@user-zs6qf7ob6h I'm honestly baffled at their thought process. If I have someone I believe is so loyal and so in love with me that I believe they will never leave me, my instinct is to treat that individual like a jewel to make them happy. Why is it their instinct to treat us horribly until we do leave, then try to guilt us into staying for more and worse mistreatment. My staying with my ex husband only reinforced in him that he could do no wrong no matter how wrong he did so much so he was brazen enough to throw it in my face. In fact, it's what woke me up. When he said he knew I wasn't going anywhere no matter what he did, it told me everything he did to reunite us was performative. It was the wakeup call I needed to leave for good. He totally self destructed once he accepted that there was no reunification this time. He died as a result. He passed in October 2022. Some of his family blame me but idc. 🤷🏿♀️
That therapist needs to have his license cancelled. How TF does he tell his patient about his ex wife??? If she gets murked bc of him, that therapist needs to be thrown in jail.
Also for me when I was married to a stressful narc, no birth control but I never got pregnant. High stress high cortisol. Thank God my body rejected him
She probably been planning her exit and this not the first time he's cheated. And she had a strong support system look how her family & friends didn't respond to any of his messages zero contact . She blew the damn bridge up left no traces . Congratulations to her she survived a narc
I need him to quit calling that lady his wife.....sir y'all are divorced get over it 😒😒😒 also this dude writes like a whole serial killer with all that rambling but not saying sh!t 🙄🙄🙄
He cheated on her to punish her, but she left and did not give him the chance to argue with her or try to neg her, manipulate her, or use mind games on her to make her think that she was at fault. He didn't get to try any of his bag of tricks on her, and THAT'S what pisses him off the most. Remember that, ladies! They wanna hurt your feelings! If they can't hurt you or manipulate you, it's not fun for them. Make it not fun for them by leaving quietly and never giving them a chance to access you ever again. Just go POOF on them. They hate that most of all. That's a loss, and losers can't stand losing. They will go nuts thinking of all the fun you're having without them. They want you to SUFFER like they are suffering without you.
Lololol. Thank you. He thought they'd get involved in some drawn-out drama where he could act the fool in counseling and cut up and blame her But she didn't care why he cheated She was GONE😅
@@UseYourVoices This was well said! Even if she came back, he still wouldn't change. Give It 2 weeks and he's back to his old self. She did the right thing and the smart thing!
I'm so proud of her, she left the way a woman is supposed to leave. Never breakup in-person. Leave unexpectedly and move to another city, state, or country. Most of all, she cutoff all contact with him, even her family did as well. 👏🏾
He's only obsessed with this because his massive ego is wounded. He cannot believe he didn't get a chance to blame, gaslight and break her. He cannot believe she didn't grovel and prove her "love" by staying and suffering. He cannot believe she left. He cannot believe she switched him like a used tamp0n. He cannot believe she loved herself more. He reeks of danger. They need to watch out.
_*I did that to an HS BF, and he cheated we were engaged, I was getting ready to attend college. I found out he had a baby with another woman, I left and didn't say anything! He had 5 children with her and never married her, now he is 9 children by 4 women!*
You just explained my ex husband. He hated that I left and did everything possible to try to control me using our child. He re married and then they tag teamed me. No regrets glad I left.
This man is completely UNHINGED. He def would've tried to end both of their lives if he ever saw her again smh. Shout out to his ex wife for the level of her restraint. Most women will listen to the begging and fake changing. I salute her!
This is goals in the level of strength. The women is a gangsta she took her life back and all her energy and beautifully started over. I just wanna shake her hand. The way she did it was the best I ever seen. Zero contact, zero conversation left this fool hanging in the balance with his own consequences of his actions. He deserve what he got.
He don't want her back because he's sorry he wants her back because he's lonely. As I have gotten older I realize that men hate being lonely. That's why after heir wife passes away he's remarried within a year.
Oh poor baby. How dare his wife refuse to endure and pretend to be happy? He deserves to make her come back so he can be happy again 😢. (That was sarcasm for anyone who might be confused 😅)
See this is where the problem lies: MEN HEAVILY EXPECT AND RELY ON WOMEN TO FORGIVE THEM because women have been doing it for centuries. Well FAFO season is HERE TO STAY. KARMA makin u-turns everywhere. Ohhhh how it warms my heart GREATLY to know that she left him WITHOUT A WORD. LADIES, dont give them 2nd chances. THIS IS HOW IT IS DONE. BRAVO 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
If he'd ever get her back he'd want revenge. It's a power struggle he's having, it's not about him loving her. She left behind his back for a reason. It was probably safer for her. I'm glad she's in another country and he can't find her.
He played the wrong hand. He thought, like most men, he could cheat, she’ll cry, and then forgive him. Nope. She saw an opportunity to leave and that’s what she did. No argument, no warning, no tears. Ice cold baby. That’s how women need to exit and that is in silence. I’m sure she cried and went through the emotions, but she didn’t do it in front of him and that’s what is killing him. Some men want to be the root of your pain and the cause of your healing. He is psychotic. I’m glad she left because he is dangerous .
He is not normal and I hope nobody will give his ex wife's contact info or location because his level of obsession is unhealthy. He is like this not because his marriage broke but because he wanted to do whatever he want and face no consequences, he wanted to sit on 2 chairs, be the one who decides everything about his relationship, be the one to hurt peoples and not get hurt back and be the one who have options with other women. His ego is hurt because he didn't get what he expected, this is narcissistic rage and I think he could be dangerous to her, her new husband or himself.
If you are single and you are looking for a partner, don't end up with this nut case. He hasn't learned any lessons and will CHEAT on his next wife or partner.
This is the kind of female I like, no conversation just leave. May she find peace of the mind. He better start cleaning and cooking for his self paying bills on his own. Bye, Bye, Bye😂😂😂🎉🎉
Crying about how brave he is for being open about his feelings now, after the fact. He should have been open about his feelings about marriage. If he had told his wife the truth, which is that he wanted to get married, but he also wanted to be single, he'd have given her the choice to decide if she wants an open marriage on his end, while it's closed on her end. But, he thought she would just get with his program. This man didn't love this woman at all. He's only mad that he lost the game he was playing with someone else's life. He thought he'd do what he wanted and she'd get used to it, and live in misery for him, like he's used to seeing women do. He thought she'd sacrifice her whole life to work with him through years of cheating. He has no interest in how his X wife actually felt at all, he just can't believe that things didn't go his way.
Oh Yeah...these "Nice Guys" are really the type of Men we need in our Lives😂😅😂😅😂😅 Please I'd rather fight a Shark , wrestle a Bear, and dine with Bigfoot in a Tutu then to listen or deal with them! Good for Her living her best life away from this hilarious scenario of a POS🤣😁🤣🤣😁🤣🤣🤣 I'm Dying😆😆😆😆😆😆
Also I have family in Norway. Unless the laws have changed marriage offers no benefits (like citizenship) and is something that people do only for themselves.
Good grief… His own homeboy had to tell him to move on with his own life! Dude acting like he got a life sentence and found out prison life is hard. 💯👀💅🏾😅
And then he borderline him out of nowhere. Let's stop being free therapists and see how men like their own energy. We should be silent around them. How many of them hide insanity from each other?
His Ex wife left the smart way. He would have hurt her for sure. He had planned that if she found out she would get over it. I am proud of her and happy for her new life.
I love this video. And it’s also proof that our bodies will often reject toxic people. Her body rejected her husbands sperm, but the new guy knocked her up right away. Probably because she was super happy and therefore healthier and her body was therefore ready for a baby. No more stress=balanced hormones (at least for this woman).
Exactly I wouldn't be surprised that he will try to be a lot smarter and sneakier with his cheating with the next girl because of how immature and butthurt he's behaving towards his ex-wife divorcing him. In my opinion I believe the reason why he is so hurt about it is because her level of indifference and he did not expect her to not have any sort of reaction like most women do.
Just Listened to this again. This man is unhinged. He says at the end that the other guy doesn't "play fair".... what on earth... He found a good thing and moved on it! Homeboy fumbled his relationship. He need to go back to homegirl at the gym 😅
In my opinion, cheating is attempted murder. Absolutely not. I can forgive you but the relationship is over. The cheater is not only dangerous but reckless.
Omg this sounds like a guy I know..the age, the gym, everything..he was cheating on his wife, the mother of his children left and right..even tried to with me..He finally said he regretted getting married and filed for divorce…She begged him to try and work it out for like 2 months..I kept telling him when she was done with his ass he was gonna be sorry..all it took was for her to stop interacting with him, she started sleeping on the couch and everything while she saved up money to move out. She started ignoring his presence, then all of a sudden he was sorry and wanted to work on the marriage.
Thank goodness she walked away and didn't look back. He didn't care about her at any time, seems so much like my lowlife husband. WTH, she made some good decisions in regards to leaving the marriage. At least she didn't get saddled with his children.
Who else is here for the cinema dramatic like narration that Tonya is giving. There’s nothing quite like it. 😂😂😂😂. That dude is nuts for sure though. She did that…. Like a boss 😎
The fact that her family & even their mutual friends broke off all contact or told him nothing about her shows you what type of a person he is. He said he never abused her physically? What other ways did he abuse her. I doubt this was the 1st time cheating cause he was too confident that she would stay. The way she left him & fled the country like she knew she would be in danger if she left him. This guy shows no introspection & is very dangerous. Is the therapist even helping. I feel sorry for the next girl he dates cause he is definitely going to make him pay for the wife divorcing him. He gives me the creeps.
I was told my ex husband went through this before he eventually passed. He said "bch, you know ain't going no where no matter what I do." Then I left. He just knew we would get back together like we had so many times before. He did therapy, church, blah blah 🙄 (heard it all before). His friends and loved ones would tell me, sarcastically but seriously "you know he's going to d!3 without you" like that's somehow MY fault. Well, he actually did. His own self neglect, but not my fault. His own. 🤷🏿♀️ i didn't want that end for him, but I certainly didn't want that life for myself so I guess this is how it is.
That part where you say "... that's somehow My fault" is the saddest and most disgusting. Most people outside the relationship try to get the abused person to go back to the hell they escaped as if their life didn't count. Good to know you escaped.
He's a ticking time bomb and I think she knew he would be. He thought he could do what he wanted to her and she would never leave. Most men don't like to be rejected. His ego is crushed.
If try Jesus and not me were ever a person 😂. If this is indeed a true story that woman stood on business and did the right thing because her ex is unhinged. I met many men that think like him , they think they should have free range to treat a woman anyway they want and the woman should have all the grace in the world for them. But if the tables were turned around he would've left her in the desert with no water.
Hi TonyaTKO. Your reading captured the obsession, angst, and desperation of this man perfectly. I was glued to the video. This man is delusional. There are some really messed up people in the world.
This is a dangerous man. There infinite amount of examples of women giving a man like this any attention. He had the red flags as a Redrum person. He is scary.
"And when he awoke he was alone [His ex wife] had flown So [she] lit a fire Isn't it good Norwegian wood?" The Beatles, 1965 (adapted for this saga)😂😂😂
@@TonyaTko He's the type that would k*ll her and rationalize it in his head. He'd tell the police "but you have no idea what she did to me." People who are victims of their own atrocious actions towards others are scary as h3ll.
I just got to the part that mentioned the heavy metal as a shared interest. I bet ex was CONSTANTLY telling her how awful her music was and how great he was for ignoring that defect in her character 🙄😂👍🏾
I don’t play with my physical wellness or my peace of mind .🤔I walked away with the quickest and never looked back. I rather be alone than to go through doubting myself or my decisions to sit with a cheater. It’s that simple for me. Fast forward eight years later I’m still single but I’m completely happy☺️. Good one Tony 👍🏽& Thank you ..!🙏
People act like cheating is an accident (involuntary) in which you're not liable...No, making a mistake is not the same as an accident - a mistake is an error in your judgment, but you still voluntarily did it, so you're culpable. MHe thought she'd just get over it since it's so common, but I believe someone with strong boundaries like that would've already warned him or indicated what would happen if he did cheated, but he didn't believe her until she showed him better than she could tell him. Sounds like he still hasn't taken full responsibility and learned from it. I hope he doesn't get with anyone else until he learns and truly repents.
We he changed from saying "my wife" to "my ex" was triggering. You can feel the transition of obsession about being together again to . . .a different type of obsession. 😟
See what I mean, and men will shame a woman for not being married, and when you get married, this right here happens it's like, damm, if you do, and damm, if you don't!!!
I don't want this man to ever, ever find this woman who is free now. But I do want him to continue to whine if it keeps other women free of him. I think two years of obsession makes him increasingly dangerous.
He's angry that she wasnt dumb enough to let him impregnate her and trap her with a baby. I hope she was gobbling birth control pills like popcorn while married to him🤣‼️He is so angry that she didn't want his nasty defective dna.
Yup I met a guy that wasn't over his ex wife leaving him for cheating. Dude is from Kenya his ex from uganda. They have a kid together. So she left without a trace went back to her country and married a man there. They raise her daughter and siblings together. It's been 12 years since his ex left with the baby but he constantly told me he wanted to unalive her. Went I told him he needed therapy he lashed out at me. So I left him alone and blocked him.
I'm so glad that woman ended her marriage with her unfaithful husband and moved on with her life. And the fact that it's tormenting him is the 🍒 on top. I bet if she had been the one who was unfaithful, he wouldn't have given her a 2nd chance either. This man is delusional. He thinks he's in a rom com, and he's the victim that deserves a 2nd chance. 😂
The way Tonya read it made it even more hilarious. He sounds so stupid 🤣🤣🤣🤣 And notice what he said, why can't we be the couple that just gets over it. This is what men think about cheating, so many OTHER men do it and women just get over it. They really want to cheat in peace. 🙄
I'm just happy women are catching on to the "move in silence " movement. He left the marriage before she did. #FAFO Edit: i had no idea there were this many parts. Lmao. He got more and more unhinged. The more unhinged he got, the more dramatic your voice got. This was truly epic!
The moment he cheated, he left without telling her first. She didn't just leave. She took all her energy with her. BRAVO!
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Yes!!
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Exactly. That's the way to do it. Just leave him. Don't even waste time or energy on him. It's not worth it.
@user-zs6qf7ob6h I'm honestly baffled at their thought process. If I have someone I believe is so loyal and so in love with me that I believe they will never leave me, my instinct is to treat that individual like a jewel to make them happy. Why is it their instinct to treat us horribly until we do leave, then try to guilt us into staying for more and worse mistreatment. My staying with my ex husband only reinforced in him that he could do no wrong no matter how wrong he did so much so he was brazen enough to throw it in my face. In fact, it's what woke me up. When he said he knew I wasn't going anywhere no matter what he did, it told me everything he did to reunite us was performative. It was the wakeup call I needed to leave for good. He totally self destructed once he accepted that there was no reunification this time. He died as a result. He passed in October 2022. Some of his family blame me but idc. 🤷🏿♀️
He's unhinged. The ex was right to leave the country! 😳 This is exactly why she left like a thief in the night! 😂
Exactly
That therapist needs to have his license cancelled. How TF does he tell his patient about his ex wife???
If she gets murked bc of him, that therapist needs to be thrown in jail.
He doesn't even miss her. He misses control over her
Exactly she left and will never look back. He deserves to be alone.
@@peachesandpoets Exactly. He is just stressed out because he was planning to manipulate her and she said f*** that. 😂
When he said he feels like he's more loyal to the relationship than his ex wife, I knew he was a narc.
Lololol... exactly like WTFFFFF. A cheater, more loyal? Lol
It's funny how your mind plays tricks on you,
Are you delutional? 😂 @@andreadrake4890
And she knew too😂
Absolutely. She grey-rocked him
What he really can’t get over is the loss of control. She removed his control in an instant.
I never looked at it that way, but it's completely true 🤗🤗🤗
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I LOVE IT!!! This is a PERFECT example of moving in silence.
That pretty much sums it up!
Boom 💥 No access no control men hate that
she was on birth control she did not want his child
EXACTLY❗ 🎯💯 She was ready to bounce for a reason!
Also for me when I was married to a stressful narc, no birth control but I never got pregnant. High stress high cortisol. Thank God my body rejected him
She probably been planning her exit and this not the first time he's cheated. And she had a strong support system look how her family & friends didn't respond to any of his messages zero contact . She blew the damn bridge up left no traces . Congratulations to her she survived a narc
Yaaasssssss 🙌🏾
@@acousticsoul2580 Exactly! I bet he was also emotionally manipulative, used weaponized incompetence, and neglected her emotionally.
They never cheat just one time!
@@daniella8400 1 2 3 4 5 plus 5 eh!!! 😭🤣😂
This dramatic reading is taking me over 😂😂😂
Lolololol... it was soooooo dramatic, I had to
She is having the time of her life
Cheating on your partner is mentally and emotionally abusive to them.
@@TonyaTko it made my day. Your reading is amazing 😂
Right!! I am crying 😂😂😂
I need him to quit calling that lady his wife.....sir y'all are divorced get over it 😒😒😒 also this dude writes like a whole serial killer with all that rambling but not saying sh!t 🙄🙄🙄
Ppl end their marriages then blame the person they cheated on
Man logic. Smh
This man is blaming everybody.
@@videofan1010 but himself. Lol
He cheated on her to punish her, but she left and did not give him the chance to argue with her or try to neg her, manipulate her, or use mind games on her to make her think that she was at fault. He didn't get to try any of his bag of tricks on her, and THAT'S what pisses him off the most. Remember that, ladies! They wanna hurt your feelings! If they can't hurt you or manipulate you, it's not fun for them. Make it not fun for them by leaving quietly and never giving them a chance to access you ever again. Just go POOF on them. They hate that most of all. That's a loss, and losers can't stand losing. They will go nuts thinking of all the fun you're having without them. They want you to SUFFER like they are suffering without you.
Lololol. Thank you. He thought they'd get involved in some drawn-out drama where he could act the fool in counseling and cut up and blame her
But she didn't care why he cheated
She was GONE😅
Right. She gave him absolutely nothing. No argument or anything. She just left. I truly like the way she moves.
@@UseYourVoices This was well said! Even if she came back, he still wouldn't change. Give It 2 weeks and he's back to his old self. She did the right thing and the smart thing!
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Damn right even in dating they want to spin the block. When they have no access to you then they can’t control they hate it.
I'm so proud of her, she left the way a woman is supposed to leave. Never breakup in-person. Leave unexpectedly and move to another city, state, or country. Most of all, she cutoff all contact with him, even her family did as well. 👏🏾
Basically he fucked around and found out 😂
Lesson… don’t fyck around and find out! 😩💯😂💅🏾
Lolol. Exactly 💯!
Literally!!
THAT PART!😅
Bay-si-cali!
She gave him closure when he opened another woman’s legs. 😂SLL exit stage left 🎭
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He's only obsessed with this because his massive ego is wounded. He cannot believe he didn't get a chance to blame, gaslight and break her. He cannot believe she didn't grovel and prove her "love" by staying and suffering. He cannot believe she left. He cannot believe she switched him like a used tamp0n. He cannot believe she loved herself more.
He reeks of danger. They need to watch out.
lol. Damn
100% correct. All of this is the center of his pain. Glad there are those that see so clearly.
Exactly he was looking for tears and dramatic scenes. He's feeling robbed 😂
_*I did that to an HS BF, and he cheated we were engaged, I was getting ready to attend college. I found out he had a baby with another woman, I left and didn't say anything! He had 5 children with her and never married her, now he is 9 children by 4 women!*
You just explained my ex husband. He hated that I left and did everything possible to try to control me using our child. He re married and then they tag teamed me. No regrets glad I left.
This is exactly how every cheating situation should end. This woman is smart. Love her!!!😂
Absolutely!!!
This man is completely UNHINGED. He def would've tried to end both of their lives if he ever saw her again smh.
Shout out to his ex wife for the level of her restraint. Most women will listen to the begging and fake changing.
I salute her!
This is goals in the level of strength. The women is a gangsta she took her life back and all her energy and beautifully started over. I just wanna shake her hand. The way she did it was the best I ever seen. Zero contact, zero conversation left this fool hanging in the balance with his own consequences of his actions. He deserve what he got.
The therapist told this man where his wife was. WTF??!
Ghosting them is the sweetest remedy…well done gurl
He don't want her back because he's sorry he wants her back because he's lonely. As I have gotten older I realize that men hate being lonely. That's why after heir wife passes away he's remarried within a year.
Yup that's true and I seen it happen.
Oh poor baby. How dare his wife refuse to endure and pretend to be happy? He deserves to make her come back so he can be happy again 😢. (That was sarcasm for anyone who might be confused 😅)
Lolol. Right!
See this is where the problem lies: MEN HEAVILY EXPECT AND RELY ON WOMEN TO FORGIVE THEM because women have been doing it for centuries. Well FAFO season is HERE TO STAY. KARMA makin u-turns everywhere. Ohhhh how it warms my heart GREATLY to know that she left him WITHOUT A WORD.
LADIES, dont give them 2nd chances. THIS IS HOW IT IS DONE. BRAVO 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
Lol. Right. And she's living her best life
@TonyaTko Right??? Dude looking for her like how the US looked for Bin Laden - 😂
If he'd ever get her back he'd want revenge. It's a power struggle he's having, it's not about him loving her. She left behind his back for a reason. It was probably safer for her. I'm glad she's in another country and he can't find her.
He played the wrong hand. He thought, like most men, he could cheat, she’ll cry, and then forgive him. Nope. She saw an opportunity to leave and that’s what she did. No argument, no warning, no tears. Ice cold baby. That’s how women need to exit and that is in silence. I’m sure she cried and went through the emotions, but she didn’t do it in front of him and that’s what is killing him. Some men want to be the root of your pain and the cause of your healing. He is psychotic. I’m glad she left because he is dangerous .
He is not normal and I hope nobody will give his ex wife's contact info or location because his level of obsession is unhealthy. He is like this not because his marriage broke but because he wanted to do whatever he want and face no consequences, he wanted to sit on 2 chairs, be the one who decides everything about his relationship, be the one to hurt peoples and not get hurt back and be the one who have options with other women. His ego is hurt because he didn't get what he expected, this is narcissistic rage and I think he could be dangerous to her, her new husband or himself.
If you are single and you are looking for a partner, don't end up with this nut case. He hasn't learned any lessons and will CHEAT on his next wife or partner.
And if he even thinks she is going to leave him her life will be in danger.
: And the next female might not be so lucky. 😢
He doesn't deserve a partner.
This is the kind of female I like, no conversation just leave. May she find peace of the mind. He better start cleaning and cooking for his self paying bills on his own. Bye, Bye, Bye😂😂😂🎉🎉
I am hollering in laughter as you are reading this, Tonya!!! The way you are reading this!! 🤣🤣🤣😭🤦🏿♀️
Lololol. It was tewww murchhh
Crying about how brave he is for being open about his feelings now, after the fact.
He should have been open about his feelings about marriage. If he had told his wife the truth, which is that he wanted to get married, but he also wanted to be single, he'd have given her the choice to decide if she wants an open marriage on his end, while it's closed on her end. But, he thought she would just get with his program.
This man didn't love this woman at all. He's only mad that he lost the game he was playing with someone else's life. He thought he'd do what he wanted and she'd get used to it, and live in misery for him, like he's used to seeing women do. He thought she'd sacrifice her whole life to work with him through years of cheating. He has no interest in how his X wife actually felt at all, he just can't believe that things didn't go his way.
Couldn't have happened to a nicer guy😂
Oh Yeah...these "Nice Guys" are really the type of Men we need in our Lives😂😅😂😅😂😅
Please I'd rather fight a Shark , wrestle a Bear, and dine with Bigfoot in a Tutu then to listen or deal with them! Good for Her living her best life away from this hilarious scenario of a POS🤣😁🤣🤣😁🤣🤣🤣 I'm Dying😆😆😆😆😆😆
Lol the audacity!! Good for her tho!! 🫢👏👏
lol. You have to keep watching, it gets crazy
Also I have family in Norway. Unless the laws have changed marriage offers no benefits (like citizenship) and is something that people do only for themselves.
Good for his ex-wife 👏👏👏! Not every woman is long-suffering and will put up with a man's BS.
no he's a narcissist with a destroyed egooooo
She went from Loki to Thor. 😂
Lololol
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Ok?? 😂😂😭 extreme Loki energy
Good grief… His own homeboy had to tell him to move on with his own life!
Dude acting like he got a life sentence and found out prison life is hard. 💯👀💅🏾😅
And then he borderline him out of nowhere. Let's stop being free therapists and see how men like their own energy. We should be silent around them. How many of them hide insanity from each other?
I wish her friends had not updated him. He sounds like he wants revenge, not closure.
Exactly
Shoutout to Sabrina for having her friend’s back!! 😎👏🏾👏🏾
Lol. Right
This is the gift that keeps on giving!!! Lol
His Ex wife left the smart way. He would have hurt her for sure. He had planned that if she found out she would get over it. I am proud of her and happy for her new life.
Your narration was hilarious! I had to get popcorn for this! Thanks for another great video!
Sure is!
Somebody should compile and publish it and make it a gag gift for toilet reading.
I love this video. And it’s also proof that our bodies will often reject toxic people. Her body rejected her husbands sperm, but the new guy knocked her up right away. Probably because she was super happy and therefore healthier and her body was therefore ready for a baby. No more stress=balanced hormones (at least for this woman).
This dude is ridiculous!!! He caused this!!! 🤦🏾♀️ Sounds like he’s going to ruin someone else’s life!!
Exactly I wouldn't be surprised that he will try to be a lot smarter and sneakier with his cheating with the next girl because of how immature and butthurt he's behaving towards his ex-wife divorcing him. In my opinion I believe the reason why he is so hurt about it is because her level of indifference and he did not expect her to not have any sort of reaction like most women do.
Thank God she lives all the way in Norway.She would not be safe in the US with this man!
I love it when a plan comes together! Well done to the woman!!!
So glad she cut her losses and left without embarrassing herself.
Just Listened to this again. This man is unhinged. He says at the end that the other guy doesn't "play fair".... what on earth...
He found a good thing and moved on it!
Homeboy fumbled his relationship.
He need to go back to homegirl at the gym 😅
He's danger0us. They need to watch out.
Straight from the Movies lawd 😂😂
So he risked his marriage for someone and something that’s not important. Choose better! Should have chosen your marriage!
Exactly. Just dumb. Risk everything for someone you don't even want to know?
This is exactly the kind of male who would support doing away with no-fault divorce. I'm so proud of this woman who is a complete stranger to me.
Exactly!!! They want the sweet deal abusive grandfathers had
"It wasn't my fault!" No divorce is what he wants
In my opinion, cheating is attempted murder. Absolutely not. I can forgive you but the relationship is over. The cheater is not only dangerous but reckless.
Amen!!!
I look at it like that too!
Bay-bee, the way I hollered through this reading!!!!!! LMBOOOOOOO🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lololol.... he's crazy
She did the right thing. If I am ever in the same situation I will do the same. Everyone should go no contact with toxic ex's.
She likely checked out of that relationship a long time ago. This man sounds very delusional and he’s more than likely toxic & narcissistic.
Omg this sounds like a guy I know..the age, the gym, everything..he was cheating on his wife, the mother of his children left and right..even tried to with me..He finally said he regretted getting married and filed for divorce…She begged him to try and work it out for like 2 months..I kept telling him when she was done with his ass he was gonna be sorry..all it took was for her to stop interacting with him, she started sleeping on the couch and everything while she saved up money to move out. She started ignoring his presence, then all of a sudden he was sorry and wanted to work on the marriage.
Smdh
Thank goodness she walked away and didn't look back. He didn't care about her at any time, seems so much like my lowlife husband. WTH, she made some good decisions in regards to leaving the marriage. At least she didn't get saddled with his children.
Who else is here for the cinema dramatic like narration that Tonya is giving. There’s nothing quite like it. 😂😂😂😂. That dude is nuts for sure though. She did that…. Like a boss 😎
Lolol. Thank you
He only went to therapy because he thought it would get her back of she heard of it
Once you cheat, it’s never complete🥺😳
Bingo!
I saw this Reddit thread before. The updates are hilarious! 😂😂
Isn't this crazy? And the way he's blaming everyone else
The fact that her family & even their mutual friends broke off all contact or told him nothing about her shows you what type of a person he is. He said he never abused her physically? What other ways did he abuse her. I doubt this was the 1st time cheating cause he was too confident that she would stay.
The way she left him & fled the country like she knew she would be in danger if she left him.
This guy shows no introspection & is very dangerous. Is the therapist even helping. I feel sorry for the next girl he dates cause he is definitely going to make him pay for the wife divorcing him. He gives me the creeps.
Probably emotionally abusive and controlling
yesss she went no contact like pro yes that's how u do it u go ghost forever
1 min in and im already irritated with buddy 😒 😂
Lol. It gets MUCH WORSE! Keep watching
Sounds like he should’ve chosen better to me 😂😂 kudos to her for leaving without a trace 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I was told my ex husband went through this before he eventually passed. He said "bch, you know ain't going no where no matter what I do." Then I left. He just knew we would get back together like we had so many times before. He did therapy, church, blah blah 🙄 (heard it all before). His friends and loved ones would tell me, sarcastically but seriously "you know he's going to d!3 without you" like that's somehow MY fault. Well, he actually did. His own self neglect, but not my fault. His own. 🤷🏿♀️ i didn't want that end for him, but I certainly didn't want that life for myself so I guess this is how it is.
Lol. Damn. Good for him.
And good for your! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@TonyaTko 🤷🏿♀️, I had to make a choice between him and my happiness. I'm happy😊.
That part where you say "... that's somehow My fault" is the saddest and most disgusting. Most people outside the relationship try to get the abused person to go back to the hell they escaped as if their life didn't count. Good to know you escaped.
@@obsz7785 What's messed up is for a bit, it's how I felt too.
Dios mio! She dodged a bullet! Cheating on her was the nicest thing he’s ever done for. Whoa😮
Uhmmm this dude needs to be reported to the feds or something this is insane
Lol. Yeah
They would probably even do something about it this time. He's all over the place.
He's a ticking time bomb and I think she knew he would be. He thought he could do what he wanted to her and she would never leave. Most men don't like to be rejected. His ego is crushed.
If try Jesus and not me were ever a person 😂. If this is indeed a true story that woman stood on business and did the right thing because her ex is unhinged. I met many men that think like him , they think they should have free range to treat a woman anyway they want and the woman should have all the grace in the world for them. But if the tables were turned around he would've left her in the desert with no water.
Yup my ex is like this male. Just like this and still trying to win me back😂. I blocked him over 30 times on social media.
Now he's allergic to sex..... bahhhaahaaa
🤭🤭🤭
I dont believe it was one time because of how he's acting & talking, my ex talked like this, smh
Hi TonyaTKO. Your reading captured the obsession, angst, and desperation of this man perfectly. I was glued to the video. This man is delusional. There are some really messed up people in the world.
Thank you very much. ❤️🩹
It tickles me how so many of them STAY 'blindsided'!!! 😅😅😅
This is a dangerous man. There infinite amount of examples of women giving a man like this any attention. He had the red flags as a Redrum person. He is scary.
It seems like he wants her even more, now that he kniws she's remarried, pregnant and happy. It's all about possession, not love.
Exactly. Now he’s sooooooo interested in EVERY detail. Do you think he paid her that much attention when they were together??
"And when he awoke he was alone
[His ex wife] had flown
So [she] lit a fire
Isn't it good Norwegian wood?"
The Beatles, 1965 (adapted for this saga)😂😂😂
Fuck, you win the internet today 😂😂
lmao @ voices and sound effets Tonya makes.... this man is flat out SCARY!
Isn't he crazy. Did you get to pt 4??
@@TonyaTko He's the type that would k*ll her and rationalize it in his head. He'd tell the police "but you have no idea what she did to me." People who are victims of their own atrocious actions towards others are scary as h3ll.
I came for the tea 🍵 but I stayed for the animated retelling 😂
Thank you 🙏🏾
He's piping her down with his heavy metal and ex is big BIG mad😂😂😂😂
I just got to the part that mentioned the heavy metal as a shared interest. I bet ex was CONSTANTLY telling her how awful her music was and how great he was for ignoring that defect in her character 🙄😂👍🏾
I don’t play with my physical wellness or my peace of mind .🤔I walked away with the quickest and never looked back. I rather be alone than to go through doubting myself or my decisions to sit with a cheater. It’s that simple for me. Fast forward eight years later I’m still single but I’m completely happy☺️. Good one Tony 👍🏽& Thank you ..!🙏
Her exit was EPIC 💯💯💯
This is exactly how they turn into stalkers I'm glad she's out the country, he's dangerous
People act like cheating is an accident (involuntary) in which you're not liable...No, making a mistake is not the same as an accident - a mistake is an error in your judgment, but you still voluntarily did it, so you're culpable.
MHe thought she'd just get over it since it's so common, but I believe someone with strong boundaries like that would've already warned him or indicated what would happen if he did cheated, but he didn't believe her until she showed him better than she could tell him. Sounds like he still hasn't taken full responsibility and learned from it. I hope he doesn't get with anyone else until he learns and truly repents.
SHERO I love this woman 😂❤
I’m smiling for her. Totally inspired to move to Norway lol
Love it, whoever this woman is, she's an inspiration!
Idk how therapist keep a straight face while counseling people like this.
They get paid 🤣
My auntie is a therapist and I do sit in as a support person for the patient if allowed. Yea there's many stories like this.
We he changed from saying "my wife" to "my ex" was triggering. You can feel the transition of obsession about being together again to . . .a different type of obsession. 😟
See what I mean, and men will shame a woman for not being married, and when you get married, this right here happens it's like, damm, if you do, and damm, if you don't!!!
I don't want this man to ever, ever find this woman who is free now. But I do want him to continue to whine if it keeps other women free of him. I think two years of obsession makes him increasingly dangerous.
This man is unhinged and sounds a little dangerous to me. Sounds like she knew exactly what he was and left the safest way.
Not even a little. He is obviously very disturbed & dangerous.
He's angry that she wasnt dumb enough to let him impregnate her and trap her with a baby. I hope she was gobbling birth control pills like popcorn while married to him🤣‼️He is so angry that she didn't want his nasty defective dna.
I FEEL SORRY FOR ANY WOMAN HE MEETS AFTER. HE MAKING THEM FEEL ALL HIS NARC PAIN
Yup I met a guy that wasn't over his ex wife leaving him for cheating. Dude is from Kenya his ex from uganda. They have a kid together. So she left without a trace went back to her country and married a man there. They raise her daughter and siblings together. It's been 12 years since his ex left with the baby but he constantly told me he wanted to unalive her. Went I told him he needed therapy he lashed out at me. So I left him alone and blocked him.
This is the gift that keeps on giving lol, smh he needs to move ON. LET IT GO; HE FUMBLED, JUMPLED HER LOL.
Your impression of the guy is hilarious 😂❤
I'm so glad that woman ended her marriage with her unfaithful husband and moved on with her life. And the fact that it's tormenting him is the 🍒 on top. I bet if she had been the one who was unfaithful, he wouldn't have given her a 2nd chance either. This man is delusional. He thinks he's in a rom com, and he's the victim that deserves a 2nd chance. 😂
The way Tonya read it made it even more hilarious. He sounds so stupid 🤣🤣🤣🤣
And notice what he said, why can't we be the couple that just gets over it. This is what men think about cheating, so many OTHER men do it and women just get over it. They really want to cheat in peace. 🙄
This man is sick...
Very
This POS man betrayed his wife. I'm so glad she took control of her life and happiness. That fool needs to move on.
She did the right thing to always move in silence. That's the way to go
This reminds me of burbs n bougie content. Lol. Anyways, that's what he gets
I love this style of content. Finally decided to invest more time into doing it myself
Her channel is where I first heard it. Loving hearing it again-- you know Tonya gotta add the dramatics -IM DYINNNNNNNN!!!😂😂😂😂
Can we talk about Tonya's storytelling ability??? And the friends were dead wrong for exposing her whereabouts.
Thank you 😫
I'm just happy women are catching on to the "move in silence " movement. He left the marriage before she did. #FAFO
Edit: i had no idea there were this many parts. Lmao. He got more and more unhinged. The more unhinged he got, the more dramatic your voice got. This was truly epic!
I love the emotion in the reading 😂
Thank you
Love the voice you applied to the reading... it made him sound even more pathetic than he already is (if that's possible) 😂
Lolololol.
Its obsession. Dude has crashed out! Thats what he gets 😂. Good job to the ex-wife ❤👏🏾
I like her style! Walk away and don’t argue with a fool.
He is mentally ill. And if he came to my house.. it might be his last . 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Let Get-up-n-leave the first time be the new trend.
Yes