Speak to Anybody with Ease and Confidence - How to Start and End conversations with new people

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  • @jhanvikhatri7055
    @jhanvikhatri7055 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Hello mam I have used the pomodoro technique that you have suggested and I am thankful to you that I can speak fluently for 25 minutes but the problem is that there are certain words which should be used while speaking that doesn't to my mind suddenly , my mind is not able to grab that words so can you suggest me what can I do now.....

    • @AleenaRaisLive
      @AleenaRaisLive  ปีที่แล้ว +17

      hey, that’s not just your problem. Even I know some very good words and I do manage to write them but when it comes to speaking, mind has the tendency to fall back on the easiest available words. I’d say expect less and practice more, it will be better everyday, however, it probably would never be as good as you expect it to be. 😊hope this idea helps.

    • @jhanvikhatri7055
      @jhanvikhatri7055 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AleenaRaisLive okay mam !Thank you for helping me..

    • @santhoshmech3093
      @santhoshmech3093 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same problem

    • @UsamaKhan-t5f
      @UsamaKhan-t5f ปีที่แล้ว

      Really helpfull video

    • @AleenaRaisLive
      @AleenaRaisLive  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @kids_funactivityNahi, Hindi me chahiye kya? Batao

  • @rishabhchatterjee1706
    @rishabhchatterjee1706 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Aleena ma'am is just a master in the art of communication. Everytime I feel I am hesitant in talking to strangers, she uploads a video and I find a solution to my problem 🍝

  • @Shubham-oc7mf
    @Shubham-oc7mf ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thought that I am not good in English but when I saw your video,,I am more comfortable and now I speak English without any hesitation. Tysm!! Aleena ma'am you are just a nice person!!

  • @AbdulQadir-yv6lr
    @AbdulQadir-yv6lr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your way of teaching is best ❤

  • @justshorts61
    @justshorts61 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Because of you I'm able to speak English now .. thank you so much for ur effective suggestions and guidance ..lots of love mam ❤😊

  • @khushipandey5466
    @khushipandey5466 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U inspired Me alot.. thnx alot..

  • @e-genieclimatique
    @e-genieclimatique ปีที่แล้ว +12

    in brief:
    1. **Introduction**: The video addresses the awkwardness some people feel when trying to initiate conversations with strangers. This discomfort can lead to a lack of social connections and a feeling of isolation.
    2. **Contents Overview**: The video will cover how to approach someone, start a conversation, decide on opening lines, build the conversation, and how to conclude it.
    3. **Setting the Intention**: When starting a conversation, it's essential to set the intention right away. For example, expressing a desire to get to know someone better.
    4. **First Impressions**: First impressions are crucial. They are formed not just by what you say but also by your body language. It's essential to maintain an open posture, smile, and avoid closed-off gestures like crossing arms.
    5. **Opening Lines**: While compliments might seem like a good opening line, research suggests that a simple "Hi, how are you?" is more effective.
    6. **Conversation Sparks**: Look for non-verbal cues to determine topics of interest. An eyebrow raise, for instance, can indicate interest in a particular subject.
    7. **Leaving Open Doors**: Provide information that allows the other person to ask follow-up questions, keeping the conversation flowing.
    8. **Ending the Conversation**: The last impression is as vital as the first. A good way to conclude a conversation is by mentioning something about the future, wishing the other person well, and then making a graceful exit.
    9. **Final Thoughts**: The video emphasizes the importance of making others feel comfortable and valued during a conversation. The speaker recommends the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie for further reading.
    10. **Conclusion**: The video ends with a thank you and an encouragement to share the video with others.
    Overall, the video provides practical tips on initiating and maintaining conversations with ease and confidence.

  • @prasanjeetmukherjee9998
    @prasanjeetmukherjee9998 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aapse acha insan nhi dekha maine thank you so much 🙏🙏🥺🥺

  • @ulxaakash
    @ulxaakash ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mam ,you are only one in this world who has much and more knowledge about English🎉

  • @niharikaverma1640
    @niharikaverma1640 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ma'am your way of explaining things is so awesome 👍🎉💯

  • @CSSPMSPortal
    @CSSPMSPortal ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Aleena! How are you? Let me tell you, I started to watch your videos when I stepped into my CSS journey 3 years back. Later on, with different peers & orators, I used to listen to you & I always found something new and exciting in your conversation. You shared wonderful tips and taught me to boost my confidence in English speaking. Thank you so much for all my journey. You have been one of my motivational sparks all the time. Continue your journey, I'm gonna be with you. My review for you is 5 stars. Stay blessed and happy.

  • @SinleMro-v1e
    @SinleMro-v1e 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am from bangladesh & you're my favorite teacher ❤

  • @meerhussain350
    @meerhussain350 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks you so much, when I Decided to practice talking English, I always search your TH-cam channel , when your informative Video isn't not see.

  • @CAtechnical
    @CAtechnical ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alina mam dont disappointed us to teaching how speak fluent to strangers 😊❤❤

  • @ParidhiSharma-q1c
    @ParidhiSharma-q1c ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma'am just love the way you speak 👏

  • @Dearenglish8
    @Dearenglish8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the reason I started my TH-cam channel. Thank you for the inspiration ❤

    • @common-vlog
      @common-vlog ปีที่แล้ว

      true it just starting your journey

  • @debjyotipandit9801
    @debjyotipandit9801 ปีที่แล้ว

    this video is very helpful for us .we learn English correctly through this video.

  • @Rajvanshi413
    @Rajvanshi413 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aleena maim aap Pakistan se ho I love you maim apki English language bahut achhi hai

  • @arshiyafatima4390
    @arshiyafatima4390 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had seen your vidoes since you have started your channael but now i am so happy for you that you have 30M above subscribers😇😍🥰

  • @ratheraaqib9294
    @ratheraaqib9294 ปีที่แล้ว

    really an amazing protips for starting any conversation without any hesitation

  • @srivanthzone7668
    @srivanthzone7668 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are doing great work. Thanks a lot

  • @DnyaneshwarBhoir1804
    @DnyaneshwarBhoir1804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You So Much Ma'am 😊

  • @khushiiii8052
    @khushiiii8052 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are my favourite teacher mam.❤..i watched your all videos and always i see your cute and smiley face who make me happy 😊😊😊

  • @rajmohan7923
    @rajmohan7923 ปีที่แล้ว

    My fav Teacher ❤❤

  • @nehaofficial369
    @nehaofficial369 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know ma'am whenever I watch your video I always get so much motivation by just beginning in the video and thank you so much this video. your every video give a lot of confidence to reduce the fear of speaking. And just watching your videos I have improved a lot now I am able to speak.

  • @manaswisingh9808
    @manaswisingh9808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ma'am you are the best, i love to listen you, plzz make a video regarding voice modulation .

  • @sayakshome5248
    @sayakshome5248 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to your speeches only good enough for developing fluency......Great job u r doing........👍

  • @thotakrishna262
    @thotakrishna262 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alina mam is Queen 👑👑👑her life...

  • @kenganirushakenganirusha3441
    @kenganirushakenganirusha3441 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi you speaking is very quite and pleasant way.

  • @pubgcontentall
    @pubgcontentall ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am from Pakistan & you're my favourite teacher..👍

    • @English-it6nq3go5e
      @English-it6nq3go5e ปีที่แล้ว

      Love from Pakistan ❤❤

    • @pubgcontentall
      @pubgcontentall ปีที่แล้ว

      Es ma joot kia ha ....ma na es sa both Koch seeka ha ....or Bhai Jo seekna chahta ha wo ye ni dakta k teacher kon ha kis country sa ha .....

  • @itrichasingh2523
    @itrichasingh2523 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma'am your speaking style is so nice and you are doing great job and you deserve more love from other who learning your channel and thank you so much provide such a nice advice to talk stranger because I feel so scared while speaking stranger I always ignore to talk to strangers my mom always says to me talk to people but I didn't talk because I feel hesitate that's why people always says to my mom your daughter is so pride girls and always complaint to my mom related to me .

  • @shrutisangar7210
    @shrutisangar7210 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam your videos are to good I listen it daily for many times to improved my communication skill thank you for all the videos 😊

  • @sapphireraikwar
    @sapphireraikwar ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You SO Much, Ma'am....

  • @waheedmokashi9108
    @waheedmokashi9108 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a real GEM... Mam

  • @StudyCommerce-ww1il
    @StudyCommerce-ww1il ปีที่แล้ว

    This video quality is awesome .....i want this type of vid. .....some videos in which light is dull or bright or you near to camera or far ..that create disturbance in learning ..but this is too awesome

  • @Rajputraushan90
    @Rajputraushan90 ปีที่แล้ว

    Getting ❤ by You gives us confidence 😊

  • @TheShantanu777
    @TheShantanu777 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am in love ❤ with this lady.

  • @RohitKumar-et9xd
    @RohitKumar-et9xd ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi ma'am , I learnt something new. 👍👍👍

  • @meenakshibansal2176
    @meenakshibansal2176 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hii aleena your way of talking is so impressive...i love it...pls share ur hair care tips...ur hair lkg so shine ...

  • @CGL_9635
    @CGL_9635 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mam ! Really so much fun learning things with u 😎😍

  • @MoazzamsMultiverse
    @MoazzamsMultiverse ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice Video Maam
    the way You Explain I Literally Like Your Communication Skills Maam 😊

  • @Radharanioffici
    @Radharanioffici ปีที่แล้ว

    I m learning to English mam from you video watching

  • @inaGraphics-hn2mq
    @inaGraphics-hn2mq ปีที่แล้ว

    Your voice very clean & very cute

  • @bhelpoorisimplegirl5996
    @bhelpoorisimplegirl5996 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very inspirational talk and amazing video too..!!!!

  • @hinagupta7705
    @hinagupta7705 ปีที่แล้ว

    I felling hilarious to found you as a mentor.❣️

  • @sameer_official1122
    @sameer_official1122 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great lines

  • @SD-pw9eg
    @SD-pw9eg ปีที่แล้ว

    One more excellent discourse 👌🇮🇳

  • @aliasghar5716
    @aliasghar5716 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your videos always contribute in improvement of our English. Mam can you please make a detail video on how to prepare for IELTS test.

  • @akashbhatnagar8003
    @akashbhatnagar8003 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello 👋 sister very useful information for English speaking for other person

  • @suniljakhar3421
    @suniljakhar3421 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks mam for providing me such a great ideas ❤

  • @roshanabbas8781
    @roshanabbas8781 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salamalekum,
    Aleena Raess Mem, when you speak English, you are so beautiful 🥰

  • @BrainAndHealthInsights
    @BrainAndHealthInsights ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much mam your videos really helps me a lot 😊

  • @Alltimefavouratesong
    @Alltimefavouratesong ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi my favourite teacher 👍

  • @positivelydesi
    @positivelydesi ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful tips as always❤️

  • @abdulghafoormugha786
    @abdulghafoormugha786 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am from Pakistan
    Alina your video very good and I learn very much from you are video

  • @English-it6nq3go5e
    @English-it6nq3go5e ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love from Pakistan ❤

  • @English-With-Suman
    @English-With-Suman ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for giving me a wonderful idea ❤

  • @PPlearnenglish
    @PPlearnenglish ปีที่แล้ว

    Great motivator

  • @shristiparjapati
    @shristiparjapati ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really like this video ❤ and i wanna be like you 💖

  • @misbahuddin240
    @misbahuddin240 ปีที่แล้ว

    U are an inspiration ⭐😇

  • @yashasvisharma032
    @yashasvisharma032 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks ma'am ,u r great..
    I 'm new subscriber today

  • @RealAnand99
    @RealAnand99 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday To Aleena mam🎉💐🥳🎂🎂🎂

  • @sachinyadav-o9p2m
    @sachinyadav-o9p2m ปีที่แล้ว

    Your voice 👌

  • @devchauhan19
    @devchauhan19 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing Video ma'am 🥰🥰❤️❤️

  • @debasishnath437
    @debasishnath437 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice to listen to you mam

  • @BlueSky-zg1dj
    @BlueSky-zg1dj หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very super mam

  • @pakistanishaheen.5846
    @pakistanishaheen.5846 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, Prefect Teacher ,happy to see u from India. Ma`am I am from Pakistan.I am new and naive in speaking and Listening British accent .Plz guide me ,From where will i start???
    Thanks a lot.

  • @mspmotivationwala
    @mspmotivationwala ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mentors ❤

  • @faizulhasan1504
    @faizulhasan1504 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kis kis favourite hai aleena madam ❤❤ like here

  • @faisalnawaz1522
    @faisalnawaz1522 ปีที่แล้ว

    Delicious words

  • @AjayKumar-qe4uv
    @AjayKumar-qe4uv ปีที่แล้ว

    hello, Aleena Recently I subscribed to your channel, It is very helpful to me that in every video you come up with new ideas & topics, very thankful to you ❣🤝💐Hope you read this. 🤟

  • @Bhumiharji456
    @Bhumiharji456 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤ nice 😮

  • @AbdulQadir-yv6lr
    @AbdulQadir-yv6lr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Goo🎉❤😊😊

  • @Rahuldubey82422
    @Rahuldubey82422 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤ nice man...

  • @rishikasoni3696
    @rishikasoni3696 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello mam please make a video on personality development

  • @tgayush1424
    @tgayush1424 ปีที่แล้ว

    One video idea show your books collection

  • @SumayiaAysha
    @SumayiaAysha ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma'am' I recently subscribe your TH-cam channel... Each videos are very helpful for us nd developing our communication skills 🥰🥰

  • @lallulalgopal7075
    @lallulalgopal7075 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love' you mam you are great ❤️💕💖

  • @DevanshGupta-zp4dc
    @DevanshGupta-zp4dc ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where did you learnt English mam I'm really excited to know about that fact 😮

  • @mspmotivationwala
    @mspmotivationwala ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am from uttrakhand

  • @tariqkamal
    @tariqkamal ปีที่แล้ว

    I am trying from the last five year to become strong in English reading articles and watching English TV programmes but still I am weak in English especially in writing and speaking .reading and listening are strong .kindly give me some tips .I am your regular viewer

  • @rasnafathi4932
    @rasnafathi4932 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma'am we would recommend subtitles of your upcoming videos.. humble request

  • @hussainmohammed6407
    @hussainmohammed6407 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good video

  • @sakthisakthii8488
    @sakthisakthii8488 ปีที่แล้ว

    you attracted me💯

  • @utkarshsingh7215
    @utkarshsingh7215 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your accent is just like that of chhedi singh from dabangg

  • @SadiyaAbbas-l2v
    @SadiyaAbbas-l2v ปีที่แล้ว

    Awsme

  • @itishreesharma3636
    @itishreesharma3636 ปีที่แล้ว

    1st viewer.... thank you

  • @pareshmakwana5081
    @pareshmakwana5081 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning ma'am 🎉

  • @ashishsrivastava7786
    @ashishsrivastava7786 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are awesome

  • @rajbheemss6206
    @rajbheemss6206 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Mam, Thanks for your ideas and motivation to improve my fluent English, in my scenario, wn Am talking words are repeatedly coming to Mind thoughts was not coming thinking next sentence or words so please give me any suggestions.

  • @anindyaghosh5479
    @anindyaghosh5479 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Aleena, this side Anindya nice to hear your videos about communication. I will be starting the communication class with my classmates those who are interested to learn and develop this skill. Kindly, suggest me that from which point I can start the session with them.

    • @LearnEnglish_SK
      @LearnEnglish_SK ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why don’t you start with topics of mutual interest like food, weather, travelling etc because these topics have the ability to make anyone come out of their shyness and start speaking. I’ve used these topics a lot with my ESOL students, all from different countries and it was amazing to see the excitement on their faces when talking about food (or anything else) from their countries. 😊

  • @Dearenglish8
    @Dearenglish8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam which camera are you using? The quality is unmatchable.

  • @chzahidraza4051
    @chzahidraza4051 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am like you from Pakistan

  • @rameshenglish
    @rameshenglish ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam tell us the meaning whenever you use dificult word in your video It can help us very much, thank you

  • @NarendraGoswami293
    @NarendraGoswami293 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am very shy . My shyness is my biggest problem . I have lost my golden opportunity in my life because off shyness . how to overcome from it ? How to maintain eyes contact , in right way not like Robot ? Please make a vidios on it . Thank you

  • @priyankamukharjee-ks1sj
    @priyankamukharjee-ks1sj ปีที่แล้ว

    Please can you tell us how to wish in a birthday with a different way

  • @adoninews402
    @adoninews402 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi aleena

  • @faizulhasan1504
    @faizulhasan1504 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kis kis ko video acchi lagi like here ❤❤

    • @AleenaRaisLive
      @AleenaRaisLive  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      mujhe lagi 😅

    • @faizulhasan1504
      @faizulhasan1504 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ma'am aap bhi na 😊😊😎😎😅

    • @faizulhasan1504
      @faizulhasan1504 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AleenaRaisLive raat Instagram par aapki post dekhi thi husband the kya
      Awesome ♥️♥️

  • @waqasrubbani4024
    @waqasrubbani4024 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam plz make a video when we get gold madel at university level

  • @sadiquehossain840
    @sadiquehossain840 ปีที่แล้ว

    mam I have been your subscriber since very long... I have burning desire of learning english and I m working on it but mam i need your help. how could i find a partner like me ? i want to speak english like you express everything in very simple and easy way. I love the way you speak. i do not have any partner to speak with so what could be the way to overcome from this problems ? I hope you will definitely read my comment and reply too❤

    • @E-for-effortless-English
      @E-for-effortless-English ปีที่แล้ว

      Why don't you start to learn daily life used sentences first. Usko daily use main Lao. Bar bar repeat Karo words ko U will have grip on it. On my channel Mai daily life used KY sentences ko english main translate kr KY batati hn.. I'm sure it will help