Something I forgot to mention in the video is that a big reason I stopped giving motivational speeches/advice on stream nearly as much, is because I started to doubt the validity and credibility of my words given that I was struggling so much myself. I've recently learned that I shouldn't put pressure on myself to always have the perfect solution or answer to everything and that sometimes I'll get things wrong. But that's okay, I'm comfortable and accept the fact that I have my limitations, and I will strive to do the best I can do without worrying if what I'm saying is perfect or not.
I really appreciate everything you’ve said from these speeches in stream, and you should put yourself before us! 😊 I hope you can continue on and get that creativity! 2022 was a bit of a rough year, I started it off with one of my grandparents passing away, and then I was struggling to pass school due to my ADHD, and I’ve learned to take on these challenges, nobody will ever be perfect, but being you is the most perfect one can be! Love you Tucker! 💚 Take all the time you need!
I really related to a lot of the things you went over in this video. Taking a step back to re-evaluate yourself and your habits is so important, and I’m glad that you used that downtime to find ways to feel like your best self. The part about not putting ourselves and expectations on a pedestal is something that really got me thinking. When you're just a normal person you have the power, freedom, and control over where your life is headed. No unreasonable expectations or perfectionism, but instead just going with the flow of what feels the best and most comfortable for yourself and breaking free from that “box”. There’s billions of people in the world anyway, so why be the best when you can be yourself? I’m going to live by that from now on. Thanks for being so real and good to your viewers. The glasses look amazing on you by the way -Ivy/sea
I feel like I suffer from the inverse of you. That I'm not somebody special, that what I do doesn't matter. I'll never be rich or famous, not that I'd want to be. When I recieve praise, it rarely leaves an impression on me. I do suppose that I look to much at the greater picture of life, forgetting to celebrate the small improvements that I make. And I fall into the pit of not being on level with other people my age, and then that leads into a shame spiral and I'm stuck in my depression and perceived inadequacy. And that depression has before lead to the worst thought a person could ever even consider: suicide. If my life is so worthless, why should I stay alive? Sure, people who love me dearly would be absolutely devastated, but after a few generations, I won't be remembered. It chokes me up even recalling that feeling. I just need to take a few deep breaths, even right now as I write this. I have made improvements. I have advanced in my life. While my progress is slow, it's still progress. I have plenty of excellent help in my life, both family and a series of medical professionals who care about me. I've been recently put back on an old medication I've had in the past, and it's going well so far. I go to therapy every other week, which might be changed soon to be just once a month. I know I'm nobody special in the grand scheme of things, but I'm special to the people around me. And I try to strive to at least leave a good impression on people around me, even if they will never know my name. So, you really have to understand simultaneously that you are both special and not. You're special to the ones you love and who love you, but you're not a paragon who needs to be perfect for everyone. And though I'm still a new viewer to you, Tucker, I love you the way you are. Keep up the great work, not just on your content, but your life. And know that we'll always be here for you. 💜
Something I forgot to mention in the video is that a big reason I stopped giving motivational speeches/advice on stream nearly as much, is because I started to doubt the validity and credibility of my words given that I was struggling so much myself. I've recently learned that I shouldn't put pressure on myself to always have the perfect solution or answer to everything and that sometimes I'll get things wrong. But that's okay, I'm comfortable and accept the fact that I have my limitations, and I will strive to do the best I can do without worrying if what I'm saying is perfect or not.
I'm always taken off guard by how genuinely motivating stuck is. Hope your life gets better from here on out man, you deserve the best
I really appreciate everything you’ve said from these speeches in stream, and you should put yourself before us! 😊 I hope you can continue on and get that creativity! 2022 was a bit of a rough year, I started it off with one of my grandparents passing away, and then I was struggling to pass school due to my ADHD, and I’ve learned to take on these challenges, nobody will ever be perfect, but being you is the most perfect one can be! Love you Tucker! 💚 Take all the time you need!
I really related to a lot of the things you went over in this video. Taking a step back to re-evaluate yourself and your habits is so important, and I’m glad that you used that downtime to find ways to feel like your best self. The part about not putting ourselves and expectations on a pedestal is something that really got me thinking. When you're just a normal person you have the power, freedom, and control over where your life is headed. No unreasonable expectations or perfectionism, but instead just going with the flow of what feels the best and most comfortable for yourself and breaking free from that “box”. There’s billions of people in the world anyway, so why be the best when you can be yourself? I’m going to live by that from now on.
Thanks for being so real and good to your viewers. The glasses look amazing on you by the way
-Ivy/sea
This was such a genuine and moving video. It's great to see you are trying to branch out more in life and better yourself. Take care.
Thank you I needed this
I feel like I suffer from the inverse of you. That I'm not somebody special, that what I do doesn't matter. I'll never be rich or famous, not that I'd want to be. When I recieve praise, it rarely leaves an impression on me. I do suppose that I look to much at the greater picture of life, forgetting to celebrate the small improvements that I make. And I fall into the pit of not being on level with other people my age, and then that leads into a shame spiral and I'm stuck in my depression and perceived inadequacy. And that depression has before lead to the worst thought a person could ever even consider: suicide. If my life is so worthless, why should I stay alive? Sure, people who love me dearly would be absolutely devastated, but after a few generations, I won't be remembered. It chokes me up even recalling that feeling. I just need to take a few deep breaths, even right now as I write this. I have made improvements. I have advanced in my life. While my progress is slow, it's still progress. I have plenty of excellent help in my life, both family and a series of medical professionals who care about me. I've been recently put back on an old medication I've had in the past, and it's going well so far. I go to therapy every other week, which might be changed soon to be just once a month. I know I'm nobody special in the grand scheme of things, but I'm special to the people around me. And I try to strive to at least leave a good impression on people around me, even if they will never know my name. So, you really have to understand simultaneously that you are both special and not. You're special to the ones you love and who love you, but you're not a paragon who needs to be perfect for everyone. And though I'm still a new viewer to you, Tucker, I love you the way you are. Keep up the great work, not just on your content, but your life. And know that we'll always be here for you. 💜
Thank you for sharing your story, and also for the kind words. I’m grateful to have people like you in this community!
Stuck, if you need to take a break to sort out your life outside of TH-cam, by all means go ahead. We’ll all be waiting right here for you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
If you need a break We’ll be waiting ❤️