When a person gets pleasure from hurting you on purpose just to watch you suffer, it's almost inconceivable as a good person to comprehend. I'm still reeling from an abusive relationship. I didn't know what she was doing to me until I got out of the relationship and looked back at the abuse I could not see while in the relationship. I was shocked beyond belief that I had let her abuse me for so long. I'll never fully recover, I'll think about what she did to me until the day I die. She will always be a part of me. I will cope with it though through the grace of God.
I hope you can rid your own self of that which does not belong. No need to listen to voices that can only haunt you. I hope you can establish a safe place for your soul (I recommend God) and for you to feel comfortable in your own skin. God bless.
Bro I understand exactly what you're saying it's like I'm in the same situation and I'm still in love with this girl to this day and all she does is throw at me vile and hateful rhetoric that when I see it because we're not even on speaking terms when I read it f****** kills me f****** hurts because I'm still in love with this.... And I'm actually thankful not for the tears no yes for the for everything for the joy the pain the hurt the sex oh my God the f****** sucks but I'm a degenerate I digress but I don't regret any of it because everything that I went through has brought me to the point that I am here today and that is having having God in my life I've always known my God I always believe in God but I never believed he was in my life now he's in my life I know he's in my life cuz I know now with faith. The love that I can't confess to this girl we'll stay with me forever and you shouldn't look at that for yourself as a bad thing but look at the positivity of it. Use it for your betterment bro.
@@Daniel_lee_prado_jc_Son I'm glad God had our backs throughout these types of relationships. I still think about her a lot, not as much as last month, but a lot. I try to use the power of prayer to control my thoughts when I think of her, I automatically say a Hail Mary in order to take my mind off of her. I'm trying to understand the concept of forgiveness in the most honest way I can. God is invaluable for this because Christ is forgiveness and the ultimate example of it. If Christ can forgive us, surely we can forgive awful girlfriends. I just read a great quote from the Book Of Mathew where Christ is addressing a crowd of people and says " if you expect God to forgive you of your sins you must forgive others who have sinned against you." That hit hard, but it has helped immensely. All the best, and God be with you.
I truly hope this man will be seen in the near future as someone like Socrates and many years from now, if not tomorrow, he gets the same notoriety and respect. He speaks the same truths in today's language while admitting one's own faults in trying to find those truths. I am truly thankful for the technical advancements of today or hearing him speak would or could not been done. Thank you Dr. Peterson for your work and passionate devotion to family, God and the well being of others.
i feel emotionally attached to this man at this point. he has changed my way of thinking and acting. he made my daily life harder but more meaningful and helped me correct many of my flaws as a person. he is so precious and needed by this world.
Malevolence is active and willful against you, you're specifically targetted... tragedy is life events that just happen - nice clarification. I'm getting quicker at not only spotting it coming but resisting, acting against or moving away from it. Evil on legs basically is what it is.
I was the victim of pure malevolence when my ex wife's boyfriend attacked me ruthlessly with texts from her phone, in her name... the things I heard and believed about her (and myself) were so traumatic that I've never been the same since. Fortunately for me, I was able to overcome and become a better person from it rather than a bitter person.... but the pain was overwhelming and a big part of me DIED and NEVER recovered after that. JBP is right on the money here. I could have survived the divorce, but the malevolent force of her psychopathic (now ex) boyfriend tortured my mind for years
I hope you can recover from that: Dr. Peterson says, referring to Pinocchio, the part of us that dies is The Part that is Puppet. You seem to have mostly recovered, and if mostly, than a complete recovery is quite possible. I endured malevolence too, and he is so right that is more traumatic than the tragedy. Dr. Bruce Lipton writes in The Biology of Belief that our every cell responds to and influences every other cell, some 72 trillion of them, and even more so, exchanges ions across the cell membrane, so that every cell is capable, at least hypothetically, of infinite energy exchange....eternal life.
do not let this bring you down, I've been there buddy. It's not worth thinking over, build yourself to be a better person than them and you'll become much more happier
@@invictus_They-Them_Nazi_Hunter Hurtful communication from your lover (possibly the person closest to your heart and mind) can be the most damaging form of abuse someone can endure. In this case, it wasn't actually from his lover, but he believed it to be, so the damage is done regardless. Your comment is hurtful and toxic, nothing else. Nothing good can be extracted from the words you've written abd you should be ashamed of posting this filth as a response to such a vulnerable and difficult experience shared by your fellow man. It simply goes to show how insecure and fragile of a person you are that you have to react so defensively to someone else's suffering. Grow up.
Few days ago i realised that my very first and all time best friend from my life was trying to break me psychologically, he twisted almost every conversation the way that it was driving me insane, and tried to ruin my relationships with my family and friends to turn their backs on me, i knew him 30 years and were in touch almost daily, all this changed my perspective to everything, the most horrible thing to realize was that the only human who i trusted more than anyone, same time tried to destroy me and my whole life, from now on only person who i trust is myself
To me this describes why the psychopathic bullying that happened to me as a child from both adults and children still affects me 25 years later. I’ve been ashamed of it my whole life. This describes to me why bullying should be taken more seriously by everyone and why victims should have access to recovery. It takes you apart. I have not recovered.
I hope you've been feeling better. Jordan Peterson also did a recent Q and A with someone who asked him about PTSD. th-cam.com/video/ZxkfwZScHHo/w-d-xo.html
Hi, Tegan. I'm so sorry. I have a version of this, for similar reasons. I, too, hope you're better. Have you considered checking into EMDR? It has an astonishing success rate.
Richard Grannon has an excellent CPTSD channel. He teaches a lot about building proper boundaries so that people who survived trauma can rebuild and move on to a healthier life.
@@ImEverythingYouCrave CPTSD is complex post traumatic stress. This happens from repeated emotional abuse or abandonment. Most CPTSD tends to be in early childhood abuse but can also happen from bullying or bad romantic relationships. CPTSD can be what causes the onset of most personality disorders.
Boundaries are extremely important but abusers don't respect them that is part of the abuse. A rapist won't take no for an answer and respect a persons boundaries it's the same thing. If courts won't enforce things like restraining orders well even legal boundaries are useless then. It's not usually the victims fault for not having boundaries I never had a problem saying no or I don't like that or don't do that etc. so I don't feel guilty for not having expressed myself just appalled for my concerns being ignored. Now I don't trust hardly anyone and probably never will those are my new boundaries and I'm fine with that I would rather be alone than mistreated that's the only logical reaction I can imagine.
Lol what boundaries can the average guy built when society thinks he has to be the perpetrator even when he gets abused, r*ped and so on, while women are seen as helpless victims even after they get caught?
I could never conceptualize that there are people in this world who are malevolent and actually enjoy hurting people. As a 4-year-old boy my dad took me down the basement, laid me on the pool table, and burned me with matches. At the time I never could understand it since he was my "dad" and I was just a little naive child. Long story short...I've succeeded in life quite well and Jordan has helped me to understand that there are malicious people in the world and the reason we need to be 100% aware and become a covert "monster" even though it has never been my personality. I now UNDERSTAND that there are people in our world who enjoy seeing others in pain. I understand now that my dad was a malicious man to do this to a little boy.
Tried to explain this revelation to some friends a few weeks ago, but I had not articulated my thoughts on it as well as JBP here. I tried to explain that even though one's aware that evil of acts varying and scary degrees occur in the world, you actually don't understand malevolence or how evil and malicious one can be until you are faced with it. 1st experience is sink or swim, you gotta role with the punches the moment they are thrown and out weave and bob and you WILL come away with scars and significant less trust in others. No one was able to relate at all, I wish them well on their encounter
I was in a high speed collision a few years ago, it really messed up my body and mind at the time, and I simply thought it was a tragedy, an accident. I found out during the legal proceedings that the guy driving the other car did it on purpose, treating the lives of my father and I as if they were dice he was betting on, it is a miracle I survived, but I won't forget the gruesome scene I witnessed that day. The fact that it was a conscious decision on the other drivers part added a whole other level to the trauma, absolutely terrified me knowing that it wasn't actually an accident, instead of fearing becoming the victim of another accident I came to fear becoming the victim of another person's intentions like we were that day, knowing then that some people can see the life of another as an opportunity for some entertainment, just a pawn in someone else's game. It ruined a good part of my life, but the life I have rebuilt out of those ruins I owe a lot to Dr. Peterson and people like him. I would still be a living dead nervous wreck if it wasn't for him.
Wow reading this brought me much insight. You are a strong soul to have overcome such an evil act. Many of us are innocent and in a way naive, I use to think everyone had good intentions because why would someone do to me something they wouldn’t want done to them, and now I’m in my 20s coming to the realization of reality that people can truly be intentionally cruel and malevolent. True evil exists, it can be our friends, strangers and or family. What I’ve struggled with is it being in my family. Id constantly ask myself how could my own family do such a thing and then I’d face my reality and tell myself they’re just not a person with good intentions and I’ve grown to avoid them as a result. But to have gone through what you have is a true testament of your strength.❤
@Posey Von Lang And why do you consider Peterson a con artist? He has all the diploma's someone useually needs to be considerd trust worthy and knowledgeable. And he is not an addict anymore, he kicked the dependency. The dependency of a drug he was prescripted by 'experts', and a drug that is still used alot for treatments. Now is it still not smart to just take a drug because an expert told you to take it, and Peterson would agree on that.
This is true. I did some terrible things and when I look back at it, only months ago, it makes me extremely sad knowing that I managed to get to a place where I could actually commit these atrocities. That realization is tough and coming to terms with what you've done is even harder, especially when it is to someone you deeply loved. It makes it even more twisted that it was not a stranger. However, I know I have learned, and still am learning, from it but it hasn't been easy at all.
@@lisbetsoda4874 One person I'm back to cool with as it was only a 1-time instance and we were both out our minds lol. The other person has said they forgive me and have no negative feelings towards what I did, however it was that cruel that I now hate myself quite a lot. It's getting better but it's literally caused a lifetime of pain and misery for someone emotionally. So I guess karma is giving me that burden as well haha
@@lisbetsoda4874 It's hard to make things right when you are a country apart now and that person doesn't want to hear from you, even though we speak (haven't in a month or 2 but if I contact, we speak). Out of respect, I try not to contac them even though I want to so I can help fix the things I damaged.
I watched this video before i was traumatized as well, and at that time i thought i was able to differentiate between good people and malicious people. I gathered a handful of people who i thought were among the best i had, and they worked together secretly to disrupt and hurt me. I actually started to understand school shooters. I still find them repulsive, but my experience made me think about doing such a thing. This scared me. You are so insightful mr Peterson
as a victim of child abuse and witnessing many other forms of abuse from my father, I really appreciate people like him who can articulate the way that someone like me can grow and can learn from those experiences. cheers to growth
@Vela S im starting to think this guy is a troll. i mean, look at his profile picture. who would choose this as their profile picture. and im not saying this to attack him, its just that the picture looks like bait for someone to keep arguing with him.
Sitting in my garage hiding while my bf has one of his narcissistic episodes & throwing things around in our house. I hide because if he finds me, he'll throw things at me & scream me down. I feel like the fool for trying to always see the good in him vs. the bad. 6yrs of being called a fool, stupid, & that I am nothing without him. I used to be something before i met him, but i don't remember that person anymore. I definitely am the fool.
My God! What depth of insight. That ranks him beside Jung in my opinion as an explainer of the dark side, how we connect with it, and how knowledge of it can liberate us to see both sides. To have such stuff within a few clicks on the internet . . . . do people have any concept of how lucky we are?
Joaquin Muñoz Ayarza well one of those thumb downs was mine. The west is safer now Trump is gone, and will be safer still when Peterson is stopped peddling his seditious rhetoric.
@@invictus_They-Them_Nazi_Hunter Before I discovered Peterson's lessons I would've simply let you know I think you come off stupid and sanctimonious, but now having realized my ignorance to some extent I actually hope things turn up for you sir. I was also irritable, angry and arrogant, but I hope things improve for you so you're not in such bitter and resentful suffering and no longer feel the need to go on poking holes in other people's passions just because you can't find joy yourself. God be with you
I've been watching peterson videos for like 5 years and only just made a realization he has been harping on about for so long but I never quite made the connection. Many people believe that the devil is not real but evidence points to the fact that the devil is very, very real - and until people truly integrate this into their belief system - i.e develop a theory of malevolence, when the reality strikes them across the face it will continue to cause un-necessary trauma. Because it's such an important part of reality that the brain is screaming at you to figure out what you did/have wrong in your perceptions system and FIX IT.
Jordan Peterson once somewhere said that he is ‘not that intellegent’ and plays himself down, but I believe that the betterment of the human species will come from people that are original thinkers, not necessarily high difficulty thinkers. Original thinkers are people with a certain insight that every person can learn from and not only extremely high intelligence individuals, yet they are the only ones with that certain insight that no one else comes up with and that we really needed. If you pay attention, it’s the combination of high intelligence/potence for highly difficulty in thinking and original thinking that makes a genius and a real philosopher. It’s not anyone who’s called the ‘socrates of our generation’. Some people are people you, anyone, can always learn from.
My aunt was the victim of malevolence at the hands of an state public official who removed from our home just to have her killed during her captivity. She was removed on a good Friday and returned back 55 days later in "terminal" then agonized for another 75 days. I am steel recovering from the trauma.
I think this is such an excellent video but I would take it a step further and say that even every day sin can be traumatic for people. I think this is why God lays out His Commandments and laws for life in the Bible. Because otherwise, people can so easily justify horrible sin when they don’t have a framework for moral living. For example, my dad walked out on my family when I was 12. He left my mother but emotionally pretty much left us children too (for his paralegal). He was so fixated on her, that he just couldn’t be there for us. He blew up everything that was important to us and everything that we had he raised to be. He essentially destroyed most of our family’s network of close friends (because people felt that they had to pick sides), and of course, extended family relations were different. I was so blown away by his actions because my brain had no capacity to fathom what had just happened. I just couldn’t process it. It was the worst form of terror and sadness that I had ever felt in my life. I didn’t even know such behavior was possible. So, even though he didn’t shoot up a classroom, essentially he shot the hearts of so many people - without any real empathy! He was also my best friend before he left. The sad this is is that even the most ordinary of human beings can commit such tragedy without a Godly, moral framework of right and wrong I believe. However, the silver lining to all of this is that through this trauma I found God. God taught me to not idolize another human, but to hold Him as first and foremost in my life!! I have forgiven my father and still have a relationship with him, but it was never the same as when he was in our family. And it took me so many years of therapy and searching (and finally finding) God to heal!!
I did encounter that as a naive teen. My ex-boyfriend was psychopathic. It took me a year to muster up the courage and break up with him, he just wouldn't let me go, so he'd manipulate me in ways I could never imagine. It's been 3 years now, I still can't get over it. I'M STILL TRAUMATIZED.
Happened to me at age 37. I was at a low point and a 30 year old girl picked me up and showed me I could be great. I was so hooked on her then she started doing unthinkable things to me. I suffered a stroke and she just laughed and blamed me. I moved city but never recovered. I have nightmares every night and wake up and literally shake. The whole thing was blamed on me and there can never be any justice. She was a malignant narsissist as far as I could tell.
Yep same thing happened to me I’ve watched all videos of Jordan Peterson on trauma and ptsd. I was in this class and met this girl who had a bunch of tricks up her sleeve…. She manipulated and harassed me in unimaginable and well put together ways. Just hearing her speak still haunts me. She was extroverted and some sort of narcissist or psychopath .Two years later I’m still suffering the daily emotional turmoil and potential ptsd. Oh well you can only move forward and hope for better days.
I was a victim to a man like this. Unfortunately, I am still struggling to recover and heal, now, five years later. Anthony was extremely abusive, physically and emotionally. He said he was abused as a child and grew up in a bad home....I was a 22 year old single mother when we started dating and I fell for every trap. Now I see all of the signs and how he used my naivety and low self worth against me. He quickly alienated me from my friends and family. He was possessive of me but told me how I was his soul mate. He helped my family and helped me or at least I thought he was doing it out of the kindness of his heart, but i was so wrong. He never felt remorse or even pity for me after he would punch me or kick me....and he would leave me lying on the bedroom floor for hours after he strangled me. It scares me knowing he is free in my community. I know what he is capable of.
Many people are so naive they dont seem to understand the difference between tragedy and malevolence. Tragedy is part of life. So is malevolence but it is unnecessary.
Today this girl I was talking to left me on read and then when we got to work, she completely switched up on me and was being cold and kind of mean to me. She also was blatantly flirting with every othe guy at my job, and bragging to my friend about leaving me on read and showing him the messages like it was fun for her to lead me on. She also told him she was talking to at least 10 other guys outside of work, and wondering which one she'd choose tonight. This is the same friend she straight up told she liked me a few days prior before I got her number. I now realize that everything was carefully manipulated. She acted so interested in me, we laughed together SO much like our humor matched perfectly, she was so nice to me, reciperocated everything, she must have even been watching who my close friends were, and told him that she liked me purposely so he'd tell me so I'd ask her out. Then she played a little game, left me out to dry, bragged to my friend (which she knew would tell me about her bragging, presumably to hurt me) and then IMMEDIATELY started flirting heavily with another guy and flirting with every other guy there in front of me. That is true malevolence. She literally just felt like manipulating me for no reason. I never did anything to her, I didn't pressure her or act clingy or anything (I'd admit if I did). I am very glad it lasted a very short period of time and I never had any intimacy with her before that. I should've listened when she told me she was crazy, and when my friend said she was flirting with everyone. I wanted to give her a chance. I will NOT let it make me vengeful or a coward. I prayed to God to forgive her and not punish her, I asked him to help me forgive her. I will not let it give me trust issues. I believe God showed me this but made it happen quickly so I wouldn't be destroyed, but so I would see that maybe my exes weren't so bad, maybe I don’t need to feel so bad about them. Maybe I'm not so bad either. And now I have more appreciation for actually nice girls, I am also stronger and wiser and will be more careful in the beginning, and be more capable of choosing courageously to trust someone rather than naively trusting them. It was a blessing in disguise. Thank you, God, and girl.
Although malevolence at a basic level is understandable, what’s a mystery is how it can be controlled in others. Even if you could crush an evil person, it’s even better to convert them to good and redeem them. If it’s possible to face one’s own potential for evil and choose an enlightened path of good, then it should be possible to change others. I believe it’s most difficult, and will require encouraging them. But, if at all possible, I’d like to utterly dominate this situation instead of leave evil to its own devices. Another question is understanding the desire for revenge against past malevolence. It can become so hellbent and captivating. It conflicts with the ideal of redemption. I believe it’s up to the choice of the victim whether their perpetrator should be punished. My personal mentality of idealism has made fighting the evil people in my life very hard for me. I strive for solutions of minimal sorrow and conflict for all since I know I have the strength to have options.
What he is describing here could also be referred to as pure yin energy in Taoists philosophy. Pure Chaos. Research into creativity has demonstrated that those referred to as Creative Geniuses excel during times of chaos. If fact, it is in the realm of chaos they do their best work.
Any suggestions on how to properly prepare for the death of a well constructed puppet? I'd expect ideally to shift perception slowly in a professionally managed and controlled environment. If that option is unavailable is there any insight on avoiding a rubber band reaction that seems, in this clips estimation, likely?
Ego deaths through psychedelics'. They will unlock and revel past trauma, for you to worth though. At the end of the day, if your built a house on a sand of lies, one storm is all it takes to wash that sand away, and the foundation with it. Better to do it yourself, before mother natures forces your hand.
... ... we're all monsters to varying degrees ... aggression is quite natural ... what Peterson really said was know that you are a monster ... don't act it out with impunity ... but that doesn't mean zero aggression, because that's impossible.
The title isn’t wrong. Literally all the worst things I’ve experienced have been because of malevolence of people and the real world after affects of what they will do to you. Also apathy and active disregard of you as a human being.
Trauma is the sacrifice of actual experiences into blindspots caused by a persistent lack of support to consciously manage emotional reactions and what's so. Jordan was traumatized by his parents' trauma- his mother's emotional unavailability and his father's emotional chaos. Jordan sacrificed truth and self-awareness for "that which is good" in an emotionally and developmentally threatening social hierarchy.
Even if you are not naive you can still by victimized by malevolence lots of people like to just ignore signs or are scared to leave an abuser especially if they are threatening your family etc. I'm about the last person anyone who knows me would have expected to be victimized so it can happen to anyone sometimes they target the strong independent types on purpose because they are like a bigger trophy to destroy. You would think they would target meak and mild types but not always.
As a lonely guy who has minimal to no interactions with girls, i just had a dream where i cuddled a girl so vividly and she rejected me harshly afterwards, so i'm here to find out abt my mini-trauma and capitalize on this curiosity while i can lol
I came very very close to that level of psychopathy. My parents divorced when I was still young and what replaced my father was an abusive man who did not care for me but also wished harm against me and did everything to make my life miserable. I had a plan. I fantasized inflicting every possible pain and torture I could imagine even if it meant I had do die for it. What saved me was my love for my friends. They were like beautiful blooming flowers when everything around me was burning hatred and Hell. I did not want them to remember me as a monster so i chose love over vengeance even when I had the opportunity to seize my bloody vengeance. The thoughts still haunt me to this day but I don't regret choosing to be a man over a monster.
Islam is full of teaching about malevolence i think what it's lack is the yoga practice in order to build my utopian individual cause at this point good people should be so tough mentally and physically
the medical profession poorly understand both the brain and how emotions actually work ... it's tied to the consciousness, mind and body problem, which is insanely difficult to comprehend ... I've been dealing with traumatic grief for twenty years and still discovering how much psychiatry poorly understands the grief response ... I would add that close contacts should realise that drinking alcohol is not a panacea ... and neither is professional medication for these issues ... alcohol is the most socially damaging drug on the planet.
“At least the psychopath has the sense to be self interested” Betrayal is often hard to truly see coming. Therefore, some ground rules for dealing with DEMONS, helps. There is pure evil in this world, many faiths have similar admonitions , this is fairly succinct; Prov 4:23-27 Keep your heart with all diligence, For out of it spring the issues of life. Put away from you a deceitful mouth, And put perverse lips far from you. Let your eyes look straight ahead, And your eyelids look right before you. Ponder the path of your feet, And let all your ways be established. Do not turn to the right or the left; Remove your foot from evil. Solomon, was a pretty smart fellow.
After some of my own life experiences where I’ve encountered to my own shock and horror what people can really be like. Not suspecting that that would be the case. I have to agree with this. The bible is a good source of information for these problems, but it doesn’t explain deeply about how to handle abuse.
Remember blessings i said that i gave fo myr husband word of God I had mentioned this earlier that whoever it is he made you and those who are in company made mistake to know and listen to them company of Dr Jordan B Peterson i know you don't have love for me it was your idea to take higher place i understand that is nature of devil he is doomed creature you get higher place as he wanted to be most High God all destruction only by obeying God you get blessings my mistake was to know you i made mistake God was sorry that He made man i always said i found grace love and husband in Dr Jordan B Peterson so you wanted to proof what i said was wrong you tried to change Bible do you hate me so much what I have done wrong to you i know i am alone no value for those who are orphan i am adopted child from Holy spirit i rejoice in lord what you will understand this 😭😭😭?
Objectively they are two different things by themselves. That's what I believe Jordan was elaborating on. They can have correlation between the two, but their individual definitions do not require one to be present first.
I don't understand why Jordan Peterson relies so heavily on Jung, Freud etc. They were great scientists but a lot has happened in psychology since their time. It appears that Peterson is completely unaware/ignorant of the work of Stephen Porges, Bessel van der Kolk, Peter Levine etc. which give a much deeper neurobiological explanation to trauma and PTSD, and also how to heal. These jungian and freudian models are outdated and imho shouldn't be used as main reference for PTSD.
the medical profession poorly understand both the brain and how emotions actually work ... it's tied to the consciousness, mind and body problem, which is insanely difficult to comprehend ... I've been dealing with traumatic grief for twenty years and still discovering how much psychiatry poorly understands the grief response ... I would add that close contacts should realise that drinking alcohol is not a panacea ... and neither is professional medication for these issues ... alcohol is the most socially damaging drug on the planet.
I'm Jordan Peterson. I've been studying authoritarian regimes for decades, and now that I've woken up in a borderline authoritarian Canada in 2020, I've begun reu-uploading 5 year old videos that have nothing to do with the current situation, instead of talking about it. New book coming out, so buy it!
When a person gets pleasure from hurting you on purpose just to watch you suffer, it's almost inconceivable as a good person to comprehend. I'm still reeling from an abusive relationship. I didn't know what she was doing to me until I got out of the relationship and looked back at the abuse I could not see while in the relationship. I was shocked beyond belief that I had let her abuse me for so long. I'll never fully recover, I'll think about what she did to me until the day I die. She will always be a part of me. I will cope with it though through the grace of God.
I hope you can rid your own self of that which does not belong. No need to listen to voices that can only haunt you. I hope you can establish a safe place for your soul (I recommend God) and for you to feel comfortable in your own skin. God bless.
Bro I understand exactly what you're saying it's like I'm in the same situation and I'm still in love with this girl to this day and all she does is throw at me vile and hateful rhetoric that when I see it because we're not even on speaking terms when I read it f****** kills me f****** hurts because I'm still in love with this.... And I'm actually thankful not for the tears no yes for the for everything for the joy the pain the hurt the sex oh my God the f****** sucks but I'm a degenerate I digress but I don't regret any of it because everything that I went through has brought me to the point that I am here today and that is having having God in my life I've always known my God I always believe in God but I never believed he was in my life now he's in my life I know he's in my life cuz I know now with faith. The love that I can't confess to this girl we'll stay with me forever and you shouldn't look at that for yourself as a bad thing but look at the positivity of it. Use it for your betterment bro.
@@Daniel_lee_prado_jc_Son I'm glad God had our backs throughout these types of relationships. I still think about her a lot, not as much as last month, but a lot. I try to use the power of prayer to control my thoughts when I think of her, I automatically say a Hail Mary in order to take my mind off of her. I'm trying to understand the concept of forgiveness in the most honest way I can. God is invaluable for this because Christ is forgiveness and the ultimate example of it. If Christ can forgive us, surely we can forgive awful girlfriends. I just read a great quote from the Book Of Mathew where Christ is addressing a crowd of people and says " if you expect God to forgive you of your sins you must forgive others who have sinned against you." That hit hard, but it has helped immensely. All the best, and God be with you.
I truly hope this man will be seen in the near future as someone like Socrates and many years from now, if not tomorrow, he gets the same notoriety and respect.
He speaks the same truths in today's language while admitting one's own faults in trying to find those truths.
I am truly thankful for the technical advancements of today or hearing him speak would or could not been done.
Thank you Dr. Peterson for your work and passionate devotion to family, God and the well being of others.
i feel emotionally attached to this man at this point. he has changed my way of thinking and acting. he made my daily life harder but more meaningful and helped me correct many of my flaws as a person. he is so precious and needed by this world.
Hes a fraud. He's peddling half truths and lies to sell books etc, just like a religious preacher.
@@georgetsoukalas1409 me too
@@invictus_They-Them_Nazi_Hunter then don't watch him
@@invictus_They-Them_Nazi_Hunter have fun in WOW playing against cartman and his friends
The fact that lectures like Jordan's gets this many views and more, gives me hope for our species.
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Malevolence is active and willful against you, you're specifically targetted... tragedy is life events that just happen - nice clarification. I'm getting quicker at not only spotting it coming but resisting, acting against or moving away from it. Evil on legs basically is what it is.
repent for your sins and believe the gospel of Christ
Steins;gate, is Mayuri's death Malevolence or Tragedy?
I was the victim of pure malevolence when my ex wife's boyfriend attacked me ruthlessly with texts from her phone, in her name... the things I heard and believed about her (and myself) were so traumatic that I've never been the same since. Fortunately for me, I was able to overcome and become a better person from it rather than a bitter person.... but the pain was overwhelming and a big part of me DIED and NEVER recovered after that. JBP is right on the money here. I could have survived the divorce, but the malevolent force of her psychopathic (now ex) boyfriend tortured my mind for years
Sorry to hear that man. Stay strong. All the best to you.
I hope you can recover from that: Dr. Peterson says, referring to Pinocchio, the part of us that dies is The Part that is Puppet. You seem to have mostly recovered, and if mostly, than a complete recovery is quite possible. I endured malevolence too, and he is so right that is more traumatic than the tragedy. Dr. Bruce Lipton writes in The Biology of Belief that our every cell responds to and influences every other cell, some 72 trillion of them, and even more so, exchanges ions across the cell membrane, so that every cell is capable, at least hypothetically, of infinite energy exchange....eternal life.
do not let this bring you down, I've been there buddy. It's not worth thinking over, build yourself to be a better person than them and you'll become much more happier
Thats just hurty words, snowflake
@@invictus_They-Them_Nazi_Hunter Hurtful communication from your lover (possibly the person closest to your heart and mind) can be the most damaging form of abuse someone can endure. In this case, it wasn't actually from his lover, but he believed it to be, so the damage is done regardless.
Your comment is hurtful and toxic, nothing else. Nothing good can be extracted from the words you've written abd you should be ashamed of posting this filth as a response to such a vulnerable and difficult experience shared by your fellow man. It simply goes to show how insecure and fragile of a person you are that you have to react so defensively to someone else's suffering. Grow up.
Few days ago i realised that my very first and all time best friend from my life was trying to break me psychologically, he twisted almost every conversation the way that it was driving me insane, and tried to ruin my relationships with my family and friends to turn their backs on me, i knew him 30 years and were in touch almost daily, all this changed my perspective to everything, the most horrible thing to realize was that the only human who i trusted more than anyone, same time tried to destroy me and my whole life, from now on only person who i trust is myself
To me this describes why the psychopathic bullying that happened to me as a child from both adults and children still affects me 25 years later. I’ve been ashamed of it my whole life. This describes to me why bullying should be taken more seriously by everyone and why victims should have access to recovery. It takes you apart. I have not recovered.
I hope you've been feeling better. Jordan Peterson also did a recent Q and A with someone who asked him about PTSD. th-cam.com/video/ZxkfwZScHHo/w-d-xo.html
@@ianyapxw Bless you for answering. I am in a better place, thank you.
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Hi, Tegan. I'm so sorry. I have a version of this, for similar reasons. I, too, hope you're better. Have you considered checking into EMDR? It has an astonishing success rate.
"a huge part of them are killed, and they often don't recover." so true
Richard Grannon has an excellent CPTSD channel. He teaches a lot about building proper boundaries so that people who survived trauma can rebuild and move on to a healthier life.
can you explain what cptsd is?
@@ImEverythingYouCrave CPTSD is complex post traumatic stress. This happens from repeated emotional abuse or abandonment. Most CPTSD tends to be in early childhood abuse but can also happen from bullying or bad romantic relationships. CPTSD can be what causes the onset of most personality disorders.
Boundaries are extremely important but abusers don't respect them that is part of the abuse. A rapist won't take no for an answer and respect a persons boundaries it's the same thing. If courts won't enforce things like restraining orders well even legal boundaries are useless then. It's not usually the victims fault for not having boundaries I never had a problem saying no or I don't like that or don't do that etc. so I don't feel guilty for not having expressed myself just appalled for my concerns being ignored. Now I don't trust hardly anyone and probably never will those are my new boundaries and I'm fine with that I would rather be alone than mistreated that's the only logical reaction I can imagine.
Lol what boundaries can the average guy built when society thinks he has to be the perpetrator even when he gets abused, r*ped and so on, while women are seen as helpless victims even after they get caught?
As someone who probably has it myself, I recommend the work of Pete Walker and Anna Runkle. Patrick Teehan is also respectable
Jordan Peterson is a MODERN day philosopher like Aristotle and Plato.
I could never conceptualize that there are people in this world who are malevolent and actually enjoy hurting people. As a 4-year-old boy my dad took me down the basement, laid me on the pool table, and burned me with matches. At the time I never could understand it since he was my "dad" and I was just a little naive child. Long story short...I've succeeded in life quite well and Jordan has helped me to understand that there are malicious people in the world and the reason we need to be 100% aware and become a covert "monster" even though it has never been my personality. I now UNDERSTAND that there are people in our world who enjoy seeing others in pain. I understand now that my dad was a malicious man to do this to a little boy.
Thanks for sharing your story.
Tried to explain this revelation to some friends a few weeks ago, but I had not articulated my thoughts on it as well as JBP here. I tried to explain that even though one's aware that evil of acts varying and scary degrees occur in the world, you actually don't understand malevolence or how evil and malicious one can be until you are faced with it. 1st experience is sink or swim, you gotta role with the punches the moment they are thrown and out weave and bob and you WILL come away with scars and significant less trust in others. No one was able to relate at all, I wish them well on their encounter
I was in a high speed collision a few years ago, it really messed up my body and mind at the time, and I simply thought it was a tragedy, an accident. I found out during the legal proceedings that the guy driving the other car did it on purpose, treating the lives of my father and I as if they were dice he was betting on, it is a miracle I survived, but I won't forget the gruesome scene I witnessed that day. The fact that it was a conscious decision on the other drivers part added a whole other level to the trauma, absolutely terrified me knowing that it wasn't actually an accident, instead of fearing becoming the victim of another accident I came to fear becoming the victim of another person's intentions like we were that day, knowing then that some people can see the life of another as an opportunity for some entertainment, just a pawn in someone else's game.
It ruined a good part of my life, but the life I have rebuilt out of those ruins I owe a lot to Dr. Peterson and people like him. I would still be a living dead nervous wreck if it wasn't for him.
Same here. Listening to him has helped me survive my experience. I don’t know where I would be now if it wasn’t for him.
Wow reading this brought me much insight. You are a strong soul to have overcome such an evil act. Many of us are innocent and in a way naive, I use to think everyone had good intentions because why would someone do to me something they wouldn’t want done to them, and now I’m in my 20s coming to the realization of reality that people can truly be intentionally cruel and malevolent. True evil exists, it can be our friends, strangers and or family. What I’ve struggled with is it being in my family. Id constantly ask myself how could my own family do such a thing and then I’d face my reality and tell myself they’re just not a person with good intentions and I’ve grown to avoid them as a result. But to have gone through what you have is a true testament of your strength.❤
WOW. less than 4 minutes just changed me more than 8 years in school 6 years in secondary & 4 years in college
Welcome to the Jordan Peterson experience. Every video you watch of his continues to deliver mind blowing insights time and time again I swear
Oh man, did you waste a lot of time.
@@ejthorson LoL been watching him for years but some of the stuff he comes up with/out with still blows my mind 🤯😁
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@Posey Von Lang And why do you consider Peterson a con artist? He has all the diploma's someone useually needs to be considerd trust worthy and knowledgeable. And he is not an addict anymore, he kicked the dependency. The dependency of a drug he was prescripted by 'experts', and a drug that is still used alot for treatments. Now is it still not smart to just take a drug because an expert told you to take it, and Peterson would agree on that.
This is true. I did some terrible things and when I look back at it, only months ago, it makes me extremely sad knowing that I managed to get to a place where I could actually commit these atrocities. That realization is tough and coming to terms with what you've done is even harder, especially when it is to someone you deeply loved. It makes it even more twisted that it was not a stranger. However, I know I have learned, and still am learning, from it but it hasn't been easy at all.
You need to ask for their forgiveness
Maybe you should strive for both. Only way you can do that is to become a better person
@@alwaysfaithfulalwaysforwar9400 y out can't just forgive yourself if you haven't tried to make things right. That is ridiculous.
@@lisbetsoda4874 One person I'm back to cool with as it was only a 1-time instance and we were both out our minds lol.
The other person has said they forgive me and have no negative feelings towards what I did, however it was that cruel that I now hate myself quite a lot. It's getting better but it's literally caused a lifetime of pain and misery for someone emotionally. So I guess karma is giving me that burden as well haha
@@lisbetsoda4874 It's hard to make things right when you are a country apart now and that person doesn't want to hear from you, even though we speak (haven't in a month or 2 but if I contact, we speak). Out of respect, I try not to contac them even though I want to so I can help fix the things I damaged.
Jordan, I love your content. Keep up the good work
I watched this video before i was traumatized as well, and at that time i thought i was able to differentiate between good people and malicious people. I gathered a handful of people who i thought were among the best i had, and they worked together secretly to disrupt and hurt me.
I actually started to understand school shooters. I still find them repulsive, but my experience made me think about doing such a thing. This scared me. You are so insightful mr Peterson
as a victim of child abuse and witnessing many other forms of abuse from my father, I really appreciate people like him who can articulate the way that someone like me can grow and can learn from those experiences. cheers to growth
malevolence is the greatest human tragedy.
I'm not sure malevolence should be brought down to the level of simple tragedy
Doctor Peterson should work as advisor to heads of state to address criminology research.
The guy cant even sort out his own life, lol.
@Vela S im starting to think this guy is a troll. i mean, look at his profile picture. who would choose this as their profile picture. and im not saying this to attack him, its just that the picture looks like bait for someone to keep arguing with him.
SURREY CROSSING have i said anything inaccurate?
Not when so many cops are either criminals themselves or apathetic to crime as seems to be the case.
I think the lecture Tragedy vs Evil is a great continuation on these ideas
Sitting in my garage hiding while my bf has one of his narcissistic episodes & throwing things around in our house. I hide because if he finds me, he'll throw things at me & scream me down. I feel like the fool for trying to always see the good in him vs. the bad. 6yrs of being called a fool, stupid, & that I am nothing without him. I used to be something before i met him, but i don't remember that person anymore. I definitely am the fool.
Welcome back Sir 🔥💎🙏🏽🙇🏻♂️
Such insight...
My God! What depth of insight. That ranks him beside Jung in my opinion as an explainer of the dark side, how we connect with it, and how knowledge of it can liberate us to see both sides. To have such stuff within a few clicks on the internet . . . . do people have any concept of how lucky we are?
The western world is at a chaotic moment right now... aproaching climax... keep your eyes open.
You don't say.
it might only be over the course of a long period of time, slowly, so that might be a lot more sinister lmao.
Joaquin Muñoz Ayarza well one of those thumb downs was mine. The west is safer now Trump is gone, and will be safer still when Peterson is stopped peddling his seditious rhetoric.
SURREY CROSSING make me!
@@invictus_They-Them_Nazi_Hunter Before I discovered Peterson's lessons I would've simply let you know I think you come off stupid and sanctimonious, but now having realized my ignorance to some extent I actually hope things turn up for you sir. I was also irritable, angry and arrogant, but I hope things improve for you so you're not in such bitter and resentful suffering and no longer feel the need to go on poking holes in other people's passions just because you can't find joy yourself. God be with you
I've been watching peterson videos for like 5 years and only just made a realization he has been harping on about for so long but I never quite made the connection. Many people believe that the devil is not real but evidence points to the fact that the devil is very, very real - and until people truly integrate this into their belief system - i.e develop a theory of malevolence, when the reality strikes them across the face it will continue to cause un-necessary trauma. Because it's such an important part of reality that the brain is screaming at you to figure out what you did/have wrong in your perceptions system and FIX IT.
Thank you Dr Peterson ...
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Jordan Peterson once somewhere said that he is ‘not that intellegent’ and plays himself down, but I believe that the betterment of the human species will come from people that are original thinkers, not necessarily high difficulty thinkers. Original thinkers are people with a certain insight that every person can learn from and not only extremely high intelligence individuals, yet they are the only ones with that certain insight that no one else comes up with and that we really needed. If you pay attention, it’s the combination of high intelligence/potence for highly difficulty in thinking and original thinking that makes a genius and a real philosopher. It’s not anyone who’s called the ‘socrates of our generation’. Some people are people you, anyone, can always learn from.
My aunt was the victim of malevolence at the hands of an state public official who removed from our home just to have her killed during her captivity. She was removed on a good Friday and returned back 55 days later in "terminal" then agonized for another 75 days. I am steel recovering from the trauma.
I think this is such an excellent video but I would take it a step further and say that even every day sin can be traumatic for people. I think this is why God lays out His Commandments and laws for life in the Bible. Because otherwise, people can so easily justify horrible sin when they don’t have a framework for moral living.
For example, my dad walked out on my family when I was 12. He left my mother but emotionally pretty much left us children too (for his paralegal). He was so fixated on her, that he just couldn’t be there for us. He blew up everything that was important to us and everything that we had he raised to be. He essentially destroyed most of our family’s network of close friends (because people felt that they had to pick sides), and of course, extended family relations were different. I was so blown away by his actions because my brain had no capacity to fathom what had just happened. I just couldn’t process it. It was the worst form of terror and sadness that I had ever felt in my life. I didn’t even know such behavior was possible. So, even though he didn’t shoot up a classroom, essentially he shot the hearts of so many people - without any real empathy! He was also my best friend before he left.
The sad this is is that even the most ordinary of human beings can commit such tragedy without a Godly, moral framework of right and wrong I believe.
However, the silver lining to all of this is that through this trauma I found God. God taught me to not idolize another human, but to hold Him as first and foremost in my life!!
I have forgiven my father and still have a relationship with him, but it was never the same as when he was in our family. And it took me so many years of therapy and searching (and finally finding) God to heal!!
woooow i can't stop watching this man 😭🔥
I did encounter that as a naive teen. My ex-boyfriend was psychopathic. It took me a year to muster up the courage and break up with him, he just wouldn't let me go, so he'd manipulate me in ways I could never imagine. It's been 3 years now, I still can't get over it. I'M STILL TRAUMATIZED.
Happened to me at age 37. I was at a low point and a 30 year old girl picked me up and showed me I could be great. I was so hooked on her then she started doing unthinkable things to me. I suffered a stroke and she just laughed and blamed me. I moved city but never recovered. I have nightmares every night and wake up and literally shake. The whole thing was blamed on me and there can never be any justice. She was a malignant narsissist as far as I could tell.
Yep same thing happened to me I’ve watched all videos of Jordan Peterson on trauma and ptsd. I was in this class and met this girl who had a bunch of tricks up her sleeve…. She manipulated and harassed me in unimaginable and well put together ways. Just hearing her speak still haunts me. She was extroverted and some sort of narcissist or psychopath .Two years later I’m still suffering the daily emotional turmoil and potential ptsd. Oh well you can only move forward and hope for better days.
Jordan, you’ve inspired me to actually start my own TH-cam channel
Thanks for the thoughts Doctor.
I’ve been meaning to watch Pinocchio.
You will definitely watch it with different eyes now.
@@lisbetsoda4874 lol yeah, he’s the one who got me interested in the first place.
Hahaha perfect tone lol
I was a victim to a man like this. Unfortunately, I am still struggling to recover and heal, now, five years later.
Anthony was extremely abusive, physically and emotionally. He said he was abused as a child and grew up in a bad home....I was a 22 year old single mother when we started dating and I fell for every trap. Now I see all of the signs and how he used my naivety and low self worth against me. He quickly alienated me from my friends and family. He was possessive of me but told me how I was his soul mate. He helped my family and helped me or at least I thought he was doing it out of the kindness of his heart, but i was so wrong. He never felt remorse or even pity for me after he would punch me or kick me....and he would leave me lying on the bedroom floor for hours after he strangled me. It scares me knowing he is free in my community. I know what he is capable of.
Many people are so naive they dont seem to understand the difference between tragedy and malevolence. Tragedy is part of life. So is malevolence but it is unnecessary.
I have no idea how someone who didnt go throught that can actualy understands what he is talking about.
Today this girl I was talking to left me on read and then when we got to work, she completely switched up on me and was being cold and kind of mean to me. She also was blatantly flirting with every othe guy at my job, and bragging to my friend about leaving me on read and showing him the messages like it was fun for her to lead me on. She also told him she was talking to at least 10 other guys outside of work, and wondering which one she'd choose tonight. This is the same friend she straight up told she liked me a few days prior before I got her number.
I now realize that everything was carefully manipulated. She acted so interested in me, we laughed together SO much like our humor matched perfectly, she was so nice to me, reciperocated everything, she must have even been watching who my close friends were, and told him that she liked me purposely so he'd tell me so I'd ask her out. Then she played a little game, left me out to dry, bragged to my friend (which she knew would tell me about her bragging, presumably to hurt me) and then IMMEDIATELY started flirting heavily with another guy and flirting with every other guy there in front of me.
That is true malevolence. She literally just felt like manipulating me for no reason. I never did anything to her, I didn't pressure her or act clingy or anything (I'd admit if I did).
I am very glad it lasted a very short period of time and I never had any intimacy with her before that. I should've listened when she told me she was crazy, and when my friend said she was flirting with everyone. I wanted to give her a chance.
I will NOT let it make me vengeful or a coward. I prayed to God to forgive her and not punish her, I asked him to help me forgive her. I will not let it give me trust issues. I believe God showed me this but made it happen quickly so I wouldn't be destroyed, but so I would see that maybe my exes weren't so bad, maybe I don’t need to feel so bad about them. Maybe I'm not so bad either. And now I have more appreciation for actually nice girls, I am also stronger and wiser and will be more careful in the beginning, and be more capable of choosing courageously to trust someone rather than naively trusting them.
It was a blessing in disguise. Thank you, God, and girl.
From which lecture is this clip taken?
Although malevolence at a basic level is understandable, what’s a mystery is how it can be controlled in others. Even if you could crush an evil person, it’s even better to convert them to good and redeem them. If it’s possible to face one’s own potential for evil and choose an enlightened path of good, then it should be possible to change others. I believe it’s most difficult, and will require encouraging them. But, if at all possible, I’d like to utterly dominate this situation instead of leave evil to its own devices.
Another question is understanding the desire for revenge against past malevolence. It can become so hellbent and captivating. It conflicts with the ideal of redemption. I believe it’s up to the choice of the victim whether their perpetrator should be punished. My personal mentality of idealism has made fighting the evil people in my life very hard for me. I strive for solutions of minimal sorrow and conflict for all since I know I have the strength to have options.
What he is describing here could also be referred to as pure yin energy in Taoists philosophy. Pure Chaos. Research into creativity has demonstrated that those referred to as Creative Geniuses excel during times of chaos. If fact, it is in the realm of chaos they do their best work.
@SURREY CROSSING thank you, what said is very deep and touches my heart.
I could never stop listening to this guy haha
I love this video
Any suggestions on how to properly prepare for the death of a well constructed puppet? I'd expect ideally to shift perception slowly in a professionally managed and controlled environment. If that option is unavailable is there any insight on avoiding a rubber band reaction that seems, in this clips estimation, likely?
Ego deaths through psychedelics'. They will unlock and revel past trauma, for you to worth though. At the end of the day, if your built a house on a sand of lies, one storm is all it takes to wash that sand away, and the foundation with it. Better to do it yourself, before mother natures forces your hand.
From which lecture is this?
Maps of Meaning either the last lecture or the one before the last.
A recent boss. Totally incompetent and was ultimately fired but malevolent towards me being his #2.
After dating a girl I got so hurt that I don't even wanna date another girl ever again. I'm scared ill make the same mistakes and get hurt again.
... ... we're all monsters to varying degrees ... aggression is quite natural ... what Peterson really said was know that you are a monster ... don't act it out with impunity ... but that doesn't mean zero aggression, because that's impossible.
On point here. Alcohol is quite a destroyer of the good things in life.
intense!!!
The title isn’t wrong. Literally all the worst things I’ve experienced have been because of malevolence of people and the real world after affects of what they will do to you. Also apathy and active disregard of you as a human being.
Trauma is the sacrifice of actual experiences into blindspots caused by a persistent lack of support to consciously manage emotional reactions and what's so.
Jordan was traumatized by his parents' trauma- his mother's emotional unavailability and his father's emotional chaos.
Jordan sacrificed truth and self-awareness for "that which is good" in an emotionally and developmentally threatening social hierarchy.
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Even if you are not naive you can still by victimized by malevolence lots of people like to just ignore signs or are scared to leave an abuser especially if they are threatening your family etc. I'm about the last person anyone who knows me would have expected to be victimized so it can happen to anyone sometimes they target the strong independent types on purpose because they are like a bigger trophy to destroy. You would think they would target meak and mild types but not always.
As a lonely guy who has minimal to no interactions with girls, i just had a dream where i cuddled a girl so vividly and she rejected me harshly afterwards, so i'm here to find out abt my mini-trauma and capitalize on this curiosity while i can lol
Source video?
A star
Where’s the original video for thus
I came very very close to that level of psychopathy. My parents divorced when I was still young and what replaced my father was an abusive man who did not care for me but also wished harm against me and did everything to make my life miserable.
I had a plan. I fantasized inflicting every possible pain and torture I could imagine even if it meant I had do die for it. What saved me was my love for my friends. They were like beautiful blooming flowers when everything around me was burning hatred and Hell. I did not want them to remember me as a monster so i chose love over vengeance even when I had the opportunity to seize my bloody vengeance. The thoughts still haunt me to this day but I don't regret choosing to be a man over a monster.
Islam is full of teaching about malevolence i think what it's lack is the yoga practice in order to build my utopian individual cause at this point good people should be so tough mentally and physically
the medical profession poorly understand both the brain and how emotions actually work ... it's tied to the consciousness, mind and body problem, which is insanely difficult to comprehend ... I've been dealing with traumatic grief for twenty years and still discovering how much psychiatry poorly understands the grief response ... I would add that close contacts should realise that drinking alcohol is not a panacea ... and neither is professional medication for these issues ... alcohol is the most socially damaging drug on the planet.
The craziest thing is many of them actually make careers out of their psychopathy.
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CHAOS - the place from which order emerges..... Pinochiho .... myths....
I think soldiers would qualify here in some sense
“At least the psychopath has the sense to be self interested”
Betrayal is often hard to truly see coming.
Therefore, some ground rules for dealing with DEMONS, helps. There is pure evil in this world, many faiths have similar admonitions , this is fairly succinct;
Prov 4:23-27
Keep your heart with all diligence,
For out of it spring the issues of life.
Put away from you a deceitful mouth,
And put perverse lips far from you.
Let your eyes look straight ahead,
And your eyelids look right before you.
Ponder the path of your feet,
And let all your ways be established.
Do not turn to the right or the left;
Remove your foot from evil.
Solomon, was a pretty smart fellow.
I really want to know who that one disliker against 700 likes is... he might blow up a train real soon
@SURREY CROSSING haha....exactly
Plot twist, it's your mom
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After some of my own life experiences where I’ve encountered to my own shock and horror what people can really be like. Not suspecting that that would be the case. I have to agree with this. The bible is a good source of information for these problems, but it doesn’t explain deeply about how to handle abuse.
Dead on. Encounters with evil.
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At least acknowledge it for what it really is don't minimize it.
Traumats traumatologya
I need to understand why you used a smiley with a rainbow pattern
Irrelevant
May be trying to represent joker as he can be seen in correlation with the content in the video
Peterson is clearly sending out gay subliminal messaging; why do you think he’s marketed himself to young men so hard?
Also I’m joking.
@Alfred Pennyworth who wasn’t a little gay for Peterson at some point?
Remember blessings i said that i gave fo myr husband word of God I had mentioned this earlier that whoever it is he made you and those who are in company made mistake to know and listen to them company of Dr Jordan B Peterson i know you don't have love for me it was your idea to take higher place i understand that is nature of devil he is doomed creature you get higher place as he wanted to be most High God all destruction only by obeying God you get blessings my mistake was to know you i made mistake God was sorry that He made man i always said i found grace love and husband in Dr Jordan B Peterson so you wanted to proof what i said was wrong you tried to change Bible do you hate me so much what I have done wrong to you i know i am alone no value for those who are orphan i am adopted child from Holy spirit i rejoice in lord what you will understand this 😭😭😭?
Ohno, JBP discovered youtube drama channels
TsAR
Malevolence causes tragedy, isn't that obvious without watching Disney's Pinnochio?
Objectively they are two different things by themselves. That's what I believe Jordan was elaborating on. They can have correlation between the two, but their individual definitions do not require one to be present first.
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repent for your sins and believe the gospel of Christ
step beyond psychopathy, sounded like bill gates
Is this the same like manupulatirs that deceive u. Like cover narcist. Friends that deceiving. Etc
I don't understand why Jordan Peterson relies so heavily on Jung, Freud etc. They were great scientists but a lot has happened in psychology since their time. It appears that Peterson is completely unaware/ignorant of the work of Stephen Porges, Bessel van der Kolk, Peter Levine etc. which give a much deeper neurobiological explanation to trauma and PTSD, and also how to heal.
These jungian and freudian models are outdated and imho shouldn't be used as main reference for PTSD.
... not entirely correct ... some types of therapy work better than others ... but none are a complete solution ...
the medical profession poorly understand both the brain and how emotions actually work ... it's tied to the consciousness, mind and body problem, which is insanely difficult to comprehend ... I've been dealing with traumatic grief for twenty years and still discovering how much psychiatry poorly understands the grief response ... I would add that close contacts should realise that drinking alcohol is not a panacea ... and neither is professional medication for these issues ... alcohol is the most socially damaging drug on the planet.
I'm Jordan Peterson. I've been studying authoritarian regimes for decades, and now that I've woken up in a borderline authoritarian Canada in 2020, I've begun reu-uploading 5 year old videos that have nothing to do with the current situation, instead of talking about it. New book coming out, so buy it!
Mind y'all own fucking business
This is Quasimodo in a nutshell.