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Id like to request a Rawbeautykristi deep dive. The crunchy mom to Christofascist pipeline is scaryyy 😢 She has built a career off of the girls gays and theys and people deserve to know what kind of hate group they’re funding by supporting her financially.
During the height of the pandemic, she commented on one of my videos: "You look like your parents are divorced." I told her she looked like her parents were related 😊
I will Never EVER listen to a woman who claims that she knows what men want and what a woman should be like, yet doesnt have a man and is not like the women she describes.
Hi, psychologist here! Just want to say that just because Hannah has her masters of psychology *does not* mean she is any kind of mental health provider. Entering into a career in counseling, psychology, or counseling requires clinical hours, passing a certification exam, among other requirements, in addition to a degree. We're safe from her for now!
@lisadgingersnaps9843 exactly, I agree with every opinion I see that mirrors my own, and only those opinions Yay!! And the ones I disagree with I don't ever discuss, because that would require critical thinking, and nope, not for me!!
How to debate like Pearl: 1) say something controversial to get engagement. 2) make up statistics to support it. 3) make up mythical friends, historical accounts, and events that never happened to back yourself up further. 4) never answer questions just deflect and raise strawman arguments. 5) ask questions but-this is crucial (in case they have real logic on their side)- talk over their answer.
@@Juanxlink and there it is. The toxicity we’ve been waiting for. Never mind Trump lied 30,000 times during his term, where are the Democrat lies? PLEASE say climate change to show your ignorance.
don't forget: women should be small, pure, obedient doormats who don't get an education nor a career- they marry a husband and have kids who they then clean up after and cook meals for. oh, and once they turn 29, you might as well order their casket and headstone because they are practically ancient at that point. she is the exact opposite of the type of woman she claims that every other woman should be. I'm not hating on traditional marriages, I don't think that's a big deal if that's what a couple agrees to, it's the fact that Pearl is a hypocritical grifter.
@@Create.Your.Legacy. who is marrying out of desperation? why does one do that? on top of that, her standards are.... what exactly? what do you know that we dont?
@@Create.Your.Legacy. also, you're in the wrong comment section to be trying to defend something like this. if these are your beliefs, fine, but this is not the place for you. curate your online experience better.
I love that she says, "They've expanded the definition of abuse to include financial abuse, coercive control, and even physical abuse." Pearl! Physical abuse is, like, the platonic ideal of abuse. It's the first thing most people think of when you say the word abuse! How would you define it without that bit?!
Same. My husband and I have talked about how we can tell we are getting old (we're also in our 30's) because even 18-20 year-olds look like kids to us.
Why is being on birth control a negative? When women have an unplanned pregnancy they say “You’re irresponsible for not using birth control.” But then denigrate women for using birth control. Make it make sense.
At this point, they are just literally picking at anything just to hate on women. They really just hate women. Those red pill men should date each other.
Her worldview revolves around women being functional and useful to men. It takes a certain mindset: women shouldn't not want to be pregnant and have kids and if you, as a woman, aren't in a good position to become a mother, then what are you doing with your life?
Pearl: THE CHILDREN! THE CHILDREN! Also Pearl: But if both parents are slamming each others heads into walls every day & every night _MAKE_ them stay together forever!
My best friend in primary school overheard her parents admit they were unhappy & only staying together for (the kids). Guess who internalized that she & her sister were the reason her parents were unhappy?? I always think for her when I hear people against divorce... Unhappy marriages can be harmful for children - even if there is no abuse (verbal, physical or otherwise) occurring, children and parents all deserve to live a life that fosters love, safety & happiness.
Literally my parents hated each other know who’s problem they made it ? mine. Glad they split eventually my mother is a horrid human who would give pearl a run for her money man. My mother didnt raise me past 8 and still hates me lol. Like good lord pearls brain doesnt brain
@@FukaiKokorothis. We all rejoiced when my parents divorced. I was 8. But it was 8 years of parents who clearly hated eachother and we internalized that as they each hate half of us. My sister was 12. Best thing that happened to our family sadly
The woman speaking on Pier's show at 1:32:08 is extremely intelligent thank you for implementing this clip. She absolutely tore Pearl's insidious masquerade into pieces and had such confidence and eloquence to put it together in an evidence based criticism that shows the unravelment of Pearl's scheme through Pearl's intense reaction. Pearl's reaction tells everything.. Thank you for the amazing piece of work with this video that details Pearl's case so elaborately and passionately. I think you did justice with trying to incorporate minimal bias to portray her character.
Pearl didn't know what to do when faced with a woman who is actually intelligent, well spoken, and capable of seeing through her bullshit. She read her for filth and did it with eloquence too.
@@TamESQ I mean, doesn’t her mom have everything Hannah wants? I mean a successful business, a husband, and a whole bunch of kids? She just can’t say she wants a business… even though she, ya know, runs a business 😂
52:20 If divorce was banned, I most likely wouldn't be alive today. My mom most likely wouldn't be alive today. My biological father was incredibly abusive, and when I got married, my husband was incredibly abusive. I never planned on getting divorced, but I also never expected to be abused. Pearl's rhetoric is so dangerous.
@@beepboop8374 I'm so sorry for your experience as well. It isn't fair to us, and people like Pearl just make it so much harder for people to believe victims' accounts.
True, my godfather would not be alive if divorce was banned (his now ex tried to poison him and when that did not work she resorted to a cylindrical shaped solid copper infusion. He survived thankfully.) Had to use different words because the platform does not like the real word. The one thing that irks me about this pick me is that for even the things she gets right, (Which is only a little, the rest is on a sliding scale from grey area to horribly wrong.) she does nothing to actually help men. Her mentality as a result ends up hurting all victims. And to add on the end, sorry for what you and your mother went through, people that hurt others like that need to be put under the prison.
So sorry for both of your experiences. I hope you’ve been able to see a good counselor who clicks with you. My story is about my biological parents, and it was traumatic there, and yes, there was a divorce but it didn’t last long enough. The only way I got out was through the social services terminating their parental rights and being adopted into a loving family. Though it doesn’t mean I can “know” what it’s like for others who live through the same thing when they are older, I still have all the compassion and empathy my heart can pour out to people who are in the middle of it, or who are just starting recovery. It takes time, be kind to yourself and seek help wherever and whenever you can find it. 💜
@@Mantuamaker you still went through something traumatic in your own right and I’m glad you were able to find a safe and loving family. Your story is still very valid. I worry so much about project 25 for this reason as well… they not only push for no divorce but they push for keeping kids with biological parents even in instances of dv and ca. Obviously not all cases are a monolith, but that’s why I hope for more stories like yours and less like Harmony Montgomery’s 💔
What I hate about people like this is that they never *actually* help men. They don’t talk about male seggs abuse, men loneliness, and the high suic1d3 count. They are not addressing the man-box or anything like this. They are using men to promote themselves. Simply!
My now ex-boyfriend sent me one of her videos in October 2022, where she said women who have a certain body count are low value women. He sent me this because he wanted to make me feel bad about myself and lucky to have him, a "loyal and high value man". SPOILER - he was not loyal and was a true misogynist. Pearl is the definition of a pick me and sold her soul for internet attention.
Pearl acting like abuse victims ALWAYS start shit and are also abusive is insane. My family used to tip toe around our father, catering to his every need, minimizing ourselves, being quiet and helpful and doing everything to never upset him....and he'd still blow up, break shit, and even get physically violent. There's nothing you can do if they're an abuser; they will abuse you.
I’m so sorry you had to experience that. It blows my mind she says the things she does. Makes no sense and she looks like a complete idiot, and a failure to mankind.
This. I started arguing and questioning my ex's emotional and mental abuse (after I started talking to others and they helped me realise what was happening) and he went right back and called me the gaslighter. He literally made everyone else in the house tiptoe around him, cater to his moods and whims, and keep his mood stable, but *I'm* the gaslighter because I called him out on his BS.
Actually also on the marriage thing, Celtic tradition was to only be married for a certain amount of time. When that marriage ended, they had the option to renew that or part ways. That’s where the idea behind a vow renewal came from, so even long long ago, marriage wasn’t “till death”
I have heard of this being practiced more recently, using 7 year cycles. After that time, the couple sit down and have an honest discussion about the relationship, and mutually decide to go into another 7 years or part ways. I like it as an idea, as it encourages people not to take their partner for granted. Downside, if you have had a wonderful 6 years and then have a tragedy, mental health problems, fall on hard times etc... Some people have very short memories.
@@BinturongGirl I’ve heard of the 7 year thing too. I think it’s a Lakota, Dakota, or Haudanoshonee (Iroquois) tradition (a lot of tribes have adopted it nowadays so I’ve forgotten the origin). There’s also the year and a day tradition from Celtic spirituality as the OG commenter described. Nowadays the latter is used as an engagement period rather than an actual marriage covenant. There’s even a couple of things in Christian tradition called the crying of the Banns & Pre-Cana where there is a period of time (usually weeks to months before the wedding) between the public announcement and the ceremony where it gives the couple time to discover for themselves and for others to come forward with any impediments to their relationship - be it legal or personal. The Banns are posted twice in the press and/or the newsletter and then read for the final time at the beginning of the ceremony (the “if there’s any reason why they shouldn’t be together, speak now or forever hold your peace” portion). It’s not just for drama - most manage to get the impediments worked out before it gets to that point but there’s always one thing that slips through the cracks. This is also why dispensations and annulments exist.
@JuriAmari FYI the banns of marriage were still getting read out during church services in the Church of England back when I was still practicing about 20yrs ago. They'd be read out for couples not just of that parish but neighbouring parishes a minimum of 2 times as you said, to allow anyone who might know that e.g. the bride & groom are actually half siblings, or the groom is still married to someone else a few towns over etc, to be able to tell the Vicar about why these people can't be legally married.
Just found out she went to a " christian" university and I really think this i s what messed her head so badly. This US cults that have nothing to do with christianity are really damaging to people.
Pearl vs Piers Morgan is like a mirror facing a mirror. I know she thinks that researching the person you're going to talk to is cheating or something, but she *really* should've looked into him if she didn't want to be exploited.
I mean science has made it clear women mature earlier than men I don't know if old mate understands that being disconnected from your emotions is not the same as emotional maturity, many women are incredibly emotionally developed, secure, aware, and educated, many women learn their emotions and how to regulate them, but I think that just goes over his head.
the fact that this lady probably ripped her name from tumblr user justgirlythings, who is a queer woman and has been posting positive things on the internet since the early 2010s, is a travesty.
I love how Pearl doesn't want to talk about the 'small portion' of women who get a divorce because their partner is abusive because it's not relevant when it's 'such a small part', but she can gladly talk about the small portion of slaves who talked positively about their owners
not to mention the obvious parallel, that abused women stay in abusive marriages for the same reason some slaves said wonderful things about their owners; they were afraid to get hurt.
So because I fought back when my at the time boyfriend hit me, that makes it two sided and we should have stayed together. Interesting take pearl. Fuck off with that shit, some people get pushed to a breaking point. Being a violent person is not who i want to be but when my life is on the line there's an animalistic need to survive.
Right!!! It’s not mutual abuse it’s literally referred to as “reactive abuse” because one person is being aggressive and violent towards the other and eventually the victim naturally fights back to protect themselves. She is out of her god damn mind.
It is so upsetting to hear someone hate themselves so loudly and confidently. It feels like she had a bad relationship with her mom and has made being contrary to her a career.
Or bad relationship w her dad. It’s like she’s regurgitating things a toxic father would be . She’s catering to men like that. Desperately wanting to be liked by them. And in turn liked by her daddy. Who sounds like he hates women if this is her view of women
Her mum actually posted a comment to reply to someone saying she needs to get Pearl checked and help her cause her thinking is literally bonkers, and her mum said basically she hope her daughter grows out of this before it causes reality to happen to her aka Pearl get abused or assaulted by a partner or forced to be a traditional wife in the bad unequal partnership way and also just wake up to how stupid all her bull sounds. Her mum literally works in the UN for women and honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if she isn’t embarrassed by Pearls antics
on behalf of chicago, we apologize for pearl davis. she was a natural disaster we hoped to contain within our city limits but it seems like our experiment went horrifically wrong.
From what i read she isn't from Chicago, she is from mchenry County and went to a catholic school in Woodstock, which... is a very conservative area. I would know, i grew up in those suburbs.
I've been in MULTIPLE abusive relationships and have been "S-A'd" several times since childhood....I never once reported any of it out of fear I wouldn't be believed. Her content/take on that is so frustrating and sets us survivors back so far. 😢
She said “woman actually like being cheated on” yeah I just loved crying my eyes out for a year from the betrayal and getting sick over it, it was amazing 🙄
You cry your eyes out, get sick over it, and have panic attacks regardless of if your men cheat. Women are statistically far more likely to go after a man that does well in the dating marketplace than the one that doesn’t know what he’s doing. Hypergamy has been in female nature for decades, you didn’t suddenly pop out being different.
Yeah love that my self esteem was so crushed and suffered shocking depression and anxiety and that even though I’m now alone I don’t trust anyone because I thought the man I loved wouldn’t choose to hurt me but he did - love that for me.
@@deezyhope675 You didn't suffer shocking depression and anxiety from a breakup. I don't really know what the plan on conflating all of these things is either, as if someones gonna jump up from their seat to play captain save a 304. Survival of the fittest if you're so distraught over a breakup.
The bits of Ethan just calmly trying to reason with Pearl is so fucking funny 😂😂 you can tell he wants to clown on her but he’s trying to have a real conversation.
The thing that is so infuriating during that Ethan Klein interview was she doesn't want to inflate the small exceptions in the abortion debate, but immediately goes to taking an extremely small exception in slavery and making that indicative of the entire institution.
My favourite thing about the red pill term is that I once read someone explain that the Matrix is a trans allegory. The brothers who made the movie have both transitioned since and in the 90s estrogen pills were red. It makes the term even more silly to me.
I find it really sad that there are women out there like Pearl who will say the most messed up things about women, solely for the validation of men. Only to never get picked. Like every time I hear women like Pearl speak about women I only shake my head in sadness and frustration. No matter what a man/men do/does they will put them on a pedestal, treat them like kings and Gods. Meanwhile they will degrade women, and blame them to no end for any and everything. It’s like that “ friend” that will put you down whenever you’re around guys. But Pearl even said and I quote “ I’d rather be a pick me than a skip me” which proves clear as day, that she’s doing all this for the attention of men.
She’s never gonna get picked, because as she said herself, she is horribly insecure. That’s what this is. She hates herself so much she’s willing to tear down every woman in the world along with her. It’s truly pathetic. No one will ever find that attractive except maybe to use it to stroke their own ego (men like Tate) and that’s not a relationship, it’s a mirror.
You usually see this kind of thing when there's abuse in the home. The abused child tries to get the abuser's approval while hating on the other parent because they subconsciously blame the non abuser for not protecting them.
Yet she has no man. And the audience of men that are telling her she is right will be spewing hate and/or making fun of her the second she does one little thing they don't like
You are so much nicer than me! I can never feel sad for somebody like that! I won't even say that it's sad. I just think it's karma! Your comment is spot on though!
That part! She rambles a lot in a way that shows she’s really just making shit up. You can tell cause occasionally she’ll go too far and even the people on her level will pull back and the way she’ll start stumbling in a panic to fix it.
My ex husband and I lived together for a long time after we divorced and we dated others. 50/50 nobody paid support because it was best for our kids. And what do you know? They're well adjusted, hard working adults. None of that single parent trash here. Yes, I am shitting on single parents. Deal with it. You don't have to fight with your ex. You can get along because it is what's best for the kids. Unless there's extreme cases of abuse (I find this is rare.) there's no reason to not get along.
@@billbombshiggy9254 You left the relationship, not the house. This thing about "doing what's best for the children" is such bullshit because I've seen therapists recommend for the parents to still live together for the kids but people never do that but they stay in a shitty relationship "for the children".
@@billbombshiggy9254an abuser destroys everyone, not just their physical victim. The mental and physical health of the child is paramount to you? Watching their mother or father get beat up is NEGATIVE to that
14:56 Man, as a daughter of a woman who I admire so heavily, that’s just one of the many lows that Pearl sinks to. She could be grateful for the privilege her two hardworking parents afforded her, but instead she throws her mom under the bus… what an entitled, ungrateful attitude!
i feel this very deeply. My mom is my hero while my dad was never around. I can't imagine having two loving parents and being that mean towards my mom, the person who gave you life, and a chance to live it well.
If I ever talked about my mom like that I would never forgive myself since my mom is a recent single parent and is the strongest person I know since she was at times the only person who was keeping our family together. She was at one point dealing with divorce from my father, my brother who was a spiraling addict that self destructed and after a vacation coming home to both cars totaled and had to then go buy a new car. Luckily we have made it through but we wouldn't without her
saying youre lucky enough to be sa'd before you got you period is so upsetting and horrifying because you don't have to deal with the possibility of being pregnant but the trauma is so terrible. im so sorry swoop and everyone else who had this fear
When I was 4, my abusers were 4 (f) and 8 (m). With the stats being what they are and having 4 daughters and a son, I'm terrified of which one will likely be victimized, when and by who.
I was treated so poorly at my job when i was pregnant, then told there wasn't room llr me to come back from. Maternity leave. I was the bread and butter of the business and w/o me they went down. Within a year all my clientele had found me because I took a hige leap of faith and started my own business. I decided I would never work for anyone ever again because being a mother comes first that was in 2009. Things may have changed a little but not enough!
Ethan's "We need to talk about the exceptions because those are the people who are gonna be most affected" is a helluva shutdown on all her statistics. I'm stealing that.
Yeah same! It's not just a shutdown, but it's a fact. That fact being that if you want to talk about anything like why we should ban abortion, then you have to look at everything and not cherry-pick your reasons
I love how grifters argue 'they arent selling anything' when they are. They're selling the idea that this template can actually lead to success, something that Pearl herself shows doesnt work because no matter how much she preaches this ideal it will never lift her up
This. Selling an idea is probably the most ultimate grift there can be: you can't exactly refund one and the seller can always argue that the idea wasn't flawed, you just failed to apply it properly so it's actually your fault.
Yeah. She's selling herself and her content, and her content is reaction content, meant to inspire either agreement or outrage in her audience. At best, you could say she's presenting a parody or satire, but there's no indication that she's selling it as anything other than sincere.
The fact that Swoop said that she was "lucky" that she had not yet had her period yet literally made me reflux in to my mouth. I cry for that little girl. I stand and cheer for the badass that she grew up in to. Love u, S. ♥️
i felt so sick hearing that. i really hope she’s not struggling while doing these docs ♥️ i can’t even imagine having to relive something like that for my job. love her for bringing more attention to the subject! and just in general.
It’s painfully obvious that Pearl is lucky enough to have grown up in a privileged bubble, and not suffered through an abusive relationship. She feels like she can speak on something that she has never experienced.
Veteran here! Not even a minute in and she already said that why should women vote? I’m absolutely appalled. I fought for the rights of this country so that every citizen can vote! I can already tell I’m not gonna like this girl but keep watching!!
Yes!! I am a civilian but I was excited to register to vote on my 18th birthday! I refuse to give up my right to vote because I know how hard the suffragettes had to work to get it, including remembering the English suffragette who threw herself in front of a racehorse and was trampled to death. So I remember people have fought and died so I can vote!
I’m really grateful Swoop covered this:) because someone needed to seriously address Pearl’s dangerous narrative. If one young girl believes her- it could destroy their lives 😢
Swoop, i just want to name what I heard you say that breaks me: that you were SAed as a child but lucky enough to not have had your first period. I had to pause after hearing that because of the immense grief I felt with you in that statement as a survivor and as a human being. Wtf. Thank you so much for your openness and petty, the world is so much lovelier with you in it and I'm so sorry about what happened, because it shouldn't have happened to you at that age or any age.
I wonder how many in her family she has had to cut out cos they took the abusers side cos in my case dna evidence and him admitting to it, and you know a child being able to talk wasn't enough for like half my family
@@klowe7213 30 years has dulled the pain, and being queer so i seeing chosen family over blood does help a lot, to me they are just people i share dna with people
She does all of that pandering to the "red pill" community, gets praised by those losers and they STILL refuse to actually date her. They don't even find her attractive. Embarrassing.
Imagine hating yourself as much as she does! But yeah she tries to embody the red pill dream girl but doesn't realize that she's missing a major part of it, which is to be attractive to men. I can't imagine chasing after these disgusting sh!t stains in the first place, but to so obviously parrot some ignorant bs in order to get noticed by them is really pathetic.
Its Sad! I actually do find her attractive, and if I didnt understand english and just saw her speak without knowing what she Said, I would think she sounded like a sweet and lovely person. If she could just stop hang around where she hangs around and pick a better group to be influenced by 😂
@@MellowJellyLol this breaks my heart. I am a very plain woman, have a boyfriend and I often times feel quite unattractive, yet he reassures me he finds me beautiful. I do not put much effort onto my appearence due to low self esteem but I wanna try...I am afraid of him stopping liking me because lf this lol.
Medically, miscarriages are listed as spontaneous abortions. I haven’t looked it up recently but iirc it’s about 1 in 3 women have had a miscarriage. since Pearl is an absolute idiot and likes to bend statistics to fit her narrative I’m willing to bet she’s using miscarriage statistics
@@gizaegypt9481saying teens getting abortions is bad is wild. Not having proper sex ed is bad. 14-19 year olds are teenagers and most of them arent ready to be parents or shouldnt be forced to be.
it's so interesting to see how sexism is on the table but not racism in these far right circles. you would think that if someone recognizes racism as bad, you could see the parallels to sexism and also recognize that sexism is bad.
I'm more than half-way through.. I have a confession. I almost got swallowed up by the red-pill to alt-right pipeline and it had EVERYTHING to do with hating my mom and the way I was raised. The way they give information like "if your mom wasn't awful your dad would have stayed" is extremely enticing rhetoric for children that were neglected or abused. Thankfully I woke up before the self-hatred ruined my life. Pearl is a victim but victims don't get to victimize others. Thanks for this Swoop.
Sigh. Red-pill is just an anti radical left mentality. Alt-right is the crazy radical right mentality. Stay at home wives, virginity, possessiveness, etc. is not exclusive to the right.
@queen.actual it's nice how reflected you are about this. I'm glad my parents weren't that way. You can be proud of yourself because you did, what not many people will ever do. It's sad how this red-pill bullsheit destroys so many peoples lives. I'm a guy, and I could never think about doing something like these men do, to my girlfriend, or any other women. To me, women are just people, like men are. I don't see a difference there, and I don't see why anyone else should. We are in the 21st century and should be over this whole "men oppressing women" sheit. I'm so sorry for all the women who still have to deal with all that, I think you all are incredibly strong.
My mother is a vile abusive narcissist and in no way have I ever tried to be a pick me misogynistic pos! Explain the correlation between these decisions of your mother and your choice to uphold the horrors women are treated to at the hands of men?!
I stopped believing she was serious after watching the H3 interview. She said nothing of substance and it was clear after she said “I believe women shouldn’t be able to divorce. Yeah….that’s what I believe” that she was literally just making shit up to bait people
She just dumps a bunch of controversial takes at the beginning of the interview and it's clear she just recites lines and then when she's asked to elaborate she crumbles
Someone on another video commented that Pearl looks like she's about to laugh every time she talks and I agree. It's like when you're telling a joke but try to hold in your laugh before getting to the punchline.
Ethan decimated her without ever being disrespectful or raising his voice. She knew it too, so she walked off. Her ideas are so ridiculous that even she can’t defend them.
AHH THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR USING MY VIDEO! I'm a huge fan of your work, and the Pearl video is one that I'm particularly proud of, so this is just a dream come true for me! And also, incredible work on this topic (as always!) 😄🙏💜
So, utilizing PEARL’S logic… it’s better for two abusive people to stay trapped in a marriage until one of them eventually k!lls the other? She DOES realize before no-fault divorce, battered women would sometimes be driven to poisoning their abusive husbands in self-defense, right? Yeahhh, she SURE cares about “male victims” 🙄
@@DanielledeWaal21 Speaking from experience, “staying together for the sake of the kid(s),” is worse than divorce. And I’m speaking as someone who’s seen my mom divorce my biological father, and then stay with my stepfather who abused her, just so her kid with him could have a dad in his life.
@segasister 💯💯 often even if there's no physical abuse it's safe and better to divorce. There's been studies and yelling etc can really mess up a kid. It can make them very quiet and anxious. Which if often enough will lead to constant mental health issues. I had a pretty traumatic childhood and feel like I'm just now processing life when I should have had this experience as a child. Wish I could experience childhood again but in a healthy environment.
I’m a married feminist and my husband is a feminist. We have a very equal and respectful marriage. An unmarried woman telling me how my marriage should or shouldn’t work is bonkers.
I‘d replace „marriage“ with „committed relationship“, just to include my sister‘s 8 year bf. =D If you’re not in a long-term relationship yourself, you don’t get to tell me how to handle my marriage either. =/
My husband and I grew up in a conservative patriarchal country. We've been married for almost 20 years now, and he doesn't mind that I haven't used his last name in all my legal documents at all.
@@ArDeeMee While they might not have had a formal marriage, they are still married. It's called common law marriage where two people live together long enough, it can be seen as a legal marriage. Though, just not sure how long. I thought it was about 8 to 10 years.
For some reason the line "Make sure these boxes are NOT recycled!!!" Really cracked me up 😂 like he really wants to make sure he's unlikeable in every possible way and wants us to know any cardboard in his presence can't be recycled
He's just being environmentally conscious, I'm sure. You actually can't recycle pizza boxes because the cardboard is full of grease and stained... I assume he wanted the boxes shredded and added to the compost heap, of course!
I'd like to ask Pearl.. what if a man and woman fall in love, get married, everything's great and then one day all of a sudden the husband stops working and will not work. Wife can't work cause, you know, gender roles and has no say in the matter. This goes on until they are homeless (maybe with children). Still no divirce? What if he starts using drugs and loses everything the family has? Shes evil.
25:36 Also the fact the red pill came from the matrix but it's a film by 2 TRANSGENDER WOMEN that said its undertones are about BEING TRANSGENDER will forever be hilarious to me
And theres a literal character called switch whos supposed to be played by two people. Being a perfect example of trans people exploring their identity in cyberspace. But nooooo it had to be the 90s lol
What’s truly frustrating about the “women are ruining marriage because they’re breaking their vows” argument is it fully glosses past whether or not the men have also maintained their vows. If marriage is a contract, and the man doesn’t love, honor, and cherish his wife, for better or worse, in sickness and in health, for as long as they both shall live, HE is the one who broke the contract. If he abuses his wife, HE broke the contract. If he cheats, HE broke the contract. If he tricks his wife into having kids, he not loving or honoring his wife and HE BROKE THE DAMN CONTRACT. The wife no longer is obligated to stay in that relationship.
PREACH 🤌🙌 this is exactly what I want someone to say to Pearl but knowing her she would blame the woman for the men doing that. She would say well did she have sex with him or withhold it like women do or did she let herself go and that's why he cheated?? She will make every excuse in the damn book and it's so annoying she really just needs to get punched lol
Or if the woman just gets bored or thinks she can do better, she’ll leave. Women cheat on the “safe” men for the fact he is. The men women are generally strongly attracted to are not suitable for long term relationships. Nature just needs the woman to get pregnant. Whether the guy sticks around is irrelevant.
@@BaconNMegsExactly and if it was the man's fault she would turn it around and say 'well, you should have chosen a high quality man then' lol delulu land is strong with this one 😂
Swoop, just want to make one note: Pearl is NOT a psychologist. To be a psychologist you have to obtain a PhD or PsyD- neither of which she has earned. I am saying this as someone who was in a graduate program for psychology. lol No Psychologist deserves to be placed on the same educational level as Pearl (I’m referencing the note around 17:50)
That's weird. In Scotland, you do not need a Phd to be a psychologist.. A degree in psychology and counselling will get you into a psychologist position. However, you need a Phd to be a Psychiatrist because they can prescribe drugs and diagnose psychiatric disorders.
@@Lelechesame thing over here in Poland honestly doesn’t surprise me that Europe has it different US always has to stick out from the rest of the world lmaooo
You absolutely do NOT need a PsyD or a PhD to be a psychologist. A masters degree is the minimum requirement in the US. To be a psychiatrist (they are different!) in the US, you'd need a PsyD or PhD. A quick Google search will tell you this.
This is a deeply insecure, deeply mentally unwell human. She is very weak willed and easily bends to the opinions to whatever man she considers the "Highest Value" in the room. She just desperately wants to be picked but, by her own standards, she is immediately disqualified from the men she wants because she doesnt fit the criteria that she herself is saying is the only acceptable type of woman. I also wouldnt be in the least shocked if she hates her mother and blames her for all her failures.
A single example of a married, pregnant woman with two children, who wanted to uphold her vows, stay in her marriage and work on it, despite the behaviour of her husband… Shannan Watts.
@@meme-bu8qu I don’t know what the rate is in the USA, but in Australia, a woman is killed by her domestic partner once every *eleven* days. So agreed, would love to see Pearl defend her position against someone who can gather up all the data to confront her.
My retort for any red pill is if a dude wants me to be a trad wife he better be a trad husband so we can have the ‘50s house, white picket fence, 2 1/2 kids etc. on only one income. Fair’s fair.
I read a story on a women who was happy to be a 'traditional wife' for her bf/fiancé and asked to review his finances to make sure he had the income potential, he didn't in order to remain in the city they were currently living in he would need to greatly increase his income in order to for here to quit her job. When he told him that he blew up stating he shouldn't have to change his job and she should still do it and be both the traditional wife...but keep her job. She dumped him then and there, stating he wasn't good enough for a traditional wife..
I contracted an incurable STD when I was 19. Fast forward to my 30’s, I told my partner who was incredibly supportive and helped me overcome a decade of shame and guilt that came from that. Not all people are misogynistic bigoted assholes.
My husband's uncle has herpes but has never given it to his wife and they've been married for 30+ years. Medications and cautions have done them justice thus far. ✌🏻💙
If it is herpes know that it isn't shameful and that a huge chunk of the adult population has it. But NEVER kiss a newborn baby or touch a baby during an outbreak because little ones can be badly hurt by the virus.
Absolutely spot-on that she didn’t get enough attention as one of ten children in a home, resents her mother for it, and is desperate to get the attention she didn’t as a child
I know a woman whose husband held a gun to her head. Swat had to come in and stop him from killing her. He was just found “not guilty” and his restraining order was lifted.
@@tearainey1 that was my question. And the swat were absolutely witnesses, he had a “pewpew” to her face when they broke the door down and had to negotiate her release. This wasn’t the first friend of mine with this serious of an outcome either.
Also her saying in an interview that she’s “interviewed hundreds of men who have been divorced and many of them have been falsely accused caused of dv/sa” of course the accused is going to tell you it’s false, even if it’s not 🙄 did she do any *actual* journalism after that? Did she ask for proof that it was false? Did she ask if it was taken to court and proven to be false? Did she interview the accuser? Did she check to see if they had a criminal record for dv/sa? My ex will tell you I falsely accused him.. my scars and police call record will prove it wasn’t a false accusation. All of her “I’ve talked to *hundreds* of people” is maddening.
This. My dad insists that he isn't physically abusive. Despite having the police called on him and calling witnesses (my brother and I) in to watch him break our mom's finger. I also got to hear his next girlfriend wonder why my mother left him and my dad offhandedly encourage her "you have to be crazy to leave a gentleman like him." "Yeah, don't worry. My ex is just crazy. That's the only reason why." Not like he was actively trying to use financial force to keep my mom from leaving at the same time or leveraging the college funds against us kids. That's not real. Like, newsflash, Pearl, abusers lie about what they did because it lets them hide and find new victims. Do some people lie about it in divorce? Yes. But most don't.
@@daisy9181 I am so sorry that happened to you. I never said false accusations don’t happen. I pointed out she has only ever claimed to ask the accused and then that’s it, end of story. Just like no one would have known the truth of what happened to *you* without you pushing for it, many real victims never get the truth out without fighting for it. My father will tell you he never SA’d me as a child, but he did. And my ex husband will tell you he never knocked me unconscious and then r-ped me, but he did. I did not report either of them because of my fear of them, so I am not even included in any of the stats. False accusations happen, but that also means the dudes she “interviewed” accusing the women they possibly assaulted could be false as well. Her only talking to them, proves how that happens.
@@daisy9181 Assuming your story is true - and I have no reason to assume that it isn't - it's quite horrific and traumatic. But please don't use your one experience to undermine the abuse that other people have been through. Just because you've experienced one thing (a thing that's statistically much less likely, even though every case should be considered on its own merit), doesn't mean that other people's experiences of actually being abused in an intimate relationship are not real.
She's jealous of her mother and resents her for her success. She hates herself and has a very unhealthy self-image. Rather than acknowledging that she has wounds that need healing and taking steps towards healing, she just ptomotes the idea that she's not the one with issues - all women are the same, so she seems normal in comparison.
Although there are clear causes for her being the way she is, her choices to promote her toxic beliefs makes her an awful person in my book. I doubt that if she were to seek help and change her ways today, she would be able to undo the harm she has done.
I hate it when I try to tell people about SWOOP and suggest they watch and support the channel they reply "oh, you only like her because she's attractive" and I say "well... yeah she is but she's also a genius. Can't women be both?"
As a single mom who changed her own tires, learned how to change her own oil and on a daily basis tried to show my son that a woman could do anything a man can do......... This is appalling! I paid for the bacon and brought it home and cooked it! I have had my whole world drop out from underneath me and there was no man here for me to cling to I would have told him to pack his s*** because I'm too busy to mess with someone else in my awesome self-sufficient life.
The thing is, there are different types of women. There are women like you who are determined and accountable and capable. Then there are women who don't have those traits. There are so many women who rely on others and are very codependent but then claim to be independent. You're a gem! You're a rare one. Be proud, and continue to inspire others.
I am single and live by myself and know how to do all these. 😅 It has never been about gender, or with being married or not, but about knowing how to manage your life.
I do have a 2 bedroom apt that I keep up with a single income. No help from the government and I live in California. It's not always easy but it's doable. That is not me agreeing with the state of the economy tho lol
Her saying 35 year old women aren't hot is such a wild cope and display of self-loathing. I was femme presenting today and I got hit on twice. By people ten years younger than me. I genuinely cannot understand that line of thinking, like.. what!? We barely even have wrinkles at 35, if any.
Eyyyooooooooo I got divorced last year BECAUSE it was what was best for my kids. Yes it was stressful for them for a few months, but their dad and I just didn't work well under the same roof. It was more important to me for my kids to see what a healthy, happy adult relationship looks like than it was to have 2 adults who they share DNA with living under the same roof.
I'm so glad my parents got divorced, and have been since I was 10 (they divorced when I was 2). Because they were seperated they were actually able to be kind and co-parent effectively rather than scream and fight all the time. Our family had its problems sure, and there was a part of me that wanted the traditional family experience I would have so many more issues if they'd stayed together.
I‘m a child of divorce and wouldn‘t want it any other way. My parents were not a good match at ALL. My dad has since remarried and I‘ve gotten the best gift ever out of it: two extra siblings whom I love to death :) Wishing you only the best! :)❤
There’s one thing Pearl said that’s a HALF truth. RICH, WHITE women were a “protected class”, but if you were a colored woman, or a poor white woman, you were NOT afforded that same “protection”. Not at ALL surprised Pearl framed it the way she did, though, being the grifter she is.
Protected class or Prized possession? Still a better position than those from other backgrounds/ethnicities. But did being a pampered pet blind them to the ownership they were still under?
@@madreep most likely this person doesn't have English as their first language and isn't from the US, I used to say the same thing until people educated me about it
I like how Pearl basically accused her parents of fraud by explaining away any of her mom’s accomplishments as not real and were done for tax right off/ or grants lol. Also, I guess her mom has a tik tok account
"Give it to me daddy YAAAS and then I'll make it your problem!" 😂😂😂 I just started watching SWOOP about a week ago, I'm obsessed. The hair, the makeup, the CONFIDENCE ❤🎉 Every video i watch i feel my insecurities fading because her energy is contagious! Also love that she models her own merch. I am a new fan 🎉
I've always had the opinion that 1. Her content is motivated by income and provoking people gets the views she wants 2. She thinks her platform will lead her to the high value man, like her father, she wants to be with. I genuinely feel she has deep-rooted mommy issues, jealousy because she had to fight for her attention, because she's not as successful as her mother and. She speaks about marriage and relationships like someone without the experience of relationships and I also think it's deliberate. I don't know, I think she's deeply unhappy and extremely insecure.
It's called standards and independence. It doesn't seem like she is willing to settle until she is ready. Which is smart and more women should do the same.
@@Create.Your.Legacy. This woman believes that women shouldn't have the right to vote. That is not independence. I don't care if she has standards and is waiting to get married. That is perfectly fine. But she shouldn't be telling women to not get a divorce if they are getting abused. It is harmful.
what's interesting to me about calling out teaching and healthcare as *run by* women is that they are largely staffed by women- but the boards are not, and your nurses/doctors and teachers do NOT have the power to run things. they're just trying to do their damndest to do what they can while being overworked to hell
I noticed that as well. She just states that as a fact. When actually those were considered ‘female’ jobs historically but the corporations and non-profits were always run by men. Her facts are not at all factual.
That and we haven’t even been allowed to hold those jobs in the way we do now for even 100 years yet. Men have been the dominant gender in charge of the entire world for ALL of human history, and LOOK AT WHERE WE ARE. Nothing that moron says even makes sense.
Yes I thought the same! I work in healthcare and yes the faces I see everyday are mostly women but the people making decision above us are definitely men.
The Jewish commentator on Piers Morgan was 100% right: we think we can debate people like this but we cannot. There is no winning. This is true in all cases but especially when someone dives headfirst into anti-Jewish conspiracy theories. There is no way to disprove a conspiracy theory, and attempting to do so will only cause them to revise the conspiracy theory to be more airtight.
I loath that Pearl has a platform I’ve been married for 23 years. Divorce isn’t a thing you believe in or don’t believe in, it’s not faith or tradition, it’s a literal disillusion of a contract. I went into my marriage very clearly saying that if we come to a point that we’re not holding up our end of the terms it’s okay to dissolve the contract.
@@Gmenpg yes, but religious people feeling different doesn’t change that marriage itself has societal benefits (tax benefits, next of kin, inheritance, even visitation at the hospital in some circumstances) that have nothing to do with religion and that a “disbelief” in divorce don’t apply to the legality of the agreement. Pearl is missing the fact that not everyone who gets married is even Christian, or religious at all.
@@Create.Your.Legacy. you’re in the realm of contract/ covenant. All marriages (that are official) are contracts, not all marriages are covenant. All marriages that are a covenant are also contracts. The idea that all marriage is a Christian covenant is wildly false.
Does anyone else notice how contradictory it is that MAGA Conservatives gushed about taking the red pill to wake from the Matrix, but also took a stance against being "woke".
It's actually not contradictory at all. Being "red pilled" is a reference to being awake and aware. Woke is a liberal propaganda term. So they are actually the opposite. Also, not all people who support MAGA gush about being red pilled. I certainly don't, but I am awake to the propaganda used to manipulate people.
I’m a dv survivor. I was hit so hard I tasted blood! He threw a brick in my window of my car. Glass was everywhere! Me and my bff called the cops, the cops told us why should we find him or take a statement bio charges, if she’s going to go back to him. Yup! They didn’t do anything! The second time I called they did something at first it was going to be the same thing, but he looked at me and said ok don’t worry, and they help me. It’s hard to get help they don’t want to believe you or do anything.
As someone who has been in abusive situations and who has been divorced this gets under my skin because I would never want to put my kids through things for the sake of getting divorced. It makes me so mad for someone who has never been in that position to try to speak. She’s dangerous for women and especially any young girls who follow her…. Love you Swoop…. Great job as always
14:15 She's absolutely wrong. None of those industries are run by women. They're run by men with women being on the front line taking the brunt of the abuse and having no say in how things are done. In any industry that is predominantly staffed by women, when a man works there he is promoted faster out of the rank and file than a woman is. It's not just anecdotal, they've studied it. These "women" industries are run by men and men are moved into management positions as soon as they can be.
25:35 not only from a fictional movie BUT a movie created by two trans women with strong symbolism for the experience of a trans person - if I’m not mistaken?? Love that and how incels stole their name from something wholesome that was started by a woman. The irony. The audacity.
The “alpha male” guys have also co-opted Patrick Bateman from American Psycho, a film also directed by a woman that’s meant to satirize men like Bale 😭
@@inkassosjefen6315 literally what I was trying to say! My wording got weird but I remember learning about the origin of “incels” and it was actually really sweet and wholesome until asshats took over the name.
@@SpookyScarletShadow it’s actually really embarrassing how much self awareness these men lack… it’s scary and infuriating but if you can laugh instead of cry it helps a little lol
I have heard a term describing this type of personality: "tofu person." A tofu person sucks up all the personalities around them because they are unable to form their own or unable to come to terms with their own self. It seems fitting in this case.
The only thing she said that I sorta agree with is if you're fat then you are fat, I don't think it's healthy as a society to tell bigger people that they are meant to be that way. Don't get me wrong I won't be a douche about it but if the topic is brought up I wont sugar coat it, and I understand that some people truly can't lose weight do to health conditions but that is very rare. In short, I agree on the subject but not how she goes about addressing it.
Ok, just to say where I'm coming from, I am a stay at home mom and was a virgin on my wedding night. I'm exactly what Just Pearly Things seems to think women should be, apparently. And with all that said, I cannot stand her! I chose to do/be these things because it was what was best for me. That doesn't mean it is the only way for women to live. My husband and I have this setup due to my own medical needs (most jobs wouldn't work for me). I have a safety net if anything ever happened between us. I am, quite frankly, privileged to be able to live this way. If I didn't have this safety net, I don't think I'd be comfortable not having an income as well. And I don't understand the vitriol towards other women that chose to work (for practical reasons or just because they wish to). And the idea that women deserve to be cheated on or whatever due to being "unpure"... I just do not understand how much she seems to hate women. Just starting this video, but what I've seen on her in other videos, it blows my mind her views and attitude.
45:05 seriously! Part of why I agreed to go out with my now husband was because he was also waiting for marriage to have sex. He didn't expect me to be a virgin while not being one (the number of guys that wanted to be with me back in college only because I was a virgin was horrifying). And again, to be clear, not saying anything against other choices. But the weird double standard was so frustrating. I wasn't necessarily only willing to be with a man that had never had sex, but if a man thought sex before marriage was ok for men but not women, they were immediately someone I wouldn't date.
As a man who was in a horribly abusive relationship. I did some not great things. But don't blame the fucking victim. I appreciate that you are such a strong advocate of victims of abuse. It makes me feel not so alone. And it's nice to see someone with a platform being loud about it. Thank you.
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Id like to request a Rawbeautykristi deep dive. The crunchy mom to Christofascist pipeline is scaryyy 😢 She has built a career off of the girls gays and theys and people deserve to know what kind of hate group they’re funding by supporting her financially.
@@marieg.2472why don’t you check the links she literally posted in the comment…
Im so looking forward to that doc. Cant wait to hear you add your wit n sarcasm to that mess.
During the height of the pandemic, she commented on one of my videos: "You look like your parents are divorced." I told her she looked like her parents were related 😊
What a comeback, iconic 👏
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Amazing comeback!! I'm stealing it🤣😉😉
@@ckbb7536 Hahahaha
BURN! 😅
You are a fucking legend!!!!
I will Never EVER listen to a woman who claims that she knows what men want and what a woman should be like, yet doesnt have a man and is not like the women she describes.
Easy word for it is a hypocrite
The fact that she’s such a pick me but has still not been picked is super satisfying honestly 🤷🏻♀️
Common sense. You must be a man 😂
Same with a man who claims to know what women want.
@para97 💯she’s not married and has no children but wants to tell those who do, what’s going on 😂
Hi, psychologist here! Just want to say that just because Hannah has her masters of psychology *does not* mean she is any kind of mental health provider. Entering into a career in counseling, psychology, or counseling requires clinical hours, passing a certification exam, among other requirements, in addition to a degree. We're safe from her for now!
Exactly, and thank goodness.
Yes! My mom has a degree in psychology and she is a complete nut job!
@lisadgingersnaps9843 exactly, I agree with every opinion I see that mirrors my own, and only those opinions
Yay!! And the ones I disagree with I don't ever discuss, because that would require critical thinking, and nope, not for me!!
More like I can see that degree being weaponized in her hands to push her drivel.
@Slayy05a THIS!!!!!
How to debate like Pearl:
1) say something controversial to get engagement.
2) make up statistics to support it.
3) make up mythical friends, historical accounts, and events that never happened to back yourself up further.
4) never answer questions just deflect and raise strawman arguments.
5) ask questions but-this is crucial (in case they have real logic on their side)- talk over their answer.
so...like every democrat politician?
@@Juanxlink and there it is. The toxicity we’ve been waiting for. Never mind Trump lied 30,000 times during his term, where are the Democrat lies? PLEASE say climate change to show your ignorance.
@@Juanxlink and this channel???? Ido wonder
Pearl is the definition of "I hate myself and I'm gonna make it everybody's problem."
Well said 👏👏👏
Exactly! I hate myself too, but I don't make it anyone else's problem but my own.
I would love to see her revisit this in 5-10 years. Ick.
In a nutshell
For REAL
Hannah: WoMEn sHOulDn’T be ALloWeD tO hAvE an OpINiOn
Also Hannah: WAhh wHy cAn’T I havE aN oPiniOn wiThouT BeINg cAnceLLed
Pearl is EVERYTHING she speaks against about women.
listen, life is hard when you're stupid.
She's incredibly e v i l... The way none of this stuff that she spews applies to her...??
🤭 nah. Fr
The fact that she doesn’t have a husband and kids, but wants to dictate that all women should be married with kids, is nothing short but irony.
don't forget: women should be small, pure, obedient doormats who don't get an education nor a career- they marry a husband and have kids who they then clean up after and cook meals for. oh, and once they turn 29, you might as well order their casket and headstone because they are practically ancient at that point. she is the exact opposite of the type of woman she claims that every other woman should be.
I'm not hating on traditional marriages, I don't think that's a big deal if that's what a couple agrees to, it's the fact that Pearl is a hypocritical grifter.
The men she's looking for want a quiet and submissive woman, she's loud and pushy.
Or is it the perfect example of a woman who has standards and refuses to marry out of desperation?
@@Create.Your.Legacy. who is marrying out of desperation? why does one do that? on top of that, her standards are.... what exactly? what do you know that we dont?
@@Create.Your.Legacy. also, you're in the wrong comment section to be trying to defend something like this. if these are your beliefs, fine, but this is not the place for you. curate your online experience better.
I love that she says, "They've expanded the definition of abuse to include financial abuse, coercive control, and even physical abuse."
Pearl! Physical abuse is, like, the platonic ideal of abuse. It's the first thing most people think of when you say the word abuse! How would you define it without that bit?!
When I was in my teens, I thought other teens were hot.
Now im in my 30's, they all look like literal children.
See how that works Hannah?
No and men don't see how that works either just ask the average man
Same. My husband and I have talked about how we can tell we are getting old (we're also in our 30's) because even 18-20 year-olds look like kids to us.
I’m 25 and anyone under 22 is a baby to me lol
Forreal, I’m 30 and like even 20 yr olds look like literal children to me now 🤣
Right? I've noticed the same thing. I'm in my late 20s now, and even like 21-23 year olds look like kids to me now
Why is being on birth control a negative? When women have an unplanned pregnancy they say “You’re irresponsible for not using birth control.” But then denigrate women for using birth control. Make it make sense.
At this point, they are just literally picking at anything just to hate on women. They really just hate women. Those red pill men should date each other.
Well also one in three women have an STD so if only they used protection..... wait a second
Her worldview revolves around women being functional and useful to men. It takes a certain mindset: women shouldn't not want to be pregnant and have kids and if you, as a woman, aren't in a good position to become a mother, then what are you doing with your life?
Not even saying that birth control sometimes taken not for birth control itself but because of health problems 🙄
Nevermind that a lot of AFAB folks are put on BC to manage things like PCOS. I was on it since I was 15 because of my cysts.
Pearl: THE CHILDREN! THE CHILDREN!
Also Pearl: But if both parents are slamming each others heads into walls every day & every night _MAKE_ them stay together forever!
My best friend in primary school overheard her parents admit they were unhappy & only staying together for (the kids). Guess who internalized that she & her sister were the reason her parents were unhappy?? I always think for her when I hear people against divorce... Unhappy marriages can be harmful for children - even if there is no abuse (verbal, physical or otherwise) occurring, children and parents all deserve to live a life that fosters love, safety & happiness.
Often it's better to just divorce. Kids aren't stupid. They can feel the tension and upset in the home.
Literally my parents hated each other know who’s problem they made it ? mine. Glad they split eventually my mother is a horrid human who would give pearl a run for her money man. My mother didnt raise me past 8 and still hates me lol. Like good lord pearls brain doesnt brain
@@FukaiKokorothis. We all rejoiced when my parents divorced. I was 8. But it was 8 years of parents who clearly hated eachother and we internalized that as they each hate half of us. My sister was 12. Best thing that happened to our family sadly
Right! And when they DO stay, clearly that means they don't have a problem with the bad treatment!
The woman speaking on Pier's show at 1:32:08 is extremely intelligent thank you for implementing this clip. She absolutely tore Pearl's insidious masquerade into pieces and had such confidence and eloquence to put it together in an evidence based criticism that shows the unravelment of Pearl's scheme through Pearl's intense reaction. Pearl's reaction tells everything..
Thank you for the amazing piece of work with this video that details Pearl's case so elaborately and passionately. I think you did justice with trying to incorporate minimal bias to portray her character.
Pearl didn't know what to do when faced with a woman who is actually intelligent, well spoken, and capable of seeing through her bullshit. She read her for filth and did it with eloquence too.
Wild how she would rather accuse her mother of a crime than admit she’s a CEO
This part!!
It's insane. And she would also be accusing her dad as well, no? She 100% didn't think it through lmao
I wouldn’t be shocked if she’s jealous of her own mother.
That was actually insane. Shorty said yall mind if I imply a white collar crime took place?? And did not wait for an answer
@@TamESQ I mean, doesn’t her mom have everything Hannah wants? I mean a successful business, a husband, and a whole bunch of kids? She just can’t say she wants a business… even though she, ya know, runs a business 😂
52:20 If divorce was banned, I most likely wouldn't be alive today. My mom most likely wouldn't be alive today. My biological father was incredibly abusive, and when I got married, my husband was incredibly abusive. I never planned on getting divorced, but I also never expected to be abused. Pearl's rhetoric is so dangerous.
I wouldn’t be alive. Guaranteed. I’m so sorry for your experience. I am so angered by these stories because of this.
@@beepboop8374 I'm so sorry for your experience as well. It isn't fair to us, and people like Pearl just make it so much harder for people to believe victims' accounts.
True, my godfather would not be alive if divorce was banned (his now ex tried to poison him and when that did not work she resorted to a cylindrical shaped solid copper infusion. He survived thankfully.) Had to use different words because the platform does not like the real word.
The one thing that irks me about this pick me is that for even the things she gets right, (Which is only a little, the rest is on a sliding scale from grey area to horribly wrong.) she does nothing to actually help men. Her mentality as a result ends up hurting all victims. And to add on the end, sorry for what you and your mother went through, people that hurt others like that need to be put under the prison.
So sorry for both of your experiences. I hope you’ve been able to see a good counselor who clicks with you. My story is about my biological parents, and it was traumatic there, and yes, there was a divorce but it didn’t last long enough. The only way I got out was through the social services terminating their parental rights and being adopted into a loving family. Though it doesn’t mean I can “know” what it’s like for others who live through the same thing when they are older, I still have all the compassion and empathy my heart can pour out to people who are in the middle of it, or who are just starting recovery. It takes time, be kind to yourself and seek help wherever and whenever you can find it. 💜
@@Mantuamaker you still went through something traumatic in your own right and I’m glad you were able to find a safe and loving family. Your story is still very valid. I worry so much about project 25 for this reason as well… they not only push for no divorce but they push for keeping kids with biological parents even in instances of dv and ca. Obviously not all cases are a monolith, but that’s why I hope for more stories like yours and less like Harmony Montgomery’s 💔
What I hate about people like this is that they never *actually* help men. They don’t talk about male seggs abuse, men loneliness, and the high suic1d3 count. They are not addressing the man-box or anything like this. They are using men to promote themselves. Simply!
Exactly. It's why I am critical of men and pick mes that are like this. They dont actually help, but they hinder.
Well, of course, their goal isn't to help men, it's to tell men that everything they do is right and good in the hopes that one of them will like her.
Nope, she even laughed at a guy because he got abused, if I remember well. Her messages are horrible.
@@roxassora2706 exactly!
@@elaexplorer actually, not everything: only what fits in the man-box. If they differ in any way: they are not “real man”!
My now ex-boyfriend sent me one of her videos in October 2022, where she said women who have a certain body count are low value women. He sent me this because he wanted to make me feel bad about myself and lucky to have him, a "loyal and high value man". SPOILER - he was not loyal and was a true misogynist. Pearl is the definition of a pick me and sold her soul for internet attention.
Pearl acting like abuse victims ALWAYS start shit and are also abusive is insane. My family used to tip toe around our father, catering to his every need, minimizing ourselves, being quiet and helpful and doing everything to never upset him....and he'd still blow up, break shit, and even get physically violent. There's nothing you can do if they're an abuser; they will abuse you.
I’m so sorry you had to experience that. It blows my mind she says the things she does. Makes no sense and she looks like a complete idiot, and a failure to mankind.
100%
Pearl is nightmare fuel
This. I started arguing and questioning my ex's emotional and mental abuse (after I started talking to others and they helped me realise what was happening) and he went right back and called me the gaslighter. He literally made everyone else in the house tiptoe around him, cater to his moods and whims, and keep his mood stable, but *I'm* the gaslighter because I called him out on his BS.
@@kyris66 I'm so sorry you went through all that but I know exactly what you're talking about. It's a horrible way to live.
By her logic, it was my fault I was SA'ed when I was 4 yrs old 🤡
Actually also on the marriage thing, Celtic tradition was to only be married for a certain amount of time. When that marriage ended, they had the option to renew that or part ways. That’s where the idea behind a vow renewal came from, so even long long ago, marriage wasn’t “till death”
I have heard of this being practiced more recently, using 7 year cycles. After that time, the couple sit down and have an honest discussion about the relationship, and mutually decide to go into another 7 years or part ways.
I like it as an idea, as it encourages people not to take their partner for granted. Downside, if you have had a wonderful 6 years and then have a tragedy, mental health problems, fall on hard times etc... Some people have very short memories.
@@BinturongGirl I’ve heard of the 7 year thing too. I think it’s a Lakota, Dakota, or Haudanoshonee (Iroquois) tradition (a lot of tribes have adopted it nowadays so I’ve forgotten the origin). There’s also the year and a day tradition from Celtic spirituality as the OG commenter described. Nowadays the latter is used as an engagement period rather than an actual marriage covenant.
There’s even a couple of things in Christian tradition called the crying of the Banns & Pre-Cana where there is a period of time (usually weeks to months before the wedding) between the public announcement and the ceremony where it gives the couple time to discover for themselves and for others to come forward with any impediments to their relationship - be it legal or personal. The Banns are posted twice in the press and/or the newsletter and then read for the final time at the beginning of the ceremony (the “if there’s any reason why they shouldn’t be together, speak now or forever hold your peace” portion). It’s not just for drama - most manage to get the impediments worked out before it gets to that point but there’s always one thing that slips through the cracks. This is also why dispensations and annulments exist.
oh this is very interesting! i didn’t know that
Wasn't there a pope who famously divorced his sister as many times as possible to marry her into power? One marriage was less than 2 months
@JuriAmari FYI the banns of marriage were still getting read out during church services in the Church of England back when I was still practicing about 20yrs ago. They'd be read out for couples not just of that parish but neighbouring parishes a minimum of 2 times as you said, to allow anyone who might know that e.g. the bride & groom are actually half siblings, or the groom is still married to someone else a few towns over etc, to be able to tell the Vicar about why these people can't be legally married.
Pearl slander isn’t even slander, it’s just holding a mirror up to her own beliefs
this is the best way to describe how i think about her, she is such a hypocrite, like, she doesn't own a mirror??
Just found out she went to a " christian" university and I really think this i s what messed her head so badly. This US cults that have nothing to do with christianity are really damaging to people.
Pearl vs Piers Morgan is like a mirror facing a mirror. I know she thinks that researching the person you're going to talk to is cheating or something, but she *really* should've looked into him if she didn't want to be exploited.
It amazes me that the people who give relationship advice aren't in a relationship. She needs to hear the same person snoring for 18 years
😂😂😂
Ok but the guy saying he’s been with a few women who didn’t mature past “4 or 5” years old needs to have all his electronics searched by the FBI
Immediately the same thing I thought
I mean science has made it clear women mature earlier than men
I don't know if old mate understands that being disconnected from your emotions is not the same as emotional maturity, many women are incredibly emotionally developed, secure, aware, and educated, many women learn their emotions and how to regulate them, but I think that just goes over his head.
100%!!!! Highly concerning!!
DEFINITELY!
😂😂😂
But actually 😶
the fact that this lady probably ripped her name from tumblr user justgirlythings, who is a queer woman and has been posting positive things on the internet since the early 2010s, is a travesty.
@@sleepdeprivedpikachu7235 THISSSS
And who got married semi recently as well! Congrats justgirlythings!
Oooooh!!! I keept wondering why I felt so familiar!!!! 😮
I looked her up because I was a child in 2010 but I remember seeing her posts when I was a bit older and I loved them! How dare pearl be an asshole
We salute justgirlythings. I honestly miss seeing those posts come up on my dash
I love how Pearl doesn't want to talk about the 'small portion' of women who get a divorce because their partner is abusive because it's not relevant when it's 'such a small part', but she can gladly talk about the small portion of slaves who talked positively about their owners
not to mention the obvious parallel, that abused women stay in abusive marriages for the same reason some slaves said wonderful things about their owners; they were afraid to get hurt.
Pearl is simply a hipocrite. Excessively provocative and undesirable...
You think that a woman that came from such a prominent family would have more education and class.
So because I fought back when my at the time boyfriend hit me, that makes it two sided and we should have stayed together. Interesting take pearl. Fuck off with that shit, some people get pushed to a breaking point. Being a violent person is not who i want to be but when my life is on the line there's an animalistic need to survive.
Right!!! It’s not mutual abuse it’s literally referred to as “reactive abuse” because one person is being aggressive and violent towards the other and eventually the victim naturally fights back to protect themselves. She is out of her god damn mind.
@@haileyoslund Not to mention the victim may let the abuser deal with neighbors who alledgedly would like to lick the blood of the abuser
It is so upsetting to hear someone hate themselves so loudly and confidently. It feels like she had a bad relationship with her mom and has made being contrary to her a career.
I totally think this sounds like she doesn’t like her mom or is trying to get her moms attention
Or bad relationship w her dad. It’s like she’s regurgitating things a toxic father would be . She’s catering to men like that. Desperately wanting to be liked by them. And in turn liked by her daddy. Who sounds like he hates women if this is her view of women
@@hannahyeet8270why her mom. Seems like she’s catering to toxic men to get approval from a toxic man in her life aka dad
Her mum actually posted a comment to reply to someone saying she needs to get Pearl checked and help her cause her thinking is literally bonkers, and her mum said basically she hope her daughter grows out of this before it causes reality to happen to her aka Pearl get abused or assaulted by a partner or forced to be a traditional wife in the bad unequal partnership way and also just wake up to how stupid all her bull sounds. Her mum literally works in the UN for women and honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if she isn’t embarrassed by Pearls antics
right?!?! her whole career feels like a temper tantrum against specifially her mother, maybe she needs a hug?
on behalf of chicago, we apologize for pearl davis. she was a natural disaster we hoped to contain within our city limits but it seems like our experiment went horrifically wrong.
😂
She’s from the suburbs. She needs to stop claiming she’s one of us. We dont claim her.
Wait wait wait SHE IS FROM HERE???
i feel very sorry for you, and the people for Chicago, no one deserves this level of disaster 😢
From what i read she isn't from Chicago, she is from mchenry County and went to a catholic school in Woodstock, which... is a very conservative area. I would know, i grew up in those suburbs.
I’ll never get her “i would rather be a pick me than a skip me.” Out of me head…I think about it on a bad day and remember at least I’m not Pearl. 😂
It's a shame no one has picked her yet
Hey!! I know you 😁
ITS MICHELLE!
Yeah I struggle to feel bad about myself when Pearl exists in this world
Right? Girly is both 💀
I've been in MULTIPLE abusive relationships and have been "S-A'd" several times since childhood....I never once reported any of it out of fear I wouldn't be believed. Her content/take on that is so frustrating and sets us survivors back so far. 😢
She said “woman actually like being cheated on” yeah I just loved crying my eyes out for a year from the betrayal and getting sick over it, it was amazing 🙄
Totally agree. So funny to have panic attacks since that... made my life more exciting...
You cry your eyes out, get sick over it, and have panic attacks regardless of if your men cheat. Women are statistically far more likely to go after a man that does well in the dating marketplace than the one that doesn’t know what he’s doing. Hypergamy has been in female nature for decades, you didn’t suddenly pop out being different.
@@nimykeit’s so traumatic actually, goes to show it hasn’t happened to Hannah.
Yeah love that my self esteem was so crushed and suffered shocking depression and anxiety and that even though I’m now alone I don’t trust anyone because I thought the man I loved wouldn’t choose to hurt me but he did - love that for me.
@@deezyhope675 You didn't suffer shocking depression and anxiety from a breakup. I don't really know what the plan on conflating all of these things is either, as if someones gonna jump up from their seat to play captain save a 304. Survival of the fittest if you're so distraught over a breakup.
The bits of Ethan just calmly trying to reason with Pearl is so fucking funny 😂😂 you can tell he wants to clown on her but he’s trying to have a real conversation.
Their “debate” was iconic she got demolished somehow mostly by not being able to explain her own opinions 😂😂😂
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The thing that is so infuriating during that Ethan Klein interview was she doesn't want to inflate the small exceptions in the abortion debate, but immediately goes to taking an extremely small exception in slavery and making that indicative of the entire institution.
g r i f t
Pearl Davis and hypocrisy are synonymous.
Sounds familiar!! 🎯🎯🎯 Sure seems to be something that is happening more and more. Right and left. It's ridiculous and GROSS. Without a doubt.
Oh nooo she was talking about slavery too??? 😭
Irony to the fullest
My favourite thing about the red pill term is that I once read someone explain that the Matrix is a trans allegory. The brothers who made the movie have both transitioned since and in the 90s estrogen pills were red. It makes the term even more silly to me.
Showing up to a Swoop video less than 5 minutes after it goes up? This might be the first time in my adult life that's I've been "on time."
Yesss thank you for being so early!
👏👏👏 🏆 🤝 ❤
Better late than never, I'd say
I'm usually early but this was posted when I wasn't feeling good and taking a nap 😭 lol. (I'm feeling better now).
Right
I find it really sad that there are women out there like Pearl who will say the most messed up things about women, solely for the validation of men. Only to never get picked. Like every time I hear women like Pearl speak about women I only shake my head in sadness and frustration. No matter what a man/men do/does they will put them on a pedestal, treat them like kings and Gods. Meanwhile they will degrade women, and blame them to no end for any and everything. It’s like that “ friend” that will put you down whenever you’re around guys. But Pearl even said and I quote “ I’d rather be a pick me than a skip me” which proves clear as day, that she’s doing all this for the attention of men.
She’s never gonna get picked, because as she said herself, she is horribly insecure. That’s what this is. She hates herself so much she’s willing to tear down every woman in the world along with her. It’s truly pathetic. No one will ever find that attractive except maybe to use it to stroke their own ego (men like Tate) and that’s not a relationship, it’s a mirror.
You usually see this kind of thing when there's abuse in the home. The abused child tries to get the abuser's approval while hating on the other parent because they subconsciously blame the non abuser for not protecting them.
Yet she has no man. And the audience of men that are telling her she is right will be spewing hate and/or making fun of her the second she does one little thing they don't like
@@elaexplorer
Speaking from experience, that’s something a good therapist can take care of.
You are so much nicer than me! I can never feel sad for somebody like that! I won't even say that it's sad. I just think it's karma! Your comment is spot on though!
To not only be a grifter, but SO bad at it is doubly embarrassing.
I feel like she's trolling atp
@@TheRaspyAspie a horrible troll tbh, shes lowk ruining her life
If this were a comedy series I'd watch every episode.... But it's tooooo much for reality for my taste.
That part! She rambles a lot in a way that shows she’s really just making shit up. You can tell cause occasionally she’ll go too far and even the people on her level will pull back and the way she’ll start stumbling in a panic to fix it.
@@rangostickymiceher and her life was and is mid. She’s desperate for attention . Saying / doing shocking things is how mid ppl get attention
'This waterslide paralyzed someone, so let's buy it for our kids!' Holy shit who does that?
That "do what's best for the children" is usually making the decision to leave. Staying for the kids is almost never a good idea.
As someone who basically had to give my mum permission to divorce my dad when I was 14 and honestly did not understand why she hadn't already, 1000%.
My ex husband and I lived together for a long time after we divorced and we dated others. 50/50 nobody paid support because it was best for our kids.
And what do you know?
They're well adjusted, hard working adults.
None of that single parent trash here. Yes, I am shitting on single parents. Deal with it. You don't have to fight with your ex. You can get along because it is what's best for the kids.
Unless there's extreme cases of abuse (I find this is rare.) there's no reason to not get along.
@@billbombshiggy9254 You left the relationship, not the house. This thing about "doing what's best for the children" is such bullshit because I've seen therapists recommend for the parents to still live together for the kids but people never do that but they stay in a shitty relationship "for the children".
@@billbombshiggy9254what a load of nonsense 😂
@@billbombshiggy9254an abuser destroys everyone, not just their physical victim. The mental and physical health of the child is paramount to you? Watching their mother or father get beat up is NEGATIVE to that
14:56 Man, as a daughter of a woman who I admire so heavily, that’s just one of the many lows that Pearl sinks to. She could be grateful for the privilege her two hardworking parents afforded her, but instead she throws her mom under the bus… what an entitled, ungrateful attitude!
i feel this very deeply. My mom is my hero while my dad was never around. I can't imagine having two loving parents and being that mean towards my mom, the person who gave you life, and a chance to live it well.
It screams mommy issues and now she’s taking it out on all women
If I ever talked about my mom like that I would never forgive myself since my mom is a recent single parent and is the strongest person I know since she was at times the only person who was keeping our family together. She was at one point dealing with divorce from my father, my brother who was a spiraling addict that self destructed and after a vacation coming home to both cars totaled and had to then go buy a new car. Luckily we have made it through but we wouldn't without her
saying youre lucky enough to be sa'd before you got you period is so upsetting and horrifying because you don't have to deal with the possibility of being pregnant but the trauma is so terrible. im so sorry swoop and everyone else who had this fear
Agreed. The narrative that women (and some say, even girls) cause their sa is insane. What was I wearing when I was 5? A nightgown... my bad.
I was at 4. My family used asphyxiation.
@@jenneast8611 I'm so sorry
I've always felt lucky that my SA happened before my period. Hearing someone else say that tho hit so hard.
When I was 4, my abusers were 4 (f) and 8 (m). With the stats being what they are and having 4 daughters and a son, I'm terrified of which one will likely be victimized, when and by who.
I was treated so poorly at my job when i was pregnant, then told there wasn't room llr me to come back from. Maternity leave. I was the bread and butter of the business and w/o me they went down. Within a year all my clientele had found me because I took a hige leap of faith and started my own business. I decided I would never work for anyone ever again because being a mother comes first that was in 2009. Things may have changed a little but not enough!
Ethan's "We need to talk about the exceptions because those are the people who are gonna be most affected" is a helluva shutdown on all her statistics. I'm stealing that.
Yeah same! It's not just a shutdown, but it's a fact. That fact being that if you want to talk about anything like why we should ban abortion, then you have to look at everything and not cherry-pick your reasons
I love how grifters argue 'they arent selling anything' when they are. They're selling the idea that this template can actually lead to success, something that Pearl herself shows doesnt work because no matter how much she preaches this ideal it will never lift her up
This. Selling an idea is probably the most ultimate grift there can be: you can't exactly refund one and the seller can always argue that the idea wasn't flawed, you just failed to apply it properly so it's actually your fault.
Gets her the attention she’s desperate for though . Good or bad it gets ppl talking about the mid girl no one would look twice at otherwise.
She acts like people don’t make bank off views etc these days
Yeah. She's selling herself and her content, and her content is reaction content, meant to inspire either agreement or outrage in her audience. At best, you could say she's presenting a parody or satire, but there's no indication that she's selling it as anything other than sincere.
If they're earning they're selling something, a product or service, doesn't matter.
The fact that Swoop said that she was "lucky" that she had not yet had her period yet literally made me reflux in to my mouth. I cry for that little girl. I stand and cheer for the badass that she grew up in to. Love u, S. ♥️
The amount of times I had the same thought though. It kinda makes the fact that I was so little better. At least no pregnancy risk.
@@finntastic2896 I'm sorry that you went through anything at all. Virtual hug sent your way ♥️
i felt so sick hearing that. i really hope she’s not struggling while doing these docs ♥️ i can’t even imagine having to relive something like that for my job. love her for bringing more attention to the subject! and just in general.
It’s painfully obvious that Pearl is lucky enough to have grown up in a privileged bubble, and not suffered through an abusive relationship. She feels like she can speak on something that she has never experienced.
Veteran here! Not even a minute in and she already said that why should women vote? I’m absolutely appalled. I fought for the rights of this country so that every citizen can vote! I can already tell I’m not gonna like this girl but keep watching!!
Pearl even thinks women shouldn't be in the military. As a vet also, I dare her to say that to my face ☺️🤙🏾
Yes!! I am a civilian but I was excited to register to vote on my 18th birthday! I refuse to give up my right to vote because I know how hard the suffragettes had to work to get it, including remembering the English suffragette who threw herself in front of a racehorse and was trampled to death. So I remember people have fought and died so I can vote!
Thank you for your service!
You fought for the US military industrial complex and neocolonisation, not any rights.
@@Taken436 she fought for the freedom of people that is biggest fundamental right . when did she mention industrial complex? you just assumed it ?
Always here for someone deconstructing Pearl's dangerous message/narrative. Thank you, Swoop
I'm a sucker for Pearl expose videos
@@Gleann Honestly same lmfao
@@Gleann SAME.
I’m really grateful Swoop covered this:) because someone needed to seriously address Pearl’s dangerous narrative. If one young girl believes her- it could destroy their lives 😢
@@Gleann honey, I’m a sucker for a good Swoop video! I don’t care if I have zero idea about the subject matter. I’m still going to watch and enjoy.
Barely five minutes in and I'm already applying to attend Petty University! I never thought someone would make my blood boil so quickly.
I think I was born in Petty University. Petty is in my blood.
Swoop, i just want to name what I heard you say that breaks me: that you were SAed as a child but lucky enough to not have had your first period. I had to pause after hearing that because of the immense grief I felt with you in that statement as a survivor and as a human being. Wtf. Thank you so much for your openness and petty, the world is so much lovelier with you in it and I'm so sorry about what happened, because it shouldn't have happened to you at that age or any age.
My stomach fell when Swoop said "lucky enough to have not had my first period" when she was abused. Just want to give her a big hug.
I wonder how many in her family she has had to cut out cos they took the abusers side cos in my case dna evidence and him admitting to it, and you know a child being able to talk wasn't enough for like half my family
@@bjam89 I'm so sorry for what you've gone though. Big hug for you too.
@@klowe7213 30 years has dulled the pain, and being queer so i seeing chosen family over blood does help a lot, to me they are just people i share dna with people
Sending my hugs, too. No words. Just hugs. 😢
She does all of that pandering to the "red pill" community, gets praised by those losers and they STILL refuse to actually date her. They don't even find her attractive. Embarrassing.
Imagine hating yourself as much as she does!
But yeah she tries to embody the red pill dream girl but doesn't realize that she's missing a major part of it, which is to be attractive to men. I can't imagine chasing after these disgusting sh!t stains in the first place, but to so obviously parrot some ignorant bs in order to get noticed by them is really pathetic.
Its Sad! I actually do find her attractive, and if I didnt understand english and just saw her speak without knowing what she Said, I would think she sounded like a sweet and lovely person. If she could just stop hang around where she hangs around and pick a better group to be influenced by 😂
she is very, very plain. which is what men say they want but in fact they seem to like women who put a little more effort in
@@MellowJelly Bingo. Plus she sits on Twitter all day body shaming and calling people ugly....pot meet kettle.
@@MellowJellyLol this breaks my heart. I am a very plain woman, have a boyfriend and I often times feel quite unattractive, yet he reassures me he finds me beautiful. I do not put much effort onto my appearence due to low self esteem but I wanna try...I am afraid of him stopping liking me because lf this lol.
“1 out of 3 (women) has had an abortion.”
That’s……………not even almost correct.
Medically, miscarriages are listed as spontaneous abortions. I haven’t looked it up recently but iirc it’s about 1 in 3 women have had a miscarriage. since Pearl is an absolute idiot and likes to bend statistics to fit her narrative I’m willing to bet she’s using miscarriage statistics
I think she hijacked the miscarriage statistics
Yah it's 1 in 4 women between the ages of 14 to 19 have stds in usa which actually really bad.
@@gizaegypt9481😂
Bullshit
@@gizaegypt9481saying teens getting abortions is bad is wild. Not having proper sex ed is bad. 14-19 year olds are teenagers and most of them arent ready to be parents or shouldnt be forced to be.
it's so interesting to see how sexism is on the table but not racism in these far right circles. you would think that if someone recognizes racism as bad, you could see the parallels to sexism and also recognize that sexism is bad.
I'm more than half-way through.. I have a confession. I almost got swallowed up by the red-pill to alt-right pipeline and it had EVERYTHING to do with hating my mom and the way I was raised. The way they give information like "if your mom wasn't awful your dad would have stayed" is extremely enticing rhetoric for children that were neglected or abused. Thankfully I woke up before the self-hatred ruined my life. Pearl is a victim but victims don't get to victimize others. Thanks for this Swoop.
I got in that pipeline too during high-school. I manages to escape after going to college and interacting with a more diverse group of people.
Sigh. Red-pill is just an anti radical left mentality. Alt-right is the crazy radical right mentality. Stay at home wives, virginity, possessiveness, etc. is not exclusive to the right.
@Slayy05aim trying not to pendulum swing hard in the other direction to hate men but instead just trying not to hate anyone. It's not easy.
@queen.actual it's nice how reflected you are about this. I'm glad my parents weren't that way. You can be proud of yourself because you did, what not many people will ever do.
It's sad how this red-pill bullsheit destroys so many peoples lives. I'm a guy, and I could never think about doing something like these men do, to my girlfriend, or any other women. To me, women are just people, like men are. I don't see a difference there, and I don't see why anyone else should. We are in the 21st century and should be over this whole "men oppressing women" sheit.
I'm so sorry for all the women who still have to deal with all that, I think you all are incredibly strong.
My mother is a vile abusive narcissist and in no way have I ever tried to be a pick me misogynistic pos! Explain the correlation between these decisions of your mother and your choice to uphold the horrors women are treated to at the hands of men?!
I stopped believing she was serious after watching the H3 interview. She said nothing of substance and it was clear after she said “I believe women shouldn’t be able to divorce. Yeah….that’s what I believe” that she was literally just making shit up to bait people
She just dumps a bunch of controversial takes at the beginning of the interview and it's clear she just recites lines and then when she's asked to elaborate she crumbles
Someone on another video commented that Pearl looks like she's about to laugh every time she talks and I agree. It's like when you're telling a joke but try to hold in your laugh before getting to the punchline.
Ethan decimated her without ever being disrespectful or raising his voice. She knew it too, so she walked off. Her ideas are so ridiculous that even she can’t defend them.
She's in it for the money. But I think most people know that already.
@Brooklyntrash I was definitely thinking his monotone voice makes it so much worse for her 😂
AHH THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR USING MY VIDEO! I'm a huge fan of your work, and the Pearl video is one that I'm particularly proud of, so this is just a dream come true for me! And also, incredible work on this topic (as always!) 😄🙏💜
That's where I first heard about her! Then of course I fell in love with all of your content and went down a swoop and Fundie Fridays rabbit hole ❤️
Immediate follow! Will binge after this video. Thank you sister! 💙
Eyyyy FF! I found you more than a year before I found Swoop. Both of you are awesome. 😊
It was so funny to see black men who think women shouldn't be able to vote, crying about a little racism. Like "not THAT kind of bigotry!"
So, utilizing PEARL’S logic… it’s better for two abusive people to stay trapped in a marriage until one of them eventually k!lls the other? She DOES realize before no-fault divorce, battered women would sometimes be driven to poisoning their abusive husbands in self-defense, right? Yeahhh, she SURE cares about “male victims” 🙄
She also talks about how divorce is bad for the kids. As if kids seeing their parent being beaten to pulp won't be more damaging.
@@DanielledeWaal21
Speaking from experience, “staying together for the sake of the kid(s),” is worse than divorce. And I’m speaking as someone who’s seen my mom divorce my biological father, and then stay with my stepfather who abused her, just so her kid with him could have a dad in his life.
@segasister 💯💯 often even if there's no physical abuse it's safe and better to divorce. There's been studies and yelling etc can really mess up a kid. It can make them very quiet and anxious. Which if often enough will lead to constant mental health issues.
I had a pretty traumatic childhood and feel like I'm just now processing life when I should have had this experience as a child. Wish I could experience childhood again but in a healthy environment.
Aquatofanaaaaaaa✨
Brilliant counter argument using her own bars.
I’m a married feminist and my husband is a feminist. We have a very equal and respectful marriage. An unmarried woman telling me how my marriage should or shouldn’t work is bonkers.
I‘d replace „marriage“ with „committed relationship“, just to include my sister‘s 8 year bf. =D
If you’re not in a long-term relationship yourself, you don’t get to tell me how to handle my marriage either. =/
It's like catholic priests holding marriage preparation courses😂
My husband and I grew up in a conservative patriarchal country. We've been married for almost 20 years now, and he doesn't mind that I haven't used his last name in all my legal documents at all.
@@ArDeeMee While they might not have had a formal marriage, they are still married. It's called common law marriage where two people live together long enough, it can be seen as a legal marriage. Though, just not sure how long. I thought it was about 8 to 10 years.
My thoughts exactly
For some reason the line "Make sure these boxes are NOT recycled!!!" Really cracked me up 😂 like he really wants to make sure he's unlikeable in every possible way and wants us to know any cardboard in his presence can't be recycled
Rumor has it that those pizza boxes helped determine his location to get him arrested, too! 😂
He's just being environmentally conscious, I'm sure. You actually can't recycle pizza boxes because the cardboard is full of grease and stained... I assume he wanted the boxes shredded and added to the compost heap, of course!
@@Joe90hPSA: Do NOT recycle used pizza boxes!
Cardboard has more integrity and stability than he does.
I'd like to ask Pearl.. what if a man and woman fall in love, get married, everything's great and then one day all of a sudden the husband stops working and will not work. Wife can't work cause, you know, gender roles and has no say in the matter. This goes on until they are homeless (maybe with children). Still no divirce?
What if he starts using drugs and loses everything the family has?
Shes evil.
She’d find a way to blame the wife…
25:36 Also the fact the red pill came from the matrix but it's a film by 2 TRANSGENDER WOMEN that said its undertones are about BEING TRANSGENDER will forever be hilarious to me
Exactly this. They're so fucking closeted I can't stop laughing.
i think about this ^ every time some idiot starts spouting off red pill rhetoric
Came here to say this.
And theres a literal character called switch whos supposed to be played by two people. Being a perfect example of trans people exploring their identity in cyberspace. But nooooo it had to be the 90s lol
Right??? Lol
What’s truly frustrating about the “women are ruining marriage because they’re breaking their vows” argument is it fully glosses past whether or not the men have also maintained their vows.
If marriage is a contract, and the man doesn’t love, honor, and cherish his wife, for better or worse, in sickness and in health, for as long as they both shall live, HE is the one who broke the contract. If he abuses his wife, HE broke the contract. If he cheats, HE broke the contract. If he tricks his wife into having kids, he not loving or honoring his wife and HE BROKE THE DAMN CONTRACT. The wife no longer is obligated to stay in that relationship.
PREACH 🤌🙌 this is exactly what I want someone to say to Pearl but knowing her she would blame the woman for the men doing that. She would say well did she have sex with him or withhold it like women do or did she let herself go and that's why he cheated?? She will make every excuse in the damn book and it's so annoying she really just needs to get punched lol
This is also strictly Biblical, contrary to what these "Christians" regurgitate
Or if the woman just gets bored or thinks she can do better, she’ll leave. Women cheat on the “safe” men for the fact he is. The men women are generally strongly attracted to are not suitable for long term relationships. Nature just needs the woman to get pregnant. Whether the guy sticks around is irrelevant.
Also it doesn't factor in if whether the man was a fucking bum or not, which still constitutes a break in the contract.
@@BaconNMegsExactly and if it was the man's fault she would turn it around and say 'well, you should have chosen a high quality man then' lol delulu land is strong with this one 😂
Swoop, just want to make one note: Pearl is NOT a psychologist. To be a psychologist you have to obtain a PhD or PsyD- neither of which she has earned. I am saying this as someone who was in a graduate program for psychology. lol No Psychologist deserves to be placed on the same educational level as Pearl (I’m referencing the note around 17:50)
THANK YOU for saying this.
That's weird. In Scotland, you do not need a Phd to be a psychologist.. A degree in psychology and counselling will get you into a psychologist position. However, you need a Phd to be a Psychiatrist because they can prescribe drugs and diagnose psychiatric disorders.
@@Lelechesame thing over here in Poland honestly doesn’t surprise me that Europe has it different US always has to stick out from the rest of the world lmaooo
In Australia, most people take the masters degree route to become a psychologist, phd is moreso for academics. Interesting the US is different
You absolutely do NOT need a PsyD or a PhD to be a psychologist. A masters degree is the minimum requirement in the US. To be a psychiatrist (they are different!) in the US, you'd need a PsyD or PhD. A quick Google search will tell you this.
This is a deeply insecure, deeply mentally unwell human. She is very weak willed and easily bends to the opinions to whatever man she considers the "Highest Value" in the room. She just desperately wants to be picked but, by her own standards, she is immediately disqualified from the men she wants because she doesnt fit the criteria that she herself is saying is the only acceptable type of woman. I also wouldnt be in the least shocked if she hates her mother and blames her for all her failures.
A single example of a married, pregnant woman with two children, who wanted to uphold her vows, stay in her marriage and work on it, despite the behaviour of her husband… Shannan Watts.
RIP Shannan & her beautiful girls & baby boy 🩷💜🩵
exactly
Yes 🙌 This comment is perfect!
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@@meme-bu8qu I don’t know what the rate is in the USA, but in Australia, a woman is killed by her domestic partner once every *eleven* days. So agreed, would love to see Pearl defend her position against someone who can gather up all the data to confront her.
My retort for any red pill is if a dude wants me to be a trad wife he better be a trad husband so we can have the ‘50s house, white picket fence, 2 1/2 kids etc. on only one income. Fair’s fair.
Haha yea this! 😂😂
if a dude wants me to be a trad wife i would say "sorry brother , give that "opportunity" to some other women"
problem is they don't want a wife, they want a mummy.
I read a story on a women who was happy to be a 'traditional wife' for her bf/fiancé and asked to review his finances to make sure he had the income potential, he didn't in order to remain in the city they were currently living in he would need to greatly increase his income in order to for here to quit her job. When he told him that he blew up stating he shouldn't have to change his job and she should still do it and be both the traditional wife...but keep her job. She dumped him then and there, stating he wasn't good enough for a traditional wife..
I contracted an incurable STD when I was 19. Fast forward to my 30’s, I told my partner who was incredibly supportive and helped me overcome a decade of shame and guilt that came from that. Not all people are misogynistic bigoted assholes.
My husband's uncle has herpes but has never given it to his wife and they've been married for 30+ years. Medications and cautions have done them justice thus far. ✌🏻💙
I'm glad you found someone who can see past that and love you for who you are.
If it is herpes know that it isn't shameful and that a huge chunk of the adult population has it. But NEVER kiss a newborn baby or touch a baby during an outbreak because little ones can be badly hurt by the virus.
Absolutely spot-on that she didn’t get enough attention as one of ten children in a home, resents her mother for it, and is desperate to get the attention she didn’t as a child
I know a woman whose husband held a gun to her head. Swat had to come in and stop him from killing her. He was just found “not guilty” and his restraining order was lifted.
I... There were swat people who surely saw him threatening the life of his partner. How does someone like that get away with no consequences?
There's injustice in "justice", and it's sad.
@@tearainey1 that was my question. And the swat were absolutely witnesses, he had a “pewpew” to her face when they broke the door down and had to negotiate her release. This wasn’t the first friend of mine with this serious of an outcome either.
@@FederalBurroOfInvestigation you’re the fbi so you should know. Lol
good
Also her saying in an interview that she’s “interviewed hundreds of men who have been divorced and many of them have been falsely accused caused of dv/sa” of course the accused is going to tell you it’s false, even if it’s not 🙄 did she do any *actual* journalism after that? Did she ask for proof that it was false? Did she ask if it was taken to court and proven to be false? Did she interview the accuser? Did she check to see if they had a criminal record for dv/sa? My ex will tell you I falsely accused him.. my scars and police call record will prove it wasn’t a false accusation. All of her “I’ve talked to *hundreds* of people” is maddening.
@pmbp6584 yes... source: "trust me bro"😑
@Mr_Tinez90 I hate that so much. Claiming stats that are clearly wrong. The ab-rtion stat was outlandishly wrong.
This. My dad insists that he isn't physically abusive. Despite having the police called on him and calling witnesses (my brother and I) in to watch him break our mom's finger. I also got to hear his next girlfriend wonder why my mother left him and my dad offhandedly encourage her "you have to be crazy to leave a gentleman like him." "Yeah, don't worry. My ex is just crazy. That's the only reason why." Not like he was actively trying to use financial force to keep my mom from leaving at the same time or leveraging the college funds against us kids. That's not real. Like, newsflash, Pearl, abusers lie about what they did because it lets them hide and find new victims. Do some people lie about it in divorce? Yes. But most don't.
@@daisy9181 I am so sorry that happened to you. I never said false accusations don’t happen. I pointed out she has only ever claimed to ask the accused and then that’s it, end of story. Just like no one would have known the truth of what happened to *you* without you pushing for it, many real victims never get the truth out without fighting for it. My father will tell you he never SA’d me as a child, but he did. And my ex husband will tell you he never knocked me unconscious and then r-ped me, but he did. I did not report either of them because of my fear of them, so I am not even included in any of the stats. False accusations happen, but that also means the dudes she “interviewed” accusing the women they possibly assaulted could be false as well. Her only talking to them, proves how that happens.
@@daisy9181 Assuming your story is true - and I have no reason to assume that it isn't - it's quite horrific and traumatic. But please don't use your one experience to undermine the abuse that other people have been through. Just because you've experienced one thing (a thing that's statistically much less likely, even though every case should be considered on its own merit), doesn't mean that other people's experiences of actually being abused in an intimate relationship are not real.
She's jealous of her mother and resents her for her success. She hates herself and has a very unhealthy self-image. Rather than acknowledging that she has wounds that need healing and taking steps towards healing, she just ptomotes the idea that she's not the one with issues - all women are the same, so she seems normal in comparison.
Although there are clear causes for her being the way she is, her choices to promote her toxic beliefs makes her an awful person in my book. I doubt that if she were to seek help and change her ways today, she would be able to undo the harm she has done.
This😅😅😅😅😅😅
I hate it when I try to tell people about SWOOP and suggest they watch and support the channel they reply "oh, you only like her because she's attractive" and I say "well... yeah she is but she's also a genius. Can't women be both?"
She's far from ugly but I wouldn't really call her drop gorgeous either. At least not enough for me to watch her solely for her appearance. 😂
As a single mom who changed her own tires, learned how to change her own oil and on a daily basis tried to show my son that a woman could do anything a man can do......... This is appalling! I paid for the bacon and brought it home and cooked it! I have had my whole world drop out from underneath me and there was no man here for me to cling to I would have told him to pack his s*** because I'm too busy to mess with someone else in my awesome self-sufficient life.
You are an inspiration :)
From one single Mum to another, go you ❤👏👏👏
The thing is, there are different types of women. There are women like you who are determined and accountable and capable. Then there are women who don't have those traits. There are so many women who rely on others and are very codependent but then claim to be independent. You're a gem! You're a rare one. Be proud, and continue to inspire others.
@@Create.Your.Legacy."there are so many women who rely on others bjt claim to be independent" 🤡
I am single and live by myself and know how to do all these. 😅 It has never been about gender, or with being married or not, but about knowing how to manage your life.
“A single income is more than enough for an apartment” SHOW ME WHEREEEE
Not where, but when. As in the '50s. 😂
It’s impossible without government help
I do have a 2 bedroom apt that I keep up with a single income. No help from the government and I live in California. It's not always easy but it's doable. That is not me agreeing with the state of the economy tho lol
The unpicked pick me. What a tragic way to live. Girl, stand up.
An amazing way to describe her. She’s insane and incredibly dense.
Guys know the pick me is already theirs
Her saying 35 year old women aren't hot is such a wild cope and display of self-loathing. I was femme presenting today and I got hit on twice. By people ten years younger than me. I genuinely cannot understand that line of thinking, like.. what!? We barely even have wrinkles at 35, if any.
Eyyyooooooooo I got divorced last year BECAUSE it was what was best for my kids. Yes it was stressful for them for a few months, but their dad and I just didn't work well under the same roof.
It was more important to me for my kids to see what a healthy, happy adult relationship looks like than it was to have 2 adults who they share DNA with living under the same roof.
I'm so glad my parents got divorced, and have been since I was 10 (they divorced when I was 2). Because they were seperated they were actually able to be kind and co-parent effectively rather than scream and fight all the time. Our family had its problems sure, and there was a part of me that wanted the traditional family experience I would have so many more issues if they'd stayed together.
proud of you for taking care of your kids and yourself ♥
I‘m a child of divorce and wouldn‘t want it any other way. My parents were not a good match at ALL. My dad has since remarried and I‘ve gotten the best gift ever out of it: two extra siblings whom I love to death :)
Wishing you only the best! :)❤
There’s one thing Pearl said that’s a HALF truth. RICH, WHITE women were a “protected class”, but if you were a colored woman, or a poor white woman, you were NOT afforded that same “protection”. Not at ALL surprised Pearl framed it the way she did, though, being the grifter she is.
Yep. Intersectional feminism ftw.
Protected class or Prized possession?
Still a better position than those from other backgrounds/ethnicities.
But did being a pampered pet blind them to the ownership they were still under?
Colored? That term went out of favor 60 years ago
@@madreep most likely this person doesn't have English as their first language and isn't from the US, I used to say the same thing until people educated me about it
I like how Pearl basically accused her parents of fraud by explaining away any of her mom’s accomplishments as not real and were done for tax right off/ or grants lol. Also, I guess her mom has a tik tok account
"Give it to me daddy YAAAS and then I'll make it your problem!"
😂😂😂
I just started watching SWOOP about a week ago, I'm obsessed.
The hair, the makeup, the CONFIDENCE ❤🎉
Every video i watch i feel my insecurities fading because her energy is contagious!
Also love that she models her own merch.
I am a new fan 🎉
Interviewer: "Why did you do that?"
Pearl: 😬 "....huh?"
All you need to know.
I've always had the opinion that 1. Her content is motivated by income and provoking people gets the views she wants 2. She thinks her platform will lead her to the high value man, like her father, she wants to be with. I genuinely feel she has deep-rooted mommy issues, jealousy because she had to fight for her attention, because she's not as successful as her mother and. She speaks about marriage and relationships like someone without the experience of relationships and I also think it's deliberate. I don't know, I think she's deeply unhappy and extremely insecure.
i’m so intrigued by her mother. i so wish swoop did an interview, because we know it would be brought up.
She's not even married, why is she telling people how marriage works?
She’s such a hypocrite like the rest of the red pill people
It's called standards and independence. It doesn't seem like she is willing to settle until she is ready. Which is smart and more women should do the same.
@@Create.Your.Legacy.Yep, that's gotta be the reason.
Yep. Some of her critics started yelling that when people continued calling her a relationship influencer.😅
@@Create.Your.Legacy. This woman believes that women shouldn't have the right to vote. That is not independence. I don't care if she has standards and is waiting to get married. That is perfectly fine. But she shouldn't be telling women to not get a divorce if they are getting abused. It is harmful.
3:59 notice how she says "us" when talking about stds but says "women" when talking about birthrates
what's interesting to me about calling out teaching and healthcare as *run by* women is that they are largely staffed by women- but the boards are not, and your nurses/doctors and teachers do NOT have the power to run things. they're just trying to do their damndest to do what they can while being overworked to hell
I dont understand why nobody is pointing this out. Everything she gave as an example are not run by women. They have no say in those spaces.
I noticed that as well. She just states that as a fact. When actually those were considered ‘female’ jobs historically but the corporations and non-profits were always run by men. Her facts are not at all factual.
That and we haven’t even been allowed to hold those jobs in the way we do now for even 100 years yet. Men have been the dominant gender in charge of the entire world for ALL of human history, and LOOK AT WHERE WE ARE. Nothing that moron says even makes sense.
Yes I thought the same! I work in healthcare and yes the faces I see everyday are mostly women but the people making decision above us are definitely men.
love how she says "when we have family, career, kids" but refuses to have children or a real career.
The Jewish commentator on Piers Morgan was 100% right: we think we can debate people like this but we cannot. There is no winning. This is true in all cases but especially when someone dives headfirst into anti-Jewish conspiracy theories. There is no way to disprove a conspiracy theory, and attempting to do so will only cause them to revise the conspiracy theory to be more airtight.
You can't argue with stupid
It's pigeon chess. Even when you win, they just knock over all the pieces and shit on the board, declaring themselves a victor.
1:09:56 My 16 year old told me recently "Aging is punk as fuck" and it healed my 47 year old soul.
I love that 😂 It is punk as fuck, they're right
I loath that Pearl has a platform
I’ve been married for 23 years. Divorce isn’t a thing you believe in or don’t believe in, it’s not faith or tradition, it’s a literal disillusion of a contract. I went into my marriage very clearly saying that if we come to a point that we’re not holding up our end of the terms it’s okay to dissolve the contract.
Well for you.
For really religious people, it means something different.
@@Gmenpg yes, but religious people feeling different doesn’t change that marriage itself has societal benefits (tax benefits, next of kin, inheritance, even visitation at the hospital in some circumstances) that have nothing to do with religion and that a “disbelief” in divorce don’t apply to the legality of the agreement. Pearl is missing the fact that not everyone who gets married is even Christian, or religious at all.
@@SilverHairSimmer well, Pearl is missing a lot of facts in general lol
That's good.. for you and your husband. But others may view it as sad and lost.
To others, marriage isn't a contract with an escape plan.
@@Create.Your.Legacy. you’re in the realm of contract/ covenant.
All marriages (that are official) are contracts, not all marriages are covenant.
All marriages that are a covenant are also contracts.
The idea that all marriage is a Christian covenant is wildly false.
Does anyone else notice how contradictory it is that MAGA Conservatives gushed about taking the red pill to wake from the Matrix, but also took a stance against being "woke".
Haha, good point! I love it!
And tha matrix, in hindsight, is very much an allegory for being trans 🤦🏻
Ha! 😂🤣
I've been saying this for years! I'm glad someone else sees it.
It's actually not contradictory at all. Being
"red pilled" is a reference to being awake and aware. Woke is a liberal propaganda term. So they are actually the opposite. Also, not all people who support MAGA gush about being red pilled. I certainly don't, but I am awake to the propaganda used to manipulate people.
I’m a dv survivor. I was hit so hard I tasted blood! He threw a brick in my window of my car. Glass was everywhere! Me and my bff called the cops, the cops told us why should we find him or take a statement bio charges, if she’s going to go back to him. Yup! They didn’t do anything! The second time I called they did something at first it was going to be the same thing, but he looked at me and said ok don’t worry, and they help me. It’s hard to get help they don’t want to believe you or do anything.
As someone who has been in abusive situations and who has been divorced this gets under my skin because I would never want to put my kids through things for the sake of getting divorced. It makes me so mad for someone who has never been in that position to try to speak. She’s dangerous for women and especially any young girls who follow her…. Love you Swoop…. Great job as always
14:15 She's absolutely wrong. None of those industries are run by women. They're run by men with women being on the front line taking the brunt of the abuse and having no say in how things are done. In any industry that is predominantly staffed by women, when a man works there he is promoted faster out of the rank and file than a woman is. It's not just anecdotal, they've studied it. These "women" industries are run by men and men are moved into management positions as soon as they can be.
This comment right here?
Spitting absolute FACTS
25:35 not only from a fictional movie BUT a movie created by two trans women with strong symbolism for the experience of a trans person - if I’m not mistaken?? Love that and how incels stole their name from something wholesome that was started by a woman. The irony. The audacity.
The “alpha male” guys have also co-opted Patrick Bateman from American Psycho, a film also directed by a woman that’s meant to satirize men like Bale 😭
Even "incel" was started by a woman and was a Nice concept before the New incels took it, hmm.
@@inkassosjefen6315 literally what I was trying to say! My wording got weird but I remember learning about the origin of “incels” and it was actually really sweet and wholesome until asshats took over the name.
@@SpookyScarletShadow it’s actually really embarrassing how much self awareness these men lack… it’s scary and infuriating but if you can laugh instead of cry it helps a little lol
And apparently there is now a photo of Tate in a speedo going around and people are wondering if he is trans
I have heard a term describing this type of personality: "tofu person." A tofu person sucks up all the personalities around them because they are unable to form their own or unable to come to terms with their own self. It seems fitting in this case.
What an insult to Tofu.
That’s called narcissism 😅
@@anniecamacho6993 Tofu is just as bland as Hannah.
@@soude85 Tofu is like sex. If you don’t like it, you aren’t doing it right.
And no matter what. Still no one has picked her. She clearly hates herself so much and honestly, i can see why
The only thing she said that I sorta agree with is if you're fat then you are fat, I don't think it's healthy as a society to tell bigger people that they are meant to be that way. Don't get me wrong I won't be a douche about it but if the topic is brought up I wont sugar coat it, and I understand that some people truly can't lose weight do to health conditions but that is very rare. In short, I agree on the subject but not how she goes about addressing it.
Ok, just to say where I'm coming from, I am a stay at home mom and was a virgin on my wedding night. I'm exactly what Just Pearly Things seems to think women should be, apparently.
And with all that said, I cannot stand her! I chose to do/be these things because it was what was best for me. That doesn't mean it is the only way for women to live.
My husband and I have this setup due to my own medical needs (most jobs wouldn't work for me). I have a safety net if anything ever happened between us. I am, quite frankly, privileged to be able to live this way.
If I didn't have this safety net, I don't think I'd be comfortable not having an income as well. And I don't understand the vitriol towards other women that chose to work (for practical reasons or just because they wish to). And the idea that women deserve to be cheated on or whatever due to being "unpure"... I just do not understand how much she seems to hate women.
Just starting this video, but what I've seen on her in other videos, it blows my mind her views and attitude.
45:05 seriously! Part of why I agreed to go out with my now husband was because he was also waiting for marriage to have sex. He didn't expect me to be a virgin while not being one (the number of guys that wanted to be with me back in college only because I was a virgin was horrifying).
And again, to be clear, not saying anything against other choices. But the weird double standard was so frustrating. I wasn't necessarily only willing to be with a man that had never had sex, but if a man thought sex before marriage was ok for men but not women, they were immediately someone I wouldn't date.
As a man who was in a horribly abusive relationship. I did some not great things. But don't blame the fucking victim. I appreciate that you are such a strong advocate of victims of abuse. It makes me feel not so alone. And it's nice to see someone with a platform being loud about it. Thank you.
"I can tell you how to get a husband" -the chick that's never even been in a long term relationship. Let alone engaged..😒