Derrick Jaxn Controversy | What Are the Phases of Recovery from an Affair?
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- This video answers the questions: Can I analyze the controversy surrounding Derrick Jaxn? What are the phases of recovery from an extramarital affair? Support Dr. Grande on Patreon: / drgrande
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His wife is doing exactly what he tells other women not to do
That part! Someone else said she needs to read his book and raise her standards!
right. smh
She is also fully covered up frumpy looking smh she looks terrified.
Yep.
She seems to be in a manipulative relationship...
Dr. Grande's dry humour might be 90% of what is pulling me through this year
He be having me cracking up
"He had so much to say about cheating he couldn't even fit it in one book"
Dr. Grande just drops these world-class bangers on us without any warning, my sides hurting bad 😭
“He claims to be an expert in the cheating area” 😂
@@SummeRain783 Well, he is! 😄😄😄
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The fact that he talks about himself in the 3rd person, doesn't show much personal accountability. In the last video he used his wife as a shield, she looked uncomfy, like she wanted no part of it!
YES
Saw the video and talking in the 3rd person was a way of he not really taking responsibility of the situation.
Him referring to himself in the third person is just weird AF.
The 3rd person video was him giving his thoughts like he would in any other video. That's how he
would normally give his adivce/opinion on any other topic.
@@lenebrantley221 he actually did this twice, including in the video with his wife and again on his most recent “reaction” video 🤦🏾♀️
Dr. Grande
I’m hollering that you’re covering this story. The tea is piping hot today 😂😂😂
Lmaoooo i salad the same thing 😩😩
@@Jennie-yolan - 🥗
Yes girl!🥰
SAME. I've been talking about it in my lives to find Dr. Grande on the case too. This tea too good.
I know! I saw them covering this story on Entertainment Canada. This is wild! 😂 😂 😂
“He believes himself to be a good writer.” Damnnnn, that subtle shade was perfection.😂 Dr. Grande is SO meta.
He believes himself to be a good liar
Lol, another TH-camr called him a "distributor of t-shirts" 😂
Ikr! 🤣🤣
THE SHADE.
Like how he listed 2 things that make one a good writer and then suggested JAXN's writing had two areas of improvement. 🤭
The narcissism is strong with this one 😩 he won’t change
Facts!!
True!
The third person thing he constantly does and his recent video of him reacting to himself🤣 I can't with this man
@@Mila-Nova I just watched that video and could not believe the audacity and to still promote his book!! He is...something!
@@monicag8462 right? Him and his damn book 😂
Damn, this was shade after shade that the room is so cold right now. Hilarious.
Shade with coolness 😂
The straying camera comment is hilarious lol
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I had never heard of him before this morning. His “did I cheat in my marriage?”Video portrays him as a controlling hypocritical narcissist and he’s holding her hand way too tight . And the audacity to speak of it in the third persona was even more disgusting and demeaning for her.
I agree!!
Yeah the way he was holding her hand...
If she moved one inch to the right or left I thought he would have broken her arm.
Even in that picture Dr. Grande posted.. he’s leaning into her intensely and she’s backing away...very off.
The way you just said about the hand holding literally gave me chills. Omg. Yeah he was
Dude's wife should take his advice and maintain high standards, thus getting rid of him for good. He's a coward since he has turned off comments for his last two videos.
Financially it doesn't make sense for her to divorce him. If she files for divorce, Derrick Jaxn's brand will be tarnished and lose money;, meaning she have less to gain in the civil case. If she stays she can essentially legally extort him for any percentage of his earnings and then when Derick Jaxn eventually starts to decline she can divorce him.
@@BiigiieCheeese its not all about money. What about her sanity and self respect?
@@BiigiieCheeese Nah, man. Money is nice, but it's nothing compared to having self-respect. She really needs to DTMFA and take him for everything.
@@BiigiieCheeese I was thinking the same thing. I've been through something similar for me it was pretty rough I wasn't married though just living together
@@BiigiieCheeese she needs to leave before they have children if they already do she needs to 🏃.
When I first started watching dr. Grande a couple years ago, I never thought it would become the best roasting channel.
Some people are getting upset about Dr. Grande’s ability to roast a person. I didn’t come here to diagnose, just roast. Lmao. I
Yes you come for the analysis but you stay for those sweet sweet burns
It's really just a deadpan delivery and all the facts and musings that makes it such a good roasting and read
Right? His dry wit and wry observations are exceptional 😂👏
@@TheStar798 not to mention perfectly accurate! The list of targets so deserve it.
"He had so much to say about cheating, that he could not fit it in one book" LMAO 😂😂😂😂😂
Lol talk about expert
That’s was my favorite. 😂
Yes, yes, yes!!! LOL.
That was hilarious ... yes. LOL
🤣😆😂🤣😆
When my ex cheated on me, I tried to make if work. I was young and had two little boys. I told him he needed to make a decision - me or her. I wasn’t going to make it for him. But, I added, if you sleep with her again, I’ll assume you have made your decision. He did. It was hard being a young single mom but I managed. Almost three years later I met my husband and we have been married more than 36 years. (There were other major issues in my first marriage - the biggest being he was an alcoholic and drug abuser).
i am a grumpy old lady but I had same thing but I did not remarry. I was not a good picker you might say. I was too unselfish to find anyone who could hold his own. I needed some healthy selfishness. VIDEO PLEASE. (i.e. I was not looking for money but a job would be nice. I was not looking for a teetotaler but alcoholic was not what I wanted) MY boundaries must be too flexible. I really did not want to use someone. Overcompensated. I think we do need to address this so some other woman can remarry.
Good for you ! It is hard to be Brave.
Been there.
It isn't easy to walk away, especially with small kids, but hindsight is 20/20 and looking back I have zero regret, and am so relieved that I was smart enough to move on.
I wasn't a "good picker" in my 20s or 30s either, and as I look at what my exes are up to today, I dodged major bullets by getting out of those relationships. All of my exes have went on to multiple marriages with multiple children with different people, records of domestic violence/protection orders, in and out of court over child support, and alcohol or drug issues. They got worse after me, not better, yet when I was in those relationships, they all gaslighted me and blamed me for the problems in the relationship. I have had no contact with any of them so I am not the source of their current problems. Clearly this is just who they are as people.
I am happy with my current life and it is free of deceit, cheating, violence and drama.
I wouldn't want to live the lives my exes live. It would make me insane.
@@crochunter35 - He eventually got clean - but was still a selfish man. He recently passed away. I haven’t been able to feel sad about it.
@@lld752 - My ex was very emotionally abusive. I was only 18 when we got together and he was in his mid 20s. I was wife #3 - that should have warned me but I was too naive to see it. On the surface he was a “charmer” and very manipulative. I’m just thankful I learned enough after him to not get involved with another man right away.
We thought James Brown was the "hardest working man in show business " but it's really Dr Grande
Right???
One of the best channels on TH-cam 🥰
♡
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Hahaha, yes he is :D
I’m not a psychologist but here’s my thoughts about men who have repeated affairs. I feel they are incapable of feeling a true bond with a partner. They see their partner and children as extensions of themself (and possibly personal possessions).
Narcissism
Exactly.
The same way derrick vivdly described himself each video
Think it's more nuanced than this. The data show that the only variable that consistently predicts cheating is whether or not the cheater is within close proximity to people he or she finds attractive. If the cheater is proactively seeking out relationships, then I would say your assertion probably fits. But if the person works in an environment where they are constantly exposed to attractive people, then there's a good chance external factors are the driving force behind the cheating. Even more so if alcohol use is a pervasive part of the environment.
@@boston1977boston - yeah but a lot of people can control themselves even when they are surrounded by people they find very attractive. 🤷🏼♀️ I think it does have to do with “opportunity”, sure, but it’s also a question of how fulfilled a person feels and how much repeated external validation they need for their ego. In other words, someone who has repeated affairs is someone who constantly needs to feel validated by having a new person’s attention & affection. It’s quite sad, really.
Thank you for listening to my request! ✨🙏🏽✨
Mine too! I didn’t think he’d do it!
Thanks for requesting! My first thought was “what would dr.grande call this behavior?” Lol
@@monicag8462 Right! 🙏🏽👏🏽✨
I didn't see this coming!!!!!
@@keelhe893 I was thinking the same thing yesterday after I seen his apology video.. 😂😂
“The 6 people most likely to cheat..I know of one I guess there are 5 more to go” ~ Dr Grande
I’m weaaaaak 😭😭😂
More Grande Shade !
Sooo much shade, love Dr Grande!
It is interesting that some men think if they "tell their wife everything", they are going to be fine and all the anger and disappointment will go away.
I guess the flip is if you don't tell it creates distance and then you're damned too
@@nickvantinteren9871
I guess there is no "do or don't" advice in this case. Recovering after being betrayed is a messy business and it takes time and effort to fix it.
I have seen guys who pass by a pretty lady and show her to their wife and say
'get me one of these"
thinking it is cool or honest. But it is not, it is abusive and bad.
Unfortunately, I grew up with a father of this kind.
@@royadartube okay yes I see that's different, that sucks!
@@nickvantinteren9871
I wish one day people have the thing that it takes to finish one relationship before they throw their net back in the ocean.
I also think that when a cheater claims they have told their spouse 'everything', most times they actually haven't. I think there's a hell of a LOT they leave out. Who can forgive, when they don't know what really happened in a case like this?
Who else likes Dr Grande’s videos before even watching them, because you know you’ll love the content?
Me!🇬🇧
Me too...
Always.
I do. ☘
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This is the same kind of hypocrisy as a lot of religious preachers / pastors who go around giving sermons, speeches, and selling books all about how any sex outside marriage is sinful and an abomination and how we should all be abstinent before & outside of marriage... but then those same preachers always get caught sooner or later having an affair or being gay or whatever. *Their hypocrisy is a sign of self-hatred projected outwards*
A few things can contribute to atheism. Intelligent arguments like one might hear in a Ted Talk, adverse life events that shake your faith, but ask yourself, how many preachers create atheists by being one more hypocrite shoving a doctrine down someone's throat? It's always judgemental, never loving. It elicits responses of fear and shame. Not love. Some are kind but most, I think harm God's reputation more than they help. They don't even have to be professionals, it could even be the lady next door.
Lol funny enough he was working on becoming a pastor. SMH
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Some of the most narcissistic people are also religious leaders. The narcissist I was with told me he wanted to become an Imam (a Muslim religious leader)! They are addicted to that sense of power, attention and control. It’s no coincidence they’re drawn to positions like CEO or president (ahem).
@@plantmama7442 I'm sorry this happened to you, but thank you for sharing your experiences. Many times, I think we aren't mad at God, but rather at His self appointed representatives.
he used his own wife as a prop.... even though she was aware of his scams the whole time, i still can’t help but to feel bad for her. He’s very spiritual but seems to be the devil himself. he did not say sorry or express his love in any video. he has no shame.
Well said
Self professing spiritual people.
Run!
How is he spiritual?
"very spiritual but seems to be the devil..." Yep. That means he knows how to fool people. It's called being a LIAR.
@@Mama_Bear524 He's a Jesus cheater. Basically he pretends to be some holy man and God has now "saved" him
It's crazy how in-touch you are with what's going on in my feed. I'm so impressed.
I know right??!!
Nailed it
to be fair the youtube algo propped him all the way up , so much so that caucasians noticed. he was buried in the youtube niche and clearly youtube noticed his work could create talk
Multiverse
@@PHlophe True Just like DeAngelo Wallace and Kelly Stamps
Wow the snake oil salesmen finally caught in his lies. An eduction in narcissism is on full display with this one
Ray Charles could see that this man was a fraud. Women are always looking for the wrong thing, and that’s why they got duped. I heard him once, and never watched him again.
Definitely
People need to start asking themselves, “Will I need to make an apology video for this thing I’m about to do?” If the answer is “Yes,” don’t do that thing.
Lol! 😂
LMFAOOO😹
"Wandering, or straying" - ooohhh, Dr. Grande!! Just know how much your BIPOC fanbase (at least I as a Black woman who went from liking Jaxn to finding him sus long ago) feels so seen and included today. I love watching you hold everyone to consistently honorable standards. Thank you for serving all kinds of tea (including education/insight) and holding no heat back!
💙🌻
Yessss
❤ your comment
Exactly this! ❤️
IDK if you have seen his newest video were he is literally commenting on his own apology video in the 3rd person. Its nuts. He has also rebranded as a "saved" man. He knows were the money is. He has plugged his book in every video. This is all about protecting the bag.
But according to Dr. Grande he isn't a good writer🤣 what is he selling exactly his personal experiences on cheating?
He's gotta fund that mansion.
Truuuuuueee
It as always about the bag. I don't know how he duped so many people. 🤷🏽♀️
@@Mila-Nova IDK i've never read his books, but from what I understand he has actually made a small fortune between youtube, IG, speaking engagements, books, and IDK what else.
We need a part 2, Dr. Grande! I’m dying to hear your analysis of his reaction video where he refers to himself in 3rd person 🤔
I said the exact same!
Even his camera is a SWINGER 😳🤣
Hilarious, although swingers are up front and honest. He doesn't rate.
He actually did a reaction to his own apology video, where he continued to talk about himself in the 3rd person lol. He spoke like he didn't know the man who cheated but he was here to give him advice....and sell his book!!! He's a weirdo lol🤣😭😂
So WEIRD!
That was creepy
I just saw that and thought omg, what an asshole.
Narcissistic to the full degree.
Wtf? That man is soooo full of himself! 🤦🏻♀️
I’m so glad u spoke about this! Hilarious. black culture has made it to dr grande channel. I love it. 😂
I said the same thing 🤣
Black culture? Derrick is a relationship coach many women follow his message about relationships.
@@bellaapple2166 True. But his message was never geared towards other women. He created his platform for black women. He’s married to a black woman. And all his mistresses are black women. But its okay. Im sure Derrick Jaxn is more than willing to con and take money from white women too. 🤷🏿♀️😂 Nevertheless, his target audience was the black american community. God Bless.
@@brittneysperspective8433 uhm. not all of his mistresses or mother's of his children are Black. Wait for it...
Exactly what I was thinking 😭😭
It has occurred to me that we seem to have entered an era in which extreme narcissism is seen as a VIRTUE.
I love the shade. 🤣😂😆
I wish people like Derrick would stop trying to be monogamous. If he’s been cheating 10+ years then he just needs to be poly or single. Monogamy isn’t a chore for people who are actually monogamous.
THIS. Unfortunately there are so many factors that come into this:
Some people don't want to come out as poly due to social pressures (religious/other environment that rejects this). I see this a lot.
Then there's the MUCH smaller dating pool, the possibility of rejection by a (potential/existing) partner who does not want to be with an openly poly person (also ties into the social stigma). I see this a lot.
Third, perhaps he wants the freedom and excitement but doesn't want his partner to have the same. I see this a lot as well.
Fact...no superhuman power needed if that's what you honestly desire
Single is better. Few attractive women willingly go for poly guys.
Except for I bet he wouldn’t know how to do poly ethically
Love this.
Oh not Dr. Grande in the TH-cam streets!!!!!!!!!!!! Take this goat Sir!!!!! 🐐
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Sigmund Freud already taught that there sometimes is so called "reaction formation" ("Reaktionsbildung" in Austrian) at work, when people seem overly involved in condemning a certain action. I personally had an experience with a person who always strictly condemned any inhumanity in others and seem to have the highest ideals. I later found out that this person interpersonally was exceptionally cruel and pitiless... Thank you for your work, doctor.🙂
Ok thank you for this i hadn’t heard of reaction formation
Indeed Mrs. Reluctant. This could also be interpreted as 'Doth who protest too much syndrome' or rejecting their shadow self. I'm quite certain that other variations of the same phenomenon can be found in other expressions, idioms or theories...
I was faithful to my husband of 25 years. He was constantly accusing me! Guess what? Yup, he was the raging cheater...
@@miapdx503 cheaters do really tell on themselves
Here's the problem: so many women looking for a good man BUT there's only one Dr. Grande. The Universe plays cruel jokes on us all.
‘In addition, he threw in a bonus lesson on hypocrisy’ - Dr. Grande. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Dr. Grande shade is the only shade!!!!!! I lost it when he went in calmly on the pt1 and pt2 of those cheating books!!! Y'all!!!! We tried to tell you ladies about this guy years ago and were told we were bitter and haters!!!!
I don't trust anyone who constantly admires themselves in the camera like he does. Straight carbonation vibes.
Lol... not Carbonation smh!
@@seekerofpeace1907 yes! Lmao!!!!
I still don't understand how he has a large following. His voice makes me overdose on cringe
"The 6 People Most Likely to Cheat... Well I know of one, so I guess there are 5 more to go"...😂 "I guess one could say it's wandering or straying" 😂
💀💀💀💀
He had me cracking up on that one😆
"...so he has a couple of areas to work on," YOU ARE SAVAGE OMFG
I can't believe Dr Grande is covering this entanglement. I'm loving it.
Wooow, can you imagine how much work and knowledge puts Dr. Grande into his videos? My respect, sir! You are the Best! XX
This story reminded of a famous quote by Friederich Nietzsche- “...if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze right back into you.”
Excellent analysis Dr. Grande, thank you!❤️
I unfollowed him.. I’m disgusted by his actions.
Same 😷
He has a Nice body hes3 always advertising so he will get the women and some gays.
You are still a fool.
Nothing gonna change.
People have been saying that dude only tells people that they wanna hear. This just proved that point.
@@raymeester7883 No it won’t because some people just aren’t Loyal and don’t have it in them period.
Omg!!!! I would never think that u would comment about Derrick Jackson, Dr. Grande ! Im stockedddd to seee the video lol!
Dr. Grande seriously... You just interrupted me.. I had to click to hear your perspective. Thank You
Never thought I'd see this, lol
I know right! Never thought these two sections of TH-cam would collide!
Lol me neither. I didn't even know he supposedly cheated. I stopped watching his videos a long time ago.
Glad I am not the only one. Lol
As soon as I saw this I said “not Dr. Grande keeping up with the Black Twitter tea, go head now!” 😂
@@brandidewberry 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is easily my favourite channel on TH-cam now. Thank you for being so damn informative and entertaining Dr Grande!
“He had so much to say about cheating he couldn’t even fit it in one book” DR. GRANDE 💀😂🤣
Doc is so shady.
@@susiebrown6646 Man really just has zero chill lol
@@brandidewberry - 😂😂😂
Ooh the burn about his writing. Like a pop-up tent in a desert, Dr. Grande serves *such* dry shade. Thank you sir.
Way too narcissistic and also him speaking in the third person seems to distance himself from responsibility.
I actually followed him a lot after a breakup. I thought he was pretty good. All the while, he’s telling on himself and telling women to stay away from men like him.
Same here
Oh wow I didn't think these two sides of TH-cam would collide lol
@1:07 ".... so he has a couple of areas he can work on there". ROFL
I started off watching Dr Grande's videos to learn things about mental health topics, but now I think I watch mostly for the biting sarcasm. :)
lol 😂
When you said about his apology “ I actually think he did a good job he claimed he was not a victim, he took accountability , claimed he wasn’t hiding anything” - I was shocked, that is faux apology delivered by a narcissist who is aware of what he needs to say for his image management ,he does not mean a word of it .
YES.
Honestly whenever I see celebrity drama going on I wait until the dr grande video to get the real scoop
Cheating is the worst.... many women choose to stay because life without thier significant other is unfamiliar.... I would never!!! My mental health is way too important!!😐😐
Well said.
Completely agree. It's worse when children are involved.
“...and a bonus lesson in hypocrisy” 😂💕 dr. G you are savage
This reminds me of Dr. Laura Schlessinger. She harped so hard on how to be the perfect wife and how divorce is only acceptable in situations of serious abuse, and then you find out she was divorced and had never had a healthy relationship. She also told people not to adopt children, that if your man leaves you it's because you just didnt try hard enough or weren't pretty enough, etc. Not exactly the same but definitely similar in the hypocrisy and preaching unrealistic standards aspects. I think Derrick's advice was pretty good, if only he would follow it, and also allow women to forgive their partners.
On that note, please analyze Dr. Laura Schlessinger! (Not her youtube but her famous radio show)
True. I was done with her when she said that breastfeeding is gross. That was the end for me.
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody; only speculating what could be happening in a Teal Button-down shirt like this.
I knew when I first saw Derrick Jaxn’s TH-cam videos that it was too good to be true.
Same
You're quick Dr. Grande!
The calm, but very intentional way you throw shade is unmatched!
"'The six people most likely to cheat.' I know of one, so I guess there are five more to go." Dr. Grande, I nearly spit out my noodles. 😂😂 The shade!
DR GRANDE... 😀😀😀😀😀😀 you are really good. I was waiting for you to speak on this. I might repost this on my other channel. Thx.
Most FEMALES do not understand cheating... ONLY A MARRIED MAN OR MARRIED WOMAN COULD CHEAT/ commit adultery.. All of the other stuff is just FORNICATION/ SEXUAL ENDEAVORS..
Yes! I knew you would cover this.
Dr Grande even linked the movement of Derrick Jaxn's camera to his behaviour! 😩🤦🏾♀️
Dr.Grande I would like to say that the fact that you have so many people watching your channel has given me some faith in humanity again. I feel that it’s a very good sign when people are happy to see a logical,intelligent and thoughtful professional analyze a range of interesting topics.Thank you for all your hard work.
“I guess you could say it’s wandering, or straying” 😂😂😂 damn
It came out that he was still currently having many affairs. He’s full of crap. My heart goes out to the wife and their children.
You got your finger on the pulse bro keep it up!
He is in them TH-cam streets...Lol!
I am soooo glad you’re reviewing this video!!! I was just floored when I saw it.
I waited all day for you Dr Grande, and here you are at last 🇬🇧
"I know of one so I guess there's 5 more to go."
Love how you are able to stay these burns in a very calm manner.
Thank you for doing this one I have watching vids on this for the past few days.... but I got so excited when this notification popped up 👍
Dr. Grande💫, Thank you for such a calm, beautiful, fresh, unbiased , thorough, clear viewpoint~as per usual 🤗
Dr. Grande “randomly” lists a few video titles by Derrick Jaxn...The shade is real 🤣
Right!😹. When he said the first title "Signs that he's a narcissist" I knew he was being shady ash lmfaooo
Noooooooo, not the breakfast club and now Dr. Grande 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 It’s Derrick Action Packing Jaxn! 🤣
You watch Tasha K. Lol
I'm pleasantly shocked you are covering this story doc!😉
I'm just finished with laughter picturing Dr. Grande watching Tasha K for his research on this matter.😂💀
Omgg yess lol hot mess. Poor dr. Grande lol
24 seconds after the notification and already 11 likes!? Damn. Nice work, again DR. G
Thank you for listening to the requests!!
His in car because his either on his way to cheat or coming back from cheating.
LOL! I was thinking the same thing.
Omg 😂. Probably
💯foso 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I just thought he was homeless. Living in his car. 🤔
Dr. Grande you are my favorite! Thanks for being on top of this one.
Dr Grande, my husband and I live for your videos! Love the plants continuous rearrangement and their variety.
Your wit and the way you subtly cast aspersions without being nasty is cheeky and delightful. Thank you so much for your videos. 💜
Never heard of him, I love this analysis. Also nice shirt my favorite color.🤗
He seems a bit of a narcissist. Who made him an “expert”? :/
He labelled himself🤣💀
@@fulaniyyah Nope the people that started following him on social media. A lot of women listen to him because he is considered good looking. Hopefully this will teach people to stop being consumed by how someone look, and go to God for relationship advice, and whatever else you need.
@@ladennayoung2939 hmm they never called him "self love ambassador" or love guru. They just gave him the attention and appreciation he needed from them and then he labelled himself to receive more credibility. But i agree with you on the last part!
That word (narcissist) gets used way too much.
I legit have watched people tell Dr. Grande that he completely got HIS professional opinion wrong when speaking about Meghan Markle for not saying anything about her being a “narcissist.”
Let that marinate for a second. Someone, probably with a high school diploma is telling someone with a doctorate, whom they come to watch and learn from, that they are wrong because the higher educated one didn’t share the lesser educated one’s views.
The audacity...
@Roa Actually... it does. “He seems a bit of a narcissist. Who made him an expert?” He seems like a narcissist because of one title? Again... used too much.
I needed a few days to summon up the courage to watch this. I wanted to thank you for accurately addressing the extent of the damage caused by affairs. I feel like there’s an attitude that affairs are to be expected and perhaps accommodated but we need to accept that choosing to have an affair does massive damage that cannot be undone.
Glad to see you covering this👍🏾
Come through Dr. Grande 💕
I was hoping you would do a video on this ..
Wow, I’m off work today and I have my wine 🍷 but 1st let me hit the LIKE button 💯
I was just about to request you cover This story! Thank you!
Yesss I’m so glad you did a video on this!!!
Dr. G helps me get up-to-date on controversies I missed regarding people I Haven’t heard of. The best part is that to me, it’s the same thing as speculating on a situation like this.
Anyone who refers to themselves in the 3rd person unironically is a clown in my book. The fact that he spells Jackson “Jaxn “ is icing on the summers eve flavored cake.
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This comment right here
Totally agree.
This comment though!!! Lol for real!
More attention-seeking behaviour fr a narcissist. He appears thorougly disingenuous to even a cursory exam of facts. I would assume most of his behaviours and mannerisms are borrowed merely for effect. Some might describe this as "putting on airs."
Dang, this story even got to Dr. Grande.
You and Dr Ramani are the best. So glad i came across your page early last year. Never thought you’d cover this, bravo Sir
This is the classiest dismantling of someone I've seen in a long time. Very well done Dr Grande
Dr.Grande, you are the GOAT.
This Jaxn guy even had me fooled. I was recommending him to people and watching all of his videos. I'm curious to know if you would consider him a narcissist. Having followed him for years, now, I'd say he is (not diagnosing, only speculating...)😆
He is a narcist, men have been telling this for long time, but he 'was special' to many women.
“you have to be both a good writer, and have a clear message ...so those are areas he can work on” 😂
Yay, Dr. Grande! I wanted to see you cover this! 👍
Thank you for your consistent and high quality content