Introspection, self-awareness, and recognizing patterns that impact our sense of self and being sound insane to people who haven't arrived at that season of their life yet.
Ladies, please understand it's not a complement for a man to have children with you before marriage. That means they're ok with you possibly sacrificing your life and health to birth their children while giving you nothing in return. Its awful. I feel so bad for the children being birthed into dysfunction
Well said and simply put it’s insulting actually so Im good enough to do this basically alone but not good enough to be your wife. That is a degenerate human being who has no respect for life, has no respect for the responsibility of creating life and functional human beings, has no understanding of the role of a father, has no empathy for women and the sacrifice and miracle of child birth nor empathy for innocent children. Its NASTY work
While I agree with you, I also am a living testament to marriage also doesn't make these men care anymore at least in my recent experience. I'm glad I got out of my marriage before the toxicity of his being ruined my child.
It’s not a compliment to be impregnated AT ALL. Your body gets ruined while his stays intact. It’s not fair nor worthwhile. Men are the LAST SPECIES on earth to EVER do something unfair for.
@@flyleelee5351 she is still a certified pygmy. She was walking on eggshells to spare him his feelings. She went gentle on him. Let’s not celebrate her. She wants to be chose by one of these bandits.
Nick's entire body language was closed off. He was feeling personally attacked. The legs crossed, internal organs crossed off, and feet pointed away from Dr. Bryant. Hos body wanted to run out of there. His defense was showing his disrespect to his guest, and projecting an unjustified defense.
So True! 💯The preference knew she would just be his baby mama and no ring 💍 he will leave her to take care of his child alone smh 🤦🏿♀️ that’s what they always do!
You sway with anything Maceo, one on forum you agree as long as Cam has money on another forum you you disagree! YOu need Christ and you need to stop playing games your almost 70 years old. Many of the BM from VZ have 3-4 families by different women its crazy and none of them are with women!
Do you really believe that??? Yeah he may have been but a man that signed a 100 mil contract isn't dealing with too much rejection..and what happened to my body my choice???
@@TonyaTko and don't let the woman finally wake up and find a husband or another man for the kids!!! Both of those men are gonna go insane and make life a living hell for getting a new man!!.. I mean, do you really think they're gonna be sister wives forever?
I feel sorry for the babies. No child wants gazillion half brothers & sisters running around & everytime the see someone resemble them they wonder is that also my dad's.
😂😂😂 Omg so funny when Tonya said “If a man told me he had 8 children and 3 different women, never married, I would dry up like the Sahara desert” 😂 same here
I would RUN aeay from that man once he says 8 children with 3 women. Too much drama with him, the women, those families of the women. And he's full of bs with too many issues.
@@jenniferray509 Same. Without a doubt. No amount of money or fame will make me find that situation appealing lol. He is more than welcome to wine 🥂 and dine 🍜 me though 😁💁🏾♀️💅🏾 but no interest in even becoming his wife, let alone a member of his harem. Lol.
You’re right! Internally he is grasping the reality that even though he’s a rich former football star he wouldn’t be able to attain the quality of woman like the doctor in front of him. He can get a baddie and a preference all day-but not a woman that provides the type of intrigue and growth that he probably craves deep down. He’s stuck. And this Nick Cannon segment….. WOW! He comes off sick. Truly.
I think Cam took the doc’s interview as a challenge. His ego won’t allow him to believe she can’t be bought like he believes all women can. Look how big and strong Jazzy was talking before he waved a few dollars in front of her. They LOVE humbling the “good ones”.
Was she really one of the "good ones" if she was bought so easily? sounded to me like she was a pick me pretending to be a liberated woman because that's what's popular right now.
Dr.Bryant has the patience of a saint because both Cam and Nick were speaking and acting like buffoons. They should be embarrassed. I’m so glad I’ve never fallen into the baby mama trap.
Cam Newton been a single celled organism....even the NFL found him to be a walking talking NO. He has ruined his chances for a high functioning woman who values her ph balance 😂
He’s not looking for actually high value women he is perfectly fine settling for aesthetically high value women who will settle for whatever scraps he will give. That man is annoyed speaking to an actual intellectual because he fancies himself as an intellectual 😂 he’s delusional trying to spar about mental health with a person who has a PHD in it is lunacy
Ph balance yasssssss I've been begging for women to respect their lady part's choose your v over him lord tell them that place knows what's good and what's trash
I am a descendent of a great grandfather who created kids everywhere. My grandmother (his daughter) was the only one born in a marriage (he married my great grandmother) He also raised my grandmother (her mom had to live with white people to work) Here’s my point… the jealousy, hate, and envy can still be felt to this day from the “outside” broken families he created. My great grandfather treated us the BEST. We were the only ones to get an inheritance. The dynamics created through reckless sperminator behaviors are never ending.
Cuz men wit kids been saying they want women wit no kids so now u got a woman wit no kids saying she ain't dealing wit men like him n that hurt his ego
Liisstten, she exposed his MO and he became defensive, oppositional and cracked jokes in an effort to devalue what she was saying- better yet proving. She exposed him and Cam for their degenerate and dysfunctional behavior, but they both rely on the consensus of black male culture to justify their behavior. I’m disgusted with them more. Kudos to Dr.Bryant for trying to do her job as a clinicitian. As for myself, my life lesson is I will not accept this behavior in men including my own brothers. I will protect myself from these types of men.
Cam gets high off changing a woman's no to a yes. He saw jazz talking all tough but knew she wouldn't stand on that. He's that guy, the lady swears she don't screw the first date, cam tells his boys watch this, she gone get down on the first night. Dr Bryant, he's working hard to have her eating her words and having her with her own jazz video!
What set him off was when the Dr. Cheyenne said at 41 that she prefers not to date men with kids at this time in her life, but she could if she wanted to.
Ringotv told us 2 yes. ago that Cam(clown) newton is a poky with money. Who would want that for the leader of any professional sports, the million dollar loser can newton!
@@TheDivineOne187 Long marriages are not a flex like they used to be. When I hear 39 years, I just feel depressed. Like, why would anyone want that??? 😂🤣😭 And to a pastor??? And a black pastor at that??? Hell to the NO!
THIS! I try to explain this to men all the time. To put it plainly, y’all lie. You lie about who you are so how are we to choose better when you’re not even being honest about who you are? Literally pretending to be someone else for years at a time. Smh it’s madness. How can we choose better when that’s how you guys show up? HOW?
I think Nick cannon situation is different. The women signed contracts so all those women with the exception of Mariah are participating in foolishness as well
@@ljackson24by reading the Yelp reviews and having discernment. You can Choose Better when you don't jump into a relationship without vetting them thoroughly.
@@MT-hk9cp Again, they LIE! We can wait years & still find out it’s not real until it’s too late. Some women chose to believe the lies, but most are utterly blindsided. So, stop it. How about everyone encourage men to heal so they can be themselves instead of thinking women are some kind reading genies. We’re human. Stop pacifying them & forcing US to be accountable for what they do and don’t do.
Men like this are surrounded by enablers. Her trying to spare his feelings by soothing him before delivering truth, no they need tough love. He wasn't even listening. Stop coddling your sons to death.
Yeah. But she probably knows without the compliments they’ll get defensive and the interview will end. She’s in this position bc of her finesse. You see people don’t invite me on podcasts. Lol
This is her profession. She knows how to navigate different personalities effectively. If people used your tactic for everything, they wouldn’t get far.
He is NOT going to marry her and he probably is secretly resenting her for being so “accommodating”…… Men don’t find a pick me attractive because it gives off energy that you are less than and desperate….. So, desperate that she will allow him to treat her any kinda of way….. Now that she has had the baby, he is going to pull back, give less and less, and eventually breadcrumb her until she gets fed up and leaves. The longer she stays the more resentful he will become that she has not gotten the hint and left on her own…… Men NEVER leave the relationship first…… they just will treat you so bad until you have no choice but to leave…… The longer you stay the more it confirms for them your low value….. the longer you stay the lower your value becomes in their eyes….. Right now she is a “place holder” until the next baby mama….. If it becomes harder for him to find a new baby mama because he has so many kids, he will finally cave to getting married out of desperation to replace the current baby mama(perfect example of this is Yung Joc)…… Even married they will not stop cheating…… The CamNewtons, YungJocs, NickCanons, and Futures of the world have been a chronic epidemic….. Men will not stop so that puts the responsibility on women to stop sleeping with these men with no commitment. It’s the only option. Period.
They never respect the women who come to their every beck and call, they secretly love the women who treat them like shit and doesn’t give af about them
I doubt he is even faithful to her now. Why was he saying 8 kids & she said 6? She is playing stupid games cause he is not prize. There is another option destigmatising mentally illness & community rejecting these pervs.
I love this comment cuz I always wonder wit the women who claim they will do AB&C for her man (n theres a lot) they either don't get them at all or they get them n treat them like trash...matter fact we don't hear how them men are gonna love a woman they find. All we hear is "I want I want I want" but what u gonna do once u have the woman u claim u want, what would loving her look like,u get the woman then what????
I finally was able to finish this. Cam thought he could passive aggressively attack her with his sassy undertones. No wonder everyone thinks he’s a JOKE. 😂 We all been there with men like this.. most men with money and multiple children act this way
Like how he gonna say "my situation" and then when she asked what was his situation, he got defensive as if he didn't just say the word "situation" first 😭😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Giiiiirrlll. She told him 50-Leventeen times "she would not date a man with children" and he could not process it like a radio station on a old radio from WWII that would not come in!! 28:44 . *THAT WAS COMEDY TO MY SOUL!!*
Their egos were hurt when she told both of them the women they chose were low functioning. 😂 They couldn’t believe there are women out there who are high functioning that they could not get regardless of how much money and access they have.
17:27 you can't even be a good dad with 8 children. Because outside of finances, your time is the most valuable. Ain't no way you can give quality time to each child. And that's for large families all under the same roof. This man, lives with NONE of them
Ladies don't do it! I was married to a man who had 2 kids. Horrible. I don't care if I "die alone" . I refuse to be with a man who has children. No I don't have any of my own. I've taught kids for over 20 years and It's a hard nope fo me!
Yep stay away from those human rabbits. I have one who helped me make my son and he's a walking rabbit women hating demon. And those types also like making women with their child or children poverty strictness.
Never married, but I used to believe that all I could choose from was men with kids. Soooooo over that mindset now. It ain't worth it. (Also a former public school educator, so I've raised enough of them as well.)
Yet if u asked a man will he date a woman wit kids it's a quick ass no with no explanation. But y is THIS scenario hard to believe that she don't want u
@@blessedlibra180because in the Black Community Black Women are brainwashed to accommodate a Black Man no matter his position in life.We should accept and make the best of repeat offender,the womanizer,the woman beater,the perv, the educated lame,the entrepreneur, the Doctor,The Preacher.We are to treat them all the same& accept whatever comes with theman& just be glad to have a man.
Thank you Tonya for covering this! She is so eloquent in her scope of practice and she leaves no rock unturned. I'm truly inspired by her wealth of knowledge.
I saw what she did 28:36. Broken people can come from a household of married people. Cam is a broken man who has had the example of marriage with his parents (who are still married). I see what she did there and he didn't want to go there.
@@MT-hk9cpIt wasn’t a happy one because *their* son doesn’t want to emulate that in his own life… Didn’t you hear? He wants more children and has NO DESIRE FOR MARRIAGE 😂😂😂
27:37 it's always funny to me when a man will try and convince a woman that he should be a candidate for her because he is attracted to her but the fact she is NOT choosing him, is a problem because he is entitled. He thinks he can be reckless and everybody should also accept his recklessness. So delulu that he should still be somebody she wants when he is irresponsible and reckless.
Notice he's only with the one who has 1 child. I think he's just creating children with these women and soon as she has multiple and needs help, he moves on to another woman to create with and leaves the mother to raise the children alone again only providing financial resources.
Unfortunately, these women make it scary for us. Because a lot go for this nonsense, you have to move on the defense because men are gonna try it. And if you don't, they have no incentive to be a good man because they can find another dummy
The thing that is saving black women a little on this is the self hatred, colorism and racism. I would like more of them to be racist at this point. Complete rejection will be our freedom.
@@byeee811 VERY even the broke dusty try to get you with weed and food to get with you because my dad most women would go for that these days and I guess that’s what buddy thought I wanted to do lmao I wasn’t interested in him but he keep asking have I ate so he can go out with me but guess what the kicker is ???🤣 he didn’t have a car but I DID 😂😂 sad reality I can’t believe they terrible pool
I love #DrCheyenneBryant she did not accept his nonsense. Lol, she is beautiful, poised and well educated. 😷😷SHE TOLD HIM 6 TIMES SHE WILL NOT DATE A BABY DADDY.
23:58 immediate turn off. He becomes like a eunuch in my eyes. Untouchable. No father has time to be out meeting new people, EIGHT CHILDREN means he is selfish, irresponsible and reckless. ZERO
I’m with you Tonya, this interview is absolutely flooring and he is likely under the influence. I mean his word salad was coleslaw at this point. It gave me a headache.
Speaking on your desire to search within to discover your reluctance to cover these types of stories deeply resonated with me. I understand the impetus for it, yet there is something rather soul draining about focusing on the latest antics of the Cannons and Newtons of the world, who will always exist. By the way, congratulations on acceptance into your graduate program.🎉
It's as if he wants to make her choose a man with children, when ashe clearly said she did not desire that🤷🏾♀️ We all, men and women, have the right to our personal preferences.
It's the over-talking for me! Sis has sooooo much more patience than I do, lol! Cuz SHUT UP AND LISTEN, DAAAAMN!!!! Nick definitely showed his A$$!!! And as for Cam....well....yeah....she understood the assignment!
Even if Cam did marry Jas, I still don't think Jasmine's level of devotion is conducive for a healthy relationship. In the Shan interview, Jasmine couldn't really tell us what Cam brings to the relationship... and I don't believe that it's copious amounts of $$$ because she had to work when she was super pregnant. Its a one way energy siphon, and she will end up depleted.
I’m 38 childless and married. I had a conversation years ago with a friend before I got married and I told her that I wouldn’t want to be a babymama or have kids with a man who has a lot of kids. I said if I did it’s not fair that my child has to compete for resources with the kids ahead or behind them. I don’t want my kid(s) to experience that bc now he has to spread himself thin. She told me I was being selfish for thinking like that. I told her I’m not selfish, I’m being logical. I’m the youngest on both sides and I didn’t have to experience that. I have an older sis on mom side and older brother and sis on dad side. Bout time I came along, my siblings on my dad side was teenagers and almost out the house. That same friend has multiple kids by multiple dads who barely her.
What in the dressed up version of Fresh and Fit. Nick Cannon is a joke Cam Newton isn’t worth a second of brain cell use. If their names didn’t come across your show I wouldn’t have clicked.
These dudes are a headache…all they want to do is talk in circles. They believe they are so important and desirable and can’t believe a woman does not want them. It’s a the audacity for me!
13:29 he's not high. He is deflecting. So he will keep popping stupid phrases to deflect and distracted instead of staying on topic because the truth is, he is a deadbeat
@@TonyaTko everyone in all of this need self love and for nick and cam a damn vasectomy my goodness did they go to the jermaine jackson school of collecting baby mamas!!!
He was having a hard time accepting what she was saying! She was crystal clear but in his head he was confused!!! Then he wanted to make it seem like she has to accept the non negotiables just to be in a relationship.
Cam think he is smarter than he is. He is attracted to her and thought he could outsmart her with his basic knowledge and money. He's used to women wanting him for his money, status and lifestyle. There is nothing you can tell a man like this
I value myself and I enjoy having peace in my life. I thank the Most High for teaching me how to love myself and to hold out for a mate on the same vibration.
Right its a bigger commitment having kids than getting married. I hope this interview wakes ppl up. Men with kids is definitely a turn off, ive dated someone with kids when i was17. Never again i was so blind and traumatized. These men are broken and traumatized, i recommend Dr. Gabor mate to get to the root of it.
Out here tricking women. But if someone tricked them out of money they would be mad. (This mf got me… this job gave me all these expectations but gave me something the complete opposite)
Nick was completely unhinged and disengaged in that interview because he doesn't want to face the reality of what she's saying and ultimately the decisions he's made for his life. Sad
we will see IF she has HEALED him if he marries her or has a baby by a mother woman OR has a baby by one of the previous bm. yikes! Either way she is gonna have some awesome comedy standup content after this go round .
At least Nick stayed respectful, clown newton calling her baby, blowing that stinky cigar smoke (his security blanket) in her face his reaction to it all was childish, when is he going to grow up. 35 looking hard 40 what a waste his over the top arrogance is what's going to bring him lower than he already is.
Like he said he can change she will get tired. Everything will be okay until you are worn out and then it's she not doing what she use to do and give a reason why he stepping out. Instead of asking why which opens for vulnerability and communication. She's in survival mode which is not good.
You glow inside and out! I am so happy to see your positive energy shining through. The point that you made saying that our communities have people that think having a child is a lesser commitment than getting married is spot-on! It made me so sad and angry to hear this truth.
The way Nick stated everything he needed to do yo present as a good man, then Toxic Nick shows up confirms that he is the loser I always thought he was. Someone, early on in his life called him corny, and I feel like everything he does is to show he is not corny.
Notice how he doesn’t say his kids live with him until wayyy after she says repeatedly that he’s making broken homes. Which implies that if they do actually live with him they are not there the entire time or if they are they aren’t being taken care of solely by him. If they live with you, why was that not your first rebuttal to her saying you’re not in the home and creating houses?
You can tell she is spinning this tale like girl 'i am zo happy'.If you hear her closely ,its all about him😳.What does Cam do for Jazz to feel happy?. Girl stop it!.
Jazzy (Cams BM) is pathetic. She said that she does…. Butt stuff with cam even though it hurts her. She said she goes in the shower and cries after because it’s so painful. She needs to love herself more.
YES she came online & told the whole world she is being s3xually abused ( & Cam is not canceled) Is this the life she want others to emulate or desire? No money in the world. That man is sadistic just cause someone is so broken you can do anything to them & they allow it doesn't give you the right to go ahead & destroy them. For her baby's sake I hope she finds the healing she desperately needs. I have seen women like her unalive themselves after it all blew up in their face.
Cam is cheap and petty. I can see the kids living with him instead of the mothers. He’s not the type who wants to pay the mothers. He has punishing ways. He sued the mom who had the most of his kids (high school sweetheart) for an old luxury car he bought her many years ago. She had to give it back. No one wins with men like him … the facade is never kept up. They enjoy embarrassing women.
@@autumnjaneeI saw right through his act too.He does enjoy embarrassing women.I don't really think he even likes Women.He just enjoys the anatomy of Women.There is no connection he's emotionally detached.I bet he has a porn addiction.That will screw up a man everytime. It makes them view women as objects instead of people.
@Tshidi-zd2yx with her dumb loud ass. Women like her need to get men like cam don't care about having a healthy family. They only care about looking like a family-oriented man and making their children and their sex supplies suffer.
31:51 Being the majority of reckless men isn't a way to convince anyone you're worthy of another woman or a relationship. And you don't even have time for another woman. There are 8 humans that require your daily attention out there. Go take care of those babies. I'm sure their mothers could use a break.
Cam was intellectually bested all throughout this interview. He didn't realize that she actually gave him a free therapy session. 🤣
Cam isn’t as smart as he’d like us all to believe.
@@anime-nn9klmost men aren't 💅🏾
False she made herself look crazy!
Introspection, self-awareness, and recognizing patterns that impact our sense of self and being sound insane to people who haven't arrived at that season of their life yet.
she really did!
"A high functioning woman wouldn't even attract you" 💯
Ladies, please understand it's not a complement for a man to have children with you before marriage. That means they're ok with you possibly sacrificing your life and health to birth their children while giving you nothing in return. Its awful. I feel so bad for the children being birthed into dysfunction
Well said and simply put it’s insulting actually so Im good enough to do this basically alone but not good enough to be your wife. That is a degenerate human being who has no respect for life, has no respect for the responsibility of creating life and functional human beings, has no understanding of the role of a father, has no empathy for women and the sacrifice and miracle of child birth nor empathy for innocent children. Its NASTY work
While I agree with you, I also am a living testament to marriage also doesn't make these men care anymore at least in my recent experience. I'm glad I got out of my marriage before the toxicity of his being ruined my child.
@@cocoxoxoxo7881 unfortunately this is true
Far worse when predators Pregnancy- Trap teenagers
It’s not a compliment to be impregnated AT ALL. Your body gets ruined while his stays intact. It’s not fair nor worthwhile. Men are the LAST SPECIES on earth to EVER do something unfair for.
She made history with this interview
She did!!! lol
This is why so many black women are dating out
In fact she did… as a black educated woman … she did…
I'm a new "fan"! 🙌🏽
@@flyleelee5351 she is still a certified pygmy. She was walking on eggshells to spare him his feelings. She went gentle on him. Let’s not celebrate her. She wants to be chose by one of these bandits.
Nick is unhinged around the 1:15:00 mark. Moving around cackling uncontrollably. I love that Dr. Bryant asked him to regulate his emotions.
Yeah
Nick's entire body language was closed off. He was feeling personally attacked. The legs crossed, internal organs crossed off, and feet pointed away from Dr. Bryant. Hos body wanted to run out of there. His defense was showing his disrespect to his guest, and projecting an unjustified defense.
They all do that nothing new. Caught in they bs lies
I saw that😅😅😅
@@ajtwnHe knows she’s right.
8 kids 3 baby mamas seven pipers pipping six geese a laying and no golden rings
Loloool. The way I LAUGHED! 😝
🤣💀💀💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
This took me out 😂😂😂😂
spot on, tonya. he was rejected by a preference. he was surprised that she was not impressed by his money and rejected his type of degeneracy.
So True! 💯The preference knew she would just be his baby mama and no ring 💍 he will leave her to take care of his child alone smh 🤦🏿♀️ that’s what they always do!
You sway with anything Maceo, one on forum you agree as long as Cam has money on another forum you you disagree! YOu need Christ and you need to stop playing games your almost 70 years old. Many of the BM from VZ have 3-4 families by different women its crazy and none of them are with women!
@@cecevanfran9836bingo I’m glad the world can see their bad behavior and choose better
@@mjohnson8206 right! Me too 💯we need to start waking up too many broken homes caused by DUSTIES
Do you really believe that??? Yeah he may have been but a man that signed a 100 mil contract isn't dealing with too much rejection..and what happened to my body my choice???
High value is a man with character and morals. Money alone does not make a man high value!
The women who keep having their kids should be analyzed too. They want money from the dads of course but at what cost???
Exactly. The children are going to resent them both one day
@@TonyaTko and don't let the woman finally wake up and find a husband or another man for the kids!!! Both of those men are gonna go insane and make life a living hell for getting a new man!!.. I mean, do you really think they're gonna be sister wives forever?
Low functioning
🎯. Thank You for pointing out the flip side
I feel sorry for the babies. No child wants gazillion half brothers & sisters running around & everytime the see someone resemble them they wonder is that also my dad's.
😂😂😂 Omg so funny when Tonya said
“If a man told me he had 8 children and 3 different women, never married, I would dry up like the Sahara desert”
😂 same here
😅😅😅 that took me out
@@pianotnt right 😂😂
Serengeti!! Same! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I would RUN aeay from that man once he says 8 children with 3 women. Too much drama with him, the women, those families of the women. And he's full of bs with too many issues.
@@jenniferray509 Same. Without a doubt. No amount of money or fame will make me find that situation appealing lol.
He is more than welcome to wine 🥂 and dine 🍜 me though 😁💁🏾♀️💅🏾 but no interest in even becoming his wife, let alone a member of his harem. Lol.
You’re right! Internally he is grasping the reality that even though he’s a rich former football star he wouldn’t be able to attain the quality of woman like the doctor in front of him.
He can get a baddie and a preference all day-but not a woman that provides the type of intrigue and growth that he probably craves deep down. He’s stuck.
And this Nick Cannon segment….. WOW! He comes off sick. Truly.
Whew!! 💯!!
I think Cam took the doc’s interview as a challenge. His ego won’t allow him to believe she can’t be bought like he believes all women can. Look how big and strong Jazzy was talking before he waved a few dollars in front of her. They LOVE humbling the “good ones”.
Was she really one of the "good ones" if she was bought so easily? sounded to me like she was a pick me pretending to be a liberated woman because that's what's popular right now.
@@jasminejmm8324💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@@jasminejmm8324 That part right there.
Did u see he tried to put his couple phyc classes in comparison to her whole PHD
@@jasminejmm8324goof point
I don't even want a man with 1 child. It's too much for me to handle.
On god
I'm in my fifties so I know most men will have kids, mostly grown. I'm my twenties and thirties I mainly refused to do it
Exactly
Don't settle. It ain't worth it, and there are so many men out there who don't have children.
Dr.Bryant has the patience of a saint because both Cam and Nick were speaking and acting like buffoons. They should be embarrassed. I’m so glad I’ve never fallen into the baby mama trap.
Saaaaaame 🎉
Same here
Same! 🙌🏽
Same
Cam Newton been a single celled organism....even the NFL found him to be a walking talking NO. He has ruined his chances for a high functioning woman who values her ph balance 😂
lol @ the ph balance 😩😂
Facts he dropped the ball and the bag when he went the to patriots I was done then 😂
He’s not looking for actually high value women he is perfectly fine settling for aesthetically high value women who will settle for whatever scraps he will give. That man is annoyed speaking to an actual intellectual because he fancies himself as an intellectual 😂 he’s delusional trying to spar about mental health with a person who has a PHD in it is lunacy
Stop the cap cam took a nothing ass team to the Super Bowl and they rigged it for him to lose
Ph balance yasssssss I've been begging for women to respect their lady part's choose your v over him lord tell them that place knows what's good and what's trash
I am a descendent of a great grandfather who created kids everywhere.
My grandmother (his daughter) was the only one born in a marriage (he married my great grandmother) He also raised my grandmother (her mom had to live with white people to work)
Here’s my point… the jealousy, hate, and envy can still be felt to this day from the “outside” broken families he created.
My great grandfather treated us the BEST. We were the only ones to get an inheritance.
The dynamics created through reckless sperminator behaviors are never ending.
True. Generational Bitterness is so true is caused by this and people want to say "nah". YES IT DOES!!!
@@tigerlilly9038 generational bitterness is perfect term.
How many different ways would he ask her if she would date a man with kids 😭😭😭 31:18
😅 He was trying to engineer an exception for himself.
Lolol. Exactly!!!
And in one sentence she told him she wouldn't and he was crushed
Cuz men wit kids been saying they want women wit no kids so now u got a woman wit no kids saying she ain't dealing wit men like him n that hurt his ego
@@abcbandbthat's y he brought up 50
Liisstten, she exposed his MO and he became defensive, oppositional and cracked jokes in an effort to devalue what she was saying- better yet proving. She exposed him and Cam for their degenerate and dysfunctional behavior, but they both rely on the consensus of black male culture to justify their behavior. I’m disgusted with them more. Kudos to Dr.Bryant for trying to do her job as a clinicitian. As for myself, my life lesson is I will not accept this behavior in men including my own brothers. I will protect myself from these types of men.
What ever happened to my body my choice
See how after they get upset they want to switch the convo to her to see what she missing ...as if they looking for a gotcha moment from her
@@blessedlibra180explain what a broken family is
Cam gets high off changing a woman's no to a yes. He saw jazz talking all tough but knew she wouldn't stand on that. He's that guy, the lady swears she don't screw the first date, cam tells his boys watch this, she gone get down on the first night. Dr Bryant, he's working hard to have her eating her words and having her with her own jazz video!
Yep! 💯he is that type of dusty!
ABSOLUTELY!!
What set him off was when the Dr. Cheyenne said at 41 that she prefers not to date men with kids at this time in her life, but she could if she wanted to.
Ringotv told us 2 yes. ago that Cam(clown) newton is a poky with money. Who would want that for the leader of any professional sports, the million dollar loser can newton!
Cam also talk about his parents being married 39 yrs yet he doesn’t want it. Being together doesn’t mean happiness.
True. Makes no sense. Committing is bad, not broken homes.
His father is a whole bishop….these “preachers kids” stay cuttin up
I can only imagine what his Dad put his Mom through.
Don't nobody want 39 years of dread and depression. No thanks.
@@MotherTreeNMoon you are absolutely right! The Church First Ladies stay mums the word with a lot of the pastors degeneracies.
@@TheDivineOne187 Long marriages are not a flex like they used to be. When I hear 39 years, I just feel depressed. Like, why would anyone want that??? 😂🤣😭
And to a pastor??? And a black pastor at that??? Hell to the NO!
With the Nick Cannon situation - him admitting that he ‘manipulates situations’ and literally is a liar negates this idea of CHOOSE BETTER. 🙄
THIS! I try to explain this to men all the time. To put it plainly, y’all lie. You lie about who you are so how are we to choose better when you’re not even being honest about who you are? Literally pretending to be someone else for years at a time. Smh it’s madness. How can we choose better when that’s how you guys show up? HOW?
I think Nick cannon situation is different. The women signed contracts so all those women with the exception of Mariah are participating in foolishness as well
@@ljackson24by reading the Yelp reviews and having discernment. You can Choose Better when you don't jump into a relationship without vetting them thoroughly.
So he manipulated how many women again?😂😂😂😂 yeah I know number 8 thought she would be different from 1-7...
@@MT-hk9cp Again, they LIE! We can wait years & still find out it’s not real until it’s too late. Some women chose to believe the lies, but most are utterly blindsided. So, stop it.
How about everyone encourage men to heal so they can be themselves instead of thinking women are some kind reading genies. We’re human. Stop pacifying them & forcing US to be accountable for what they do and don’t do.
Men like this are surrounded by enablers. Her trying to spare his feelings by soothing him before delivering truth, no they need tough love. He wasn't even listening. Stop coddling your sons to death.
Yeah. But she probably knows without the compliments they’ll get defensive and the interview will end. She’s in this position bc of her finesse. You see people don’t invite me on podcasts. Lol
This is her profession. She knows how to navigate different personalities effectively. If people used your tactic for everything, they wouldn’t get far.
He is NOT going to marry her and he probably is secretly resenting her for being so “accommodating”…… Men don’t find a pick me attractive because it gives off energy that you are less than and desperate….. So, desperate that she will allow him to treat her any kinda of way….. Now that she has had the baby, he is going to pull back, give less and less, and eventually breadcrumb her until she gets fed up and leaves. The longer she stays the more resentful he will become that she has not gotten the hint and left on her own…… Men NEVER leave the relationship first…… they just will treat you so bad until you have no choice but to leave…… The longer you stay the more it confirms for them your low value….. the longer you stay the lower your value becomes in their eyes….. Right now she is a “place holder” until the next baby mama….. If it becomes harder for him to find a new baby mama because he has so many kids, he will finally cave to getting married out of desperation to replace the current baby mama(perfect example of this is Yung Joc)…… Even married they will not stop cheating…… The CamNewtons, YungJocs, NickCanons, and Futures of the world have been a chronic epidemic….. Men will not stop so that puts the responsibility on women to stop sleeping with these men with no commitment. It’s the only option. Period.
They never respect the women who come to their every beck and call, they secretly love the women who treat them like shit and doesn’t give af about them
I doubt he is even faithful to her now. Why was he saying 8 kids & she said 6? She is playing stupid games cause he is not prize.
There is another option destigmatising mentally illness & community rejecting these pervs.
I love this comment cuz I always wonder wit the women who claim they will do AB&C for her man (n theres a lot) they either don't get them at all or they get them n treat them like trash...matter fact we don't hear how them men are gonna love a woman they find. All we hear is "I want I want I want" but what u gonna do once u have the woman u claim u want, what would loving her look like,u get the woman then what????
I finally was able to finish this.
Cam thought he could passive aggressively attack her with his sassy undertones. No wonder everyone thinks he’s a JOKE. 😂
We all been there with men like this.. most men with money and multiple children act this way
Sad thing is Even the broke men do it
N this is a man with a father
Like how he gonna say "my situation" and then when she asked what was his situation, he got defensive as if he didn't just say the word "situation" first 😭😭
Right like wtf is ur situation thats ur LIFE
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Giiiiirrlll. She told him 50-Leventeen times "she would not date a man with children" and he could not process it like a radio station on a old radio from WWII that would not come in!! 28:44 . *THAT WAS COMEDY TO MY SOUL!!*
Their egos were hurt when she told both of them the women they chose were low functioning. 😂 They couldn’t believe there are women out there who are high functioning that they could not get regardless of how much money and access they have.
You can tell these man are used to being the smartest in the room or no one checking them at least . They are not picking up what she’s putting down.
Definitely not the smartest just around alot of sycophants who do not talk back to them cause they are only a paycheck.
17:27 you can't even be a good dad with 8 children. Because outside of finances, your time is the most valuable. Ain't no way you can give quality time to each child. And that's for large families all under the same roof. This man, lives with NONE of them
People are claiming they live together
I think he was trying to get with her... Cam couldn't believe that she didn't want to get with him😅😅😅😅😅
Ladies don't do it! I was married to a man who had 2 kids. Horrible. I don't care if I "die alone" . I refuse to be with a man who has children. No I don't have any of my own. I've taught kids for over 20 years and It's a hard nope fo me!
Yep stay away from those human rabbits. I have one who helped me make my son and he's a walking rabbit women hating demon. And those types also like making women with their child or children poverty strictness.
Never married, but I used to believe that all I could choose from was men with kids. Soooooo over that mindset now. It ain't worth it. (Also a former public school educator, so I've raised enough of them as well.)
29:45 1 kid, 2 kids, 3 kids 4.
4 kids, 5 kids, 6 kids more!!🤣 diabolical!😂
Lolololol. These sperminators are diabolical lol 😝
When you said you’re a candidate for a Masters I nearly screamed!!! And I’m currently in the library 😅 Congratulations. I’m rooting for you ❤❤❤❤🤗
Thank you!!! 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Cam is trying to make himself included in her preference. He cannot fathom that he wouldn’t be a woman’s preference
Yet if u asked a man will he date a woman wit kids it's a quick ass no with no explanation. But y is THIS scenario hard to believe that she don't want u
@@blessedlibra180because in the Black Community Black Women are brainwashed to accommodate a Black Man no matter his position in life.We should accept and make the best of repeat offender,the womanizer,the woman beater,the perv, the educated lame,the entrepreneur, the Doctor,The Preacher.We are to treat them all the same& accept whatever comes with theman& just be glad to have a man.
Thank you Tonya for covering this! She is so eloquent in her scope of practice and she leaves no rock unturned. I'm truly inspired by her wealth of knowledge.
I saw what she did 28:36. Broken people can come from a household of married people. Cam is a broken man who has had the example of marriage with his parents (who are still married). I see what she did there and he didn't want to go there.
Exactly she called it out
And he keeps mentioning his parents long 30 + yr marriage. I bet his momma is long suffering
@@TonyaTkobut was it happy? That's the question
@@MT-hk9cpIt wasn’t a happy one because *their* son doesn’t want to emulate that in his own life…
Didn’t you hear? He wants more children and has NO DESIRE FOR MARRIAGE 😂😂😂
Bunch of clowns out here. 🙄🙄🙄
🤡 Full time and no benefits
@@peacejoylove8542these are facts
He felt judged, and lashed out in a passive aggressive manner
27:37 it's always funny to me when a man will try and convince a woman that he should be a candidate for her because he is attracted to her but the fact she is NOT choosing him, is a problem because he is entitled. He thinks he can be reckless and everybody should also accept his recklessness. So delulu that he should still be somebody she wants when he is irresponsible and reckless.
Notice he's only with the one who has 1 child. I think he's just creating children with these women and soon as she has multiple and needs help, he moves on to another woman to create with and leaves the mother to raise the children alone again only providing financial resources.
They all do this, they leave and find another woman who has no children and as soon as she has a child he leaves her, it’s cycle
They are there for a good time not a long time.
@@beewest5704LMFAOOOO😆😆😆🤣😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that saying is always funny to me 😆😆 but m weak asf
EVERY DAMN TIME!
“Reckless sperminators” 😂😂
I love it
Unfortunately, these women make it scary for us. Because a lot go for this nonsense, you have to move on the defense because men are gonna try it. And if you don't, they have no incentive to be a good man because they can find another dummy
The thing that is saving black women a little on this is the self hatred, colorism and racism. I would like more of them to be racist at this point. Complete rejection will be our freedom.
Turning 25. This is the exact game. Lol. I’m too smart. They can’t even break me if they wanted. And they don’t like that.
This is why the current dating pool is shallow asf
@@byeee811 VERY even the broke dusty try to get you with weed and food to get with you because my dad most women would go for that these days and I guess that’s what buddy thought I wanted to do lmao I wasn’t interested in him but he keep asking have I ate so he can go out with me but guess what the kicker is ???🤣 he didn’t have a car but I DID 😂😂 sad reality I can’t believe they terrible pool
Whatever Charlie Sheen was on when he did that interview with ABC News back in the day...that's what Cam on 😂
Lol he was talking about Tiger’s blood in that interview like huh lol
😂😂😂😂
Good to see you back, Tonya 💕 hope you are feeling well and rejuvenated
I love #DrCheyenneBryant she did not accept his nonsense. Lol, she is beautiful, poised and well educated. 😷😷SHE TOLD HIM 6 TIMES SHE WILL NOT DATE A BABY DADDY.
She really said packing and unpacking his bag, as an answer to what she does for him…so she is a bagger?😂
23:58 immediate turn off. He becomes like a eunuch in my eyes. Untouchable. No father has time to be out meeting new people, EIGHT CHILDREN means he is selfish, irresponsible and reckless. ZERO
Also BM think they are wanted at any age to any woman and that is so so not true!
I’m with you Tonya, this interview is absolutely flooring and he is likely under the influence. I mean his word salad was coleslaw at this point. It gave me a headache.
lol. Not coleslaw
Speaking on your desire to search within to discover your reluctance to cover these types of stories deeply resonated with me. I understand the impetus for it, yet there is something rather soul draining about focusing on the latest antics of the Cannons and Newtons of the world, who will always exist. By the way, congratulations on acceptance into your graduate program.🎉
Thank you 🙌🏾
I guess that what it is. This is soooo prevalent. With no end or solution in sight. And supported by women
It's as if he wants to make her choose a man with children, when ashe clearly said she did not desire that🤷🏾♀️
We all, men and women, have the right to our personal preferences.
Someone said Nick is trying to make stem cell donors. I was floored.
1:20:25 not the finger paint 😂
It's the over-talking for me! Sis has sooooo much more patience than I do, lol! Cuz SHUT UP AND LISTEN, DAAAAMN!!!! Nick definitely showed his A$$!!! And as for Cam....well....yeah....she understood the assignment!
Yeah. Nick was in rare form
Even if Cam did marry Jas, I still don't think Jasmine's level of devotion is conducive for a healthy relationship.
In the Shan interview, Jasmine couldn't really tell us what Cam brings to the relationship... and I don't believe that it's copious amounts of $$$ because she had to work when she was super pregnant. Its a one way energy siphon, and she will end up depleted.
Exactly. She'll be burnt out before we know it
I’m 38 childless and married. I had a conversation years ago with a friend before I got married and I told her that I wouldn’t want to be a babymama or have kids with a man who has a lot of kids. I said if I did it’s not fair that my child has to compete for resources with the kids ahead or behind them. I don’t want my kid(s) to experience that bc now he has to spread himself thin. She told me I was being selfish for thinking like that. I told her I’m not selfish, I’m being logical. I’m the youngest on both sides and I didn’t have to experience that. I have an older sis on mom side and older brother and sis on dad side. Bout time I came along, my siblings on my dad side was teenagers and almost out the house. That same friend has multiple kids by multiple dads who barely her.
Oh wow. Yes. Our standards become our life. That’s deep
Sorry I missed the live, but u look phenomenal and well!
What in the dressed up version of Fresh and Fit. Nick Cannon is a joke Cam Newton isn’t worth a second of brain cell use. If their names didn’t come across your show I wouldn’t have clicked.
These dudes are a headache…all they want to do is talk in circles. They believe they are so important and desirable and can’t believe a woman does not want them. It’s a the audacity for me!
I am so here for the labels - high functioning vs low functioning individuals this is perfect and will be the new buzz word
13:29 he's not high. He is deflecting. So he will keep popping stupid phrases to deflect and distracted instead of staying on topic because the truth is, he is a deadbeat
This was annoying. I almost didn't make it through this, especially when Nick Cannon came on 🙄
No Accountability!
I walk for 8 at work. Today I walked over 10,000 steps today . Honesty for the past 3 days . So I’m gonna watch y’all move
lol. Get up and STRETCH. Don’t let the blood stagnate in your body.
You notice these men never talk about the well being of their children. They genuinely don't care about the kids involved.
She said her love can heal people but she needs to heal herself
Exactly
@@TonyaTko everyone in all of this need self love and for nick and cam a damn vasectomy my goodness did they go to the jermaine jackson school of collecting baby mamas!!!
He cant even look at her and have a convo
He can. He chooses not to
He was having a hard time accepting what she was saying! She was crystal clear but in his head he was confused!!! Then he wanted to make it seem like she has to accept the non negotiables just to be in a relationship.
He got into a relationship with Jasmine specifically to take her down
Cam think he is smarter than he is. He is attracted to her and thought he could outsmart her with his basic knowledge and money. He's used to women wanting him for his money, status and lifestyle. There is nothing you can tell a man like this
I value myself and I enjoy having peace in my life. I thank the Most High for teaching me how to love myself and to hold out for a mate on the same vibration.
Solid comment. No blanket statement disrespecting men because you’re bitter ( like a LOT of commenters), but raw unhinged truth.
Yeah that many kids will turn my stomach
Right its a bigger commitment having kids than getting married. I hope this interview wakes ppl up. Men with kids is definitely a turn off, ive dated someone with kids when i was17. Never again i was so blind and traumatized. These men are broken and traumatized, i recommend Dr. Gabor mate to get to the root of it.
Out here tricking women. But if someone tricked them out of money they would be mad. (This mf got me… this job gave me all these expectations but gave me something the complete opposite)
It took me a minute to watch this one.... I'm glad I waited. This is a good one Tonya!!!!!
Whoever this nick canon is, he talking like my little brother. So immature and being loud and talking over her and saying nothing. 😂
I'm stuck on him eliminating his accountability as a father early just in case his tribe don't end up being decent adults
Nick was completely unhinged and disengaged in that interview because he doesn't want to face the reality of what she's saying and ultimately the decisions he's made for his life. Sad
It’s like he is determined to trick a healed woman 1:14:42
we will see IF she has HEALED him if he marries her or has a baby by a mother woman OR has a baby by one of the previous bm. yikes! Either way she is gonna have some awesome comedy standup content after this go round .
At least Nick stayed respectful, clown newton calling her baby, blowing that stinky cigar smoke (his security blanket) in her face his reaction to it all was childish, when is he going to grow up. 35 looking hard 40 what a waste his over the top arrogance is what's going to bring him lower than he already is.
Like he said he can change she will get tired. Everything will be okay until you are worn out and then it's she not doing what she use to do and give a reason why he stepping out. Instead of asking why which opens for vulnerability and communication. She's in survival mode which is not good.
Omg! I love your style of presenting information and your perspective! 🥰
Thank you so much!! Welcome to the show be sure to subscribe and consider joining the text squad
You are so correct, I love that you reminded me that we are spirits having a human experience.
TRUTH‼️
SLL I am healing IN FULL so that I can attract the loving man meant just for me and for our future children. ❤
You see how Cam doubled down when she disqualified him being dateable.
You glow inside and out! I am so happy to see your positive energy shining through.
The point that you made saying that our communities have people that think having a child is a lesser commitment than getting married is spot-on! It made me so sad and angry to hear this truth.
She does realize spoiled means no good.
The way Nick stated everything he needed to do yo present as a good man, then Toxic Nick shows up confirms that he is the loser I always thought he was.
Someone, early on in his life called him corny, and I feel like everything he does is to show he is not corny.
As a spermanator is hilarious 😂
she said “you’re squirting very quickly” 💀
I loved how you presented this and particularly loved the dancing bit, keep doing what you are doing Queen 👑 ❤
Thank you so much!!
Notice how he doesn’t say his kids live with him until wayyy after she says repeatedly that he’s making broken homes. Which implies that if they do actually live with him they are not there the entire time or if they are they aren’t being taken care of solely by him. If they live with you, why was that not your first rebuttal to her saying you’re not in the home and creating houses?
You can tell she is spinning this tale like girl 'i am zo happy'.If you hear her closely ,its all about him😳.What does Cam do for Jazz to feel happy?. Girl stop it!.
Exactly. She seems lonely
geez Cam go back to school! It’s like people with money who have never been told they sound stupid..
They all live in the same home. However, yes, he is still creating broken homes.
Jazzy (Cams BM) is pathetic. She said that she does…. Butt stuff with cam even though it hurts her. She said she goes in the shower and cries after because it’s so painful. She needs to love herself more.
YES she came online & told the whole world she is being s3xually abused ( & Cam is not canceled) Is this the life she want others to emulate or desire? No money in the world. That man is sadistic just cause someone is so broken you can do anything to them & they allow it doesn't give you the right to go ahead & destroy them.
For her baby's sake I hope she finds the healing she desperately needs. I have seen women like her unalive themselves after it all blew up in their face.
@@beewest5704wow yes! Perfectly said.
Cam is a closeted homosexual.
Cam is GAY
I agree with everything you said, later in the video he said his kids live with him not the mothers
Wait. What! Who is caring for them? This is crazy
Cam is cheap and petty. I can see the kids living with him instead of the mothers. He’s not the type who wants to pay the mothers.
He has punishing ways. He sued the mom who had the most of his kids (high school sweetheart) for an old luxury car he bought her many years ago. She had to give it back.
No one wins with men like him … the facade is never kept up. They enjoy embarrassing women.
@@TonyaTkoIf he lives with his kids I pretty sure Jasmine is the one doing the day to day parenting
@@autumnjaneeI saw right through his act too.He does enjoy embarrassing women.I don't really think he even likes Women.He just enjoys the anatomy of Women.There is no connection he's emotionally detached.I bet he has a porn addiction.That will screw up a man everytime. It makes them view women as objects instead of people.
@Tshidi-zd2yx with her dumb loud ass. Women like her need to get men like cam don't care about having a healthy family. They only care about looking like a family-oriented man and making their children and their sex supplies suffer.
31:51 Being the majority of reckless men isn't a way to convince anyone you're worthy of another woman or a relationship. And you don't even have time for another woman. There are 8 humans that require your daily attention out there. Go take care of those babies. I'm sure their mothers could use a break.
Nicks behavior as a man and a father was extremely disturbing 😢he acts like a 200 pound child. Scary sight.
First time seeing your channel and I’m subscribing!! I love your vibe and your commentary. This was an awesome video and keep dancing momma lol
Thank you so much!! Welcome!
Does he even vet these women to be mothers to his kids? This shit is insane that people want to normalize this crap.
WAITTTTTT The math aint mathing..... Cam said he has 8 kids. Jazmin said that her baby will be Cams 6th child??? So where r the other 2 kids?🤔
6 biological and 2 adopted