Agreed. However having their child is an Xtra Salty pain. May everyone find their Best loving part they feel they're missing. Blessed wishes on your journey;)
This is my current situation right now.. and it it hurts.. 😭😭😭💔 he made feel what real love is.. but then the moment i fell inlove with him.. i found out that he has a girlfriend for four years now and he didnt told me about it.. 💔💔 my heart shuttered into billion pieces..... 😭😭😭😭😭
To add a bit of a silver lining to the song, where others are relating in heartbreaking ways, my husband sent this to me when we first were reconnecting and falling for each other too fast. He was scared of getting hurt again, and this is how he felt because he was trying not to love me in order to heal. But we decided to jump in and I have zero regrets, through all the pain and heartache, we have a deep love that's rooted in God. Never lose sight of what's real, and that's the hope we have in Christ.
This is so beautiful I hope this can happen with this special person I have in mind I still have feelings for him and he too but fear has thrown us apart.
My high-school sweetheart who was the love of my life was in and out of my life for 40 years, and came back into my life three years ago only to die of lung cancer a few months later.. on the day after my birthday. Life is short, don't waste time on stupid things, reconcile, forgive, and embrace what you have when you have it. ❤️
some songs made you think of love lost or throne away this is mine I found her the one I know she was and was too scared to keep her being hurt makes you scared of love so a went back to the one that could no longer hurt me that makes me a fool I guess because not having her makes me hurt every day 😢
I don't know first. Real I felt in so.long speaking for my self I.know I'll always keep him in.my heart when do one. Can make ur feeling come back to light the way this person did when I didn't. Thank I had anymore in me. Very special never well I for get him
Worse thing that you can feel. just like the Patrick Swayze song like the wind. To love some one so much only to know they are out of your league will destroy you inside.
Since It is an end of a 🤣🤣decade....So Let us take a 😉😉😏😎moment to Thank God for all 💙the grace he has blessed us with..... Wish you and your family a very prosperous and joyful New Year.....Always stay blessed and happy with your near and dear 😜ones....😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘🤗 Regards-: satbir Sheoran and family❤️
Ich versuche es wirklich, denn ganz ehrlich ich darf ihn nicht lieben... Er ist mein bester Freund und zudem ein Ex und nochmal kann ich meinen besten Freund nicht verlieren, das ertrage ich kein zweites Mal. Lieber breche ich mein Herz in tausend Teile, damit seins immer lacht. Für sein Glück ertrage ich jeden Schmerz und wenn das heißt, dass ich ihn loslassen muss, dann ist es eben so
This was the first song my ex and I played together. After 5 years broken up I can finally listen to this song again. Trying not to love someone who was once your whole world is one of the hardest things to do
How did you get over it? None of my outlets really help. Gym, work, hobbies. None of it helps at best it dulls it but i till feel it day in day out. I get nightmares of the life we could've had and watching it shatter to pieces only to wake up and repeat my work day. I keep telling myself to move on but my heart and soul keep screaming for her to understand that by leaving she wasted my time when i warned her to not make me love her.
@@ZeroOmega-vg8nq to answer your question, it took time. Lots of time. Also, meeting someone else helped. I am now married with a beautiful baby girl. You will find the right one. You just gotta be patient and don't give up
What a blessing to be able to love so deeply...some people go their entire lives and never know what love truly feels like... all I can compare it too is an uncontrollable intense craving for someone... once you feel it.. you never want to lose it..
I had it,let it go,for what I thought was best.What a mistake,wish I could go back ,but I accept that I can't. but I'm glad I had it and those memories will always be a special place to visit. That LOVE will always be.💓
And then there those of us who were so hurt before we chose to cutoff that part of our humanity. Then we meet that person who wanted you to reclaim it. You did so. Finally tell that person they make you feel truly happy after years of apathy, anger, self loathing, only for to leave you and your stuck wanting to not feel for that person. Wanting to to go back to nothingness but they made you promise to not shut out you humanity however feeling that pained lingering love is a poison
If you have a broken heart, embrace the pain. The pain shows you that it was real... that you had the courage to let someone in. Some of the best songs and inventions were done in response to a broken heart. Don't wish it away, embrace it for what it is and allow yourself the chance to heal.
Elizabeth Anne the thing is, at school, I saw him every single day. he'd always sit with me. when I embraced my pain and how sad I was, he got mad. hes such a hypocrite, Im sad so he gets upset then hes depressed over something that happened. and he gets mad when I show I want him, but he trys to be my best friend. I hate him, but I love him. maybe its myself I hate. I felt bad for lying to my family. they didn't know. they found out. me and him got into a huge fight on the last day of school and I was so depressed I left his table and went to sit with my head on my arms and ignored the movie we'd been watching. then he felt bad and tried to talk to me, and i told him to go away. then, I forgave him. why? its hard to put the pieces back together, but I know God with pull me through. ~srry bout my rant. I just needed to vent. Ive been really upset over it lately. thanks if you actually read this, if not thx for giving me somewhere to rant.
courtney seymour My bf will never love me, I 'll never be good enough, and he's breaking me down. I gotta let him go, Lord help me. I do everything for him, and it doesnt matter. He's been married 4 times! hmmmm red flag. love is evol, spell it backwards I 'll show ya".. .💔💦heartbroken in Ohio. I gave my whole life up for him. I hope he realizes how MUCH I loved him, and that day when I finally walk AWAY...i won't be coming bsck
When it is that one, the ONE you can’t stop thinking about but you can’t make being together again a good idea, this is the song. You can crush on him every day of every month of every year & never forget ❤️
Shane Willey you passed 3 years ago. I die every day. I can't stop loving you. I'm 46 now I was with you since I was 12 years old. How can I ever let you go. God knows I been trying not to love and need you isn't working. I wish God would have took me when covid took you.😢😢😢😢😢😢
When I lost my first love this was the only song that expressed my feelings. Time flew by,after a shitload of pain I started forget about him. Until him. Someone who finally helped me to be happy and learn what feelings are again. Time will tell. I had to wait 2 years to become happy again.
Me and my wife split a few months back! all my fault! and this song is killing me! makes any grown man cry! after noticing how much you' ve hurt the person that was always there! Makes me miss her even more! this song and some shots!
Spot on man! I'm going through the same thing, I changed her and not in good ways, words really can't describe how terrible I feel for that now looking back at all the times I was a shit husband, I've relapsed on drugs again really bad because of it, part of me feels I dont deserve to live because of the ways I treated her
how can you love someone who you don't even know?? you call them your 'crush' but they don't even know you exist so you obviously know absolutely nothing about them as a person. are you 10 or something because what you feel is not love
i cried because the person that i love cant love me back.... that person has a different world from me.... we're too far... im trying not to love that person but it makes me dying and longing for that person...
I really and truley get upset how relevant this song is...but I will say I'm the fool for never saying anything before his accident and now it's too late..
This hit me right in the centre! Trying not to love someone who gave me such a deep love, then took it away and "still loves me but its different" is absolute hell on earth. I now have 2 faces, the smile for him and the world vs the river of tears when I'm alone. This track was written by someone who was in this place. Wonderful! Spoke so loud!
Ive had the exact same thing. Told the girl iv been dating for around 2 years "you really make me feel happy. For the first time in years i can finally say it without feeling i need to lie" after that she began to distance herself and then said the exact same thing you were told. It has broken me in a way i dont think ill ever fully recover from because i warned her when we fist started talking "please dont make me love you." She then just chooses to break it off. I can only do my job to quiet my head for a while. My hobbys dont really make me stop feeling it. I asked her "was it a waste?" And when she says no it wasnt i cant help but want to scream because she cant see the cruelty in having made someone who had chosen to shut their heart, give it then to just smash it. I wont pretend to be a saint i made my fair share of mistakes but the fact i cant hate her, i cant stop loving her after shes been living her life despite wanting to forget but at the same time it HAS to have meant something worth the pain i feel.
I know that feeling... "it has to have meant something". The only other man I have ever trusted, and the first, was my father and he abused that trust and me in so many ways as a child I've been "the life and soul" to everyone to hide the emptiness he left. Then this man... we made ground rules, don't get serious, don't make me love you, never lie, never say forever unless you're meaning it... he said I love you first, I waited, I learned to trust him, he said I'll never hurt you because you've had too much pain already, then he said forever... I told him no, don't say it or think it and he reassured me time and time and time again..... why? Why if he can just walk away and "still love me"? Why lie? Why hurt me? Just why? Yet I still love him. I'll never trust anyone again... and it's not like I'm an infatuated teen, I'm 61 ! But the more I try to wipe him out of my head the more I love him. Our friends keep telling him we are so good together and he is a fool but you can't make someone love you. I'll always wonder why, but I know I'll never get an answer. Seems some of us feel on a whole different level. I don't know you but I know your heart and I hope one day you can feel better about it all. It's what I'm hoping for, that day when it hurts less....
I'm IN LOVE with the lyrics and the guitar in this song. I've always really enjoyed Nickleback despite the haters and I'm never disappointed by the emotional depth of their music. Spelling of a few words messed me up but over all great video!!!
"And this kind of pain only time takes away" I wish! I knew the one I think of when listening to this when we were at college, I'm 43 now. There have been others since, but they're not her.
Loving and being loved is the greatest feeling in the world and then the one you love and thought loved you doesn't have that feeling any more .hurts but trying to get a feeling back from someone who doesn't want that feeling only hurts you more because it usually wont come back but it's worth the effort. even if it doesn't work out.
I just wish she would come back so she doesnt have to cry to me about her bf troubles, ik I'm her ex and all I just wish she would realize I'm for her and she's for me
I dont see why nickelback is hated they make legit classic songs My dad and uncles rly loved the songs of nickelback and thats why i loved their songs now
It makes you remember that point when you know that as much as it pains you, and as much as it scares you to become a lonely memory, you know you have to let it go
Reading through these comments, I'm realizing we're all like family rn. It hurts. I mean, I want to get back together with him and go right back to being happy, back to the future we had planned out in detail, etc. But at the same time, I can't change him to fit what I want, i can't undo the breakup, I can't make our visions for our futures align again, and I can't make him want to get back together. And I can't make being together again a good idea. It sucks. I know y'all relate, but we'll all get through this. So for now, keep strong fam. We're in this together. Edit: Wow, I'm back 3 years later and shocked to see this comment got so many likes and sweet comments. As an update, my ex is now married, and while I know I loved him like I haven't anyone before or since, I know I will find love again, in another person or in myself. Y'all are so amazing and strong and I love y'all. 🖤🖤
I 100% agree with you. But I had to go through that pain for year.. The person who I fell in love with rejected me so many times... They knew they loved me back but to forget about they're love for me, they started dating people they didn't even like... But I'm glad I went through that pain. It wouldn't have made our bond as close as it is now. I can happily say that we've been together for 7 months now.
This song is so true. Good to see I'm not the only one to go through this. I've come to realize I'm in love with one of my best friends and I can't be with him. Very hard to deal with.
I don't really get why there is so much people hating on Nickelback. I find their songs pretty cool, actually. Also I feel a little relieved to see the unrequited-love squad right here in the comments T-T I feel you guys
I swear I always find these kinds of songs when I need it most. Recently went through this exact situation with a girl, gave my heart and soul to her would go to hell and back for her, told me she loved me, then used me and expected me to still be there, and still have those feelings for her now, which is the hardest thing to deal with!!!
I am trying to forget about her.. I know she has already moved on and is with someone... But she was my first true love... I wish it was as easy as just snapping my fingers and it all goes away but... Sadly I got to live with this pain till my heart mends itself...
The best way to forget about someone is to realize you were just fine before they came along. I had to do the same. Keep focused ahead of you and never behind. My father told me once that living in regret is like living in the past. So never regret.
Trying not to love you Gary but it only makes me love you more. Oh my God I miss you. There are no words to describe the pain and emptiness without you but your happiness is what matters most...so I loved you enough to let you go...
Broke up after 14 years. Still miss her everyday that goes by. It's hard out here when your so used to having your better half. Without my better half there's only me left alone and hurting all I come in contact with without even trying. It's like without her life is off balance and just don't spin right. Please stop spinning out of control I can't take much more
There is a pill for that, actually five of them. Lithium, Paxil, Trazadone, Buspar and Hydroxyzine. I take them all. No more missing anyone for me. Hell, I couldn’t shed a tear if I wanted to 😜
I wish I had the guts to send this to my ex...because Gods know I need to hate him, but I can't seem to make myself stop loving him. I just love him even more.
This song still gets to me, i didn't realize I loved her until she up and left, now she's with someone else and it hurts that I can't seem to stop loving her.
This is a beautiful song. I love nickelback. My grandpa always says I don't have good taste in music. He says opera us the best. But really, it's just MY matter of opinion.
You will, my friend. It is possible to find that person who can make you feel so comfortable that it's going to be kinda unimaginable that you can feel that way. Both are going to feel so close to each other and love each other so much that nothing will stop it, not even rough circumstances. Keep holding on, have patience and you'll see.
I love the guy and I hsvent seen him in 2 years. I could never have him but I have a whole playlist dedicated to him. I will never love a person more than him. Thank you B I wish u were mine
I’m slowly falling in love with someone who’s over 500 miles from me. It’s a very weird and complicated situation, but I can’t help it. Feels good to finally say this...
To all who are unhappily in love. There is my message to you: One day someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with anyone else. Speaking from my own experience. Because a true love never hurts. A true love mends a broken heart. Heart broken by the wrong person.
Nothing or no one can come between true LOVE!!! If you can just stop loving then you never really loved at all!!! You will cross mountains, oceans, walk through hell for that special someone and no matter what anyone tells you , you never give up!!!! TRUE LOVE IS PAIN!!! Never never never give up its always worth it!!! You will find each other again!! If it takes days weeks months or years!!!! TRUE LOVE WILL PREVAIL!!! Trust me its always worth it!!! WHATS WORTH THE PAIN IS WORTH THE PRIZE....
I'm going through this. There's a girl I've liked since I met her but she doesn't like me the way she liked my brother and its tearing me up. I've never said it to anyone but my step-sister. Looking back i realized I waited to long. Damn I need that pill to be found so I can forget.
Thank you for being a friend that I didn't know I even existed. You were an unexpected warm hug when the cold was all around. Thank you. I would like to tell you in person, hopefully very soon@
This is the song I listened to the night before my friend became my girlfriend. I was trying no to love her because I thought I would just hurt her. I was wrong. Shes happier than I've ever seen her.
This made my heart smile, and my body go warm from top to toe. I dont know why, but reading your comment made me really happy. I'm really happy for you both :)
I met her at 9. The 1st love, true love, real love.. absolute pure affection. Growing up best friends...inseparable, watching her get heartbroken. When we know inside our relationship would be a moment in the movies... ACG+JDAH.
I had someone in my life that I have known over 20 years. We have so much in common, & I grew to have feelings for him, but he would never allow me into his world, always keeping me at arm's length. For reasons I won't go into, I finally just cut him loose as he wasn't good for my mental or emotional health. This song speaks volumes for me. I know he was never going to let me in let alone have any real feelings for me, but trying not to love him only goes so far, trying not to need him is tearing me apart, & trying not love him only makes me love him more. :'(
The hardest part is telling that person that every time they look at you, it makes your knees weak, and that it depresses you that you can't be theirs. The hardest part is when you know deep down that the feelings aren't mutual. I've stayed awake some nights, writing the words "You will never belong to her", "Get over it."
That... Is like a sharp and cold pain that pierces through your heart, man. It's just incredible how a person can make our knees tremble and undo us piece by piece.
I am a widow. Knowing that he died was the reason we were separated was death. But when the person is alive and doesn't explain, it's impossible to grieve when you don't know why it had to end. It's left oppenended, and does tear you apart slowly and indefinitely!!!. I found "him" when I wasn't looking so I am not looking, but life is a terminal disease, so I guess this is just part of my life!!! I still feel hope, lots of it!!!!
when i first met my wife, i promised her that i wouldn't fall in love with her. hard to keep a promise that was already broken before it was made. but honestly, it's the best and only promise i've ever broken. 11 years later, we're married with a beautiful little girl. if given the chance to do it all over again, i'd break that promise everytime.
this song came to me in 2015... its very personal for me hits home HARD. The love of my life sent me thia song few months in our "relationship " he fought it for a whole year after ups n downs he asked me ro b his woman.(6yrs) later we r now separated (again) 💔 he showed me a WHOLE NEW WORLD A WHILE DIFFERENT type of love. i will always love him madly and miss him ever so much.. MLS
Falling in love with someone who loves you back but is trapped by a narcissist who uses suicide their children and emotional abuse to keep her there is so hard. I feel so alone but I'm praying for her strength to break the chains so we can finally be together after 12 years of waiting and mistakes made along the way. I will never be able to love anyone like I love her and will wait as long as I too.
Loving someone that keeps you at a arms distance and tells you that they love you but says they need to sort things out because they want everything to be perfect is killing me
I remember when I first I heard this song was when I had just started to develop feelings for one of my closest friends and when I heard it then this song was so sad to me. Now I still have feelings for this guy but I’ve settled into them and even told him and now this song just kinda brings me hope and makes me happy
Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you back is one of the cruelest, most excruciating heartbreaks imaginable.
Agreed. However having their child is an Xtra Salty pain. May everyone find their Best loving part they feel they're missing. Blessed wishes on your journey;)
I'm going through it right now it fucking hurts so bad 😭😭😭
@@robertedwards2807 me too brotha
Robert edwards feeling your pain... your not alone huggs
This is my current situation right now.. and it it hurts.. 😭😭😭💔 he made feel what real love is.. but then the moment i fell inlove with him.. i found out that he has a girlfriend for four years now and he didnt told me about it.. 💔💔 my heart shuttered into billion pieces..... 😭😭😭😭😭
To add a bit of a silver lining to the song, where others are relating in heartbreaking ways, my husband sent this to me when we first were reconnecting and falling for each other too fast. He was scared of getting hurt again, and this is how he felt because he was trying not to love me in order to heal. But we decided to jump in and I have zero regrets, through all the pain and heartache, we have a deep love that's rooted in God. Never lose sight of what's real, and that's the hope we have in Christ.
This is so beautiful I hope this can happen with this special person I have in mind I still have feelings for him and he too but fear has thrown us apart.
This song is spot on. Trying to let go of your lover your better half is like ripping out your own soul.
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My high-school sweetheart who was the love of my life was in and out of my life for 40 years, and came back into my life three years ago only to die of lung cancer a few months later.. on the day after my birthday. Life is short, don't waste time on stupid things, reconcile, forgive, and embrace what you have when you have it. ❤️
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I definitely understand my highschool sweetheart/crush is your married female teacher
So sorry for your loss :(😢
So very sorry
I love him, but I can't have him. Getting him out of my head is impossible.
see if i could to get this all gone
some songs made you think of love lost or throne away this is mine I found her the one I know she was and was too scared to keep her being hurt makes you scared of love so a went back to the one that could no longer hurt me that makes me a fool I guess because not having her makes me hurt every day 😢
I am the same way
Same but with a girl we were in a relationship less than a month i loved her we were friends for more than a month then just block me on everythi😢
Not with that attitude
do you ever stop loving the one person who made you feel real love? Never
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I don't know first. Real I felt in so.long speaking for my self I.know I'll always keep him in.my heart when do one. Can make ur feeling come back to light the way this person did when I didn't. Thank I had anymore in me. Very special never well I for get him
Marcie Lintz no you don’t ever stop loving them
Marcie Lintz it has been since 1977 and I still love him
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"It hurts to fall in love with someone who can't be yours."
Worse thing that you can feel. just like the Patrick Swayze song like the wind. To love some one so much only to know they are out of your league will destroy you inside.
amen to this!!!!!! 😢
It absolutely does...especially when they reassure you thst your whst they want in their future..😢
25 yrs later hes still my heart letting go is the hardest part.. I am so trying not to love him. But i have loved him since I was 16. JMH
Since It is an end of a 🤣🤣decade....So Let us take a 😉😉😏😎moment to Thank God for all 💙the grace he has blessed us with.....
Wish you and your family a very prosperous and joyful New Year.....Always stay blessed and happy with your near and dear 😜ones....😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘🤗
Regards-: satbir Sheoran and family❤️
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Irk i know the feeling, unfortunatly
Ich versuche es wirklich, denn ganz ehrlich ich darf ihn nicht lieben... Er ist mein bester Freund und zudem ein Ex und nochmal kann ich meinen besten Freund nicht verlieren, das ertrage ich kein zweites Mal. Lieber breche ich mein Herz in tausend Teile, damit seins immer lacht. Für sein Glück ertrage ich jeden Schmerz und wenn das heißt, dass ich ihn loslassen muss, dann ist es eben so
You see.. That's the thing with real love.. It doesn't fade.. Doesn't go away.. We carry it until the end of time
I don't know why I've never heard this song before. It's amazing! So glad youtube randomly played it for me!! It definitely resonates.
Hello 👋 how are you
Great song always
This was the first song my ex and I played together. After 5 years broken up I can finally listen to this song again. Trying not to love someone who was once your whole world is one of the hardest things to do
How did you get over it? None of my outlets really help. Gym, work, hobbies. None of it helps at best it dulls it but i till feel it day in day out. I get nightmares of the life we could've had and watching it shatter to pieces only to wake up and repeat my work day. I keep telling myself to move on but my heart and soul keep screaming for her to understand that by leaving she wasted my time when i warned her to not make me love her.
@@ZeroOmega-vg8nq to answer your question, it took time. Lots of time. Also, meeting someone else helped. I am now married with a beautiful baby girl. You will find the right one. You just gotta be patient and don't give up
What a blessing to be able to love so deeply...some people go their entire lives and never know what love truly feels like... all I can compare it too is an uncontrollable intense craving for someone... once you feel it.. you never want to lose it..
I had it,let it go,for what I thought was best.What a mistake,wish I could go back ,but I accept that I can't. but I'm glad I had it and those memories will always be a special place to visit. That LOVE will always be.💓
I love your comment.its how i still feel about my husband.he confuses me All the time.like my heart is beg played with along with my emotions
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And then there those of us who were so hurt before we chose to cutoff that part of our humanity. Then we meet that person who wanted you to reclaim it. You did so. Finally tell that person they make you feel truly happy after years of apathy, anger, self loathing, only for to leave you and your stuck wanting to not feel for that person. Wanting to to go back to nothingness but they made you promise to not shut out you humanity however feeling that pained lingering love is a poison
If you have a broken heart, embrace the pain. The pain shows you that it was real... that you had the courage to let someone in. Some of the best songs and inventions were done in response to a broken heart. Don't wish it away, embrace it for what it is and allow yourself the chance to heal.
Elizabeth Anne Wow I never thought of that,that really made me feel a bit better. I will embrace the pain knowing that IT WAS REAL.
Jennifer Sommer I guess it's a work in progress for both of us. :) Best of luck.
You're right actually that's very inspiring to hear I will think of the pain that way
Elizabeth Anne the thing is, at school, I saw him every single day. he'd always sit with me. when I embraced my pain and how sad I was, he got mad. hes such a hypocrite, Im sad so he gets upset then hes depressed over something that happened. and he gets mad when I show I want him, but he trys to be my best friend. I hate him, but I love him. maybe its myself I hate. I felt bad for lying to my family. they didn't know. they found out. me and him got into a huge fight on the last day of school and I was so depressed I left his table and went to sit with my head on my arms and ignored the movie we'd been watching. then he felt bad and tried to talk to me, and i told him to go away. then, I forgave him. why? its hard to put the pieces back together, but I know God with pull me through.
~srry bout my rant. I just needed to vent. Ive been really upset over it lately. thanks if you actually read this, if not thx for giving me somewhere to rant.
Wow I never thought of it like that, trust me the pain I have from my heart being broke is deep!
This is one of my favorite songs from Nickleback. Love them.
“...and trying not to need you is tearing me apart..”
True
It's been 3 years and I still can't get her out of my head. Love songs like this
it hurts trying not to love someone that doesn't love you, but you want more than anything.
courtney seymour My bf will never love me, I 'll never be good enough, and he's breaking me down. I gotta let him go, Lord help me. I do everything for him, and it doesnt matter. He's been married 4 times! hmmmm red flag. love is evol, spell it backwards I 'll show ya"..
.💔💦heartbroken in Ohio. I gave my whole life up for him. I hope he realizes how MUCH I loved him, and that day when I finally walk AWAY...i won't be coming bsck
Trying don't to love u only make me love u more
I totally agree
Too true
True
My first love and I ended up back together 6 years later bc of this song.. and 3 years after that we are now happily married. Love this song.
I you have ever experienced the inner struggle of "trying not to love someone" you know how true this song is!!!
The only woman with a V in her name has always had my heart I've belonged to her forever ❤😊
When it is that one, the ONE you can’t stop thinking about but you can’t make being together again a good idea, this is the song. You can crush on him every day of every month of every year & never forget ❤️
This song has amazing lyrics. The worlds are really expressive. I'm I the only one who cried listening to this beautiful song ?
One of the best songs ever written. It makes my heart scream as passion overload
Hello 👋 how are you doing
Shane Willey you passed 3 years ago. I die every day. I can't stop loving you. I'm 46 now I was with you since I was 12 years old. How can I ever let you go. God knows I been trying not to love and need you isn't working. I wish God would have took me when covid took you.😢😢😢😢😢😢
😢
What a love song. Nickelback all the way. These guys are Legends
Yessss!
When I lost my first love this was the only song that expressed my feelings. Time flew by,after a shitload of pain I started forget about him. Until him. Someone who finally helped me to be happy and learn what feelings are again. Time
will tell. I had to wait 2 years to become happy again.
Me and my wife split a few months back! all my fault! and this song is killing me! makes any grown man cry! after noticing how much you' ve hurt the person that was always there! Makes me miss her even more! this song and some shots!
good luck to you man.. it's a song that wrecks you, honestly
Go to a brothel. Believe me it works.
makes me cry every time makes me think of my ex that had a miscarriage with my kid
the feels for what you just said is 1 million percent accurate
Spot on man! I'm going through the same thing, I changed her and not in good ways, words really can't describe how terrible I feel for that now looking back at all the times I was a shit husband, I've relapsed on drugs again really bad because of it, part of me feels I dont deserve to live because of the ways I treated her
Dear my crush who hardly knows that I exist..
Trying not to love you only makes me love you more
how can you love someone who you don't even know?? you call them your 'crush' but they don't even know you exist so you obviously know absolutely nothing about them as a person. are you 10 or something because what you feel is not love
i cried because the person that i love cant love me back.... that person has a different world from me.... we're too far... im trying not to love that person but it makes me dying and longing for that person...
Omg ikr. It's literally breaking my heart because I can't be with this person... Sigh. It's so hard.
I totally understand what ur going threw I myself am dealing with the same situation u r it's so hard
I lost my high-school sweetheart a long time ago I know what you're going through trust me it will get easier as time goes on just keep your head up
Joel Praxides. I know what u mean thats how i feel about someone i love. And i try not to but i do. Can't help hurt a lot want him so bad
I really and truley get upset how relevant this song is...but I will say I'm the fool for never saying anything before his accident and now it's too late..
After 20 years of being apart he came back into my life. I love him so much but I'm married now. Trying not to love him Is the hardest part
Stacie Harmon 😔😔😔
I hope you are alright and not struggling I wish you all the best ❤
Chahd Abbassi thank you ♥️
Have you watched letter to Juliet on Netflix what you said reminded me of the movie
If he came back he should leave again to let you live in peace ✌🕊🙏
This hit me right in the centre! Trying not to love someone who gave me such a deep love, then took it away and "still loves me but its different" is absolute hell on earth. I now have 2 faces, the smile for him and the world vs the river of tears when I'm alone. This track was written by someone who was in this place. Wonderful! Spoke so loud!
😢😢 you make my tears come out we r in the same situation 😢😢😢
😢😢 you make my tears come out we r in the same situation 😢😢
@ballasvideo8431 I think many people are.
Ive had the exact same thing. Told the girl iv been dating for around 2 years "you really make me feel happy. For the first time in years i can finally say it without feeling i need to lie" after that she began to distance herself and then said the exact same thing you were told. It has broken me in a way i dont think ill ever fully recover from because i warned her when we fist started talking "please dont make me love you." She then just chooses to break it off. I can only do my job to quiet my head for a while. My hobbys dont really make me stop feeling it. I asked her "was it a waste?" And when she says no it wasnt i cant help but want to scream because she cant see the cruelty in having made someone who had chosen to shut their heart, give it then to just smash it. I wont pretend to be a saint i made my fair share of mistakes but the fact i cant hate her, i cant stop loving her after shes been living her life despite wanting to forget but at the same time it HAS to have meant something worth the pain i feel.
I know that feeling... "it has to have meant something". The only other man I have ever trusted, and the first, was my father and he abused that trust and me in so many ways as a child I've been "the life and soul" to everyone to hide the emptiness he left. Then this man... we made ground rules, don't get serious, don't make me love you, never lie, never say forever unless you're meaning it... he said I love you first, I waited, I learned to trust him, he said I'll never hurt you because you've had too much pain already, then he said forever... I told him no, don't say it or think it and he reassured me time and time and time again..... why? Why if he can just walk away and "still love me"? Why lie? Why hurt me? Just why?
Yet I still love him. I'll never trust anyone again... and it's not like I'm an infatuated teen, I'm 61 ! But the more I try to wipe him out of my head the more I love him. Our friends keep telling him we are so good together and he is a fool but you can't make someone love you.
I'll always wonder why, but I know I'll never get an answer.
Seems some of us feel on a whole different level.
I don't know you but I know your heart and I hope one day you can feel better about it all.
It's what I'm hoping for, that day when it hurts less....
I relate to this song everyday....I try not to but my feelings grow stronger for him everyday
....💔
I feel u.. 🥺🥺💔
This is such a beautiful song. It's so real and original, love it!
Hi Anine
I'm IN LOVE with the lyrics and the guitar in this song. I've always really enjoyed Nickleback despite the haters and I'm never disappointed by the emotional depth of their music. Spelling of a few words messed me up but over all great video!!!
Hello 👋 how are you
"And this kind of pain only time takes away" I wish! I knew the one I think of when listening to this when we were at college, I'm 43 now. There have been others since, but they're not her.
After all this years,this song is incredible
here because I've fallen in love with someone I can't have because they're with someone else..
Damn I felt that
Ain't it a fascinating feeling?
Fuck life
@@traceyhester5366 No. love life.
Nah but I'm getting over a long realationship don't think I ever will
Loving and being loved is the greatest feeling in the world and then the one you love and thought loved you doesn't have that feeling any more .hurts but trying to get a feeling back from someone who doesn't want that feeling only hurts you more because it usually wont come back but it's worth the effort. even if it doesn't work out.
Tom Tommy I hope your effort to get her back pays off for you.
Patti just read ur comment and thx for your support..it didn't work out but it's gotta have both trying and it was only one.
Well said.
Anyone listening in 2019
I am
Yes
I just wish she would come back so she doesnt have to cry to me about her bf troubles, ik I'm her ex and all I just wish she would realize I'm for her and she's for me
Emo Tiger didn’t know this song existed until now lol
Yes
Having this recommended after so much time is really good . I've missed how damn powerful this song is .
I dont see why nickelback is hated they make legit classic songs
My dad and uncles rly loved the songs of nickelback and thats why i loved their songs now
It makes you remember that point when you know that as much as it pains you, and as much as it scares you to become a lonely memory, you know you have to let it go
How are you doing today
Trying not love someone you know you can’t have is the hardest thing ever and it’s really cruel
Reading through these comments, I'm realizing we're all like family rn. It hurts. I mean, I want to get back together with him and go right back to being happy, back to the future we had planned out in detail, etc. But at the same time, I can't change him to fit what I want, i can't undo the breakup, I can't make our visions for our futures align again, and I can't make him want to get back together. And I can't make being together again a good idea. It sucks. I know y'all relate, but we'll all get through this. So for now, keep strong fam. We're in this together.
Edit: Wow, I'm back 3 years later and shocked to see this comment got so many likes and sweet comments. As an update, my ex is now married, and while I know I loved him like I haven't anyone before or since, I know I will find love again, in another person or in myself. Y'all are so amazing and strong and I love y'all. 🖤🖤
Well said Chloe
Under rated comment
Ty
You sound like a genuine female treasure that should be grabbed and held close. Love from me to you dear.
I 100% agree with you. But I had to go through that pain for year.. The person who I fell in love with rejected me so many times... They knew they loved me back but to forget about they're love for me, they started dating people they didn't even like... But I'm glad I went through that pain. It wouldn't have made our bond as close as it is now. I can happily say that we've been together for 7 months now.
This song is so true. Good to see I'm not the only one to go through this. I've come to realize I'm in love with one of my best friends and I can't be with him. Very hard to deal with.
A friend of mine sent me this song. Lyrics isnt really for both of us. But he knows we really care each other's well being. He is such a sweetheart!
This song makes it hard to let them go, but a awesome song that hits me at moments
Hi Kat
I love this song, it explains so much and so many people need to hear this song
Even, I didn't get a chance to express my eternal love for her...this pain kills me for the last 25 years, and still counting!
Even after all this time I still love you. I miss you so much. Always and forever.
Michael Oconnell that's how I feel about my ex
@@tammywest8120 only in our hearts will our love remain. I hope she remembers.
When you have feelings for someone and you cant have them is one the hardest things
I don't really get why there is so much people hating on Nickelback. I find their songs pretty cool, actually.
Also I feel a little relieved to see the unrequited-love squad right here in the comments T-T I feel you guys
Agreed, they have a lot of really great songs (especially on this record) and I listen to them a lot. Absolutely love Chad Kroeger's voice❤️
Their mad because they ain't famous and their shirty garage band or shirty produced EDM on their laptop hasn't made them famous
Hating Nickelback is the in-thing, just like hating Justin Bieber or Britney Spears. Wait no, Justin Bieber actually does have an awful personality.
Dissing a band doesn't mean your personality is awful. Being racist and spitting on your own fans does.
Marique Altariah this band can make me alive .when im getting down.🤘🤘🤘
absolutely love this song accurately describes my current situation 😭
stop being a soppy trolley
Update us now😭
This pretty much depicts my feelings, I m just getting over but the hope just won't die :(
Let go. Trust me
Dantick09 ik how you feel
Its hard my fiancé just ran out from me and I know this pain is killer
She cm back ???
Dantick09
I swear I always find these kinds of songs when I need it most.
Recently went through this exact situation with a girl, gave my heart and soul to her would go to hell and back for her, told me she loved me, then used me and expected me to still be there, and still have those feelings for her now, which is the hardest thing to deal with!!!
I love this song! It so resonates in my life right now with my twinflane!! It’s been a hard journey
Omg!!! The same with me😢 with him it’s a roller coaster ride😢 but no matter what I love him unconditionally ❤
And only person comes to mind.. Trying not to love him, but it's like I can't.. Definitely can relate to this song right now...
same
Love it
Amanda Trevino 👍
Amanda Trevino yea I know how u feel.
...how can anyone love you today, and just totally forget your existence maybe the very next day. Crazy
i wonder if someone is trying not to love me.....
Same
same
same
im not i know nobody loves me xD
im not i know nobody loves me xD
I am trying to forget about her.. I know she has already moved on and is with someone... But she was my first true love... I wish it was as easy as just snapping my fingers and it all goes away but... Sadly I got to live with this pain till my heart mends itself...
I'm sorry to hear that. It will get better :)
Chloboww So every one says...
The best way to forget about someone is to realize you were just fine before they came along. I had to do the same. Keep focused ahead of you and never behind. My father told me once that living in regret is like living in the past. So never regret.
O.O best advice ever!
Ilovethelord508 Thank you. I did not think about it that way. that helps thank you :)
I've loved a man for 40 years and the pain is still there. I still am in love with him
If she really doesn't love me.... then God please take me cause i'm not strong enough to walk away from her on my own
Trying not to love you Gary but it only makes me love you more. Oh my God I miss you. There are no words to describe the pain and emptiness without you but your happiness is what matters most...so I loved you enough to let you go...
Broke up after 14 years. Still miss her everyday that goes by. It's hard out here when your so used to having your better half. Without my better half there's only me left alone and hurting all I come in contact with without even trying. It's like without her life is off balance and just don't spin right. Please stop spinning out of control I can't take much more
if there's a pill to help me FORGET I've not found it yet.....
95 dayz in and they said it would be easier after 90 days and I'm still hurting so FUcKING bad.
Rachel Cross it's been 4 years for me and I still have depressing thoughts but I try to stay happy
There is a pill for that, actually five of them. Lithium, Paxil, Trazadone, Buspar and Hydroxyzine. I take them all. No more missing anyone for me. Hell, I couldn’t shed a tear if I wanted to 😜
@@stephaniemherren1086 No pill can stop love
Hank williams
Love the community to the song we’re all here bc we have that special someone that doesn’t love us back absolutely heartbreaking
Don't do let that person go give yourself a yr heal then in time pray ask God to bring u someone who will love you for you
I wish I had the guts to send this to my ex...because Gods know I need to hate him, but I can't seem to make myself stop loving him. I just love him even more.
why did you break up?
+Roman RedRain I am gonna send it to her..
+FJano12 did you ?
+vine I did but but had no affect on her lol
FJano12 hope you find someone like you lol
God knows, no amount of time can actually make us forget.
This song still gets to me, i didn't realize I loved her until she up and left, now she's with someone else and it hurts that I can't seem to stop loving her.
I wish this song didn't exist sometimes man hurts to listen to but can't help it
Beautiful song 🌹 🔥 ❤️ 🎵 ✌️
This is a beautiful song. I love nickelback. My grandpa always says I don't have good taste in music. He says opera us the best. But really, it's just MY matter of opinion.
Are you from the Netherlands?
No... why?
Claudia Müller höre nur das was dich glücklich macht Musik macht uns frei
listen to Music that makes you happy music makes us free
Nickelback just described my love life. I hope I'll find someone someday.
You will, my friend. It is possible to find that person who can make you feel so comfortable that it's going to be kinda unimaginable that you can feel that way. Both are going to feel so close to each other and love each other so much that nothing will stop it, not even rough circumstances. Keep holding on, have patience and you'll see.
that song makes me feel so emotional*.*
I wish there was a "heart button" so I could press it every time I'd watch this video❤
Loving the music of NICKLEBACK still! From the city of Flagstaff, Az.
I love the guy and I hsvent seen him in 2 years. I could never have him but I have a whole playlist dedicated to him. I will never love a person more than him. Thank you B I wish u were mine
I’m slowly falling in love with someone who’s over 500 miles from me. It’s a very weird and complicated situation, but I can’t help it. Feels good to finally say this...
To all who are unhappily in love. There is my message to you: One day someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with anyone else. Speaking from my own experience. Because a true love never hurts. A true love mends a broken heart. Heart broken by the wrong person.
That is so true
..where the hell is that someone
🙀
Lusy81 I been single for 3 year's, very sad and lonely, My boyfriend walked out of my life 3 year's ago, we lived together for 8 year's!!
I hope so
You hit on the mark, my friend. Don't look at the skin outside, look at the heart behind the eyes.
this song sounds like warm hugs when it's cold outside
Nothing or no one can come between true LOVE!!! If you can just stop loving then you never really loved at all!!! You will cross mountains, oceans, walk through hell for that special someone and no matter what anyone tells you , you never give up!!!! TRUE LOVE IS PAIN!!! Never never never give up its always worth it!!! You will find each other again!! If it takes days weeks months or years!!!! TRUE LOVE WILL PREVAIL!!! Trust me its always worth it!!! WHATS WORTH THE PAIN IS WORTH THE PRIZE....
This is how i feel and what im going through now. The worst kind of pain imaginable......trying not to love someonw your completely inlove with. 💔
I'm going through this. There's a girl I've liked since I met her but she doesn't like me the way she liked my brother and its tearing me up. I've never said it to anyone but my step-sister. Looking back i realized I waited to long. Damn I need that pill to be found so I can forget.
Thank you for being a friend that I didn't know I even existed. You were an unexpected warm hug when the cold was all around. Thank you. I would like to tell you in person, hopefully very soon@
This is the song I listened to the night before my friend became my girlfriend. I was trying no to love her because I thought I would just hurt her. I was wrong. Shes happier than I've ever seen her.
This made my heart smile, and my body go warm from top to toe. I dont know why, but reading your comment made me really happy. I'm really happy for you both :)
Thanks. Were slowly solving some Drama in our lives. But were fixing it together. A relationship is a team after all.
Trying to hate Nickelback... only makes me love them more :)
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
people hate him because of the media, the songs are pretty fuckin good
I met her at 9.
The 1st love, true love, real love.. absolute pure affection. Growing up best friends...inseparable, watching her get heartbroken. When we know inside our relationship would be a moment in the movies... ACG+JDAH.
I had someone in my life that I have known over 20 years. We have so much in common, & I grew to have feelings for him, but he would never allow me into his world, always keeping me at arm's length. For reasons I won't go into, I finally just cut him loose as he wasn't good for my mental or emotional health.
This song speaks volumes for me. I know he was never going to let me in let alone have any real feelings for me, but trying not to love him only goes so far, trying not to need him is tearing me apart, & trying not love him only makes me love him more. :'(
love this song.hits home for sure.
What was it all for??? Then I tell U I Love U and U find someone else...
The hardest part is telling that person that every time they look at you, it makes your knees weak, and that it depresses you that you can't be theirs. The hardest part is when you know deep down that the feelings aren't mutual. I've stayed awake some nights, writing the words "You will never belong to her", "Get over it."
That... Is like a sharp and cold pain that pierces through your heart, man. It's just incredible how a person can make our knees tremble and undo us piece by piece.
I am a widow. Knowing that he died was the reason we were separated was death.
But when the person is alive and doesn't explain, it's impossible to grieve when you don't know why it had to end. It's left oppenended, and does tear you apart slowly and indefinitely!!!. I found "him" when I wasn't looking so I am not looking, but life is a terminal disease, so I guess this is just part of my life!!! I still feel hope, lots of it!!!!
when i first met my wife, i promised her that i wouldn't fall in love with her. hard to keep a promise that was already broken before it was made. but honestly, it's the best and only promise i've ever broken. 11 years later, we're married with a beautiful little girl. if given the chance to do it all over again, i'd break that promise everytime.
Save heartache by making sure that love is mutual. Loving someone without feeling sure they love you in return is pure heart 💔
this song came to me in 2015... its very personal for me hits home HARD.
The love of my life sent me thia song few months in our "relationship " he fought it for a whole year after ups n downs he asked me ro b his woman.(6yrs) later we r now separated (again) 💔 he showed me a WHOLE NEW WORLD A WHILE DIFFERENT type of love. i will always love him madly and miss him ever so much.. MLS
Falling in love with someone who loves you back but is trapped by a narcissist who uses suicide their children and emotional abuse to keep her there is so hard. I feel so alone but I'm praying for her strength to break the chains so we can finally be together after 12 years of waiting and mistakes made along the way. I will never be able to love anyone like I love her and will wait as long as I too.
I love this song, thanks for making the lyrics video 😍
Trying not to love this SONG only makes me love it more😆!
right when it says "our times apart like knives in my heart" i just felt a wash of tears pour down my face
Loving someone that keeps you at a arms distance and tells you that they love you but says they need to sort things out because they want everything to be perfect is killing me
Hello 👋 how are you doing
This is exactly how I feel right now and its killing me to not have the one I love anymore 💔
I only can dream that some one would love me , instead only heart ache for me :{
Everything just takes time slow done and let them come to you it will work
Listen to gotta be sombody
this song is so true to me right now. trying to forget my best friend is the hardest thing I'll ever have to do.
I remember when I first I heard this song was when I had just started to develop feelings for one of my closest friends and when I heard it then this song was so sad to me. Now I still have feelings for this guy but I’ve settled into them and even told him and now this song just kinda brings me hope and makes me happy
I'm tryin but it just gets harder, wish I could cut my heart out 💔