i'm 20 now - here's what i've learned and how i feel so far

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  • @Julia-dj7kp
    @Julia-dj7kp 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love how we're going through the same exact thing. I'm gonna be 20 in a month and omg I related so much. Right now I'm going to art school but at the same time I'm also studying to be a kindergarten teacher but I also want to start my own business eventually ....
    While trying to be social and maintain a relationship, it does get messy sometimes but yeah, I guess no-one's got it figured out, specially at this age

    • @t.svirtualcafe
      @t.svirtualcafe  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      the hardest thing i'm finding at the moment is deciding on which of my interests need to remain as hobbies, and what can i actually turn into a career. it's really difficult planning your future when you feel you have so many pathways.
      you're juggling a lot, but i'm so proud of you! keep going - you've got this 💜

  • @beauboyy
    @beauboyy 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    i love the way you commentate and ? narrate?? idk the word but hearing you speak always feels genuine and elegant yknow! i still feel undecided in so many ways and it’s hard to navigate, sending you so much love🫶

    • @t.svirtualcafe
      @t.svirtualcafe  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@beauboyy that’s so sweet of you to say 😭 thank you so much ily

  • @Lucia4_
    @Lucia4_ 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for your openness on this chapter of your life!
    I agree with a lot of things and I will admit, it’s okay to want something but in order for it to become true you need to focus on it and set tiny goals in order to achieve it. Instead of saying ‘you want’ say ‘I will’
    🧡

    • @t.svirtualcafe
      @t.svirtualcafe  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Lucia4_ this is so so true! i think it’s important to be grateful for what you currently have, and to then tell yourself that you will achieve your goals with hard work and patience. everything takes time. just don’t give up! and definitely remember to appreciate the present at the same time.

    • @Lucia4_
      @Lucia4_ 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ I 💯agree with you! Learning to love life is the best gift and you won’t always find it in your “comfort zone”, after all it’s not comforting to do the same things on repeat. I wish you goodluck on finding your true calling and have a great day!

    • @t.svirtualcafe
      @t.svirtualcafe  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ you need to push yourself out of your comfort zone to develop and learn, which is scary, but it’s SO worth it!
      thank you so much for taking the time to leave your comments. it really means a lot to me 😚 i hope you have a great day too, hun!

  • @AuthenticallyAlexi
    @AuthenticallyAlexi 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Heavily relate on the relationships part. I noticed that every time I start craving that special somebody connection it’s because I see someone I know in a relationship that from the outside looks like a dream to be in! I guess it’s a thought process our brain has when wanting to relate to other people. Thank you for sharing this, can’t wait to watch more from you! ♥️

    • @t.svirtualcafe
      @t.svirtualcafe  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@AuthenticallyAlexi yes! this is me too. i see couples around me and i start fantasising about being a relationship myself. then, once i’m alone, i realise that i’m actually okay like this.
      i’m so glad that i was able to share something relatable for you. i’d love to see you around 💜

  • @noorssixteen
    @noorssixteen 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "I would much prefer to sit around and do *nothing* with my two childhood best friends than to go out in a big group of people who do not give a shit about me"
    Well said ma'am 👏👏

    • @t.svirtualcafe
      @t.svirtualcafe  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@noorssixteen thank you! i’ve, honestly, never felt wiser 💀 because it’s such a good point to make

  • @nunoforever
    @nunoforever 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    great video. we are always learning in life.

    • @t.svirtualcafe
      @t.svirtualcafe  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@nunoforever never stop :)

  • @ashdon2110
    @ashdon2110 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this is pretty good

    • @t.svirtualcafe
      @t.svirtualcafe  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ashdon2110 thank you!!