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Yup! There is just so much added character..... Not that she is lacking in that respect all, don't get me wrong. I just think scars are beautiful and infuses its subject with strength.
And I love that it looks so untouched. As if she doesn’t even try to cover it with makeup. They both give off such an amazing energy and confidence but her scar and how she treats it just says so much more about her.
Because it is. Society's urge to backseat friendship and drastically minimize it's value compared to romantic relationships really needs some examining.
I don’t think it is. As deep as it can be it’ll never... how do I say this... it’ll never satisfy the innate desire for DEEP intimacy. With platonic love like this it is truly a jewel but you’ll still want to be as intimate with another person and their soul as possible.
@@aceazar2806 for me it is more than enough lol. I have never felt the need for a romantic relationship and same goes for many of my friends and people I know. Many don't want that in fact.
I don't think people hold platonic relationships as near and dear as they should. People are so obsessed with finding their romantic soulmate, and feeling as if they're alone when they're single is so sad. I honestly feel like with the right set of friends, I wouldn't ever need a "mate" - obviously, that's my goal -- marriage, kids, all that, but if it doesn't happen, I won't be feel like some failure. All people want are deep, meaningful connections. Who really cares how they get it.
That's exactly that! People always run after love and that's just not the right choice. Friendship is way more worthy interesting important and 'curing' than love. The only difference is on the sex side and I really think that the connection made in friendship can last way longer if it's an honest connection. You can talk about your lover to your friends and telling some intimate stuffs but the opposite? Never heard about it and it'd be kind of weird talking(per example) about girls stuffs to a man or men stuffs well to your girlfriend you get it maybe; it's less interesting. Since when love became the purpose of life for people? Since when it's the first thing that people look at better than real friendship or strong family's connection I wonder so...
Very well said. I've been single for 6 years after a long relationship, and it has been so easy because of my friends. I value them more than anything and know I'll have them for life. It's sad how many people even in relationships are so lonely.
yes, friednship is important. but once you start your family, it won't be the same. so yes, family is priority. yes, you can have your best friend and all but even that will get boring and eventually you'll have other priorities. they will also., hopefully
I wish the people in the comments would stop saying that “they’re in love” there’s a such thing as a friendship built on love stop trying to force it on people
Most of the top comments understood what it is and they respect them for it. I think some people are just wishful thinking because let's be honest, married people doesn't even have that strong of a connection with each other. So it's very rare to see that with friends and they didn't even try to date each other. If you get a chance at that kind of friendship? wouldn't you at least try one time? not for perverted reasons or anything like that but just to try your luck at that happy ever after. I know I would because what more could you possibly want if you have that, do you know what I mean? but anyway, I'm just saying.
Regina •F honestly!! Like me and my best friend are exactly like this! We're constantly telling each other about our thoughts and problems, holding hands/hugging/kissing, doing everything while constantly reminding each other that we love one another. Bonds like this happen when you meet the right person And I'm so lucky to have my best friend and have the friendship that we have
Yep! My best friend and I have are so close everyone thought we were lesbians growing up (been friends since 12, now 27). She is bi but she's also married to a man who she's been with for 10 years. We love each other so much, platonic soul mates is a thing. I wish every one had the chance to have a friend like that. I think I take it for granted because I've had it for so long.
Perfect analogy... rivers are soothing yet powerful, beautiful on the surface yet deep and complex 😊 This is one of the most intriguing friendships they've had on here
IIKHALAII If I told a specific friend that, she would just stop being friends with me completely... dude already seems to think I’m a lesbian anyway haha
Seeing this is crazy, because I have a friendship just like that. And I'm bi too. Those sleeping issues, this co-dependency, feeling at home with each other, family issues - all of this is so relatable its crazy. I wish you all the best, girls. Hold tight to each other, because finding your soulmate is so rare.
Sofie M same! I cone from a traditional muslin family too and my friend is Bi as well. I've had both my sister and ex tell me they think she's in live with me and I can't tell myself. Either way , we've been good friends to each other.
Did you ever feel confused or attracted to the other person? Because I have a relationship like that and I can't always tell if I'm attracted to her that way or not
"Don't you almost think that [the pain in me] is the best part about me?" I really wanna tell her that's not true, but... I get her, I actually get it. When you've exhausted yourself fighting against something that hurts you (wether it's your family, yourself, whatever) and all you have left is the humor you use to get over it, you get lost in this weird loop where you think you are your pain, and that pain is so you and your charm and what makes you who you are, that you almost feel you would be no one and probably not even a little bit interesting or funny or charming without that pain. This is a bit depressing (sorry to whoever is reading!), but I do think a lot about it and never really thought somebody could think this as well. Loved the conversation and these two. Thank you!
When Nadine said that I completely agreed with her because that's how I view it but for once in my life I suddenly think oh maybe my pain isn't what makes me me. I need to think on this for sure. Wow. I've got a lot of thinking to do. Fcuk. I'm so glad to actually now recognise that possibly my pain doesn't make me me but now I don't know who I am.
sensate-scars This comment got me shook. Literally bringing this up to my PTSD therapist tomorrow. This could be where my fear of my future and identity is coming from, cos I’ve been defined by my trauma for 8 years. Goodness thank you stranger!
I had a friend just like this. Literally just like this. I “dumped” her during a rough transitional period of my life. 6 years later I am trying to make amends, and she is open to letting me do that. But every time it hurts. Every time I see her it’s a reminder of all the times I haven’t. The way she speaks to me, like a new coworker or college acquaintance, literally breaks my heart. She is trying to let me in but I caused her so much hurt that I’m not sure she can. And I’m not sure I blame her.
Emily Clark I'm actually the dumpee in a situation that sounds very similar. Can you elaborate regarding your motivations? I'm desperately trying to heal.
D Lizzy I’m so sorry 😞 For me it was quite complex. I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about it in the years since it happened. She is from a truly perfect family, lots of extended family, tight knit immediate family. Two perfect parents who love her and her sister as much as they love each other. They had money for college and could afford to pass them each a car when they turned 16. Really, truly wonderful. They extended that love to me, as well, in many ways. My family is very small and very broken. I’ve never been too bothered by that, but it has always been a basis for who I am. Parents divorced when I was 3 and very rarely spoke. My dad only had the worst things to say about my mom. My brother and I hated each other and my dad was abusive towards him. It was pretty rough, really. My dad put on a good front, but he was, in my mind, a monster. I was also in the beginning stages of what would become a very long distance relationship with my now husband of 5 years. In my mind, she didn’t understand any of it. So, when I left my dads house at 17 and moved in with my (somewhat estranged) grandparents to finish high school, our problems began. Looking back I think it’s not that she didn’t try, it’s that she didn’t know *how* to help me. Neither did I. It was a tough time in my life. On top of that I was beginning to suspect that I would be moving abroad to be with my boyfriend (now husband - and I did move to England in 2014.) My inability to process my own life paired with my inability to see her love and care for me caused me to see the only solution as being to push her away. So I did. Hard. I was vicious. No apologies will ever be enough. But I don’t front all the blame. It was a lot for an 18 year old to handle with very little help. I did the best I could. I parted with MANY relationships during that time including my two step sisters who I haven’t seen since. One hates me for leaving and I regret that I couldn’t explain it to her better. It just is what it is. It hurts me to relive it but it’s worth it to be a part of her life again. I hope your friend can reach a point of understanding within his/herself and I hope when they do you are able to hear them. We have one life with these people, you know?
Wow, you don't know how much I admire and appreciate your honesty! I can see that you're a beautiful person. ☺ My situation was a bit reversed. I don't want to bore you with my life story... Let's just say, we're both in the latter part of our twenties and she should have handled things better (more compassionately). I don't think she'll ever feel as remorseful as you do. I don't think she has the emotional capacity. But I am touched by your sincere regret and efforts to make amends with your friend and I hope she's able to forgive you and you're able to develop an even stronger bond. You were babies after all and relationships can be so hard to navigate! Thank you so much for the insight.
And most important-Forgive yourself, your past, and they younger you. Protect your heart from there comes your life. You may not get the relationship you had 6 years ago-but still, there is a relationship now. She talks to you. Trust was broken and time will heal. Take it slow Emily. You have a beautiful heart.
This is literally my bestfriend and i we've been together for 11years and like i love her so much?? Platonic soulmate is real and im so very lucky to experience it
This was the relationship I shared with my best friend before she committed suicide. I'm really happy for these two. Finding a connection like this is pure, sacred, and rare.
"I don't think you need me as much as I need you." This was so relatable to me. My best friend was my roommate last semester and I had to take a leave for personal reasons, and our distance has made me realize how dependent I've become and how difficult it is to be without her. But, based on our conversations and the fact that I'm often the one speaking and am rarely answered, it's clear that she isn't nearly as dependent or lonely as I am now that we're apart. Friendships are beautiful but they are also often heartbreaking.
living in NYC is expensive, her bestfriend is awesome. Their friendship is something that I not only have but cherish. I love this one guys :) keep them coming.
Closet Sappho yes! like all those poems Sappho wrote about way back when! Trivia: The Island of Lesbos actually translates to The Island of Gals Being Pals in a healthy, non-dependent way.
Once me and my husband got to know another husband&wife and we had such a deep conversation and connection with them, that we were just amazed to realize, that this bond feels like love. But it was (and still is) just friendship, because yes, friendships can be sometimes so deep and great. So, good for you to have this kind of friendship!!
Fuuuuuck these two have the best dynamic and I love their friendship. Such beautiful human beings, especially their souls, so beautiful holyyyyy smokes 🔥😍
As a bi girl i dont think i'd last as long. With the way i see this, i'd definitely fall hard for someone who connects with me sooo deeply. I definitely admire their relationship. My gay heart is not as guarded though. If it happened to me in real life, at some point i would definitely run.
"Emotional intimacy is different than sexual attraction, excitement, infatuation, or even love. It refers to a level of closeness that takes time to develop. It requires comfort, communication, and authenticity. It requires feeling understood and accepted for who you are. Perhaps above all, it requires trust in order to flourish. And you can't buy emotional intimacy with regular date nights or forced conversations." -Andrea Bonior
I love this sooo fucking much. It honestly touched me in a way none of these have ever before. I am honestly so amazed by their beautiful awe-inspiring friendship. The connection these two share is unlike any I have ever seen. I hope this friendship lasts forever
Misslaeti Hmm...now that makes this whole situation a bit more complicated. Maybe there's two types of chemistry? One for intimate friendship and another for intimate relationship.
C. Morgan Free i don't want to make generalizations but to me men are more sex-oriented, and women are more emotion-driven. For instance, men watching porn while women love to watch romantic movies. Again, there are exceptions. So to me, two women (in my opinion, only Kate) treating the other like a relationship partner, without actually having sex is totally plausible. Especially if Nadine made it clear to Kate that she is straight.
Friendship has to be the highest pinnacle of human evolution, as it takes conscious effort and at its purest is blind to physical or material incompatibilities.
What a beautiful foundation of a friendship. You converse about one another to each other. As opposed to some friendships whose premise is based on talking about everyone else.
This video just made me realise how much we take for granted. Especially in our friendships. Whether they're an amazing friend and we don't tell them enough, or they're a shit friend that needs to leave our lives, we should talk about it more.
The girl on the right makes me think of myself in how I love people/loved my ex. It's actually REALLY encouraging bc I never really have seen anybody describe their love/blessing/etc for somebody like how she does which is like how I do. There ARE people who are great love-rs out there!
This makes me realize how lucky I am to have a friendship like this. We literally cried to each other the first day we started talking and we’ve been bffs ever since.
Both are co-dependent , connected and in love and love each other but on different levels (platonic, and has gone beyond this, it is controlled however, for good reasons). The girl with the emerald eyes is exotic and beautiful even with that scar. She is all the way in with the other (if the relationship changes to a romantic one). The other is there but hesitant because there is a part of her being withheld due to her religious upbringing. Would be a great relationship if they were a couple. They are intensely open, honest, supportive and are basically a good match.
Faya Tan ok. The fact of being true to who you are is definitely a delicate issue within some religious cultures and societies. I am aware, but didn't see the far reaching repercussions (death). 2018 seems a far cry from years ago when this was not mainstream, acceptable or was labelled taboo. Some so called socities have come a far way.
She's already left her parents house but even if she's into girls the Muslim society is so strict.. I think maybe I've exaggerated because my best friend is gay and he is out and we're living in middle east,, but still there's a lot of Muslims in media who's received death threats after coming out to a wide range.. it's not that easy for us
It feels so good when you are this open to your friends without feeling awkward or like you were just both saying what you really want to say to each other and I think that’s what makes this video beautiful Ps. I really love all the videos in this channel, it can helps you to grew up as a person
People flip out on them because nowadays frienships are superficially based on alcohol, partying and drama. But what these two have is what you call a truly real one, that's why everyone thinks that they're in love. They're not in love, its uniquely a true friendship amongst a sea of society's fakeness.
I relate to this relationship a lot because I know I’m not straight and that having a girl friend/best friend relationship can be platonic only, nothing more.
Two beautiful ladies who love each other so deeply. I wish I could do a interview like this with my best friends. I feel like I never really open up as much as I’d like to with the people I love.
They are really cute together, I really think that any partner would have a hell of a hard time to get into a real relationship with one of them, because they seem to close.
This is the true definition of what soul-mates without a romantic connection looks like. We all have more than one soul-mate, and these two are soul-mates. They have a beautiful, friendly, pure love. So beautiful.
they are both so beautiful in so many ways. i am happy that they have each other’s friendship, you can definitely tell they share something special. it was so nice seeing them be affectionate and loving, i think friendships should be this deeply connected and supporting. it’s always easy to assume when people are like this that it has to be romantic but i’m glad they’re just friends! it shows how much relationships can mean to us in all forms.
I see me and my best friend in their relationship. People always comment on us, 'how can we be friends, how we did work it out, what do we see in each other'. It made us stronger. At the moment, we are living in two very different countries and I miss her so much, yet when we talk nothing comes between us. Dear Simon, you are a beautiful soul world has given me as a blessing, I want best things to happen to you as you deserve it to happen. I love you, x
I remember showing this video to my best friend of 10 years because we related so much to this. we're not friends anymore and it's so painful to think that just some time ago things were so different.
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Agreed
Me before this video: "I have the greatest friends"
Me after this video: "friendship is a luxury, a treasure, that I've not yet experienced"
LuvSpiltPaint lemme cry
Lol, but same
The cackle that left my soul 🤣🤣🤣
LuvSpiltPaint Same
😂😂😂😂
“You’ve given me the home that my parents never game me." Awwwww
This is the deep shit
so sweettt🤦🏾♀️😩😩💖💖
PLATONIC SOULMATES
Taylor Sferruzza soul sisters 💕
this is so beautiful
Isn’t that really the basis of true and pure love? Passion can dissipate but friendship like this lasts forever.
♡ my sister is mine were literally yin and yang we need each other ♡
Her scar is soooo beautiful and unique 😍 I couldn’t stop looking at her
Kala Stephen isn’t it amazing? So glad someone else recognized that...
Kala Stephen she is stunning
I was thinking the same thing
Yup! There is just so much added character..... Not that she is lacking in that respect all, don't get me wrong. I just think scars are beautiful and infuses its subject with strength.
And I love that it looks so untouched. As if she doesn’t even try to cover it with makeup. They both give off such an amazing energy and confidence but her scar and how she treats it just says so much more about her.
*"I cuddle in my sleep because I am so desperately alone".*
If that isn't the most relatable quote...
Not to be dramatic, but can we get a whole separate channel based on these two soulmates😭
angel uno z YES. I NEED to know more!!!!! 😄😄😄💚💙💚💙
I'm here for that. Yeees
Yes!!
Meh
damn you must have a cold heart with no love to give
stuff like this makes me think that perhaps platonic love is more than enough.
Because it is. Society's urge to backseat friendship and drastically minimize it's value compared to romantic relationships really needs some examining.
I don’t think it is. As deep as it can be it’ll never... how do I say this... it’ll never satisfy the innate desire for DEEP intimacy. With platonic love like this it is truly a jewel but you’ll still want to be as intimate with another person and their soul as possible.
@@aceazar2806 Oh, this is a valid point. Thank you ☺️
it is
@@aceazar2806 for me it is more than enough lol. I have never felt the need for a romantic relationship and same goes for many of my friends and people I know. Many don't want that in fact.
"People are gonna think that we're fucking, Kate." Hahaha. They're so sweet and charming! What an amazing, deep friendship. LOVE ❤
I don't think people hold platonic relationships as near and dear as they should. People are so obsessed with finding their romantic soulmate, and feeling as if they're alone when they're single is so sad. I honestly feel like with the right set of friends, I wouldn't ever need a "mate" - obviously, that's my goal -- marriage, kids, all that, but if it doesn't happen, I won't be feel like some failure. All people want are deep, meaningful connections. Who really cares how they get it.
That's exactly that! People always run after love and that's just not the right choice. Friendship is way more worthy interesting important and 'curing' than love. The only difference is on the sex side and I really think that the connection made in friendship can last way longer if it's an honest connection. You can talk about your lover to your friends and telling some intimate stuffs but the opposite? Never heard about it and it'd be kind of weird talking(per example) about girls stuffs to a man or men stuffs well to your girlfriend you get it maybe; it's less interesting.
Since when love became the purpose of life for people? Since when it's the first thing that people look at better than real friendship or strong family's connection I wonder so...
Very well said. I've been single for 6 years after a long relationship, and it has been so easy because of my friends. I value them more than anything and know I'll have them for life. It's sad how many people even in relationships are so lonely.
mhm, thanks for the great teachings wise one, haven though about that
yes, friednship is important. but once you start your family, it won't be the same. so yes, family is priority. yes, you can have your best friend and all but even that will get boring and eventually you'll have other priorities. they will also., hopefully
Yes☺
I wish the people in the comments would stop saying that “they’re in love” there’s a such thing as a friendship built on love stop trying to force it on people
Regina •F this is internet, people ship, stop being dramatic.
Sincerty Patrick there’s a difference between “shipping” and stating it like it’s a fact, so no my dear, you stop being dramatic
Most of the top comments understood what it is and they respect them for it. I think some people are just wishful thinking because let's be honest, married people doesn't even have that strong of a connection with each other. So it's very rare to see that with friends and they didn't even try to date each other. If you get a chance at that kind of friendship? wouldn't you at least try one time? not for perverted reasons or anything like that but just to try your luck at that happy ever after. I know I would because what more could you possibly want if you have that, do you know what I mean? but anyway, I'm just saying.
Regina •F honestly!! Like me and my best friend are exactly like this! We're constantly telling each other about our thoughts and problems, holding hands/hugging/kissing, doing everything while constantly reminding each other that we love one another. Bonds like this happen when you meet the right person And I'm so lucky to have my best friend and have the friendship that we have
Yep! My best friend and I have are so close everyone thought we were lesbians growing up (been friends since 12, now 27). She is bi but she's also married to a man who she's been with for 10 years. We love each other so much, platonic soul mates is a thing. I wish every one had the chance to have a friend like that. I think I take it for granted because I've had it for so long.
I am in love with them. I want a relationship like that.
yes girl. Me too, me too...
Same
Me too
Mini Bn meee too
Mini Bn ditto
Kate looks like a real life version of Esmeralda from the Hunchback of Notredame, so pretty!
Wtf! I was literally thinking the exact same thing
is comparing Nadine to Jasmine too farfetched tho? I dig this mashup
The both kinda do
They have such a beautiful connection
Sayrah Glenn called friendship
God, women are so beautiful.
MILISUTHANDO BONGELA So so beautiful!! This has me going through a list of my girls and all their amazing qualities. Sisterhood is everything.
MILISUTHANDO BONGELA ii
Thank you
Aren't we!?!
This is why I’m bi lol
Its like two rivers flowing simultaneously
Ornate Muse ^ wow, that was so powerful. I feel that
Ornate Muse that is so beautifully said
Perfect descriptor.
Perfect analogy... rivers are soothing yet powerful, beautiful on the surface yet deep and complex 😊 This is one of the most intriguing friendships they've had on here
Yes - but I think the rivers keep crossing.
This makes me so depressed about every single one of my friendships now lol
Yh frienships with no sex sucks me tooo
erin robinson like fr
Me tooo. It sucks feeling like im not loved back or thaat thwy dont feel like i love them
honestly it’s so hard to find true friendship like this
erin robinson I was just thinking the same! 😣
Gurl, Nadine might not be that phisically affectionate, but she looks at her WITH SO MUCH LOVE, damn, she's lucky
I’m just admiring their vocabulary. They both seem very intelligent! Beautiful and smart
Yes, I love that!
“I wrote a poem about you”
“I love you so deeply I can’t even quantify it.”
Damn y’all. I’m blushing just watching this.
If I ever told my best friend I wrote a poem about her and it started with the girl with the emerald eyes I think she'd jump me.
IIKHALAII is she afraid of lesbians? 😂
jump you like fight you or??? 😂
No, as in jump my bones. :))
IIKHALAII that changes everything 🤗
IIKHALAII
If I told a specific friend that, she would just stop being friends with me completely... dude already seems to think I’m a lesbian anyway haha
Seeing this is crazy, because I have a friendship just like that. And I'm bi too. Those sleeping issues, this co-dependency, feeling at home with each other, family issues - all of this is so relatable its crazy.
I wish you all the best, girls. Hold tight to each other, because finding your soulmate is so rare.
Sofie M same! I cone from a traditional muslin family too and my friend is Bi as well. I've had both my sister and ex tell me they think she's in live with me and I can't tell myself. Either way , we've been good friends to each other.
Me too I got chills it scared me how relatable this relationship is.
Did you ever feel confused or attracted to the other person? Because I have a relationship like that and I can't always tell if I'm attracted to her that way or not
Same!!!!!!!!!!
Given that you have similar friendship experience, Do you think they have once crossed the friendship line or atleast thought about crossing it?
"Don't you almost think that [the pain in me] is the best part about me?" I really wanna tell her that's not true, but... I get her, I actually get it. When you've exhausted yourself fighting against something that hurts you (wether it's your family, yourself, whatever) and all you have left is the humor you use to get over it, you get lost in this weird loop where you think you are your pain, and that pain is so you and your charm and what makes you who you are, that you almost feel you would be no one and probably not even a little bit interesting or funny or charming without that pain. This is a bit depressing (sorry to whoever is reading!), but I do think a lot about it and never really thought somebody could think this as well. Loved the conversation and these two. Thank you!
Yeet ? Oh, yes! I totally got it in another sense (more dramatic and insecure, I guess?), and now I totally get it the way you put it. Thanks!
sensate-scars has always wanted
When Nadine said that I completely agreed with her because that's how I view it but for once in my life I suddenly think oh maybe my pain isn't what makes me me. I need to think on this for sure. Wow. I've got a lot of thinking to do. Fcuk. I'm so glad to actually now recognise that possibly my pain doesn't make me me but now I don't know who I am.
Indeed. I feel its are rough edges, that help us be sharp.
sensate-scars This comment got me shook. Literally bringing this up to my PTSD therapist tomorrow. This could be where my fear of my future and identity is coming from, cos I’ve been defined by my trauma for 8 years. Goodness thank you stranger!
I had a friend just like this. Literally just like this. I “dumped” her during a rough transitional period of my life. 6 years later I am trying to make amends, and she is open to letting me do that. But every time it hurts. Every time I see her it’s a reminder of all the times I haven’t. The way she speaks to me, like a new coworker or college acquaintance, literally breaks my heart. She is trying to let me in but I caused her so much hurt that I’m not sure she can. And I’m not sure I blame her.
Emily Clark I'm actually the dumpee in a situation that sounds very similar. Can you elaborate regarding your motivations? I'm desperately trying to heal.
D Lizzy I’m so sorry 😞 For me it was quite complex. I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about it in the years since it happened. She is from a truly perfect family, lots of extended family, tight knit immediate family. Two perfect parents who love her and her sister as much as they love each other. They had money for college and could afford to pass them each a car when they turned 16. Really, truly wonderful. They extended that love to me, as well, in many ways.
My family is very small and very broken. I’ve never been too bothered by that, but it has always been a basis for who I am. Parents divorced when I was 3 and very rarely spoke. My dad only had the worst things to say about my mom. My brother and I hated each other and my dad was abusive towards him. It was pretty rough, really. My dad put on a good front, but he was, in my mind, a monster.
I was also in the beginning stages of what would become a very long distance relationship with my now husband of 5 years.
In my mind, she didn’t understand any of it. So, when I left my dads house at 17 and moved in with my (somewhat estranged) grandparents to finish high school, our problems began. Looking back I think it’s not that she didn’t try, it’s that she didn’t know *how* to help me. Neither did I. It was a tough time in my life. On top of that I was beginning to suspect that I would be moving abroad to be with my boyfriend (now husband - and I did move to England in 2014.)
My inability to process my own life paired with my inability to see her love and care for me caused me to see the only solution as being to push her away. So I did. Hard. I was vicious. No apologies will ever be enough.
But I don’t front all the blame. It was a lot for an 18 year old to handle with very little help. I did the best I could. I parted with MANY relationships during that time including my two step sisters who I haven’t seen since. One hates me for leaving and I regret that I couldn’t explain it to her better.
It just is what it is. It hurts me to relive it but it’s worth it to be a part of her life again. I hope your friend can reach a point of understanding within his/herself and I hope when they do you are able to hear them. We have one life with these people, you know?
Wow, you don't know how much I admire and appreciate your honesty! I can see that you're a beautiful person. ☺
My situation was a bit reversed. I don't want to bore you with my life story...
Let's just say, we're both in the latter part of our twenties and she should have handled things better (more compassionately).
I don't think she'll ever feel as remorseful as you do. I don't think she has the emotional capacity. But I am touched by your sincere regret and efforts to make amends with your friend and I hope she's able to forgive you and you're able to develop an even stronger bond. You were babies after all and relationships can be so hard to navigate!
Thank you so much for the insight.
Emily Clark Also, I'm so sorry for your pain.
And most important-Forgive yourself, your past, and they younger you. Protect your heart from there comes your life. You may not get the relationship you had 6 years ago-but still, there is a relationship now. She talks to you. Trust was broken and time will heal. Take it slow Emily. You have a beautiful heart.
This is literally my bestfriend and i we've been together for 11years and like i love her so much?? Platonic soulmate is real and im so very lucky to experience it
Literally? But that's not you 😒
@@1NeoSoulChild Are you 3 years old
This was the relationship I shared with my best friend before she committed suicide. I'm really happy for these two. Finding a connection like this is pure, sacred, and rare.
So sorry for your loss
Damn,have you healed?
I’m so sorry
Very sorry to hear about anything like this, sending love your way ❤️
Do I even have a real friends now huh?
Alex Xolo story of my life 😂
Thats the Question 🤔😂😂😂
My everyday question 😆
This makes me feel like all my friendships are fake. They are so connected
"I don't think you need me as much as I need you." This was so relatable to me. My best friend was my roommate last semester and I had to take a leave for personal reasons, and our distance has made me realize how dependent I've become and how difficult it is to be without her. But, based on our conversations and the fact that I'm often the one speaking and am rarely answered, it's clear that she isn't nearly as dependent or lonely as I am now that we're apart. Friendships are beautiful but they are also often heartbreaking.
staringatspotlights Friends could break our hearts too
:(
Relatable sadly
They look like sisters to me
C. Morgan Free
I thought they were at first
Ikr
I thought the same thing!
i saw that too
Yes!!!
Friendships are best when you both understand each other, everything just flows!
Mo Clem totally agree
why are my eyes watering at their friendship? anyone here feels the same way, wishing they had friends like these?
The flow, the acceptance, the willingness to meet the other - to me, that's the beauty of love.
this kind of raw and unparalleled connection is what I think we've all longed for. very glad they have found it
Do they have a friendship workshop? And where do I sign up? #goals
Durell Coleman +1
Durell Coleman same lol. I’m gonna throw all my friends out and get new ones
living in NYC is expensive, her bestfriend is awesome. Their friendship is something that I not only have but cherish. I love this one guys :) keep them coming.
So.... Kate's bisexual....? Interesting... I'm about to find her Instagram and shoot my shot because damn shes so captivating.
ifeoma okafor good luck girl!
ifeoma okafor Ayye
I'm curious to know...did you score?
What happened?
Sooooo, how’d it go?
Kate is so incredible, they both are. Also Kate, marry me
Ruth Lindegren 😂😂😅
Hope she sees this 🌷👭🏼🙌🏼🔥💖
This is the cutest shit. Both girls are so gorgeous 😍
The girl with the emerald green eyes 😍
Just gals being pals!
Closet Sappho yes! like all those poems Sappho wrote about way back when! Trivia: The Island of Lesbos actually translates to The Island of Gals Being Pals in a healthy, non-dependent way.
NOTHANDO! Fancy seeing you here.
Once me and my husband got to know another husband&wife and we had such a deep conversation and connection with them, that we were just amazed to realize, that this bond feels like love. But it was (and still is) just friendship, because yes, friendships can be sometimes so deep and great. So, good for you to have this kind of friendship!!
Fuuuuuck these two have the best dynamic and I love their friendship. Such beautiful human beings, especially their souls, so beautiful holyyyyy smokes 🔥😍
They look so alike, like sisters lol.
As a bi girl i dont think i'd last as long. With the way i see this, i'd definitely fall hard for someone who connects with me sooo deeply. I definitely admire their relationship. My gay heart is not as guarded though. If it happened to me in real life, at some point i would definitely run.
You don't have a gay heart if you are not gay
How the fuck do you have a "gay heart" when you just said you're a "bi girl"?????????
aspebb well since her friend is female then she feels gay with her
Their relationship is so beautiful, and it sucks that people can’t believe that believe that platonic soulmates are a thing.
i would love if they came back on the show next year! by far my favorite pair! they have such a special relationship
this is my favourite video of all time. they both deserve the world.
Please don't ever hurt each other guys. Stay loyal to each other and stay best soul friends forever.
"Emotional intimacy is different than sexual attraction, excitement, infatuation, or even love. It refers to a level of closeness that takes time to develop. It requires comfort, communication, and authenticity. It requires feeling understood and accepted for who you are. Perhaps above all, it requires trust in order to flourish. And you can't buy emotional intimacy with regular date nights or forced conversations."
-Andrea Bonior
I love this sooo fucking much. It honestly touched me in a way none of these have ever before. I am honestly so amazed by their beautiful awe-inspiring friendship. The connection these two share is unlike any I have ever seen. I hope this friendship lasts forever
This video is exactly what I needed to see tonight. I’m so happy that this love exists in the world!
The love in the Muslim girl's eyes.. she might not say it often, but you can TELL that she really does value her best friend
BREAKING: Platonic Soulmates Make Girl Cry A Whole Bunch
I really wish sometime in life I can find me a friend like this! This makes me both happy and sad
Pragya Beniwal me too 😧
Pragya Beniwal hi!
Siss i feel u
The chemistry is there! I'm not going to deny it BUT I must remind myself that chemistry doesn't have to lead to fucking!
right!
C. Morgan Free yeah but the fact that they are not having sex does not mean there is no romantic feelings
Misslaeti Hmm...now that makes this whole situation a bit more complicated. Maybe there's two types of chemistry? One for intimate friendship and another for intimate relationship.
C. Morgan Free i don't want to make generalizations but to me men are more sex-oriented, and women are more emotion-driven. For instance, men watching porn while women love to watch romantic movies. Again, there are exceptions. So to me, two women (in my opinion, only Kate) treating the other like a relationship partner, without actually having sex is totally plausible. Especially if Nadine made it clear to Kate that she is straight.
Misslaeti yeah it makes a lot of sense. I’ve been in that exact situation and it all but killed me.
They are both stunning✨😍
Kennya Burgos
Except for those made up eyebrows on the right....other then that...HELLA STUNNING....😊🤣
she has a scar....
na g
I'm not talking about her scar tho....so don't even go there. I'm talking about the girl on the right and her left eyebrow....duh
Sprat-Lane you're lying
na g
uhm, ok!? 🤔🙄
Friendship has to be the highest pinnacle of human evolution, as it takes conscious effort and at its purest is blind to physical or material incompatibilities.
Just loved seeing how they inspire each other to be the best version of themselves. True soulmates.
Just finished watching. They are so beautiful! This is the true definition of a soulmate relationship!
This video just gave me the courage to end a stupid feud between me and my best friend that could have ended us and eventually ended me. Thank You
I hope u 2 are back to being BF
What a beautiful foundation of a friendship. You converse about one another to each other. As opposed to some friendships whose premise is based on talking about everyone else.
After watching this video I realised that many of us believe that our trauma and pain are what makes us "us". It's heartbreaking
this is really rear and pure. i don't think they'll be able to find a partner (bf/gf) better than eachother.
The scar on her eyebrow is beautiful and they're so beautiful ugh
Cried watching this. My best friend is my everything. I relate to this so much.
This video just made me realise how much we take for granted. Especially in our friendships.
Whether they're an amazing friend and we don't tell them enough, or they're a shit friend that needs to leave our lives, we should talk about it more.
The girl on the right makes me think of myself in how I love people/loved my ex. It's actually REALLY encouraging bc I never really have seen anybody describe their love/blessing/etc for somebody like how she does which is like how I do. There ARE people who are great love-rs out there!
two beautiful women in a beautiful relationship
This makes me realize how lucky I am to have a friendship like this. We literally cried to each other the first day we started talking and we’ve been bffs ever since.
Wow! These two women are incredible. To be able to communicate soooo fully and genuinely is such a credit to their humanness. Bravo!!
You guys have a different love. It's unique it's great and it's a beautiful kinda weird. You guys look like each other 🥰 BESTIES
They're soul mates. I didn't know soul mates could be just friends, but they can and it's lovely.
They're both stupidly gorgeous oh my god
Both are co-dependent , connected and in love and love each other but on different levels (platonic, and has gone beyond this, it is controlled however, for good reasons). The girl with the emerald eyes is exotic and beautiful even with that scar. She is all the way in with the other (if the relationship changes to a romantic one). The other is there but hesitant because there is a part of her being withheld due to her religious upbringing. Would be a great relationship if they were a couple. They are intensely open, honest, supportive and are basically a good match.
Patricia Smithson Nadine is a Muslim, I'm a Muslim and I can get her. We can't confess or come out because it may lead to death
Faya Tan ok. The fact of being true to who you are is definitely a delicate issue within some religious cultures and societies. I am aware, but didn't see the far reaching repercussions (death). 2018 seems a far cry from years ago when this was not mainstream, acceptable or was labelled taboo. Some so called socities have come a far way.
She's already left her parents house but even if she's into girls the Muslim society is so strict.. I think maybe I've exaggerated because my best friend is gay and he is out and we're living in middle east,, but still there's a lot of Muslims in media who's received death threats after coming out to a wide range.. it's not that easy for us
That intense and at the same time so gentle eye contact between them is killing me 😍💘 I mean even the air seems to vibrate with warmth and love ❤
It feels so good when you are this open to your friends without feeling awkward or like you were just both saying what you really want to say to each other and I think that’s what makes this video beautiful
Ps. I really love all the videos in this channel, it can helps you to grew up as a person
People flip out on them because nowadays frienships are superficially based on alcohol, partying and drama. But what these two have is what you call a truly real one, that's why everyone thinks that they're in love. They're not in love, its uniquely a true friendship amongst a sea of society's fakeness.
After watching this, I’m not even sure that I have an actual best friend 😔
You can just tell these two have beautiful souls. Love them both. Please bring them back.
I relate to this relationship a lot because I know I’m not straight and that having a girl friend/best friend relationship can be platonic only, nothing more.
Two beautiful ladies who love each other so deeply. I wish I could do a interview like this with my best friends. I feel like I never really open up as much as I’d like to with the people I love.
By far my favourite from this series so far
they’re amazing. my goal in life is to find someone who understands and loves me in this way. they’re truly best friends.
"You've given me the home my parents never gave me, do you realise that?" i shouldn't be crying but here i am ;(
This literally describes my best friend & I, this is amazing. I’m so happy that people have found their “person” even platonically
They are really cute together, I really think that any partner would have a hell of a hard time to get into a real relationship with one of them, because they seem to close.
This is the true definition of what soul-mates without a romantic connection looks like. We all have more than one soul-mate, and these two are soul-mates. They have a beautiful, friendly, pure love. So beautiful.
they are both so beautiful in so many ways. i am happy that they have each other’s friendship, you can definitely tell they share something special. it was so nice seeing them be affectionate and loving, i think friendships should be this deeply connected and supporting. it’s always easy to assume when people are like this that it has to be romantic but i’m glad they’re just friends! it shows how much relationships can mean to us in all forms.
I see me and my best friend in their relationship. People always comment on us, 'how can we be friends, how we did work it out, what do we see in each other'. It made us stronger. At the moment, we are living in two very different countries and I miss her so much, yet when we talk nothing comes between us. Dear Simon, you are a beautiful soul world has given me as a blessing, I want best things to happen to you as you deserve it to happen. I love you, x
I want a friendship like this! I think so may women are afraid of it though, because of how the outside world will perceive it
The way Nadine looks at kate.. so beautiful. Pure love.
We may have witnessed something pure.
I remember showing this video to my best friend of 10 years because we related so much to this. we're not friends anymore and it's so painful to think that just some time ago things were so different.
Need me a best friend like kate & nadine, like yesterday.
skin deep! can y’all bring them back again!!! they’re such beautiful souls!
Awesome relationship and commitment between these two ladies. Their friendship is quite lovely.
This so beautiful it made me tear up. I respect them so much for being able to be so selfless with each other and have these beautiful feelings.
Would love to see a part two with these girls! Beautiful video.
Realest and most truest friendship ever!
Also I just have to say that her scar above her eye is so cool and the way it just cuts through her eyebrows.