"i want him to be with me" "who do you love the most? Emily or me?" lady you sound like you want your son as a hubby or something. I hate how horrible she treats the girlfriend
His mother is exactly like my ex mil. She would interfere in every aspect of his life. It became so bad we separated and would get back together. She would have a fit and reach out to his relatives trying to separate us again and he couldn’t handle the pressure she would put on him. He would leave again until I finally said I’m done. I had to go as far as blocking him. A few months later the police show up at my home to give me the news my husband committed suicide. My mother-in-law then had the audacity to tell the police that she was his next of kin and lied to the police officer. I never understood why she had to have him under her thumb and be her puppet. I always thought every parent should want their children happy and not miserable.
@@kimschultz9450 wow, that's sad. I hope his mother bear the guilt of his suicide. Seems she never wanted him to be happy. These women are sick in the head
She has a language barrier ffs. Not everything is going to come out with full clarity. Obviously she meant spending time with him. Some due dilligence please.
It's the same feeling I had when she asked him who does he love more,Emily or her🤢🤮🤮.. Been watching from ths beginning and seems like she's obsessed with her own son🤮🤮
This lady gives off some serious incest vibes 🤢 her obsession with her son and the anger towards her sons girlfriend is really disturbing. Shekeb will always be her son and he will always love his mom but the love you have for your mom & girlfriend is two different types of love. Shekeb if you love Emily like you say….take your girlfriend and RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND AS FAR AWAY AS POSSIBLE FROM THIS WOMAN AS YOU CAN 💯
The reason it didn’t work is because of her lack of patience… I married a mamas boy and made him mine in 9 months… women think that they are entitled to a man because of being romantically involved but a woman who gave birth to him feels like she has more of a right. You have to beat that psychology… and most women have too much of an ego to beat it 🤷🏻♀️ but tbh he needs to walk away from both of them!
This was my life for 4 years i married a man that had a mom that was obsessed with him, lived in our house, and tried everything to ruin our marriage (she would literally get jealous whenever we spent time together), finally i gave him an ultimatium and said either we move out or she moves out….he told me his mom wouldn’t go anywhere and that i could leave. So i packed my bags and never looked back. We divorced and it was the best decision i ever made in my life
The mother seems to be using emotional blackmail against her son but he needs to be firmer with her if he wants his relationship to last. A person can only take so many punches
His mom wouldn’t love any girl no matter how perfect she was or could be for her son. She has an unhealthy attachment to her son. I think she’s scared to lose him, and is making any excuse to hate Emily. His mom needs therapy because there’s issues there that go deeper than what she is presenting on the surface. I am a mother myself and as sad as I am about letting my child go, I know that I must and I would never interfere and get in the way of them being happy.
She doesn't like Emily because she's not Afghan. The mother wants him to marry a Afghani woman. He's already been married to a Afghani woman that his mother picked out. In another episode the mom actually ambushed her son with a blind date with a Afghani woman in front of his girlfriend. 😣
@@KP-vg3zn so he already married an Afghan woman the mother chose and it didn't work out. Seems like the mother doesn't know what's good for the son. She's manipulative, controlling, selfish and wicked because every child need to leave the nest and make a lile for themselves
If these women want grandchildren someday, they better let their sons be with their girlfriends. Because guess what, it takes two unrelated people to make a healthy baby. Your son needs his woman to give you the grandbaby that you will love.
Shekeeb’s mom is OFF the hook! She’s crossing the boundaries of mother and son. He is your son not your man! You need to get someone who will take you out for Valentine’s Day and sleep with you! It’s not who do you love the most, it’s two different relationships crazy woman!!! Emily, if Shekeeb can’t stand up to his mom then you need to decide if this relationship is for you. His mom is ridiculous. She crosses boundaries and it’s freaking weird. And why can’t Shekeeb have a boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship with Emily and have a mother/son relationship with looney Laila. She needs counseling she’s getting her role in her son’s life twisted.
My moms like this, when she tries to sound depressed upset with puppy dog eyes it used to hurt me so much to ignore her. Then one day I thought bitch wtf, you have a whole ass husband to confide in. It's only funny now.
the reason she is demanding and tells him what to do as a grown adult man is because he obeys every little thing she says and allows her to walk all over him and run his life
I think this particular episode tells everything. The Mother loves her son in an insectious manner. She won't even bear to see him sleep with another girl. It's disgusting that some women do this to their son
The mom is weird as hell but she's clearly old school and probably wanted her son to marry someone from the same back grounds. The comment on the way she dressed and what type of girl she thinks she is pretty much summed it up for me. Just an opinion.
She can’t handle sharing his baby with another girl. She has to be the most important and most loved. She always has to make it a competition. Honestly if my mom were like this I would just murder people. Sorry to be blunt. But How can someone be that controlling and disgusting? She doesn’t think about the well-being of his son!! She just thinks about hers !!!! Putting her son into such difficult difficult situations. This is called love? Wtf? Omfg I feel so angry watching all these ridiculous and disrespectful moms
He’s a grown man asking his mother for permission to have dinner with his girlfriend and his mom says “no” and he’s like aw man okay guess we can’t go bc my mommy said so, also they’ve been together for two years and he’s just now saying he loves her to HIS MOM not even to her omfg
This was me and my mum when I turned 20 I left. She'd be obsessed with me not wanting me to leave and using emotional manipulation throughout all my life. If I fail in something it may hurt her that's what she used to say. It took me years to finally break free and after some anxiety attacks and ER visits I now can say I don't give up shiiii about her and I'm happily married with a man who also left his toxic family behind.
The mom at the end of this video is a narcissist. Her behavior will not get better after marriage and the fact that the son is not protecting his girlfriend is also strange. Almost seems like he low key enjoys this. He may be a narcissist too. RUN.
Eww, even if I loved my bf with all my heart, if I found out he’s a typical mamas boy like this giant man baby over here, I’m breaking up with him before he can say ‘’mama’. Good riddance. 🤮🤮🤮🤮
Oh my word , I cannot believe how selfish this mother is being , he found love , leave him be & support them , i as a mother to a a adult son would never do that to him 🤦🏽♀️
I would have given up a long time ago trying to get her respect and approval. If she doesn’t give it then she doesn’t deserve it. Girl give her back the same attitude as she does to you. Shakeb needs to grow some balls and stand up for you and himself! This mother is beyond crazy!!
I personally don’t feel like he values his relationship with Emily! She deserves a man who will set boundaries with his mother. His mom have no actual purpose of why she don’t like Emily and it’s so bothering bc he likes that tension btw them too! He’s not a real man he is still a boy! A real man set those boundaries and put his woman first especially if marriage is in the picture a boy will allow anything to come between anything good bc they like the fact that someone is fighting over him. It’s sad and I know Emily wants to be with him but isn’t she too not torn of leaving or stay. I feel for her. Bc her moms wants her to marry a Korean but yet she stills respect and accept that her daughter wants to marry a different culture. SMH
This Mom needs intensive therapy. “I want him so bad to be with me” then, oops, to have a good time 🤢 they either are paying them a heap load of money or get out of there, No man is worth this bullying and harassment.
This is emotional incest. The mother probably shaped him into the man she wishes her partner could be and turned her son into her dream man. That means that any woman regardless of dating or just friends, she will see as competition.
I feel like Emily is a great girl she seems outgoing and friendly I feel bad for her because she is trying her best to please his mother but his mom is just so stubborn and he just listen to his mother and doesn’t make his own decisions the mom is so controlling I get that she want him to marry there own ethnicity but I think she should give Emily a fair chance because you don’t know if something is going to be good/bad if you don’t give it a chance also I hope Emily and the mom will work things out and come to love each other and bond together 👍🏻
She’s actually being controlling like how can you tell your adult son that he can’t be alone with his girlfriend. Just jealousy at its finest smh 🤦🏽♀️
Coming from a culture of arranged marriages, this is one of the glaring problems with being fixed to marry an incompatible or indifferent person. Lots of women like these sadly. Husband doesn't care/is indifferent/ doesn't show affection. The wife who has so much love & attention to give channels it to the nearest man she can get which is almost always her son & gets threatened by what she perceives as competitors. A tale as old as time. Keep an eye open if the guy is an only son or only child. In most cases you'll be fighting & competing with his mother.
I agree. But to an extent. Yes, cultures where arranged marriages are prevalent will have some, or many, women, that if their specific husbands are indifferent, they may throw all of their attention & affections toward their children, especially their sons. But Laila is disgusting & sick mentally in a way that seems beyond neglect from a husband from an arranged marriage. She comes across as a Queen Jezebel who even if she has had a doting husband who adores her to the point of not caring about his own needs being met, it still will not be enough for her. I do not know what her childhood trauma looks like. Whether she was overly indulged or overly neglected or a combination of the two. Or if she learned to behave in this deplorable manner from her own mother/father/grandparents/guardians,etc.--- But wherever her level of mental & emotional unwellness stems from, that causes her to constantly feel a need to assert herself in a way that violates her son's autonomy, disrespect his significant other & comes across as beyond just emotional incest, she needs therapy. But unfortunately, people like her rarely get the help they need. They tend to be in denial that they are even the problem at all. Those they gradually destroy over time are the ones that tend to seek counseling/coaching to heal from the trauma, before they ever do. She comes across as an OVERT, Malignant Narcissist who has NPD. Laila is happiest when she feels like she is being worshipped, adored & obeyed by those she chooses to indulge her. Anything less than what she deems as optimal praise of her is met with child-like tantrums & emotional manipulation. Whether Shekeb marries Emily or not, he needs to cut the invisible umbilical chord & break free from the trauma bonding with Laila. Laila is too parasitic & will only bring more harm than good at this point. Whether he is single or not, he needs to break free from her for HIMSELF FIRST, before he can truly be in a healthy romantic relationship. Shekeb MUST learn to set boundaries with his selfish mother. And Emily may have to prepare to let go of him if he is unable to do this in a CONSISTENTLY. It will not be easy for Laila's toxic fangs & talons are deeply sunken into him. He may have to love his mother from afar & avoid her altogether.
@@undaunted1065 She definitely needs help. One sees the "mother in love with her son", "the meddlesome/controlling big sister" (how Tammy controls Asuelu & has her mother under her thumb) & "father who can't let go of his daughter"(this one is rare but present) tropes to some extent in South Asian communities
His mother is never going to let him make his own choices. She wants to choose who he dates and marry. When that happens she will find something wrong with the woman she chooses for him. His best bet is to elope with his girlfriend he loves, change his phone number, set boundaries with his mother and move as far as possible from his controlling, manipulating mother.
His mom acts so weird and 🤮. He's gonna be alone forever due to his mom. She mind as well marry her own son so she can be with him forever. This is just weird 😕
Whether it's I Love A Mama's Boy or Smothered, these shows depict different levels of emotional incest. Because mothers can be emotionally Incestuous with their daughters as well; in both subtle, covert ways & overt ways. Laila is the worst case on these shows that I have ever seen. A lot of these son's AND daughters need therapy. These toxic mothers need therapy as well, but unfortunately most probably won't see it that way. Considering oneself a good, loving parent, but being unable or unwilling to let one's children learn the importance of setting HEALTHY boundaries with NOT just others, but with oneself as the parent also, is setting them up for emotional, mental, etc. problems.
My boyfriends mom is like this, luckily my Boyfriend always puts her in her place so it’s never gotten this bad. But it probably would if he gave into her bs lol
There is nobody who loves their son more than i do. However, the very definition of love is letting go and trusting you raised them to make the right decisions! Its selfish in every way and love is not in it.
Lila is a horrible mother!!! Any mother who actually loves her children would not be the reason your son ends up alone forever!! And I really hope he does end up old, alone and miserable!!!
He needs therapy because he feels guilty when he tells his mother "no". His mother needs therapy because she doesn't know how to allow her son to be a man. She treats her son like a little boy.
This woman is so friggin selfish!!! Does she not realize she's 62! She doesn't have that many years ahead of her and it's time her son deserves to be happy with someone! He already should of been out of his parents home by now. Would she rather lose her son right before she dies?! Such an evil narcissistic selfish woman!
"i want him to be with me" "who do you love the most? Emily or me?" lady you sound like you want your son as a hubby or something. I hate how horrible she treats the girlfriend
she is so needy and mean .
Definitely emotional incest
His mother is exactly like my ex mil. She would interfere in every aspect of his life. It became so bad we separated and would get back together. She would have a fit and reach out to his relatives trying to separate us again and he couldn’t handle the pressure she would put on him. He would leave again until I finally said I’m done. I had to go as far as blocking him. A few months later the police show up at my home to give me the news my husband committed suicide. My mother-in-law then had the audacity to tell the police that she was his next of kin and lied to the police officer. I never understood why she had to have him under her thumb and be her puppet. I always thought every parent should want their children happy and not miserable.
She probably hasn’t gotten any in years!!
@@kimschultz9450 wow, that's sad. I hope his mother bear the guilt of his suicide. Seems she never wanted him to be happy. These women are sick in the head
NEVER in a million years would I let my mom speak to my girlfriend that way.
She's so disrespectful
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
When will I find a guy like you..
Mom has zero class
I doubt your mom would speak to your gf that way
"i want him so badly to be with me" lady he's your god damn son 🤢
Right, that scared me 🤮🤢
🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
She has a language barrier ffs. Not everything is going to come out with full clarity. Obviously she meant spending time with him. Some due dilligence please.
It's the same feeling I had when she asked him who does he love more,Emily or her🤢🤮🤮..
Been watching from ths beginning and seems like she's obsessed with her own son🤮🤮
right omfg weirdooo🤮🤮🤮
This mom feels like she is in a competition with the son’s girlfriend.🤦🏽♂️, she needs therapy😭
And a man cause she needs someone not her son in that way a
Someone better get her therapy because she needs it and I was shocked when she said who do you who love the most
I have a feeling he’s lost so many relationships because of his mom and his inability to be firm.
He is a divorced man... I believe his wife left him b/c of the mom.
Duh!! You think!
Agree. He is weak. Emily should have dumped him and not taken him back.
The way he lets his mother talk to her like that is disgusting. He never defends Emily. If I were her, I would have been gone long ago.
This lady gives off some serious incest vibes 🤢 her obsession with her son and the anger towards her sons girlfriend is really disturbing. Shekeb will always be her son and he will always love his mom but the love you have for your mom & girlfriend is two different types of love. Shekeb if you love Emily like you say….take your girlfriend and RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND AS FAR AWAY AS POSSIBLE FROM THIS WOMAN AS YOU CAN 💯
This actually normal in afghan family lol if she was a afghan girl she would it got beat up and killed . That happens often in Afghanistan
@@sayedansari8882 oh sheesh
@@sayedansari8882 yeah.. I was called a bitch and selfish for calling my mama's boy of a bf out for their incestuous relationship
@@sayedansari8882 that’s barbaric.
I agree
i need this girl’s patience😂
I wouldn't be able to deal.
i’m dating a former mamas boy and trust me we literally almost broke up twice because of her lol
I'm dating a fathers boy for 5 years its terrible
The reason it didn’t work is because of her lack of patience… I married a mamas boy and made him mine in 9 months… women think that they are entitled to a man because of being romantically involved but a woman who gave birth to him feels like she has more of a right. You have to beat that psychology… and most women have too much of an ego to beat it 🤷🏻♀️ but tbh he needs to walk away from both of them!
Mom is disgusting. Yuckkk 🤮🤢🤢🤢🤢
This is a weird relationship the mother needs to get a life she’s acting like if her son is more than a son to her
It is common in a family that the role of "father" is missing or the father is not a good father. I really hate this kind of mom.
@@bbkailau the father here is super passive and quiet!
Emily deserves an award for her composure.
This was my life for 4 years i married a man that had a mom that was obsessed with him, lived in our house, and tried everything to ruin our marriage (she would literally get jealous whenever we spent time together), finally i gave him an ultimatium and said either we move out or she moves out….he told me his mom wouldn’t go anywhere and that i could leave. So i packed my bags and never looked back. We divorced and it was the best decision i ever made in my life
👏👏👏
Did he ever regret it ?
Well done!!
Although it's unlikely I'm still hoping Emily leaves him. She could definitely do so much better in every way
I thought she already left him 😭😭
@@alex_00g44 they broke up and got back together.
@@jenniwalker9180 do u know their social media’s?
@@jasminesanchez4890 no sorry
@@jenniwalker9180 what please say ur joking please
“ who do you love most Emily or me “ smh she has formulated a terrible connection to her son in her sick mind 🤢
Witnessing this just increased my stress levels. Imagine living everyday like this, as Emily.
His mother is freaking me out so bad rn. 😬😬
The mother seems to be using emotional blackmail against her son but he needs to be firmer with her if he wants his relationship to last. A person can only take so many punches
Isn't the mom like dying from an illness tho??? Cause that would make sense why she's acting like this.....idk can someone confirm this ¯\_ಠ_ಠ_/¯
My bf should join this show lol
Leave my mom out of this
Sign him up and make some money
No you should leave him cause I’m laughing at you rn
Mine too smh 🤮
Same 🤣
Why would you be angry that your son is in love? Surely that’s something you should want for your child. She needs to go to therapy ASAP
You don't love a parent the same way you love your partner. This mother is sick. Ewww.
You can say that again my love
His mom wouldn’t love any girl no matter how perfect she was or could be for her son. She has an unhealthy attachment to her son. I think she’s scared to lose him, and is making any excuse to hate Emily. His mom needs therapy because there’s issues there that go deeper than what she is presenting on the surface. I am a mother myself and as sad as I am about letting my child go, I know that I must and I would never interfere and get in the way of them being happy.
She doesn't like Emily because she's not Afghan. The mother wants him to marry a Afghani woman. He's already been married to a Afghani woman that his mother picked out. In another episode the mom actually ambushed her son with a blind date with a Afghani woman in front of his girlfriend. 😣
@@KP-vg3zn so he already married an Afghan woman the mother chose and it didn't work out. Seems like the mother doesn't know what's good for the son. She's manipulative, controlling, selfish and wicked because every child need to leave the nest and make a lile for themselves
If these women want grandchildren someday, they better let their sons be with their girlfriends. Because guess what, it takes two unrelated people to make a healthy baby. Your son needs his woman to give you the grandbaby that you will love.
I would have ran. That mom is crazy
Shekeeb’s mom is OFF the hook! She’s crossing the boundaries of mother and son. He is your son not your man! You need to get someone who will take you out for Valentine’s Day and sleep with you! It’s not who do you love the most, it’s two different relationships crazy woman!!!
Emily, if Shekeeb can’t stand up to his mom then you need to decide if this relationship is for you. His mom is ridiculous. She crosses boundaries and it’s freaking weird. And why can’t Shekeeb have a boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship with Emily and have a mother/son relationship with looney Laila. She needs counseling she’s getting her role in her son’s life twisted.
Run Emily Run!
You can do way better
He is too attached to his mother.....and it shows. Emily should dump him and let him live his life with his mother.....
Is this for real?are they for real? They are so proud to show the world this?
My moms like this, when she tries to sound depressed upset with puppy dog eyes it used to hurt me so much to ignore her. Then one day I thought bitch wtf, you have a whole ass husband to confide in. It's only funny now.
Haha thank God you can stand up to her now& know she's only doing that to try making you feel guilty
I want him so badly to be with me…. Sick.
the reason she is demanding and tells him what to do as a grown adult man is because he obeys every little thing she says and allows her to walk all over him and run his life
I think this particular episode tells everything. The Mother loves her son in an insectious manner. She won't even bear to see him sleep with another girl. It's disgusting that some women do this to their son
The mom is weird as hell but she's clearly old school and probably wanted her son to marry someone from the same back grounds. The comment on the way she dressed and what type of girl she thinks she is pretty much summed it up for me.
Just an opinion.
still has no justification for this behavior. this is emotional incest
You are correct on that she wants that, but he already married and divorced a woman she had chosen for him
@@kennedyhaack7971 absolutely, But it's her only child. Again not trying to justify her actions but that's the vibe I get from her. Very controlling
@@novemberlove2438 going to assume that's another reason why she hates his current girlfriend.
Nothing wrong with being termed as a "Mama's Boy" for taking care & respecting your mom's opinion! But this is extreme!!!
This woman is as crazy as it gets.
Ewww,the mother needs to get a life
She can’t handle sharing his baby with another girl. She has to be the most important and most loved. She always has to make it a competition. Honestly if my mom were like this I would just murder people. Sorry to be blunt. But How can someone be that controlling and disgusting? She doesn’t think about the well-being of his son!! She just thinks about hers !!!! Putting her son into such difficult difficult situations. This is called love? Wtf? Omfg I feel so angry watching all these ridiculous and disrespectful moms
He’s a grown man asking his mother for permission to have dinner with his girlfriend and his mom says “no” and he’s like aw man okay guess we can’t go bc my mommy said so, also they’ve been together for two years and he’s just now saying he loves her to HIS MOM not even to her omfg
This was me and my mum when I turned 20 I left. She'd be obsessed with me not wanting me to leave and using emotional manipulation throughout all my life. If I fail in something it may hurt her that's what she used to say. It took me years to finally break free and after some anxiety attacks and ER visits I now can say I don't give up shiiii about her and I'm happily married with a man who also left his toxic family behind.
The mom at the end of this video is a narcissist. Her behavior will not get better after marriage and the fact that the son is not protecting his girlfriend is also strange. Almost seems like he low key enjoys this. He may be a narcissist too. RUN.
This mom is too much, those eyes he get when he talk about Emily. MOM IS TO CONTROLLING
Eww, even if I loved my bf with all my heart, if I found out he’s a typical mamas boy like this giant man baby over here, I’m breaking up with him before he can say ‘’mama’. Good riddance. 🤮🤮🤮🤮
Oh my word , I cannot believe how selfish this mother is being , he found love , leave him be & support them , i as a mother to a a adult son would never do that to him 🤦🏽♀️
This isnt healthy. These mothers all need therapy. Being this protective isn't fkn normal.
Wish I were as calm as Emily, she must really love him a lot to put up with that.
I would have given up a long time ago trying to get her respect and approval. If she doesn’t give it then she doesn’t deserve it. Girl give her back the same attitude as she does to you. Shakeb needs to grow some balls and stand up for you and himself! This mother is beyond crazy!!
I think they love the circle they are in.
Emily run, run, run and never look back!! He will never ever put you first ever!!! If he can’t take your side ever then he never will!!
Family always come first mom always going to be number one
I personally don’t feel like he values his relationship with Emily! She deserves a man who will set boundaries with his mother. His mom have no actual purpose of why she don’t like Emily and it’s so bothering bc he likes that tension btw them too! He’s not a real man he is still a boy! A real man set those boundaries and put his woman first especially if marriage is in the picture a boy will allow anything to come between anything good bc they like the fact that someone is fighting over him. It’s sad and I know Emily wants to be with him but isn’t she too not torn of leaving or stay. I feel for her. Bc her moms wants her to marry a Korean but yet she stills respect and accept that her daughter wants to marry a different culture. SMH
“Be with me”…. That just says it all
I married a mama's boy and ruined my life worst decision ever. Please think 1000 times before choosing a life partner
" I don't like the way you came in public.. You show your body.." WTF IS WRONG WITH THIS LADY😂😂😭😭
Emily is beautiful! She can get whoever she wants. Don’t waste your time with this woman or man that doesn’t stand up for you. It’s ridiculous.
Significant mother
This made me laugh out loud
This Mom needs intensive therapy. “I want him so bad to be with me” then, oops, to have a good time 🤢 they either are paying them a heap load of money or get out of there, No man is worth this bullying and harassment.
Must be nice to have two people fighting over you.
That was the quietest “THE FEELINGS MUTUAL” ever. I hope Emily marries him and has kids and that the mom feels abandoned.
This is emotional incest. The mother probably shaped him into the man she wishes her partner could be and turned her son into her dream man. That means that any woman regardless of dating or just friends, she will see as competition.
Controlling parents are so annoying
A mother to ask.. "who do you love the most?" needs intensive therapy.
Mum if you loved your son gave his happiness dont be selfish....
She's using her son as a substitute husband and that's not only sad but sickening. 🥴🤦🏾♀️
Emily it’s not too late to run! Go on a second date, find a real man that will choose you for you ❤️ poor sis you can tell she feels so miserable 😔 🥺🤧
I would never ever put up with this situation...no way!
The mom is acting like the girlfriend is the one that’s crashing their date
This is unbeleivable !
First time watching this show. IM SOOO GLAD MY MOTHER IN LAW IS FAR SO AWAYYYY lord poor girl how did she deal with this crazy woman 😔
I feel like Emily is a great girl she seems outgoing and friendly I feel bad for her because she is trying her best to please his mother but his mom is just so stubborn and he just listen to his mother and doesn’t make his own decisions the mom is so controlling I get that she want him to marry there own ethnicity but I think she should give Emily a fair chance because you don’t know if something is going to be good/bad if you don’t give it a chance also I hope Emily and the mom will work things out and come to love each other and bond together 👍🏻
He is your son....not your fekn life partner !!!!
The way he’s dangling at the end 😂
The mom is obviously so jealous of Emily, she’s so pretty and the mom is so mean
She’s actually being controlling like how can you tell your adult son that he can’t be alone with his girlfriend. Just jealousy at its finest smh 🤦🏽♀️
It very True. They need Some Space without his mom.
Coming from a culture of arranged marriages, this is one of the glaring problems with being fixed to marry an incompatible or indifferent person.
Lots of women like these sadly. Husband doesn't care/is indifferent/ doesn't show affection. The wife who has so much love & attention to give channels it to the nearest man she can get which is almost always her son & gets threatened by what she perceives as competitors. A tale as old as time.
Keep an eye open if the guy is an only son or only child. In most cases you'll be fighting & competing with his mother.
I agree. But to an extent.
Yes, cultures where arranged marriages are prevalent will have some, or many, women, that if their specific husbands are indifferent, they may throw all of their attention & affections toward their children, especially their sons.
But Laila is disgusting & sick mentally in a way that seems beyond neglect from a husband from an arranged marriage. She comes across as a Queen Jezebel who even if she has had a doting husband who adores her to the point of not caring about his own needs being met, it still will not be enough for her.
I do not know what her childhood trauma looks like. Whether she was overly indulged or overly neglected or a combination of the two. Or if she learned to behave in this deplorable manner from her own mother/father/grandparents/guardians,etc.---
But wherever her level of mental & emotional unwellness stems from, that causes her to constantly feel a need to assert herself in a way that violates her son's autonomy, disrespect his significant other & comes across as beyond just emotional incest, she needs therapy.
But unfortunately, people like her rarely get the help they need. They tend to be in denial that they are even the problem at all. Those they gradually destroy over time are the ones that tend to seek counseling/coaching to heal from the trauma, before they ever do.
She comes across as an OVERT, Malignant Narcissist who has NPD.
Laila is happiest when she feels like she is being worshipped, adored & obeyed by those she chooses to indulge her. Anything less than what she deems as optimal praise of her is met with child-like tantrums & emotional manipulation. Whether Shekeb marries Emily or not, he needs to cut the invisible umbilical chord & break free from the trauma bonding with Laila.
Laila is too parasitic & will only bring more harm than good at this point. Whether he is single or not, he needs to break free from her for HIMSELF FIRST, before he can truly be in a healthy romantic relationship. Shekeb MUST learn to set boundaries with his selfish mother. And Emily may have to prepare to let go of him if he is unable to do this in a CONSISTENTLY. It will not be easy for Laila's toxic fangs & talons are deeply sunken into him. He may have to love his mother from afar & avoid her altogether.
@@undaunted1065 She definitely needs help.
One sees the "mother in love with her son", "the meddlesome/controlling big sister" (how Tammy controls Asuelu & has her mother under her thumb) & "father who can't let go of his daughter"(this one is rare but present) tropes to some extent in South Asian communities
literally. ive seen this happen so many times to so many relatives :((
Is this scripted? This is over the top ridiculous to be reality
All Indian men are like this and they take pride in being a mama's boy
Does she wanna merry her son?🤮
0:55 That mom is very selfish! Valentine's Day is for COUPLES! She can have dinner with her son any other day! But, that day is for COUPLES only!
as a mom, i would just want my son to be with a good person. The mom is so weird and mean.
His mother is never going to let him make his own choices. She wants to choose who he dates and marry. When that happens she will find something wrong with the woman she chooses for him. His best bet is to elope with his girlfriend he loves, change his phone number, set boundaries with his mother and move as far as possible from his controlling, manipulating mother.
Why doesn’t he stand up for his girlfriend and just walk out if the mom won’t respect his relationship?
Toxic...
I would have run away from her long long ago if I am related that mother 😀.
Girl just ruunnnnn.. because that guy is spineless.
His mom acts so weird and 🤮. He's gonna be alone forever due to his mom. She mind as well marry her own son so she can be with him forever. This is just weird 😕
Respect,it’s ya son choice not mom,im not holding on to toxic/don’t care how much i care/love guy
He is an enabler and just as guilty!
"Be with me" 😂😂😂😂😂
He’s good looking and seems like nice person with his shit together besides the mom thing. His gf isn’t going anywhere.
this is what happens when you allow your parent to treat you like this your entire life lol
These two are the Asian version of Debbie and Colt
No this woman is worst than Debbie, she is controlling and manipulative, a mother should not behave like this,.
Embarrassing. That's the word I was looking for....
I mean.. I can’t date with someone who can’t have their own privacy from not just parents but anyone..
as an afghan I'm genuinely embarrassed. I don't want to be associated with these kind of people ever
“Listening” 😂
Whether it's I Love A Mama's Boy or Smothered, these shows depict different levels of emotional incest. Because mothers can be emotionally Incestuous with their daughters as well; in both subtle, covert ways & overt ways.
Laila is the worst case on these shows that I have ever seen.
A lot of these son's AND daughters need therapy.
These toxic mothers need therapy as well, but unfortunately most probably won't see it that way.
Considering oneself a good, loving parent, but being unable or unwilling to let one's children learn the importance of setting HEALTHY boundaries with NOT just others, but with oneself as the parent also, is setting them up for emotional, mental, etc. problems.
All the world, every single person we came together, except Shekeb's mum we are crying for Emily. GİRL RUN AWAY FROM HIM
My boyfriends mom is like this, luckily my
Boyfriend always puts her in her place so it’s never gotten this bad. But it probably would if he gave into her bs lol
Emily was his girlfriend and his mother treated her as if she was a flashlight that he would eventually replace
There is nobody who loves their son more than i do. However, the very definition of love is letting go and trusting you raised them to make the right decisions! Its selfish in every way and love is not in it.
Lila is a horrible mother!!! Any mother who actually loves her children would not be the reason your son ends up alone forever!! And I really hope he does end up old, alone and miserable!!!
It ain't worth it..run girl run!!
He needs therapy because he feels guilty when he tells his mother "no". His mother needs therapy because she doesn't know how to allow her son to be a man. She treats her son like a little boy.
The mum has something wrong with her, and if I was Emily I would run a mile. The way the mum is behaving is unhealthy.
This woman is so friggin selfish!!! Does she not realize she's 62! She doesn't have that many years ahead of her and it's time her son deserves to be happy with someone! He already should of been out of his parents home by now. Would she rather lose her son right before she dies?! Such an evil narcissistic selfish woman!
"Who do you love the most ??" mostly painful question in men's life