Even after writing all their directions down and they agree it's accurate, they still will attack and say you did things wrong. Unbelievable how many employers I have had that did that. I still keep written paper trail to cover my self.
It’s very important for us to DOCUMENT everything. I also recommend screenshotting every conversation you’ve had over text and printing out email exchanges. This will nail them and expose them if they try to lie about or make up anything. If you catch any online profiles of suspicious behavior like cheating, snap photos.
By me having a temper that has improved over the years, still being sensitive when comes to things that weird will say ,I know what your as far as getting rise out of us so many of us are not built that way, and when they encounter other fokes, that are not as understanding, there mouth can get in a jackpot in so many different levels, they will not like the outcome!
When I was dating my NEX. I actually had a boundary with him that I turned my phone off at 11 every night. This made him so incredibly angry. It always came up in fights. That I turned my phone off so he couldn't contact me. Honestly the constant contact drove me bonkers and I needed a break from him for at least 8 hours. Even when we broke up he made mention that I turned my phone off at night🙄🤣
My husband had to do this with a boss that wouldn’t stop calling us before and after work hours, often for frivolous things. It was never once an emergency. We finally cut ties the other day and I could not be more happy and relieved as I did contract work for him on occasion and had to deal with interactions with this unhealthy person too.
The calling out part yeah I did this waste of time.... Here I am almost 4 years narc free still processing/ healing you literally never get over it but you do heal from it ✨️ ❤️
Hey Jess-Thanks for touching on the workplace Narc,but there is just no way i can compliment the Narc i deal with-it's all too fresh in my mind-But i have used some of your other advice with very good results
35 years ago I married a BIPOLAR COVERT NARCISSIST. After making 4 boys with her I decided to accept my responsibility and stay and raise them. I survived the narcissist with one simple rule--SPEAK WHEN SPOKEN TO. Immediately over 90% of the fights just stopped. And just for fun I would poke a stick in the hornets nest and just start talking about some random subject. BAM!! She would go crazy and I would just ignore her and go up to my bedroom and go to bed. I have many more strategies I have used but this the most important one. She will be moving out in early 2024. Bye bye. Don't let the screen door slap you in the ass as you leave.
When dating my wife she would act and talk like a little girl,she is 59 ,later she said that it was my fault that it was gone in about 3-4 months,we were married only 9 months,then she wanted a divorce,October 24 it will be final, went thru Hell ,She is text book
Did my ex as well. Eventually I found out he made it up. Can't express enough how angry I was. Not your responsibility. Give your middle finger and start loving yourself more. That's always the lesson ❤
I was married to my first wife 34 1/2 years she passed from cancer ,second wife married 8 1/2 years she passed during brain surgery,I never had even heard of red flags,walls ,data gathering ,What is this world coming to
I learned that sometimes the best response is no response.
For me, no contact is the ultimate shut down! Block and delete as well!
Even after writing all their directions down and they agree it's accurate, they still will attack and say you did things wrong. Unbelievable how many employers I have had that did that. I still keep written paper trail to cover my self.
I'm glad I'm not on the job with them,knock on wood!!
It’s very important for us to DOCUMENT everything. I also recommend screenshotting every conversation you’ve had over text and printing out email exchanges. This will nail them and expose them if they try to lie about or make up anything. If you catch any online profiles of suspicious behavior like cheating, snap photos.
It's hard work. Buts it's worth it. It's like doing your homework
This should be for one reason most importantly, for your sanity so you don't get gaslit
Thanks!
By me having a temper that has improved over the years, still being sensitive when comes to things that weird will say ,I know what your as far as getting rise out of us so many of us are not built that way, and when they encounter other fokes, that are not as understanding, there mouth can get in a jackpot in so many different levels, they will not like the outcome!
Thanks 🙏
When I was dating my NEX. I actually had a boundary with him that I turned my phone off at 11 every night. This made him so incredibly angry. It always came up in fights. That I turned my phone off so he couldn't contact me. Honestly the constant contact drove me bonkers and I needed a break from him for at least 8 hours. Even when we broke up he made mention that I turned my phone off at night🙄🤣
My husband had to do this with a boss that wouldn’t stop calling us before and after work hours, often for frivolous things. It was never once an emergency. We finally cut ties the other day and I could not be more happy and relieved as I did contract work for him on occasion and had to deal with interactions with this unhealthy person too.
I’ve seen a ton of great techniques watching the detectives in true crime interrogations.
I wonder how many lives you've saved ?
You are awesome, and your swearing is applicable ❤
Thank you Jess...
Christian Rondow
Overbearing indeed!
That’s the Jess I love ❤️ thank you best explanation about narcissistic personality disorder
The calling out part yeah I did this waste of time.... Here I am almost 4 years narc free still processing/ healing you literally never get over it but you do heal from it ✨️ ❤️
Excellent post, Jess, thanks for sharing your wisdom, some of us need every tool there is to manage these empty vessels.
Hey Jess-Thanks for touching on the workplace Narc,but there is just no way i can compliment the Narc i deal with-it's all too fresh in my mind-But i have used some of your other advice with very good results
Jess this is the good one
Great post informative as always Jess
10:01 to 10:07
...haha, lightbulb statement! 🎯
Good to hear from you Jess thanks for the video 🦋👍
35 years ago I married a BIPOLAR COVERT NARCISSIST. After making 4 boys with her I decided to accept my responsibility and stay and raise them. I survived the narcissist with one simple rule--SPEAK WHEN SPOKEN TO. Immediately over 90% of the fights just stopped. And just for fun I would poke a stick in the hornets nest and just start talking about some random subject. BAM!! She would go crazy and I would just ignore her and go up to my bedroom and go to bed. I have many more strategies I have used but this the most important one. She will be moving out in early 2024. Bye bye. Don't let the screen door slap you in the ass as you leave.
Awesome advice 😮 Ty 👍❤
When dating my wife she would act and talk like a little girl,she is 59 ,later she said that it was my fault that it was gone in about 3-4 months,we were married only 9 months,then she wanted a divorce,October 24 it will be final, went thru Hell ,She is text book
My ex has threatened suicide and ghosted. How do you deal with that!?
Did my ex as well. Eventually I found out he made it up. Can't express enough how angry I was. Not your responsibility. Give your middle finger and start loving yourself more. That's always the lesson ❤
Ignore and block.
They’re baiting you.
It’s manipulation and it is painful.
If you very worried about that person call an ambulance for them. Do not engage or respond
I was married to my first wife 34 1/2 years she passed from cancer ,second wife married 8 1/2 years she passed during brain surgery,I never had even heard of red flags,walls ,data gathering ,What is this world coming to
My guess you had beautiful relationships with both.