonnaaL
    @BreonnaaL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He was so disrespectful I couldn’t take it. I honestly really felt for Emily’s mom, they really try to make her out as the bad guy. Their communication wasn’t the best but you can tell that her mom genuinely cares and wants the best for her.

  • @ratgirl669
    @ratgirl669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Diego’s dad is huge looks like he was CGI edited in when they all 3 sat together 😂😂😂😂

  • @robinwagner3293
    @robinwagner3293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1567

    You find the birth of your first child and a baby shower boring? Okay. Bye Boy. You know what, Mama really does know best, Emiley. What I am saying is that my Mother and family could see problems coming in my marriage that I could not see and did not want to see. We ended up divorced. So yeah, listen to your family and their opinions.

    • @aliceserafin7613
      @aliceserafin7613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Sweetheart, show Diego the door and lock it behind him. He hasn't grown up and will make your life miserable. There is someone out there who will love and respect you and the baby. I wish you the best of everything.

    • @juliekeller4920
      @juliekeller4920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❣️❣️❣️❣️

    • @brittneyt2418
      @brittneyt2418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aliceserafin7613 Mmm

    • @FavouriteGalaxia
      @FavouriteGalaxia ปีที่แล้ว

      Family is usually always right when they truly love you and want your best. If u don't listen THAT'S what u get. Periodt.

  • @mamabear9646
    @mamabear9646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1072

    This girl is NOT learning from others' mistakes. Sad.

    • @EmpressNic
      @EmpressNic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      True but hearing Emily's story with her father, her mother same cycle so was the grandmother what did these matriarchs do to school her protect her? It seems things where over looked now they want her to see. Life does not work like that.

    • @ivanad6199
      @ivanad6199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      The girl is trying to do what she thinks is the best for her child

    • @Aubxmichelle
      @Aubxmichelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is learning but instead of doing what she should she is trying to do what is best for the baby which is seeing there dad! She is also just giving Diego a chance with his baby

    • @FavouriteGalaxia
      @FavouriteGalaxia ปีที่แล้ว +3

      As I say in spanish: "Aprendamos de los errores de nuestras ancestras"

  • @Sarah-vj5jx
    @Sarah-vj5jx ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “That might work for her daughter but it won’t work for my son” his behavior makes perfect sense now

  • @moonrei6555
    @moonrei6555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As soon as the mother opened her mouth it all clicked. She’s allowing her son to act this way, she even said it herself. Rlly sad tbh.

  • @jessicaflo5126
    @jessicaflo5126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +997

    Yeah this pattern is too common. Women with "daddy issues" and unresolved trauma continue being attracted to emotional unavailable men because of the familiarity and limiting beliefs. Break the pattern Emily because you deserve sooo much better! ♥️

    • @stefswatchinyoutubeagain4769
      @stefswatchinyoutubeagain4769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Yes! How can she listen to her mom (exact same store repeating itself) and say it will be different.

    • @sathighosh764
      @sathighosh764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Therapy can help her in this difficult time and deal with what will happen next

    • @AshJVines
      @AshJVines 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said

    • @EmpressNic
      @EmpressNic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      One can't break a cycle if one was not taught to do so. Kids look at actions not words. At 16 she won't know how if her parents didn't teach her how

    • @jessicaflo5126
      @jessicaflo5126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@EmpressNic very true which is why therapy is important. Helps break the "generational curses". In this case she is too influenced by her own wounds to see that she is repeating the pattern. Its so unfortunate but I do hope she heals.

  • @cicitran5695
    @cicitran5695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    HE'S A PERFECT EXAMPLE "CHILDREN HAVING CHILDREN..." IT FEELS LIKE SHE'S HAVING TWO KIDS, NOT ONE....🤬😱👶👶👶

    • @meowkris
      @meowkris 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree

  • @average_student7079
    @average_student7079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I would Not want to watch my son grow up disrespecting women like he didn't come out of one.

  • @lauraf9600
    @lauraf9600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    It breaks my heart the mother’s position! She feels for her daughter and she is totally right, I hope Emily comes down to make the right decision in time

  • @itsjavababy
    @itsjavababy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1435

    Diego seem slow 🤷‍♀️

    • @gabriellejoi
      @gabriellejoi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      & she seem slow for putting up w it🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      They all do 💀

    • @janebaker4912
      @janebaker4912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@gabriellejoi I have to agree. Diago is a brat

    • @mariamadanae
      @mariamadanae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      i think they're both a lil off

    • @sr-pz7gp
      @sr-pz7gp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂 definitely

  • @deniselara9721
    @deniselara9721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    Oh man that boy got me soooo heated! I would not allow my daughter to tolerate a boy like that. I have a son that’s 14 and he be damned if he would treat a girl like that. The parents obviously didn’t teach him how to respect I can only imagine how he treats his parents. So rude and not tolerated. The poor girl needs to let him go she doesn’t deserve to go through that embarrassment.

  • @thesquid6149
    @thesquid6149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ❤ she is a sweetheart, im sure she will find someone as pure as her!

  • @seyahni
    @seyahni ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Her mom & grandma are so supportive and love her so much

  • @Happywifelife24
    @Happywifelife24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    His parents are awful. They gave birth to him the end. They stopped putting in the work of a real parent that day. I’ll be damned if I ever let a man treat me or my family that way.

  • @taneabree
    @taneabree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    Exactly the problem, Diego’s parents don’t push him so he steps all over everyone. I know Bridget is trying so hard not to ring his little neck

    • @asdfghjkl-oo7lv
      @asdfghjkl-oo7lv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      His parents are Hispanic. They don't discipline their sons the same way they do their daughters.

  • @glitzyglam6860
    @glitzyglam6860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am a 19 year old girl and I haven't went through this but I really feel bad for her and I condem the boy's behavior as well.
    But one thing I'll say, a student especially those who are below 20 years I think you should focus on your studies and its okay if you are in love relationship with someone but don't marry and have a family untill you are financially independent . And planned pregnancy is the best decision everyone should make, unplanned pregnancy generally give rise to such depressing, saddening incidents. Don't get your girlfriend pregnant, 1) just becoz you can't control your desires to physically touch her. 2) Ifyou really don't want to take responsibilities of your own child. And, seriously I can't believe this guy has no love for his own child 😑😑😑😑

    • @TheSweetForever
      @TheSweetForever 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She hasn’t known him for long. A year is not enough time to determine if someone is going to be a great parent or if you should make that commitment. Both of these kids are in the wrong.

    • @glitzyglam6860
      @glitzyglam6860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Both the girl and boy were irresponsible. They are having a baby without planning to have one.

  • @krystaldaniels7940
    @krystaldaniels7940 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like the way grandma said she didnt like the way he treated her but if she could handle it, it was her choice. The way she put it, she acknowledged his bad behavior but didnt try to put her opinion onto her granddaughter. Having been through abusive relationships when i was young, shes probably more likely to reconsider the relationship if she feels like its really HER choice.

  • @BillyAlabama
    @BillyAlabama 2 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    He’s at about a third grade maturity level. That poor child. And his parents! They look like poor relatives of The Addams Family.

  • @Samantha-ew7yn
    @Samantha-ew7yn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +374

    Where is this kids mother? I would be livid if my son acted such a way. Shameful

    • @apurva616
      @apurva616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      She enables his rude behavior

    • @liztrainer895
      @liztrainer895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He should take responsibility for this baby and be there and pay child support.

    • @lynneufeld3175
      @lynneufeld3175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What about his father?

  • @Luxury_for_less
    @Luxury_for_less ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the way they support her! It’s a sad situation but, atleast she has there support. She will be a great mother!

  • @PerpetuallyTori
    @PerpetuallyTori 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When she said she grew up without a dad and always wanted her child to have a mom and a dad, I felt that. I was in the same situation. But, baby girl, it’s not your choice. The father chooses whether to stay or go. Sometimes, you have to accept it for what it is. Just focus on yourself and your child. You can do it, hon!

  • @Getoffmyaccount917
    @Getoffmyaccount917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Put him on child support and dip. He don't gotta be there for you, but you gonna make him support that baby cuz it took two! These is were I see child support is needed

  • @MGongopadhyay
    @MGongopadhyay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Darling girl,
    Trust me on this, you don't need the father of your child to raise your baby. You can do it on your own.
    An irresponsible man and father is not something you are looking for.
    Wish you all the very best in life dear girl.

    • @Doc-hp5wf
      @Doc-hp5wf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah thats how the girl become a teen mom i guess in the first place

  • @idjilju2835
    @idjilju2835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I never understood when professionals talked about the cycle of teen pregnancy until I met this family. I wish this family nothing but the best.

  • @khloebrown1687
    @khloebrown1687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She’s such a lovely, sweet humble girl! She will b an amazing mother and woman and the right guy will come along and be the most amazing husband/father to her and her daughter! It will all work out💙

  • @justinem.brydia3677
    @justinem.brydia3677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    Unfortunately she's naive to think that Diego will be there. He's going to be one of those deadbeat dad's.

  • @addictedtoprocrastination9986
    @addictedtoprocrastination9986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My mom was in the same boat as Emiley's mother. She also tried many years to make it work before she left him and raised me by herself. It's the best decision she's made, for herself and for me. I'd much rather be raised by a single mom than live in a broken household.

  • @ajh0005
    @ajh0005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “ When you push Diego, he pushes back, it just doesn’t work ” that’s how you know you didn’t discipline your child correctly when they were growing up.

  • @zarrinelenjoseph
    @zarrinelenjoseph 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    His attitude he got it from his mom.

  • @JodiLeaSnakeQueen
    @JodiLeaSnakeQueen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    NEVER STAY TOGETHER JUST FOR A CHILD.
    Trust me! I know that sounds bad, but your children AND yourself will thank you later.
    When you stay, you're potentially putting yourself in a situation where you can be hurt, or hurt someone, AND if there are arguments your children will be there witnessing that.
    Your child would rather you be happy and healthy than in an abusive toxic relationship.
    Please get out ASAP

    • @FavouriteGalaxia
      @FavouriteGalaxia ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally. Doesn't make sense to be with someone for a baby bc it's obviously gonna be muuuuuch worse! Its sad that people in 2022 don't know that yet 🤪

  • @kokorokaraaishiteru8328
    @kokorokaraaishiteru8328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I could see through out this video he feels embarrased with her. He is immature. He would treat her wrong. He couldn’t provide his child in the future. And I could see that he kinda secretly blame her for being pregnant.

    • @yoonginavy4967
      @yoonginavy4967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh I'm 💯 percent sure he blames her. And has even shouted at her saying this is your fault

  • @amyleighmcgowan9082
    @amyleighmcgowan9082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    I’m absolutely appalled at his behaviour, and how is his mum allowing him to be so rude to the mother of her own grandchild and everyone else. Can’t imagine how she felt, pregnancy can be an extremely lonely time espescially when your partner is acting like that

    • @Twat3rmel0n
      @Twat3rmel0n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how is the mom not embarrassed that her son is a spoiled brat??

  • @jojobee42
    @jojobee42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +959

    Emiley has an interesting relationship with her mom. They seem to have very different personalities. Emiley is more like the grandma, soft and calm. The mother is quite harsh, and borderline intimidating. But I think she's gonna be the only one putting Diego in his place!

    • @josiecat8080
      @josiecat8080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      👏🏼👏🏼🙌She needs mom and grandma in her corner right now👌

    • @gemmaluescher-verseckas1243
      @gemmaluescher-verseckas1243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      I think the mom is there for her. She’s just feeling protective considering she is seeing warning signs , she is worried for her daughter

    • @SnapszDuhh
      @SnapszDuhh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      The mom is not harsh. She just wants the best for her daughter. She doesn’t want her daughter to stay with a disrespectful low life because she first hand has already went through that. She would rather her daughter not go through that pain.

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I think she's just super concerned because she went through the exact same thing and she wants to do everything she can to help the daughter not make the choices she did

    • @Avocadoaficionados
      @Avocadoaficionados 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      The mom is saying nothing but facts she's not being harsh just telling her child the reality of the situation

  • @Hannahbanana353
    @Hannahbanana353 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This breaks my heart for this girl and her baby.

  • @izzyhammond6196
    @izzyhammond6196 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im so happy that her grandma is so supportive

  • @vanessasaka1773
    @vanessasaka1773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    Diego needs to be ditched. Go Diego go

  • @malkaringel7864
    @malkaringel7864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +591

    Teenage pregnancy is preventable, let's get that straight. Sometimes the girl thinks she'll be "taken care of" as well as the child. Education is key. One can anticipate a life of hardships otherwise. 🌹

    • @hambone4984
      @hambone4984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      My younger sister thought that. She and her highschool boyfriend got pregnant at the end of highschool, they were both honor students with their college and careers already planned out and obtainable. Then the baby came and they both thought the new grandparents would take car eof the baby while they still continued on to college and started their career paths. Nope! Both of their college funds went towards the bills from the birth and although both families did A LOT to help out, he was still super immature while my sister was forced to deal with everything; which didn't turn out well since she'd always been catered to and spoiled. They ended up breaking up 2 weeks after the baby was born, it's been almost a decade now and neither of them went to college or got careers anywhere close to what they originally planned for. Now they're both heading towards 30 trying to have a late teen/early adulthood that they never had which isn't going well since they are both married to other people and have kids with those marriages as well.
      It's a bit sad because my niece doesn't even see her parents as parental figures and now she's helping to take care of her half siblings whenever she's either of her parent's homes.

    • @malkaringel7864
      @malkaringel7864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@hambone4984 I'm so very sorry about the situation that you explained. There's a saying:. The years will pass in anycase, so let's use them towards my dream" ok I changed the wording. It's never too late to go back to school & fulfill your dreams with a career. Life experience also counts. You sister can still come out on top, even if school is part time. Maybe help her out with babysitting, if you are able? Yes.. it's confusing to have 2 homes..being pulled in different directions. I speak from experience. The children pay in everyway..I was one of them. Especially going back & forth & having to grow up with adult's issues upon your shoulders. It's unfair to this child, though learning valuable life lessons. Best wishes.....hoping you can help with creative solutions. You're an uncle. Step up, please 🌹

    • @cassie3028
      @cassie3028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@malkaringel7864 maybe they can’t, you really don’t know what relationship they have with their sister. Maybe they even live very far away from them!

    • @malkaringel7864
      @malkaringel7864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cassie3028 you're right.

    • @pamm5
      @pamm5 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. Agreed.

  • @Kyndal.leanne
    @Kyndal.leanne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how Diego’s mom is not like him and is supporting Emily and there baby

    • @nialahsimmons422
      @nialahsimmons422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His mom literally just enabled his disrespectful attitude towards Emily how is that being supportive

  • @charlottelawson4737
    @charlottelawson4737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I give mom props for giving her a realistic view, and puts her feeling in perspective, and I love Nanas view and optimistic/openess for her to make her own decision. You can really see the generational gap but the overall concensus is absolute...I also see no hope, but definately gotta try and fail than to fail without trying.

  • @glennamiles3566
    @glennamiles3566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +952

    He is 17. A child. With man parts. He is in no way ready, willing or able to parent a child. I'm happy to see her family is standing with her. Her education , parenting skills, effort to make a home for herself and her child is her future.

    • @tazylab6233
      @tazylab6233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Neither is her but the baby is coming because they didn't take precautions

    • @kpase123
      @kpase123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      Just because he’s a boy doesn’t mean we give him a pass. He’s also not really resting her well at all. She’s a child too but she has no choice but to get ready

    • @w1shbear
      @w1shbear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      The mother of the baby is also a child. He doesn’t just get a pass because he’s a boy, he willingly participated in the making of that baby

    • @sabrinastratton1991
      @sabrinastratton1991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      He doesn’t get a pass. She is bearing all the responsibility. He needs to grow TF up

    • @missserenity1090
      @missserenity1090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@tazylab6233 Sometimes a baby comes about even if precautions are taken

  • @suemcdonald6147
    @suemcdonald6147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    hes a product of his parents my son would never be allowed to behave like that he has no idea what respect is

  • @vasilisconstantinides4476
    @vasilisconstantinides4476 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys are so quick to judge Diego being 17 without looking at Emily. They’re both teens and they are both in the wrong. You can’t demonise his laziness without demonising both of their laziness.

  • @mkeros1691
    @mkeros1691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so sad to watch. Esspecially as someone who's been in her same shoes.... I hope she's doing well now and that diego has grown up to be the father his child deserves.

  • @kasoutar3681
    @kasoutar3681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Emily is so caught up in her pain of not having a dad that she doesn’t see you can’t force someone to be something they don’t want to be…waiting 4 years won’t make a difference he doesn’t even want to be in a relationship

  • @haileythurston6280
    @haileythurston6280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    My mother was in this situation and convinced my dad to stay. He abused me physically and emotionally long into adulthood. I BEGGED my mother to leave him throughout my life but she felt trapped in the relationship because of money and the kids. Children who grow up with awful fathers know that no father is far better. Take his child support and get out of there or you and your children will be abused like the rest of us kids that never had the option to leave. And the PTSD you and your children develop will harm you forever even if you escape. Run.

  • @florabelle4707
    @florabelle4707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My Nana was a 16yr old teenage mom and gave birth to my dad and i still dont know who is the father of my dad but i proud of my nana being a single teen mom at that time..

  • @CrazyClara101
    @CrazyClara101 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love her mom, she's telling her to break the cycle and how a child with an absent father is better than having the father in the picture but he might as well be absent and how this effects not only her but the baby!

  • @suriel36
    @suriel36 2 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    His parents did a horrible job raising him he should be ashamed of himself so should his parents smh

  • @arianasophy
    @arianasophy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Diego’s mom and Dad are the only ones responsible for Diego’s disrespectful attitude.. Maybe they should’ve taught their son how to be a respectful young man, not a little mommas boy!!
    Girl move on!

  • @honestlynaria330
    @honestlynaria330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My heart aches for Emily! The fact that Diego is her child father makes me so sad because you can truly tell that deep down inside he doesn’t care at all for her and maybe that baby.

  • @alingais4248
    @alingais4248 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    His parents are just sooo proud! Smh

  • @insurgenceyt4660
    @insurgenceyt4660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    This girl needs to do it herself. Find you a real one hun forget him

  • @JaniceB1217
    @JaniceB1217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    The moment he said my girlfriend is having a baby I rolled my eyes

  • @meikabraun9739
    @meikabraun9739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "I don't wanna be at this baby shower" What Girl leave him. You deserve better.

  • @fashionablylate9020
    @fashionablylate9020 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kids without fathers is so devastating. I grew up with a stepdad but it’s not the same

  • @melissayoutube
    @melissayoutube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    The two parents needed to sit down early on and truly decide if the pregnancy needed to go ahead. Neither of them are ready emotionally, physically, or financially to have a child.

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      sad but true

    • @AnTo9787
      @AnTo9787 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true

    • @Window4503
      @Window4503 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The child already exists and has a right to life.

  • @dottiemusic1462
    @dottiemusic1462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    This was heartbreaking! Wow! He’s is a spoiled,entitled,mommas boy who won’t ever be worth of anything unless he confronts that…. And truly heals. Mark my words.

  • @s.e2637
    @s.e2637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was afraid to tell my mom I was preggo...@21 lol but the best advice she told me was "Just bc you have a baby with someone doesn't mean you have to stay together"

  • @HayleyHaskett
    @HayleyHaskett 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's unfortunate that he's so immature. You can see how defeated she already feels. I hope she realizes her worth and finds a guy who respects her 💛

  • @jirehmascariola469
    @jirehmascariola469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Diego's parents really thought they were doing smth by just showing up, staying silent and watch their soon to be daughter in law get humiliated and mistreated in THEIR OWN BABY SHOWER.

  • @TheVenessa7485
    @TheVenessa7485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I just love that his mother is basically ok-ing his behavior.

  • @samurailevi49
    @samurailevi49 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s clear he doesn’t know that making a baby requires two parties. You should of had protection or better protection. It takes two to tango.

  • @lindsayraetongo
    @lindsayraetongo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'd be soooo embarrassed if that were my son...

  • @KP-qs3ob
    @KP-qs3ob 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I thought the boy's mom (ofc boy, he's nowhere near being a man) would be more concerned with his attitude, how he's treating his gf, etc. But she's just making excuses for him - even the dad is by not saying anything. Idk what's up with him but I really do hope she dumps him soon, she and her baby deserve so much better.

  • @ariellebakes
    @ariellebakes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    And Diego’s mum is the reason why he is the way he is. You’ve got to train your child well. You think it’s ok that he is on his way to be the worst dad ever? Wow