202. Can you “disarm” a narcissist?

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  • Can you disarm a narcissists?
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  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whether you pay for an attorney, represent yourself, or have an appointed DA, YOU are running the show

  • @jenniferconroy4517
    @jenniferconroy4517 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As always, great advice...thank you ...Best wishes for 2024...

    • @DSD
      @DSD  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much for the support Jennifer! Hope we all have a great year!

  • @jaklumen
    @jaklumen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great stream! Great slides, great host, great chat. Thank you, Duane!

    • @DSD
      @DSD  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much for the support Jak!

  • @itumblers
    @itumblers 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Awesome show as always!

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think we're expecting to get something out of the relationshit, when you realize you aren't, you automatically do whatever is needed to disarm them. You'll naturally greyrock and hopefully be able to go full no contact and block them.

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don't fluff their ego, they'll document it and then use it against you in court.

  • @DaviesMartinezBeats
    @DaviesMartinezBeats 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Surely I hold the record for attending court due to a narc... (I have attended court 94 times over in Sydney Australia)...

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In retrospect, I don't think you actually need an attorney if you're just a calm collected person. Attorneys are just paperwork clerks, they aren't really doing anything. Whatever happens in court, if you're relaxed you could just ask the judge what paperwork you need to file officially to comply with whatever is going on.

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For the SpongeBob squarepants fans, when you're dealing with a narc you're basically dealing with Plankton. Everything he pulls blows up in his face and he winds up getting squished on someone's shoe. Big deal, he's driving a tank towards the Krusty Krab, something always goes wrong for him because he's an asshole and as a result never gets the secret formula.

  • @Woozeltaker1285
    @Woozeltaker1285 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Recent decree basically spelling everything out so I never have to talk to the narc again. Well it’s Jan 2 and I get 5 messages deviating from the msa and AJ. I replied because I’m so disgusted “there is no need to ever communicate again everything is spelled out signed by the judge”. Gonna try it once but shouldn’t have replied but I’m baffled.

  • @Woozeltaker1285
    @Woozeltaker1285 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Returning video tapes…. :)

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Court, do and pay the bare minimum, and don't retaliate, let the narc pile up complaints. The courts actually see what's going on and who the problem is, especially after they establish a track record of being the asshole they are. After about 12 months of them being an asshole in court, if that long, it's totally obvious to the judge who the problem is. They want you to fight so that it confuses who the problem is. Don't go there. They'll establish a track record in short order who the problem is.

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have you done a show on grandparents rights? These old narcs love screwing around in other people's lives.

  • @keithmccaslyn2527
    @keithmccaslyn2527 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Body Cams's with Audio included, just in case. when dealing with Narcy's especially extreme Narcy's. Just like having DASH CAMS for your Truck/Vehicle...4 DASH CAMS, TO COVER YOUR ASS AN have everything recorded in case of a run in with some one. same difference. YOU have it on a little but extremely valuable SD Card, put it in the Laptop or device and there ya go. even still some Narc's will say Thats not exactly what I meant when I came off like a Un-royal A-hole, blah blah, even still you have the proof. its a dman hame one has to go to such lengths to stay in the clear and in the Light, but hey its better than years past when such devices were not as readily available. More empowerment to ya.

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you aren't taking the narc to court (you aren't the aggressor) I would think per the us constitution you can have free legal representation per the court, then use that district attorney to file the required paperwork for free. Am I missing something?

  • @cindyc
    @cindyc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤗❤️👍