Lets talk.. | Why I enjoy being alone (& why you should too)

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  • @JayJayGhatt
    @JayJayGhatt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Catherine was like "no new friends" LOL! Protect your energy and stay unbothered! It's the best way to be. Stay stress free!

  • @JunkDrawerMom
    @JunkDrawerMom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really appreciate being home, and being alone. There’s nothing like vibing out with some lit candles and tea, investing in myself ♥️

  • @Kimone
    @Kimone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I like being alone too sometimes less distractions

  • @younyqworld
    @younyqworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree, I love being alone and unbothered and when you get to that space you are less stressed (no drama) but I’m a introvert so it’s easy for me.

  • @KitatheExplorer
    @KitatheExplorer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love being alone and in my own space. I feel like you need to know yourself before jumping into something major. Plus there isn’t much drama. It’s the best way to protect your peace!

  • @Milljanice
    @Milljanice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was LITERALLY just talking about this. Im very comfortable by myself and have some of the best times. I feel sorry for those who can't say the same for themselves.

  • @kylesmemoirs6091
    @kylesmemoirs6091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m a working mom but I regularly save a me-time in my weekly calendar and it’s fun! I go to the movies alone, visit museums alone, etc.

  • @GabrielleIshell
    @GabrielleIshell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a good topic to touch on! I have become comfortable with being alone and I actually prefer it. I’m an introvert and naturally, I recharge when I’m alone. I feel like Can do do much when I’m alone!

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m the exact same. Thank you for watching and I’m glad you can relate ✨

  • @adashofpash3730
    @adashofpash3730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sometimes I find myself feeling like I have to go out with someone when I want to do something. But this year I started taking myself out on movie and dinner dates and honestly I loved spending time with myself.

  • @MissExclusive4
    @MissExclusive4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve been guilty of not being alone enough and not wanting to be by myself. I think it comes from me seeing women in my family and up older and lonely. But I do agree about the solo traveling due to being tired of waiting for everyone to be ready or have money. No one wants to go on vacation with bad vibes due to bad company. I am the same way with work relationships currently.

  • @ireenmusukaofficial5088
    @ireenmusukaofficial5088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoy my personal space, its a perfect time for reflection and teaches me how to be happy on my own without relying on people

  • @TeasiaBattle
    @TeasiaBattle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this! I too enjoy being alone for various reasons including my mental health, self-care and engaging in intellectual activities.

  • @YeaThatCouple
    @YeaThatCouple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I actually love being alone, it brings so much peace to me it’s crazy 🥴

  • @QueenKaysHair
    @QueenKaysHair 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love being by myself sometimes, I enjoy the quietness

  • @ayotundeadeyefa2220
    @ayotundeadeyefa2220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spending time alone is very important for ones overall well-being.

  • @kellebaby
    @kellebaby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl me too. I am extrovert but when I finally get to my house it is the best feeling to be alone and free

  • @DoSomethingTV1
    @DoSomethingTV1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sooo many people NEED to see this!

  • @LifeWithKarisha
    @LifeWithKarisha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This makes sense. Shoot I’m married and I love being alone! Sometimes you just need to have time to yourself. You gotta watch people these days. I love how you said you pick up on a persons spirit when you meet them. Another great video sis.

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Life With Karisha thank you for watching. It’s nice hearing from someone who is married also 💯 thank you for watching sis

  • @JlaHawkins
    @JlaHawkins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    as soon as i learned to truly love myself, i love being alone so much. after a while you learn to balance but learning & loving me was the best thing that ever happened to me!

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      J'la Hawkins love this and I’m so glad to hear it 🤍

  • @sonianaz3745
    @sonianaz3745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are right. I also have the same thoughts. Its a blessing to spend time with yoursel.

  • @DebbieBlossom9
    @DebbieBlossom9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love love my space too. I’d rather be in alone than in the wrong company, and you tend to be creative while alone

  • @kroduxion
    @kroduxion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gotta do it

  • @curlswithlovenj
    @curlswithlovenj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish more people understood the value and importance of being alone and enjoying it :) im glad that you do.

  • @jassyis2fresh945
    @jassyis2fresh945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yess I agree being alone is good it gives you time to enjoy yourself.. love yourself..and learn yourself! You sound like me for sure I def keep my work and private life separate. Don’t need no work friends lol

  • @SurvivingMJSelfCare
    @SurvivingMJSelfCare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I totally agree that many times the less people around the clearer your vision and you have to be mindful the those around you talking from you instead of giving.

  • @LaRuthaBella
    @LaRuthaBella 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love to be alone sometimes but I can’t get that alone time with my kids being around me all the time.

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      LaRutha Bella as long as you try to have a moment for yourself at times it’s ok

  • @SistahPunkStudios
    @SistahPunkStudios 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this vibe exactly what 8ve been feeling, happy in solitude and working on myself makes me happier 😊

  • @priscillasekon7379
    @priscillasekon7379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you are so right! 100 % on point 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 say it louder let the people hear. it so good to fine your peace. you are right people will not admit that they hate you

  • @AprilNewlyMe
    @AprilNewlyMe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeeees I thought it was only me lol. Being alone is needed some times! We all need time to our selves to recharge & refocus our enegery!

  • @yemisi325
    @yemisi325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You look pretty here ! I love being alone and keeping to myself

  • @RockysPlayhouse
    @RockysPlayhouse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True peace is beautiful. Solitude is lovely, many things can come to you mentally when you're in a quiet space with a quiet mind.

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Niecly put and very true, thank you for watching :)

  • @HippiieLoveOfficial
    @HippiieLoveOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me Too Girl ! I Like To Stay Alone Many Times as Having Alone Time . Me and My Family Thats It and Sometimes Have Time For My Friends but I like to have my space but I Am Always Open Or Free When Someone needs to talk To someone .
    I Don’t Have Any Other Social Medias also That’s Not YT or FB . Your Right people won’t tell you If they Have a Bad Feeling Towards you Etc ! Definitely Speaking Truths Agreed We Got Learn Who We Give Our Vibes too .

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss love it ! Thank you for watching and I do fully agree

  • @nicoletteskyselasi9723
    @nicoletteskyselasi9723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this. Its so important to b alone in order to find urself n not get lost in everything and everyone around u. Great topic.❤️

  • @Mz-Adjeley
    @Mz-Adjeley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am always alone indoors and my grandma will start shouting that I should go out 😂
    You look gorgeous as always 😍

  • @ShaylaDeShae
    @ShaylaDeShae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s crazy because I have a husband and two kids. We all enjoy being a lone. We literally sit in four different parent of the house all day and few times throughout the day we may meet up in the living room or kitchen. I think we all just need our own space sometimes as humans. Especially to decompress, relax and let go of the days struggles.

  • @aleciadavis4861
    @aleciadavis4861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love to be alone, it gives me a chance to think, meditate and relax

  • @cindynolimits
    @cindynolimits 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a loner and I have no problem being alone. I actually enjoy my own company

  • @verytrustysource
    @verytrustysource 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely loved this video! Definitely think its super important to take some time for yourself. Very relaxing to just be at one with yourself

  • @Becca-blessed
    @Becca-blessed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can relate with this video 😂. In life you have to enjoy your alone time, that is when you can focus more about yourself and also work on areas in your life that you want to improve on. ❤️❤️

  • @kirlyloxs
    @kirlyloxs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loooooove being alone! Sometimes I struggle with trying to force myself to be around people because I tend to enjoy being alone a little too much🤣

  • @MealsandMiles01
    @MealsandMiles01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There are so many people who can't be alone. I think me being the only child on my mom side prepared me to be alone. I enjoy being alone. Like you said no drama. I also travel solo and I'm married.

  • @abbih52
    @abbih52 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to like being alone until I met the person that makes me so happy! Great video

  • @destinyisavibe1843
    @destinyisavibe1843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its definitely nothing wrong with wanting to be alone. If that's you thing then that's great. But if your the type that like to be surrounded by people that's cool too. I say different strokes for different folks 🙌👑

  • @acenp6565
    @acenp6565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I often keep alone especially when I'm stressed and depressed

  • @cherishingflo
    @cherishingflo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being alone is a beautiful thing

  • @brionnamerritt
    @brionnamerritt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl I love being alone too, I enjoy my own company so much more than being around people lol

  • @claraappiah5631
    @claraappiah5631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yesss I get you sis! I’m 16 and this year I’ve been able to really be by myself and focus and myself (cos of quarantine) and I’ve achieved so many things😌🙏🏾🙏🏾 and nice videoo❤️❤️

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cxbaby Xx aww thank you ♥️ I’m glad you been able to focus bc of lock down that’s defo a plus ✨ thank you for watching ♥️♥️

  • @RenVersolaGomez
    @RenVersolaGomez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just enjoy spending time alone, i enjiy my own company and it's more peaceful!

  • @LYIZA
    @LYIZA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I enjoy solitude more than anything in this world

  • @ChimereTrielle
    @ChimereTrielle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl i am an extreme introvert and i LIVE for being alone! But also i feel like i am more focused and i time with what i am doing when it’s quiet

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely agree, thank you for watching ✨

  • @MichaelaEvans
    @MichaelaEvans 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like being alone cause I can enjoy my shows to the fullest!😆😌😃

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michaela Evans lol I feel you on the shows part 😂 thank you for watching!

  • @KirbyWithLove
    @KirbyWithLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love being alone. I try to get at least an hour of alone time everyday. Sometimes I have to stay awake a little later than the rest of my family in order to get that alone time.

  • @strangefruit3737
    @strangefruit3737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yup! Once you realize how good is being alone you become addicted

  • @MyPsychLife
    @MyPsychLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mindset is everything. Reframe and think positive and positive energy will come to you.

  • @downtownon7thavenue
    @downtownon7thavenue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am the queen of solo travel. I have a good time with myself. I’m a lot like you. I keep to myself. Most of my friends I’ve had since high school. We’re 30 years in 😂. Great video as always.

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss solo travel 💯💯 keep doing you 😍

  • @TheworldofDonna
    @TheworldofDonna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love being alone. I had a friend that used to talk about her toxic relationships for years . N like you said you know what their calling for when you see their name pop up on ur phone. So I told her i had enough. N she blocked me 🤣🤣

  • @NichelleWomack
    @NichelleWomack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh yes.. some people literally can not stand being alone. You have to love self and appreciate self to love your me time. I like making new friends, but I agree, I don't go to work to make friends. It's strictly business. Who wants to contantly hear someone complain. Not me.. I love honest friends. And no one will be honest and say they hate you. Real talk.

  • @lisaaraheme
    @lisaaraheme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your sooo pretty!!😍😍 nice video hun keep it up 💕🔥

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you lovely 💛✨

    • @lisaaraheme
      @lisaaraheme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CatherineCherlene no worries hun ❤

  • @jazzyjennshighway
    @jazzyjennshighway 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sometimes you have to be your own company and there is nothing wrong with that

  • @viikase
    @viikase 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m definitely learning how to be alone in general 🥰 love your videos for sure !

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      VII Beauts thank you girl, also I was speaking about you at one point, being from Insta that does TH-cam also if you caught on 👀😋✨

    • @viikase
      @viikase 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Catherine Magomu yesssss 😂😀 now that you’ve said lool 😉🥰 we’ve spoken About this as well lool🧡 but is truee friendship with a purpose is important

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      VII Beauts 😂😅 exactlyyy, you already knoww 🤍

  • @wavuwavu5478
    @wavuwavu5478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me time is so important, when I realized it, I was able to fine me, to know me.. And I'm happy where I am, and you are very beautiful.

  •  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is why i travel alone.

  • @annscustommadejewellery6676
    @annscustommadejewellery6676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg you are so beautiful. Hey you are right your best friend is you and you know your secrets would stay secrets .friends ,good friends are hard to find when you find a good friend cherish them but there is nothing wrong with being alone.

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 🤍 I fully agree, only you know yourself. Cherish the good friends close to you 💯

  • @PriscillaSwakei
    @PriscillaSwakei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can only be really productive and peaceful if i take a timeout. Just time to be me.

  • @2930honey
    @2930honey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's where I'm at now I can be single for a long time but people look at me like I'm just miserable but I genuinely love being alone alot of times.but now that I'm older I figure I should try to atleast get a companion so when my kids are gone I won't be totally alone.

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love this, you’re right with it too. There’s no rush if you love being alone. But yes the right companion once the kids are old enough is lovely also 🤍

  • @yunarinoa6536
    @yunarinoa6536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need myself to pray and it is extraordinary solitude, because our emptiness has been filled with His love which is God. Alone in a positive sense is good.

  • @MartrycetheArtist
    @MartrycetheArtist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yesss where would go if you could pick any destination for your solo trip? 😁

  • @Stuart_BW
    @Stuart_BW 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very very true, need to be able to enjoy your own space. Less people less drama 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾♥️

  • @ElleJustLiving
    @ElleJustLiving 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love being alone... I also love people, but I have to be alone to recharge after too much. BTW... I'm an avid solo traveler.

  • @zariayong
    @zariayong 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Listened to every word. Can we be friends? That is totally me. And I feel like especially some women like to gang up and kind of treat people who don't require to always be with others a certain kind of way. Great video. Well I stay unbothered too and I made a video about that too.

  • @Freespiritreenie
    @Freespiritreenie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Babes can you get out of my head. Why are you really saying exactly what’s on my mind 🤯

  • @QueenNishia
    @QueenNishia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so enjoy being alone untill i be having the biggest convo in my room with me😂😂

  • @teeshow7782
    @teeshow7782 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cumon Akon lonleyyy. Naaa good video being alone helps you connect to your higher self. You learn more about yourself that you didn't discover. When your around groups your in the matrix

  • @powerofprayerministrysp.o.8379
    @powerofprayerministrysp.o.8379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok let go out
    So basically your introvert