Women's Secondary Sex Characteristics That Men Don't Really Know About

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  • @zoe.v.m
    @zoe.v.m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3158

    People are still shocked when they hear that women are also having body hair?! Wow I mean isn't it normal?

    • @NsTheName
      @NsTheName 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I think he was talking about being shocked as a kid, but I'm unsure.

    • @blackrazor1
      @blackrazor1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      It's normal, but there is a lot of societal pressure for women to shave their body hair,. If you didn't grow up in a family with a lot of women, you might not see a lot of female body hair. Asians are often considered less hairy than other races. You don't see a lot of media stories or ads with hairy women, unless the story is specifically about a woman that doesn't shave.

    • @Solip_i
      @Solip_i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@blackrazor1 yea but you learn it at school at a young age tho so no excuses.

    • @blackrazor1
      @blackrazor1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      @@Solip_i Different cultures teach different things. This channel has done a number of videos about how insufficient sex education is in Korean schools. Look at the videos where they wax each other. Most of the comments are about how you don't see any hair. Also women don't often wear sleeveless tops in Korea. The chances of seeing female body hair are less likey there.

    • @user-ly4wt9xp4i
      @user-ly4wt9xp4i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Cause most women shave so they don’t see it so when they do it’s shocking or whatever. But I prefer to shave armpits because you won’t smell as much when you sweat

  • @gema.7132
    @gema.7132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +991

    Women grow hair everywhere that men do, let's not continue this myth that women don't grow hair in certain places. We grow hair on our arms, backs, hands, legs, toes, necks, pubes around the vulva and the butt crack and on our bellies. Women have been shamed into shaving so much that people began assuming we don't grow as much hair as men. Body hair is natural and part of growth and it comes in all colours and textures so lets love our bodies and celebrate our natural growth 😌

    • @gobacktostudyingdimwit2983
      @gobacktostudyingdimwit2983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      I'm actually shocked that men are shocked about women having body hair-- what

    • @fatimah_atiny
      @fatimah_atiny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      True....so sad when guy think it disgusting for girl have hair body...

    • @m3lodic.33
      @m3lodic.33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gobacktostudyingdimwit2983 they’re so used to women removing all of it that they don’t know how real humans look like. But who is to blame for that fact why they’re “appearing to be hairless” to these guys? Men! They’re the reason why we started to remove all our hair in the first place. I wish we can go back to the 70s with this concept.

    • @RaizanMedia
      @RaizanMedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@m3lodic.33 Real humans? Bro, someone who shaves doesn't become another being, the fuck. Be hairy, no one forces you to be shaved, but ease on the bullshit

    • @RaizanMedia
      @RaizanMedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yo big boy, women do grow hair in all those places and yada yada, but women do tend to not grow as much hair as men.

  • @traveler-C3570
    @traveler-C3570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +917

    I am SURE that some men don't know that women grow hair as a sexual characteristic too, mostly because society told us that women mustn't have any hair...
    And yeah, periods make us go through a lot of different things at once, and it comes back every month, yeay 👍

    • @Solip_i
      @Solip_i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      How ? We all learn it at school at a young age... in 2021 it’s just impossible.

    • @adrien2265
      @adrien2265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Body hair IS natural no shame !!! Why people think hairy men IS natural thing but They Say hairy girls are disgusting , why ??? All girls are hairy I mean all human ! if the girl dont want to shave it's her chose

    • @silverlane47
      @silverlane47 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I only shave my underarms sometimes when I have to wear a sleeveless or something, but I never shared hair on my hands, legs or face. Nobody thinks I am weird then I saw that in some countries girls shave their whole body all the time, I thought they are weird😅🤣. Celebrities here do, but do we must do? I dont think so. Completely our choice.

    • @magalieroulot12
      @magalieroulot12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think men do know about it but might not know it's as common for both genders like this is still taboo especially for facts like women can grow moustache/even barb sometimes dont have only hairy leg but entire body including the torso/belly and I'm not even talking about how hairy and why the "bikini area" is

    • @nandinisingh2485
      @nandinisingh2485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yaa it's funny that women shouldn't have body hair but a lot on their head
      🙃 and hair on a mans makes them manly but if women have it then they are not normal?? Wtf!! I just want to meet the person who made these illogical stereotypes

  • @ananyajindal3357
    @ananyajindal3357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +719

    The mood swings experience was so relatable

    • @noyy5357
      @noyy5357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your comments are kinda wild 👁👄👁

    • @ruthlopez8056
      @ruthlopez8056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I still have mood swings until now even if i don't have my period😂😂😂

    • @karliux9
      @karliux9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And it still is XD

  • @yvonnegrant5298
    @yvonnegrant5298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +913

    Does anyone else agree that there should also be a tradition for getting a cake when going through menopause........it could be an ice cream cake for those going through heat flashes.......😁.

    • @LaynieFingers
      @LaynieFingers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I like that idea!

    • @lucindapinnellova190
      @lucindapinnellova190 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i completely agree, also sort of unrelated but i havent and i dont know anyone who has had an ice cream cake. Might just be because we live in rural England but i dunno.

    • @shruteeroopasahoo2537
      @shruteeroopasahoo2537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well in India, we have celebration for this. It's celebrated like marriage.

    • @magalieroulot12
      @magalieroulot12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I didn't even know there were for periods and now I learn ppl do that for menopause wow mad respect

    • @everythingsfinett3903
      @everythingsfinett3903 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then you would have to get 1 cake a day

  • @sarah.s.h9980
    @sarah.s.h9980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +523

    Shout out to heeje for being honest and cool about it.l personally suffered from almost all of those as u mentioned

  • @valeriegiunca6018
    @valeriegiunca6018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I love hearing Heejee’s life experiences and stories. She’s so expressive! She’s missed when she’s not in an episode!

  • @artgirl1339
    @artgirl1339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    My mom never told me what periods were. I was shocked when it happened. I thought something was wrong with me. Even after i mentioned it because i was so scared, my dad was the one who explained it to me. All while my mom hid in the bedroom pretending to iron clothes. And yet to date she refuses to buy me tampons when she goes out. Because she says its too embarrassing. Like pads no problem but not tampons. Like wtf. I promised myself I'd never do that to my daughters ever.

    • @anadd6195
      @anadd6195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How sad! And how sad that you weren't thaught that in school nor given a ton of free tampons and pads in class 😮😞

    • @nousername4125
      @nousername4125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      same!!! I was convinced I had cancer and was dying that day 😭

  • @leowa399
    @leowa399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2282

    It would be fun to use these pain simulators on the guys to show them how period cramps hurt :D

    • @jjwsvtk9987
      @jjwsvtk9987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Apparently they feel way different than actual cramps tho so yeah

    • @navyasanthosh6331
      @navyasanthosh6331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      @A Sprocket Whoaaa, it's a common thing so that guys can sort of know what we go through & also, most of em are always excited to see!

    • @somebodytou5391
      @somebodytou5391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg yes

    • @RobertoStinkyPants
      @RobertoStinkyPants 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Or to show women what's it's like to get hit in the nuts.

    • @Ichigo-dh9rd
      @Ichigo-dh9rd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@RobertoStinkyPants but we don't have nuts-

  • @i_kpop_fan
    @i_kpop_fan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +689

    They taught us about puberty in 5th grade by dividing up boys and girls and taking us to separate classrooms. When we all got back together it was like we were all imparted some secret knowledge no one else could know. Being on your period, starting it, is NOTHING like the happy bridge to womanhood they make it seem like. It’s more like running from the Balrog with a crumbling rock bridge you have to cross, but the Balrog is your period and you are Gandalf telling the others to flee while you are sacrificed to your death. Every month, it still feels like that. EVERY. MONTH. For approximately 40 years, excluding while you are pregnant (but it comes back with vengeance like “MISSED ME?!?!”). Every month the pain, the cravings, the mood swings, the grossness (which dudes will never get because you say blood coming from your vagina and they picture either a sink tap of blood just pouring or a horror film when someone gets a limb removed just spurting everywhere. They don’t even know. The old blood, the clots, the new blood, the uterus lining that is leaving your body in Hulk-like fashion because an egg has gone unfertilized. The acne, the 💩, the horniness while not feeling like doing a damn thing about it because your body has turned against you in spectacular fashion. Cramping, nausea, backache, stomachache, headache, muscle aches, boob aches. And we elect for none of it. And we STILL get paid less than men?! We should get bonuses for showing up at all during this shit.

    • @Ichigo-dh9rd
      @Ichigo-dh9rd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      gurl I FEEL U- 😭💗

    • @abidahmedchoudhury1622
      @abidahmedchoudhury1622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Now this is something epic

    • @jellyorwhat3343
      @jellyorwhat3343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You get paid less? What are talking about? You get the same salary for the same job.

    • @nidak2615
      @nidak2615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      this is hilarious, you're so funny, truly ! I went thru the body changes hormonally! I don't have it anymore, I am free of it!

    • @silviabertozzi7996
      @silviabertozzi7996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      When I got mine my mom just replied "Welcome to hell" (obviously no cake, just a resigned face) and she was indeed true. 40 years of nightmares, to top all what you have illustrated, I had for 20 years hemorrhagic bleeding so severe that I was hospitalized in ER twice, it was a curse and now I am so glad is over. On the other extreme, my cousin had just few drops a month. I remember envying her so much. I basically was incapacitated for days, still I always showed up at work, but whenever I had to run to change to avoid staining my clothes, a colleague was following me and check I did not faint in the toilet. And the sleepless nights, because the risk was to wake up in a pool of blood...to these days I shudder thinking about it.

  • @Ray-mm8xt
    @Ray-mm8xt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    Wish I had cake for having my first period😭😭😭

    • @raquelfigueroa5539
      @raquelfigueroa5539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Same here 😩 I remember acting as if nothing happen but my mom told all of my aunts 🙄

    • @Ichigo-dh9rd
      @Ichigo-dh9rd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      In my country there's this whole ritual thing dedicated after u get ur period. Maybe bc u have transitioned into a lady(?)You are supposed to be all dressed up and u receive gifts like gold, jewelry, silver, money etc. It looks like a whole ass wedding 'celebration' LOL

    • @Thqr_Harsh
      @Thqr_Harsh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@raquelfigueroa5539 Aunties , wait that's not right .

    • @keerthigummadi
      @keerthigummadi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Ichigo-dh9rd lol same

    • @Ray-mm8xt
      @Ray-mm8xt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@Ichigo-dh9rd WTF?! 😭😭 I feel like I've totally missed an opportunity here🤣🤣

  • @nicoleandrea19
    @nicoleandrea19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    "Secondary sex characteristics" -> "makeup" I wasn't taught this in school 🤔

    • @cloudsn
      @cloudsn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I guess they mean paying attention to appearance or whatever, but makeup is not biological, it's a cultural norm. So I don't like it being included here.

    • @nicoleandrea19
      @nicoleandrea19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@cloudsn yes! That's exactly why I pointed it out because it doesn't fit with biological changes which is what the video is supposed to be about

    • @ivi_kiwi99
      @ivi_kiwi99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What I also don't understand: He said he liked the girl most when she put make up on (in indirect way) because he finds her prettier with make up rather than without (which I find sad). But he also says, that he prefers when girls start late with putting on make up.. does it make any sense? 🤔

  • @tyst.v3732
    @tyst.v3732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    She's so open and forward. That's so attractive and she's cute to top if off. I think I'm simping

  • @planetwasabi
    @planetwasabi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    so many people commenting about their interesting first period experience stories... mine was kinda like heejae's, my mom kept telling me to be prepared for it, so one day when it came, i was just like, "oh it's here... MOM I NEED A PAD" then the day continued and life went on lmfao. i wish i knew that some people have a celebration tradition so i could demand cake like heejae tho LOL

    • @lucindapinnellova190
      @lucindapinnellova190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same lmao just it was my school instead of my mum and when it came i shouted down the stairs ‘I THINK I GOT MY PERIOD’ and she just gave me a pad and shouted at me to get my pyjamas in the washing because it was my first time ever wearing them and the blood came down like a waterfall. It somehow came out but that was the first and last time. It was my primary school that prepared me, they even taught both girls and boys how to pug on a pad. i would go back there any day over my current high school because of how fun and open the lessons were. My high school has good education and a terrible student support team.

    • @frruitloop7488
      @frruitloop7488 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's exactly what happened to me as well lmfao. Except I learnt about these sort of things through primary school.

    • @Mk-sm6pj
      @Mk-sm6pj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In India (Specially from the state i am Assam) when we get our period huge celebration is done. A day is fixed when the girl dresses like a bride and people gathers to celebrate. Food is served and many rituals are done. Its fun

    • @humblebox3174
      @humblebox3174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pls the tradition following this event is something I feel awkward n think it should be optional to decide to celebrate or not based on the girl in question's own opinion, not an opinion imprinted on her by others. I don't necessarily like the tradition in my native place. I'm like shhhh!! Why do you announce it to the whole society? Ppl will start treating me differently, spclly I'd hate men to know abt it. Cuz they start imagining what not only Lord knows. That makes me feel so uncomfortable.

    • @humblebox3174
      @humblebox3174 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mk-sm6pj same in Karnataka *cringes*

  • @luchan1638
    @luchan1638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    I wish my mom would've bought me something like a cake when I got my first period 😂😂. Instead I had a serious talk about what it means to become a woman😅.

    • @angelina8276
      @angelina8276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Oh goodness . My mom told me about hygiene and hiding during period . ( how to not letting know others about my period)
      LOL 😂

    • @Ichigo-dh9rd
      @Ichigo-dh9rd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@angelina8276 gurl same 💀

    • @maliyahthecamera140
      @maliyahthecamera140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My mom didn’t even do anything just said “you’re mature enough to know” (I was nine when I got my first period)

    • @ariislvr
      @ariislvr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I cried 😬😬😬😬

    • @safanamadappat3920
      @safanamadappat3920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@maliyahthecamera140 "nine"? Oh you must have struggled a lot as a kid. How old are you now? I am now 13. It's only been three months since I had this and I don't have anything else that I hate this much.

  • @blackrazor1
    @blackrazor1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    There is something about Heejae's voice. I could listen to her all day.

    • @ron_s8439
      @ron_s8439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They sound the same like jisoo

  • @junie9642
    @junie9642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Well in my first period I cried a lot because I was disgusted. Unfortunately in my family that was taboo and considered almost classified to talk about it.

    • @teissi
      @teissi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh im so sorry for you!

    • @anadd6195
      @anadd6195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh I'm so sorry! It's as natural as eating or breathing so I will never understand people having those issues and letting girls suffer unnecessarily. :(

    • @Nothingbutdust92
      @Nothingbutdust92 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same for me in my family. I couldn't tell anyone for almost a year and still at 31 it's not something I would bring up with my mom. I sense she gets too awkward about it.

  • @iluvurmom658
    @iluvurmom658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    when did you started seeing change in your breasts?
    Rn: middle school?
    Heejae: elementary school
    me in high school still seeing no changes: ...........tf?

    • @slavka1792
      @slavka1792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Me in university, realizing I'm forever stuck with A cups: 😗✌️

    • @iluvurmom658
      @iluvurmom658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@slavka1792 i think i have the same future lol anyways its not a bad thing tho

    • @slavka1792
      @slavka1792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@iluvurmom658 Of course, it's not! I'm glad you say that. Every breast size is beautiful. If you carry yourself with confidence, you'll look amazing, it doesn't really matter "what" you carry 😄

    • @veronikatichavska
      @veronikatichavska 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Me, 23 YO I still don't see any change 😂😂 But I wouldn't change my invisible breast for bigger ones, because it's so comfortable with them 😂😂

    • @user-ly4wt9xp4i
      @user-ly4wt9xp4i 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I wish I was an A cup honestly I want small boobs. I’m literally an F cup😭😭😭😭😭

  • @nerfkillerz1
    @nerfkillerz1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Idk who to look at, Byungeun or Heejae bcuz they're both so cute!

  • @pollyesterpocket
    @pollyesterpocket 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I learned how to deal with my period and puberty through the American Girl books lol

  • @shwoopdooppoopscoop7630
    @shwoopdooppoopscoop7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I remember being so excited that I had grown armpit hair and had my first period because it meant I was a woman. But now...it’s just so much to deal with lmao.

    • @anadd6195
      @anadd6195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am still proud of my hair, but at that time I was proud for it to start growing on the vulva region because all grown women around me had them haha I still find them lovely so trimming and maintaining is enough, sometimes removing all of it or almost is fine too but it's not much my thing. I only do it for me though. (Portuguese btw, for cultural note)

    • @Veeravaara
      @Veeravaara ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anadd6195 I'm Finnish and I relate. I strongly associate my pubes with becoming a woman, I remember how proud I was at 12 for my first little hairs 😄. Now I still only feel like a woman and sexy when I have some hair there, I can never take all of it away.

  • @whoami1824
    @whoami1824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I'm not Asian so I don't know if this counts for people in Korea. But as a white Caucasian woman I will say that 1 thing about puberty that nobody remembered to mention to any of the girls ,in my school at least, was was the fact that your sent of your sweat changes. Looking back on it probably wasn't talked about because it was considered a minor issue but I remember being in like 6 grade locker room and listening to all the girls just bitch about how now they have BO when before they didn't lol

    • @Mariajbh2
      @Mariajbh2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      "White Caucasian"? That's redundant. Colloquially it is qualified by the adjective "white" to the Caucasian race. Although it is incorrect and inappropriate to classify races by color: there are no people with white, yellow or black skin.

    • @FOH3663
      @FOH3663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Mariajbh2
      I don't believe there's anything wrong using; white gal, black gal, white guy, black guy... it conveys the conversational meaning succinctly and efficiently, regardless of one's ethnicity.
      An individual is either malicious in their intent, or not.
      Utilizing certain words doesn't automatically categorize an individual as good or bad, right or wrong.
      It's worth noting, if one's respectful and has nothing but love, and they use such terminology with no I'll will ... yet an individual on the receiving end takes offense because they don't want to hear them called that... that's preference, that's on them.
      In my opinion, ... it's akin to hearing one's full name ie., Johnathon vis-à-vis John, ... "hey, it's John thank you" ...
      Moving forward, we adapt our dialog based on preferences, perceived or otherwise.
      As a FOH engineer (audio) I'm way out of my area of professional expertise.
      I've been quite fortunate in my experience.
      I lived in Europe as an exchange student, and have been traveling for several decades.
      Most importantly, I come from a fully mixed family, ... I've been immersed in both black culture and white culture, since the 70's... and over the last 25 years, Latino, Hispanic, and Asian culture has been woven into our family.
      Thoughts?

    • @anadd6195
      @anadd6195 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hah yeah! Boys' odor changes too.

    • @nousername4125
      @nousername4125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      actually body odour changing with puberty is a universal experience excluding majority of east asian. this is due to a genetic mutation hence why most countries in east asia dont sell deodorant.

  • @ixoraroxi
    @ixoraroxi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I got my first period when I was 13. My mom was very supportive 💕, in general it wasn't a big deal... My mom taught me how to make my own pads, because nothing like nowdays convenient (female hygiene) products were available in stores, especially Eastern Europe.
    My first period wasn't painful at all, more like just a smear of blood on my underwear and I'm thankful about it, because much later in my life I have, experience great deal being a woman and went through a few surgeries. In short I've to deal with a lot of pain in my 30's.
    For all girls becoming women I have to say one thing: embrace your womanhood and be brave!

    • @anadd6195
      @anadd6195 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pain needs to be addressed at the doctor, it can be something. It's not suppose to hurt too much.

  • @n0chzplz
    @n0chzplz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    In my culture, we have a whole ceremony/celebration when you get your first period (becoming a woman). It requires a lot of work. I didn't wanna do it at first lol but my mom told me I had to. I'm glad I did tho. And I did get a cake but I didn't eat it lol.

  • @ashleymills7747
    @ashleymills7747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Seeing weird comments about women having hair and all I can say is it not up to you on whether or not a woman wants to shave. That is the women's decision and you shouldn't judge women who choose to not shave. Besides, they live in korea; I'm pretty sure you barely see hair on any of their bodies because they tend to have less hair. Also, I barely remember my first period, however, I do remember yelling to my mom and crying because I didn't understand what was going on😭. Also, my period symptoms worsened as I got older. My first years, while being on my period, I only had bleeding, cramping and fatigue. Now, I have heavy bleeding, severe diarrhea, severe nausea, back aches, fatigue, changes in temperature (my body switches from being cold to hot often), I sometimes throw up, and I can't really sleep much at night when my symptoms are heavy the first 3 days.

  • @aximaysosa8885
    @aximaysosa8885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I was one of those girls who hit puberty early (almost 11 yrs old). I started shaving then but honestly I could've started much earlier because I was super hairy (still am). Kinda sucked cuz I would get bullied for it in the locker room before gym class and my mom never bought razors often enough because if she hardly grew hair and thought I was wasting them when I had to shave almost every day 😒

    • @anadd6195
      @anadd6195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sorry :(
      But really they're beautiful and there's nothing wrong with them. 💖😊

  • @bonanahh
    @bonanahh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I started my period the summer between elementary school and middle school, so I was 12 (13 korean age). I definitely started growing hair and had body changes before then, I was taller and thicker than the girls in the changing rooms and I was made fun of for wearing a training bra. They all called me fat for having to wear one, and for developing hips earlier than them. We can’t win!!!

    • @denisiamoiseanu8784
      @denisiamoiseanu8784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can relate to this... 🤗🥺 And I was also the first one who had acne. All my classmates made fun of me and told how gross I was because of that. I remember especially one boy told me to make something about that cause is disgusting to watch... (like I could’ve done something...)
      Time flies and here comes Highschool were all of them had acne but I didn’t anymore. Now they were jealous and asked me for tips, although I didn’t do anything it was just puberty & womanhood making their job...
      I’ve remembered thinking that now it’s my time to laugh... I didn’t. They were stressed enough. And I knew already how uncomfortable that could be.

    • @anadd6195
      @anadd6195 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      F*ck society standards/patriarchy and the fact that such little girls were already dealing with those and putting others on watch for them.

  • @TheZeus012345678
    @TheZeus012345678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Since when makeup is related to Women's Secondary Sex Characteristics? Do we crave mascara when we become a woman? LOL

  • @Ichigo-dh9rd
    @Ichigo-dh9rd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    0:50 WE LOVE A CONFIDENT QUEEN 👏

  • @ryu465
    @ryu465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    respect to what women have to go through.

  • @Impactframess
    @Impactframess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    the lighting on HJ is crazy pretty her skin color to lighting combo 10000000/10

  • @adrien2265
    @adrien2265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Body hair IS natural no shame !!! Why people think hairy men IS natural thing but They Say hairy girls are disgusting , why ??? All girls are hairy I mean all human ! if the girl dont want to shave it's her chose

  • @nicoleyeuchuk
    @nicoleyeuchuk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I remember getting my first period and all the family find about through my parents so they all congratule me and my dad gave me sweets and a teddy bear for becoming a woman despite i was only 10, now that i think about it, it's such a weird tradition

    • @blyatcyka8105
      @blyatcyka8105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Old tradition of public display of a "woman" hability to bare a child and so to get married. People kept the festive stuff and telling everyone. I only got the telling part -_-

  • @Mystearicia
    @Mystearicia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I remember I had my very first period at 10 y.o and I was alone at home, I panicked seeing blood on my underwear thinking i'm dying or something, called my parents who rushed home and they be like "Oh! congratulations you're now a lady" xD that was it then started wearing real bras instead of training bras hahahah

    • @khadijamansoor494
      @khadijamansoor494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Woah I am 14 and still wear training bras like some sort of short west and I had my first period when I was 11 and yeah it was scary I thought I got hurt or something down there 😂 and i was really stressed at that time and didn't told anybody until a day

  • @cjantipuesto7487
    @cjantipuesto7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Sorry but my takeaway for this vid is that..
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    Byungeun is SO HANDSOME! 🤩

  • @hyacynth
    @hyacynth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This styling makes Heejae makes her look like Twice's Sana on some angles.

  • @stellarbts4181
    @stellarbts4181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    During my first period, I was so happy to skip class that day I was like "yay I don't need to go" I didn't have much pain or anything but it seemed like a normal day mostly and I still don't. But of course, still during those days I'd rather stay in bed all day.

  • @faizinfiza835
    @faizinfiza835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The biggest Change for me was my personality. I was an extrovert, outgoing, outspoken kid. Total chatterbox but I'm total opposite now.

  • @sachii5732
    @sachii5732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Woah , agree this boy looks like Kai from exo

  • @welcome2859
    @welcome2859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    we need more men like him in the society, who are comfortable listening tp girls problems ,
    i think there are many boys who still hesitate to initiate talking abt these things

  • @hooralkindi3716
    @hooralkindi3716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When I first got my period my grandmother gave me a gold necklace and one of my aunts gave me also a gold necklace and the other gave me a new pair of shoes with a classic dress which I literally wore it for almost 4 years I just liked it so much 😂💖

  • @dks287
    @dks287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okay can we talk about how gorgeous both Byungeun and Heejae look🔥🔥

  • @alexlee-rd2gl
    @alexlee-rd2gl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love her confidence.

  • @varshikaprajapati7935
    @varshikaprajapati7935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Heejae from being cute and kido
    Rn being a mature
    *Scares* me she so pretty

  • @Annie53A5N
    @Annie53A5N 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My first period was very underwhelming lol I just noticed a couple of red drops in my underwear, I showed my mom to verify and she told me it was indeed my period and that was that. I just said ok and left XD

    • @ayshy403
      @ayshy403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its almost same for me....but by reading most comments i get to know that everyone has a very interesting story...

  • @suminashrestha6315
    @suminashrestha6315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These are the things that we all learn during grade 9 . At that time we feel little awkward studying it along with boys ..but it was so normal in high school even some boys used to give suggestions❤️❤️

  • @Zubinfangirl
    @Zubinfangirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They are both so gorgeous. I enjoy hearing their responses . They are so honest and straightforward about personal questions.

  • @munayusuf5749
    @munayusuf5749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love how she said her gloomy days was her being serious. I feel that way too

  • @RhythmAddictedState
    @RhythmAddictedState 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm one of those lucky people who doesn't get horrible cramps during her periods, but man, PMS is a pain. Apart from terrible cravings and needing to pee and poop all the time, I get REALLY depressed. That's the worst symptom for me. I start having intrusive thoughts and I can't do anything for several days because of how depressed I get.

  • @fiona6330
    @fiona6330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoy watching your videos thank you for lighting up my day ^_^

  • @Name-dw5vk
    @Name-dw5vk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her voice sounds like jisoo from blackpink

  • @ibunkie
    @ibunkie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man.. Gotta love Heejae’s natural complexion

  • @saashamenon8121
    @saashamenon8121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    the video is sooooo relatable but why isn't anyone talking about how fine byungeun looks in that black shirt OMFGGGGGG

    • @flowerdeul
      @flowerdeul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought the same! He’s so eye-catching

    • @saashamenon8121
      @saashamenon8121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@flowerdeul ikrrr omg I couldnt keep my eyes off of him

  • @hanyajiidraws8849
    @hanyajiidraws8849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I started my period when I was 8 and it sucked. I was in 4th grade so my mom didn’t send me to school. I stayed home and was in bed the whole time and my flow is really heavy so I had an accident almost everyday cause I didn’t know how to change my pad. My sibling started their period at 9 too and it was hell to deal with 😭

  • @worldwide2358
    @worldwide2358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love their skin so healthy

  • @nadiavanhattem5175
    @nadiavanhattem5175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These 2😫❤
    I really like the vids which are ab such subjects!

  • @ladydiamondprisca
    @ladydiamondprisca 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unlike Heejae I was the only girl in elementary who wore the Petit Bateau bras. My first 8-10 years of experiencing periods were the worst 😫. I was hospitalized often due to the excruciating pain. I couldn't walk for 3 days until my period was over.

  • @UKFanatic82
    @UKFanatic82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I come from a big family, I'm the baby of 9. When I started at 11 my sisters and mom were so "proud" (lol) of me. I'd always wanted kids so to cheer me up I was reminded that this is how biology makes that happen. Cries in infertility 😭 Biology is a cruel bitch.

    • @anadd6195
      @anadd6195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Infertility can be temporary sometimes so I hope that's the case. Diet changes, ac by the doctor and/or nutritionist, for instance, can help at times. If it's not the case I am so sorry but I am sure will be a great parent if you ever choose to adopt someone into your home. 🙏💗

  • @rinyhj8141
    @rinyhj8141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Out of topic , but Byeongeun hair and smile just reminds me of "OnlyOneOf's Yoojung"

  • @andreinaperez9701
    @andreinaperez9701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love them, watching them is awesome

  • @robertalanfowler4287
    @robertalanfowler4287 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you, Love and Light to you and yours always and in all ways

  • @leilapayot2979
    @leilapayot2979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    idk why but Heejae really sounds like Jisoo from Blackpink like I've watch yt vids of her too many times but I can still hear their similarities in their voices... or is it just mee🤔

  • @tejeshshinde2382
    @tejeshshinde2382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️ I'm really loving the "imnida" of Heejae in every video she is in 😍

  • @joizadominguez7663
    @joizadominguez7663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    BEST team❤️☺️💯

  • @hikaru1412
    @hikaru1412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It truly confuses me that men don’t know women have body hair. Like tf

  • @khushbuyadav8542
    @khushbuyadav8542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    puberty hit me and me sis like a truck. we went from being straight like matches to hourglasses but i was very conscious at that point . it was awkward and i didnt want to grow tities XD

    • @riayaraizel2214
      @riayaraizel2214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thought you were talking about discovering your sexuality during puberty for a moment 😂🤣

    • @khushbuyadav8542
      @khushbuyadav8542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@riayaraizel2214 lmao my bad. now that I read my comment i can see why you'd think so. nevertheless i was talking about body shape XD

    • @lailataluminousnight8064
      @lailataluminousnight8064 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol same

  • @csoniah4432
    @csoniah4432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We have body hair as well but we are expected to shave more than men.

  • @ornellablekan9187
    @ornellablekan9187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love this duo

  • @thornados4969
    @thornados4969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you two are really matched as a couple.

  • @farahbrz6897
    @farahbrz6897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I really like there dark skin , not like the kpop entertainment try to hide it or be ashame of it

    • @mleeeee
      @mleeeee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think they look so much better eithout bein whitewashed. They're naturally beautiful

    • @FuryOfCalderon
      @FuryOfCalderon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol.

    • @Ichigo-dh9rd
      @Ichigo-dh9rd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly!

  • @nayaharvey9830
    @nayaharvey9830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    People really got cake when they got their first period, I got ice cream after annoying my mom for hours.

  • @unwilling_fan
    @unwilling_fan ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a very hairy person and so, after a couple years of shaving, I gave up and now I just trim occasionally

  • @line_2411
    @line_2411 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i got my period in 5th grade as well and literally none of my other classmates had it yet and I felt so bad and uncomfortable getting all those changes in my body while everyone else could still be care-free kids TT

  • @chenjingze
    @chenjingze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Who else thought she’s sana from the thumbnail

  • @snehaln29
    @snehaln29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ok i couldn't take my eyes off Byungeun

  • @leslieann3545
    @leslieann3545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I got my first period at the age of 9 i was in 4th grade that day i wore white Capris shorts To school Y'all i was so embarrassed but i didn't panic because i knew about periods after that the nurse called my grandma and she picked me up one thing i didn't like was my grandma calling every one to tell them about it like wtf

    • @Ichigo-dh9rd
      @Ichigo-dh9rd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      9? That's so early (I got mine at 12-13) but w-white Capris shorts i- 😩😭😭

    • @leslieann3545
      @leslieann3545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Ichigo-dh9rd i know i was so embarrassed i have a twin sister she got hers the next day. Me and my sister developed supper fast we had bigger girls always asking us if we were still virgins since our body was supper developed we hated that question what even was sex at that age 😐

  • @chrisegbertky
    @chrisegbertky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love seeing HeeJae on any topic

  • @sullystxrs
    @sullystxrs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my first period was at school.... i wasnt prepared at all..

  • @amaiwatashi6253
    @amaiwatashi6253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I didn't have cramps when i am younger. As i get into my 20s, i now have slight cramps and also will felt extremely loney/lifeless and had bigger mood swing when my period is getting nearer. Guess our body changes as we get older 😅.
    Or it may be the stress from life that causes these changes??? 🤔🤔 i don't know 😂😂. Anyways, just hope that i can remain healthy.

    • @Makjaoiuewhxkjs
      @Makjaoiuewhxkjs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't even remember my first period that well, I thing it did hurt but not too much, later on it started to hurt a lot when I was like 16-19. then I started with birth controll pills and this is honestly a blessing for me.

    • @adampilget6158
      @adampilget6158 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Makjaoiuewhxkjs dont take birthe control pills for period . My gf too takes and she got bad

    • @Makjaoiuewhxkjs
      @Makjaoiuewhxkjs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@adampilget6158 :D there is plenty of BC pills, single pill have compeletly different effects on different ppl. Just becouse one pill did not work out for one person does not mean every pill is bad for every one. Don't worry, I read all about side effects my pill can have and looked out for them. They help me, as they help plenty of women with ilnessses that make their life miserable. I mean my little sister would vomit and almost pass out during her period, if she can take a pill for it, side effects are worth it, and if they are not, you just gotta try different pill, till you find something that suits you. They are predescribed for a.reason, becouse they do have consequences. But they have many benefis also

    • @Makjaoiuewhxkjs
      @Makjaoiuewhxkjs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@adampilget6158 If taken under the ocntrol of a doctor they are compeletly fine. They are tested and the side effects ar known. You can take them for whatever reason you want as long as your doctor deems them fine for you. No need to spread hate or panick.

  • @strawberrychoco5565
    @strawberrychoco5565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    my 1st period is hurt like hell 😭 i cant even stand up.

  • @ruthbanda9046
    @ruthbanda9046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's so pretty she reminds me of sana from twice

  • @taesfilter3026
    @taesfilter3026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    being indian, i had a whole ass ritual during my menarche. they even threw me a whole ass party and it was kinda fun ngl but i hear a lot of my indian friends hating the attention their period is given

  • @larryholbrook5307
    @larryholbrook5307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Heejae my lovely!!!

  • @basicartanatomy7275
    @basicartanatomy7275 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I jst remembered jae hee from doctor stranger ❤️

  • @shion3948
    @shion3948 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This hairstyle looks so good on him

  • @kaydeebrianne4534
    @kaydeebrianne4534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i remember eating so much ramen when i had my first period because the warmth made my tummy feel better

  • @incognito.283
    @incognito.283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this girl!

  • @nikitapoudel6565
    @nikitapoudel6565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I miss schee yeonjin and heejae unnie's in same screen pdnim please more videos of this trio 😍😘

  • @violetjade64
    @violetjade64 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    why are yall acting like makeup is a part of puberty 😭 it’s completely cultural

  • @deelove9907
    @deelove9907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This girl is fun😂❤️

  • @seph6012
    @seph6012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My only bad decisions I made in those times was when I liked this guy for 3 years straight and was constantly being rejected by him.

  • @anicloudl1032
    @anicloudl1032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is it me or there are someone like me who didn't have any pain when my boobs were growing and there was no pain when I had my first period till now, but I'm soooo thankful because I've seen my friends and my sisters going through pain it looks soooo painfull kudos to those women who goes through it strongly 🤧

  • @ninazibar5386
    @ninazibar5386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm not the only thinking the girl looks A LOT like Sana from Twice right??

  • @melianemedo465
    @melianemedo465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is seriously so pretty

  • @rivkavermeij
    @rivkavermeij 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mom wanted to buy me a present or a cake or something when I got my first period, but I didn't want that at all haha. I didn't feel like it was something to celebrate

  • @seph6012
    @seph6012 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been getting my menstruation for about 5-6 years now and I've never felt any pain. There's just blood flow.

  • @aparnamishra1736
    @aparnamishra1736 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heejae is my spirit animal. 😍

  • @harshitasamdarshi2958
    @harshitasamdarshi2958 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kai amd sana

  • @marinahalvorsen7938
    @marinahalvorsen7938 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    my first period didn't hurt at all so I bled through everything :))) every time after that was pain x 100000 before getting prescription pain killers and the pill. So at least I knew when it was coming lol

  • @ayshy403
    @ayshy403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    my reaction:::
    By watching video that she get her first period in middle school : *its too early*
    by reading comments that everyone got their periods when they were almost 10 or 11 years old: *oh it means i got late*