I only have boundaries for myself. I can’t control how someone chooses to interact with them but i do get to decide how much I respect myself and my boundaries when they cross them. The cycle felt therapeutic, like my brain trying to explain my thoughts back to me😂
Love needs to be build, you need time to know a person just like you need time to know your self, sometimes the way we view our selves is not how people view us, life is about priorities ones you have your priorities clear then you will find balance in life.
@@naturallynam I can not give a time line, what I can tell you is to look for the qualities that you want from a men, then live day by day as we are not promise tomorrow, each day is a gift, don't based only on appearance, what matters the most is what the person carry inside, the most simple thing or actions will tell u a lot about a person.
Growth is never comfortable or desirable. I never watch videos like this, but I am researching on how to get free myself and leave America. I know you will find your way. ❤ Love and light Sis.
smalls towns and tourist towns move slow and after a while is weird cause everything revolves around tourism, for living i always reocmend to foreigners to live in a city or small city near tourist areas, so in that way you could see cool things and live in a chill place where you have all the amenities , tourist towns are cool but there are so many things you feel dont move enough besides is cheaper to live in a small city . there are two cool cities around beautiful areas . san carlos is one of them , is near la fortuna and the arenal volcano area and the other city san isidro in the south pacific near bahia ballena and many waterfalls . small cities are way better than the capital in terms of human develpment index cause is more clean and safe than the capital , they have everything you need while all the same time being near cool places , so is cheaper and its a lot more authentic. if you stay in costa rica or go to another country i recomend you do that aproach i think it might work for you ,it does for a lot of people :) good luck to you and your family :)
@@globalismoblackman who’s not taking time? How much time needs to be taken? Is a year enough? 5 years? This comment feels belittling as an almost 30 year old woman who’s been through marriage
@naturallynam Oh no, it was not my intention to offend you. My sincere apologies if it came across that way. I accidentally came across your channel due to the algorithm while searching about Costa Rica for retirees, and the headline caught my attention. Hence, i listened to your story. I apologise again it's not in my nature to belittle you or any person at all. I wish you all the best in life.
@@globalismoblackman im not taking it that personally, I just feel like the main advice from people not so young is to “take your time” which is so not helpful because even when time is taken, things can still go wrong. Even when you get to know a person, you might realize they don’t know you. Even if you feel like y’all know each other now, in a year that could change. Taking time doesn’t mean too much at the end of the day and you can never truly know how much time needs to even be taken.
All facts Goddess. I completely innerstand. 💜✨🤝🏽
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I only have boundaries for myself. I can’t control how someone chooses to interact with them but i do get to decide how much I respect myself and my boundaries when they cross them.
The cycle felt therapeutic, like my brain trying to explain my thoughts back to me😂
Yes that’s a good point! I’m glad the cycle made sense 🫶🏽
Your transparency is so beautiful!! Thank you for sharing ❤️❤️❤️ Cant wait to see what’s next!
Thank you for this 😍
Love needs to be build, you need time to know a person just like you need time to know your self, sometimes the way we view our selves is not how people view us, life is about priorities ones you have your priorities clear then you will find balance in life.
@@kailshenecunninghan6873 how much time is needed for you personally? Is a year too little?
@@naturallynam I can not give a time line, what I can tell you is to look for the qualities that you want from a men, then live day by day as we are not promise tomorrow, each day is a gift, don't based only on appearance, what matters the most is what the person carry inside, the most simple thing or actions will tell u a lot about a person.
Growth is never comfortable or desirable. I never watch videos like this, but I am researching on how to get free myself and leave America. I know you will find your way. ❤ Love and light Sis.
@@UnshakableShe beautiful words that are so true! Wishing you peace on your journey out and everything in between 💕
@@naturallynam❤
smalls towns and tourist towns move slow and after a while is weird cause everything revolves around tourism, for living i always reocmend to foreigners to live in a city or small city near tourist areas, so in that way you could see cool things and live in a chill place where you have all the amenities , tourist towns are cool but there are so many things you feel dont move enough besides is cheaper to live in a small city . there are two cool cities around beautiful areas . san carlos is one of them , is near la fortuna and the arenal volcano area and the other city san isidro in the south pacific near bahia ballena and many waterfalls . small cities are way better than the capital in terms of human develpment index cause is more clean and safe than the capital , they have everything you need while all the same time being near cool places , so is cheaper and its a lot more authentic. if you stay in costa rica or go to another country i recomend you do that aproach i think it might work for you ,it does for a lot of people :) good luck to you and your family :)
Take your time, young lady. Human beings are complex souls in a good way or a not so good way.
@@globalismoblackman who’s not taking time? How much time needs to be taken? Is a year enough? 5 years? This comment feels belittling as an almost 30 year old woman who’s been through marriage
@naturallynam Oh no, it was not my intention to offend you. My sincere apologies if it came across that way. I accidentally came across your channel due to the algorithm while searching about Costa Rica for retirees, and the headline caught my attention. Hence, i listened to your story. I apologise again it's not in my nature to belittle you or any person at all. I wish you all the best in life.
@@globalismoblackman im not taking it that personally, I just feel like the main advice from people not so young is to “take your time” which is so not helpful because even when time is taken, things can still go wrong. Even when you get to know a person, you might realize they don’t know you. Even if you feel like y’all know each other now, in a year that could change. Taking time doesn’t mean too much at the end of the day and you can never truly know how much time needs to even be taken.
Wins ya bday siSTAR💫
Im a April baby 💜
Have you any interest in Panama at all?
@@jessicacollins8412 Panama was cool! I like the Caribbean a lot but I’m loving Colombia the most so far!