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these comments about micheal saving the day is undermining the work she went through to be able to be with someone again. she is so strong and i admire her so much.
She was able to change herself so much that she was able to get into a happy relationship. Having Micheal there just made things better, it’s like the reward for all her hard work❤️
i didn't even know who Lily was but after watching this entire thing and scrolling down to the comments and following her twitch and realizing she was in a relationship, im so happy for her. it must've taken a lot to be able to trust and love again, not to mention love PUBLICLY again. i wish her so much love
This is truth, I also came from Michael Reeves's stuff. But credit where credit is due, everything she had been going through was hard and she did make it through in one piece.
It's not so much about being professional per say, it's about being relatable to the patient speech wise so they can lower their guard and what not, also he's a very casual chill guy if you've watched his stream or his other vids like this! XD
I love this therapist. He makes sure that lily feels comfortable and doesn’t just jump in to like sensitive subjects. He sort of eases in to the topic and shows body language that he’s not judging her at all. I completely respect therapist and I commend them for the great job that they are doing.
therapists are epic. just because how in depth and high level their job can be. learning how to make someone comfortable for instance can be one of the hardest things to do. its always very impressive to see how they do their job
i would NOT do this publicly, ever. BIG props to Lily, she has titan balls. Edit: Removing previous edit due to respect for Lily regarding the recent events.
I mean back in the day we always said Lily was a 10ft tall buff black dude with a huge dong(almost everyone skipped the last part, almost). Of course she has huge balls! But seriously, she is very brave
Seeing Lily break down talking about the breakup is so heartbreaking. She's been so strong for the community these past couple months. What an amazing person
Well you see, some of the best and most constructive therapy, isn’t streamed for patient confidentiality. It takes balls to LIVESTREAM or make videos on therapy. Looking to other people’s therapy isn’t a good way to resolve or use it as catharsis for your own therapy.
Unfortunately therapy takes going to a lot of different people until you meet one that works for you specifically. And in the US not all people are able to get therapy because of health insurance issues.
@Anzu Wyliei hence why he says in the beginning of every session with a streaming "I cant fix you over the internet" And why hes doing like serveral weeks of months with reckful now to actually make progress.
@Anzu Wyliei I think what you said can be clearly concluded by watching the video and as such a one sentence youtube comment not entirely mirroring the content of the video (in the sense you understood it) but still refering to the video as though having watched it most likely is a joke. Either way, if its just a misunderstanding theres no point in feuding over that, I apologise for being passive aggressive.
@@madhavraghu and for me its amazing that she did that because imagine your boyfriend cheated with your best friend, thats mental and even after that lily is still thinking about albert well being
Lilly is one of those content creators I don't watch at all anymore, but I'll occasionally drop by her streams for a few minutes to see if she's changed at all since the last decade and I'm proud to see her always being her. I have to give mad respects to Lilly because I remember how, back when she hadn't even revealed her face yet, people were always going on about how "oh lilly's voice is so fake", "lilly's probably ugly irl", "lilly this lilly that". Yet... She's still managed to armor through a lot of shit through out all of these years. It's truly fascinating watching what people thought was this "feeble little girl" muscle through all of the psychological bullshit that's been thrown at her and keep pushing forward, I honestly can't think of many other content creators getting this much _undeserved_ hate and not quitting after a couple years. Key word "undeserved" because we all know everyone who's popular has haters, no shit, but I really don't think Lilly's done ANYTHING worthy of her getting all of the hate she's gathered through out all this time. It's sad, but it's good to see that she's strong enough to withstand all of this hatred. I'm definitely no simp, but I can respect Lilly as a fellow human being who knows how to take punches to the gut time and time again and keep getting up.
I hate to be the one to point this out, I really do, but just for future reference theres only one L in lily, also I 100000% agree with your statement and hope you have a good day :)
@@AXharoth That is where the term originated from. Boomer is a term that can be attributed to any person of any age depending on whether they apply to the characteristics of an actual baby boomer. Boomer is attributed to Dr. K, jokingly partly due to his technological incompetence. I think i can speak for most people and say there is no ill intent in using it.
@@taku6541 But it can get very confusing when you have to maintain different personas for different people, and it raises the deep question of: Who am I? Do I deserve to exist?
I agree that he's pretty incredible. But I think it's something he earned through years of work, study, and cultivating himself rather than a gift he just happens to have.
Damn I saw it on stream and even though the doctor tries to stay neutral and didn't know her before you can tell he is touched by Lily's genuine kindness and really wants to help her.
supermonkeyyyyyy yeah you can tell he really wanted to help her because he was saying at the beginning of the stream “At the end of the hour” but then the whole thing ended up going on for like 2 hours and 30 mins.
Yeah you can cleary feel that when he trashtalks the haters and says he's being protective of her. I think that's genuinely really cute and great to see on Twitch.
It scares me how many people hate Lily because of her voice, and how she shouldn’t be sad because she is “lucky”. Just because you’re “lucky”, or have money, doesn’t change the fact you can be sad when something horrible happens to you.
people hate her because she has a easy life even though she doesn't do anything meaning to herself to the world or to society in short word is based on jealousy I don't hate her, but I won't watch her I find her friend worse than her that pokimane I think she has traits of a manipulative girl
@@AgainstThisWorld But that feeling that she doesn't "do anything" comes from somewhere. It's when people see the end result that I think inspires jealousy. Everyone who has a computer or the internet has it easy compared to 50% of the entire world's population. Yet people in 1st world countries suffer more from suicides and depression than in poor countries. There are a lot of depressed people streaming on twitch (as well as people who have committed suicides that live on social media). If you're not happy with your life, you won't be after you become a streamer either.
@Burak Ormanoglu Destiny is a rare example. He has been happy his whole life and he has never had any mental issues. Those people exist in all kinds of fields and they're not limited to only twitch. He appreciates what he has and I believe he would appreciate what he has regardless of streaming.
when he started talking about "how people come back to the shitty restaurant because of the food" everything added up and i saw how every single one of his arguments had a meaning to it. I know this is his job but it's really cool to see and super hard to describe. Mad respect for you and lily
@@AquilaPainWhy I'm not 100% sure but I think @Quadril is referring to the way Dr K's observations are trying to make Lily realise how great she is, she is the "food" in a restaurant, even when she thinks that on the outside she is ugly, not deserving of her fame or her fans who always tune in to watch her. Dr K is saying that she has value in herself and her actual personality and what she does. He wants her to see that no matter what her outward presentation is (like the service at a restaurant), that the real reason people are there is for her and that what she does and who she is - what she does has value and helps people. For the first hour or so they have been discussing the ways that her sense of worth has suffered, related to her childhood [and her breakup which gave her attention on the internet also lead to her having more fans which she feels undeserving of, because in some way those people "showed up" due to her breakup; but actually 99% of her fans like her for her] Dr K is trying to make her see that "Lily 2" who is the part of her that is afraid of being a disappointment/doesn't feel she deserves her fame, that she should accept and reassure that part of herself and believe in her value - as she would reassure a fellow streamer in her shoes.
It just broke me seeing her cry at the beginning..I’m so happy that she’s with someone who truly loves her and wants to show the world how amazing she is right now. Big shout out to Michael Reeves to be always so considerate of Lily’s well being. If you watched her drunk stream, it takes a real man to think about the future and order food for her knowing she’ll be hungry. It takes a real man to accept all of Lily, her sad emotions, her low self esteem, and see her at her lowest point and still love her. He may be young and be quirky normally, but he takes his relationship seriously and puts in his best efforts to cherish Lily. I love them both so much (I’m crying like a proud father don’t judge 🤧🤧)
yeah he also told her subtly to "cut down on oversharing" when she was drunk and here she says that she wishes the break up wasn't so public, he literally takes the sad possibility of an end into consideration right now or it's just me reading too much into it
@@rage9428 well let's not read too much into it, just let them be happy for now. Me personally just take it as him being embarrassed if everyone knows every cute little things he do for his gf, not necessarily worried about what will happen if they broke up. Maybe I'm naive, but I just hope they're happy.
When my boyfriend cheated on me I wanted the world to know and hate on him. Lily is just so kind to feel bad for someone that hurt her I admire her so much
incredibly kind, almost too kind. How can she blame herself for someone else cheating on her? Apparently Albert said the reason he cheated was because he wasn't happy. Like a cheater will ever say, because I'm greedy. Failure of a relationship can be blamed on two people; but the decision to cheat is ALL on the cheater.
When I got cheated on, I felt the same but I got hated for absolutely no reason at all. Some people don’t deserve so much hate but some who cheat for the sake of it deserve hatred.
Ok I understand nobody really cares but I need to say it. My ex boyfriend and I went to a dance and in that weekend he broke up with me over text. I never really found out but I'm pretty sure he was cheating on me with one of my friends and then was trying to dumb that friend and try to go for my best friend. That day was not fun because I was already dealing with so much crap. I'm so glad my best friend was there for me when it happened, I love her so much.
Alice_Wolf _Gacha Only douches don’t care. I care, I understand your problems. I got cheated on for my good friend and they got cheated on for my other friend.
"You're trying to take care of yourself as if you're a normal person, but you're not a normal person. You're just too full of love." 😢😢 Damn dude you didnt have to make me cry in front of my salad
i think his style of therapy shows perfectly that you dont have to be empathic to be a good coach. he said it himself: his sociopathy scale is quite high, and yet he manages to do a very deep and cathartic session.
DatVocals! In a sense his sociopathy might help him - I get sad just hearing her talk about it and am not sure I could be objective with my questioning and approach as a result of that.
Sociopath's are incredibly observant of social cues, it is how they blend in with the emotional masses without truly feeling the same, imitation. They are incredible at picking things up subconsciously and using those things without any effort. An empath while being equally intuitive are unable to separate other peoples emotions from their own, they naturally take things more personally. His disconnect with his patient could be his advantage.
@@johnnyperry1471 this. while you cant say sociopaths in general are that observant, when they are they absolutely have an advantage in therapy and coaching.
She's griefing for her relationship, the future she imagined of that relationship. She not only lost her boyfriend, but her best friend. The person she thought got her completely. The one she thought had her back. Being cheated on, when in a long term relationship after 2-3 years no cheating no problems is hard. Even worst if they are part of your friendship group. I went throught this quite young, when I was 18-20 years old. I was at university and seperated from my SO. So it was a lot easier to distract. But he was 100% part of her life. In her videos, future trips. Thats fucking horrible. I feel for Lily
If you look at her with Michael Reeves, you can tell shes super happy!! I admire Lily for being mature and leaving that past behind her. She’s looking forward.
margobyun Michael is super affectionate towards her and let’s her be around him as much as she wants. He embraces her hugs openly and she can pour her love onto him. Albert barely let her hug him and he would collaborate with girls while she was gone. All her friends knew Albert was no good.
Every streamer getting in a public setting to discuss their problems with Dr. K is an absolute baller and has no idea how much they are helping us figure out and process our own problems. I can't imagine myself doing that, but for someone to have the balls to do it it's on a such a high level of courage that it deserves praise!!!! Gj Lily, LS, Reckful and all you other magnificent sons of bitches, thank you for doing your part.
@@nicholastho4339 Those guys kinda came to mind prima vista, but I've watched all of the talks and I was able to get something out of every interaction on this channel.
Very thankful for all of this. I’m a marriage and family therapist intern and watching him helps me so much to learn how to ask better questions and what kinds of things he notices
I also think it’s important for us to see our favorite streamers/influencers in a more vulnerable (idk if that’s the tight word) light because I think it really helps us relate to them more as a person and it bring them down to our level in an emotional sense.
Lily's streams are comforting and funny. She honestly has the only stream that can kick all my stress out the door and make me feel so warm inside. I honestly just wish for her to be happy.
The talk about Lily 2 reminded me of Naruto and his struggle with the Waterfall of Truth. Loving the other side of you that is always in pain and accepting this pain, allows you to love yourself completely and become whole.
Holy crap. 3 minutes in, and the amount of intuition this man used to in the moment he asked Lilly to explain to the audience the topic was BRILLIANT to see. 1) Was looking to get a base line of how comfortable she. 2) Saw she was, not at ALL comfortable, and that pushing to hard here was a bad idea. 3) Took a step back to talk about a more positive topic; Sleep. (Which, if you've ever done any research on sleep would be really obvious that this was a really good topic in which you could segway into a PLETHORA of deeper topics) 4) Very, very good balance of asking for specific/tangible answers and making her dig a little deeper for them. And this was in the first 3 minutes... SUPER sensitive with the person he's conversing with.
I'm a doctral clinical psychology student and I can tell you that this guy is the real deal. He has such an incredible way of building a therapeutic alliance with streamers. He makes it seem so effortless. I hope I can be half the clinician he is one day
@@psy__guy__9884 Hey man I hope that you can get there one day. The world needs more people like you and Dr.K to help us through our struggles. Thanks for your efforts! :)
I love how he makes it clear that this chat isn't for the fans. If there's an awkward silence, so be it. This is about _her_ and not about putting on a show for the audience.
@Bot Robot I- that sounds really similar to what I do tbh... both Lily and Sykkuno try to understand the hater, knowing that the hater might be going through something and hating to somehow cope with that or is a result of it Both of them are so kind and patient, and I really admire that
God, I've watched Lily since early 2012, and I've never seen her like this. I'm really glad she felt comfortable enough to truly talk about her emotions and how she feels.
omg I haven't seen this one in a comment section of hers for sooo long. Anyone else remember the LilyRaichu channel? too bad all the content was removed from the channel. I remember when this joke was used on like every Lily and Nyanners videos I saw.
Broooo, when Dr.K was on the phone and said "Hello?" and Lily responded with "Hi" not knowing he wasn't talking to her, that was so fucking cuteeeeeeeeeeee dudeeee
Michael has been working it up the ranks since the start, in a fedmyster vlog around 10 months ago he let lily win an arm wrestle, but later crushed Albert within seconds. He predicted the future and was protecting his queen gracefully, before she even knew she was in danger. To the simp king, I bow.
It's not an amazing quote. It's just a jumbled version of saying jealousy inspires hate and strife. You shouldn't hate seeing the person you could be. You should learn from it not become hateful from it.
Props to Lily for talking about her real emotions in front of so many people for HOURS. My therapy session lasts for 45 minutes and some days I’ll feel SO exhausted and would never want to talk about my feelings for the rest of the day. She’s talking about something she avoided by drinking yet here she is, accepting her weakness. LILY U R SO STRONG WE LOVE U SM
im so glad lily talked to this guy. you can tell by the end of this how much he seemed to watch over her and be protective of her. im so damn glad she had someone to finally allow her the space to have these deeper discussions and let out all her sorrows. ive always been interested in lily's opinions on stuff. she really is someone i relate too especially when it comes to being an empath and stuff like that. i really want lily to be so happy she really is one of the more sincere and loving people ive ever seen like it blows my mind.
I hate the way she thinks but you can't blame her for it. You can't blame someone for their mindset. But its really frustrating to see someone think like that. She blames herself for HIM not telling her his feelings and HIM cheating, damn that makes me angry.
Theres a lot of people that think that way. The downside of critically thinking too much about yourself is you begin to think that everything is your fault and on your shoulders. Ive been lucky enough to never be cheated on but every relationship thats ended in my life i think what I could’ve done better. Always without out a doubt is has to be my fault because if its not then i cant do anything to improve. I know how unhealthy it is and i can see that in people like lily but its been a struggle to come to terms with how i feel. I really felt lilys words about not feeling good enough and feeling lucky in life.
Like they said in one of the offline "offline" podcast, it's the effort that matters. It's obvious to them that Toast does not necessarily like constant social interactions, but he also will not shy away from asking whether the other person wants to have company, and consider staying despite he doesn't necessarily want to.
I think Toast likely has the highest degree of empathy and sociopathy than most of OTV. His persona is an aloof, big brain character that doesn't give a shit, but he's really good at reading a room and a conversation. He wouldn't be able to navigate that persona otherwise without constantly making off-hand comments that could be seen as rather distasteful, like Fed tends to do.
I love his reassuring sentences towards her sometimes like: 'you're one step ahead (towards healing), etc. And also 'It blows my mind that you don't see how amazing you are". I love how he empowers her in this way! We stan this empowering Doc.
Ikr she can play games well, she can play music, sing, animate, sketch, make digital art, is a wonderful and genuine person, can stream well, is hilarious. It's so sad she feels this way.
Do I recommend public therapy sessions? Probably not. Am I still watching this? Yes. Will I watch the whole thing at some point? Probably. Am I a hypocrite? Yes.
Yeah, I definitely wouldn't recommend it, but I think if somebody has the courage to do it it can really help people out there who think they're alone in their feelings. I know I always had a hard time with all the therapists that I used to go to, but when I started going to recovery groups for my drinking I found that through hearing others share, it not only made me feel like my thoughts were more normal, it also helped me to feel safe enough to share where others had before :)
she's honestly one of the most genuine streamers I've seen and I watch her just because she's just such a normal person that's just dealing with stuff we can all relate to, super brave to be talking about all this stuff on such a public platform.
Oh yeah, the existence of this VOD is a manifestation of the strength of Lily's soul - the fact she was willing to do this on stream gets crazier the longer I think about this! 💖
We thought Destiny was the raid boss but he was just fodder, lily is the real endgame. She’s got like 10 phases and 4 different forms, this is gonna be nuts.
The "why do intelligent people tend to get addicted to video games" part was very interesting. It makes sense, but I never really thought of it that way. (2:19:58)
Mavodeli it might have made sense. nowadays gaming is so common, that it does not reflect what it might once have done. considering that about 80% (pulling numbers out of my ass here, cba to look up the exact percent) of todays generation play some form of videogames, but the IQ, statistically speaking is definitely not increasing.
I'm not even 5 minutes in and I'm already crying along with Lily. She goes through so much but still puts on a smile and entertains and literally works to make us smile. God bless this woman honestly.
Bro when he said “ I feel that alot of people who are watching on twitch feels disappointed in themselves and feel like the world is disappointed in them “ that hit me straight in the feels, he got that on point.
This honestly made me cry. As he picked apart the points that lily talked about that held underlying issues some of them hit so hard and so accurately in myself, and it really made me feel like I should also be aware of these things. I know it makes you feel a little weird Lily, but I just wanted to thank you. This kind of actually really helped me in my own thoughts.
Dr.K is literally a blessing on Twitch. I’m glad he came and did this with reckful and now seeing him helping and hearing out other streamers is amazing to see. Props to him
I've wanted to be a psychiatrist for about 6 years now and recently I've recently been doubting myself a little. Dr. K, You've inspired me again to be a good human being just like you. Thanks for being such an inspiration.
really seriously dont doubt yourself. i never saw myself as an intelligent person, yet here i am doing my second degree in health care. give yourself time and trust yourself, good luck !
@@smashenchilada1101 because the road to be a doctor is really reaally hard.. I just hope that you have research well and be prepared to be a medical student. I've seen many of my friends regret to be in this path... I don'twant you to feel that way one day.. try to interact with other doctor or medical student that you know or find online communities that share the same thought as you.
seeing her breakdown so hard about albert rly maade me sad... and her issues with "lily2" i can relate to so hard lol... anyways drK is great i wish i could have one of those talks cuz oo boy i need that
honestly watching this back now and seeing how michael treats her it makes me happy that he puts so much effort in....ofc i'm on the outside looking in and i never knew albert well at all or any of these content creators but just seeing how much pain she was in here compared to now just makes me so happy to see her happy, she deserves the happiness she's getting and i know some pain might still be there, also despite what albert did i hope he's doing ok mentally to and can maybe appreciate things more in the future.
I enjoy watching Lily streaming every now and then but wow, does it break my heart seeing her sad. She is such a beautiful person! Hang on and get better soon!!!
I've only been watching lily for a couple of weeks, so I guess I'm part of the influx of viewers that she got from the drama.. but I don't watch her *because* of the drama. I watch her because she is one of the most wholesome and kind souls that I've seen. I really enjoyed this video, thank you for all the good you do Dr. K!
I watch because I was concerned for her well-being and enjoy the updates once in a while because knowing her personality I believe it would be very difficult to deal with someone cheating on them. Once she manages to fully / partially recover I will leave not because she is boring or undeserving or anything, but simply that I can stop worrying and move on. Not sure if that makes any sense.
i honestly want to say to lily that her talking about feelings is my favourite part of her content. thats genuienely one of the only things i watch and it gives me comfort
You interviewing streamers is one of the major things that was previously missing from gaming culture. I feel like what you're doing is filling a void that needed to be filled, and my hope is you will keep doing this and expand your campain for gamers' mental health to become a staple of this culture.
Pholion Agoning I’m not sure how you think cheese galore is anywhere near the level of Pontiff. Pontiff does have a shit ton of cheese moves but for the most part he has a set pattern that he follows almost exact. DSA does his move pattern 50 times then the 51st he suddenly decides he wants to throw in an extra 2 hits just for funzies. He’s a prime example of them just adding cheese to uphold the reputation of the game being hard.
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Watching it for the 2nd time while eating. Ironically I think Lily is actually pretty strong, as it seems she feels things a lot deeper than most people, while still being able to push through all of what's happened to her, specially lately and she doesn't seem to realize that she is a strong person. I hope she overcomes this and that she keeps.doing well on Twitch :)
oh come on what so terrible has happened to her? someone has cheated on her? that happens to most people at some point, there is nothing special about it. Her biggest problem in life is some sort of brain chemicals disbalance, which makes her weak and unstable (not her fault, really. could be genetics, lifestyle, diet, wrong gut bacteria. she just needs the right pills until she figures out how to fix it)
@@HMakima I'm pretty sure you did your math wrong. If we go through it: (2h 33m 54s) * 2 4h 66m 108s 4h 67m 48s 5h 7m 48s Please, correct me if I'm the wrong one here.
I love that the host doesn't mind taking up the harder subjects, I see often when I or others try to comfort people that they try and fix the simple things and steer around the hard things. Very nice stream and I think you did very well
I'm just 16 minutes in but I have to agree so so so much with dr. K when he says people follow Lily exactly because she's a complex human being with feelings. Sometimes watching youtubers that only share the positives of life makes me feel a disconnect & also makes me feel weird and aweful for not always having good days. The world needs more people like Lily who are so honest, so that maybe we can heal eachother a bit
She is the sweetest lil potato chip, so humble and genuine. Even after her ex was a trash can full of poop, she still wished the hate towards him stopped She's too pure for this world
she believes he just made a mistake. i hope to god, if albert tries to come back with her, she would decline, deny and shove him away. thats just the rage in me speaking but in this household, we dont do two timers. She believes that there was something in her that lacked, like all people who got cheated on would feel. i hooe she knows that she's really ok the way she is. she doesnt need any extra changes nor any improvements. i dont wanna use the word perfect to describe her because it would seem unrealistic in a sense where we want to feel that what we are in reality is ok and thats ok? idk saying self-assuring words make me believe something more.
jokes aside, i hope there is someone who helps her cope. if it was michael, great. all shippings and pairs aside, i hope she gets through this with his help and her friends'.
this was really helpful personally. between the interviews with destiny and lily and their differences and similarities it was helpful seeing them work through their own personal troubles.
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@Tom_Het 3 years and 43 minutes ago :D
Anyone who can talk about their feelings, especially in a very public space, is peak chad.
This. Lily is now chad
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@@ezaf5989 Her voice is nice. Not sure if you forgot this (/s)
@@VonniXfiles and opera is good music?
@@ezaf5989 judging people on things they can't change isn't very chad
these comments about micheal saving the day is undermining the work she went through to be able to be with someone again. she is so strong and i admire her so much.
love this love this love this love this love this
She was able to change herself so much that she was able to get into a happy relationship. Having Micheal there just made things better, it’s like the reward for all her hard work❤️
i didn't even know who Lily was but after watching this entire thing and scrolling down to the comments and following her twitch and realizing she was in a relationship, im so happy for her. it must've taken a lot to be able to trust and love again, not to mention love PUBLICLY again. i wish her so much love
This is truth, I also came from Michael Reeves's stuff. But credit where credit is due, everything she had been going through was hard and she did make it through in one piece.
She is so smart and amazing. I could never do what she did and stay this strong and vulnerable at the same time. So Emotionally smart.
"he cheated on me"
"oh shit"
lmao tht was funny how he was fully professional the whole time but then dropped this
Philgob ikr
Timestamp?
@@duke9874 first 5 minutes
It's not so much about being professional per say, it's about being relatable to the patient speech wise so they can lower their guard and what not, also he's a very casual chill guy if you've watched his stream or his other vids like this! XD
@@duke9874 4:10
I love this therapist. He makes sure that lily feels comfortable and doesn’t just jump in to like sensitive subjects. He sort of eases in to the topic and shows body language that he’s not judging her at all. I completely respect therapist and I commend them for the great job that they are doing.
And that’s on being a Harvard graduate
therapists are epic. just because how in depth and high level their job can be. learning how to make someone comfortable for instance can be one of the hardest things to do. its always very impressive to see how they do their job
@@Bauernade it pretty much is a cookie cutter therapy session tbh
I wish I had him as a therapist
We all need people like him in our life ^^ must be great being part of his familly.
i would NOT do this publicly, ever. BIG props to Lily, she has titan balls.
Edit: Removing previous edit due to respect for Lily regarding the recent events.
She's part of the boys after all
@@yayayuki8542 TRUUUE
Why not? Because of peoples opinions?
I mean back in the day we always said Lily was a 10ft tall buff black dude with a huge dong(almost everyone skipped the last part, almost). Of course she has huge balls!
But seriously, she is very brave
Wait a minute
Seeing Lily break down talking about the breakup is so heartbreaking. She's been so strong for the community these past couple months. What an amazing person
To think that she's been holding on to that emotion for months.
Time stamp?
@@matthewp4320 4:40
@@matthewp4320 when you skim vids and dont see the first 5 mins
Shes been so strong for HERSELF nerd
Why is it so hard to find any constructive therapy in America, why is a twitch vod posted on TH-cam out of all places the best therapy I can find.
True but at least I can talk to my therapist
Well you see, some of the best and most constructive therapy, isn’t streamed for patient confidentiality. It takes balls to LIVESTREAM or make videos on therapy. Looking to other people’s therapy isn’t a good way to resolve or use it as catharsis for your own therapy.
Unfortunately therapy takes going to a lot of different people until you meet one that works for you specifically. And in the US not all people are able to get therapy because of health insurance issues.
Remember, it's not therapy though.
*wink wink*
STOP.
the moment she mentions her ex boyfriend he immediately switch his attention to something, what a madlad Lol
@@WellBeSerious12 that shits bullshit way too broad
@@Psydo
Of course people would start getting aversive, defensive, or threatening with something they'd not understand.
I just did the test and it says my personality is architect.
@@furkan10ky i got logician, INTP-T
@@WellBeSerious12 the whole personality type thing sounds like zodiac signs LOL
I love how Anok is just coming in and psychologically cleaning up the gaming community, streamer after streamer.
@Anzu Wyliei hence why he says in the beginning of every session with a streaming "I cant fix you over the internet" And why hes doing like serveral weeks of months with reckful now to actually make progress.
@Anzu Wyliei Ok thanks for interpreting a jest as a thorough analysis
@Anzu Wyliei Yes. Thats what I said. I made a joke and you treated it like a serious statement. But it isnt a serious statement.
@Anzu Wyliei I think what you said can be clearly concluded by watching the video and as such a one sentence youtube comment not entirely mirroring the content of the video (in the sense you understood it) but still refering to the video as though having watched it most likely is a joke. Either way, if its just a misunderstanding theres no point in feuding over that, I apologise for being passive aggressive.
@@newguidetoearth3030 yeah I took u seriously too, until I saw ur comment
when she said “i thought i’d marry him” i broke
and that he wasn't happy :"((
i know, how evil can albert the cheater be to leave this perfect flower
when does she say that? I watched the entire thing and I feel like I missed it lol
serpentphoenix idk i think it’s around 15-30 minutes in
A lot of women seem to think that
31:15 lily is saying that albert shouldn't get so much hate even thought she is hurting SOO MUCH, god you deserve the whole heaven
bro what is so hard to understand that albert shouldnt get so much hate after losing friends and fans
@@cobi421 he got hate AND losses friend because of what he did, not got hate and losses friend because of the hate
@@kuroryu1638 Yeah, and she's saying that he shouldn't have gotten that much hate for what he did
@@madhavraghu and for me its amazing that she did that because imagine your boyfriend cheated with your best friend, thats mental and even after that lily is still thinking about albert well being
@@kuroryu1638 yeah that's true
meanwhile michael tazed his way into lily's heart
Best comment
might have actually tazed her heart as well
Aww, that's so cute.
What a wholesome relationship
*Through Lies and Deceit*
"a lot of people watchign twitch feels disappointment in themselves"
hit the nail on the head lol
4Head
agree
@@krippaxxuseredarlordofthes9940 Exhibit A.
Well, that applies to a lot of people... And "people watching twitch" are a lot of people. So obv
Technically that's true of anything
Lilly is one of those content creators I don't watch at all anymore, but I'll occasionally drop by her streams for a few minutes to see if she's changed at all since the last decade and I'm proud to see her always being her. I have to give mad respects to Lilly because I remember how, back when she hadn't even revealed her face yet, people were always going on about how "oh lilly's voice is so fake", "lilly's probably ugly irl", "lilly this lilly that". Yet... She's still managed to armor through a lot of shit through out all of these years.
It's truly fascinating watching what people thought was this "feeble little girl" muscle through all of the psychological bullshit that's been thrown at her and keep pushing forward, I honestly can't think of many other content creators getting this much _undeserved_ hate and not quitting after a couple years. Key word "undeserved" because we all know everyone who's popular has haters, no shit, but I really don't think Lilly's done ANYTHING worthy of her getting all of the hate she's gathered through out all this time. It's sad, but it's good to see that she's strong enough to withstand all of this hatred.
I'm definitely no simp, but I can respect Lilly as a fellow human being who knows how to take punches to the gut time and time again and keep getting up.
I wish that I could thumbs up your comment twice!
Gay
Bruh Yote well spoken
I hate to be the one to point this out, I really do, but just for future reference theres only one L in lily, also I 100000% agree with your statement and hope you have a good day :)
@@swergelflerberson4453 If you have nothing valuable to add to a conversation, remain silent please :)
God bless Dr K, the boomer savior of twitch
a boomer is someone who were born right after ww2 . so in around 45-50 so no hes not a boomer
@@AXharoth wooosh
@@AXharoth That is where the term originated from. Boomer is a term that can be attributed to any person of any age depending on whether they apply to the characteristics of an actual baby boomer. Boomer is attributed to Dr. K, jokingly partly due to his technological incompetence. I think i can speak for most people and say there is no ill intent in using it.
@@AXharoth k now go back to league and never come back
Just Dr Boomer
I'm glad she's happy with Michael now. I hope they stay happy and comfy
And marry each other!!!! And live happily ever afteeer
Yes.
at least if they break up i just want too ses a nice break the one taht dosent Make me hate one of them
tilenHD
*That shit scares me , thinking if one of them moves away for some odd reason*
Life is full of mysteries
is she with michael?
I wish Etika had gone through something like this. It would have helped him come to terms with his different personas.
He had "different personas" ?
never really watched him, but yeah I agree. it’s pretty sad
Milo Sniffer I’m pretty sure everyone does u don’t act the same way with ur friends as u do with ur mom right?
@@taku6541 But it can get very confusing when you have to maintain different personas for different people, and it raises the deep question of: Who am I? Do I deserve to exist?
no one knows or could know if he had different personas other than him or someone who personally talked to him.
You can really see how she becomes more comfortable progressively through out the video
He has an incredible gift
I agree that he's pretty incredible. But I think it's something he earned through years of work, study, and cultivating himself rather than a gift he just happens to have.
@@iGrantWishes He's proving that gifts can (and should) be earned
Indeed
he learned and improved. i think its so disrespectful to just say ppl are gifted or talented when they got where they are through hard work.
@@FirebladeXXL if only anyone could get anywhere given enough hard work
Damn I saw it on stream and even though the doctor tries to stay neutral and didn't know her before you can tell he is touched by Lily's genuine kindness and really wants to help her.
supermonkeyyyyyy yeah you can tell he really wanted to help her because he was saying at the beginning of the stream “At the end of the hour” but then the whole thing ended up going on for like 2 hours and 30 mins.
Yeah you can cleary feel that when he trashtalks the haters and says he's being protective of her. I think that's genuinely really cute and great to see on Twitch.
i mean thats the best thing he can do to promote himself
@@leonbishop7404 are you hurt ?
@@fliown5413 what? This is true and there is nothing wrong with it
It scares me how many people hate Lily because of her voice, and how she shouldn’t be sad because she is “lucky”. Just because you’re “lucky”, or have money, doesn’t change the fact you can be sad when something horrible happens to you.
The only reason I found her channel was because of her voice and her personality earned my sub.
I think people who hate her for her voice are pretty insecure themselves.
hate her for her voice man who tf are those people ? i love her voice
Isnt she just speaking like some anime girl so weebs watch her and donate
@@dmkmn4612 weak bait
"Nothing inspires hate as much as seeing the person that you could be." Such a powerful statement. Love these one liners from Dr. K
people hate her because she has a easy life even though she doesn't do anything meaning to herself to the world or to society in short word is based on jealousy I don't hate her, but I won't watch her I find her friend worse than her that pokimane I think she has traits of a manipulative girl
@@AgainstThisWorld But that feeling that she doesn't "do anything" comes from somewhere. It's when people see the end result that I think inspires jealousy. Everyone who has a computer or the internet has it easy compared to 50% of the entire world's population. Yet people in 1st world countries suffer more from suicides and depression than in poor countries. There are a lot of depressed people streaming on twitch (as well as people who have committed suicides that live on social media). If you're not happy with your life, you won't be after you become a streamer either.
@Burak Ormanoglu Destiny is a rare example. He has been happy his whole life and he has never had any mental issues. Those people exist in all kinds of fields and they're not limited to only twitch. He appreciates what he has and I believe he would appreciate what he has regardless of streaming.
Equal true
Equal you right try’s jkap a twam
It breaks my heart to see Lily cry. She's too good for this world. Definitely deserved better.
Just like all the animals she eats.
jussi ?
jussi vegans go to hell :D
@@PataJuzmo ????? How the fuck is that at all relevant to the current issue?
Good thing her relationship with albert magically dissapeared
when he started talking about "how people come back to the shitty restaurant because of the food" everything added up and i saw how every single one of his arguments had a meaning to it. I know this is his job but it's really cool to see and super hard to describe. Mad respect for you and lily
can you elaborate on what this means please?
@@AquilaPainWhy I'm not 100% sure but I think @Quadril is referring to the way Dr K's observations are trying to make Lily realise how great she is, she is the "food" in a restaurant, even when she thinks that on the outside she is ugly, not deserving of her fame or her fans who always tune in to watch her.
Dr K is saying that she has value in herself and her actual personality and what she does. He wants her to see that no matter what her outward presentation is (like the service at a restaurant), that the real reason people are there is for her and that what she does and who she is - what she does has value and helps people.
For the first hour or so they have been discussing the ways that her sense of worth has suffered, related to her childhood [and her breakup which gave her attention on the internet also lead to her having more fans which she feels undeserving of, because in some way those people "showed up" due to her breakup; but actually 99% of her fans like her for her]
Dr K is trying to make her see that "Lily 2" who is the part of her that is afraid of being a disappointment/doesn't feel she deserves her fame, that she should accept and reassure that part of herself and believe in her value - as she would reassure a fellow streamer in her shoes.
It just broke me seeing her cry at the beginning..I’m so happy that she’s with someone who truly loves her and wants to show the world how amazing she is right now.
Big shout out to Michael Reeves to be always so considerate of Lily’s well being. If you watched her drunk stream, it takes a real man to think about the future and order food for her knowing she’ll be hungry. It takes a real man to accept all of Lily, her sad emotions, her low self esteem, and see her at her lowest point and still love her. He may be young and be quirky normally, but he takes his relationship seriously and puts in his best efforts to cherish Lily. I love them both so much (I’m crying like a proud father don’t judge 🤧🤧)
Either that, or the excessive crack use is making him see into the future
Sebjin K. Ahahaha trueeee
yeah he also told her subtly to "cut down on oversharing" when she was drunk and here she says that she wishes the break up wasn't so public, he literally takes the sad possibility of an end into consideration right now or it's just me reading too much into it
@@rage9428 well let's not read too much into it, just let them be happy for now. Me personally just take it as him being embarrassed if everyone knows every cute little things he do for his gf, not necessarily worried about what will happen if they broke up. Maybe I'm naive, but I just hope they're happy.
Beccamistic i feel u man. Lilys a good person. Ur not the only one fam haha
When my boyfriend cheated on me I wanted the world to know and hate on him. Lily is just so kind to feel bad for someone that hurt her I admire her so much
Everyone copes differently in the face of emotional trauma
incredibly kind, almost too kind. How can she blame herself for someone else cheating on her? Apparently Albert said the reason he cheated was because he wasn't happy. Like a cheater will ever say, because I'm greedy. Failure of a relationship can be blamed on two people; but the decision to cheat is ALL on the cheater.
When I got cheated on, I felt the same but I got hated for absolutely no reason at all.
Some people don’t deserve so much hate but some who cheat for the sake of it deserve hatred.
Ok I understand nobody really cares but I need to say it. My ex boyfriend and I went to a dance and in that weekend he broke up with me over text. I never really found out but I'm pretty sure he was cheating on me with one of my friends and then was trying to dumb that friend and try to go for my best friend. That day was not fun because I was already dealing with so much crap. I'm so glad my best friend was there for me when it happened, I love her so much.
Alice_Wolf _Gacha
Only douches don’t care. I care, I understand your problems. I got cheated on for my good friend and they got cheated on for my other friend.
"You're trying to take care of yourself as if you're a normal person, but you're not a normal person. You're just too full of love." 😢😢 Damn dude you didnt have to make me cry in front of my salad
Salad cries with you
hahahha
@@drosnelochmir6346 the sauces just drip down the plate
Time stamp?
@@mellodiyas 1:34:15 or so
i think his style of therapy shows perfectly that you dont have to be empathic to be a good coach. he said it himself: his sociopathy scale is quite high, and yet he manages to do a very deep and cathartic session.
Too many big words got confused
I really enjoy the way he uses pointed questions
DatVocals! In a sense his sociopathy might help him - I get sad just hearing her talk about it and am not sure I could be objective with my questioning and approach as a result of that.
Sociopath's are incredibly observant of social cues, it is how they blend in with the emotional masses without truly feeling the same, imitation. They are incredible at picking things up subconsciously and using those things without any effort. An empath while being equally intuitive are unable to separate other peoples emotions from their own, they naturally take things more personally. His disconnect with his patient could be his advantage.
@@johnnyperry1471 this. while you cant say sociopaths in general are that observant, when they are they absolutely have an advantage in therapy and coaching.
this turned to a therapy session for me and he isnt even talking to me
Ikr
AoE healing
trueeee
@@rockym.g.3827 I'm reading comments while listening and this comment bursted me out of laughter.
Im literally pausing every 10 minutes just bursting into tears.
She's griefing for her relationship, the future she imagined of that relationship. She not only lost her boyfriend, but her best friend. The person she thought got her completely. The one she thought had her back.
Being cheated on, when in a long term relationship after 2-3 years no cheating no problems is hard. Even worst if they are part of your friendship group.
I went throught this quite young, when I was 18-20 years old. I was at university and seperated from my SO. So it was a lot easier to distract.
But he was 100% part of her life. In her videos, future trips.
Thats fucking horrible.
I feel for Lily
YoshiKatherine and the facts she already in a new relationship. Apparently she’s dating Micheal reeves now
If you look at her with Michael Reeves, you can tell shes super happy!! I admire Lily for being mature and leaving that past behind her. She’s looking forward.
Exactly. Man, but for us fans, it really is sad to see. I saw lily and albert irl in may 2019 when they came to seattle and she looked so happy. Smh
margobyun Michael is super affectionate towards her and let’s her be around him as much as she wants. He embraces her hugs openly and she can pour her love onto him. Albert barely let her hug him and he would collaborate with girls while she was gone. All her friends knew Albert was no good.
@@ushjaba1067 To be fair If I was Lily I'd tap Micheal.
Every streamer getting in a public setting to discuss their problems with Dr. K is an absolute baller and has no idea how much they are helping us figure out and process our own problems. I can't imagine myself doing that, but for someone to have the balls to do it it's on a such a high level of courage that it deserves praise!!!! Gj Lily, LS, Reckful and all you other magnificent sons of bitches, thank you for doing your part.
@@nicholastho4339 Those guys kinda came to mind prima vista, but I've watched all of the talks and I was able to get something out of every interaction on this channel.
Very thankful for all of this. I’m a marriage and family therapist intern and watching him helps me so much to learn how to ask better questions and what kinds of things he notices
want to like this so bad but its at 666, ugh, Satan why?
I also think it’s important for us to see our favorite streamers/influencers in a more vulnerable (idk if that’s the tight word) light because I think it really helps us relate to them more as a person and it bring them down to our level in an emotional sense.
Lily's streams are comforting and funny. She honestly has the only stream that can kick all my stress out the door and make me feel so warm inside. I honestly just wish for her to be happy.
Lily*
same =)
You could say her stream makes you *comfy*???? Hmmmm???? I'm gonna stop, sorry...
Stay comfy
Lily being sad:
Michael: (Nightmare and goblin sounds intensifies)
REEEEEEEEE
Distant tazer sounds to protect his roomba. Reference when lily voice micheals roomba that curses.
"DON'T WORRY, I'LL TAZE YOU BACK INTO A HEALTHY MINDSET!"
~Michael, probably
@@saftschinken2353 CHUUUUU
@@CarlsCozyCorner that's...both horrifying and wholesome, I've never seen these two words mix till now
having these on Spotify as a "podcast" would be so great
or sound cloud
Blackorwhite or pornhub... no? Just me? Okay...
piano tiles?
Apples with pears or Pandora.
Amazon basics?
The talk about Lily 2 reminded me of Naruto and his struggle with the Waterfall of Truth. Loving the other side of you that is always in pain and accepting this pain, allows you to love yourself completely and become whole.
Looks like Dr. k is a Weeb lol
Carl jungs shadow analysis also fits in this no ?
@@neilghosh3821 *shadow clone
@@neilghosh3821 i dotn think shadow is hating yourself but idk could be
WEEBS DansGame
Holy crap. 3 minutes in, and the amount of intuition this man used to in the moment he asked Lilly to explain to the audience the topic was BRILLIANT to see.
1) Was looking to get a base line of how comfortable she.
2) Saw she was, not at ALL comfortable, and that pushing to hard here was a bad idea.
3) Took a step back to talk about a more positive topic; Sleep. (Which, if you've ever done any research on sleep would be really obvious that this was a really good topic in which you could segway into a PLETHORA of deeper topics)
4) Very, very good balance of asking for specific/tangible answers and making her dig a little deeper for them.
And this was in the first 3 minutes... SUPER sensitive with the person he's conversing with.
well, he's from Harvard. No wonder he is smart
@illogicalrelish born and raised
@@aurimasturkus289 In Harvard born and raised
In the lecture hall is where I spent most of my days
I'm a doctral clinical psychology student and I can tell you that this guy is the real deal. He has such an incredible way of building a therapeutic alliance with streamers. He makes it seem so effortless. I hope I can be half the clinician he is one day
@@psy__guy__9884 Hey man I hope that you can get there one day. The world needs more people like you and Dr.K to help us through our struggles. Thanks for your efforts! :)
I love how he makes it clear that this chat isn't for the fans. If there's an awkward silence, so be it. This is about _her_ and not about putting on a show for the audience.
“Nothing inspires hate as much as seeing the person that you could be.”
- Dr. K
2020
1 year exactly and this is my first time watching the video and it really shows a more detailed lily
I'm a neuroscience major looking into becoming a psychiatrist and Dr. K just keeps reminding me of the good I can put into the world some day.
I know this is a little late but good for you man
Keep it up bruh
this is rly late but i'm rooting for you!!
As a fellow vietnamese, I will also do good for the world by fixing teeth :)
@@tailopezbutnolamborghini4862 I am 1/8 vietnamese, that counts too right?
Lily is MASSIVE CHAD. I would never do this.
simp
She’s an amazing person ☺️
@Petal lanes chad: brave
@@avrilisraven Oh, come on! It's LilyPichad!
@matchafields chad is pretty much the personification of everything masculine lol
this is very off topic and all but i think it’d be very interesting to see Sykkuno on one of these.
It’s still on topic, no need to put a disclaimer. I also agree that Sykkuno would be interesting.
Sykkuno has mentioned going on it very recently, but he said there are things he isn't ready to talk about yet.
@@srk3studios138 ah yeah i wasn’t aware when i wrote the comment. thanks for letting me know :)
@@zuzaosowiecka i feel like he would dodge a lot of the questions
@Bot Robot I- that sounds really similar to what I do tbh... both Lily and Sykkuno try to understand the hater, knowing that the hater might be going through something and hating to somehow cope with that or is a result of it
Both of them are so kind and patient, and I really admire that
God, I've watched Lily since early 2012, and I've never seen her like this.
I'm really glad she felt comfortable enough to truly talk about her emotions and how she feels.
he's just a great psychologist with alot of confidence. that's why.
Natenso i never knew she was an OG streamer PogChamp
is he a real psychologist?
@@YoXeV YES. One from Harvard University.....
@@YoXeV He teaches and practices psychology at Harvard Med School.
“Where did you get the presumption that you have to control being sad?” Damn I felt that......
Good on Lily on finally embracing the 6 foot black man she truly is.
this is a what moment
@Ngu MU for real man only the ogs remember
omg I haven't seen this one in a comment section of hers for sooo long. Anyone else remember the LilyRaichu channel? too bad all the content was removed from the channel. I remember when this joke was used on like every Lily and Nyanners videos I saw.
Ahhhh its good to see an old fan. True fans know that's just a a korean actress that he hired✊😔
@@camillegarcia8582 true we all know tyrone the bald buff 6ft blackman is the man behind the voice
Broooo, when Dr.K was on the phone and said "Hello?" and Lily responded with "Hi" not knowing he wasn't talking to her, that was so fucking cuteeeeeeeeeeee dudeeee
And now Michael Reeves comes with the big boi emotional support so he upgraded to boyfriend material.
pivos111 yes.
And then upgraded again to best boyfriend
The best boi❤️
Michael has been working it up the ranks since the start, in a fedmyster vlog around 10 months ago he let lily win an arm wrestle, but later crushed Albert within seconds. He predicted the future and was protecting his queen gracefully, before she even knew she was in danger. To the simp king, I bow.
@@cereall9457 which vlog was it? I'm curious
1:23:35 this guy just got ascended to the heaven for a second
Lmao
Lol yea what happened ???
Lmaoooo yoooo what was that I'm fucking dead
Dayum Dr. K has some strong ass meds there
I hate you XD fuck
Damn, what an amazing quote from Dr. K, “nothing inspires hate like seeing the person you could be”
a nigga
TRUUUUUUUUUU
1:33:00
She wants to be a cheater
It's not an amazing quote. It's just a jumbled version of saying jealousy inspires hate and strife. You shouldn't hate seeing the person you could be. You should learn from it not become hateful from it.
@@reduXstereo he didn't say be hateful, he says that inspires hate. 2 completely different things.
Props to Lily for talking about her real emotions in front of so many people for HOURS. My therapy session lasts for 45 minutes and some days I’ll feel SO exhausted and would never want to talk about my feelings for the rest of the day. She’s talking about something she avoided by drinking yet here she is, accepting her weakness. LILY U R SO STRONG WE LOVE U SM
Eeee eeeeeee
Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
When lily's tears drop,
Mine did too
kuro blacko does instead of did works better
its fucking sad bro
Simp
Simppppp
@@fluffyelino6707 real mature
Lily is such a sweetheart. Wish her the best.
im so glad lily talked to this guy. you can tell by the end of this how much he seemed to watch over her and be protective of her. im so damn glad she had someone to finally allow her the space to have these deeper discussions and let out all her sorrows. ive always been interested in lily's opinions on stuff. she really is someone i relate too especially when it comes to being an empath and stuff like that. i really want lily to be so happy she really is one of the more sincere and loving people ive ever seen like it blows my mind.
At like 11:00 she tries to compliment his hair and I'm so sad, she's so sweet and I just wish her all the happiness in the world
10:58 *
I hate the way she thinks but you can't blame her for it. You can't blame someone for their mindset. But its really frustrating to see someone think like that. She blames herself for HIM not telling her his feelings and HIM cheating, damn that makes me angry.
Simp
@@jameswest2875 beta
@@jameswest2875 Claps all around boys! He said THE word!
Theres a lot of people that think that way. The downside of critically thinking too much about yourself is you begin to think that everything is your fault and on your shoulders. Ive been lucky enough to never be cheated on but every relationship thats ended in my life i think what I could’ve done better. Always without out a doubt is has to be my fault because if its not then i cant do anything to improve. I know how unhealthy it is and i can see that in people like lily but its been a struggle to come to terms with how i feel. I really felt lilys words about not feeling good enough and feeling lucky in life.
simp
"some of your colleagues are different in terms of their degree of empath and sociopathy"
100% toast
Are you saying that Toast is a sociopath?
@@YoXeV That he probably rates high on the sociopathy scale
Like they said in one of the offline "offline" podcast, it's the effort that matters. It's obvious to them that Toast does not necessarily like constant social interactions, but he also will not shy away from asking whether the other person wants to have company, and consider staying despite he doesn't necessarily want to.
I think Toast likely has the highest degree of empathy and sociopathy than most of OTV. His persona is an aloof, big brain character that doesn't give a shit, but he's really good at reading a room and a conversation. He wouldn't be able to navigate that persona otherwise without constantly making off-hand comments that could be seen as rather distasteful, like Fed tends to do.
I would add Poki to his point.
I love his reassuring sentences towards her sometimes like: 'you're one step ahead (towards healing), etc. And also 'It blows my mind that you don't see how amazing you are". I love how he empowers her in this way! We stan this empowering Doc.
It hurts to hear someone as talented as Lily feel like she isn't good enough for the attention she's gotten.
Ikr she can play games well, she can play music, sing, animate, sketch, make digital art, is a wonderful and genuine person, can stream well, is hilarious. It's so sad she feels this way.
Do I recommend public therapy sessions? Probably not. Am I still watching this? Yes. Will I watch the whole thing at some point? Probably. Am I a hypocrite? Yes.
Aaron D its okay my friend, you do you
Public therapy session is good for others that doesn't have the courage to talk about what they been through
Arent we all
Remember, its just her and Dr.K talking... and thousands of people just happen to be watching.
Yeah, I definitely wouldn't recommend it, but I think if somebody has the courage to do it it can really help people out there who think they're alone in their feelings. I know I always had a hard time with all the therapists that I used to go to, but when I started going to recovery groups for my drinking I found that through hearing others share, it not only made me feel like my thoughts were more normal, it also helped me to feel safe enough to share where others had before :)
she's honestly one of the most genuine streamers I've seen and I watch her just because she's just such a normal person that's just dealing with stuff we can all relate to, super brave to be talking about all this stuff on such a public platform.
Oh yeah, the existence of this VOD is a manifestation of the strength of Lily's soul - the fact she was willing to do this on stream gets crazier the longer I think about this! 💖
We thought Destiny was the raid boss but he was just fodder, lily is the real endgame. She’s got like 10 phases and 4 different forms, this is gonna be nuts.
Blood Wolf2609 dont even try to enter without Tier 2 BiS
@@lolmanittakesguts I'm waiting for the how-to video
Destiny abandoned his children to live the online edge lord "debate me bro" life. Complete pseudo-intellectual.
How could anyone hurt this beautiful human being? She’s such a strong woman..
The "why do intelligent people tend to get addicted to video games" part was very interesting. It makes sense, but I never really thought of it that way. (2:19:58)
Mavodeli it might have made sense.
nowadays gaming is so common, that it does not reflect what it might once have done.
considering that about 80% (pulling numbers out of my ass here, cba to look up the exact percent) of todays generation play some form of videogames, but the IQ, statistically speaking is definitely not increasing.
Well for some people it's just a way to cope with the stress of expectations.
Thank you for putting a time stamp
wtf that hit hard
468er/ PeaShooter this feels kind of self masturbatory
In 10 years there are going to be psychiatrists who were inspired by Healthygamer.
yeah, no doubt
I'm going to be psychologist but definetly inspired by Dr.K
I'm already inspired I'm going to become a psychiatrist
@@m1rac1e Thats great! Good luck man hope you achieve that ambition.
I just got into medicine this year and I wanna be a psychiatrist too!! I made up my mind a couple years ago but Dr K is definitely inspirational.
Man I cried like a baby everytime Lily started crying
Thanks, Satan
Lol
Satan Even Devil cried
I feel you Satan
Then youre not a demon after all
I'm not even 5 minutes in and I'm already crying along with Lily. She goes through so much but still puts on a smile and entertains and literally works to make us smile.
God bless this woman honestly.
Also HE CALLED OUT FED SO HARD AND DIDNT EVEN KNOW IT
Bro when he said “ I feel that alot of people who are watching on twitch feels disappointed in themselves and feel like the world is disappointed in them “ that hit me straight in the feels, he got that on point.
Holy crap... Just watching this has made me think a lot bc I really feel the same as Lily about getting lucky for getting a following.
WHOmegalul?
I'm glad you took something from this :)
@@IxtothezI1 someone who is doing their thing and got followers because of that. Kid
This honestly made me cry. As he picked apart the points that lily talked about that held underlying issues some of them hit so hard and so accurately in myself, and it really made me feel like I should also be aware of these things. I know it makes you feel a little weird Lily, but I just wanted to thank you. This kind of actually really helped me in my own thoughts.
Dr.K is literally a blessing on Twitch. I’m glad he came and did this with reckful and now seeing him helping and hearing out other streamers is amazing to see. Props to him
I've wanted to be a psychiatrist for about 6 years now and recently I've recently been doubting myself a little. Dr. K, You've inspired me again to be a good human being just like you. Thanks for being such an inspiration.
really seriously dont doubt yourself. i never saw myself as an intelligent person, yet here i am doing my second degree in health care. give yourself time and trust yourself, good luck !
@@Alesanascreamokid that's amazing! thanks so much
Are you sure you want to be a doctor?
@@jamesbrook81 I'm pretty sure I do. Why do you ask?
@@smashenchilada1101 because the road to be a doctor is really reaally hard.. I just hope that you have research well and be prepared to be a medical student. I've seen many of my friends regret to be in this path... I don'twant you to feel that way one day.. try to interact with other doctor or medical student that you know or find online communities that share the same thought as you.
1:32:27 deadass sounded like micheal
i swear to gawd i think lily thought so too
I've legit been thinking the same thing, the whole stream through
YES EXACTLY UNDERRATED COMMENT
Yea lol
I love this dude. He’s a genius and he found a way to actually help gamers instead of demonizing them...wish him the best.
1:10:52 "Every gamer is a little bit broken"
Yes. Definitely. Broken from several places, like expectations, results, and escaping reality.
yes we play games to escape life problems and reality
That hits hard
:(
Agree
What Lily proves here is that she is a genuine nice person
@@igorrotar5341 what
@@mfttfalex yeah, isn't everyone somewhere in between?
@@igorrotar5341 are you ok? lol
@@igorrotar5341 bro who hurt you?
@@igorrotar5341 You need help. Call doctor GG now.
I honestly adore her. She seems like a nice genuine person.
I hope she recovers wells.
seeing her breakdown so hard about albert rly maade me sad... and her issues with "lily2" i can relate to so hard lol... anyways drK is great i wish i could have one of those talks cuz oo boy i need that
Talk to a Therapist. Can say out of expierience that its very similar
what happened with albert? sorry, I am not regular twitch viewer.
haze. he cheated on her with a mutual friend of theirs
@@sai-bc9ug wow... I seen clips of them being together. I didn't know about this.
Wtf is lily2 pls explain
honestly watching this back now and seeing how michael treats her it makes me happy that he puts so much effort in....ofc i'm on the outside looking in and i never knew albert well at all or any of these content creators but just seeing how much pain she was in here compared to now just makes me so happy to see her happy, she deserves the happiness she's getting and i know some pain might still be there, also despite what albert did i hope he's doing ok mentally to and can maybe appreciate things more in the future.
I enjoy watching Lily streaming every now and then but wow, does it break my heart seeing her sad. She is such a beautiful person! Hang on and get better soon!!!
I've only been watching lily for a couple of weeks, so I guess I'm part of the influx of viewers that she got from the drama.. but I don't watch her *because* of the drama. I watch her because she is one of the most wholesome and kind souls that I've seen. I really enjoyed this video, thank you for all the good you do Dr. K!
I watch because I was concerned for her well-being and enjoy the updates once in a while because knowing her personality I believe it would be very difficult to deal with someone cheating on them. Once she manages to fully / partially recover I will leave not because she is boring or undeserving or anything, but simply that I can stop worrying and move on.
Not sure if that makes any sense.
I watch her because of Michael Reeves I realized he was a part of a group that I used to watch a little bit of and now Im a part of that fanbase
Lily is incredible. She deserves all the support in da world.
i honestly want to say to lily that her talking about feelings is my favourite part of her content. thats genuienely one of the only things i watch and it gives me comfort
You interviewing streamers is one of the major things that was previously missing from gaming culture. I feel like what you're doing is filling a void that needed to be filled, and my hope is you will keep doing this and expand your campain for gamers' mental health to become a staple of this culture.
Fredrik Grape Also I think as a whole it really helps the community understand the streamer and shows people that everyone has flaws
I wish I knew lily and give her so many hugs :(
:)
:)
you just wanna hug her lol
@@woddenbukkit1016 oh what a monster!
@@markrutte5637 qt amazon (6'5) gf>smol qt asian gf
1:07:05 i'm literally crying bc we all wish you could see that lily.
2:09:50
Dr. K: Did you have trouble sleeping last night?
Lily: I have trouble sleeping every night.
BREAKS MY HEART :(
I wonder if she's been sleeping better these days or if that's something that's just gonna stick with her forever
@@JesusInStripeZ o
if i have to become a full time streamer for an interview with this man...
* buys gaming chair *
then so be it
this is like a really nice dad cheering up their daughter yk when he’s like
Dr K: “ *talk for who??* “
lily: “ *flustered sputtering* “
Lily is like 10 years older than me and all I wanna do is look after her.
I like how you think, how about you look after yourself.
Pholion Agoning I’m not sure how you think cheese galore is anywhere near the level of Pontiff. Pontiff does have a shit ton of cheese moves but for the most part he has a set pattern that he follows almost exact. DSA does his move pattern 50 times then the 51st he suddenly decides he wants to throw in an extra 2 hits just for funzies. He’s a prime example of them just adding cheese to uphold the reputation of the game being hard.
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I'm doin your mom. Yes yours!
I first saw her in the Wal-Mart pickin out your drawers.
Big Dolly Parton hair like an 80s prom queen
But her ass was lookin good all up in those mom-jeans.
I approached her in the checkout line, and said yo baby wassup?
She had two gallons of milk, and I was starin at her jugs.
Five minutes later she agreed to get with me
So we went and rocked the minivan like Giggity. Giggity. Giggity.
I was ridin your mom like she was Mario Kart.
I gave her a lift back to her crib cause her car wouldn't start.
She invited me in the house, and we started makin out again.
How many times I tap that ass? OVER 9000!
Yeah. She called me Pledge cause I knocked the dust off it.
She later made me a sandwich and she cut the crust off it.
Cause she knows how I like it, and that I'm a little young
To be in the bed, butt-naked doin your mom.
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I like your mamas big butt, and I cannot lie.
You other brothers can't deny that she's fly.
We make sexy time, yes and every night I tap that.
She saw me butt-naked, now she thinks I'm half black.
But your moms the best, the super M.I.L.F.
Cause she loves to toss the salad even though she ain't a chef
And I blame it on the al-al-al-cohol
But If I were you, I wouldn't kiss your mom on the mouth at all.
She likes the Donkey-Punch. She likes the Dirty Sanchez.
Sometimes she even likes to fool around in your bed.
She likes rough sex with handcuffs and I'll be honest
She likes me to Chris Brown her when she acts like Rihanna.
She's so therapeutic. When I need to cure my restlessness
I br-br-br-br-br-br-br-br motorboat your moms breastestess.
I didn't wanna tell you, but I had to write this song
Cause I'm in your house every night doin your mo-om.
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I'm havin sex with your mother
That makes me better than you.
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That makes me better than you.
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@@RunOverHomeless same
Lily apologizing for crying and being sad literally breaks my heart bc I love her so much and she doesn’t deserve this pain😭😭🤍
Watching it for the 2nd time while eating. Ironically I think Lily is actually pretty strong, as it seems she feels things a lot deeper than most people, while still being able to push through all of what's happened to her, specially lately and she doesn't seem to realize that she is a strong person. I hope she overcomes this and that she keeps.doing well on Twitch :)
... you ate for 2 hrs 33mins and 54 seconds POG
@@p8nting Watching it for the second time, so it is 5 hrs 4 min 46 sec.
oh come on what so terrible has happened to her? someone has cheated on her? that happens to most people at some point, there is nothing special about it. Her biggest problem in life is some sort of brain chemicals disbalance, which makes her weak and unstable (not her fault, really. could be genetics, lifestyle, diet, wrong gut bacteria. she just needs the right pills until she figures out how to fix it)
@@HMakima I'm pretty sure you did your math wrong. If we go through it:
(2h 33m 54s) * 2
4h 66m 108s
4h 67m 48s
5h 7m 48s
Please, correct me if I'm the wrong one here.
Jacob SB someone woke on the wrong side of bed today ok boomer
I love that the host doesn't mind taking up the harder subjects, I see often when I or others try to comfort people that they try and fix the simple things and steer around the hard things. Very nice stream and I think you did very well
Lily sufferd so much in her life.
I wish her the best of luck cuz she deserves it
retap what happened?
GKJusticar55 her boyfriend cheated on her and she had a kinda rough child hood
I'm just 16 minutes in but I have to agree so so so much with dr. K when he says people follow Lily exactly because she's a complex human being with feelings. Sometimes watching youtubers that only share the positives of life makes me feel a disconnect & also makes me feel weird and aweful for not always having good days. The world needs more people like Lily who are so honest, so that maybe we can heal eachother a bit
He's just speedrunning making people cry lmao. Jokes aside I hope Lily will feel better, she seems really sweet.
She is the sweetest lil potato chip, so humble and genuine. Even after her ex was a trash can full of poop, she still wished the hate towards him stopped
She's too pure for this world
she believes he just made a mistake. i hope to god, if albert tries to come back with her, she would decline, deny and shove him away. thats just the rage in me speaking but in this household, we dont do two timers.
She believes that there was something in her that lacked, like all people who got cheated on would feel.
i hooe she knows that she's really ok the way she is. she doesnt need any extra changes nor any improvements. i dont wanna use the word perfect to describe her because it would seem unrealistic in a sense where we want to feel that what we are in reality is ok and thats ok? idk saying self-assuring words make me believe something more.
The more i think about it michael reeves is just lily's emotional support dog
That on occasion, is also utilized to create content for her, which she repays by allowing Michael to taze her.
jokes aside, i hope there is someone who helps her cope. if it was michael, great. all shippings and pairs aside, i hope she gets through this with his help and her friends'.
Temmie better lookout then lmao
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LMAO KINDA TRUE
1:31:50 when he starts talking about the origins of hate it's so insanely big brain wtg
Hurt leads to fear, fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering. The path of the Dark Side that is.
God, when she started crying I broke, I feel so sorry for her T-T I hope she’s doing a lot better nowadays 😭
this was really helpful personally. between the interviews with destiny and lily and their differences and similarities it was helpful seeing them work through their own personal troubles.
I'm here from the Destiny interview as well. Very different cases, very interesting how many different ways there are to be a person.
@Guiuu Shurt he also said he'd kill a puppy for 100k, very different cases lol
I know Lily just because of Destiny, but I feel so bad about her right now. I'll be cheering for you Lily!
My phone screen is slightly smashed and I fully read that as "cheating for you" and got the complete wrong message
I just rewatched the entire interview for 1:23:30 and Dr. K's ascension to a higher plane.
We all have moments like that :) Still, I laughed. Because it's relatable :D
I rewatched that bit ten times and still don't understand what happened